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firenewt

(298 posts)
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:46 PM Jul 2013

Goodbye Everybody,

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by pacalo (a host of the General Discussion forum).

Time for me to leave DU. Its been fun for the most part, but double standards are bringing me down.
I sincerely wish all of you the best of luck - keep up the good fight. I just don't have it in me to fight on two fronts.

Firenewt

p.s. How do I delete my account?

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Goodbye Everybody, (Original Post) firenewt Jul 2013 OP
And youre going to find a non double standard discussion board darkangel218 Jul 2013 #1
Not looking for greener pastures, just don't like being attacked firenewt Jul 2013 #4
I get attacked all the time. darkangel218 Jul 2013 #7
Starting a "goodbye cruel world" thread wont help with that. bunnies Jul 2013 #9
I guess I am too stressed out. On permanent disability, have 2 adult kids living with and taking firenewt Jul 2013 #43
I feel so bad for you.... fadedrose Jul 2013 #58
That's what DU is about, unfortunately. nt hack89 Jul 2013 #50
This is the first I've heard of you leftstreet Jul 2013 #2
That's ok, I've never heard of you as well. firenewt Jul 2013 #10
I've been here like 9 or 10 yrs and no one knows who I am leftstreet Jul 2013 #15
Oh some of us know who you are leftstreet.... socialist_n_TN Jul 2013 #18
heh leftstreet Jul 2013 #19
Why not just stop logging on? NightWatcher Jul 2013 #3
OK - what is the Walt Starr Flameout? firenewt Jul 2013 #6
Nothing, ignore them. darkangel218 Jul 2013 #11
A call for Skinner to tombstone. NightWatcher Jul 2013 #13
You should hang. NYC_SKP Jul 2013 #21
A sometime stylish way HappyMe Jul 2013 #23
Ah, DU never was a front. napoleon_in_rags Jul 2013 #5
Respectfully disagree. H2O Man Jul 2013 #14
Yeah activities outside the site. napoleon_in_rags Jul 2013 #40
I'm agreeing with H2O Man. hunter Jul 2013 #30
You cannot delete your account. ZombieHorde Jul 2013 #8
You can't delete your account. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #12
Just try not logging in again. n/t Cali_Democrat Jul 2013 #16
Please stay!!!! For the love of God please stay!! Pretzel_Warrior Jul 2013 #17
Youre such a nice person, pretzelwarrior. darkangel218 Jul 2013 #20
Jeez, EVERYBODY gets attacked.... socialist_n_TN Jul 2013 #22
Discussion doesn't mean that people need to be attacked. Skidmore Jul 2013 #31
Do you know why this poster was attack? I hate to loose a long time member. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #32
No I don't. I was just making a statement Skidmore Jul 2013 #36
I agree. I try my best not to insult people personally. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #37
This is what I posted concerning Mitch Daniels firenewt Jul 2013 #57
I am sorry that happened to you. Don't let it push you away from here. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #59
Well, that was terribly rude of the person responding to you. I think you were justified deurbano Jul 2013 #62
OK, kind of pissy, but I've seen worse.... socialist_n_TN Jul 2013 #66
Change your username to "Account Deleted". DCBob Jul 2013 #24
Take a break, H2O Man Jul 2013 #25
Really? You were always one of the good ones... n/t leeroysphitz Jul 2013 #26
I've got to go... name not needed Jul 2013 #27
Just change your password to letters and numbers you can't remember and then you will Raine Jul 2013 #28
Please please don't go skeewee08 Jul 2013 #29
don't go. please. Liberal_in_LA Jul 2013 #33
Hello hello, I'm sorry I got to go! Rex Jul 2013 #34
Obviously this poster is upset. Perheps a *hug* will help more darkangel218 Jul 2013 #35
How is a Beatles song ridiculing his feelings? Rex Jul 2013 #39
I know the song, dont have to listen to it. darkangel218 Jul 2013 #41
Ya no problem, nice reply to them with a hug btw. Rex Jul 2013 #42
I sure will. When people are down they dont need yet another kick. darkangel218 Jul 2013 #48
You can try to believe you are making some kind of point here. Rex Jul 2013 #52
Projecting much? darkangel218 Jul 2013 #63
Okay ya have a great night. Rex Jul 2013 #65
The line H2O Man Jul 2013 #47
Yeah that was me talking about myself in this thread. Rex Jul 2013 #49
Magical Mystery Tour H2O Man Jul 2013 #55
'you say goodbye and i say hello' Rex Jul 2013 #56
Last night, H2O Man Jul 2013 #60
ELO. Rex Jul 2013 #61
... zappaman Jul 2013 #38
Something smells rotten in Tombstone. Rex Jul 2013 #45
Buh bye! burnodo Jul 2013 #44
- IDemo Jul 2013 #46
Spam the board with Goatse. sagat Jul 2013 #51
I've been called a troll many times damnedifIknow Jul 2013 #53
Hell, someone called me a douche today defacto7 Jul 2013 #54
+1 darkangel218 Jul 2013 #64
Welcome to DU Coyotl Jul 2013 #67
I once left DU for one year Bryn Jul 2013 #68
Change your email to none@none.com and then change your password Ruby the Liberal Jul 2013 #69
Locking with consensus of GD hosts. pacalo Jul 2013 #70
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
1. And youre going to find a non double standard discussion board
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jul 2013

