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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forums18 year old guy seduces 14 year old guy. Criminal act?
Weigh in, please.
loli phabay
(5,580 posts)NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)The horse is dead
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Maybe a couple of more pokes will bring it back to life as a zombie?
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)TYY
dballance
(5,756 posts)I think we've beaten that horse far past where we needed to.
Ian David
(69,059 posts)... then it might be criminal, because on his 18th birthday, his magic exploitation superpowers emerge at the stroke of midnight.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)A question for the philosophers.
dballance
(5,756 posts)I'm laughing.
Ian David
(69,059 posts)book_worm
(15,951 posts)same as if it were a 18 year old woman and 14 year old boy or 18 year old man and 14 year old girl or 18 year old woman and 14 year old girl
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)can get married.
Sgent
(5,857 posts)without the parents permission.
And even in those states, they can marry but until they are married they cannot have sex.
sofa king
(10,857 posts)Ian David
(69,059 posts)dkf
(37,305 posts)RC
(25,592 posts)We must always follow the law, because our law makers know what is best for us.
You don't get to argue how lame a law is when they catch you. If people got off with that defense what's the point of laws?
RC
(25,592 posts)And if that doesn't work, do it at your trial.
Pragdem
(233 posts)arely staircase
(12,482 posts)it is in any state in the US. lowest age of consent is 16.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)behavior based on the irrefutable "because I say so" principle?
Why do you hate America?
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)State laws
Each U.S. state (and the District of Columbia) has its own age of consent. Currently state laws set the age of consent at 16, 17 or 18. The most common age is 16.[46]
age of consent 16 (30): Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, District of Columbia, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont, Washington, West Virginia
age of consent 17 (9): Colorado, Illinois, Louisiana, Missouri, Nebraska, New Mexico, New York, Texas, Wyoming
age of consent 18 (12): Arizona, California, Delaware, Florida, Idaho, North Dakota, Oregon, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania[47]
Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)It wouldn't be in some countries with lower ages of consent.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)the same sex issue is probably illegal.
Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)Of those I remember right now, Germany & Austria are 14. Denmark is 15. Spain is the lowest in Europe at 13. I think with younger ages of consent there are often other provisions like a higher age of consent with educators, etc.
In Europe, the age of consent for heterosexual contact is generally the same as for homosexual contact. I think European common law now requires that.
Quite a few are also 16, such as Norway, the Netherlands and Switzerland. I think it is generally 16 now in the UK.
There is one exception in Europe - the Vatican! There I believe that you can only consent to sex in marriage, and that the minimum age for marriage is 14 for girls and 16 for boys.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)But we don't live in those countries. It's here in America where both men and women have rights.
Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)And quite a few European countries have ages of consent at 15 or less, though by no means all.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)But I've been fairly consistent.
18 year old female:14 year old female::No.
18 year old male:14 year old female::No.
18 year old female:14 year old male::No.
18 year old male:14 year old male::No.
18 year old MtF transsexual:14 year old female::No.
18 year old FtM transsexual:14 year old female::No.
18 year old MtF transsexual:14 year old male::No.
18 year old FtM transsexual:14 year old female::No.
18 year old female:14 year old MtF transsexual::No.
18 year old male:14 year old MtF transsexual::No.
18 year old female:14 year old FtM transsexual::No.
18 year old male:14 year old FtM transsexual::No.
Based on the above, I think you can draw your own conclusions on the answer to the same question regarding people of androgynous gender-identities, genderfuck, intersex, and all other biological-sex/gender-identity permutations regardless of sexual orientation.
I do not think consensual sex between HS-aged individuals should be illegal.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)and in each of those scenarios the answer is yes in every state in the union.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)It's up to me to interpret the terms of the question I am answering, not you as an observer. I choose to interpret the two-word question "Criminal Act?" as "Should it be a criminal act?" not "Is it a criminal act?" If they wanted an answer to a specific question, they need ask a more precise question.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)I suppose. I take "is it?" to mean "is it?" not "should it be?" I would take "should it be?" to mean "should it be?"
Chan790
(20,176 posts)You have to answer the question posed...but the question posed wasn't "Is it a criminal act?" it was literally two words "Criminal act?" leaving the interpretation of what was being asked upon the questioned. You cannot imply or infer the words "Is it a..." into the question and insist that is the only appropriate interpretation of the question posed.
