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devilgrrl

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Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:16 PM Jul 2013

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) devilgrrl Jul 2013 OP
self-absorbed, narcissistic, pointless and useless. Much like Facebook, come to think of it. ChairmanAgnostic Jul 2013 #1
+1 MotherPetrie Jul 2013 #4
Brilliant! customerserviceguy Jul 2013 #39
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT Skittles Jul 2013 #62
Do you have a problem with Facebook™, citizen? Octafish Jul 2013 #67
Ick. enlightenment Jul 2013 #2
Eww. Safetykitten Jul 2013 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #5
You don't think women can be horrible people without the patriarchy being behind it? penultimate Jul 2013 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #8
I don't really know much about her, and a few searched on her penultimate Jul 2013 #14
Facebook has "authors" now? Pleeeeeeeze!!!! Spare us. leveymg Jul 2013 #27
In fairness dsc Jul 2013 #7
I agree WolverineDG Jul 2013 #11
I had a friend who had a similar status on FB WolverineDG Jul 2013 #9
Was her status picked up and repeated in the press? Gormy Cuss Jul 2013 #45
So public figures have no rights to post what they want? WolverineDG Jul 2013 #46
Who said anything about rights? Gormy Cuss Jul 2013 #47
Is she responsible for the media picking it up and repeating it in the press? mainer Jul 2013 #50
4100 people liked her FB post. That sounds like more than just friends/family Gormy Cuss Jul 2013 #60
do`t see what the problem is... madrchsod Jul 2013 #10
I agree 100% Blecht Jul 2013 #13
Other than for Porn, the Internet is for Pure Ego. nt MrScorpio Jul 2013 #12
YUP Skittles Jul 2013 #61
She was letting people who may have thought she was on that flight... RevStPatrick Jul 2013 #15
And I was SUPPOSED to be on the Comair flight from Detroit that crashed a few years ago Bake Jul 2013 #16
I know absolutely NOTHING about this woman but after reading all the posts, I hate her fucking guts. BlueJazz Jul 2013 #17
her FB posts, DU posts, or something on Gawker? nt MisterP Jul 2013 #35
I was kidding. My Dad used to say that if/when his friends would start "knocking" someone. BlueJazz Jul 2013 #36
good on you! I too see nothing heinous in the COO's post: it's a small detail MisterP Jul 2013 #43
Does she even have proof she was going to take that flight? treestar Jul 2013 #18
who the hell cares? HiPointDem Jul 2013 #34
You feel quite strongly about this treestar Jul 2013 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #48
Ahhhh, someone needs a nap! n-t Logical Jul 2013 #54
enter the usual suspects stage right HiPointDem Jul 2013 #73
I believe the world was better place before face book . olddots Jul 2013 #19
I HEAR YOU Skittles Jul 2013 #57
No one ever said it better! smirkymonkey Jul 2013 #75
much ado about nothing. she was letting people know she & colleagues weren't on the plane. HiPointDem Jul 2013 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #21
we don't know who might have thought she was on the plane & neither does the writer. it's HiPointDem Jul 2013 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #26
yes, because it's so obvious no one cares about this, or should care, except whoever has their HiPointDem Jul 2013 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #30
i'm responding *because* i find it completely stupid & dishonest. i usually respond to posts like HiPointDem Jul 2013 #31
But...she's a BILLIONAIRE!!! moondust Jul 2013 #22
Who the fuck is Sheryl Sandberg? Orrex Jul 2013 #24
Well...Christ Man !!... She's THE Sheryl Sandburg ! BlueJazz Jul 2013 #33
Wait! Isn't she the one who didn't die in a plane crash that she was nowhere near? Orrex Jul 2013 #42
We switched so we could use bonus miles for my family DainBramaged Jul 2013 #25
Who the heck is this? Dash87 Jul 2013 #29
a person the general public doesn't even recognize but the OP apparently doesn't like. HiPointDem Jul 2013 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #37
Self seekers of attention do such things unfortunately dipsydoodle Jul 2013 #40
I agree: this tech columnist took the fact that someone posted about their own close call MisterP Jul 2013 #44
I hadn't seen this anywhere until I saw your post. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #41
It's something I might post on Facebook mainer Jul 2013 #49
I thought that was SOOOO egotistical Skittles Jul 2013 #51
telling friends that she's OK is egotistical? Really? mainer Jul 2013 #52
that's not what her message says Skittles Jul 2013 #55
No, she just says she wasn't on the flight, nor were her colleagues mainer Jul 2013 #56
LOL Skittles Jul 2013 #59
1.2 million people who CHOSE to follow her. She didn't force them to. mainer Jul 2013 #63
and THAT is fucking sad Skittles Jul 2013 #65
Just saying. If they're your "friends" it means you accepted them. vanlassie Jul 2013 #76
No, I have a public Facebook page mainer Jul 2013 #78
Fans? Ok. vanlassie Jul 2013 #80
I don't think it's so bad. People were concerned about her and her colleagues Arugula Latte Jul 2013 #53
I find it fascinating, the things people get purple with rage about mainer Jul 2013 #58
it's easy to get outraged about stuff like this ProdigalJunkMail Jul 2013 #64
I try very hard to avoid rage-aholics. They're mostly unpleasant people. mainer Jul 2013 #66
Some folks are just outrage junkies. nt B2G Jul 2013 #69
What does purple mean? Someone is actually purple? n-t Logical Jul 2013 #74
I don't get the outrage tammywammy Jul 2013 #68
This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Jul 2013 #71
who? KG Jul 2013 #70
The vast majority of facebook posts are pure vanity. sufrommich Jul 2013 #72
This says a shit more about those posting and not her joeglow3 Jul 2013 #77
Damn straight. People who get outraged over this are looking for things to get angry about mainer Jul 2013 #79

