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IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 11:39 AM Jun 2013

Discussion: Should Rape be a Capital Crime?

This is a theoretical discussion. Rape is *NOT* currently a capital crime. (And the logistics behind such a change would be immense, which is why this is a theoretical discussion.)

In fact, many people do not consider it a "real" crime, or one that should be reported. (I wish this was sarcasm - see http://www.rainn.org/statistics for details.)

Here is where I find things "interesting" - per the referenced website, "2/3 of assaults are committed by someone known to the victim" and "38% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance."

So, assuming you "knew" someone who viciously sexually assaulted you or a loved one, would you want them executed?

Is defining "sexual assault" as an action involving any object penetrating someone else's existing bodily cavity an adequate way of explaining the difference between a regular "assault" (ex: fist on face, bullet through leg, knife in chest, etc.) - and should they be treated differently?

How could the inevitable "it was consensual/no it wasn't" challenges be addressed?

Here are the numbers, per this website: http://www.rainn.org/statistics

About Victims:
- 44% of victims are under age 18
- 80% are under age 30

Sexual Assault Statistics:
-Every 2 minutes, someone in the US is sexually assaulted.
-Each year there are about 207,754 victims of sexual assault.

Reporting:
- 54% of sexual assaults are not reported to police
- 97% of rapists will never spend a day in jail

About Offenders:- Approximately 2/3 of assaults are committed by someone known to the victim.
- 38% of rapists are friends or acquaintances.


Are these things "more prevalent" today, or are we just at a point where we are discussing them openly?

NOTE: This conversation is intended to provoke discussion on a discussion board. I am not advocating for or against the positions being discussed.

Share your thoughts, please.

ON EDIT: If you are "anti death penalty PERIOD" as opposed to "anti death penalty for RAPE" please identify. Thank you!

