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where's FrenchieCat? (Original Post) DesertFlower Jun 2013 OP
Laughing at us with Old Crusoe BeyondGeography Jun 2013 #1
I really miss Old Crusoe (who had changed his username before he left for good). CTyankee Jun 2013 #17
Yeah, Old Crusoe.. he changed it to something to do with Cha Jun 2013 #22
I wish I knew! To tell you the truth, I was worried he was sick. CTyankee Jun 2013 #25
Saltpoint. Great poster! LeftishBrit Jun 2013 #31
Me too BeyondGeography Jun 2013 #33
The reason I was worried about his health was because he never lost his cool over stuff CTyankee Jun 2013 #39
He was SO nice to me. MuseRider Jun 2013 #56
I liked that he was very pro-women, no sexist stuff with him! CTyankee Jun 2013 #57
SaltPoint Samantha Jun 2013 #109
Oh Yes! SaltPoint Cha Jun 2013 #110
Old Crusoe (Saltpoint), one of my best friends here. Blue_In_AK Jun 2013 #58
You don't know anything either? MuseRider Jun 2013 #81
No, he just sort of fell off the face of the earth. Blue_In_AK Jun 2013 #85
she doesn't post here much anymore JI7 Jun 2013 #2
She's around, posted last month. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #3
Hadn't seen that. But considering how often she used to post here, Number23 Jun 2013 #13
Do you remember when the BOG was so highly monitored that it didn't pay to post at all? NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #43
All names I miss JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #51
Yes, I do. Major Hogwash Jun 2013 #84
Having a crisis of faith. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #4
-100 Control-Z Jun 2013 #5
meh. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #7
Agreed. Par for the course DevonRex Jun 2013 #9
LOL, what schlock Skittles Jun 2013 #6
DAMN that was a great thread. SO eloquent, that OP. calimary Jun 2013 #63
well said. nt DesertFlower Jun 2013 #70
God didn't do it. Voters did. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #75
There's a difference between criticism and continual tearing-down Hekate Jun 2013 #76
How would one constructively criticize a president who collects the metadata on all your calls... lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #78
The difference is in the eye of the beholder. Marr Jun 2013 #79
You just had to be cheap about it DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #87
that post always cracked me up. napoleon_in_rags Jun 2013 #88
It's hard to be positive anymore Union Scribe Jun 2013 #97
Probably sick of DU's shit. emulatorloo Jun 2013 #8
+1 n/t jaysunb Jun 2013 #10
Yup. See up thread, for example...nt SidDithers Jun 2013 #11
Ayup alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #28
yep, same shit now as about last time there were midterms coming up. Whisp Jun 2013 #77
She certainly wouldn't be the only one. Pirate Smile Jun 2013 #103
Joined a long, LONG list of black DUers that are thoroughly disgusted with what this site Number23 Jun 2013 #12
sad. i enjoyed her posts. my sister NanceGreggs DesertFlower Jun 2013 #14
I don't think it has turned into a hate site but... kentuck Jun 2013 #15
Wow that was an exercise in not being objective treestar Jun 2013 #24
Are you a fan of the President? kentuck Jun 2013 #26
No. I am a supporter. treestar Jun 2013 #44
No you are being overly simplistic about other's positions emulatorloo Jun 2013 #46
It's typical of the nastiness that now passes for discourse here alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #29
Obviously... kentuck Jun 2013 #32
Only with people of good faith alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #36
Who agree with you? kentuck Jun 2013 #37
Please alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #38
you are one of the very few here datasuspect Jun 2013 #42
No kidding treestar Jun 2013 #45
Exactly. Nicely said. Number23 Jun 2013 #67
Both Nance and Frenchie are wise women, and DU is poorer for their departure. Hekate Jun 2013 #16
That's for sure. n/t pnwmom Jun 2013 #18
Another brilliant prolific poster who left in 2009 was Jackeens.. Cha Jun 2013 #23
Good to know. Thanks. n/t pnwmom Jun 2013 #49
Jackeens became disillusioned with DU early on. Beacool Jun 2013 #72
+1 Blasphemer Jun 2013 #133
I think that some people became emotionally invested with Obama. Beacool Jun 2013 #134
Indeed alcibiades_mystery Jun 2013 #30
Well said. Major Hogwash Jun 2013 #40
Both have a great deal of power with words and highly intelligent lunatica Jun 2013 #48
i agree. nt DesertFlower Jun 2013 #50
I really hate revisionism. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #54
I feel your pain Hekate Jun 2013 #62
Hear, hear. Beacool Jun 2013 #71
