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kpete

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Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:34 PM Feb 2012

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This message was self-deleted by its author (Original Post) kpete Feb 2012 OP
Did someone say "sandwich"? Scuba Feb 2012 #1
Very clear communication...there may be hope for their relationship. Magoo48 Feb 2012 #2
Yeah, this is funny, but... SaintPete Feb 2012 #3
Exactly. DavidDvorkin Feb 2012 #4
Certain kinds of violence don't count SaintPete Feb 2012 #7
My thoughts, as well. Wait Wut Feb 2012 #11
right on madokie Feb 2012 #5
The image accurately reflects the anger many women feel peace frog Feb 2012 #6
I agree. demmiblue Feb 2012 #9
So, what's the point here? HappyMe Feb 2012 #8
I do NOT think this thread should be deleted. MADem Feb 2012 #10
Situational comedy can be funny Rex Feb 2012 #12
wow bigtree Feb 2012 #13
after a couple weeks of catholic bishops and rick sanitarium, and congressional hearing on dembotoz Feb 2012 #14
Damn RIGHT you are. 2ndAmForComputers Feb 2012 #18
But why are you upset? aquart Feb 2012 #15
Yikes... Spazito Feb 2012 #16
He should have used "sudo." 2ndAmForComputers Feb 2012 #17
Yeah, I'm glad to see violence advocated, not. What's your point kpete? Johnson20 Feb 2012 #19
I saw this on a friend's facebook the other day: Erose999 Feb 2012 #20
 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
1. Did someone say "sandwich"?
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:38 PM
Feb 2012

Magoo48

(6,720 posts)
2. Very clear communication...there may be hope for their relationship.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:38 PM
Feb 2012

SaintPete

(533 posts)
3. Yeah, this is funny, but...
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:42 PM
Feb 2012

If it were a man smacking a woman, and the caption read "NO - Leave the toilet set UP!" would it survive DU?

DavidDvorkin

(20,581 posts)
4. Exactly.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:42 PM
Feb 2012

SaintPete

(533 posts)
7. Certain kinds of violence don't count
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:48 PM
Feb 2012

right?

If he didn't want to get smacked he shouldn't have been born with a penis

Isn't that funny?

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
11. My thoughts, as well.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:13 PM
Feb 2012

Domestic violence is domestic violence. I've known two men in my life that were SERIOUSLY abused by their wives. One ended up in the hospital on more than one occasion.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
5. right on
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:44 PM
Feb 2012

peace frog

(5,609 posts)
6. The image accurately reflects the anger many women feel
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:45 PM
Feb 2012

but I can't sanction violence whether it's against women or men.

demmiblue

(39,685 posts)
9. I agree.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:51 PM
Feb 2012

Please consider deleting this post, kpete.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
8. So, what's the point here?
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 01:51 PM
Feb 2012

Slapping a man and screaming for a sandwich is okay?


Violence against either sex is wrong.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
10. I do NOT think this thread should be deleted.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:09 PM
Feb 2012

I think the cartoon, sans any real OP comment, is there for us to remark upon. It is a catalyst for discussion.

I think the conversation has already gotten interesting. A comment about gender bias (even though males are more likely to inflict serious damage--but it's not unknown for women to do so as well).

The OP just says "No (with a lot of O's)--I don't regard that as an "endorsement" of what is depicted.

I think it would not hurt to see where this discussion takes us.

Here's my view: I am not a fan of domestic violence, in fact, I oppose it vehemently--I just don't see the point in it. Of course, I am a family-oriented person who enjoys being around my relations and they feel the same way; I would no sooner want to hit any of them than stand on my head at midnight on a superhighway.

I did have a neighbor who pushed her husband down the basement stairs in a fit of anger--he sprained his wrist; lucky he wasn't killed. Another time she punched him in the face and took out his tooth. She was a big woman with a big temper, he was a skinny little guy who drank way too much. The police came, but I moved so I never found out how that all worked out. I often wondered if they worked things out--they elevated domestic arguing and violence to a very loud art. I also once lived near a guy who used to get drunk (booze seems to play a role often as not) and beat his wife every Saturday night. We neighbors would take turns calling the police, and the husband would take off and hide in the woods while the wife denied everything.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
12. Situational comedy can be funny
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:19 PM
Feb 2012

but domestic violence is never funny. I see the point, she got tired of him telling her to stfu and make him a sandwich. I get it, but then she turns around and acts like a man and slaps the shit out of him. Since I know you would not take kindly to a picture of a man slapping the shit out of a woman, why is this okay? Just cause? Men in general deserve it? Because it is in cartoon form?

Who here sees the point in domestic violence? If anyone does, please let the rest of us know what it is.

bigtree

(94,198 posts)
13. wow
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:22 PM
Feb 2012

this is okay then, Kpete?

More sad than funny.

 

dembotoz

(16,922 posts)
14. after a couple weeks of catholic bishops and rick sanitarium, and congressional hearing on
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:22 PM
Feb 2012

reproductive issues with no women present, and on and on and on.....

i am not offended by this in any way.
i thought it was funny

2ndAmForComputers

(3,527 posts)
18. Damn RIGHT you are.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:36 PM
Feb 2012

I approve of this OP. If you don't like that, tough.

aquart

(69,014 posts)
15. But why are you upset?
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:25 PM
Feb 2012

Because he didn't have the sensitivity or self-preservation to realize that a hungry woman is a dangerous, wild creature? Fool is lucky she didn't smear him with barbecue sauce.

ALWAYS FEED THE WOMEN.

Spazito

(55,435 posts)
16. Yikes...
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:31 PM
Feb 2012

I am really at a loss as to what the reason is for posting this. I only hope it is to show violence is no answer regardless of gender.

2ndAmForComputers

(3,527 posts)
17. He should have used "sudo."
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:35 PM
Feb 2012
 

Johnson20

(315 posts)
19. Yeah, I'm glad to see violence advocated, not. What's your point kpete?
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:46 PM
Feb 2012

Erose999

(5,624 posts)
20. I saw this on a friend's facebook the other day:
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 02:52 PM
Feb 2012



I have female friends that I tell to "get to the kitchen" in jest. They know I'm as much of a feminist as they are.
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