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Discussion: Should Rape be a Capital Crime? (Original Post) IdaBriggs Jun 2013 OP
No. Historically, it was the 'legal' basis for lynching. Read Coker v. Georgia and Kennedy v. msanthrope Jun 2013 #1
In a rarity, I fully agree. morningfog Jun 2013 #4
I'm not a complete crypto-fascist, you know! nt msanthrope Jun 2013 #7
Is your opinion "no death penalty EVER" or just not for rape? IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #10
And "To Kill A Mockingbird". KamaAina Jun 2013 #22
+1000 Tom Ripley Jun 2013 #53
I believe the Supreme Court already said that it can't be davidn3600 Jun 2013 #2
I am a victim and no. MindPilot Jun 2013 #3
I am another victim, and I say yes. n/t RebelOne Jun 2013 #15
you realize the rapist would have had nothing to lose killing you? markiv Jun 2013 #31
You realize that rapists already kill victims to keep them quiet, right? Gormy Cuss Jun 2013 #38
It is as most violent crimes rape is an irrational act so deterrents don't mean a lot MindPilot Jun 2013 #42
Rapists very rarely kill their victims. n/t Ms. Toad Jun 2013 #50
But some do kill even in states where the DP is still the law for murder. Gormy Cuss Jun 2013 #61
I wasn't arguing for the death penalty- Ms. Toad Jun 2013 #66
I'm well aware of rape statistics. Gormy Cuss Jun 2013 #72
I was a dumb 14-year-old at the time. RebelOne Jun 2013 #79
i'm sorry this happened to you markiv Jun 2013 #80
No, what would deter the rapist from murdering his victim so she could never tell.. angstlessk Jun 2013 #5
Are you saying that "low level punishment" (if any) is keeping victims alive? IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #8
Indeed I am..though "low level punishment" is not what I said angstlessk Jun 2013 #13
bingo - totally common sense answer nt markiv Jun 2013 #29
By that logic... Pelican Jun 2013 #71
You do not think a person would not murder a person whom they just raped angstlessk Jun 2013 #75
First, that is a lot of "nots" Pelican Jun 2013 #76
Popcorning your own thread is in poor taste (nt) Recursion Jun 2013 #6
Actually pipi_k Jun 2013 #40
Or attempting to start a discussion on a discussion board. IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #44
With all due respect GObamaGO Jun 2013 #47
Everyone is entitled to their opinions. IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #69
"Those f*ckers stay in your head..." alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #9
If someone brutally raped a loved one of mine, cliffordu Jun 2013 #11
and then you would deservedly spend your days rotting in prison. I would applaud cali Jun 2013 #14
In which case said rapist would likely just kill the victim AgingAmerican Jun 2013 #73
I anti-death penalty period, no exceptions. ever cali Jun 2013 #12
No crime should be a capital crime. DavidDvorkin Jun 2013 #16
No. Orrex Jun 2013 #17
No capital crimes.- no death penalty. Period. nt s-cubed Jun 2013 #18
No death penalty, at all. Tien1985 Jun 2013 #19
There is a lot of nuance to be explored in this thread. lapislzi Jun 2013 #20
No lunatica Jun 2013 #21
No. Only suspected terrorists and their families should face this. nt Demo_Chris Jun 2013 #23
No, the death penalty should never be used LittleBlue Jun 2013 #24
Yes. Rex Jun 2013 #25
Anti death penalty PERIOD FrodosPet Jun 2013 #26
YES because it's a life sentence Politicalboi Jun 2013 #27
and the additional penalty for silencing the victim with death would be.....? markiv Jun 2013 #28
No, that is not justice, the victim is still alive. n/t Ligyron Jun 2013 #30
No. I am anti-death penalty, period. PDJane Jun 2013 #32
No. rrneck Jun 2013 #33
What kind of person starts an OP about rape and adds a popcorn smiley at the bottom of it? Jamastiene Jun 2013 #34
One who wants a DISCUSSION without drama. IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #46
+1. It is disturbing. mentalsolstice Jun 2013 #82
Let me first say your popcorn... one_voice Jun 2013 #35
Anti-death penalty LadyHawkAZ Jun 2013 #36
I oppose capital punishment in general. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2013 #37
No. GeorgeGist Jun 2013 #39
Like a few pipi_k Jun 2013 #41
No cap. punishment for any crime... Eleanors38 Jun 2013 #43
Statistically, most appear to not be reported, IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #45
I don't take "still alive" and "can recover from it" Ms. Toad Jun 2013 #52
When 97% of rapists spend 0 time in jail, 54% of victims don't report -- IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #63
Rape culture is exactly what it is Ms. Toad Jun 2013 #65
No justice. No vengeance. No consequences. Shocking results. IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #68
No. Iggo Jun 2013 #48
No. Ms. Toad Jun 2013 #49
I think it should be eligible for a life sentence, in some cases, particularly if the victim nomorenomore08 Jun 2013 #51
I'm anti-DP wickerwoman Jun 2013 #54
Nothing should be a capital crime... (nt) petronius Jun 2013 #55
Generally anti-DP here. Prefer to decrease application of DP. struggle4progress Jun 2013 #56
I have to say yes, There are crimes society should end someone for. Half-Century Man Jun 2013 #57
Yes. If you're saying punishable with the death penalty, I think some forms of rape should be Number23 Jun 2013 #58
Not at all. David__77 Jun 2013 #59
MORE: Should a victim kill a rapist during an attack? Or immediately thereafter? IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #60
It is just about the worst crime there is. But, no DP, period. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #62
I don't believe in the death penalty E_A_ Jun 2013 #64
Which would make death penalty issues even more challenging, eh? IdaBriggs Jun 2013 #70
When I was a teen the argument was against because an 18 year old could have consentual sex with jwirr Jun 2013 #67
No treestar Jun 2013 #74
I'm anti-death penalty in all cases Scootaloo Jun 2013 #77
I've often advocated for violent rape to be a capital crime. MrSlayer Jun 2013 #78
No. kiva Jun 2013 #81
 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
1. No. Historically, it was the 'legal' basis for lynching. Read Coker v. Georgia and Kennedy v.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 11:48 AM
Jun 2013

Louisiana. That power should never, ever, be given back to the states.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
10. Is your opinion "no death penalty EVER" or just not for rape?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:05 PM
Jun 2013

Attempting to clarify for the purposes of this discussion.

 

KamaAina

(78,249 posts)
22. And "To Kill A Mockingbird".
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 01:21 PM
Jun 2013

"He's a n----r accused of rape. Of course he's guilty!"

 

davidn3600

(6,342 posts)
2. I believe the Supreme Court already said that it can't be
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 11:54 AM
Jun 2013

And there is concern that if they did make it a capital offense that rapists would be even more likely to kill their victims.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
3. I am a victim and no.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 11:59 AM
Jun 2013

I am opposed to the death penalty. Period.

