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Well, it used to be here in NY union_maid Mar 2013 #1
Maybe we should stop going to useless wars alltogether. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #5
Yes. NY tried it. Big boon to funeral industry. aquart Mar 2013 #42
Yep! Then for a minute, NJ tried it. That was another boon to the Kahuna Mar 2013 #95
On the other hand . . . markpkessinger Mar 2013 #196
Meanwhile, other countries have it. Heywood J Mar 2013 #200
How about if we just stop Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #2
Because most us still live on planet Earth, not Fantasy Land. aquart Mar 2013 #44
Oh, right. Zoeisright Mar 2013 #139
Thanks for such a sweet reply. n/t Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #154
Alcohol is an immense social problem and alcoholism a terrbile disease, why make it worse? Coyotl Mar 2013 #3
Because sometimes people want to escape reality. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #6
So, drink poison, you say. Yeah, brilliant solution to make things worse. Coyotl Mar 2013 #13
Just because you chose to be straight age, doesn't mean everyone else does. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #37
"Do I have the right to say others shouldn't just because I don't?" Occulus Mar 2013 #171
I started drinking legally at 18 and it is not a problem for me. liberal N proud Mar 2013 #28
That's not really the issue at hand. MineralMan Mar 2013 #32
Adolescence can last until 20 or so. randome Mar 2013 #38
Yes, I understand. But Americans are deemed to be adults at 18. MineralMan Mar 2013 #54
Can't be President at that age. randome Mar 2013 #68
Neither can 34 year olds MNBrewer Mar 2013 #127
That no one is an adult in all aspects at age 18. randome Mar 2013 #131
Drinking age was 18 when I turned 18 MNBrewer Mar 2013 #142
And that means what to this debate? NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #144
That you are NOT deemed an adult in all ways upon the age of 18. randome Mar 2013 #146
No, that doesn't mean that at all NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #148
These are all state or federal restrictions on age. randome Mar 2013 #152
And you haven't shown they are reasonable either. NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #157
It wasn't my intention to show them as reasonable. They exist. randome Mar 2013 #162
The same was said of segregation in 1950. NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #163
Yes, but given the concerns expressed on this thread about physical brain development... randome Mar 2013 #167
Like I said earlier... NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #170
The population of those deaths would expand considerably loyalsister Mar 2013 #189
Lottery and bingo are both 18 in my state. xmas74 Mar 2013 #177
Huh. I'd call that 'gambling' but apparently the state doesn't. randome Mar 2013 #194
Absolutely nothing. nt City Lights Mar 2013 #149
Exactly! nt NutmegYankee Mar 2013 #150
But you can be tried as an adult at an even younger age. xmas74 Mar 2013 #158
The other items I listed DO have to do with adult responsibilities that do not accrue at 18. randome Mar 2013 #161
And which is the more "adult" responsibility? xmas74 Mar 2013 #176
More like the mid-twenties...."kids" have longer childhoods now than they ever did...! MADem Mar 2013 #215
Gosh. Prohibition. aquart Mar 2013 #47
It's reality... Melon_Lord Mar 2013 #82
At 18 you are an adult. Xithras Mar 2013 #109
Not everything accrues at age 18. randome Mar 2013 #111
And those should be removed as well. Xithras Mar 2013 #130
The laws aren't intended to sleight 'law abiding and mature' 18 year olds, though. randome Mar 2013 #134
Our society makes alcohol abuse worse by hiding alcohol from the young. bluestate10 Mar 2013 #188
Is your argument that because some are not mature enough to handle it, Heywood J Mar 2013 #201
No, but I remember 45 years ago well enough to know. Coyotl Mar 2013 #210
You probably mean "changed back to" kdmorris Mar 2013 #4
A great link when they call Liberals "nanny-staters". ieoeja Mar 2013 #147
I believe that 18 year olds who're in the military can buy alcohol on base. nt raccoon Mar 2013 #7
They are? i was not aware of that. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #8
On some bases, yes. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #9
Not necessarily. Link in message text box bike man Mar 2013 #175
Bodies and brains are still developing at that age. So no. randome Mar 2013 #10
Absolutely true, has been studied and proved, that the young brain does not become fully adult.... northoftheborder Mar 2013 #88
Shit, EVERYONE is too young to be a soldier. randome Mar 2013 #90
studies show the younger a kid starts drinking the more problems in the future. i am ok with seabeyond Mar 2013 #11
Do you honestly think 18 years old dont drink? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #14
do you honestly think that is a worthwile question. how foolish is that and why would you get that seabeyond Mar 2013 #25
Yes it is a worthwhile question. How foolish is to perpetuate hypocrisy. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #27
you got from my post, i feel with the drinking age at 21... that our 18 year olds are not drinking? seabeyond Mar 2013 #33
It's not the 18 year olds who are alcoholics dkf Mar 2013 #40
first, that is not factually correct. i ahd been told a long time how well europe does. having seabeyond Mar 2013 #46
Same with 21 yr olds. dkf Mar 2013 #62
But SOME 21 year olds will have matured enough -physically and mentally- to dodge that bullet. randome Mar 2013 #65
Probably wishful thinking. dkf Mar 2013 #75
fact. hence, my choice to keep it at 21. nt seabeyond Mar 2013 #91
Sorry. That is not entirely true. JDPriestly Mar 2013 #115
Well by Europe I meant France :) dkf Mar 2013 #119
"alcohol has a huge and damaging effect on human beings." darkangel218 Mar 2013 #48
banning? why, when we talk harms do the pro whatever resort to ban. no ban. and i am done seabeyond Mar 2013 #56
Good for you. I bet if there was ever a referendum, you'd be in minority. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #70
Your last line is exactly correct. For many people "one drink is one too many, bike man Mar 2013 #169
Well, the dead ones did. aquart Mar 2013 #50
Has DUI stopped since changing the age from 21 to 18?? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #59
It has reduced tremedously dsc Mar 2013 #133
Interviewed late 80s with an insurance lobby. ieoeja Mar 2013 #156
No. Changing the age from 21 to 18 always increases it. aquart Mar 2013 #160
And outright prohibition of alcohol would probably decrease DUI further laundry_queen Mar 2013 #206
As evidenced by the medical problems and low test scores of European children. Lizzie Poppet Mar 2013 #51
my brother is a genius. test easy. like 186. fuckin genius. he is still killing himself with alcohol seabeyond Mar 2013 #60
So maybe its a genetic problem? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #72
there really is no if ands or buts about if. of course it is. nt seabeyond Mar 2013 #94
So I guess the implication is that you and yours don't count. randome Mar 2013 #96
lol. i am done. another thing i learned well, living among alcoholics especially talking booze. nt seabeyond Mar 2013 #98
this is confounded with many other things, including personality La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #173
I disagree. bowens43 Mar 2013 #12
Immature to handle alcohol but mature enough to die on the battle field. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #16
That breeze you felt was his comment flying over your head joeglow3 Mar 2013 #97
+1 RedstDem Mar 2013 #132
18 was legal drinking age Go Vols Mar 2013 #15
I spring breaked in New Orleans back in '95 when both I and the drinking age were 18. sadbear Mar 2013 #18
La. had a legal loophole Go Vols Mar 2013 #26
Some states allow minors, even those under 18 Mariana Mar 2013 #106
Ahh okay, so Ronnie was the one who upped the age. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #19
Yes, federal highway funds. closeupready Mar 2013 #39
18 year-olds are going to get alcohol if they want. sadbear Mar 2013 #17
+1000 darkangel218 Mar 2013 #21
they can also get meth or cocaine if they want to. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #63
And how good has this law worked so far? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #67
NO law prevents ANYONE from doing ANYTHING. randome Mar 2013 #73
Not when it comes to drinking alcohol. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #74
Maybe you're judging college dorm life by the likes of 'Animal House'? randome Mar 2013 #77
Ive lived in one in my 20s and i judge by what i saw. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #79
Some on going research plcdude Mar 2013 #105
I live in a public university college town in Texas and work on campus. sadbear Mar 2013 #164
Yes, doing those things are a part of becoming a adult. sadbear Mar 2013 #87
We can't pass a law that makes parents show their kids anything. randome Mar 2013 #89
I'm not suggesting any new laws. sadbear Mar 2013 #92
You may be legally allowed to give your kids alchohol. Mariana Mar 2013 #108
I've allowed my child the occasional sip xmas74 Mar 2013 #180
I totally agree with this approach. sadbear Mar 2013 #181
Sorry, but this is the LEAST of our problems. n/t Dawgs Mar 2013 #20
Its one of our problems. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #23
You're wrong? n/t Dawgs Mar 2013 #100
Let them drink on base in the E club. cherokeeprogressive Mar 2013 #22
Why? Because There Aren't Enough Alcohol-Related Deaths And Injuries Already? Paladin Mar 2013 #24
Whats the difference between 18 and 21?? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #30
Change age to go to war to 21. Lex Mar 2013 #58
How about you make the argument that the age to..... NCTraveler Mar 2013 #29
Maybe i shouldve. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #34
"How about leave it up to our citizens to decide when or if they want to consume alcohol." NCTraveler Mar 2013 #43
So wanting this hypocrisy to end makes.me a libertarian? lmao!!!! darkangel218 Mar 2013 #53
"So wanting this hypocrisy to end makes.me a libertarian? lmao!!!!" NCTraveler Mar 2013 #71
Im all for that. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #76
Allowing citizens to decide on issues relating to their own bodies is a bad idea? Heywood J Mar 2013 #203
I hope you can see the difference between regulating toxins... NCTraveler Mar 2013 #213
Your harmful toxin, my occasional way to relax after a shitty day at work. Heywood J Mar 2013 #214
You compared your way to relax after a shitty day at work.... NCTraveler Mar 2013 #216
I agree. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #41
either that or raise the age.... actslikeacarrot Mar 2013 #31
Exactly. nt darkangel218 Mar 2013 #35
I agree. A glass of wine or a beer with a meal is essential, IMO. closeupready Mar 2013 #36
How about Crepuscular Mar 2013 #45
Because you know what the conservative sates would do. nt darkangel218 Mar 2013 #49
What? Crepuscular Mar 2013 #81
Conservative states would never lower the age and you know it. darkangel218 Mar 2013 #83
I don't know Crepuscular Mar 2013 #93
I don't know about that. xmas74 Mar 2013 #183
That never worked well in the past. randome Mar 2013 #52
Worked fine for me Crepuscular Mar 2013 #78
It didn't stop me, either. randome Mar 2013 #86
I grew up in Missouri. xmas74 Mar 2013 #184
And punish those that are 'early' to mature? laundry_queen Mar 2013 #207
All laws cater to the lowest common denominator. Speed limits are a good example. randome Mar 2013 #209
Oh yes, the societal upheaval laundry_queen Mar 2013 #212
Raise the age to go to war to 21. Lex Mar 2013 #55
+10000000000000000000000000000000 n/t Flying Squirrel Mar 2013 #199
I agree. kiva Mar 2013 #57
+1000 darkangel218 Mar 2013 #64
This will probably pipi_k Mar 2013 #125
The part of your brain that helps you understand the consequences of your actions Zoeisright Mar 2013 #140
Pushing 60 here too, kiva Mar 2013 #141
Oh, I agree about pipi_k Mar 2013 #197
they need to raise the BAC for DUI datasuspect Mar 2013 #61
do gooders? darkangel218 Mar 2013 #80
That's about one of the most politically incorrect things you can say, Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #103
This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Mar 2013 #66
Or maybe raise the military age to 21... bamacrat Mar 2013 #69
I would be in favor of a graduated approach lolly Mar 2013 #84
+1 million darkangel218 Mar 2013 #85
I'll try this again .. polly7 Mar 2013 #99
Don't you think Crepuscular Mar 2013 #126
It does seem a little odd, polly7 Mar 2013 #135
18 YEAR OLDS SHOULDNT BE GOING TO WARS EITHER leftyohiolib Mar 2013 #101
+1 By the way. Orsino Mar 2013 #110
Because you've fallen under the marketing delusion that alcohol somehow makes one stronger. randome Mar 2013 #112
Nope. Orsino Mar 2013 #128
Absolutely. And no 20 year old refrains ftom drinking because of the law. Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #102
That was the argument for voting, "you're old enough to kill, but not for voting" still_one Mar 2013 #104
Before we do it, we should consult with neuroscientists. JDPriestly Mar 2013 #107
If we let them vote then they should be able to drink AngryAmish Mar 2013 #113
See post #111. randome Mar 2013 #114
Some agencies will not rent a car to anyone under 25! KamaAina Mar 2013 #117
Yes, I saw that, too! randome Mar 2013 #118
But you can be charged as an adult in a crime Go Vols Mar 2013 #123
I think 99% of us would agree that's fucked up. randome Mar 2013 #124
Make it 19 like it is in Ontario and some other places. NYC Liberal Mar 2013 #116
I agree wholeheartedly. And I have two teenagers. Arugula Latte Mar 2013 #120
this xmas74 Mar 2013 #186
At the height of the MADD frenzy in the early '80s, there were calls to raise the age to 25! KamaAina Mar 2013 #121
You were born in the wrong generation, Dark. nt raccoon Mar 2013 #122
Many 18-year-olds are still in high school. duffyduff Mar 2013 #129
When I was 15 and went to high school for a year in France aint_no_life_nowhere Mar 2013 #136
The best part of the 21 drinking age is it ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #137
And Crepuscular Mar 2013 #145
That only happens to an extreme minority. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #168
Rare? Crepuscular Mar 2013 #174
I know probably 20 people who have criminal records for underage drinking. Gravitycollapse Mar 2013 #191
Oh my god, not this fucking stupid shit again. Zoeisright Mar 2013 #138
Just like all those dead Europeans lying on the streets over there. Heywood J Mar 2013 #204
Read what others have said about when NJ and NY 'experimented' with 18. randome Mar 2013 #205
I remember different ages for men and women skorpo Mar 2013 #143
I don't believe that most 18 year olds are mature enough yet. LiberalFighter Mar 2013 #151
Agreed. If you're old enough to sign contracts, vote, get married, go to war... Comrade Grumpy Mar 2013 #153
I say raise it to 25 years of age Politicalboi Mar 2013 #155
So you're fine with throwing people in jail for using an intoxicating substance? name not needed Mar 2013 #166
My son is 20 and in the service Marrah_G Mar 2013 #159
There have been numerous posts here on DU regarding the brain bike man Mar 2013 #165
i agree La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2013 #172
it should be 18 samsingh Mar 2013 #178
As an ex-bartender I agree. Cleita Mar 2013 #179
It was 18 for a while in NJ and it didn't work Jersey Devil Mar 2013 #182
they changed it back to 18 BainsBane Mar 2013 #185
It doesn't matter! Free-dom! Free-dom! randome Mar 2013 #193
I will go even beyond that. Any responsible parent should be allowed to have bluestate10 Mar 2013 #187
Define 'responsible parent'. Or should the State do that? randome Mar 2013 #192
I have seen booze ads aimed at 12 year olds for 55 years . olddots Mar 2013 #190
What *good* comes from introducing an 18 year old to the legal system RedCappedBandit Mar 2013 #195
How about raising the legal entry age into our armed forces to 21 instead? EO-fing-M Flying Squirrel Mar 2013 #198
+100% /nt demwing Mar 2013 #202
The military argument is Tien1985 Mar 2013 #208
Maybe we should just ban it Niceguy1 Mar 2013 #211