I must've been in some alternate universe, because I remember both Nancegreggs and Marr Jun 2013 #80
Less so with Nance, but I think it's a kind of projection. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2013 #83
I must have had more run-ins with Nance hfojvt Jun 2013 #116
In alot of ways, it has Number23 Jun 2013 #19
Yeah, Nance went for far greener pastures, same with Frenchie. :) Cha Jun 2013 #21
I stick around for the show Floyd_Gondolli Jun 2013 #47
I hear ya, Floyd.. Cha Jun 2013 #64
She's right. nt Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #27
which is one of the reasons no one takes nancegreggs' writing seriously. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #61
lol Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #91
no idea when *she* 'left', but her writing & her persona has been around fairly recently. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #93
Sure. Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #94
it's sure that i find her writing boring, yes indeed. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #96
Who cares? Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #98
probably about as many as care that she's 'gone'. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #101
I'm pretty sure her Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #104
insiders accounts usually are. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #111
To be fair her writing is sometimes posted. nt Union Scribe Jun 2013 #100
it's posted on a fairly regular basis, about once a month. plus random conversations noting HiPointDem Jun 2013 #102
that's kinda funny hfojvt Jun 2013 #114
Is there an Obama Underground? tblue Jun 2013 #52
Google could help you with that better than I could. Number23 Jun 2013 #65
This black man is still here. Apophis Jun 2013 #66
Hello. Number23 Jun 2013 #68
Do you specifically know anything about SaltPoint? Samantha Jun 2013 #112
No, I'm sorry but I don't. I don't even recognize the name. Number23 Jun 2013 #115
Wait until campaign season comes back around. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #20
I am glad to see I am not the only one to asjr Jun 2013 #34
"SO I SAY HELL NO TO THE DLC MENTALITY!" The Link Jun 2013 #35
Where is SwampRat? malaise Jun 2013 #41
Very much missed. Blue_In_AK Jun 2013 #59
Yeah, I miss Swampy too. Skidmore Jun 2013 #125
Lot of the old timers gone, glad you're still here my friend DainBramaged Jun 2013 #69
Glad you're still here malaise Jun 2013 #73
all the names mentioned in this thread hfojvt Jun 2013 #117
I saw a post from McCamy Taylor recently malaise Jun 2013 #118
This message was self-deleted by its author Cali_Democrat Jun 2013 #53
don't know, but just want to say, that to me, DU is better than ever. quinnox Jun 2013 #55
And, come to think of it, where is Walt Starr? pinboy3niner Jun 2013 #60
Ou sont les Neigedens d'anton? - nt HardTimes99 Jun 2013 #74
I kind of liked old Walt Starr Blue_In_AK Jun 2013 #86
Walt's flameout is famous for Skinner's brilliantly elegant reply pinboy3niner Jun 2013 #119
If you really want to know where he is you better Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2013 #124
Only if you promise me beer, travel money and many experiences pinboy3niner Jun 2013 #127
. Guy Whitey Corngood Jun 2013 #128
Run off. Texasgal Jun 2013 #82
+1 Bobbie Jo Jun 2013 #92
I agree with you Marrah_G Jun 2013 #131
I see that many of the people DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #89
That comment was taken out of context. Beacool Jun 2013 #106
Honestly DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #121
She's only human. They all make mistakes. Beacool Jun 2013 #123
Or simply not to make a joke out of someone dying DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #129
Do you have to be sarcastic about everything? Beacool Jun 2013 #132
No, but DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #136
beer and travel money grasswire Jun 2013 #90
hahaaahahah... perfect timing. Ellipsis Jun 2013 #95
word has it that poster is still here under different management. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #99
I hope so. nt grasswire Jun 2013 #105
Hmmm... progressoid Jun 2013 #108
See, this is why we need PRISM. rug Jun 2013 #107
FrenchieCat was a Huge supporter of Wes Clark JI7 Jun 2013 #113
FrenchieCat & Jackeen were respectful posters in the RKBA group. I miss them. Eleanors38 Jun 2013 #120
Hey fC DonCoquixote Jun 2013 #122
Probably sitting around wondering why we're still here on DU. I wonder myself... Liberal_Stalwart71 Jun 2013 #126
Guessing, till she tells us, but for myself, mahina Jun 2013 #130
probsbly compiling picture threads on Obama Diaries.com with Jackeens! boilerbabe Jun 2013 #135