Sexual violence is an issue that needs to be addressed in a more rational and scientific manner than "fry their ass".

 

markiv

(1,489 posts)
31. you realize the rapist would have had nothing to lose killing you?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:15 PM
Jun 2013

to keep you quiet, if that were the law?

would it have been worth it, being in that situation, for retaliation, betting that he's choose to spare your life over his own?

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
38. You realize that rapists already kill victims to keep them quiet, right?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 03:18 PM
Jun 2013

What's their incentive? Why are they trading a jail term for a potential DP?

One of the reasons I'm against capital punishment is that it is at best a weak disincentive.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
42. It is as most violent crimes rape is an irrational act so deterrents don't mean a lot
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jun 2013

most people don't commit rape because of the threat of a lengthy sentence, most people don't commit rape because it is WRONG!

I think in the mind of the rapist, the difference between life and death is not much.

Deterrents work better at the level of the frat party rape scenario where the potential rapist has something to lose. But ultimately the culture has to change and that never happens as fast as we'd like.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
61. But some do kill even in states where the DP is still the law for murder.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 09:08 AM
Jun 2013

My point is that the DP is at best a weak deterrent for any crime. There are dozens of other and better ways to address the culture of rape sexual assault.

Ms. Toad

(38,594 posts)
66. I wasn't arguing for the death penalty-
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:07 AM
Jun 2013

Capital offenses actually increase in the week preceding an execution, and tail off following the execution so, it is actually the opposite of a deterrent.

But because the rapes we hear about are the ones where there is significant brutalization or murder, I was making sure you knew that those were the rare exceptions rather than the rule.

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
72. I'm well aware of rape statistics.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 12:26 PM
Jun 2013

I was responding to a comment upthread where the argument against DP for rape seemed to be that rapists would be more inclined to kill their victims if the penalties for rape and murder were the same. It's an interesting theory but I doubt that it's borne out by the data.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
79. I was a dumb 14-year-old at the time.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:40 PM
Jun 2013

And these 2 guys who I trusted drove me to a secluded area which was swampy. Then they told me to take off my clothes. I jumped out of the car and was wading in the swamps and they caught me. I was raped and in my opinion these two monsters should be 6 feet under or locked away for the rest of their lives. This happened in the '50s and the victim was stigmatized, so many girls did not report being raped.

 

markiv

(1,489 posts)
80. i'm sorry this happened to you
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:45 PM
Jun 2013

and i'm not saying the animals dont deserve what you suggested, my comments are based purely on the danger of putting them in a position where they have nothing to lose and everything to gain by killing a witness/victim

that and nothing else

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
5. No, what would deter the rapist from murdering his victim so she could never tell..
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:02 PM
Jun 2013

the punishment would be the same...so no, I do not think it should be a death penalty offense.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
8. Are you saying that "low level punishment" (if any) is keeping victims alive?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:04 PM
Jun 2013

Where "corporal punishment" would incent the perpetrators to kill/murder, as opposed to "just" sexually assault?

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
13. Indeed I am..though "low level punishment" is not what I said
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:12 PM
Jun 2013

I was raped as a child...and luckily it was after the death penalty was removed...I was able to identify my rapists and they were sent to jail.....there were many reports of children being raped and killed before my rape...

 

Pelican

(1,156 posts)
71. By that logic...
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:26 AM
Jun 2013

... that means that the rapist is willing to accept the consequences of a rape charge but not a murder one.

They either think they are not going to get caught or that the punishment will be light enough to make the rape worth it.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
75. You do not think a person would not murder a person whom they just raped
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:02 PM
Jun 2013

considering the death penalty?

Would you?

I do not think they expect to be caught, but IF THEY WERE...do they want the death penalty vs 5 years in jail?

IF the death penalty was because of rape..why NOT murder the victim of rape?

 

Pelican

(1,156 posts)
76. First, that is a lot of "nots"
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:17 PM
Jun 2013

Secondly, they don't think they are going to get caught. That's why they do it.

It's not as if they are making a conscious decision "Well, it will cost me 5 years of my life but I really feel like rape tonight"

Same reason that the current death penalty has little to no deterrent effect. People who make enough bad decisions, to the point where they are murdering on a level worthy of the death penalty are not the best folks to weigh the pros and cons of an action.



pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
40. Actually
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 03:56 PM
Jun 2013

I agree.