union_maid

(3,502 posts)
1. Well, it used to be here in NY
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:03 AM
Mar 2013

Varies from state to state. I remember back in the day, when 19 year old boys were drafted into the military and sent to Vietnam it seemed so wrong to have them sent off from here to another state, before going overseas, where they were not treated as adults. Of course, the other side of that was that with some easily obtained phony proof we were getting into bars at age 14. Seriously. We did it and got served drinks all the time. The other downside is the drunk driving related deaths. They're bad enough now. Lowering the drinking age further would no doubt make it worse. I do think that a military exemption from the law would not be out of line. If you are assumed to be able operate lethal weapons or offer up your own life, seems to me that you should be able to enjoy the full benefits of adulthood. Even better, maybe we should stop sending kids off to war.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
5. Maybe we should stop going to useless wars alltogether.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:09 AM
Mar 2013

Regardless of age, we need to stop being the worlds police and take care of our own country. Over 2 trilions wasted only on the Iraq war. Plus 200,000 lives. Let's freaking stop this madness!!

aquart

(69,014 posts)
42. Yes. NY tried it. Big boon to funeral industry.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:51 AM
Mar 2013

Stupid idea then. Stupid idea now.

BTW, the reason 18-20 year olds make such great cannon fodder is why we don't want them to drink and drive.

Kahuna

(27,366 posts)
95. Yep! Then for a minute, NJ tried it. That was another boon to the
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:40 AM
Mar 2013

funeral industry, causing both NY AND NJ to jack it back up to 21.

markpkessinger

(8,909 posts)
196. On the other hand . . .
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 07:58 PM
Mar 2013

. . . I was in college in New Jersey when the drinking age was 18 (Westminster Choir College, a music conservatory in Princeton). The school, in its wisdom (and to no small amount of criticism), opened an on-campus pub, on the theory that it was better if students drank on campus then getting into cars and driving to an off-campus bar someplace.

Heywood J

(2,515 posts)
200. Meanwhile, other countries have it.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 07:57 AM
Mar 2013

Not a ridiculous boon for the funeral industries there. Why might that be the case?

In Canada, the drinking ages are 19 in Ontario and 18 in Quebec. In France, Germany, Russia, Poland, Ireland, and the UK, it's 18. In Denmark and Italy, it's 16.

 

Helen Reddy

(998 posts)
2. How about if we just stop
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:07 AM
Mar 2013

asking 18 year olds to fight and die in wars?

aquart

(69,014 posts)
44. Because most us still live on planet Earth, not Fantasy Land.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:53 AM
Mar 2013

Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
139. Oh, right.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:28 PM
Mar 2013

Because something is hard, we shouldn't do it. Got it.

 

Helen Reddy

(998 posts)
154. Thanks for such a sweet reply. n/t
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:40 PM
Mar 2013
 

Coyotl

(15,262 posts)
3. Alcohol is an immense social problem and alcoholism a terrbile disease, why make it worse?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:07 AM
Mar 2013

Better to raise the age to 24 or so.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
6. Because sometimes people want to escape reality.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:10 AM
Mar 2013

Alcoholism it is indeed a horible disease, but not everyone who drinks is an alcoholic.

 

Coyotl

(15,262 posts)
13. So, drink poison, you say. Yeah, brilliant solution to make things worse.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:23 AM
Mar 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
37. Just because you chose to be straight age, doesn't mean everyone else does.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:46 AM
Mar 2013

I never smoked pot nor I ever will. Do I have the right to say others shouldn't just because I don't? And a beer every once and then hasn't killed anyone. Get off your high horse and look at the facts objectively please.

Occulus

(20,599 posts)
171. "Do I have the right to say others shouldn't just because I don't?"
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:06 PM
Mar 2013

A great many American citizens, some of whom have accounts right here on DU, do in fact believe exactly that.

liberal N proud

(61,194 posts)
28. I started drinking legally at 18 and it is not a problem for me.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:35 AM
Mar 2013

It does not make any difference what age people start drinking because for many, it is a problem regardless of when they start drinking.