Since now is as good of a place as any to put in this thread...the response you've been spewing all over this thread is factually-wrong...it's not illegal in at-least one state and probably more than one. Every state has "windows-of-permissibility" in their statutes, otherwise you'd have 16 year-and-2 day olds getting arrested constantly for fucking 15 year-and-11 month olds. I know for a fact the window of permissibility in the state of CT is "3 and any fraction years where the younger party is no less than 14 years of age." (In other words, as long as you're at-least 1 day short of 4 years difference and the younger party is at-least 14: legal.) Nearly-15 and barely-18 is not illegal in CT. It is strongly socially frowned upon...which is probably for the best.
Want to guess what state I grew up in which would cause me to know that? Feel free to pose a cake recipe in response though.
arely staircase
(12,482 posts)nt
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)not kidding
Ms. Toad
(33,992 posts)There are a number of states in which it is only against the law when the defendant is over a certain age, or there is a large enough gap between the two (10 years in two states). (And no, I'm not going to hunt up the links I've posted several times already - there is a handy-dandy, relatively recent chart that is a Google search away.)
we can do it
(12,169 posts)bowens43
(16,064 posts)You want the older child to die in prison. Got it
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)...
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)and a 4 year old Golden Retriever that has? What if the pit bull misses, and it's anal sex?
Criminal act?
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)What about 14 year old pitbulls?
What about an 18 year old chihuahua that's bitten a pitbull?
I'm holding a conference at Olive Garden to discuss these important life questions. Bring your own chicken.
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)Inquiring minds want to know.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)And my name is Laura Branigan.
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)I must have missed that one.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Right up there with Olive Garden.
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)It must have been before my time.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)PETA. Now, we used to have much bigger fights about PETA and animal rights; not sure why that doesn't have the same traction, anymore.
BainsBane
(53,012 posts)DUers love to worry about other people's parenting and issues of morality. I am continually amazed at the threads that get the most traction here.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Chan790
(20,176 posts)None of those 32oz. "Big Gulp" cups.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)cynatnite
(31,011 posts)arely staircase
(12,482 posts)a certain Italian restaurant chain?
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Skittles
(153,111 posts)*EGREGIOUS ANALOGY*
LWolf
(46,179 posts)backscatter712
(26,355 posts)If it was a 45 year old forcing himself on a 5 year old, I'd lock him up.
Two hormones addled teenagers? No. Inappropriate, but better handled outside of the criminal justice system.
I hate feeding the prison-industrial complex.
RC
(25,592 posts)"Two hormones addled teenagers" covers this non-story quite well.
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)Nevernose
(13,081 posts)BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)Living here because of great friends.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Which country is your second country?
BlueJazz
(25,348 posts)loyalsister
(13,390 posts)n\t
Smarmie Doofus
(14,498 posts)... And while we're at it, what if a 14 y.o. "seduces" an 18 y.o.
A criminal act for the 18 y.o. ?
What if the 14 y.o has an IQ of 130 and the 18 y.o has an IQ of 80?
I see no EZ answers here.
Historic NY
(37,449 posts)whats next te age of consent of an amoeba and a human.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)18th birthday.
southerncrone
(5,506 posts)The age difference at this stage of human development is significant. Fourteen yr old boys often idolize 18 yr old guys, because they seem worldly & knowledgeable of things 14 yr olds only dream about. Unfair power levels.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)and only had the mind of a nine-year-old boy, would the 14-year-old guy then be the exploiter?
defacto7
(13,485 posts)Then we won't have to have any more of these questions!
olddots
(10,237 posts)napi21
(45,806 posts)an under age child is a criminal act. Think about all the accusations made against two heterosexuals, one age 18-20+ having relations with the (usually) girlfriend age 16! They can, and many time are charged with statutory rape! I'm old now, but I rember any girl under 18 was considered jail bait!
David__77
(23,320 posts)There's something you're being coy about.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)so kids who go to the same school can date without the older one being called a predator.
It's one thing to troll around a high school after graduation looking for young kids to date, and another to meet someone in the school band or on a sports team and feel affection and start a relationship. There has to be some way to differentiate the two, regardless of what sex either or both are.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)And yes, I have seen it prosecuted.
Nimajneb Nilknarf
(319 posts)Or something far worse wrong with him.