Smacks of someone purposely looking to cause disruption and bad feelings.

GObamaGO

(665 posts)
47. With all due respect
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 01:20 AM
Jun 2013

Using the popcorn smiley reeks of shit stirring.

But I am sure you knew that already.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
69. Everyone is entitled to their opinions.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:21 AM
Jun 2013

Even the wrong ones.

Welcome to an internet message board.

You say "shit stirring" and I say "discussion" -- tomato, potato, let's call the whole thing off!

"Guys and Dolls" going through my head on a discussion about Rape - huh? Lol. Sigh.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
9. "Those f*ckers stay in your head..."
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:04 PM
Jun 2013


I'm against capital punishment, but this is a catchy song...

cliffordu

(30,994 posts)
11. If someone brutally raped a loved one of mine,
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:08 PM
Jun 2013

I might invoke capital punishment.

Or mutilate them to the point that children would faint and adults recoil in revulsion when seeing their faces.

But I'm sensitive that way.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
14. and then you would deservedly spend your days rotting in prison. I would applaud
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 12:13 PM
Jun 2013

vigilante "justice" is not justice and perps should be harshly punished. they are criminals. period.

I don't believe you would do any such thing.

lapislzi

(5,762 posts)
20. There is a lot of nuance to be explored in this thread.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 01:17 PM
Jun 2013

I hope the discussion remains civil and on-topic.

I have been anti-DP for my entire life. I think state-sponsored murder is barbaric and not worthy of a civilized society. I do not care for the exaltation of punishment over justice. It doesn't ennoble us as a society.

That being said, a handful of high-profile RAPE cases (now one is a rape/murder case) have caused me to rethink (not reverse) that position.

People on DU have oft heard me say "I'm not in the judging business." Well, sometimes we are. And this is a speculative discussion, after all.

The accused in the rape/murder of the medical student in Delhi late last year themselves try humanity in the most challenging way. There is no place in my human psyche for such barbarity, no compassion, and no scrap of mercy can I summon for these men. None.

Likewise the Ohio man who imprisoned and enslaved three young women for a decade. (There is, I think, little doubt of his guilt.) There is not even a fitting penalty for that on the law books--because it's so heinous. It's so heinous it can barely be conceived by rational humans.

What do you, as a society, DO with such individuals? What would justice look like? Is that even a question?

My own, admittedly small and imperfect, mind shuts down when confronted by such issues. Seeing such people alive is an affront to my own humanity.

Is the fault with me, that I lack sufficient compassion? Or are some crimes so beyond the pale that they stain the collective soul to the point that the people who committed them must be removed from the planet?

I don't know the answer. But I (along with Ms. Briggs) are taking callers.

Disclaimer: I'm an atheist. I use the word "soul" in a very loose sense, a kind of zeitgeist.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
24. No, the death penalty should never be used
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 01:40 PM
Jun 2013

Weren't there men convicted of rape and murder later exonerated by DNA evidence?

The death penalty makes the injustice permanent.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
25. Yes.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 01:46 PM
Jun 2013

Rape. People that rob others on a huge scale (think billion dollar ponzi scheme). Anyone involved in the grey market of selling people into prostitution. Government officials caught transporting huge amounts of drugs. War-mongers/traitors. All should be capital offenses imo.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
26. Anti death penalty PERIOD
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 01:58 PM
Jun 2013

Not that I don't believe that there are people who deserve the most severe punishment possible for rape and murder, but there is too much chance for innocent people to die.

None of us are so pure and so infallible as to make life and death judgements over others.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
27. YES because it's a life sentence
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:03 PM
Jun 2013

For the victim. If the victim is a child under the age of 12, it should be a death sentence IMO. Each case should have circumstances that will either be death or life sentences. It MUST be proved by DNA, the scum confesses, or has priors that involve sex or lewd conduct with children.

 

markiv

(1,489 posts)
28. and the additional penalty for silencing the victim with death would be.....?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:06 PM
Jun 2013

OOPS!!!!!

the unintended consequences of such a law, would be turning serial rapists into serial rapist/killers

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
32. No. I am anti-death penalty, period.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:20 PM
Jun 2013

Too many innocents die at the hands of law enforcement, and the death penalty has been, traditionally, used to suppress minorities. I would go so far as to say that the crime of being different can land you on death row.

