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Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:12 PM Jul 2013

Weiner admits to XXX online chats with woman for 6 months *after* resigning from Congress

New York Mayoral candidate Anthony Weiner has admitted to another raunchy online sexual relationship with a young woman that went on for six months — after he resigned in disgrace from Congress in a sexting scandal in 2011.

“Thedirty.com” says Weiner used an anonymous handle — “Carlos Danger” — and exchanged sexually explicit photos and had XXX sex chats with the young woman.

The woman, using the handle “Anonymous” said of Weiner, “The part that’s most annoying is that I was 22 years old and in a bad place, but if anyone asked him he would say the same thing about himself, yet he’s an adult.”

.......

The site claims Weiner used the pseudonym “Carlos Danger” when he would “email pictures of his penis via Yahoo. Which makes me believe Anonymous wasn’t the only girl he was working.”


http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/during_report_claims_weiner_carried_S43ledXDkqUmnc8F9AOfmN

You truly couldn't make this shit up.
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Weiner admits to XXX online chats with woman for 6 months *after* resigning from Congress (Original Post) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 OP
come on, he's a pervert Skittles Jul 2013 #1
Once again, Wiener makes the hard choice and comes clean... cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #2
the "hard" choice was already made, the difficult one is to get out of politics so msongs Jul 2013 #9
+1 Puzzledtraveller Jul 2013 #30
I don't understand your comment Renew Deal Jul 2013 #15
try to think, er, sexual innuendo, Renew Deal Skittles Jul 2013 #93
Don't feel bad Orrex Jul 2013 #34
I was going to go with "Wiener accidentally tweets johnson to Anonymous." cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #52
badda boom badda bing Champion Jack Jul 2013 #83
SCHEDULING CHEROKEEPROGRESSIVE FOR ASS KICKING Skittles Jul 2013 #92
(Hangs head...) cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #96
OH PLEASE Skittles Jul 2013 #114
Uhhh... cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #126
Looks to me like he needs help with either a Ilsa Jul 2013 #3
I agree. This has to be hard on his family esp if they thought all this was behind them. nt Mojorabbit Jul 2013 #4
Heh heh. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #38
has the wife weighed in on this, she may be fine with it, i dont know. loli phabay Jul 2013 #51
Maybe she is. But this isn't behavior Ilsa Jul 2013 #116
I am no psychologist Jenoch Jul 2013 #88
I've said it before, I'll say it again. Happyhippychick Jul 2013 #5
She has redefined "long-suffering" (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #7
Wasn't she pregnant at the time? Hard for women to make big changes in those circumstances. Liberal_in_LA Jul 2013 #12
Please. It's hard if you didn't have the support she had. vaberella Jul 2013 #128
I hear ya. Liberal_in_LA Jul 2013 #134
i hear some women are attracted to Danger Enrique Jul 2013 #13
That's what I said about Hilary Clinton. But these lady's make their choices. n/t vaberella Jul 2013 #127
This is a shame. As a supporter This makes me sad. Hope this does not elect Quinn. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #6
If Weiner beats her, she will regret that she never tweeted her vulva (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #8
oh my. KittyWampus Jul 2013 #10
Carlos Danger? geek tragedy Jul 2013 #11
Carlos Danger Wiener. Danger is his middle name! nolabear Jul 2013 #14
Danger Weiner, Savage Weiner, too many weiners to keep track of anymore... nt Buns_of_Fire Jul 2013 #89
Idiot Wiener, Jerkoff Wiener, Scumbucket Wiener. Whisp Jul 2013 #95
So what? Whose business is it? GlashFordan Jul 2013 #16
This. His personal life is between him and his family. nt sufrommich Jul 2013 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author Agschmid Jul 2013 #26
If "being a boy scout" means "not tweeting your cock", Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author Agschmid Jul 2013 #35
and apparantly several women to whom he sent unsolicited dick pictures. nt arely staircase Jul 2013 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author Agschmid Jul 2013 #36
I think he is done in politics but who knows maddezmom Jul 2013 #57
I thought he was a good congressman, actually. nt arely staircase Jul 2013 #71
He was and would probably be a good mayor maddezmom Jul 2013 #74
who cares about questionable judgment, right? frylock Jul 2013 #25
Was sacrificing term limits to Bloomberg's demands closeupready Jul 2013 #44
and that has fuckall to do with this.. frylock Jul 2013 #49
It fuckall does - Quinn v. Weiner. closeupready Jul 2013 #70
so weiner gets elected, more scandals emerge, weiner resigns in disgrace.. frylock Jul 2013 #76
Did the National Organization of Women have any right to urge women not to vote for Weiner? Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #32
The business of people who vote for him. n-t Logical Jul 2013 #56
Yes, because on my tax money time he's looking at porn sites and tweeting penis'. vaberella Jul 2013 #129
idiot warrior1 Jul 2013 #17
More power to him. I hope he wins the election. byeya Jul 2013 #19
The Murdoch-owned NY Post OnyxCollie Jul 2013 #20