Just unpack your bags, and stay. The grass isn't greener on the other side.

 

firenewt

(298 posts)
4. Not looking for greener pastures, just don't like being attacked
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
7. I get attacked all the time.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:54 PM
Jul 2013

You can chose to either argue with them or ignore them. Most of DU are cool people though, you'll be missing this place.

Seriously, do reconsider. Don't let the few who live for the drama affect you.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
9. Starting a "goodbye cruel world" thread wont help with that.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:55 PM
Jul 2013

Just FYI.

PS. We all get attacked sometimes. You cant take it so personally.

 

firenewt

(298 posts)
43. I guess I am too stressed out. On permanent disability, have 2 adult kids living with and taking
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:48 PM
Jul 2013

care of me. Each has serious health problems of their own - with no insurance. And on and on........
It was the way I was attacked - I was dissing on Mitch Daniels from personal experience. And get trashed for being a Republican back in the early 70's. Got smart and left the GOP, but I guess in some views if one was once a Republican you are permanently tainted and still a shill for the GOP. Oh well...................

I'll read DU for the info, but I'm done posting - except for this thread.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
58. I feel so bad for you....
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:05 PM
Jul 2013

Times are not good for many people and most of us wish things in our lifle were better. Smart remarks from posters is one of the things any one can do without. When things are getting you down, stop in and get caught up on what you missed in the news.

You probably already know, but I think there's payments to caretakers who must stay home.

hack89

(39,181 posts)
50. That's what DU is about, unfortunately. nt
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:54 PM
Jul 2013

leftstreet

(40,680 posts)
2. This is the first I've heard of you
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:51 PM
Jul 2013

You can never delete your account

ever

 

firenewt

(298 posts)
10. That's ok, I've never heard of you as well.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:55 PM
Jul 2013

leftstreet

(40,680 posts)
15. I've been here like 9 or 10 yrs and no one knows who I am
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:58 PM
Jul 2013


Stick around

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
18. Oh some of us know who you are leftstreet....
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:00 PM
Jul 2013

leftstreet

(40,680 posts)
19. heh
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:01 PM
Jul 2013

NightWatcher

(39,376 posts)
3. Why not just stop logging on?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013

Oh wait, this is a statement.


Go for the Walt Starr flameout!!!