The rape culture should be an anachronism, a throwback to the days of stoning and the removal of hands. It should be, in the 21st century, an anachronism. That it isn't, is a problem with those who judge and feel justified in judging...a holdover from religious teachings, among other things.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
33. No.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:27 PM
Jun 2013

I'm anti death penalty, but nevertheless rape is an injury from which one could recover. Death is hard to beat. And it's a lot easier to define death than sexual assault. Any crime that admits to a measure of interpretation should not be punishable with irreversible action. I believe that murder is pretty much the only capital offense left. Maybe treason, which can result in considerable loss of life, but I'm not sure.

Jamastiene

(38,206 posts)
34. What kind of person starts an OP about rape and adds a popcorn smiley at the bottom of it?
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:27 PM
Jun 2013

That you could put a popcorn smiley on a post about rape is sickening.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
46. One who wants a DISCUSSION without drama.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 10:24 PM
Jun 2013

A theoretical one, with thoughtful people adding commentary about the topic.

You are free to ignore either the thread or me if you do not feel you have anything to add other than commentary about my editing choices.

Debates about crime and punishment can be entertaining - see the "Law & Order" television franchises, and any of the dozen police/lawyer books/movies/television shows, hence since this is a theoretical discussion with no impact in the real world, I used the popcorn smiley to show that it should not be taken too seriously, but as a rhetorical indulgence.

mentalsolstice

(4,653 posts)
82. +1. It is disturbing.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 08:42 PM
Jun 2013

Even more disturbing is the OP's response to you. To say such a discussion can be "entertaining" and not be taken seriously, is sickening. After all it's worthy just like L&O, a show while entertaining, has absolutely no basis in reality.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
35. Let me first say your popcorn...
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:31 PM
Jun 2013

smiley is very insensitive and quite frankly disgusting.

But to answer you question, as a victim (which is why I said what I did about your popcorn smiley) I say no. No to death penalty.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
36. Anti-death penalty
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:35 PM
Jun 2013

but even when I supported it, I didn't agree with making rape a capital crime. I would fully support longer sentencing than we have now, though.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
37. I oppose capital punishment in general.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 02:37 PM
Jun 2013

No "do over" option...and that alone is enough to make me oppose it.

That said, any rape committed against me would very possibly carry a death sentence. Just not an official, legal one...

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
41. Like a few
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jun 2013

others have said...

putting a popcorn smiley in a post about rape is insensitive.

I'm not even going to bother replying to the question, and I really hope you reconsider...either remove the popcorn smiley or self delete this thread.

 

Eleanors38

(18,318 posts)
43. No cap. punishment for any crime...
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 05:25 PM
Jun 2013

Some forty years ago there was debate among women's rights activist on lowering the penalty from death (in Texas) to lesser sentences. The reason: Victims and prosecutors would be more likely to, respectively report and prosecute the crime, and juries would be more likely to convict if the sentence were not "all or nothing." It seemed to be a hedge against jury nullification. The penalties were lowered.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
45. Statistically, most appear to not be reported,
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 10:12 PM
Jun 2013

And folks aren't going to jail. The current system doesn't seem to be working, and social media is now allowing lifelong humiliation and bullying of victims which has led several to suicide.

It is interesting to me that most people on this thread are anti death penalty, yet comfortable with long prison sentences, which in our current system do not rehabilitate and create repeat offenders while torturing those non-wealthy few who seem to be convictable.

There is also an interesting sense of ambivalence about how serious a sexual assault should be taken - "still alive" and "can recover from it" are both true, but if this is the take, I suggest we remove "rape culture" from the lexicon and just go with "violent culture" if we believe that a victim's personal sense of self is not impacted anymore than if a drunken brawler had bashed them across the back of a head with a beer bottle during a bar fight.

Acknowledging issues of under reporting as cultural, wikipedia has some interesting data here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics. I found the idea that the "United Arab Emerite" which is not known for its liberal stance on women's rights, reports less than 100 rapes per year (less than 2% per 100,000 people) while the United States which also has an UNDER REPORTING issue is currently in the 26% category - which makes me go --



Ms. Toad

(38,594 posts)
52. I don't take "still alive" and "can recover from it"
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 01:47 AM
Jun 2013

as ambivalent or a belief that "a victim's personal sense of self is not impacted anymore than if a drunken brawler had bashed them across the back of a head with a beer bottle during a bar fight."