If people are educated on alcoholism, there is a better chance they will not become alcoholic while still others are effected by one sip.

The problem is the way alcohol is percived in this country and how we glamorize it with ads.

MineralMan

(151,198 posts)
32. That's not really the issue at hand.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:40 AM
Mar 2013

We consider 18 year olds to be adults in almost all other ways. Equal treatment under the law is part of US law. That's the issue being presented. Yes, alcohol can be a bad thing, but it is a legal substance for adults. 18 year olds are adults by law.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
38. Adolescence can last until 20 or so.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:47 AM
Mar 2013
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adolescence

'Equal treatment' can also mean we push the age far enough ahead so that 'late bloomers' are physically adult.

MineralMan

(151,198 posts)
54. Yes, I understand. But Americans are deemed to be adults at 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:58 AM
Mar 2013

That's the law. Either they have full adult status or they do not. There's the rub.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
68. Can't be President at that age.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:08 AM
Mar 2013

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
127. Neither can 34 year olds
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:58 PM
Mar 2013

what's your point?

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
131. That no one is an adult in all aspects at age 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:07 PM
Mar 2013

There are laws that delay certain matters until age 21 or beyond.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
142. Drinking age was 18 when I turned 18
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:41 PM
Mar 2013

and look. I'm still alive. it's a miracle!

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
144. And that means what to this debate?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:52 PM
Mar 2013
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
146. That you are NOT deemed an adult in all ways upon the age of 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:05 PM
Mar 2013

You have to wait until 21 to:
Apply to adopt a child.

Gamble.

Go on a cruise unsupervised.

Rent a car.

Hold an airline transport pilot's license for an airplane, helicopter.

Apply for a provisional license to drive a large passenger vehicle or heavy goods vehicle.

Supervise a learner driver (providing you have held a full license for the same type of vehicle for at least three years)

In some states, you cannot marry without parent(s)' permission until 21.

You also cannot be President at age 18. You have to be 35.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
148. No, that doesn't mean that at all
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:22 PM
Mar 2013

That's an office qualification, not a right of adulthood. Hell, by that logic all immigrants never reach adulthood, as they can never be president.

And your other examples are choices of private companies.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
152. These are all state or federal restrictions on age.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:25 PM
Mar 2013

Except for the rental car one. I'm not sure about that.
And apparently the cruise restrictions are also individual company restrictions.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
157. And you haven't shown they are reasonable either.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:22 PM
Mar 2013

If your an adult at 18 and subject to all the responsibilities, then you should get all the privileges. If society doesn't want to do that, then lets make juvenile laws apply till your 21.

Our drinking age is ridiculous. Europeans drink at younger ages and still manage to kick our ass academically.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
162. It wasn't my intention to show them as reasonable. They exist.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:53 PM
Mar 2013

Fewer drunk driving deaths will always favor keeping the age at 21. I don't think any state or federal change is in the works so this entire thread is a debate about something that will never change.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
163. The same was said of segregation in 1950.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:59 PM
Mar 2013

Give it time.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
167. Yes, but given the concerns expressed on this thread about physical brain development...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:31 PM
Mar 2013

...I don't think segregation and under-age drinking have that much in common. I also don't see any state in the future lowering the age back to 18 and then welcoming the increase in deaths related to drinking. Not going to happen, IMO.

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
170. Like I said earlier...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:02 PM
Mar 2013

Europeans drink at younger ages and still manage to kick our ass academically. The brain development argument is and remains, bullshit.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
189. The population of those deaths would expand considerably
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:16 PM
Mar 2013

18 year olds have far more interaction with 17 an 16 year old adolescents because they are very often in the same peer groups in high school.
Yes, high school students manage to get their hands on booze already, but making it easier would have tragic results.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
177. Lottery and bingo are both 18 in my state.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:13 PM
Mar 2013

Just saying.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
194. Huh. I'd call that 'gambling' but apparently the state doesn't.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:32 PM
Mar 2013

City Lights

(25,796 posts)
149. Absolutely nothing. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:23 PM
Mar 2013

NutmegYankee

(16,477 posts)
150. Exactly! nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:23 PM
Mar 2013

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
158. But you can be tried as an adult at an even younger age.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:40 PM
Mar 2013

14 year olds can be tried as adults.

Neither the age of being tried as an adult or the age of becoming president has anything to do with the drinking age.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
161. The other items I listed DO have to do with adult responsibilities that do not accrue at 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:50 PM
Mar 2013

Such as being able to adopt a child.

I disagree vehemently with the concept of trying minors as adults.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
176. And which is the more "adult" responsibility?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:12 PM
Mar 2013

Having a beer or adopting a child?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
215. More like the mid-twenties...."kids" have longer childhoods now than they ever did...!
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 07:54 AM
Mar 2013

aquart

(69,014 posts)
47. Gosh. Prohibition.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:55 AM
Mar 2013

Are all the proven dumb ideas coming out to play today? Is this CPAC?

 

Melon_Lord

(105 posts)
82. It's reality...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:21 AM
Mar 2013

Better to get experience and build up instead of being dropped into it in full adulthood.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
109. At 18 you are an adult.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:12 PM
Mar 2013

The idea that some adults get rights that are denied to others is horrifying in a free society, and the fact that some people would deny others equality "for the good of society" is infuriating.

Either 18 is "adult", or it isn't. If society determines that 18 year olds are too immature to drink, then they should also be stripped of the right to marry, the right to vote, the right to fight in stupid wars, and the right to determine their own destiny. If they are not adults, they shouldn't have the rights of adults.

And if they ARE adults, they should have ALL THE RIGHTS of adults. Equality should never be dependent on someones moral or social outlook.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
111. Not everything accrues at age 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:17 PM
Mar 2013

At 21, you can:
Apply to adopt a child.

Gamble.

Go on a cruise unsupervised.

Rent a car.

Hold an airline transport pilot's license for an airplane, helicopter.

Apply for a provisional license to drive a large passenger vehicle or heavy goods vehicle.

Supervise a learner driver (providing you have held a full license for the same type of vehicle for at least three years)

You also cannot be President at age 18.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
130. And those should be removed as well.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:04 PM
Mar 2013

If 18 isn't old enough to be an adult, then an 18 year old shouldn't BE an adult.

If an 18 year old IS an adult, then they should have ALL the rights of an adult.


Quite frankly, if you're a decent parent, the teen years are supposed to be the years that you're preparing a kid for adulthood. If a kid hits the ground at 18 and is clueless, that's an indictment of his mother or fathers poor parenting skills. There are plenty of 18 years olds who are raised properly and are mature enough to accomplish all of the things that are currently denied to 18 year olds. It's inexcusable that law abiding and mature 18 year olds should be denied their legal rights simply because some of their peers choose not to be. The logic that justifies this discrimination is the same logic traditionally used to justify discrimination against minorities.

FWIW, this isn't an issue I particularly care about. I tend to be a bit of an absolutist on ALL of our civil rights. Equality denied to one is equality denied to all. Even when we're talking about an 18 year old and a can of beer.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
134. The laws aren't intended to sleight 'law abiding and mature' 18 year olds, though.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:12 PM
Mar 2013

Age limits, like highway speed limits, are designed as a base point to accommodate 'law abiding and mature' individuals as well as those who are neither.

The State isn't going to get into the business of evaluating someone's maturity so the limit is set high enough to 'catch' the majority of individuals and low enough to make it feasible for most.

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
188. Our society makes alcohol abuse worse by hiding alcohol from the young.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:59 PM
Mar 2013

Your prescription will be equivalent to throwing gasoline onto a fire. When I was in school, I was told that Denmark allowed children of my age of 13 to drink. I don't know whether what I was told is true, but what I do know is that alcohol is not held at the mystical level that it is here in regards to the young using alcohol. The drinking age should be lower to 18 and parents should be allowed to serve their children alcohol and be held responsible for their children's conduct.

Heywood J

(2,515 posts)
201. Is your argument that because some are not mature enough to handle it,
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:01 AM
Mar 2013

then no one else should be able to enjoy it? Should that also apply to cars or sex? STDs are an immense social problem as well. Incurable gonorrhea comes to mind.

 

Coyotl

(15,262 posts)
210. No, but I remember 45 years ago well enough to know.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 09:04 AM
Mar 2013

kdmorris

(5,649 posts)
4. You probably mean "changed back to"
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:07 AM
Mar 2013
 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
147. A great link when they call Liberals "nanny-staters".
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:17 PM
Mar 2013

When Liberalism was at its peak in the 1970s almost every state lowered their drinking age.

When the Reagan Revolution took hold in the 1980s almost every state raised their drinking age.


raccoon

(32,382 posts)
7. I believe that 18 year olds who're in the military can buy alcohol on base. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:13 AM
Mar 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
8. They are? i was not aware of that.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:14 AM
Mar 2013

NaturalHigh

(12,778 posts)
9. On some bases, yes.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:16 AM
Mar 2013

It's usually at the discretion of the base commander or the MAJCOM commander. Overseas, a lot depends on local laws.

 

bike man

(620 posts)
175. Not necessarily. Link in message text box
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:12 PM
Mar 2013
http://usmilitary.about.com/od/justicelawlegislation/f/faqdrinking.htm

Several years ago, Congress passed a law (USC 10, Section 2683), that mandates that military bases adopt the exact same drinking age as the state (or country) that the base is located in.

