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alp227

(33,285 posts)
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:11 PM Feb 2013

Man Sues Parents for Not Loving Him Enough

A 32-year-old man in Brooklyn, New York is suing his parents, claiming he wasn't loved enough by them and that their neglect has caused him to be homeless and jobless.

Bernard Bey filed a self-written lawsuit in Brooklyn court earlier this month, accusing his parents of causing him mental anguish and for making him feel "unloved and beaten by the world."

"If you have kids, you're expected to love your children," Bey told NBC 4 New York. "You want the best for your children."

Bey claimed he was physically and emotionally abused and ran away from home when he was 12, and then was in and out of the shelter system after turning 16. He's spent time in jail and is now homeless, and he believes his parents are at the root of his problems.

full: http://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/weird/NATL---COPY-Man-Sues-Parents-for-Not-Loving-Him-Enough-192669561.html

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treestar

(82,383 posts)
1. self written lawsuit
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:14 PM
Feb 2013

Those are often very interesting.

But they can be dismissed if they don't state a legal cause of action.

AsahinaKimi

(20,776 posts)
3. “He who is his own lawyer has a fool for a client”
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:17 PM
Feb 2013

I always remembered that quote..

and in Japanese: " Kare jishin no bengoshidearu kare wa, kuraianto no tame no baka o motte imasu"

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
2. Well, you've gotta give him credit for knowing one thing:
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:16 PM
Feb 2013

If you're gonna sue *someone* for being homeless and jobless in this country, don't even THINK about going after the bankers...

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
4. I would like to think we, as a society, could step up and help this person rather than expecting
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:17 PM
Feb 2013

his parents. Whatever his parents' shortcomings.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
20. And one that needs to grow the fuck up.
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 05:11 PM
Feb 2013

But the parents did apparently fail to instill the lesson of owning responsibility for your own problems.

 

TeamPooka

(25,577 posts)
6. "His stepfather named in the suit, Bernard Manley, had some choice unprintable words...
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:20 PM
Feb 2013

and maintained Bey is not his biological son."

F**king awesome and hilarious.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
13. despite saying that our opinions can coexist, you seem to have a problem with mine. else you
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:36 PM
Feb 2013

wouldn't have bothered to commment.

xmas74

(30,058 posts)
19. I don't know if it's funny so much as it's sad.
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 05:07 PM
Feb 2013

At the end of the article it states that he's willing to drop the law suit if they'll all sit down and share a meal together. Something is very wrong if he feels as though the only way they'll share a meal is if he sues them.

The worst part is that the stepfather's words seem to validate how Bey feels. If he feels the need to specify that this is NOT his son then there is something wrong with the family.

I have a strange sense of humor. I laugh at wildly inappropriate things but this just seems so sad and a bit depressing.

Fridays Child

(23,998 posts)
7. Interesting way of getting his parents' attention...
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 04:22 PM
Feb 2013

...seeking accountability through the courts because he wants it from their hearts. I hope he gets what he's looking for.

xmas74

(30,058 posts)
18. The saddest part is that he's more than willing to drop the suit
Sun Feb 24, 2013, 05:02 PM
Feb 2013

if they will sit down and have dinner with him. The suit and the damage amount is for the attention, with the real intent being that of sharing a meal together and spending some time together.

Just one meal and he'll drop the suit. That's telling.

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