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
17. I really miss Old Crusoe (who had changed his username before he left for good).
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 02:27 AM
Jun 2013

I hope he is OK. He was a mensch...

Cha

(297,211 posts)
22. Yeah, Old Crusoe.. he changed it to something to do with
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:35 AM
Jun 2013

water in Florida. I remember asking him about it and he explained it to me. but, darned if I can remember it.

Do you know why he left, CTyankee? He was a mensch.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
25. I wish I knew! To tell you the truth, I was worried he was sick.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 07:45 AM
Jun 2013

But he was never bombastic about stuff. I guess I didn't expect he would make a dramatic exit...

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
33. Me too
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:09 AM
Jun 2013

He was wonderful. An Edwards guy (Edwards did have lots of great supporters, which makes him even more despicable). He went out to Iowa for the 2008 caucuses and wrote some of the best campaign summaries ever, in addition to his regular dispensations of wisdom.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
39. The reason I was worried about his health was because he never lost his cool over stuff
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:37 AM
Jun 2013

on DU, he just disappeared one day and never came back...

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
56. He was SO nice to me.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 04:05 PM
Jun 2013

We butted heads a lot but he never was unkind or never declined an opportunity to try to understand, even if he could not. He was far fairer than I have ever been and he was very even tempered about everything. He always asked about personal things we had talked about, our mutual love of Broadway and music and he always asked about my horses. He knew how to be a kind person in the midst of all the shit stirring around here.

I do hope he is having a wonderful life. I miss him. It seems he was just gone one day and that has always concerned me.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
57. I liked that he was very pro-women, no sexist stuff with him!
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 04:16 PM
Jun 2013

I don't think I ever disagreed with him about anything...I felt we had kindred spirits...

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
109. SaltPoint
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 12:51 AM
Jun 2013

I REALLY MISS HIM. I have been meaning to post the question here if anyone knew anything about him. This place is not the same with him.

Sam

Cha

(297,211 posts)
110. Oh Yes! SaltPoint
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 12:56 AM
Jun 2013

thank you, Sam. I like knowing people's names.. even user names on the internet.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
13. Hadn't seen that. But considering how often she used to post here,
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 01:47 AM
Jun 2013

seems obvious that she has pretty much taken her leave of DU.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
43. Do you remember when the BOG was so highly monitored that it didn't pay to post at all?
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jun 2013

And when NanceGreggs and JeffR pretty much stopped coming by, too?

That's about the time FC stopped posting and I'd say many months, if not years, passed without a peep.

When DU3 came about there was a resurrection of the Barack Obama Group and she started posting again.

Never as much as back in 2007-2009, but it was good to see her again.

There are a couple other groups that arose during that time, like Democrats for Progress, but I'm not sure if she posts much there or not.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
84. Yes, I do.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:53 PM
Jun 2013

And it didn't stop even after President Obama was elected in 2008.
Not only were we monitored for posting in that group forum, we were trashed for posting in that group forum in other forums right here at the DU!
That made no freaking sense to me.
But, worse than that not only were we trashed for posting in the BOG group forum at the DU, some of them went to other forums and to Facebook and trashed us there, too.

Some of those same people that were trashing us back then are the very ones whining the loudest now about the spying that the NSA is doing.

Ironic, isn't it?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
7. meh.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 12:58 AM
Jun 2013

The messiah bullshit did a huge disservice to the entire process, as did "Dumb White Fucks and Hillary supporters".

Everyone who bitches about the tone and tenor and incivility of DU3 should take a trip in the wayback machine.

DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
9. Agreed. Par for the course
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 01:10 AM
Jun 2013

around here. Brush it off and just talk to the decent people. I've found quite a few that I can even argue with who are nice.

calimary

(81,262 posts)
63. DAMN that was a great thread. SO eloquent, that OP.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:07 PM
Jun 2013

Thanks for re-posting it, lumberjack-jeff!

For me it helps to remember. It helps to put a few things into perspective. I think the very monumental growth spurt in our nation's maturity. Seems to me we're kind of an adolescent or teenager country now, compared to the "adults" and other "elders" in the room. Meaning the European nations with their cultures over a thousand years or more, and certainly Japan and China, around for thousands of years. The Jewish collective stretches over several millennia. Our history is a big ol' whoppin' 230-some years long. We're barely out of the high chair compared to many. Historically, to quote Joe Biden, it indeed was/is a "Big Fuckin' Deal!" Whatever else he does, Barack Obama tore down that "Berlin Wall" in our country's evolution. The last wall to be broken through is for women. But Obama created an entrance for non-whites.

I'm still proud I contributed to that in all the ways I did. Granted, there's all the other stuff swirling around now. But hey - how "great" would things be now, given the issues now - if the republi-CON mindset had been in charge instead? God forbid! And thank God that God did.

...just rambling for a moment. Sorry...

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
75. God didn't do it. Voters did.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:17 PM
Jun 2013

They picked a person warts and all. Better than the alternatives, but still a person with all the questionable agendas and a limited ability to get it done.

The disillusionment with BO is due to the complete lack of critical thinking that some people applied to the job of "voter". They decided that they knew what he was going to be about by looking at him and seeing a faint halo... yet disregarding everything he said and everything he did.

Their expectations were so high as to be unattainable, so when the pony didn't materialize, they simply disengaged. Obama raised a billion dollars in campaign contributions in 2012, but unlike 2008, he didn't raise it from the little people.

It's been a few years since I've used this quote, but now it seems apropos again.

“To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president, right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public.” - Theodore Roosevelt
 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
78. How would one constructively criticize a president who collects the metadata on all your calls...
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:31 PM
Jun 2013

and diverts and stores all your emails?

What's the constructive criticism here?

The only good-faith explanation he could have provided is; "oopsie. I forgot that switch was turned on". He has done the opposite, and aggressively prosecuted those who blew the whistle.

To a people who fancy themselves citizens of a nation of laws, is either acceptable or it is not. The person sitting in the chair is irrelevant.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
79. The difference is in the eye of the beholder.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:31 PM
Jun 2013

Bushies found the criticism of their hero president to be unfair and destructive, too.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
88. that post always cracked me up.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 09:23 PM
Jun 2013

Not the content or sentiment, but the delivery. Read it out loud, like a script, and try to envision a scene where a husband saying that to his wife looks natural. But she was very positive, which too few people are now days.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
77. yep, same shit now as about last time there were midterms coming up.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:26 PM
Jun 2013

like clockwork, the sqwacking gets so loud. This time it will be worse. We have a Ron Paul Libertarian for a hero.

I sure wish EarlG would do another Fuck Ron Paul thread, we sure do need it now more than ever.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
12. Joined a long, LONG list of black DUers that are thoroughly disgusted with what this site
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 01:45 AM
Jun 2013

has devolved into and took the high road out of it. Haven't seen Frenchie around in months. Many months.

I actually went into the old AAIG (African American Interest Group) on DU2 and there were names there I have not seen in years. Frequent, regular posters that don't post here anymore. I got in touch with one who posts on another web site and he said there was no way in hell he'd post here anymore. I can't say that I blame him.

Shoot, I did a roll call thread of black posters about a year or so ago and easily 1/3 of them don't post here anymore either. In so many, MANY ways this web site doesn't represent the Dem party in any way, shape or form.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
14. sad. i enjoyed her posts. my sister NanceGreggs
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 02:06 AM
Jun 2013

doesn't post here anymore either. she said "it's turned into a hate site".

kentuck

(111,094 posts)
15. I don't think it has turned into a hate site but...
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 02:15 AM
Jun 2013

...I do think it has become very divisive. The President has a lot of supporters. Some might call them fans. He can do no wrong. He is our quarterback.

