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Taverner

(55,476 posts)
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 01:39 PM Jul 2013

I tried to convince a friend such a thing as "White Privilege" existed

Why do I have to explain this to every body over and over again?

Yes, there is a system of white, male, privilege in this country.

I am not going to hash it out, instead I will let a much more intelligent man do it for me, Tim Wise:

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I tried to convince a friend such a thing as "White Privilege" existed (Original Post) Taverner Jul 2013 OP
"Embedding disabled by request" pops up Lifelong Protester Jul 2013 #1
Follow it... it's worth it Taverner Jul 2013 #2
"White advantage" certainly exists; "non-white disprivilege" is probably a better way to describe it Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #3
OK take a black person and a white person and give them each a Ferrari Taverner Jul 2013 #4
Yes. N.T. Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #8
Agreed 100%. AverageJoe90 Jul 2013 #5
What they do is use the whites at the lower rung .. ananda Jul 2013 #35
Isn't that creative wordsmithing? Taverner Jul 2013 #9
You're against "creative wordsmithing"? Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #13
I don't know, too many negatives in that word Taverner Jul 2013 #37
I agree "disprivilege" is inelegant, but synonyms don't make the point so clear. Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #40
Or maybe 'white advantage'? Dyedinthewoolliberal Jul 2013 #45
I think the same arguments against apply. Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #48
In conversations on the subject, I've found it helpful... Orrex Jul 2013 #6
Has it benefited you? Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #21
Then it's the benefit of not being disadvantaged in that way Orrex Jul 2013 #29
That's because of white guilt and white fear. apnu Jul 2013 #42
There is a system of white privilege. There is no system of male privilege. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #7
Male privilege is a different beast Taverner Jul 2013 #10
True enough. Trayvon didn't have to worry overmuch about being raped. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #11
I know... Taverner Jul 2013 #12
As an exercise, let's suppose for the moment that maybe the victim did "try to start something" lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #15
Yes Taverner Jul 2013 #22
Black men are in jail because they're men and they're black Orrex Jul 2013 #30
11x and 6x are useful if, as we always do, view the privilege continuum as a matrix. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #41
Here's something to ponder... YoungDemCA Jul 2013 #14
Why do I think that is? lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #16
Every time you speak on this subject, I am horrified at your ignorance. Gravitycollapse Jul 2013 #44
I understand both. One exists and the other does not. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #46
No, it's an almost cartoonish like ignorance. Male privilege exists in such vast quantity... Gravitycollapse Jul 2013 #47
I'm inclined to disagree on both counts, I'm afraid. Donald Ian Rankin Jul 2013 #19
Two days ago, I was involved in a traffic incident. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2013 #24
that's so true! males are at a complete disadvantage in all areas. CreekDog Jul 2013 #23
Are you joking? The entire system is set up for male privilege. Gravitycollapse Jul 2013 #43
Wow, in what alternative Universe are you living? NealK Jul 2013 #49
'Why do I have to explain this to every body over and over again?' Rex Jul 2013 #17
I hang with Libertarians sometimes Taverner Jul 2013 #20
Oh lord, yes I have a few libertarian acquaintances. Rex Jul 2013 #25
They are the people Thomas Hobbes was afraid of Taverner Jul 2013 #26
He didn't have much choice really. Rex Jul 2013 #27
True...ahhhh the English Civil War Taverner Jul 2013 #28
Mark Zuckerberg wears hoodies all the time. Zimmerman wouldn't have looked twice. JaneyVee Jul 2013 #18
White males have been enjoying affirmative action for over 200 years... polichick Jul 2013 #31
A hispanic man kills a black guy, is acquitted by a jury of six women, Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #32
If there were five black guys at a table with a fair-skinned hispanic man Orrex Jul 2013 #33
I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about White Privlege Taverner Jul 2013 #34
B-3 gollygee Jul 2013 #38
Can you believe it? LittleBlue Jul 2013 #39
I tend to think that the vast majority of people are aware in fact, of white privilege and male priv LanternWaste Jul 2013 #36

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
3. "White advantage" certainly exists; "non-white disprivilege" is probably a better way to describe it
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 01:58 PM
Jul 2013

It is certainly the case that white people are, on average (and never, ever leave out the "on average", because without that qualifier nearly all these statements become false), advantaged compared to non-white people in a large number of ways.

You can describe that as either "white privilege" or "non-white disprivilege", and be technically accurate.

But I think that, for two reasons, the latter term probably gives a clearer understanding of the situation.

Firstly, the majority of the population are white. The word "privilege" generally implies something a minority have and the majority don't.

