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quinnox

(20,600 posts)
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:03 PM Mar 2013

Ya know, I'd rather have all the catholic bashers leave than the catholics

Just saying. If one group has to leave town by sun down, then I say let it be all the catholic and religion bashers!

My opinion. Lock this up if you must, I just had to speak frankly.

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Ya know, I'd rather have all the catholic bashers leave than the catholics (Original Post) quinnox Mar 2013 OP
I think they should both stay. But put each other on Ignore. nomorenomore08 Mar 2013 #1
How many times? brush Mar 2013 #105
No one has to leave RobertEarl Mar 2013 #2
not the only lame ones PatrynXX Mar 2013 #23
Come again? hrmjustin Mar 2013 #26
Heh RobertEarl Mar 2013 #32
I agree with you that Jesus is angry at those who covered up and committed crimes against children. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #35
I'm a white male. So are the KKK RobertEarl Mar 2013 #42
The KKK is an evil org. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #51
I would re think that comparison. zeemike Mar 2013 #52
It was no comparison RobertEarl Mar 2013 #56
I disagree. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #63
You are right RobertEarl Mar 2013 #75
Poor decisions by the Church leadership no more represent... Beartracks Mar 2013 #71
Well sure it does... zeemike Mar 2013 #78
You may be right about the KKK RobertEarl Mar 2013 #87
I bow to a Woman. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #93
That's what I find odd about Catholics and others RobertEarl Mar 2013 #96
Ok I understand your point. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #97
I'll have to ask Jesus himself... RoccoR5955 Mar 2013 #82
Was that meant as a joke? hrmjustin Mar 2013 #86
No RoccoR5955 Mar 2013 #88
LMAO!!! hrmjustin Mar 2013 #90
that's not what people are reacting to BainsBane Mar 2013 #74
What does this mean? RobertEarl Mar 2013 #79
Read the threads BainsBane Mar 2013 #81
Were those posts alerted on? RobertEarl Mar 2013 #92
Yes BainsBane Mar 2013 #95
Religion is a choice. JDPriestly Mar 2013 #130
Yes, I understand you see it that way BainsBane Mar 2013 #131
Very well said. Rhiannon12866 Mar 2013 #132
Thanks BainsBane Mar 2013 #133
I totally understand what you mean Rhiannon12866 Mar 2013 #134
I dunno if Jesus is shaking his head... RoccoR5955 Mar 2013 #80
Amen (pun intended)....from a non-Christian agnostic. abq e streeter Mar 2013 #3
I know you miss meta sharp_stick Mar 2013 #4
Did something happen to meta? dkf Mar 2013 #67
Why should anyone leave? Fumesucker Mar 2013 #5
heh quinnox Mar 2013 #8
It's more than hurt feelings. CBHagman Mar 2013 #16
The only community standards are those a jury votes to uphold Fumesucker Mar 2013 #20
as an open minded person the PatrynXX Mar 2013 #24
so you're letting "the man" make the decisions for you snooper2 Mar 2013 #30
The community standards are posted on the site. CBHagman Mar 2013 #43
Meh, I'm a sixtysomething white male who lives in the deep South Fumesucker Mar 2013 #54
I'd rather forum hosts would lock non-GD posts. progressoid Mar 2013 #6
But it is called general discussion MattBaggins Mar 2013 #12
General Discussion Statment of Purpose..."No whining about DU" progressoid Mar 2013 #13
wouldn't that make DU disappear? MattBaggins Mar 2013 #14
LOL! reformist2 Mar 2013 #136
You're whining too pintobean Mar 2013 #21
I know! progressoid Mar 2013 #22
They tried a system for a few months Nevernose Mar 2013 #70
I don't even remember that! Like listing an item in two eBay categories. :-) gateley Mar 2013 #108
OP not helpful. Hissyspit Mar 2013 #7
Everyone can stay as long as they admit that I'm always right. Buzz Clik Mar 2013 #9
lol quinnox Mar 2013 #10
Only if we can send the MRA goons with them. MattBaggins Mar 2013 #11
It looks like everyone is packing their bags. defacto7 Mar 2013 #46
Just curious why you think either group would have to leave? EvolveOrConvolve Mar 2013 #15
It/ getting well over the top nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #17
I disagree, who has been forced out bysundown? rustydog Mar 2013 #18
Here nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #19
Really? dsc Mar 2013 #33
No, unless the authors s the pope nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #34
well I'll tell you what dsc Mar 2013 #39
Although I don't always agree with the way you communicate your point defacto7 Mar 2013 #50
We seem to know so little about history. zeemike Mar 2013 #69
again the problem isn't that they say they have been persecuted dsc Mar 2013 #77
Who said that? zeemike Mar 2013 #85
the title of the book is the last acceptable persecution dsc Mar 2013 #89
I guess I read English different than you zeemike Mar 2013 #94
Here us the tittle nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #117
first of all I am 45 dsc Mar 2013 #119
Academics do that regularly nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #120
fine dsc Mar 2013 #122
None of us is saying you are having it easier or harder nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #123