And there are some oldtimers that fought George W Bush and Dick Cheney for eight long years and they cannot possibly accept the Bush policies in any form and they are disappointed in Barack Obama in that respect. These are the most loyal Democrats you will find anywhere.

So there is a present battle going on for the soul and mind of the democraticunderground.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
24. Wow that was an exercise in not being objective
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:45 AM
Jun 2013

The President has many detractors here, including those who call his supporters "fans."

emulatorloo

(44,124 posts)
46. No you are being overly simplistic about other's positions
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 12:20 PM
Jun 2013

I am a far left liberal and I am sick of DU'ers calling me a Nazi just because I don,t agree 100 percent with the party line promulgated by DU's self-appointed keepers of the "Truth."

You have never struck me as a divisive person. Why start now?

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
29. It's typical of the nastiness that now passes for discourse here
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 07:57 AM
Jun 2013

The dumb, star-struck "fans" and the committed-loyal democrats who are righteous beyond measure.

That's precisely the kind of stupidity that loses us some of our best posters, and many of them posters of color. That so much of this is inflected by race is obvious to anyone who is not him or herself star-struck by the sound of his or her own voice, like your interlocutor. If you're not in that bubble, it's obviously driven by hate.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
38. Please
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:35 AM
Jun 2013

There are people of good faith with whom I disagree. We have respectful arguments, and often even work through issues in productive ways that make me see things differently.

Since I don't really count you among those, I'll wish you a good day, as I have no interest in having conversations of any kind with you.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
45. No kidding
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 09:52 AM
Jun 2013

Yet some of them were Eddie fans or Julian fans or Bradley fans right off. At least the President has been known for a long time, yet they were calling Eddie a hero instantly.

And some of them are fans of Elizabeth Warren. I guess they think she will have the "backbone" to disband the CIA. Bet they would be wrong.

Hekate

(90,681 posts)
16. Both Nance and Frenchie are wise women, and DU is poorer for their departure.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 02:22 AM
Jun 2013

Some of the posts in this thread prove their point.

Cha

(297,211 posts)
23. Another brilliant prolific poster who left in 2009 was Jackeens..
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:41 AM
Jun 2013

who left to create her own site. And, it's had over 10,000,000 hits since then. She, too, had all that "hate" directed towards her that Nance experienced.

A sampling.. her name is "chipsticks" now..
http://theobamadiary.com/2013/06/18/germany-the-schedule/

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
72. Jackeens became disillusioned with DU early on.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 07:22 PM
Jun 2013

Last edited Wed Jun 19, 2013, 11:45 PM - Edit history (1)

The problem is that this site is called "Democratic Underground", not Obama's fan club, or Hillary's, or Biden's, etc.

She posted beautiful threads and lovely pics, but couldn't tolerate anything negative being said about Obama. I haven't visited her new site, but I doubt that dissent is allowed there. Obama is no longer a candidate, but president. He's enduring the same kind of criticism that all presidents do. Clinton was trashed on a daily basis, so was Bush and so was everyone who came before them. It comes with the territory.

Blasphemer

(3,261 posts)
133. +1
Fri Jun 21, 2013, 12:36 AM
Jun 2013

This is my attitude as well. I'm heartened by criticism of a Democratic politician on Democratic, liberal and/or progressive boards. That is as it should be. There is no way to progress socially without questioning our leaders - ALL of them. The greatest women and men in political and world history have been dissenters at some point in their lives. Unfortunately, in 2008 a certain contingent of people felt that we needed to protect certain Democratic politicians to present a united front. I have always felt that to be narrow and backwards thinking.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
134. I think that some people became emotionally invested with Obama.
Fri Jun 21, 2013, 12:30 PM
Jun 2013

To these people any criticism of him is abhorrent, but being president is not being a movie star or a famous singer. All presidents need their feet to be held to the fire, even the ones from one's own party.

Major Hogwash

(17,656 posts)
40. Well said.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 09:16 AM
Jun 2013

They were wise beyond their years.
And I'm not just saying that.
They were 2 of my favorite members.
There were times when I would read what they had said, and I would wish that I could write stuff like they did.
Then other times they would write and say stuff that I hadn't even thought of.