ChairmanAgnostic

(28,017 posts)
1. self-absorbed, narcissistic, pointless and useless. Much like Facebook, come to think of it.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:19 PM
Jul 2013
 

MotherPetrie

(3,145 posts)
4. +1
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:31 PM
Jul 2013

customerserviceguy

(25,406 posts)
39. Brilliant!
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:37 PM
Jul 2013

When do you ever hear of anything good that came from Facebook or Twitter? They're usually platforms for stupidity.

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
62. ABSOLUTELY CORRECT
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jul 2013

Octafish

(55,745 posts)
67. Do you have a problem with Facebook™, citizen?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:48 PM
Jul 2013


Investigators have been dispatched to interview you in detail.

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
2. Ick.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:20 PM
Jul 2013

More and more I think this woman is a distasteful human being. This simply reinforces that perception.

 

Safetykitten

(5,162 posts)
3. Eww.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:23 PM
Jul 2013

Response to devilgrrl (Original post)

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
6. You don't think women can be horrible people without the patriarchy being behind it?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:54 PM
Jul 2013

I think some people just suck. I also think that being positions of power and status can turn people into assholes.

Response to penultimate (Reply #6)

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
14. I don't really know much about her, and a few searched on her
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:17 PM
Jul 2013

didn't show anything too horrible that she has said. What exactly is it about her that makes her such a bad person? To be honest, I was expecting some laura schlessinger type comments about women belonging in the kitchen serving their men, but Sandberg seems to be the exact opposite. So I'm a little bit confused, perhaps I missed something?

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
27. Facebook has "authors" now? Pleeeeeeeze!!!! Spare us.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:26 PM
Jul 2013

dsc

(53,396 posts)
7. In fairness
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:55 PM
Jul 2013

I can see a situation where she really wouldn't know if people knew or not if she was on the flight. I could easily see myself when I went to Denver if there had been a crash of a plane that was on the same day as mine putting on my facebook page hey folks I wasn't on the plane. The difference is I am not famous so only the people who needed to know I wasn't on the plane would know I wasn't on the plane.

WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
11. I agree
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:10 PM
Jul 2013

nothing wrong with letting people who know you are there or might be there that you are safe.

WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
9. I had a friend who had a similar status on FB
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:08 PM
Jul 2013

we (her FB friends) all knew she was travelling out of SFO on Saturday. Should I go beat her up now instead of saying "thanks for letting us know you're safe?"

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
45. Was her status picked up and repeated in the press?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 06:28 PM
Jul 2013

Is she a public figure in a media company who is well aware of the power of free publicity?

That's the difference.

WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
46. So public figures have no rights to post what they want?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 06:30 PM
Jul 2013


Seriously, this "outrage" is ridiculous!

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
47. Who said anything about rights?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 06:38 PM
Jul 2013

Public figures who are execs in media companies ought to understand that their postings will garner attention beyond their circle of friends.

mainer

(12,554 posts)
50. Is she responsible for the media picking it up and repeating it in the press?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:23 PM
Jul 2013

I thought she was just telling her friends/family that she was OK. If she wanted it blasted to the press, wouldn't she have sent out a press release through her publicist?

Gormy Cuss

(30,884 posts)
60. 4100 people liked her FB post. That sounds like more than just friends/family
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:41 PM
Jul 2013

and that yes, it may in fact have been the social media equivalent of a press release.

madrchsod

(58,162 posts)
10. do`t see what the problem is...
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:09 PM
Jul 2013

hell i've done the same thing on facebook as has some of my friends.

a BIG much to do about nothing...

Blecht

(3,806 posts)
13. I agree 100%
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:14 PM
Jul 2013

This is pure hate. There is nothing wrong with letting people know that your plans have changed when your original plans would have put you in harm's way.

I don't know who this person is -- maybe if I did, I'd be outraged, too.