 

firenewt

(298 posts)
6. OK - what is the Walt Starr Flameout?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:53 PM
Jul 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
11. Nothing, ignore them.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:55 PM
Jul 2013

*sighs*

NightWatcher

(39,376 posts)
13. A call for Skinner to tombstone.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:57 PM
Jul 2013
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
21. You should hang.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:01 PM
Jul 2013

I understand and feel the double standards, but it's still the best board around.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
23. A sometime stylish way
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:03 PM
Jul 2013

to go out in a blaze of glory. Kind of.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,992 posts)
5. Ah, DU never was a front.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jul 2013

Fun, informative, but a front in the war for change? No. Typing on the Internet never mattered that much. So if you feel this place draws your energies like a war front, yeah take a break.

H2O Man

(79,051 posts)
14. Respectfully disagree.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:58 PM
Jul 2013

A significant number of forum members have used DU to coordinate activities that are of value.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,992 posts)
40. Yeah activities outside the site.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:46 PM
Jul 2013

DU is important in that sense, as a means to an end, but not as an end. A lot of people seem to get really emotionally invested though, like it is an end. I've seen this in many posts that have been alerted to jury: people have gotten too invested, stopped having fun and using it as a source of direction rather than an end in itself.

hunter

(40,690 posts)
30. I'm agreeing with H2O Man.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:16 PM
Jul 2013

It depends on what you write and the connections you make.

I've had good "real world" political experiences directly related to DU, and some bad.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
8. You cannot delete your account.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:54 PM
Jul 2013

Take care, and thanks for the luck wishing.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
12. You can't delete your account.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:56 PM
Jul 2013

You can change your password to something you can't remember and you will not have to go on DU again.

What do they attack you about?

 

Cali_Democrat

(30,439 posts)
16. Just try not logging in again. n/t
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:58 PM
Jul 2013
 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
17. Please stay!!!! For the love of God please stay!!
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 07:58 PM
Jul 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
20. Youre such a nice person, pretzelwarrior.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:01 PM
Jul 2013

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
22. Jeez, EVERYBODY gets attacked....
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:02 PM
Jul 2013

It's a POLITICAL discussion board for God's sake!

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
31. Discussion doesn't mean that people need to be attacked.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:20 PM
Jul 2013
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
32. Do you know why this poster was attack? I hate to loose a long time member.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:29 PM
Jul 2013

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
36. No I don't. I was just making a statement
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:39 PM
Jul 2013

that political discussion can be carried out without people attacking one another.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
37. I agree. I try my best not to insult people personally.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:40 PM
Jul 2013
 

firenewt

(298 posts)
57. This is what I posted concerning Mitch Daniels
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:05 PM
Jul 2013

I worked with Mitch the Bitch Daniels on Richard Lugar's first senate run. I was a Republican when

there was at least a small amount of integrity in the GOP. Daniels suffers from an acute case of small man syndrome. Everything he did was for his own benefit. Back then, very few people could stand him. He wrapped himself in the flag and wore his Christianity on his sleeve. He has no moral compass, guided only by his desire to rule over and suppress those who oppose him. Nothing he does surprises me.

Just another reason I hate living in Indiana.

This is what I got in return -


when has there been a small amt of integrity in the GOP?

Indiana Republicans are some of the most backward ass idiots in this nation.

They make the state SUCK - and, honestly, you were on board with this? You have long been part of the problem, you know?

Maybe you mean back when Howard Baker was part of the Watergate hearings? Because, as far as I know, that's the last time a Republican has done something that doesn't involve being a whore to their corporate owners.

This was my response that was banned-

Hold on there Dawg. I was in my early 20's and had been raised by a RW bigoted family. The whole

Richard Nixon shit is what made me realize the GOP was not the party for me. Your attitude pisses me off. Would you be happier if I didn't see the errors of my way. Then you could hate and rag on me all you want. I view your statement as a personal attack. You know nothing about me and the social services work and volunteering I have done. So FUCK you.