In 29 States it is perfectly legal to discriminate against LGBT people in employment and housing. Bluenorthwest Mar 2013 #140
You know what is hysterical.... nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #141
Please point to me how Catholics are persecuted and discriminated against in the modern day US ButterflyBlood Mar 2013 #126
it is completely ridiculous Skittles Mar 2013 #62
When was the last time a council of female atheists MattBaggins Mar 2013 #47
for some every response to a defense roguevalley Mar 2013 #29
Meh. GodlessBiker Mar 2013 #25
This explains the hostility to feminists. nt geek tragedy Mar 2013 #27
I say we have a simple test.. snooper2 Mar 2013 #28
Sure, keep the self deluded, and ditch the realists... truebrit71 Mar 2013 #31
Science will fly you to the moon, religion will fly you into buildings. Egalitarian Thug Mar 2013 #36
ignore is your friend.... madrchsod Mar 2013 #37
That offends me MattBaggins Mar 2013 #48
Needs some context. Really don’t know what your complaint is, 20score Mar 2013 #38
There's a huge ongoing war defacto7 Mar 2013 #57
A Catholic wanting to banish non-Catholics. Apophis Mar 2013 #40
The anti-Catholic posts are consuming a lot of energy... CBHagman Mar 2013 #41
We should be tolerant of religion or one's desire not to participate. Thinkingabout Mar 2013 #44
I don't want to bash any religion, everyone has a right to their own beliefs mountain grammy Mar 2013 #45
I'm with you grammy. defacto7 Mar 2013 #58
Hear, hear. Rozlee Mar 2013 #73
well said. mountain grammy Mar 2013 #100
And I will bash ALL religions, RoccoR5955 Mar 2013 #84
So what? D23MIURG23 Mar 2013 #49
I still hold a grudge lindysalsagal Mar 2013 #53
"The annoyance might come from the annoyed-person's doubts. " defacto7 Mar 2013 #60
I like the part that God is a male bipod who looks like me (except for the invisible part). AnotherMcIntosh Mar 2013 #64
You hold a grudge over 500 year-old events, and you think people have doubts about cordelia Mar 2013 #68
I hereby nominate cordelia for Lord Head Magistrate of the Spelling Police. lindysalsagal Mar 2013 #146
Don't hold your breath skepticscott Mar 2013 #55
Have you every heard of changing the church from within. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #66
Nobody has been "bullied" skepticscott Mar 2013 #142
There is a difference in saying the church is wrong here and here with I as a christian do all the hrmjustin Mar 2013 #143
This site has a real problem with anti-Catholicism and anti-religion sentiment in general. nt SylviaD Mar 2013 #59
Well if this is a persecution contest, JEB Mar 2013 #98
Is this similar to that ridiculous pasta monster? Its not funny, nor is that. n/t SylviaD Mar 2013 #144
How about banning JEB Mar 2013 #145
why does anyone have to leave? Skittles Mar 2013 #61
DU is supposed to be a place where like-minded Democrats can discuss issues of interest to LibDemAlways Mar 2013 #65
I agree because I despise bigotry BainsBane Mar 2013 #72
Bigotry of GOP supporters? n-t Logical Mar 2013 #99
Perhaps you can point me to the part of the constitution BainsBane Mar 2013 #102
Really? Disliking religous groups is banned in the constitution??? n-t Logical Mar 2013 #106
discrimination is BainsBane Mar 2013 #110
So your argument is posts on the DU are breaking laws? n-t Logical Mar 2013 #111
Try rereading BainsBane Mar 2013 #112
I think you are exaggerating. But pretty sure you realize it. n-t Logical Mar 2013 #113
no BainsBane Mar 2013 #115
Lol, you bring up your hatred of bigots then realize the.... Logical Mar 2013 #135
The First and Fourteenth amendments don't prohibit discrimination by private individuals ButterflyBlood Mar 2013 #124
why is reading so difficult? BainsBane Mar 2013 #125
actually religious discrimination is banned by federal law dsc Mar 2013 #127
True but federal statute is not the same as the Constitution ButterflyBlood Mar 2013 #128
I'd rather have thoughtful discussion and debate from both sides NYC Liberal Mar 2013 #76
People should let others live their lives AAO Mar 2013 #83
Is it considered "bashing" to want them to put their money where their mouth is? Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2013 #91
amen! Douglas Carpenter Mar 2013 #101
Thank you.nt Cleita Mar 2013 #103
Wow is DU turning right or something? alp227 Mar 2013 #104
"Sacred Cows make the best hamburger." Mark Twain Tierra_y_Libertad Mar 2013 #107
LOL! I love it. nt Bonobo Mar 2013 #121
Good grief. Why are you trying to fan the flames? nm rhett o rick Mar 2013 #109
Because Meta is gone? Puglover Mar 2013 #137
Can they take the anti-Semites and thier buddies with them?! Behind the Aegis Mar 2013 #114
Too fucking bad. LeftyMom Mar 2013 #116
for once datasuspect Mar 2013 #139
My mother suffered physical & emotional abuse from nuns at the Indian School catbyte Mar 2013 #118
Me too. nt Thegonagle Mar 2013 #129
no one has to leave. What a bunch of nonsense. bowens43 Mar 2013 #138
 

brush

(61,033 posts)
105. How many times?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:04 AM
Mar 2013

What I don't get is why this OP has been posted so many times? Enough already.