The legislation allows an installation commander to adopt a lower drinking age if the installation is within 50 miles of a state or country with a lower drinking age. In that case, the Installation Commander *MAY* adopt the drinking age of that state/country.

On Installations that are within 50 miles of a border with a lower drinking age, some Installation Commanders have elected to adopt the lower drinking age, while others have not
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
10. Bodies and brains are still developing at that age. So no.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:16 AM
Mar 2013

northoftheborder

(7,636 posts)
88. Absolutely true, has been studied and proved, that the young brain does not become fully adult....
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:28 AM
Mar 2013

....until in the 20's. Their ability to perform based on sound judgement is NOT developed, no matter how intelligent, or how they have been taught. Scientific studies of the brain have proved this. Too young to be soldiers, also, in my opinion.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
90. Shit, EVERYONE is too young to be a soldier.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:32 AM
Mar 2013
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
11. studies show the younger a kid starts drinking the more problems in the future. i am ok with
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:17 AM
Mar 2013

booze at 21. if it helps only a few to wait a few more years before starting.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
14. Do you honestly think 18 years old dont drink?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:23 AM
Mar 2013

They do, they even forge IDs and do all kinds of stupid things to buy a beer. Maybe you should take a look at the drinking age all over the world, its 18 or lower. Restrictions don't make things better, they make it worse. They entice young people to use and abuse alcohol, just because its forbidden. How about getting out of this shell and hypocrisy. If 18 year olds are too young to drink, then don't freaking draft them in the wars! That simple!!

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
25. do you honestly think that is a worthwile question. how foolish is that and why would you get that
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:31 AM
Mar 2013

from the post you replied to.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
27. Yes it is a worthwhile question. How foolish is to perpetuate hypocrisy.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:35 AM
Mar 2013

Our 18 year olds are fighting and dying for whatever causes the Ones in charge decide. Let's drop the hypocrisy before we decide what's good or bad for our young ones. They matter too, you know.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
33. you got from my post, i feel with the drinking age at 21... that our 18 year olds are not drinking?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:40 AM
Mar 2013

there would be the foolishness. read my first post. that is not even close to what i said. not kinda, sorta or maybe.

all you did was create a strawman.

i have a line of family. my grandmother died of alcoholism. my uncle. my grandfather beat two of his children all his kids life. my mother died because of alcohol. my brother is killing himself with alcohol. he has damaged his three children. and i am doing the counselling and care for those kids. and a cousin drunk, died at 17 in a rollover. we do not even know what that side of the family would genetically die from because they die first because of alcohol.

i have two boys. we also have alcoholism on my husbands side. maternal. so both my kids can pick it up also.

do your snarky concerns of hypocrisy elsewhere. alcohol has a huge and damaging effect on human beings.

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
40. It's not the 18 year olds who are alcoholics
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:49 AM
Mar 2013

Europe handles alcohol a lot better than we do. A wine with dinner is the way it should be done, not this frat drinking party stuff or even bars.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
46. first, that is not factually correct. i ahd been told a long time how well europe does. having
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:54 AM
Mar 2013

this issue being huge in my family, with two boys, and massive concern on walking this properly and not from a position of emotion, i have done a lot of research. those outcries we talk about doing so well feeding alcohol to their kids do not grow up into more responsible drinkers and their rate of alcoholism is higher than they u.s.

that is a myth, that drinking young helps toward moderation. and that is my only goal with booze, when it has to do with my teens. not an unrealistic expectation like refraining from booze.

and no. 18 yr olds are not alcoholics. they simply die and other ills because of the effects of booze. the point?

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
62. Same with 21 yr olds.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:03 AM
Mar 2013
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
65. But SOME 21 year olds will have matured enough -physically and mentally- to dodge that bullet.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:06 AM
Mar 2013
 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
75. Probably wishful thinking.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:14 AM
Mar 2013

People will drink at some point and.discover if they like it or not and to what extent.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
91. fact. hence, my choice to keep it at 21. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:36 AM
Mar 2013

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
115. Sorry. That is not entirely true.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:25 PM
Mar 2013

Mexico leads the world in deaths from liver disease. We are second -- partly because of our horrible health care system.

But third is Germany. Not that far from us.

After a big drop in the number of deaths due to liver disease, Brazil follows as number four.

The big surprise for me is that France is 101st. They drink wine with meals a lot.

Of course, alcohol is only one factor in liver disease. The Germans and we Americans eat a lot of animal fats too.

Here are the statistics.

http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/mor_alc_liv_dis-mortality-alcoholic-liver-disease

But, are deaths due to liver disease the measure?

The French government has been urged in a report to "snap out of its state of national denial" and take urgent steps to "denormalise drinking".

Hervé Chabalier, a leading journalist and former alcoholic who wrote the report, said: "In this country we have always, culturally, looked at alcohol through a magnifying glass: we just see the good side, never the fact that ... drink is the third greatest cause of avoidable deaths in France."

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2005/nov/25/france.jonhenley

That article is dated 2005.

One advantage of having no drinking age limit at all is that young teenagers begin to drink with their parents. It isn't just something they do with their equally immature buddies.

Still, personally, I would prefer we didn't have any alcoholic drinks at all. But that's just my personal preference. And I don't think I should impose it on others.



 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
119. Well by Europe I meant France :)
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:36 PM
Mar 2013

I enjoy a wine with dinner, and I think it adds to enjoyment of food. Its too bad that isn't the tradition we have. If anything the shot and peer pressure mentality is what hurts an 18 year old. But that still exists at 21 so unless you wait til kids aren't hanging out with each other, increasing the age from 18 to 21 isn't a whole lot of difference.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
48. "alcohol has a huge and damaging effect on human beings."
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:55 AM
Mar 2013

So does banning it. Everything done in excess is bad. If I decide I'm going to eat half pound of ice cream a day, sooner or later it will get me sick or even kill me. Banning 18 year olds from having a beer is not the key to our problems. How about teaching our young ones whats goof for then and what isn't? Banning alcohol its only.making them getting it anyway and most likely abusing it, since its illegal, and maybe " won't have the chance to get it again".

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
56. banning? why, when we talk harms do the pro whatever resort to ban. no ban. and i am done
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:58 AM
Mar 2013

with this conversation. i have no desire to justify my position or even discuss it. you asked a question. i gave my opinion. wont be changed. nor will yours. a vote goes up? i will vote 21. that simple

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
70. Good for you. I bet if there was ever a referendum, you'd be in minority.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:09 AM
Mar 2013
 

bike man

(620 posts)
169. Your last line is exactly correct. For many people "one drink is one too many,
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:43 PM
Mar 2013

all of them is not enough."


I've learned that many people with a drinking problem

think about drinking all day at work,

state that they *need* a drink to relax/unwind/what-have you rather than *want* a drink,

will start numerous conversations (or even posts on forums) with alcohol as the topic,

often will state they "can stop drinking any time they want to" but never get around to wanting to

will attempt to justify their drinking behavior in multiple ways (hard day, onerous boss, etc.)

And then deny that alcohol is a big part of their lives and may even be causing them problems.

edited to clarify subject line

aquart

(69,014 posts)
50. Well, the dead ones did.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:56 AM
Mar 2013

And the friends in the car with them.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
59. Has DUI stopped since changing the age from 21 to 18??
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:00 AM
Mar 2013

Lol

dsc

(53,386 posts)
133. It has reduced tremedously
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:11 PM
Mar 2013

I don't think the age gets all the credit but it is an undeniable fact that drunk driving deaths and drunk driving accidents have dropped precipitously in terms of rate per mile driven since the mid 1980's when the drinking age was raised.

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
156. Interviewed late 80s with an insurance lobby.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:54 PM
Mar 2013

"90% of our effort goes into combating drunk driving, can you guess why?"

"Because it lowers your costs?"

"Nope. Only 5% of traffic fatalities are definitely linked to drunk driving. Our statisticians believe that could be as much as double. But if we take any accident where alcohol was involved and simply assume drinking was at fault, we can bump that number up to 50% of all fatalities."

"If you're not saving costs, why do it?"

"Increased revenue. The more people hit with DUI, the more who have to buy high option insurance. Sure, the good insurance companies refuse to give them insurance at all. But those companies actually own the high option insurance companies. So they aren't really losing anything.

"Plus the demonization of drunk driving allows us to charge more for higher option insurance. A decade ago we would have gotten raked over the coals for the rates we charge today. Now everybody sees it as part of the punishment drunk drivers deserve. They see it as a fine. We just get to keep their fine!"


Paraphrased conversation obviously. But it gets the gist. The 5-10% versus 50% thing really surprised me.


And, of course, I do not think it is in any way coincidental that MADDness and devestation of the Democratic Party in the rural areas occurred together. When/where I grew up a lot of political discussion got done in the taverns. Today, the majority of those are closed. A lot more public socialization is now centered on church. Because in the rural areas there is no public transportation or taxis, etc. My father who had been involved on the edge of the political scene his whole life became a virtual shut-in.

No way was he going to the church. And he could no longer pop out to the tavern in the evening except when he could make arrangements for special occasions. It's not like he can just pick up the phone on a whim and easily find somebody who is going on a 20 mile round trip to take him to the bar then repeat the trip a couple hours later to return him home.

I assume Reagan started his War on Alcohol because he was, well, Reagan. But sometimes he was pretty shrewd. He predicted cutting taxes at the Federal level would destroy the Democratic stranglehold on local/state politics. Down ticket Dems would get the blame for either cutting services (as Reagan's big cuts were to block grants given to local government) or raising taxes.

He was proven right about that. Maybe he also realized the War on Alcohol would give rise to a more staid, insular and Conservative mindset in rural areas.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
160. No. Changing the age from 21 to 18 always increases it.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:47 PM
Mar 2013

But why anyone thinks drunk driving is worth an LOL is beyond me.