A Jury voted 5-1 to hide this post on Wed Jul 17, 2013, 06:56 PM. Reason: This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See Community Standards


I will still lurk around here - I, like many of you, a political junkie. I'll read but I done posting.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
59. I am sorry that happened to you. Don't let it push you away from here.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:07 PM
Jul 2013

Take a break and come back. Don't let others push you away.

deurbano

(2,986 posts)
62. Well, that was terribly rude of the person responding to you. I think you were justified
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:18 PM
Jul 2013

in your response, but maybe the "F U" part is against the rules? (I come from a right wing, bigoted family, also, so I feel your pain.)

socialist_n_TN

(11,481 posts)
66. OK, kind of pissy, but I've seen worse....
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:25 PM
Jul 2013

However, had I been on the jury I wouldn't have voted to hide your post. FWIW. And I'm a commie.

Just put on your asbestos underwear and post away.

DCBob

(24,689 posts)
24. Change your username to "Account Deleted".
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:03 PM
Jul 2013

H2O Man

(79,051 posts)
25. Take a break,
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:03 PM
Jul 2013

and come back later.

Or perhaps stay, and be part of the effort to bring back more of the good that used to define DU.

Peace,
H2O Man

 

leeroysphitz

(10,462 posts)
26. Really? You were always one of the good ones... n/t
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:03 PM
Jul 2013

name not needed

(11,665 posts)
27. I've got to go...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:07 PM
Jul 2013

Raine

(31,177 posts)
28. Just change your password to letters and numbers you can't remember and then you will
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:11 PM
Jul 2013

never be able to log-in again. I'm that's that's what Skinner has told others to do. Good by and good luck.

Wanted to add I hope you will give it second thoughts. I think everyone here has been attacked at one time or another. I know I have and I can't deny it hurts and I sworn I would never come back. I've come back though and been glad I did. I think you need a

skeewee08

(1,983 posts)
29. Please please don't go
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:11 PM
Jul 2013

that's my James Brown impersonation

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
33. don't go. please.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:30 PM
Jul 2013
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
34. Hello hello, I'm sorry I got to go!
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:34 PM
Jul 2013
 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
35. Obviously this poster is upset. Perheps a *hug* will help more
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:38 PM
Jul 2013

Than ridiculing his feelings.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
39. How is a Beatles song ridiculing his feelings?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:44 PM
Jul 2013

It is a song, maybe you should have listened to it first.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
41. I know the song, dont have to listen to it.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:47 PM
Jul 2013

Forget I said anything, carry on.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
42. Ya no problem, nice reply to them with a hug btw.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:48 PM
Jul 2013

Please do carry on.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
48. I sure will. When people are down they dont need yet another kick.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:53 PM
Jul 2013

Try being there for someone in need, even if that someone is a stranger. Someday you may just need the favour returned.

None of us are invincible you know.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
52. You can try to believe you are making some kind of point here.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:55 PM
Jul 2013

But your reactionary post to my original post shows that you just assumed something and was wrong. Own up to it.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
63. Projecting much?
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:19 PM
Jul 2013

Gah, nevermind. In moments like this you see people's true colours.

Have a good night.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
65. Okay ya have a great night.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:21 PM
Jul 2013

Exactly.

H2O Man

(79,051 posts)
47. The line
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:52 PM
Jul 2013

"sorry I have to go" is not part of the Beatles' song "Hello, Goodbye."

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
49. Yeah that was me talking about myself in this thread.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:53 PM
Jul 2013

And then I posted a song, what is the big mystery here?

H2O Man

(79,051 posts)
55. Magical Mystery Tour
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:00 PM
Jul 2013

was an album and low-quality film. I preferred Sgt. Pepper.

And The Beatles (aka White Album).

I do understand why one might feel disappointed and/or frustrated with most of DU these days. I don't think the OP was written as an attempt to get a chorus of "oh, please stay." I could be wrong, of course. Maybe that is a topic that is worthy of a serious discussion, because we should all want good people to hang out on DU from time to time.