PatrynXX

(5,668 posts)
23. not the only lame ones
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:44 PM
Mar 2013

Some Atheists here are lame wanna shove their beliefs down my throat. Ignore probably the best thing. The 1976 thing is just zzzzzz.... He's the pope , rather work with modern issues.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
32. Heh
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:59 PM
Mar 2013

Jesus, I would think, is shaking his head over the reaction of the Catholics to their leaders being called out.

It is a lame reaction by some Catholics to be so upset upon hearing what other God's children think of Catholic leaders' un-Christian-like actions.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
35. I agree with you that Jesus is angry at those who covered up and committed crimes against children.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:04 PM
Mar 2013

What I do not like is the Guilt-by-association that has popped up here recently. By the way I am no way saying you did that. I just wanted you to explain your post. Than you for responding.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
42. I'm a white male. So are the KKK
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:16 PM
Mar 2013

If i was a member of the KKK I would be guilty by association.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
52. I would re think that comparison.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:36 PM
Mar 2013

The KKK was founded on an immoral principle and if you joined you did so because you agreed with it....so you are guilty not by association but by agreement with it;s principles...
The Catholics do not have the belief you should fuck kids...and none of them signed up for that.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
56. It was no comparison
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:43 PM
Mar 2013

It was pointing out the guilt by association concept has bearing.

As for myself, were I raised Catholic and became knowledgeable of what the leaders were doing, I would have become ex-Catholic. Just as I did leave my church when i found what a bunch of bozos the leaders were.

Actually, the KKK, afaik, was founded on moral principles, but became corrupted. Damn, now there's a comparison. Thanks for bringing that up.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
63. I disagree.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:57 PM
Mar 2013

The leadership made those decisions not the laity. The laity do not have to give up their church because of the sins and crimes of the clergy.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
75. You are right
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:11 PM
Mar 2013

Members don't have to do a damn thing any priest tells them.

And neither do I when it comes to speaking my mind.

My religion is Christianity. What religion are Catholics? Who do I serve? Under who's authority do I bow? Not any man. So what do I care when someone says something bad about any church?

Beartracks

(14,591 posts)
71. Poor decisions by the Church leadership no more represent...
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:05 PM
Mar 2013

... the Catholic faith than the policies of the Bush Cabal represented American ideals.

That is to say, why should Catholics "leave the Church" because the leaders made poor decisions? The Catholic laity have their faith, and that is separate from the Church's infrastructure and organizational problems, and separate from the moral failings of its leaders.

================

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
78. Well sure it does...
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:13 PM
Mar 2013

If you join an organization that has as it's dogma immoral things then yes you are guilty by association.
But if you belong to a religion that has as it's dogma and principles something and the leader violates it, it does not mean all members are guilty too.

And that is bullshit propaganda about the KKK...it was founded as a direct response to reconstruction and the loss of the civil war....and they justified their violent behaviour by claiming they were doing it for moral principles...

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
87. You may be right about the KKK
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:20 PM
Mar 2013

IDK about the KKK. I have heard people say that it became corrupted. All I know is that I would not be a member because of the things it does.

My religion is Christianity. It has but one leader. I do not bow to any man. I see that others do bow to a man in their churches. I don't have to like that or condone it or say that's ok by me. It is not ok by me, just as the KKK is not ok by me because of the fruits it delivers.


 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
93. I bow to a Woman.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:27 PM
Mar 2013

My rector is a woman and so is my presiding bishop. My diocesan bishop is a man but he bows to the presiding bishop who is a woman. The presiding bishop bows to the archbishop of canterbury a man, but he bows to a woman the Queen.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
96. That's what I find odd about Catholics and others
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:32 PM
Mar 2013

Christianity means, to me, bowing before no man. Nor woman.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
97. Ok I understand your point.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:36 PM
Mar 2013

You bow to God alone. But in the RCC and other churches like mine the Episcopal church we bow as a form of respect and clergy obey because it is the way the denomination is set up.

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
88. No
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:20 PM
Mar 2013

Jesus is a guy who comes around and does some gardening for me. If you want to know what Jesus thinks, I'll ask him!

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
74. that's not what people are reacting to
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:09 PM
Mar 2013

They are reacting to hatred directed at themselves simply for being Catholic.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
81. Read the threads
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:16 PM
Mar 2013

It's all over the place. People have said all Catholics are criminals. They have accused ordinary Catholics of being complicit in pedophilia, misogyny, and homophobia, some in this very thread.

The problem is not criticism of the Church hierarchy. Catholics do plenty of that themselves. It's when members express hatred toward Catholics because of their religions. It's bigotry.

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
92. Were those posts alerted on?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:26 PM
Mar 2013

They should have been alerted on.

I do not think I have seen anyone really hated on because of their religion, except by the atheists towards believers, and we just turn the other cheek to them.