And yes, some idiot teenager with a half-grown brain will always manage to get some garbage and then go for a drive. We mop 'em up on Long Island all the time.

BUT WE MOP UP LESS BLOOD AND FEWER CORPSES SINCE WE WENT BACK TO 21.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
206. And outright prohibition of alcohol would probably decrease DUI further
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:34 AM
Mar 2013

but is that a good reason to ban alcohol for everyone?

The drinking age is 18 where I am. I'm of the mind that if you are deemed an adult at 18, then you should be allowed all the responsibilities and privileges of an adult. If you think that's too young, then EVERYTHING should be changed to 21 - voting, driving, etc. I'm not a fan of 'staggered entry' into adulthood as bureaucrats deem it.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
51. As evidenced by the medical problems and low test scores of European children.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:57 AM
Mar 2013

Oh, wait...

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
60. my brother is a genius. test easy. like 186. fuckin genius. he is still killing himself with alcohol
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:00 AM
Mar 2013

and made his kids life hell.

sheeeeit, that whole line of family that kills themselves thru alcohol are genius. so really, what? so.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
72. So maybe its a genetic problem?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:10 AM
Mar 2013
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
94. there really is no if ands or buts about if. of course it is. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:37 AM
Mar 2013
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
96. So I guess the implication is that you and yours don't count.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:40 AM
Mar 2013

Not sure how much more you need to explain in order to get your point across.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
98. lol. i am done. another thing i learned well, living among alcoholics especially talking booze. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:43 AM
Mar 2013
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
173. this is confounded with many other things, including personality
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:07 PM
Mar 2013

the kind of kid that would break a law is different from one who wouldn't

a cross cultural perspective would be more accurate at separating this confound

 

bowens43

(16,064 posts)
12. I disagree.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:18 AM
Mar 2013

18 year olds are to immature to handle alcohol in a responsible manner.

It seems kind of silly to me to suggest that since they can fight wars they should be able to drink. What you should be doing is arguing that they're too you to go to war.

If most of the world jumped off a bridge would you.....?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
16. Immature to handle alcohol but mature enough to die on the battle field.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:24 AM
Mar 2013

O...k.

 

joeglow3

(6,228 posts)
97. That breeze you felt was his comment flying over your head
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:43 AM
Mar 2013

I really think you are trying to be obtuse.

 

RedstDem

(1,239 posts)
132. +1
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:07 PM
Mar 2013

18 year old's are too immature to go war.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
15. 18 was legal drinking age
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:23 AM
Mar 2013

when I was 18.Ronnie Raygun threatened to withhold Fed $$$ if states didn't jump it to 21.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
18. I spring breaked in New Orleans back in '95 when both I and the drinking age were 18.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:26 AM
Mar 2013

When I went back two years later, I was 20 and the drinking age was 21. Bummer!

But do you think that stopped me?

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
26. La. had a legal loophole
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:31 AM
Mar 2013

that allowed until '95 to change.But 18 yr olds can still drink in bars with a parent or guardian in New Orleans,maybe the whole state.
I know because my 18 year old went into bars with me a few years back while there.

Mariana

(15,623 posts)
106. Some states allow minors, even those under 18
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:05 PM
Mar 2013

to drink if their parent or guardian is with them. And some prohibit everyone under 21 from drinking under any circumstances. Every states has its own variations, but there are a lot of exceptions to the general "no drinking under age 21" principle.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
19. Ahh okay, so Ronnie was the one who upped the age.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:27 AM
Mar 2013

Why am I not surprised.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
39. Yes, federal highway funds.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:49 AM
Mar 2013

Part of an anti-drunk driving campaign spearheaded by Mothers Against Drunk Driving.

I think the anti-drunk driving campaign was necessary and good, but raising the drinking age was probably not the best way to get there.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
17. 18 year-olds are going to get alcohol if they want.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:24 AM
Mar 2013

Lawyers makes a killing (especially in college towns like mine) defending MIP's.

If we could just remove this horrible, almost arbitrarily-set drinking age, perhaps more parents would teach their children how to enjoy alcohol responsibly. As it is, a lot of parents, too, think young people should wait until they are "legal" before they start drinking alcohol.

Me, I'm going to start offering my children beer and wine at the dinner table (in appropriate amounts, of course) when they graduate high school. Heck, maybe even sooner if they demonstrate tremendous responsibility at a younger age. That way, when they get to college, drinking alcohol won't be a novel thing, and perhaps they'll avoid binge drinking, drinking and driving, and other irresponsible behavior.

Proper parent modelling is the key.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
21. +1000
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:28 AM
Mar 2013

You said everything that had to be said.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
63. they can also get meth or cocaine if they want to.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:04 AM
Mar 2013

I don't have a problem with a parent offering an 18 year old a glass of wine with dinner, but let's face it, the majority of teenagers don't drink for the taste. They drink to get drunk, to dance, to party, to have fun. That very often ends in disaster such as drinking and driving, rape, alcohol poisoning, domestic abuse and other problems.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
67. And how good has this law worked so far?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:07 AM
Mar 2013

Do you know of anyone in college who hasn't gone binge drinking because its illegal? What I'm against is the hypocrisy. Either consider 18 old kids and stop drafting them in military and wars, or raise the legal drinking age.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
73. NO law prevents ANYONE from doing ANYTHING.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:10 AM
Mar 2013

But the majority of people do what they can to avoid breaking the law. Therefore, laws in general work.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
74. Not when it comes to drinking alcohol.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:13 AM
Mar 2013

If you've even lived in a college dorm you would know. All this law does is make money for cities and lawyers.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
77. Maybe you're judging college dorm life by the likes of 'Animal House'?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:17 AM
Mar 2013

Sure, some college kids will drink flagrantly and often enough they can assume the mantle of alcoholic by the age of 21. But many are still 'cowed' by the law -as is the purpose of all laws- and will not drink in excess because they know it's illegal.

It doesn't PREVENT someone from drinking but it forces a re-think of the consequences for many.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
79. Ive lived in one in my 20s and i judge by what i saw.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:19 AM
Mar 2013

plcdude

(5,334 posts)
105. Some on going research
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:05 PM
Mar 2013

in the area of college students and alcohol and other drugs. http://core.siu.edu/results.html
I think you will find it remarkable.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
164. I live in a public university college town in Texas and work on campus.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:04 PM
Mar 2013

No, it's not quite Animal House (that was set in the early 60's), but it can sometimes get pretty damn close.

And I'm not saying it's a problem. They're mostly responsible about, although I have seen a few eyebrows go missing on occasion. Most of these kids have earned the right to consume alcohol. They shouldn't have to go to court for it.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
87. Yes, doing those things are a part of becoming a adult.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:26 AM
Mar 2013

Experiences are important, even bad ones. If we don't try to keep alcohol from them, but rather show them how to drink responsibly (even to get drunk responsibly), perhaps we can lessen the disasters. I think making alcohol less prohibited is a good thing. Maybe it's not the best analogy, but when people try to keep kids from reading certain books and material, what are kids going to do? Make it openly available to them and they're naturally less interested in it. (I stopped drinking irresponsibly when I turned 21. Maybe I'm just speaking from personal experience though.)

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
89. We can't pass a law that makes parents show their kids anything.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:31 AM
Mar 2013

But I agree with you about being upfront with kids about all of it, alcohol, drugs, sex, etc. My daughters have good heads on their shoulders regarding all of these. They're fifteen. I even tell them they WILL want to experiment at least with alcohol at some time and that getting drunk isn't the worst thing that can happen to them so long as they take the right precautions.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
92. I'm not suggesting any new laws.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:37 AM
Mar 2013

And really, there's nothing to keep parents from providing alcohol to their own children before they're 21. Yeah, and I know there are some real shitty parents, but I do believe, to a certain extent, the drinking age laws gives parents an excuse for not teaching their children about alcohol.

Our parents try to teach us all kinds of things about becoming adult, but it seems most would prefer just to turn us loose on alcohol once we turn 21 instead of teaching us how to handle it before we start using it.

Mariana

(15,623 posts)
108. You may be legally allowed to give your kids alchohol.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:11 PM
Mar 2013

Many states permit minors to drink if their parent or guardian is with them. Some don't allow it in public, but they can drink at home with your permission. It's worth looking up your own state's law to see exactly what it says about that.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
180. I've allowed my child the occasional sip
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:25 PM
Mar 2013

from my wine glass. She'll accept it, take a sip and then doesn't want any more.

We try to treat it as not such a big deal. I want her to learn that you can drink just one drink and then stop.

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
181. I totally agree with this approach.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:28 PM
Mar 2013

Yes, they are going to push the envelope when the time comes, but that's not the point.

Providing guidance, IMO, is probably more helpful than anything else.

 

Dawgs

(14,755 posts)
20. Sorry, but this is the LEAST of our problems. n/t
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:27 AM
Mar 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
23. Its one of our problems.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:30 AM
Mar 2013

No problem is too small not to address. I bet our young men and women would agree.

 

Dawgs

(14,755 posts)
100. You're wrong? n/t
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:51 AM
Mar 2013
 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
22. Let them drink on base in the E club.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:29 AM
Mar 2013

Problem solved.

 

Paladin

(32,354 posts)
24. Why? Because There Aren't Enough Alcohol-Related Deaths And Injuries Already?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:30 AM
Mar 2013

We tried that drinking-at-18 thing in Texas decades ago, and it was an abject failure. And that "Old Enough To Fight/Old Enough To Drink" thing isn't nearly as persuasive as it used to be, absent a military draft. How about we concentrate on existing social problems before we create another one?
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
30. Whats the difference between 18 and 21??
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:37 AM
Mar 2013

Are 18y olds not mature enough to be drafted in wars?? Then why is it mandatory sign up for drafting at 18??

