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AverageOldGuy

(4,375 posts)
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 06:52 PM Jun 11

Thanks for all your support!!!

Short version: Ms. Average Old Guy is back home -- to ER Monday about 10:30 AM, back home around 4:00 this afternoon. Severe UTI and pneumonia with no idea where either of the infections came from.

Long version.

Sunday she was her usual (83 yr old) self . . . moving a little slow, giving Trump the finger, talking with our 19-yr-old mildly autistic grandson about his job prospects, pissing and moaning at me for some stupid shit I did.

Monday morning 9:30, in bed, called me, she was choking on vomit, got her airway cleared, stripped off nasty PJ's, headed for bathroom and she had no idea where she was, who she was, who I was . . . . I'm an old EMT, ran rescue for 14 years in rural VA, got vitals, BP 80/40, O2 86%, cyanotic, respirations 36 and rapid, pulse 102, chest sounds crackles, rales, rhonchi . Called 911.

Monday through Tuesday night 4X daily IV antibiotics, still confused, did not recognize me or our son, daughter, DIL, or grandsons. Responded to most questions with blank stare, slept constantly.

Wednesday morning was different story -- "Why am I in hospital??" Was suddenly her usual lovably grouchy self, improved gradually, stil unsteady on her feet, appetite returning, all she wants now is a shower.


ALL THE SUPPORT FROM OUR DU FRIENDS REALLY DID MEAN A LOT -- when any of us finds ourselves in the midst of a crisis, it's not the crisis that beats you down, it's the loneliness. Knowing that folks you never met and never will meet are concerned about you, worried about you, sharing your worry keeps you going. THANK YOU ALL.

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Thanks for all your support!!! (Original Post) AverageOldGuy Jun 11 OP
Yaaaaay! SheltieLover Jun 11 #1
❤️ underpants Jun 11 #2
💙💙💙 sheshe2 Jun 11 #3
Good news Lifeafter70 Jun 11 #4
Happy for both of you malaise Jun 11 #5
I'm sorry I missed your earlier post MustLoveBeagles Jun 11 #6
Glad she's home and you're both doing better! senseandsensibility Jun 11 #7
So happy she's home and on the road back to being her awesome self. a kennedy Jun 11 #8
Glad it's ok now. There's no place like home 🙏 surfered Jun 11 #9
So glad you were there for her Dear_Prudence Jun 11 #10
Oh gosh what a scare! Diamond_Dog Jun 11 #11
Wonderful news Grim Chieftain Jun 11 #12
Great news oasis Jun 11 #13
Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better! electric_blue68 Jun 11 #14
I love a happy ending - TBF Jun 11 #15
Good news canetoad Jun 11 #16
I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy, JMCKUSICK Jun 11 #17
When grouchy is a relief BaronChocula Jun 11 #18
love good news! markie Jun 11 #19
Great to hear IbogaProject Jun 11 #20
So glad for both of you that she is home and healing. 3catwoman3 Jun 11 #21
"... it's the loneliness." JoseBalow Jun 11 #22
Fantastic news! gademocrat7 Jun 11 #23
Thanks for the update. yellow dahlia Jun 11 #24
So happy to hear the good news! MLAA Jun 11 #25
Wow! That EMT experience really came in handy! bsiebs Jun 11 #26
So glad she is better! She's lucky you were there for her. Scrivener7 Jun 11 #27
Great news! murielm99 Jun 11 #28
That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light niyad Jun 11 #29
"" AllaN01Bear Jun 11 #30
It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again FakeNoose Jun 11 #31
She sounds like me! Pucks mom Jun 11 #32
So happy for you both! HeartsCanHope Jun 11 #33
Norovirus is sweeping through our county, in CA Zackzzzz Jun 11 #34
Good to hear Mrs. AOG is doing well! Totally Tunsie Jun 11 #35
I am so glad. I wonder what the heck happened?? LoisB Jun 11 #36
Great news mountain grammy Jun 12 #37
Good to hear she's on the mend. mwmisses4289 Jun 12 #38
Glad to hear the good news! 70sEraVet Jun 12 #39
Glad to hear she's doing better. FemDemERA Jun 12 #40
Missed the original post on your wife's condition peggysue2 Jun 12 #41
Glad to hear it is better for her & you irisblue Jun 12 #42
Your good news is good news for all of us! calimary Jun 12 #43

MustLoveBeagles

(18,332 posts)
6. I'm sorry I missed your earlier post
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:10 PM
Jun 11

I'm glad she's doing better now. Did they figure out what caused it?

Diamond_Dog

(41,515 posts)
11. Oh gosh what a scare!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:20 PM
Jun 11

I’m so glad to hear she is home and back to normal! That must have been really frightening!

Grim Chieftain

(2,309 posts)
12. Wonderful news
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:21 PM
Jun 11

So glad she is doing better. I'll keep you both in my thoughts, prayers and good wishes.

Please keep us posted, dear AverageOldGuy.

electric_blue68

(27,918 posts)
14. Wonderful to hear she's home, and much better!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:24 PM
Jun 11

Really scary start, luckily she had you with extra experience!

JMCKUSICK

(6,869 posts)
17. I'm so happy for all of you AverageOldGuy,
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 07:30 PM
Jun 11

My Good morning post today touched this very subject.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10182324564

These are tears of joy flowing for your little miracle!

3catwoman3

(30,186 posts)
21. So glad for both of you that she is home and healing.
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 08:10 PM
Jun 11

It seems odd that UTIs are a cause of delirium in seniors, but it's a well-known phenomenon.

niyad

(135,326 posts)
29. That is SUCH great news!! Continuing to hold you both in light
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:14 PM
Jun 11

and love. Vibes for complete recovery and healing for you both.

FakeNoose

(43,039 posts)
31. It's great that you're both back home and able to enjoy each other's company once again
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:16 PM
Jun 11

That's the best news I've heard all day! Here's to you and the Mrs......



Pucks mom

(133 posts)
32. She sounds like me!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:27 PM
Jun 11

Grumbling around the house, FDT, what are you doing "Pucks Dad"?

Glad she is back to usual self!

HeartsCanHope

(1,795 posts)
33. So happy for you both!
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 09:52 PM
Jun 11

Sending more healing vibes for Ms. Average Old Guy, and hope for a rapid recovery!

mountain grammy

(29,410 posts)
37. Great news
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 08:29 AM
Jun 12

Sounds like she’ll be around to give you shit for a while now. Hope she continues to recover please give her my best wishes.

70sEraVet

(5,744 posts)
39. Glad to hear the good news!
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 10:45 AM
Jun 12

And KEEP her slowed down for a while! We always like to PROVE that we are all better, by jumping back to the same level of activities.

peggysue2

(12,646 posts)
41. Missed the original post on your wife's condition
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 12:26 PM
Jun 12

Glad to hear she's recovering quickly. How lucky to have a former EMT in the house!

Blessings to both of you for continued healing and life getting back to normal.

calimary

(91,448 posts)
43. Your good news is good news for all of us!
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 03:40 PM
Jun 12

Thanks for letting us know how your lady is doing. More updates, please - WHEN you can.

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