What I have seen is a hatred of some of the things the Pope and Cardinals have tried to hide and all the gold they hoard.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
95. Yes
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:31 PM
Mar 2013

Most were allowed to stand. One I alerted on was just hidden. The offensive posts were allowed to stand because so many here share those same views.

It may primarily be atheists but it is not exclusively atheists. There are a few, and I emphasize few, adamant in the believe that Protestantism is superior. Many just don't mention their religious association and focus on their argument that their hatred toward Catholics is acceptable because religion is a choice.

I want to make clear I have nothing against atheists, agnostics, Protestants, Muslims, Jews, Catholics, or any other religion. I don't care what religion people adhere to or if they don't. And I'm perfectly capable of telling the difference between a Bishop, Imam, or pastor I see on TV and fellow DUers.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
130. Religion is a choice.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 03:26 AM
Mar 2013

If you are happy with yours, great.

If not, you change.

But remember that we all need to do unto others as we would have them do unto us. And churches that are extremely intolerant should not be surprised when their intolerance comes back to them.

Also, some churches are less authoritarian than some others. I have a neighbor who belongs to an extremely authoritarian church. It is not Catholic. I feel kind of sorry for her. She is sweet, but oh my . . . .

I certainly don't hate her for it.

My husband who knows about these things reminds me that people stay with a certain religion very often because turning their back on it would mean turning their back on their family. That is especially true with regard to funerals, etc.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
131. Yes, I understand you see it that way
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 04:44 AM
Mar 2013

As a product of a modern capitalist society in which we are increasingly severed from place, family and community,that is not surprising. If I had not studied history I might see it the same way. I understand that some people go from one church or new age fad to another. That is something I could not abide. So in my case, I don't go to church at all.

I know that religion is tied to ethnicity and ancestry. Empires have spent centuries trying to force people to change their religions. If people found it so easy and meaningless, the Irish would have converted to Protestantism long ago. Catholics in this country would have converted rather than being targeted by the Klan. Jews would have converted to Christianity to avoid being the target of genocide. Peoples of African descent would not continue to practice West African religions in Brazil and throughout the Caribbean if changing religion were so simple. Muslims in this country would covert to Protestantism to enhance their upward mobility. But peoples have not seen religion as something so easily discarded. To those connected to family and community, religion is part of their culture and key to who they are. Anyone who studies history or anthropology learns this.

Rhiannon12866

(255,517 posts)
134. I totally understand what you mean
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:30 AM
Mar 2013

My Dad's side of the family is Irish - and Catholic. It's just what they are. I appreciate them because they're completely secure in what they believe, no proselyting from them. And they're also loyal Democrats.

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
80. I dunno if Jesus is shaking his head...
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:15 PM
Mar 2013

...I'll ask him when he comes around to do the gardening.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
5. Why should anyone leave?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:06 PM
Mar 2013

It's a political discussion board, everyone gets their feelings hurt at some point, it comes with the territory.

CBHagman

(17,493 posts)
16. It's more than hurt feelings.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:32 PM
Mar 2013

A lot of what I see amounts to community standards violations.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
20. The only community standards are those a jury votes to uphold
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:37 PM
Mar 2013

If a jury hides it then it's against community standards, if they don't hide it then it's acceptable, Skinner's position is that you take your chances.

As I said on another thread, a sixtysomething white male Southerner like me learns to have a very thick skin on DU. And an atheist like me learns to have an even thicker skin living in the deep South like I do.

PatrynXX

(5,668 posts)
24. as an open minded person the
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:46 PM
Mar 2013

whole jury system is corrupt I won't serve on one. just anti free speech.

CBHagman

(17,493 posts)
43. The community standards are posted on the site.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:21 PM
Mar 2013

The jury members go in with access to those.

The terms of service, and not the individual member, state that this is supposed to be a friendly environment.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
54. Meh, I'm a sixtysomething white male who lives in the deep South
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:40 PM
Mar 2013

DU is remarkably unfriendly to me, I read posts on a regular basis that call for kicking the South out of the Union and anyone who lives here who is not a Fundie Republican can just go pound sand as far as they're concerned.

DU is not a friendly place to a lot of us, not just Catholics by any means.

The TOS and community standards are two different things.





MattBaggins

(7,948 posts)
12. But it is called general discussion
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:19 PM
Mar 2013

I wanted to post in General Discussion but they wouldn't let me talk about anything specific.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
70. They tried a system for a few months
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:05 PM
Mar 2013

In which, if you posted in GD or LBN, you had to choose a secondary forum. After your post fell off the main page or two, it reverted to the secondary forum. I liked, but apparently I was the only one. I think such a system would work much better on DU3.

gateley

(62,683 posts)
108. I don't even remember that! Like listing an item in two eBay categories. :-)
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:09 AM
Mar 2013

When was that?

MattBaggins

(7,948 posts)
11. Only if we can send the MRA goons with them.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:16 PM
Mar 2013

I mean us. I forgot I'm an atheist who finds belief in invisible beings silly.

I'll pack my things.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
46. It looks like everyone is packing their bags.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:26 PM
Mar 2013

I think we should all just chuck the baggage and stay home.