Lex

(34,108 posts)
58. Change age to go to war to 21.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:59 AM
Mar 2013

Those 2 years are crucial years in maturing.



 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
29. How about you make the argument that the age to.....
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:37 AM
Mar 2013

join the military should be raised to 21. I really don't see how the two are linked, yet throughout the thread you keep linking the two. If you are going to link the two, I believe it would be a morally superior argument to state the opposite. You can drink at 21, so why should that not be the age that one can fight in a war. Why send developing minds to war or make it easier for them to buy alcohol?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
34. Maybe i shouldve.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:41 AM
Mar 2013

But I do think 18 year olds are old enough to handle a war. I grew up in Europe. And Europe and the rest of the World thinks its ok to have a beer at 18. I didnt even drink any alcohol until 23 or so because I had no desire to. How about leave it up to our citizens to decide when or if they want to consume alcohol. We can vote, we can die in wars, but we can't have a beer. What a joke.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
43. "How about leave it up to our citizens to decide when or if they want to consume alcohol."
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:52 AM
Mar 2013

1) Because that is a very bad idea.
2) Because I am not a libertarian.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
53. So wanting this hypocrisy to end makes.me a libertarian? lmao!!!!
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:58 AM
Mar 2013
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
71. "So wanting this hypocrisy to end makes.me a libertarian? lmao!!!!"
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:09 AM
Mar 2013

No. But coming a step closer to eliminating the age for drug use is a libertarian idea. And once again, how in the world are the two connected. Why aren't you trying to raise the driving age to 18, or even 21. How about we make the driving age, age to go to war, and drinking age to 21. You see, for some reason your claim of hypocrisy isn't really about hypocrisy at all. It is just about lowering the drinking age. I think we should also raise the age to buy cigarettes to 21. You can't drink until 21, so why can you buy cigarettes at 21.

Drinking age:21
Smoking age: 21
Going to war: 21
Driving: 21

There. All you your perceived hypocrisy is gone. Even though none of them are related in any way at all.


 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
76. Im all for that.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:15 AM
Mar 2013

But its not gonna happen. The government needs its war machine all young and fresh.

Heywood J

(2,515 posts)
203. Allowing citizens to decide on issues relating to their own bodies is a bad idea?
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:08 AM
Mar 2013

No, definitely not a libertarian. Let me show you something:

43. "How about leave it up to our citizens to decide when or if they want to consume alcohol have an abortion."

1) Because that is a very bad idea.
2) Because I am not a libertarian.
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
213. I hope you can see the difference between regulating toxins...
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 11:59 AM
Mar 2013

and abortions. I am somewhat amazed at your reply. Equating the regulation of harmful intoxicants to an abortion. You wanted to show something, and you did. Just not what you wanted.

Heywood J

(2,515 posts)
214. Your harmful toxin, my occasional way to relax after a shitty day at work.
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 07:49 AM
Mar 2013

Must be nice to live in such a black-and-white world. I showed you that some people don't live the same way you do and hold the exact same thoughts you do.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
216. You compared your way to relax after a shitty day at work....
Thu Mar 21, 2013, 09:52 AM
Mar 2013

to abortion regulation. Now, your way to relax after a shitty day at wok, and abortions, has become an argument to lower the drinking age.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
41. I agree.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:50 AM
Mar 2013

I don't think 18 yr olds should drink or go to war. The part of the brain that can think through an action, through all the possible scenarios, to its logical conclusion is not fully developed yet at 18.

actslikeacarrot

(464 posts)
31. either that or raise the age....
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:38 AM
Mar 2013

....of servicemembers legally going overseas to 21. To me its hypocritical to have a different age for both.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
35. Exactly. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:41 AM
Mar 2013
 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
36. I agree. A glass of wine or a beer with a meal is essential, IMO.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:44 AM
Mar 2013

Though I won't touch alcohol if I'm driving, wine and beer can be paired well with meals, and there seems to be a lot of research showing it can have health benefits.

There are obviously health drawbacks, as well.

But there are health drawbacks with war, too, and yet off we send our boys and girls.

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
45. How about
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:54 AM
Mar 2013

How about we leave it up to the individual states to determine their legal drinking age instead of having a Federal mandate?

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
49. Because you know what the conservative sates would do. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:56 AM
Mar 2013

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
81. What?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:21 AM
Mar 2013

Leave the age at what the current Federal law is? At least the states who chose to do so could then lower the age if that was the will of the electorate.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
83. Conservative states would never lower the age and you know it.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:22 AM
Mar 2013

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
93. I don't know
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:37 AM
Mar 2013

I don't know that to be the case but let's say it is, if the age was not lowered then it would be no different then the existing status quo under Federal law, so what's the diff?

I'm not sure that drinking age is a partisan issue, the efforts that I've seen to raise the drinking age were based on public safety issues (groups like MADD, etc.), not based on political ideology.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
183. I don't know about that.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:37 PM
Mar 2013

There's a lot of good old boy, slapping on the back while giving your kid a sixer, kind of stuff going on in the conservative states.

I lived in Missouri, which tends to be more socially conservative, and much of the alcohol we had in high school came from a parent or from an athlete who was given it by a booster or someone with alumni.

If the lawmakers decide the law it wouldn't change. If the voting public gets to vote I could absolutely see the age lowered to 19.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
52. That never worked well in the past.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:57 AM
Mar 2013

It was 21 in Missouri and 18 in Illinois when I was growing up. Simple to drive across the bridge and buy booze.

Adolescence sometimes lasts until 20 or so. Best to have an age where 'late bloomers' are mentally and physically adult.

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
78. Worked fine for me
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:19 AM
Mar 2013

It was 21 in the state I grew up in and 18 in the state I went to school in, didn't have a problem with there being different laws. Not that the 21 year old age restriction stopped 18, 19 & 20 year olds from drinking, at least not in my experience.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
86. It didn't stop me, either.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:25 AM
Mar 2013

Back in my day, we would drink until we passed out then the park mounties would come by around 1 am, wake us up and tell us to go home.

But having the age set at 21 stopped SOME people from at least over-consumption, and some others from drinking at all so in general I think it was a good idea.

If 18 was the age when I was growing up, I likely would have been drunk a lot more often. As it is, I feel like I dodged a bullet back then.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
184. I grew up in Missouri.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:46 PM
Mar 2013

21 never stopped us, not once. And if you were an athlete or from certain families you didn't even have to worry about a DWI-the cops would just give the kid a ride home with a strict lecture and then tell his parents. Even after a few friends were in a horrific accident (one killed on scene, one paralyzed ) the driver, a star football player, wasn't even charged. (And yes, it happened. I was supposed to be in the car with them that night but got into a fight with someone at the last minute and didn't go. That stays with me to this very day.)

Small towns let lots of stuff go. I saw it as a high school kid and then I saw it later on when I worked in a police department. The ones they regularly busted were the college kids, as a way of "teaching them a lesson." What it really was about was discriminating against the college kids, especially the young men. They will always be prosecuted for things that "townies" would be ignored for doing.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
207. And punish those that are 'early' to mature?
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:47 AM
Mar 2013

My body was at my full grown adult height and was 100% physically mature at age 12. I was told by many an adult I was extremely mature for my age. All my friends were 2-4 years older than me. I'm glad our drinking age, where I am, was 18. By then, I was in a longterm common-law relationship with the man I would eventually marry (and then divorce 15 years later, but that's neither here nor there and had nothing to do with maturity) and had a full time job and paid all my own bills and I voted. I was an adult in every way. It seems completely ridiculous to me that I shouldn't have been drinking at that age because somewhere there are some immature college students.

I disagree with catering to the lowest common denominator.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
209. All laws cater to the lowest common denominator. Speed limits are a good example.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 09:03 AM
Mar 2013

The State cannot determine your maturity level. Nor should it. Therefore the dividing line is made high enough to 'catch' the majority of adolescents but low enough it doesn't cause societal upheaval.

It's always a balancing act.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
212. Oh yes, the societal upheaval
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 09:40 AM
Mar 2013

where I am is abhorrent. All those 18 year olds driving drunk all over the place! 'Cause they don't do it when they are 17, and they SURE don't do it when they are 21~ How DOES my province function! Hyperbole much?

When I was a teen, it was my parents' generation that drove drunk. *WE* (the 18 year olds) were educated about drunk driving in school and always had designated drivers.

How about the societal upheaval when underage drinkers get caught and end up with a record and therefore a more difficult time getting a job? I think if you compare the 2 it would be a wash.


I disagree about speed limits. Some people can't drive safely at slower speeds, some are good at driving at fast speeds, so it's not about the lowest common denominator - that's not how limits are deteremined. The speed limit is often subjective, not based on fact (according to people I knew who work in that part of gov't) but on perception or public pressure. A lot of these laws about prohibition weren't based in fact, but in the puritan agenda of the Reagan republicans.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
55. Raise the age to go to war to 21.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:58 AM
Mar 2013

Better plan.



 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
199. +10000000000000000000000000000000 n/t
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:02 PM
Mar 2013

kiva

(4,373 posts)
57. I agree.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:58 AM
Mar 2013

But then, I strongly believe that we, as a country, have infantalized our youth to the point that we are calling 25 year old men 'boys' and referring to college women as 'girls.' As long as we choose to keep moving that bar of adulthood further and further, young people will never be taken seriously.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
64. +1000
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:05 AM
Mar 2013

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
125. This will probably
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:53 PM
Mar 2013

piss off some people, but from where I sit...at 60 years old...people younger than 25 are kids.

