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BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
Thu May 2, 2013, 08:59 PM May 2013

Women in Egypt stand strong against 'sexual terrorism'

The Muslim world DOES have active feminist groups. Here is one recent example.

"Faced with a spike in sexual violence against female protesters, Egyptian women are overcoming stigma and recounting painful testimonies to force silent authorities and a reticent society to confront "sexual terrorism." . . .

"We are not victims, we are revolutionaries. What happened to us has made us stronger and we will continue" to take to the streets, said activist Aida al-Kashef. . . .

"These attacks aim to exclude women from public life and punish them for participating in political activism and demonstrations. They are also an attempt to ruin the image of Tahrir Square and demonstrators in general," said the group. . .

"We do not want to use the term 'harassment.' What is happening today is sexual terrorism," said Inas Mekkawy, a women's rights activist with the group Baheya."

http://english.alarabiya.net/en/News/2013/03/06/Women-in-Egypt-stand-strong-against-sexual-terrorism-.html

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Women in Egypt stand strong against 'sexual terrorism' (Original Post) BainsBane May 2013 OP
How about we give some credit to women working to improve BainsBane May 2013 #1
K&R Same minimal response when I posted about Mona Eltahawy's sexual assault in Egyptian detention Turborama May 2013 #2
Thanks for providing this BainsBane May 2013 #5
But but that woman is wearing a scarf! Until she removes it she is a victim of Islam! Luminous Animal May 2013 #27
In the other thread BainsBane May 2013 #38
Loved these pics, thanks for reposting them. bettyellen May 2013 #37
Big K&R riderinthestorm May 2013 #3
Many BainsBane May 2013 #7
Can you please provide links where DUers deny that there are Muslim feminist groups? Thanks! nt riderinthestorm May 2013 #9
I've been told that by DUers but rules say we are not allowed to call them out. Luminous Animal May 2013 #23
Just provide links then. Should be easy since there are "many" DUers who deny the presence of Muslim riderinthestorm May 2013 #24
Links are as good as calling them out. Luminous Animal May 2013 #25
Nope. Not true. Its documented facts and not calling them out by name. Just link the threads. nt riderinthestorm May 2013 #26
Um, no because it has happened to me. With juries, you take your chances. Luminous Animal May 2013 #28
Noted. You got nothing. Thanks for smearing DUers without proof. nt riderinthestorm May 2013 #31
Thank you for not doing your own research and trying to push me Luminous Animal May 2013 #34
If you say it as a fact, you should provide proof when asked for a link riderinthestorm May 2013 #45
You can read the last thread BainsBane May 2013 #39
I have no idea what you are talking about. Prove it with the "many" links you must have riderinthestorm May 2013 #46
I told you where one example was BainsBane May 2013 #47
You got nothing. Clearly. Put up or shut up. I have no idea what you are talking about riderinthestorm May 2013 #48
You are the one looking for call outs BainsBane May 2013 #54
K&R! I love that she calls it terrorism, not harassment. Reminds me of this quote: redqueen May 2013 #4
Sexual terrorism is a perfect description BainsBane May 2013 #6
And for girls in general. redqueen May 2013 #36
Exactly what it is Aerows May 2013 #11
Good for them. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #8
Let them channel Solanas and Bobbitt Gravitycollapse May 2013 #10
Oh please Aerows May 2013 #12
I think you're confused. My post was not a joke. Gravitycollapse May 2013 #13
Violence produces more violence Aerows May 2013 #14
There are many in the world who do not respond to "understanding." Gravitycollapse May 2013 #15
Okay Aerows May 2013 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author name not needed May 2013 #35
So not ALL voices are silenced. Just most. Bonobo May 2013 #17
I think Aerows May 2013 #18
For some, the issue is tangential. Bonobo May 2013 #20
A grudge only lasts Aerows May 2013 #22
Try to remember BainsBane May 2013 #32
Thanks, I try everyday. nt Bonobo May 2013 #33
"So not ALL voices are silenced. Just most." - That could be said of essentially any state. Gravitycollapse May 2013 #19
I absolutely agree. nt Bonobo May 2013 #21
Lets not forget...... Rest In Peace Repubs May 2013 #29
I 'm absolutely sure... Rest In Peace Repubs May 2013 #30
That's a really helpful post. Are you sure you're not lost? Comrade Grumpy May 2013 #40
And then BainsBane May 2013 #44
Geller's Atlas Shrugs blog is that way --> War Horse May 2013 #41
Sometimes it's hard to tell BainsBane May 2013 #42
k&r Liberal_in_LA May 2013 #43
Any protest against the ruling patriarchy should be supported and encouraged. randome May 2013 #49
the point I'm trying to make BainsBane May 2013 #50
It doesn't disturb me. I think you're looking for an argument. randome May 2013 #52
Uhhh...you clearly are the one looking for an argument. Gravitycollapse May 2013 #53
K&R ismnotwasm May 2013 #51