And that is why we need more women in Congress!!
Intelligent women like those 2 should be in positions of power instead of the thundering dunderheads that are in control of the House today.


lunatica

(53,410 posts)
48. Both have a great deal of power with words and highly intelligent
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 12:34 PM
Jun 2013

I miss them. But they're not gone completely. Every once in a while they post and I always click on their links, and I'm never disappointed.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
54. I really hate revisionism.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jun 2013

If FrenchieCat has left, I hope she's enjoying whatever she's chosen to do. But the crocodile tears over the deplorable current state of DU discourse ring false, particularly from people who should remember what it was like to be a Hillary supporter (or a supporter of anyone other than BO, for that matter) and the people who were responsible for it.

DU2 sucked, and the ability of a vocal group to shout down dissent by appealing to their mods was a primary reason. Absent that ability, the cool kids simply lost interest.

Hekate

(90,681 posts)
62. I feel your pain
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:01 PM
Jun 2013


I came late to the Obama party, having first supported Edwards, then Hillary. I live in California, where despite our enormous population our primary election doesn't count for shit because the presidential nominee is pretty much settled by the time we get to vote.

However by that time I had read Obama's first book, and I liked his bio and the way he thinks. Everybody has a bias and I have been clear about mine: You Mainlanders have no idea how Hawai'ian this man is, and what a different culture that denotes. I'm half a generation older than he is, but I was raised on Oahu, went to public schools, and like his parents, graduated from the University of Hawai'i. The aloha his grandparents had for Hawai'i, despite their personal struggles, having come from someplace so different, resonates with my own parents' reaction and the aloha they felt. The slight sense being an outsider to the majority culture, of being always seen as a newcomer, somewhat paralleled mine, as neither of us looks in the slightest like a Polynesian or Asian, and after awhile it wears on you.

What I got from DU was that so many people felt cognitive dissonance. They thought they saw a black man acting white, but what they were seeing was a hapa-haole Islander who could have chosen to stay and marry a local girl and join the melting pot. But he didn't. He chose a different identity, and I do mean he chose.

I go from that bio, and it does not mean I "worship" Barack Obama. It does mean I feel affinity. That affinity includes my bias toward intellectuals who don't talk down to the public.

Gotta go -- my timer just went off...

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
71. Hear, hear.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 07:16 PM
Jun 2013

Except that it's not past tense. Post anything positive on either Clinton and some people almost break a finger in their rush to crap on it.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
80. I must've been in some alternate universe, because I remember both Nancegreggs and
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:38 PM
Jun 2013

FrenchieCat as being extremely rude, aggressive, and insulting. They regularly posted topics that did nothing but castigate their political opposition on this site.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
83. Less so with Nance, but I think it's a kind of projection.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:47 PM
Jun 2013

The ruder and more aggressive, the more it was rationalized away as undoubtedly necessary to combat some presumed attacks from someone, somewhere.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
116. I must have had more run-ins with Nance
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 02:40 AM
Jun 2013

I thought FrenchieCat was great, and even told her so.

Maybe it helps if you are on the same side, because I was always a Hillary-hater.

And then for two years - from 2008 to 2010, I was an Obama defender (or tried to be). Then Obama crossed my Rubicon - he extended the Bush tax cuts, and instituted an accursed payroll tax cut, and started (actually continued) to preach Reaganomics (tax cuts (for the rich, which the politician calls middle class tax cuts or small business tax cuts) will create jobs!!!).

Doubtless there were many posts that I never saw, many flame wars I never got singed by.

It was funny how perceptions changed though.

When I was an Obama defender, it seemed like the Obama attackers were rude as hell, calling us Obamabots, DINOs, lovers of Bush, sensible woodchucks, etc., etc., etc. even using that as an icon.

Then when I switched though, it seemed like the Obama defenders were the obnoxious ones. Calling us firebaggers, closet racists (as if the same people didn't also hate the white Bill Clinton), etc.

It's always more serious when your own eye is the one getting poked.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
19. In alot of ways, it has
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 02:56 AM
Jun 2013

I just came out of a thread where some mindless person said that a thread accusing the president's detractors of disliking him because he's black are the reason there are so few minority posters here. I've never seen such a stupid statement here and that is truly saying something.