Secondly, white people are no better off than they would be if the whole population were the same colour as them, whereas non-white people are worse off than they would be if the whole population was the same colour as them. "Privilege" and "disprivilege" both usually imply difference from a baseline, and in this case I think it's fairly clearly "not being discriminated against because of the colour of your skin" that is the baseline.

So while I certainly wouldn't argue that white privilege doesn't exist, I don't think it's the best choice of term for the phenomenon it describes.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
4. OK take a black person and a white person and give them each a Ferrari
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:00 PM
Jul 2013

Have them both obey the laws to a tee

The black person WILL (and this is documented in study after study) get pulled over more

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
8. Yes. N.T.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:11 PM
Jul 2013

The point I was making, though, is that in a non-racist society, I think everyone would be pulled over at the rate white drivers currently are, not at the rate black drivers currently are or even at an average.
 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
5. Agreed 100%.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:03 PM
Jul 2013

The .1% don't give a shit about those of us white folks in the other 99.9%....but they sure as hell don't look down on us nearly as much as everyone else, though.

ananda

(35,118 posts)
35. What they do is use the whites at the lower rung ..
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:50 PM
Jul 2013

.. by fueling their hates and phobias and giving them something
to try to feel superior to.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
9. Isn't that creative wordsmithing?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:11 PM
Jul 2013

Its not killed by their own troops, it's "friendly fire"
Its not union killing legislation, its "right to work"
Its not anti-abortion, its "pro life"

It is a privilege and I think changing terms sanitizes it and makes it sound OK, when it is not

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
13. You're against "creative wordsmithing"?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jul 2013

You list three examples of terms which arguably give *less clear* descriptions of their subjects, and use this as an argument against adopting a term which gives a *clearer* description. I don't think that's logical.

I also don't think that "non-white disprivilege" is any more sanitised than "white privilege"; I don't think that the addition of two negatives makes it sound any more OK and I do think that it makes it a lot clearer what's going on.
 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
37. I don't know, too many negatives in that word
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 04:12 PM
Jul 2013

Kind of like the we aren't not gonna don't do nothing club

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
40. I agree "disprivilege" is inelegant, but synonyms don't make the point so clear.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 04:44 PM
Jul 2013

If it weren't that the standard phrase is "white privilege", I'd use a phrase like "non-white disadvantage" - or, hey, just "racial discrimination".

The point, though, is that the effect of discrimination against a small minority is that its victims are worse off, but that people who are not the victims of it do not benefit from it (the word "small" there is significant, incidentally - if 50% of the populace were slaves the rest might well benefit from that; c.f. "gender roles"...).

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
48. I think the same arguments against apply.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 06:25 PM
Jul 2013

Racial discrimination *isn't* to the advantage of whites, only to the disadvantage of non-whites.

Orrex

(67,097 posts)
6. In conversations on the subject, I've found it helpful...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:08 PM
Jul 2013

to withhold the phrase "white privilege" until later in the discussion, and I avoid the use of "privilege checklists" to the extent possible.

If you open with the straightforward term, it immediately engages the other person's defenses, and it becomes considerably harder to get the point across because the person gets hung up on the idea of "privilege."

I have found it more fruitful to recount examples from my own experience where my "white privilege" has benefited me (in dealing with cops, in customer service, in reactions on a crowded bus, etc.), thereafter observing how these experiences might have been different if I were a person of color. Eventually, after describing the overall phenomenon, I can identify it by name.


One's mileage may vary, but I know that I resisted the notion of "privilege" when it was first presented to me, because it was presented in a way that made it seem (to me) like a personal and deliberate behavior on my part. In my case, a more general explanation-by-example would likely have met less resistance.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
21. Has it benefited you?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:31 PM
Jul 2013

I'm quite prepared to believe that you'd have been treated differently if you weren't white.

But I suspect that if there were no racism, everybody would be treated the way white people are.

If that's so, it's probably less accurate to say that being white benefits people than that that being non-white disadvantages them.

Orrex

(67,097 posts)
29. Then it's the benefit of not being disadvantaged in that way
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:49 PM
Jul 2013

Honestly, I find the distinction to be largely academic and speculative, since we don't have a non-racist society to use as an example. I also see no reason to assume that everybody would be treated the way that white people are.

Even in a non-racist society, it seems likely that we would establish privileged groups, and these groups would enjoy benefits that other groups do not.

apnu

(8,790 posts)
42. That's because of white guilt and white fear.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 05:46 PM
Jul 2013

(Full disclosure, I'm white and male and in my 40s).

White people get uncomfortable talking about this stuff. Namely because they feel guilty about the racial situation in America. They feel bad that what's happened has happened, but they feel its not their fault that slavery happened. But this misses the point entirely. And they're afraid that America's color is changing and they know they've sat on the top of the heap for a long time and they know whites have been pretty shitty to everybody else and they fear that whomever rises to the top (probably latinos) are going to enact revenge on us. White people are paranoid and freaked out.