(vague double meaning intended)

EvolveOrConvolve

(6,452 posts)
15. Just curious why you think either group would have to leave?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:31 PM
Mar 2013

And why it would be up to you to make a decision like that.

rustydog

(9,186 posts)
18. I disagree, who has been forced out bysundown?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:33 PM
Mar 2013

One longtime DUer has voluntarily decided to leave because of other posters over-the-top rants against the beloved Catholic Church.
Why force anyone to leave simply because you disagree with what many may feel is a legitimate stance?
Why would one voluntarily leave and not stay and defend one's religion if oneis so strongly influenced by that religion?

dsc

(53,395 posts)
33. Really?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:00 PM
Mar 2013

A bunch of people who have as a leader a man who literally equates marriage equality with Satan's work now is whining that they, and only they, are discriminated against. Sweet Jesus.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
34. No, unless the authors s the pope
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:03 PM
Mar 2013

You seriously are telling me the US has not had this problem? Not just Catholics by the way.

But serious, you are ignorant of that history?

dsc

(53,395 posts)
39. well I'll tell you what
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:11 PM
Mar 2013

When Catholics get barred from marrying, commit suicide in droves to escape bullying, and have to wonder if they can hold their lover's hands at night for fear of getting beaten, then they can write books about how they are the last people who can be discriminated against, until then, well I don't have much patience.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
50. Although I don't always agree with the way you communicate your point
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:34 PM
Mar 2013

I will have to give you this comment as right in the corner pocket. You can't argue that.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
69. We seem to know so little about history.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:01 PM
Mar 2013

There is probably no religion on earth that has not suffered persecution.
In Ireland during Cromwell's time, the Catholics had their land taken away from them and given to Protestants.
In the south before and after the civil war, you were not much better off if you were black or Jewish than a Catholic...
I think that these false equivalencies just make us stupider..

dsc

(53,395 posts)
77. again the problem isn't that they say they have been persecuted
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:12 PM
Mar 2013

they say ONLY THEY are persecuted. Really, only they are persecuted. I am just flabbergasted.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
85. Who said that?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:17 PM
Mar 2013

I was raised a Catholic and went to Catholic school...never once did I hear that...
And I am flabbergasted too hearing you say something that is new to me.

dsc

(53,395 posts)
89. the title of the book is the last acceptable persecution
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:23 PM
Mar 2013

that means only they are being persecuted.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
94. I guess I read English different than you
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:29 PM
Mar 2013

Last acceptable persecution implies that there are other persecutions that are acceptable and so it can't mean it is the only one.
Otherwise you wold just say the last persecution.
But when did it happen that if someone rights a book they speak for all?

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
117. Here us the tittle
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:51 AM
Mar 2013

The New Anti-Catholicism: The Last Acceptable Prejudice (Green Chemistry Series) [Kindle Edition]
Philip Jenkins (Author)


Now I don't know about you, but Jenkins is not claiming it is only poor dear Catholics who are getting persecuted.

There is persecution of other groups. He just happens to specialize in this one...which we all though died with Kennedy's election, like Racism died with obama's election...or you forgot the declarations of a post racial US?

I will give you the benefit and assume you are first young, and second think that only LGBT people are persecuted these days.

So we are clear, this is an all but complete list.

LGBT
Blacks
Latinos
Immigrants in general
Catholics
Believe it or not to a point Mormon kids.
Women
Poor
Jews (yup it is alive and well)
Muslims

This is very much partial and the levels of persecution depend on geography in some respects.

If you decide to compare the size of the chip on the shoulder you will only help in keeping people from seeing each other as well...we...

dsc

(53,395 posts)
119. first of all I am 45
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:06 AM
Mar 2013

second I never said only gays are persecuted, but he chose to title his book THE last acceptable prejudice, not AN acceptable prejudice. The definite article the means only one exists. He chose the title of his book. If I were to write a book entitled Homophobia: The Last Acceptable Prejudice I would deserve to be called out on thinking only gays were being persecuted. He wrote the book, he picked the title, he deserves the grief.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
120. Academics do that regularly
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:13 AM
Mar 2013

And I intend to read it, cause I am not in denial...and this board has seen a lot of this as well.

By the way, that list I posted, I qualify for three huge chips on my shoulder...I chose not to act on them. Why? Any prejudice is rather unhelpful.

For the record, stay away from the Journal of the American Historical Association...I highly recommend you run from that one. Let's not start with the sociology journals, or poli sci. My god, the tittles of some academic articles will have you in fits.

Another little secret for you, the editor chose that tittle.

dsc

(53,395 posts)
122. fine
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:28 AM
Mar 2013

how dare I intimate that it is harder to be gay in this country than Catholic. I mean until 2003 sex between Catholics was illegal in over a dozen states only to be overturned by Lawrence vs Texas. I mean Catholics couldn't openly serve in the military until 2011. I mean in over half the states, Catholics can be fired from their jobs for no reason beside them being Catholic. I mean a few weeks ago at the NFL combine athletes were asked if they were Catholic. None of the above are true of gays. No wait, never mind, the exact opposite is true. All of the above is true of gays and none of it is true of Catholics. It literally boggles the mind that a group of people who belong not only to the plurality religion of the country but have literally been protected from discrimination for generations have the unmitigated gall to complain that they are the last group who are acceptable to be discriminated against. But, yeah I have the chip on my shoulder.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
123. None of us is saying you are having it easier or harder
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:47 AM
Mar 2013

But you know what? Have a good day. Enough of this my chip is bigger than yours.

