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kid dies weighing 255 pounds. parents charged with 2nd degree murder (Original Post) BlueWaveNeverEnd 8 hrs ago OP
murder? rampartd 7 hrs ago #1
The parents are accused of not taking the kid to a doctor for his health issues. WhiskeyGrinder 7 hrs ago #2
kids die of measles every day rampartd 7 hrs ago #3
If a child was dying from measles and parents LisaL 2 hrs ago #14
No doctor visits, no school either BlueWaveNeverEnd 6 hrs ago #7
This is absolutely child abuse and as we see terminal Melon 7 hrs ago #4
proceded in death by younger brother... Jean-Luc 7 hrs ago #5
where did you read that? hookaleft 6 hrs ago #8
Obituary. Ms. Toad 3 hrs ago #11
The surviving sister LisaL 2 hrs ago #13
That is horrifying. yardwork 58 min ago #17
It's Pretty Bad When Parents Let a Child Weigh Almost As Much As Trump n/t lavoosh99 7 hrs ago #6
No words malaise 6 hrs ago #9
I know mug shots are usually pretty awful GenThePerservering 5 hrs ago #10
The mechanism of death Boo1 2 hrs ago #12
they look like I expected they would Celerity 2 hrs ago #15
OMG! Grim Chieftain 1 hr ago #16

rampartd

(5,500 posts)
1. murder?
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 05:15 PM
7 hrs ago

i don't know.

certainly, some kind of child protective situation, i might get to manslaughter but unless they were force feeding the kid .....

LisaL

(48,021 posts)
14. If a child was dying from measles and parents
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 10:38 PM
2 hrs ago

didn't take him or her to the doctor, I wouldn't be surprised if there were charges brought.

Melon

(1,897 posts)
4. This is absolutely child abuse and as we see terminal
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 05:43 PM
7 hrs ago

Why would that not carry a serious charge?7 years old a 250 pounds. The child should have been taken away long before this if someone would have reported them.

hookaleft

(1,397 posts)
8. where did you read that?
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 06:37 PM
6 hrs ago

I read the article and watched the video but didn't see that.

Ms. Toad

(38,909 posts)
11. Obituary.
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 10:00 PM
3 hrs ago
https://www.sharpfuneralhomes.com/obituaries/casper-obrien

O'Brien, Casper Jacob Shane - Age 7, of Flint, passed away November 4, 2025. Funeral services will be held at 1:00 PM Saturday, November 15, 2025, at Sharp Funeral Homes, Miller Road Chapel, 8138 Miller Road, Swartz Creek. The family will receive friends from 11:00 AM until the time of service at 1:00 PM Saturday. In lieu of flowers, those desiring may make contributions to the family care of Damien O'Brien. Casper was born September 25, 2018, in Flint, Michigan, the son of Damien and Jessica (Gietzen) O’Brien. Casper was a bright, loving young boy whose joyful spirit touched everyone around him. He loved watching Super Monsters, especially his favorite character, Frankie Mash. He is survived by his parents, Damien and Jessica O’Brien; his beloved little sister, Illeana O’Brien; grandmother, Donna “Nana” Gooch; aunt, Mary (Tory) Ball; and uncles, Jay O’Brien and Elbert Leach. He was preceded in death by his little brother, Phoenix. Online condolences may be shared at www.sharpfuneralhomes.com

LisaL

(48,021 posts)
13. The surviving sister
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 10:34 PM
2 hrs ago

was also morbidly overweight. Would be interesting to know if she lost weight by now (I presume she was removed from these parents).
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/michigan-parents-charged-murder-7-year-old-son-rcna351984

GenThePerservering

(4,097 posts)
10. I know mug shots are usually pretty awful
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 07:51 PM
5 hrs ago

but those parents look AWFUL.

And yeah, upthread, both a kid dying of measles and this is really bad, but this is constant neglect and abuse - but I guess you don't care.

Boo1

(608 posts)
12. The mechanism of death
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 10:20 PM
2 hrs ago

here would probably have been him carrying so much weight on his frame that his heart couldn't physically pump blood because the fat was compressing it too much to beat effectively.

I've coached kids his age before, and even the biggest ones rarely weight over 100 lbs. He was 2.5x that. Everything that he ate to get that size, they had to give it to him.


2nd degree murder in Michigan would require that you can show the death occurred because the person put the victim in a position where severe bodily harm could happen and they were aware that it would likely end in death.

I think involuntary manslaughter would be an easier case to prove, but the fact that they didn't enroll him in school or take him to the doctor might be used to show that they were actively trying to hide his condition knowing that they would be in trouble because of it.

Grim Chieftain

(2,309 posts)
16. OMG!
Fri Jun 26, 2026, 11:52 PM
1 hr ago

I hope they strap them to chairs and force feed them sticks of butter. No, I don't, I'm better than that but holy freaking hell!

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