Revolution/ Hey, Jude" was probably my favorite single/45.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
56. 'you say goodbye and i say hello'
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:04 PM
Jul 2013

Well you know how those lyrics are SO telling someone to piss off etc! NOT.

I think the knee jerking around here is about as bad as it ever is. I can see why this guy is leaving. No one actually talks to each other anymore. We all just hate and hate like it is a game show.

Everyone is angry.

However...everything is going to be all right. Right?

Revolution

You say you want a revolution
Well, you know
We all want to change the world
You tell me that it's evolution
Well, you know
We all want to change the world
But when you talk about destruction
Don't you know that you can count me out
Don't you know it's gonna be all right
All right, all right

You say you got a real solution
Well, you know
We'd all love to see the plan
You ask me for a contribution
Well, you know
We're doing what we can
But when you want money
For people with minds that hate
All I can tell is brother you have to wait
Don't you know it's gonna be all right
All right, all right
Ah

Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah...

You say you'll change the constitution
Well, you know
We all want to change your head
You tell me it's the institution
Well, you know
You better free you mind instead
But if you go carrying pictures of chairman Mao
You ain't going to make it with anyone anyhow
Don't you know it's gonna be all right
All right, all right
All right, all right, all right
All right, all right, all right

H2O Man

(79,051 posts)
60. Last night,
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:14 PM
Jul 2013

I watched some old film of the Beatles playing on the roof-top. Not "Revolution," of course, but John's "Don't Let Me Down" is so good!

Perhaps we can utterly hi-jack this thread, and transform it into an upbeat discussion of The Beatles. I'll be glad to participate in that!

My "second favorite" group was the Plastic Ono Band. I enjoy playing my collection of POB very loud on hot summer's days, such as today. I am convinced that if more people listened to the Beatles and POB more frequently, society would benefit.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
61. ELO.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:18 PM
Jul 2013

Please don't tell anyone, I also loved the BeeGees.

Peace and love, peace and love. At least let us remember John Lennon and his unity for peace and love.

Wild West Hero is my favorite song to this day.

zappaman

(20,627 posts)
38. ...
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:40 PM
Jul 2013
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
45. Something smells rotten in Tombstone.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:49 PM
Jul 2013

You know this will never stop now.

 

burnodo

(2,017 posts)
44. Buh bye!
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:48 PM
Jul 2013

IDemo

(16,926 posts)
46. -
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:52 PM
Jul 2013

sagat

(241 posts)
51. Spam the board with Goatse.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:54 PM
Jul 2013

That should do the trick.

damnedifIknow

(3,183 posts)
53. I've been called a troll many times
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:56 PM
Jul 2013

I don't mind I just keep on keepin on. Some don't care for my links either.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
54. Hell, someone called me a douche today
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 08:57 PM
Jul 2013

for making an error in judgment that I admitted to.

So what?

I'm beginning to see a wave of one position or another come and go... and come back again. It's like a tide of ideas. Some good, some bad... you get to decide. But the jerks are everywhere and you will never get away from them unless you become a recluse and then some animal will eat you eventually.

You may as well stick around and speak your mind. Use the "ignore" facility if you need it. There's still a lot of good info here.... and I have at times learned a thing or two from people I first thought were my opponents. It happens.

Stick around.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
64. +1
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:21 PM
Jul 2013
 

Coyotl

(15,262 posts)
67. Welcome to DU
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:26 PM
Jul 2013

Bryn

(3,621 posts)
68. I once left DU for one year
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:27 PM
Jul 2013

due to something else ... nothing to do with DU..just my personal life. I think you can do the same.. just leave DU and not log in for a looong while.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,664 posts)
69. Change your email to none@none.com and then change your password
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:27 PM
Jul 2013

to some random shit like zsertyuio and log off.

Have a nice life.

pacalo

(24,857 posts)
70. Locking with consensus of GD hosts.
Wed Jul 17, 2013, 09:33 PM
Jul 2013

"No whining about DU" in the General Discussion forum. Complaints belong in the ATA forum.

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