There is a chasm between being dead and being konked on the head in a bar fight. The personal impact rape falls somewhere between the two. And rape culture has more to do with the pervasive impact the ever present possibility of rape has on the day to day lives of (primarily) women.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
63. When 97% of rapists spend 0 time in jail, 54% of victims don't report --
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 09:28 AM
Jun 2013

and people question whether sexually based violence is more heinous than "regular" assault, I am not sure "rape culture" is actually an accurate description of the situation. I am still mulling this over, so please bear with me.

Murder is Bad. We create degrees - on purpose/planned versus heat of the moment stupidity versus idiotic foreseeable/preventable.

Assault is Bad, and we "degree" it the same way regardless of whether it is sexual or not. Yet, while most people wouldn't hesitate to notify authorities if a stranger hit them with a beer bottle during a bar brawl, a woman walking to the bar's parking lot who is assaulted or who is drugged by the "nice guy" she met and wakes up in a car with her panties missing may never mention it to anyone, instead blaming herself for putting herself in that situation. (NOTE: I am NOT saying it is her fault; I am acknowledging a common propensity of victims to blame themselves, which gives them the illusion of control over something outside of their control.)

The damage from a broken arm is fairly well established; a broken hymen, not so much. And for non-virgin victims, how do you put a "dollar value" on the damage? "I cringed when my boyfriend touched me" as opposed to "loss of consortium" in a marriage? "I was humiliated and ashamed" as opposed to "the bruises faded, right?"

We actively discourage seeking Vengeance while promising Justice; when neither happens, there doesn't seem to be a lot of incentive for folks to change their ways, does there?

Ms. Toad

(38,594 posts)
65. Rape culture is exactly what it is
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:03 AM
Jun 2013

We live in a culture where rape, unfortunately, is the norm rather than the exception and we train both genders to play their proper role nearly from the day they are born. when Sally is playing nicely and building castles, and Johnny comes along and knocks them down, as often as not the refrain is "boys will be boys." Sally learns there is no point in complaining - it is just how boys act. Johnny learns that he is permitted to have his way and that he need not worry about Sally's feelings - or respect it when Sally says, "No." That is a generalization - but before you (or anyone else who will likely chime in) rejects it, think when the last time you saw a female child act aggressively and heard someone excuse it by saying "girls will be girls." And it isn't that we're training boys to be bad - although we are - we are also training girls that there isn't anything that can be done about they aren't worth very much. It is not healthy for anyone.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
68. No justice. No vengeance. No consequences. Shocking results.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:19 AM
Jun 2013

That last bit for the shocking =

Seriously, even when women are trained to kill and armed (see military example), Still No Consequences.

Apparently "rape" isn't a "real" problem.

But if people were running around randomly shooting each other - oh-wait-a-minute.



Sigh.

Ms. Toad

(38,594 posts)
49. No.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 01:34 AM
Jun 2013

Both anti-death penalty generally, and specifically for rape.

It is challenging enough to obtain a conviction in rape cases - except when the survivor looks visibly beaten up (and the police documented it so the pictures are displayed to the jury). When you add the possibility that taking the survivor's side might result in the death of someone I believe the conviction rate would plummet. Not to mention that in cases where it is a he-said-she-said dispute, many men can put themselves in the position shoes of the "he" and would be even less likely to convict if conviction might mean the death of someone you relate to.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
51. I think it should be eligible for a life sentence, in some cases, particularly if the victim
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 01:37 AM
Jun 2013

is a minor. But not the DP. Then again, I tend to think even mass murderers shouldn't get the DP - just life without parole - so my position on that is fairly absolute.

wickerwoman

(5,662 posts)
54. I'm anti-DP
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 02:03 AM
Jun 2013

but would support life sentences for serial rapists and child rapists, and longer sentences generally.

The problem with the DP for rape is that it's a notoriously difficult charge to get any conviction on period and throwing the death penalty into the mix would just make juries more hesitant to convict.

struggle4progress

(126,102 posts)
56. Generally anti-DP here. Prefer to decrease application of DP.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 02:12 AM
Jun 2013

I suppose DP-for-rape could deter some rapes -- but I'd also worry it might increase the murder-rate of rape-victims: "Well, now that I've raped her, I'll be executed if I'm caught, so I might as well make sure she can never identify me to anybody"

Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
57. I have to say yes, There are crimes society should end someone for.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 02:32 AM
Jun 2013

That being said, I think that once a DP has been given. The complete trial transcript and all evidence should be turned over to a regional facility for impartial review, an automatic appeal. That there would be a 12 person board with professionals and lay persons to evaluate each case independently with strict conflict of interest rules. This needs to be done very carefully.