But then, who isn't these days?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
7. There is a system of white privilege. There is no system of male privilege.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:10 PM
Jul 2013

Trayvon was suspicious because he was a black. He was shot because he was male.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
10. Male privilege is a different beast
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:12 PM
Jul 2013

As a male, you can go out in short shorts, and no shirt, and not have to worry about being raped. In addition, if you were raped, no one would say you were "asking for it" by dressing that way.

I could go on, but my fingers are tired.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
11. True enough. Trayvon didn't have to worry overmuch about being raped.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:13 PM
Jul 2013

Let's ask him if he finds that comforting.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
12. I know...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:15 PM
Jul 2013

What's sad is that I'm arguing this with folks who should know better, but still think Trayvon was the aggressor.

Shit, you start following someone at night, you are LOOKING for a confrontation. Just because he stopped for a second doesn't mean he wasn't trying to start something.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
15. As an exercise, let's suppose for the moment that maybe the victim did "try to start something"
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:25 PM
Jul 2013

If Tanisha Martin had turned, screamed at, grabbed, slapped and punched Zimmerman would he have shot her? Would an all woman jury have convicted him?

Men are 11X more likely to go to jail than women. Blacks are 6X more likely to go to jail than whites. Black men in prison are mostly there because they are men.

Arguably the ultimate kind of privilege is the kind that culture savagely protects.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
22. Yes
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:33 PM
Jul 2013

That's why by far, women are chosen as the drug mule of choice

I knew one. They don't do the product, they look nothing like a junkie, they often have squeaky clean records.

There is also an uptick of women car thieves because they get pulled over less

Orrex

(67,097 posts)
30. Black men are in jail because they're men and they're black
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:22 PM
Jul 2013

Last edited Wed Jul 17, 2013, 04:10 PM - Edit history (1)

The fact that they are male is a contributing factor, but I'm not convinced that it's the primary factor, certainly not in terms of explaining the black/white disparity.


Your 11x versus 6x figures are interesting, but clarification might be helpful:

How much more likely is a white man to go to jail than a white woman?
How much more likely is a white man to go to jail than a black woman?

How much more likely is a black man to go to jail than a white woman?
How much more likely is a black man to go to jail than a black woman?


It is important to identify these ratios before we diminish race as a factor, and the raw multipliers of 11x and 6x don't provide enough info to be truly useful.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
41. 11x and 6x are useful if, as we always do, view the privilege continuum as a matrix.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 05:28 PM
Jul 2013

According to this link, in 2010 black women are incarcerated at 3X the rate of white women.

If blacks as a group are incarcerated at 6X the rate of whites, then it's apparent that black men are bearing the lions share of that bias. Indeed, the incarceration of black women has dropped 31% in the last decade.

Being a woman is a strongly protective factor when it comes to the justice system.

The below graphic is interesting, but it has one fatal flaw, it compares the incarceration rate of all adult men to the incarceration rate for a small slice (age 35-39) for women. They chose this demographic because it is the age range in which black women are most likely to be in jail.

White men are far more likely to be in jail than black women, and black men aged 20-34 are about 40X more likely to be in jail than white women aged 35-39.

 

YoungDemCA

(5,714 posts)
14. Here's something to ponder...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:22 PM
Jul 2013

Young women are going to college in greater numbers than young men these days. Why do you think that is?

Could it be, perhaps, that there's more incentive for women to go to college, because without higher education, their earning potential is more severely limited than that of equivalently educated men?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
16. Why do I think that is?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:27 PM
Jul 2013

There are a bunch of obvious answers to that question, starting with "because someone is willing to pay for it".

... which blows a huge hole in the "male privilege" argument.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
44. Every time you speak on this subject, I am horrified at your ignorance.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 05:54 PM
Jul 2013

You can understand white privilege but not male privilege. How is that even possible without it really being that you understand male privilege but choose not the address it?

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
46. I understand both. One exists and the other does not.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 06:08 PM
Jul 2013

It's not ignorance, it's fact. I AM addressing it.

Women are better educated, less likely to be victimized by crime, less likely to be punished for crimes, live longer (because more money is spent on their health care), work fewer hours and in shorter careers, spend twice as many years in retirement, disproportionately benefit from government programs, and 1/12th as likely to die on the job... what's not to like?

Contrast this with the daily experience of being black, and especially a black male, they draw the short straw in EVERY single one of these factors.

Male privilege is an obscene myth, and deep inside, americans know it because when given the choice, they give their offspring the advantage that comes from being female.