MrScorpio

(73,772 posts)
12. Other than for Porn, the Internet is for Pure Ego. nt
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 02:13 PM
Jul 2013

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
61. YUP
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jul 2013

I cannot believe how many people seem to think FB is absolutely ESSENTIAL now to keeping up with family and friends - W.T.F.

 

RevStPatrick

(2,208 posts)
15. She was letting people who may have thought she was on that flight...
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 03:24 PM
Jul 2013

...know that she wasn't on that flight.

This is just silly.

Bake

(21,977 posts)
16. And I was SUPPOSED to be on the Comair flight from Detroit that crashed a few years ago
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 03:55 PM
Jul 2013

But I changed my flight. No biggie, for me anyway. She should get the hell over it.

Bake

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
17. I know absolutely NOTHING about this woman but after reading all the posts, I hate her fucking guts.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:00 PM
Jul 2013

ik

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
35. her FB posts, DU posts, or something on Gawker? nt
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:55 PM
Jul 2013
 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
36. I was kidding. My Dad used to say that if/when his friends would start "knocking" someone.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:11 PM
Jul 2013

He'd say "Well, I don't even know this person but I hate him already" (with a smile on his face)

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
43. good on you! I too see nothing heinous in the COO's post: it's a small detail
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:58 PM
Jul 2013

not some Rove-orchestrated distraction from the Great Struggle Between the Classes for America

treestar

(82,383 posts)
18. Does she even have proof she was going to take that flight?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:01 PM
Jul 2013

Like a booking that was changed? Possibly she just "intended" to or realized that later it would make a good story.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
34. who the hell cares?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:46 PM
Jul 2013

treestar

(82,383 posts)
38. You feel quite strongly about this
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:35 PM
Jul 2013

You've taken a lot of time on this matter.

Response to treestar (Reply #38)

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
54. Ahhhh, someone needs a nap! n-t
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:36 PM
Jul 2013
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
73. enter the usual suspects stage right
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 08:12 PM
Jul 2013
 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
19. I believe the world was better place before face book .
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:09 PM
Jul 2013

this "princess " would still exist but she wouldn't be able to share her retched id with billions of others . May face book ,it's stock and supporters get a fucking clue and walk away but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO .

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
57. I HEAR YOU
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:39 PM
Jul 2013

FB is making narcissism a virtue

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
75. No one ever said it better!
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 08:19 PM
Jul 2013

I think that should become a famous quote.

"Facebook is making narcissism a virtue". Hah!

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
20. much ado about nothing. she was letting people know she & colleagues weren't on the plane.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:09 PM
Jul 2013

& that colleague who was was ok.

big deal.

Response to HiPointDem (Reply #20)

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
23. we don't know who might have thought she was on the plane & neither does the writer. it's
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:19 PM
Jul 2013

just a stupid & pointless article. we're supposed to be all outraged because she spent a paragraph saying she wasn't on the plane & neither were xyz & a is ok.

big fucking deal.

i don't even know who this person is, but i imagine the op has their reasons for making an issue here, and i'd bet it's about inside baseball, nothing the general public gives one shit about.

Response to HiPointDem (Reply #23)

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
28. yes, because it's so obvious no one cares about this, or should care, except whoever has their
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:27 PM
Jul 2013

personal or professional issues with this person.

it's a completely stupid op, & dishonest.

if this person is such a creepy billionaire perhaps you could post an article about things she's done that actually matter to the public rather than this kind of teenage crap.

Response to HiPointDem (Reply #28)

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
31. i'm responding *because* i find it completely stupid & dishonest. i usually respond to posts like
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:37 PM
Jul 2013

that because keeping things honest is an important democratic value.

and actually, apparently there were people concerned that sandberg et al *were* on the plane.

heryl sandberg

ABC News

Facebook's Sheryl Sandberg reschedules flight, avoids plane crash
USA TODAY ‎- by Jon Swartz ‎- 4 hours ago

Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg was scheduled to be aboard the Asiana Air flight that crashed landed at San Franciso International Airport ...

Sheryl Sandberg: My Family And I Were Supposed To Be On The Plane That Crashed
Huffington Post‎ - 15 hours ago

Sheryl Sandberg Switched From Crashed Asiana Airlines Flight
ABC News‎ - 1 day ago

moondust

(21,286 posts)
22. But...she's a BILLIONAIRE!!!
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:13 PM
Jul 2013

A BILLIONAIRE!!!!! That's what's important!!! Pay attention, little people!!!

Orrex

(67,111 posts)
24. Who the fuck is Sheryl Sandberg?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:21 PM
Jul 2013
 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
33. Well...Christ Man !!... She's THE Sheryl Sandburg !
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:39 PM
Jul 2013

Orrex

(67,111 posts)
42. Wait! Isn't she the one who didn't die in a plane crash that she was nowhere near?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:42 PM
Jul 2013

Oh, that Sheryl Sandberg!