Not all commissions of the same crimes are equal; that is why all trials are stand alone affairs. Which can be influenced by, but not totally bound to, precedents.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
58. Yes. If you're saying punishable with the death penalty, I think some forms of rape should be
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 03:15 AM
Jun 2013

David__77

(24,661 posts)
59. Not at all.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 04:05 AM
Jun 2013

Not in any cases where that is the sole charge. I oppose the death penalty except in very rare cases of wartime.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
60. MORE: Should a victim kill a rapist during an attack? Or immediately thereafter?
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 09:04 AM
Jun 2013

An example of the challenges presented in this attitude involve Rape in the Military.

The female victims are armed, trained to kill, frequently know their attackers - and yet the rapists are still alive/walking/not in prison.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/05/us/politics/joint-chiefs-testimony-on-sexual-assault-dismays-senators.html

(snip)

The hearing followed several weeks of reports of sexual assault in the armed forces and a Pentagon survey that estimated that 26,000 people in the armed forces were sexually assaulted last year, up from 19,000 in 2010. Senator Harry Reid of Nevada, the majority leader, who on Tuesday called sexual assault in the military “beyond the pale,” said the Senate would move to address the problem in the coming defense bill. “Something has to be done about it,” he said.

(snip)

Ms. Gillibrand also chided the leaders for sometimes understating the gravity of some of the crimes before them, noting that one commander had told a victim that he believed her assailant had not “acted like a gentleman” but had not committed a crime. “Not every commander can distinguish between a slap on the ass and a rape,” Ms. Gillibrand said.

Several advocates for victims of sexual assault also testified, in some cases offering chilling testimony about women and men who had been sexually abused and then lost their careers by seeking justice. “The military does not create rapists,” said Anu Bhagwati, who served as a Marine captain and is executive director of the Service Women’s Action Network. But, she said, it does “condone sexual violence.”

E_A_

(9 posts)
64. I don't believe in the death penalty
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 09:40 AM
Jun 2013

.....so for that reason I answer "No". It IS however a heinous crime, anyone who says otherwise is deep in denial.

I would like to add that statistics on sexual abuse probably are far lower than the actual number since the combinations of denial, amnesia, and the pressures of victim's being shamed or blamed prevent full disclosure. Also familial pressure and societal pressure to not 'betray' your family prevent awareness of the amount of abuse actually done within families.

 

IdaBriggs

(10,559 posts)
70. Which would make death penalty issues even more challenging, eh?
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:26 AM
Jun 2013

Not only does (insert daddy/step-daddy/mamma's boyfriend) rape you, but if you tell, then a primary financial support of the family (in theory) is gone, and everyone ends up on the street, and it is all YOUR FAULT because YOU TOLD!!!!

Incest survivors have it the worst: their abusers join them at holidays, coping mechanisms frequently result in disastrous life choices, and everyone blames the victim while the perpetrator either calls them crazy, or puts on a facade of decency.



Sigh.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
67. When I was a teen the argument was against because an 18 year old could have consentual sex with
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 11:15 AM
Jun 2013

a 16 year old who late explains her pregnancy was due to rape. Keep in mind that many girls quit school to get married at a very young age back then. I was married at 16 and there was no rape involved. This is merely to give you a little of the background on this argument.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
74. No
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 12:46 PM
Jun 2013

While I am against the death penalty and that may affect my thinking, where it exists, it should only for applied in aggravated cases of first degree murder.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
77. I'm anti-death penalty in all cases
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:17 PM
Jun 2013

So... yeah, there's that.

Nice flamebait topic starter though.

 

MrSlayer

(22,143 posts)
78. I've often advocated for violent rape to be a capital crime.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 05:25 PM
Jun 2013

The rape of children in particular. The Jerry Sanduskys of the world would not be long for it if I had my way.

Of course, I won't have my way so spare me the sermons please. Most of the people here are against capital punishment, I get it. Not all of us are.

kiva

(4,373 posts)
81. No.
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 06:00 PM
Jun 2013

All that does is give defense attorneys one more thing to throw at juries..."Do you want to put this man to death?" Historically that doesn't end well.

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