Gravitycollapse

(8,155 posts)
47. No, it's an almost cartoonish like ignorance. Male privilege exists in such vast quantity...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 06:20 PM
Jul 2013

that you would truly have to be a misogynist and a fool to think that it isn't a problem.

Women get paid less. They are less likely to be promoted. They are more likely to be judged by their work peers based on their physical attractiveness. Assertive women are viewed as bitchy or uppity rather than determined. They represent only a small fraction of positions held in congress. They make up less than one percent of company CEOs and less than 13% of all company executives.

They are required to work within the confines of the double bind. If they have a job outside the house, they have a job inside. So they come home only to begin a second shift. Women who do not stay home with their kids are called abusive, uncaring, or negligent. Poor single mothers are vilified as irresponsible moochers while poor single fathers are deified as the perfect man making a sacrifice for his children.

Female bodies are chopped up and airbrushed into oblivion to meet impossible standards of beauty. They are perpetually reduced to sexual objects by the public and in private. They are perpetual victims to physical and sexual intimidation by their male counterparts. Sexual violence against them is cast off as funny or insignificant.

If women are open with their sexuality, they are called whores. If they are reserved with their sexuality, they are called prudes.

They possess very little control over their bodies and the control they don't possess is handed over to all male regulatory committees.


So give me a break with your bullshit. Go peddle it somewhere else for a change.

Donald Ian Rankin

(13,598 posts)
19. I'm inclined to disagree on both counts, I'm afraid.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:29 PM
Jul 2013

I think the best definition of a privileged group (although by no means the only one) is a group who is better off than it would be if the distinction between members and non-members were not drawn.

White people are not better off than they would be if non-white people were not discriminated against.

Men are better off than they would be if women would not be discriminated against.

(This is completely unsurprising, when you consider the respective percentages of the population that are nonwhite and female).
 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
24. Two days ago, I was involved in a traffic incident.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:36 PM
Jul 2013

The white officer cut me more slack than was probably appropriate given the circumstances, and certainly more than if I were a person of color.

I'm better off, to the tune of $170, than any black man who does the same stupid thing.

The slack I was given would be unremarkable if I were female.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
23. that's so true! males are at a complete disadvantage in all areas.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:35 PM
Jul 2013

at least we get more pay than women to make up for that.



NealK

(7,146 posts)
49. Wow, in what alternative Universe are you living?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:22 PM
Jul 2013

Or maybe you should go easy with the peyote.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
17. 'Why do I have to explain this to every body over and over again?'
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:27 PM
Jul 2013

You mean like your friends? Maybe you should reflect on that. Otherwise, I have no idea who you are talking to. Known about white male privilege all my life.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
20. I hang with Libertarians sometimes
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:30 PM
Jul 2013

These guys have a gun fetish that borders on the psychopathic

But the strangest ones, are the libertarians who have a gun fetish yet HAVE NO GUNS

That still has my head spinning

Maybe it's like poor people voting Republican because they think that someday they will be rich?

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
25. Oh lord, yes I have a few libertarian acquaintances.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:36 PM
Jul 2013

which are just really confused republicans imo. They are just like you describe, would fall on their swords for the right to have a sword - if only they had the money to own one.

Vote Repuke 100%, thinking they will be stinking rich one day...exact same thing and kinda scary. Sometimes it is why I call them foxnews zombies.

They all have this weird faith to lethal force and govt abuse.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
27. He didn't have much choice really.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:44 PM
Jul 2013

Hanging with Royalists and then writing a secular book meant certain death if he didn't seek asylum with the new government. I think he was banned from writing in England after Leviathan came out.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
28. True...ahhhh the English Civil War
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 02:49 PM
Jul 2013

Knowing a bit about that puts our "Revolution" in a different light

polichick

(37,626 posts)
31. White males have been enjoying affirmative action for over 200 years...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:24 PM
Jul 2013

even they were never an underrepresented group.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
32. A hispanic man kills a black guy, is acquitted by a jury of six women,
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:32 PM
Jul 2013

and somehow it's the white man's fault?

Orrex

(67,097 posts)
33. If there were five black guys at a table with a fair-skinned hispanic man
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:42 PM
Jul 2013

And someone asked you to point to the white guy, how much trouble would you have?


 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
34. I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about White Privlege
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 03:46 PM
Jul 2013

Not the Trayvon Martin murder...

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
39. Can you believe it?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 04:18 PM
Jul 2013


Somehow this turned into a white privilege issue.

I wonder what the non-white member of the jury was thinking when she voted to acquit!

The male privilege is what? Being shot?


Meh
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
36. I tend to think that the vast majority of people are aware in fact, of white privilege and male priv
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 04:03 PM
Jul 2013

I tend to think that the vast majority of people are aware in fact, of white privilege and male privilege, but at this point, simply deny either exists to see it better maintained.

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