Turborama

(22,109 posts)
2. K&R Same minimal response when I posted about Mona Eltahawy's sexual assault in Egyptian detention
Fri May 3, 2013, 03:32 PM
May 2013

Well, it was a bit better: http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=102x5069852

This OP went down well during the revolution, though: http://election.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x306505

The pics aren't on the OP now probably to FB messing about with urls (some good ones in the thread itself, though) but they are still here: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.493689677675.268523.586357675

A couple of my faves..







And there's this: http://www.egyptianwomen.info/

I'll try and find another thread I did about Libyan women during their revolution ...

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
38. In the other thread
Sat May 4, 2013, 02:56 PM
May 2013

someone said that Egyptian women are too oppressed to truly protest, that unlike us they don't know what protest is. They just brought down a fucking dictatorship, but they don't really protest.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
3. Big K&R
Fri May 3, 2013, 03:40 PM
May 2013

Last edited Fri May 3, 2013, 05:14 PM - Edit history (1)

Edited to add why would you feel it necessary to make such a point that the Muslim world DOES have women protesters/feminist groups?

Has anyone said that there aren't any? You seem to be presuming that DUers aren't aware of, or are disputing, this fact?

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
23. I've been told that by DUers but rules say we are not allowed to call them out.
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:42 PM
May 2013

I've also been told that, if they exist, they are not "real" feminists. Which I translated to mean they don't follow a western feminist tradition.

Muslim feminists need our respect to forge their own path. They need our respectful acknowledgment that they understand their culture far far better than western feminists do. Western feminists who are interested in supporting feminists in the Muslim world need to ask one simple question:

"What can we do for you?"

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
24. Just provide links then. Should be easy since there are "many" DUers who deny the presence of Muslim
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:49 PM
May 2013

feminist activists that you and Bains Bane are aware of...

That's not calling anyone out - that's simply linking.

Of course Muslim feminists need our respect. Are you also implying that DUer's don't respect Muslim feminists?

I'd love links to THAT as well if you think that's the case....



Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
25. Links are as good as calling them out.
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:00 PM
May 2013

With Meta gone, I will not risk the hide. SOME Duers don't respect Muslim feminists. SOME DUers have flat out said that they don't exist.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
34. Thank you for not doing your own research and trying to push me
Sat May 4, 2013, 12:38 AM
May 2013

into a position of having a post hidden.

Google is your friend.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
45. If you say it as a fact, you should provide proof when asked for a link
Sat May 4, 2013, 08:05 PM
May 2013

its not my job to substantiate YOUR claim.

Prove it or I will believe its false.



 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
46. I have no idea what you are talking about. Prove it with the "many" links you must have
Sat May 4, 2013, 08:07 PM
May 2013

to demonstrate that "many" DUers don't' believe there are Muslim feminist groups.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
47. I told you where one example was
Sat May 4, 2013, 10:11 PM
May 2013

If you don't have enough initiative to consult it, you obviously don't care. Others have told you they have seen similar posts. Pick your fights elsewhere.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
48. You got nothing. Clearly. Put up or shut up. I have no idea what you are talking about
Sat May 4, 2013, 10:38 PM
May 2013

or where to find your link.

If you don't have any proof of your claims you got nothing. I am asking for a link to a thread, hell the multiple threads that demonstrate "many" DUers believe there aren't Muslim feminist groups. You or Luminous Animal don't have to name names. Just link the threads. Doing that won't be banned.

Its another lie Bains Bane. More baiting of good DUers with lies.

I presume this will also be put to a jury. I hope you all understand the vague smears against good DUers with no backup.... Its detrimental to respectful discussion.

See the thing is I DO care. I care enough that I require you to back up your statements with real proof.

Put up or shut up about good DUers who simply don't agree with you.'



BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
54. You are the one looking for call outs
Sat May 4, 2013, 11:26 PM
May 2013

Despite being told where you could find examples. And you again insult me, ironically while saying something is detrimental to respectful discussion. If you want a respectful conversation, don't call someone a liar or a drunk. Stick to the subject matter.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
4. K&R! I love that she calls it terrorism, not harassment. Reminds me of this quote:
Fri May 3, 2013, 04:17 PM
May 2013

"As long as some men use force to subjugate females, all men need not. The knowledge that some men do suffices to threaten all women."
Marilyn French

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
6. Sexual terrorism is a perfect description
Fri May 3, 2013, 08:42 PM
May 2013

especially for what happens to the young girls raped and then shamed via social media.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
12. Oh please
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:01 PM
May 2013

Just because some woman somewhere exacted violence on a man doesn't excuse sexual violence to any woman anywhere. Get a goddamn grip. It isn't about a desire for vengeance, it's a desire for vengeance to not even be necessary because violence never took place in the first place!

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
15. There are many in the world who do not respond to "understanding."
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:09 PM
May 2013

That's the cold reality of life.

If men want to exert their pitiful power over women through violence, let them be smashed with violence.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
16. Okay
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:11 PM
May 2013

Perhaps I wasn't clear enough, because I agree. I don't see self-defense as violence, I see it as survival. I have the opinion that self-defense is a right of everyone, and I make sure I can always do so, and surround myself with people that want to defend themselves and their friends.

Response to Gravitycollapse (Reply #15)

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
17. So not ALL voices are silenced. Just most.
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:19 PM
May 2013

You seem to want to think that because the statement was made that "Their problems need to be given voice" was made by outsiders, that that is equivalent to saying that "No Muslim has a voice".

It is a false equivalency that you have to come to treat like a Gospel truth.

It is a straw man held together by twine.

If your position is that no one from outside a particular group can ever protest the internal problems visible from the outside within said group, then you are clinging tenaciously to a stupid position.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
18. I think
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:26 PM
May 2013

that you both argue about something you aren't a part of, and take your opinions into the argument with you without realizing that you both probably agree on a level in that you want to be civilized.

Now what civilized means, that could be a completely different story, but dismissing other opinions without thinking them through first, is also the dismissal of civility.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
20. For some, the issue is tangential.
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:31 PM
May 2013

Some here really want to say:

"Men only care about women's rights if they get to see tits."

Some here really want to say:

"Men in the West are pigs that are happy to criticize sexism in other countries without being willing to recognize it in their own culture."

Some here want to say:

"Patriarchy and Imperialism are two sides of the same coin!"

Some are using issues to create strawmen to fight their own proxy wars.

That is what gives this a personal grudge feel to it. It is the lack of honesty. And yes, REASONABLE people would agree that there are many Islamic sub-cultutres where women's rights are trodden and REASONABLE people would agree that other women around the world have the right to make an issue out of it (even by flashing for attention).

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
22. A grudge only lasts
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:36 PM
May 2013

as long as one person holds on to it.

The person that let go is free of it.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
19. "So not ALL voices are silenced. Just most." - That could be said of essentially any state.
Fri May 3, 2013, 10:29 PM
May 2013

Not the least of which is the United States.

29. Lets not forget......
Fri May 3, 2013, 11:18 PM
May 2013

these "PIGS" in Egypt have no problem raping women,even and especially foreign women,ie Lara Logan CBS News Corp, Has nothing to do with Islam But upbring.Pig is a pig even when Shir ia is involved !!!!

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
42. Sometimes it's hard to tell
Sat May 4, 2013, 03:37 PM
May 2013

which site one is on. BTW, I alerted on that poster's second post and a jury allowed it to stand.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
49. Any protest against the ruling patriarchy should be supported and encouraged.
Sat May 4, 2013, 10:49 PM
May 2013

It's not up to anyone to say a protest is not done the correct way so I'm not sure what kind of point you are trying to make here.

That sometimes protest comes from within? Um, okay. I support these women just as I support anyone outside the Muslim world who wants to point out discrimination.

Most of the posts in this thread so far seem to be about arguing with other DUers.

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
50. the point I'm trying to make
Sat May 4, 2013, 10:51 PM
May 2013

is that there are feminists in Egypt and other Muslim countries actively involved in improving their lives. Why should that disturb you?

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