That question has been asked me so many times since 2011, that I just want to scream! Apparently a poor woman is expected to have a bunch of kids.

I remember when I went to sign up for food stamps, the agent just assumed I had kids, pulled out the paperwork and just asked "how many?". When I told him I did not have kids he asked "Are you sure?" with the oddest look on his face. Then when I went to this one shelter, they asked me where my kids were staying and why could I not stay with them. Not "do you have kids?" but they just assumed I had them.

And it is not a race thing, my skin is white. It is economic.

Mr.Bill

(24,242 posts)

6. If it's an older person asking you,

Reply to Lady Freedom Returns (Reply #5)

Sat Mar 30, 2013, 08:38 PM

Mar 2013

ask them if they've broken their hip yet.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)

10. I will keep that comeback in mind!

Reply to Mr.Bill (Reply #6)

Sat Mar 30, 2013, 10:01 PM

Mar 2013

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)

7. Are you sure

Reply to Lady Freedom Returns (Reply #5)

Sat Mar 30, 2013, 09:36 PM

Mar 2013

you don't have kids???

That would be downright hilarious on the face of it, but it really is an ignorant question to ask a woman. As if you wouldn't know.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)

9. I know. The guy was in total disbelief.

Reply to Curmudgeoness (Reply #7)

Sat Mar 30, 2013, 09:58 PM

Mar 2013

He was boggled enough when I told him my education level. Good thing I had my diploma in my pack with me. It is one of two things I never left anywhere.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)

13. People like those live either by...

Reply to Lady Freedom Returns (Reply #5)

Sat Mar 30, 2013, 10:42 PM

Mar 2013

... perceptions, assumptions, stereotypes. Don't you think the first words out of their mouths should have been "How can I help you?"...with a sincere smile? OR they were overworked, probably doing the job of three or more people. Burnt out. At their wits end and almost out of their effing minds with the craziness of this broken society. GeorgeOrwellville.
What ever happened to "First, do no harm," and to human kindness?