I personally don't agree with that thread but one thing I've noticed is that there are more than a few remaining black posters posting in it that agree with the OP's thesis. The hyperventilating, knee jerk response to that thread is the one that many black posters are avoiding.

I think there is alot of truth in what Nance said.

Cha

(297,211 posts)
21. Yeah, Nance went for far greener pastures, same with Frenchie. :)
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 05:31 AM
Jun 2013

I left for two years and came back for the election. I'm sticking around now because I've made some really wonderful cyberbuddies and my like for them is way stronger than my disgust at the vulgarity.

Besides, I put that Trash Thread to excellent use as well as the ignore feature.

 

Floyd_Gondolli

(1,277 posts)
47. I stick around for the show
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 12:25 PM
Jun 2013

We have one very popular poster here who believes the government is spying on us through our televisions. Rather than being dismissed a crackpot, she has attracted legions of followers.

But I could see why people leave. When I first became aware of the site in the early 2000s it was much, much different. Personal attacks were not allowed etc. Now they are SOP, and in some cases, apparently encouraged.

But I digress....

Cha

(297,211 posts)
64. I hear ya, Floyd..
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 06:12 PM
Jun 2013

Depends on who you get on a jury whether personal attacks are allowed.. so it's a crap shoot.

Pretty sure I have that "very popular poster" on ignore.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
93. no idea when *she* 'left', but her writing & her persona has been around fairly recently.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 11:17 PM
Jun 2013

like in march.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/101658364

i find her writing boring & purely partisan. which is to say, uninteresting.

Bobbie Jo

(14,341 posts)
104. I'm pretty sure her
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 11:38 PM
Jun 2013

original account is still in good standing. I mean if she wanted to come back, at least she wouldn't be relegated to Zombie status.





 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
102. it's posted on a fairly regular basis, about once a month. plus random conversations noting
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 11:29 PM
Jun 2013

her 'absence' and how much she is 'missed'.

such as this one.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
52. Is there an Obama Underground?
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 03:48 PM
Jun 2013

Sounds like it's needed. This site is split now, though we were pretty united during the Bush years.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
112. Do you specifically know anything about SaltPoint?
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 12:58 AM
Jun 2013

If you are in touch with him, would you please tell him Samantha said hello and of course, I wish he were here!

Sam

asjr

(10,479 posts)
34. I am glad to see I am not the only one to
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:14 AM
Jun 2013

become disappointed in DU. I came here in 2002 and loved it. I miss those that decided to leave. There were actual conversations then instead of long long threads of snark for each other. Sometimes I think I have entered Kindergarten Zone.

 

The Link

(757 posts)
35. "SO I SAY HELL NO TO THE DLC MENTALITY!"
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:17 AM
Jun 2013

Thats some funny ironic shit that FrenchieCat posted right there.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
69. Lot of the old timers gone, glad you're still here my friend
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 06:33 PM
Jun 2013



I guess after a while you get tired of swimming upstream, people come on just to be contrary, start fights, get people booted, all because they have shallow lives, or are Republicans.


malaise

(268,997 posts)
118. I saw a post from McCamy Taylor recently
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 06:09 AM
Jun 2013

Haven't seen TimeforChange recently. Also miss Judith Lyn

Response to DesertFlower (Original post)

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
55. don't know, but just want to say, that to me, DU is better than ever.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 04:02 PM
Jun 2013

Just wanted to give a different perspective to all the moaning and lamenting of DU in this thread. It does make me wonder though, if DU is so bad and nasty, why hang out here at all?

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
119. Walt's flameout is famous for Skinner's brilliantly elegant reply
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 06:20 AM
Jun 2013

I didn't see a lot of Walt, but from what little I saw, 'curmudgeon' may be a fair description of him.

Texasgal

(17,045 posts)
82. Run off.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 08:41 PM
Jun 2013

Sad, having a differing opinion that is passionate leads to jerks making it hard to stay as a DU member.

I love DU, but If I were to actually post my honest opinion about what I think is happening I'd be run off this board in five seconds flat.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
131. I agree with you
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 06:09 PM
Jun 2013

I would like to note though, the FC did her own fair share of jerky behavior.