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
25. We switched so we could use bonus miles for my family
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:23 PM
Jul 2013

Afucking BILLIONAIRE needs to use miles.....could have donated them to dozens of charities who fly sick kids around the country for treatments.


Asshole, effete asshole.

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
29. Who the heck is this?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:29 PM
Jul 2013
 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
32. a person the general public doesn't even recognize but the OP apparently doesn't like.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 04:39 PM
Jul 2013

not news, not important public information, petty inside politics.

she's the coo of facebook.

Response to HiPointDem (Reply #32)

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
40. Self seekers of attention do such things unfortunately
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:37 PM
Jul 2013

because they have no other life.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
44. I agree: this tech columnist took the fact that someone posted about their own close call
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 06:08 PM
Jul 2013

and spun it as some PR effort to force the whole Internet to ignore the actual victims
thanks for realizing that this chattering-class Biddle is spinning fabrications about something--with a few Google hits, one CNN byline (out of maybe dozens surrounding this crash), a brief Wiki blurb--only in order to get his own name and face out

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
41. I hadn't seen this anywhere until I saw your post.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 05:40 PM
Jul 2013

If you really think that this person is an attention-seeker, isn't the best thing to ignore her?

mainer

(12,554 posts)
49. It's something I might post on Facebook
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:21 PM
Jul 2013

to let friends and family know immediately that I'm OK. Does that make me a narcissistic, self-centered twit too?

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
51. I thought that was SOOOO egotistical
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:32 PM
Jul 2013

disgusting

mainer

(12,554 posts)
52. telling friends that she's OK is egotistical? Really?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:35 PM
Jul 2013

Many of my friends and family members find that the quickest and most efficient way to announce important news is through Facebook. I expect she thought the same way.

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
55. that's not what her message says
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:37 PM
Jul 2013

she doesn't say "I'm fine" or ANY other message that would convey the same - she makes the plane crash - a human suffering event - about HER

mainer

(12,554 posts)
56. No, she just says she wasn't on the flight, nor were her colleagues
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:39 PM
Jul 2013

That's hardly saying "it's all about ME ME ME."

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
59. LOL
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:40 PM
Jul 2013

yes, she just had to let 1.2 million people know

mainer

(12,554 posts)
63. 1.2 million people who CHOSE to follow her. She didn't force them to.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jul 2013

I have a lot of followers on Facebook too, and I never invited them.

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
65. and THAT is fucking sad
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:43 PM
Jul 2013

vanlassie

(6,248 posts)
76. Just saying. If they're your "friends" it means you accepted them.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 09:23 PM
Jul 2013

mainer

(12,554 posts)
78. No, I have a public Facebook page
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 09:37 PM
Jul 2013

I don't have to specifically accept them. They follow me as fans, and they like to know the latest news in my business.

vanlassie

(6,248 posts)
80. Fans? Ok.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:06 PM
Jul 2013
 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
53. I don't think it's so bad. People were concerned about her and her colleagues
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:36 PM
Jul 2013

and she let them know they weren't on the plane and that the friend who was on the plane is okay. Doesn't strike me as awful ...

mainer

(12,554 posts)
58. I find it fascinating, the things people get purple with rage about
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:40 PM
Jul 2013

A simple Facebook posting that none of us would have heard about except for that tech article -- and it has some people here ready to have strokes out of fury, spitting with rage about a woman none of us has ever met.

Really, people, is this the sort of thing you waste your rage on? Really?

ProdigalJunkMail

(12,017 posts)
64. it's easy to get outraged about stuff like this
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jul 2013

there's no real substance to it... it's safe. it is the rage-aholic's dream.

sP

mainer

(12,554 posts)
66. I try very hard to avoid rage-aholics. They're mostly unpleasant people.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:44 PM
Jul 2013

Angry all the time, at things that make me go "huh?"

 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
69. Some folks are just outrage junkies. nt
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013
 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
74. What does purple mean? Someone is actually purple? n-t
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 08:18 PM
Jul 2013

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
68. I don't get the outrage
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jul 2013

Response to tammywammy (Reply #68)

KG

(28,795 posts)
70. who?
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
72. The vast majority of facebook posts are pure vanity.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 08:03 PM
Jul 2013

Doesn't everybody have a couple of facebook friends who post every inane thing that happens to them daily? I can't be the only one.

 

joeglow3

(6,228 posts)
77. This says a shit more about those posting and not her
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 09:29 PM
Jul 2013

She used social media to let those she is connected to that she is okay and is thinking of those affected.

Those posting this come off as Whiney pieces of shit.

mainer

(12,554 posts)
79. Damn straight. People who get outraged over this are looking for things to get angry about
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 09:40 PM
Jul 2013

Which tells us about them, not about the subject.

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