And yes, things are changing for LGBT at light speed, for the better, right now.

But hey, I say that as an outsider.

So have a good one. I have tried to address in one day two other major issues... Perhaps tomorrow will deal with two or three more. Lord knows we have something going all the time, and I have a low tolerance for this intolerance shit.

And you know what? If you are to compare chips...my cousin lives in Mexico City, he s LGBT. Boy you want to compare notes? Or perhaps the cross dressing women I had to come to bat for at the General hospital (men, they were beaten). Of my more recent advocacy for another person who was LGBT at my local San Diego hospital.

I mention this to make a point...the size of the chip is a question of perspective. You mentioned LGBT kids who get bullied...well guess what sparky...the list of groups I posted...it happens to each of them...some to the point of suicide. Some to the point of murder.

I used to carry a few large chips, but I learned, great way to keep all of us divided. And you know what? Since we have been talking Catholics....some in the hierarchy are real assholes...they tend to have control. Then you have some parish priests fighting for their congregation and against their hierarchy. There are also internal fights that most f us can suspect at, but hardly prove...

Yes, as an organization they have the same fights we all are having. But if you think all Catholics are evil, well you are doing to them what many of those men in the hierarchy, or the Republican Party, are doing regarding LGBT or other groups.

No, it is not god...I personally have little belief in a god, but men do have changes of heart and culture changes. We are in one of those historic moments. That said...the church is so large...change will take time. It has to do with issues well beyond the borders of the United States.

So support those who are trying to change it.


 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
140. In 29 States it is perfectly legal to discriminate against LGBT people in employment and housing.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 10:59 AM
Mar 2013

How many States allow discrimination against Catholics? Your comparison does not hold up to even the most casual look at the facts at hand.
It is sad when people who are oppressing others claim they are the ones being oppressed.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
141. You know what is hysterical....
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 11:37 AM
Mar 2013

You missed what I said about chips, and how they are being used to oppress by dividing people against each other.

Bigotry *is* bigotry..

The best part is...I am not even Catholic. I am Jewish. Any other things you'd like to say?

Oh and one more thing sparky, tell me exactly where I said the LGBT community is not oppressed.

I want a direct quote.

ButterflyBlood

(12,644 posts)
126. Please point to me how Catholics are persecuted and discriminated against in the modern day US
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:21 AM
Mar 2013

People saying mean things about the Catholic Church on a message board if that's the worst they have to put it up with makes them quite a bit better off than the other groups I'd say. Especially when you consider how active the Catholic Church is in in discrimination and bigotry against many of those groups.

MattBaggins

(7,948 posts)
47. When was the last time a council of female atheists
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:31 PM
Mar 2013

was invited to the white house to discuss men's reproductive rights and health insurance rights?

Far from the last acceptable prejudice.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
29. for some every response to a defense
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 09:54 PM
Mar 2013

is you are stupid to believe in invisible sky men. every response. sometimes getting called stupid makes a place no fun to be. disagreeing without being disagreeable is not always practiced here. just mho.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
36. Science will fly you to the moon, religion will fly you into buildings.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:05 PM
Mar 2013

Frankly speaking, when religious fervor results in more people believing in angels than evolution, let alone seeking to understand it, that should be a clue that perpetuating a fantasy as if it were real is probably not a good idea.

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
37. ignore is your friend....
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:05 PM
Mar 2013

i do`t agree with everything that is posted here. i`ll either ignore or respond with my opinion.

20score

(4,769 posts)
38. Needs some context. Really don’t know what your complaint is,
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:09 PM
Mar 2013

because I haven’t spent much time here lately. (Too busy.) But I hope you’re not saying that people shouldn’t complain about the Catholic Church and its pedophilia scandal, or its misguided foray into conservative politics, prioritizing limiting birth control access over helping the poor?

Is that it, or is it something else?

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
57. There's a huge ongoing war
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:45 PM
Mar 2013

between the those who wish to defend faith, defend the way opposing views are discussed and non-theists and theists alike who wish to speak unabashed. It started during the Papal conclave and has escalated since the new pope was chosen. The posts are all over. Have fun... and meta is gone... good riddance.

CBHagman

(17,493 posts)
41. The anti-Catholic posts are consuming a lot of energy...
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:13 PM
Mar 2013

...and they are alienating longtime members. How does that serve the mission of DU? How is that in harmony with the terms of service?

[url]http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus[/url]

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Interacting with friendly, like-minded people;
Sharing news and information, free from the corporate media filter;
Participating in lively, thought-provoking discussions;
Helping elect more Democrats to political office at all levels of American government; and
Having fun!