People need to stop and think before they post and stop themselves from behaving in an uncivil manner towards others. Sometimes that means editing yourself.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
89. I see that many of the people
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 09:28 PM
Jun 2013

that drove people off DU show up.

Look, I make no secret about what I felt about Hillary Clinton, nor what i will feel about her in the Democratic primary. I make no secret about the fact that if she wins, I work to get her in. Beacool and I have had this discussion many times, and I think she realizes that if HRC wins, we will both be doing what we can, despite heated disagreements in the primary season.

That being said, I do remember people calling anyone who opposed Hillary sexist. I also remember ageism being thrown about, and all sorts of nasty vitriol. Up until the 11th hour, there were calls to punish us for daring to question if Hillary would be the one. I do not apologize for the fact that given a choice between Hillary and Obama, I chose Obama, despite the fact he did not make the left turn that this country needed, the left turn Hillary made it clear she would not take.

Sorry to say, comments like her "we came, we saw, he died"comment about Gaddafi have not done anything to convince me that she learned any lessons; experience does not always mean you do not enjoy repeating the same mistakes, especially when you never thought they were mistakes. However, my disagreements about Hillary do not mean I think her supporters are bigots/scum.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
106. That comment was taken out of context.
Wed Jun 19, 2013, 11:42 PM
Jun 2013

CBS was interviewing her and asked her if her trip to Libya a mere three days prior to Gaddafi's death was the reason he was captured. Hillary was being sarcastic when she responded the way she did. She was implying that the idea that her presence in Libya had anything to do with Gaddafi's death was preposterous. Anyone who knows her, recognized it for what it was. That exchange was off the record, but Hillary's response made it to the internet. The reporter's question is never fully shown.

This is the only clip I found that shows more than just her now infamous remark.

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-20123348-503544/clinton-on-qaddafi-we-came-we-saw-he-died/

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
121. Honestly
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jun 2013

For someone so experienced, how already knew that if she said "up" the press would say "down", why would she say something that not only sounded bad, but could have inflamed the Arab World? Someone experienced would have told Hillary "ease up on the jokes!"

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
123. She's only human. They all make mistakes.
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 04:44 PM
Jun 2013

Yeah, it would have been better not to have said anything.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
129. Or simply not to make a joke out of someone dying
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 06:04 PM
Jun 2013

But of course, she was too "experienced" not to do that.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
136. No, but
Fri Jun 21, 2013, 12:51 PM
Jun 2013

When you are dealing with the Mid east, people have been so irate at everything that you know you cannot joke, because they can KILL people.

JI7

(89,249 posts)
113. FrenchieCat was a Huge supporter of Wes Clark
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 01:07 AM
Jun 2013

in 2004 frenchiecat supported Wes Clark in the Primary and she was very passionate in her support .

but for some reason when she supported Obama the attacks against her became far worse and more personal.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
122. Hey fC
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 04:02 PM
Jun 2013

From your old friend (and fellow punching bag) DQm please do not leave, we cannot let certain people run this ship in 2014 and 2016 (especially 2016 when their mantra will be "see, if only that young boy Obama bowed down in 2008, he would have been a good president now, under Bill and Hill's guidance."

mahina

(17,652 posts)
130. Guessing, till she tells us, but for myself,
Thu Jun 20, 2013, 06:05 PM
Jun 2013

I post less here because I post less and say less generally.

I used to get into battles, but have learned not to get baited into wasting my time, mostly.

Because of twitter and facebook, there are other ways to communicate that didn't exist before.
Neither of those or anything else will replace DU for me. I appreciate DU as a left-leaning news aggregator, with great info in various fora that I still make lots and lots of time for and find irreplaceable.

Yes, DU has been infiltrated by assholes, and lots of wingers, in my opinion, wasting our time running us down and trying to demoralize us. I just don't have time for it, so I don't post a lot.

I'm still here though, and I bet Frenchie is too.


boilerbabe

(2,214 posts)
135. probsbly compiling picture threads on Obama Diaries.com with Jackeens!
Fri Jun 21, 2013, 12:48 PM
Jun 2013

I suspect she posts om Democratsforprogress.com as well. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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