It's an exception when I come across someone that age who has his/her shit together.



Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
140. The part of your brain that helps you understand the consequences of your actions
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:29 PM
Mar 2013

is not fully developed until you are 25 years old. There's a reason that car insurance rates are highest for men below 25 years old.

http://www.hhs.gov/opa/familylife/tech_assistance/etraining/adolescent_brain/Development/prefrontal_cortex/

kiva

(4,373 posts)
141. Pushing 60 here too,
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:40 PM
Mar 2013

so I understand that as individuals we may well see people that are a couple of generations younger than we are as kids - I do that too; but the only way most people get their shit together is to be given the combination of responsibilities and rewards that encourage them to do that.

I think it's important that society as a whole expect that young people are adults and should be capable of adult choices, and in exchange give them the respect we give adults.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
197. Oh, I agree about
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 10:54 PM
Mar 2013

giving them responsibility.

But it has to be a gradual thing.

My mom made the huge mistake of keeping me sheltered and "protected" for the first 17 years of my life, then basically turned me loose on the world after that with absolutely no training whatsoever.

I was lost and didn't really grow up till I hit about 40 or so.

 

datasuspect

(26,591 posts)
61. they need to raise the BAC for DUI
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:01 AM
Mar 2013

too.

bunch of nanny state do gooders.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
80. do gooders?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:21 AM
Mar 2013

More like piggy bank gooders.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
103. That's about one of the most politically incorrect things you can say,
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:02 PM
Mar 2013

but I agree. MADD is like a modern-day temperance society.

Response to darkangel218 (Original post)

bamacrat

(3,867 posts)
69. Or maybe raise the military age to 21...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:08 AM
Mar 2013

If you can do one, you should be able to do the other. But, I wonder if for mental health reasons alone, having to wait to 21 to go to war could be a good thing. Yes at 18 you are an "adult" but make really poor decisions, your brain may have just become "fully developed" but many 18 y/o have not completed their cranial rectal extraction....nor have some 30 year olds, but they have little excuse. I know some people go in to the military straight out of high school because they have few other options. While that may not eliminate PTSD, Abu Graibs or other shit for brains from doing fucked up stuff, it could help. The only people other than the military that really thinks an 18 year old is an adult is an 18 year old.

lolly

(3,248 posts)
84. I would be in favor of a graduated approach
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:23 AM
Mar 2013

At one time in the UK (not sure if laws have changed or not) it was legal for older teenagers (16 or 17?) to have beer or wine if they ordered it in an eating establishment with a meal. It may have been limited to 2 drinks, not sure.

This makes a lot of sense to me in several ways.

Helps show kids that alcohol can be enjoyed in moderation as part of social activities instead of having drinking as the main event.

Kids who drink can do so in public, around adults.

It might discourage the kind of binge drinking that results in all kinds of disasters. When alcohol is completely illegal, teens tend to drink away from adults, and to drink as much as possible while they have the chance.

OTOH, having a good public transportation system would help too. I wish teens didn't have to drive to get to social events.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
85. +1 million
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:24 AM
Mar 2013

polly7

(20,582 posts)
99. I'll try this again ..
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:47 AM
Mar 2013

excuse my brain freeze. As someone who's responded to many alcohol-related MVA's and other calls, I believe three extra years for a child to mature mentally and emotionally and be more able to make better judgments is a great thing. These kids dying on the roads are babies and haven't even begun to experience life. No doubt 18 y/o's still drink and do really stupid things regardless if it's legal or not, but personally, I don't see the benefit of making it easier.

I agree that 18 is too young to be sent off to kill and die in war.

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
126. Don't you think
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:55 PM
Mar 2013

Don't you think it's a little odd that 18 year old's can legally get married, have babies and become parents yet it's illegal for them to have a glass of wine with dinner in their own home? They are not children or kids, at 18 they are adults. My 17 year old son is far more mentally and emotionally mature than many 25 year olds that I have met, age, in and of itself is not the determining factor.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
135. It does seem a little odd,
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:12 PM
Mar 2013

my pov comes from alcohol in excess, clouding judgement and leading to seriously harmful decisions. Some 17 y/o's may be more mentally and emotionally mature - I agree on that - but, most haven't had a chance to experience life independently enough to fully understand how making one bad decision can completely destroy lives.

 

leftyohiolib

(5,917 posts)
101. 18 YEAR OLDS SHOULDNT BE GOING TO WARS EITHER
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:52 AM
Mar 2013

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
110. +1 By the way.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:17 PM
Mar 2013

If I were going to ask someone to risk his life as a fucking career, especially at the behest of war profiteers, I hope I wouldn't stop him from having a drink. He'd need it at least as much as I ever would.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
112. Because you've fallen under the marketing delusion that alcohol somehow makes one stronger.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:19 PM
Mar 2013

It doesn't.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
128. Nope.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:02 PM
Mar 2013

But it's one of the few methods to relive pain and monotony. We take so much from our troops that we ought not to stand in their way.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
102. Absolutely. And no 20 year old refrains ftom drinking because of the law.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:56 AM
Mar 2013

20-year olds still drink, but hidden out of sight.

 

still_one

(98,883 posts)
104. That was the argument for voting, "you're old enough to kill, but not for voting"
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:03 PM
Mar 2013

Of course today the argument is more that you are tried as an adult but cannot drink

Agreed

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
107. Before we do it, we should consult with neuroscientists.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:09 PM
Mar 2013

There is evidence that drinking alcohol at certain stages of brain development can detrimentally affect that development. There is research on this, and that should determine what we do about the drinking age. Alcohol abuse levels among 18-21 year-olds should also be considered.

Why not be objective about the issue?

I don't like alcohol, but I think we should decide how to handle this intelligently, not just emotionally.

One problem is that young people, 18-year-olds are more susceptible to peer pressure than people a little older than that. If the other 18-year-olds in your crowd are getting drunk on the weekends and not studying for exams or doing other positive things, then it's more likely you will go along with them. It gets easier to say no to your friends when you get a few years older. That is one argument against raising the age.

The beer, wine and bar industries would, of course, love to see a lower drinking age.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
113. If we let them vote then they should be able to drink
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:22 PM
Mar 2013

Letting under 21s vote is another matter. But what right do we have to deny some citizens rights that others have also? Constitutionally the under 21 ban is legit, but if the default position is that citizens get to do whatever they want unless it hurts someone then they should be able to drink when they get full rights under the law.

Not letting under 21s drink because some of them will drink and drive is the same argument that since some black people are criminals we should treat all black people as criminals.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
114. See post #111.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:24 PM
Mar 2013

Or I could copy and paste.

At 21, you can:
Apply to adopt a child.

Gamble.

Go on a cruise unsupervised.

Rent a car.

Hold an airline transport pilot's license for an airplane, helicopter.

Apply for a provisional license to drive a large passenger vehicle or heavy goods vehicle.

Supervise a learner driver (providing you have held a full license for the same type of vehicle for at least three years)

In some states, you cannot marry without parent(s)' permission until 21.

You also cannot be President at age 18.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
117. Some agencies will not rent a car to anyone under 25!
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:34 PM
Mar 2013
 

randome

(34,845 posts)
118. Yes, I saw that, too!
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:35 PM
Mar 2013

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
123. But you can be charged as an adult in a crime
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:43 PM
Mar 2013

at 12 and go to prison.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
124. I think 99% of us would agree that's fucked up.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:44 PM
Mar 2013

NYC Liberal

(20,453 posts)
116. Make it 19 like it is in Ontario and some other places.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:33 PM
Mar 2013

There are many 18 year-olds still in high school, and even those that aren't are just starting college and are more like teenagers than adults.

At 19 they've likely had a year in college and have been living on their own in the "real world" (sort of) for a bit. That is a good time to allow legal drinking.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
120. I agree wholeheartedly. And I have two teenagers.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:38 PM
Mar 2013

The prohibition mentality with alcohol just leads to "the forbidden fruit" appeal and binge drinking. I like the European approach better -- incorporate wine as a nice social part of dinner, learn your limits, learn to be moderate with drinking. I'd rather my kids were armed with information and familiarity with the effects of alcohol than spend their time and energy trying to acquire it illegally in college and get as shitfaced as possible in the shortest amount of time possible, like we did in the 80s.

xmas74

(30,054 posts)
186. this
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:52 PM
Mar 2013
energy trying to acquire it illegally in college and get as shitfaced as possible in the shortest amount of time possible, like we did in the 80s


That's where lots of Mad Dog, Cisco, and Golden Grain came into the picture for most of the people I knew. Cheap and got people drunk fast. Golden Grain and grape Kool-aid was the drink of choice throughout much of high school while Strawberry Hill was a step up-a "date drink", if you will, along with Bartles and James.
 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
121. At the height of the MADD frenzy in the early '80s, there were calls to raise the age to 25!
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:39 PM
Mar 2013

Next stop, Prohibition.

raccoon

(32,382 posts)
122. You were born in the wrong generation, Dark. nt
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 12:40 PM
Mar 2013
 

duffyduff

(3,251 posts)
129. Many 18-year-olds are still in high school.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:04 PM
Mar 2013

I can see the problem right there.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
136. When I was 15 and went to high school for a year in France
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:12 PM
Mar 2013

back in 1965, they served beer and wine in the school cafeteria at lunchtime. Amazingly, I never saw any kid get drunk (you'd get kicked out of school). In fact, it was a new building and when I went to the inauguration, the French socialist mayor Gaston Deferre (who later became a presidential candidate) gave a speech to all the kids and then they offered each kid two cocktails from long tables where glasses were lined up. I think I had a martini and a gin and tonic. I would often go to a sidewalk cafe on the old port in Marseille with a school friend and we'd have a couple of beers (a great tasting semi-dark French beer called Pelforth). We were 15 and it was legal to drink beer outside on the sidewalk but you had to be 21 to go inside the bar and drink. I think that because alcohol was so available and didn't represent a forbidden taboo for a rebellious young kid, I never became hooked on alcohol. In fact, now I very rarely drink.