After more than a decade online, Democratic Underground still hosts the most active liberal discussion board on the Internet. We are an independent website funded by member subscriptions and advertising, and we have no affiliation with the Democratic Party. Democratic Underground is a truly grassroots community where regular members drive the discussion and set the standards. There is no other website quite like it anywhere on the Internet.

We are always looking for friendly, liberal people who appreciate good discussions and who understand the importance of electing more Democrats to office.


[url]http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=termsofservice[/url]

Do not post bigotry based on someone's race or ethnic origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, religion or lack thereof, disability, or other comparable personal characteristic.

(SNIP)

Don't do anything else which is similarly disruptive. Just because it isn't listed here, doesn't mean it's ok. If you post anything which is obviously disruptive, malicious, or repugnant to this community, its members, or its values, you risk being in violation of these Terms of Service.

There's nothing in there about disallowing someone because of their beliefs or the lack thereof. There's nothing there encouraging the sowing of discord (in fact, quite opposite).

mountain grammy

(29,034 posts)
45. I don't want to bash any religion, everyone has a right to their own beliefs
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:26 PM
Mar 2013

It's when those religions mess with public policies, contribute to campaigns for (and against) candidates and public initiatives, and influence government officials that I get upset. Religious organizations do, after all, live here rent free. They have no business choosing the landlords or making the rules. The business of running the country and communities (government) is best left out of the hands of faith based institutions. Our Constitution requires it.

Rozlee

(2,529 posts)
73. Hear, hear.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:08 PM
Mar 2013

This is the biggest reason I became hostile to religion. I never went after them. They have always come after me. Whether it's trying to take away science in school, discriminate against me because I was an atheist in the military, hound almost every reproductive center and abortion clinic out of many states and base my character on my beliefs or lack of them, religion has always been intrusive in my life and unwelcome. And our country and it's people suffer from policies made by those who take religious texts literally in interpretation and pass laws and policies that affect everything from the things we teach in schools, to how we conduct our foreign policy. End Time prophecies rule some of our policies toward the Middle East and we're losing our country's edge in science thanks to biblical literalists and their anti-science agendas. Not to mention maybe even our planet, since they seem to want to usher in the Apocalypse and are only too happy to rattle sabers whenever they can. Witness how conservatives have been trying to reignite the Cold War with Russia because of the End Times prophecy that it will invade Israel.

 

RoccoR5955

(12,471 posts)
84. And I will bash ALL religions,
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:17 PM
Mar 2013

because they are nothing more than a brand of mythology, that seeks to control the masses.

D23MIURG23

(3,138 posts)
49. So what?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:34 PM
Mar 2013

Usually "religion bashers" (by which I assume you mean atheists) have an actual reason for criticizing whatever religion they are down on. If you actually bother explaining your opinion next time I might not ignore it.

lindysalsagal

(22,905 posts)
53. I still hold a grudge
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:40 PM
Mar 2013

about the non-brain-washed like myself who were burned at the stake, for not believing in the unbelievable. Ok, ok, it was 500 years ago, but, hey.
Let's remember that america is here for 2 important things:

Freedom of/from religion, and freedom of speech.

If anyone wants to believe in invisible, all-seeing, all-knowing sky gods, well, they certainly can. If their faith in this god is strong enough, non-believers like me shouldn't bother them.

The annoyance might come from the annoyed-person's doubts.

And,
athiests don't have beliefs: They have science.

 

AnotherMcIntosh

(11,064 posts)
64. I like the part that God is a male bipod who looks like me (except for the invisible part).
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:57 PM
Mar 2013

cordelia

(2,174 posts)
68. You hold a grudge over 500 year-old events, and you think people have doubts about
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:01 PM
Mar 2013

their beliefs because of hateful snide remarks on a message board?

Really?

Also, need to point out that:

1. Theism does not equal disbelief in science.

2. The correct spelling is "atheist".

lindysalsagal

(22,905 posts)
146. I hereby nominate cordelia for Lord Head Magistrate of the Spelling Police.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 09:03 PM
Mar 2013

Any seconds?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
55. Don't hold your breath
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:41 PM
Mar 2013

As long as the Catholic Church continues to hold to philosophies and continues practices that are antithetical to the fundamental principles of this site, and as long as people here continue to support and defend it, the criticism will continue. Just as it will for a multitude of other people and organizations doing the same thing. This invented notion by Catholic DUers that they've somehow been singled out for criticism is simply ludicrous.

When you get that change from within thing accomplished (which to hear it, should be any day now), let us know and we'll take another look.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
66. Have you every heard of changing the church from within.
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:00 PM
Mar 2013

You have the right to be critical of their church as i am all the time, but people have the right to stick with their faith and not be bullied about it.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
142. Nobody has been "bullied"
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:58 PM
Mar 2013

They've been criticized and their principles and priorities called into question. As noted, that happens a lot on this site, to all sorts of people, members and otherwise.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
143. There is a difference in saying the church is wrong here and here with I as a christian do all the
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:44 PM
Mar 2013

time, and Telling people they have to leave the church because staying enables child molesters and making it seem like guilt-by-association.