By contrast, just before I went to France for a year I remember shopping with my mom at a store in Colorado. She was buying groceries for her brother. She told me to go grab a six-pack of beer and put it in the shopping cart. When the store owner saw me doing that he came over and chewed me out, saying it was illegal for me to even touch a container of alcohol.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
137. The best part of the 21 drinking age is it
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:16 PM
Mar 2013

gives younger people a chance to experience the thrill the breaking the law while becoming intoxicated.

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
145. And
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:56 PM
Mar 2013

acquire a criminal record and thousands of dollars in legal bills for drinking a single beer. Wouldn't want to miss that kind of thrill!

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
168. That only happens to an extreme minority.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:40 PM
Mar 2013

I don't anyone who has a criminal record from underage drinking. I am not saying it doesn't happen, I am just saying that it is very rare.

However, no risk means no thrill.

No matter what we do, some will be harmed by the law or lack of law.

Crepuscular

(1,068 posts)
174. Rare?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:10 PM
Mar 2013

Go to any college town and you will find numerous freshman who get busted for minor in possession during the first week on campus. I know of one public university town that hires additional cops from surrounding areas for that first week, for the express purpose of writing minor in possession tickets by the bucketful. I believe they typically issue over 1,000 MIP citations before classes even start.

When I was a teenager (a loooong time ago) if we were caught drinking about all that would happen was the cops would make us pour out our beer and they would usually "confiscate" the remainder (to drink at their weekly poker game). At worst you might get a very minor ticket. Not that way any more, get busted today with an alcohol related offense and you are looking at some major legal fees and a misdemeanor on your record.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
191. I know probably 20 people who have criminal records for underage drinking.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:22 PM
Mar 2013

It's not rare at all. MICs or MIPs are handed out like candy at most universities.

Zoeisright

(8,339 posts)
138. Oh my god, not this fucking stupid shit again.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:27 PM
Mar 2013

Lowering the drinking age to 18 will result in at least 1,000 more DEAD teenagers every year in this country.

READ this from the AMA and LEARN something.

http://www.ama-assn.org/ama/pub/physician-resources/public-health/promoting-healthy-lifestyles/alcohol-other-drug-abuse/facts-about-youth-alcohol/minimum-legal-drinking-age.page

Heywood J

(2,515 posts)
204. Just like all those dead Europeans lying on the streets over there.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:17 AM
Mar 2013

Perhaps instead of living in fear of what might happen to what you admit is roughly 0.02% of the teenage population, the effort should be put into educating about alcohol, instead of driving them to binge drink because they don't know when the next opportunity will come?

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
205. Read what others have said about when NJ and NY 'experimented' with 18.
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:29 AM
Mar 2013

America is not Europe. Maybe the precise differences can't be pinpointed but it's a reality that more people would die in this country if the age was lowered back to 18.

skorpo

(329 posts)
143. I remember different ages for men and women
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 01:46 PM
Mar 2013

In Illinois the drinking age was 18 for women and 21 for men. It was changed to 21 for all in 1961.

LiberalFighter

(53,544 posts)
151. I don't believe that most 18 year olds are mature enough yet.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:24 PM
Mar 2013

If parents or their guardian are present while using alcohol and it doesn't involve a party consisting mostly of kids I would support that.

 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
153. Agreed. If you're old enough to sign contracts, vote, get married, go to war...
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:29 PM
Mar 2013

...you're old enough to drink. It seems elementry.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
155. I say raise it to 25 years of age
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 02:49 PM
Mar 2013

Same with going to war. Join the military at 18, but NEVER go to war till 25 unless the war comes here. Spend most of your military time in a military school to earn a degree. Raise the draft age to 24, and give them training till they reach 25 and send them off.

name not needed

(11,665 posts)
166. So you're fine with throwing people in jail for using an intoxicating substance?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:27 PM
Mar 2013

Funny, considering the weed leaf.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
159. My son is 20 and in the service
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 03:41 PM
Mar 2013

I allow him to drink in my home, as long as he stays home when he is drinking.

 

bike man

(620 posts)
165. There have been numerous posts here on DU regarding the brain
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 04:27 PM
Mar 2013

not being completely formed until the early 20's, often in a thread where a teen-ager has committed (or has been accused of committing) a crime. There is even discussion about this in this thread - response #88 for example http://sync.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2534435

Considering that incomplete formation, further clouding that incompleteness with alcohol is imprudent at best, foolhardy at worst.

The cloudiness leads to driving while intoxicated, sometimes driving to work intoxicated (some folks use dangerous machinery at work), hand/eye coordination suffers, a feeling of immortality ensues - and all with the immature/incompletely formed brain.

Really!

IBSD

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
172. i agree
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:06 PM
Mar 2013

samsingh

(18,417 posts)
178. it should be 18
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:14 PM
Mar 2013

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
179. As an ex-bartender I agree.
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:15 PM
Mar 2013

My reasoning. Yes, I agree with your points but also, when kids graduate from high school, they either go to college, to work and sometimes they get married. They enter a new social world of older adults who can drink, so they are left out on a lot of social situations because of it. I believe allowing them to drink in the company of their new friends will help them drink more responsibly as older adults tend to frown on binging, and driving while intoxicated and any other number of problem situations they can get into by drinking illegally.

When I went to college, I lived in a state where eighteen year olds could drink. When I came back to CA in the summer I couldn't. My friends were doing all the things underage drinkers do, like using phony IDs, bribing older adults into buying you alcohol and drinking in situations that weren't always safe. It was stupid.

Jersey Devil

(10,832 posts)
182. It was 18 for a while in NJ and it didn't work
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:37 PM
Mar 2013

The problem was that the 18 year olds would buy package goods for those even younger, so you'd have situations where 15 year olds would be passed out drunk in the parks. The social club I belong to even banned sweet 16 parties for several years because kids were smuggling in alcohol and putting it in their soda cups. At the end of the night we'd have a bunch of drunk kids and a big mess, not to mention indignant parents who accused us of allowing it. It just wasn't worth it.

BainsBane

(57,751 posts)
185. they changed it back to 18
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:48 PM
Mar 2013

because of the high death rate from 18-20 yr olds driving drunk.

You may be too young to remember this whole debate. It went from 21 to 18, and then in some states up to 19 before going back to 21 again.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
193. It doesn't matter! Free-dom! Free-dom!
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:28 PM
Mar 2013

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
187. I will go even beyond that. Any responsible parent should be allowed to have
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 05:53 PM
Mar 2013

their children served alcohol in eating places that serve alcohol. The mystique of alcohol must be removed as fast as possible. Society hide alcohol from children, but when children get their hands on alcohol, they binge drink in search of the illusionary high from alcohol. If children experience alcohol consumption under the watchful eye of responsible parents and servers, my argument is they are more likely to grow up with a measured view of alcohol.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
192. Define 'responsible parent'. Or should the State do that?
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:27 PM
Mar 2013

The only time we become aware of an irresponsible parent is after a tragedy. I agree in principle with you but I still think the age limit should persist.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
190. I have seen booze ads aimed at 12 year olds for 55 years .
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:19 PM
Mar 2013

The State's Rights laws make perfect sense for profit ,in the 60s kids from new England went to N.Y.C to drink , it was magic you were an adult just for getting there .The voting age was 21 in America till when ??
We want everyone to act like adults when adults don't act like adults The French do something different than we do in America , we should study that .

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
195. What *good* comes from introducing an 18 year old to the legal system
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 06:45 PM
Mar 2013

for something so minor as drinking?

Whether or not we can agree on if they *should* be drinking, they *will* be drinking. What is the benefit of ruining a kids future for getting drunk?

 

Flying Squirrel

(3,041 posts)
198. How about raising the legal entry age into our armed forces to 21 instead? EO-fing-M
Tue Mar 19, 2013, 11:01 PM
Mar 2013
 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
202. +100% /nt
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:02 AM
Mar 2013

Tien1985

(923 posts)
208. The military argument is
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 08:57 AM
Mar 2013

Terrible. Considering a whole lot of people believe the age for joining the military should be upped. I'd personally like to see it raised to 25. But I don't think the drinking age should be upped. In fact I think people should be well aware of their alcohol tolerance BEFORE they ever enter the military.

Just saying.

I'm not necessarily against lowering the drinking age if a decent argument could be made for it. "I want to because I'm a grown up now!" is a poor argument. And as far as Europe, two things, there are some urban myths about Europe and drinking that need to be adressed, and two there are lots of things that work in Europe and not in the US.

I think a better argument is that the developing brain science everyone likes to trot out is far from ubiquitous. They grabbed people of a certain age and studied their brains because they figured people of that age are still growing. I bet they'd be surprised if they studied the brains of people of a multitude of ages, backgrounds and circumstances. Brain science has a LONG way to go.

At least working on arguments against the opposition would help.

Personally, I don't see a need for the age to change. The idea that all or even most people break the law to drink before 21 is stupid. I went to piblic school and a state Uni. There were plenty of us that didn't drink. If you break the law you are the one responsible for the costs and criminal record associated with it, hopefully most adults can accept that as reality.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
211. Maybe we should just ban it
Wed Mar 20, 2013, 09:39 AM
Mar 2013

Think of all the lives that would be saved.

And children's lives, too.

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