SylviaD

(721 posts)
59. This site has a real problem with anti-Catholicism and anti-religion sentiment in general. nt
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:53 PM
Mar 2013
 

JEB

(4,748 posts)
98. Well if this is a persecution contest,
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:44 PM
Mar 2013

you should have to listen to the crap I get for praying the powerful almighty FROG. He has powers that are hard for most to comprehend. Yet people ridicule me with no regard for my feelings. FROG however gives me the strength to carry on. Someday I hope to travel between this world and the spirit world as frog can in an instant.

 

JEB

(4,748 posts)
145. How about banning
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 08:44 PM
Mar 2013

all FROG bashing posts? They serve no real purpose but to denigrate a persons personal beliefs. Nothing funny about it.

Skittles

(171,703 posts)
61. why does anyone have to leave?
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:55 PM
Mar 2013

you cannot FORCE people to respect something they do not respect

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
65. DU is supposed to be a place where like-minded Democrats can discuss issues of interest to
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 10:58 PM
Mar 2013

Democrats. I assume there are people on this board of every faith and no faith. I have no problem with discussion of religion as long as it's respectful. What someone chooses to believe or not to believe is a personal matter and should not be held up to ridicule. I don't think anyone should be made so uncomfortable that they choose to leave the board. A little civility would go a long way.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
72. I agree because I despise bigotry
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:07 PM
Mar 2013

of all stripes. I despise the bigotry of the Catholic Church hierarchy against gays and I despise the bigotry articulated by fellow DUers against Catholic members.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
102. Perhaps you can point me to the part of the constitution
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:53 PM
Mar 2013

that protects people based on political affiliation?

I BTW, don't hate Republicans per se. I do grow irritated with ignorance, but there is a great deal of that to go around across the political spectrum.


Are you here advocating for fairness toward the GOP? It you want to suggest Skinner modify the purpose of the site to include Republicans, I suggest you take that up in ATA.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
110. discrimination is
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:14 AM
Mar 2013

under the First and Fourteenth amendments.

Speech, no matter how odious, is also protected by First Amendment. There is no requirement that people value human equality. Legal equality is a constitutional premise of the nation, but the First Amendment guarantees the rights of anyone to be just as hateful as he chooses, as long as he doesn't institute that hatred in discriminatory ways.

Your concerns of unfair treatment of Republicans should be taken up with Skinner.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
115. no
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:42 AM
Mar 2013

Hate speech is legally protected. So obviously no laws are broken unless people ENACT that hatred in discriminatory ways through hiring practices or other legal measures.

That doesn't mean it's not hateful and repulsive, however.


I'm pretty amazed I had to explain that post to you.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
135. Lol, you bring up your hatred of bigots then realize the....
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 07:58 AM
Mar 2013

Discussion on the DU about religions is protected speech!
And are ok with GOP.bigots!
Funny!

ButterflyBlood

(12,644 posts)
124. The First and Fourteenth amendments don't prohibit discrimination by private individuals
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:19 AM
Mar 2013

The First Amendment just says Congress can make no law restricting or endorsing religious practice. That has nothing to do with an individual disliking or mocking religious practice. The Fourteenth Amendment just states conditions on which a person may not be denied citizenship or the right to vote. Which has nothing to do with banning private discrimination.

Of course individual laws in almost all states do prohibit religious discrimination, but that has nothing to do with the Constitution, and "Fuck the Catholic Church" is not a discriminatory statement. Nor any more offensive to me than "Fuck the Church of Scientology" is.

dsc

(53,395 posts)
127. actually religious discrimination is banned by federal law
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:47 AM
Mar 2013

so gay business owners can't fire evangelicals who work for them but evangelical business owners can fire gays who work for them.

ButterflyBlood

(12,644 posts)
128. True but federal statute is not the same as the Constitution
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 02:58 AM
Mar 2013

I though would most certainly be in favor of still prohibiting gay business owners from firing evangelicals just for being evangelical (as well as prohibiting anyone from firing gays), being both an evangelical myself, and very LGBT-supportive. I would however not oppose allowing gay business owners to fire people vocal with anti-gay views that create a hostile and uncomfortable work environment, whether those people be evangelical, Catholic, some other type of Protestant, Jewish, Muslim, something else or non-religious.

 

AAO

(3,300 posts)
83. People should let others live their lives
Sun Mar 17, 2013, 11:17 PM
Mar 2013

As long as they don't infringe on the rights of others.

On edit: There is no freedom from being annoyed or insulted.

alp227

(33,282 posts)
104. Wow is DU turning right or something?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 12:04 AM
Mar 2013

Sometimes I wish DU's mission was to look at things from a reality-based POV - that is a secular one. But America is such a religiously addicted nation that Antonio Villaraigosa vetoed the DNC vote to strike out God from the party platform.

catbyte

(39,150 posts)
118. My mother suffered physical & emotional abuse from nuns at the Indian School
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 01:05 AM
Mar 2013

she was forced to attend and carried the physical & emotional scars her whole life. No one ever apologized. I have no use for the RCC, but ymmv.

 

bowens43

(16,064 posts)
138. no one has to leave. What a bunch of nonsense.
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 08:35 AM
Mar 2013

Seriously if you can't take it leave.

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