Can't believe anyone is still using your tactic. nt Dreamer Tatum Jul 2013 #39
Surely these piddling sexual quirks, obsessions, and dalliances would not interfere with indepat Jul 2013 #21
Here we go again Puzzledtraveller Jul 2013 #22
Sometimes, I think that some guys would be happier without being married. backscatter712 Jul 2013 #23
"Anonymous" must be in an extended childhood... kiva Jul 2013 #24
That caught my eye too. How ridiculous. nt laundry_queen Jul 2013 #98
It sounds like they both need help. nt Mosby Jul 2013 #27
Why not? What did he have to lose at that point? n/t Ian David Jul 2013 #28
Honey, at 22, you are an adult. (n/t) WorseBeforeBetter Jul 2013 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #61
Don't push me. I just watched "Evan Feinberg"... WorseBeforeBetter Jul 2013 #117
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #119
Heh. Feinberg is quite the poster child... WorseBeforeBetter Jul 2013 #120
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #121
Same here. Moving from... WorseBeforeBetter Jul 2013 #122
+1 JVS Jul 2013 #75
Hmm...let me check. BlueStater Jul 2013 #37
It could actually be a positive. He has demonstrated strong computer skills, Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #41
Will your head explode if he wins? BlueStater Jul 2013 #43
No, it will be hilarious. I can't wait for the NY Post headlines and cartoons. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #48
How does he look in the poles...er, polls? Common Sense Party Jul 2013 #72
Who cares. I don't. I'm voting for him. closeupready Jul 2013 #40
It's almost worth it for the four years of amusing NY Post headlines and puns (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #42
They do have a way with words, closeupready Jul 2013 #45
He shows poor judgement.....his behavior is pathetic....if he wins...NY will be a laughing stock Gin Jul 2013 #46
Ron Mexico would be proud. "Carlos Danger" is a great name for a big idiot. n/t hughee99 Jul 2013 #47
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2013 #53
Hi Carlos! Got any good pics to post? (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #55
In my day, we had to send crotch shots by pony express. Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #50
See, the Weiner mayoralty will be non-stop hilarity! Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #62
Can't you see the T-shirts? "Vote for Carlos" n/t cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #63
This message was self-deleted by its author Warren DeMontague Jul 2013 #85
That is one horny guy. jessie04 Jul 2013 #58
if you're 22, you are an adult. deal. Pretzel_Warrior Jul 2013 #59
According to Abc news he is going to have a press conference soon. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #60
Think he'll blame it on Breitbart's Ghost? cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #64
Those damn ghosts! hrmjustin Jul 2013 #65
Honesty nil desperandum Jul 2013 #66
+100 nt Mojorabbit Jul 2013 #68
And you know the intricacies of their marriage because......? jeff47 Jul 2013 #80
Comments nil desperandum Jul 2013 #130
Again, you are assuming parts of their relationship jeff47 Jul 2013 #131
High horse nil desperandum Jul 2013 #132
This guy's a train wreck. Le Taz Hot Jul 2013 #67
This guy is scum. nt greytdemocrat Jul 2013 #69
Why hasn't his wife left him? BainsBane Jul 2013 #73
Wouldn't be surprised if she left after this. polichick Jul 2013 #78
Maybe she doesn't care? jeff47 Jul 2013 #81
She cares BainsBane Jul 2013 #82
Because.......? jeff47 Jul 2013 #86
Because the entire country has seen her husband tweeting his willy BainsBane Jul 2013 #87
And why is that humiliating? jeff47 Jul 2013 #90
No one wants their husband's indiscretions in the news BainsBane Jul 2013 #91
How very sad for his wife, mzmolly Jul 2013 #77
Thanks for screwing us out of a progressive Congressman, Weiner. Deep13 Jul 2013 #79
He should run as Carlos Danger. Would be great. NorthCarolina Jul 2013 #84
Why are you so fucking concerned... 99Forever Jul 2013 #94
Oh, you musunderstand. My OP was in no way intended to condemn the cock-tweeting and the sexting, Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #100
Her "modern attitude" was in place... 99Forever Jul 2013 #102
Hey, I didn't tell him to hold a press conference about his sex life. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #105
So you can't or won't answer. 99Forever Jul 2013 #106
Doesn't something become "my business" when someone holds a PRESS CONFERENCE about it? (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #107
Lather, rinse, repeat. 99Forever Jul 2013 #109
Hey, you're right, it does. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #110
lol! nt ecstatic Jul 2013 #112
Is that wrong? JVS Jul 2013 #97
yeah, you wouldn't want to make this shit up.. Cha Jul 2013 #99
Witch Hunt Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #101
Here's another verse: Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #103
Hypothetical: Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #108
what a load of crap. Weiner showed no impulse control and no judgment cali Jul 2013 #123
This is a deliberate distraction from the State Dept sexual misconduct scandal. Whisp Jul 2013 #104
I've intentionally stayed quiet until now because I wanted to see where matthews Jul 2013 #111
How did this come out? Did the woman come forward? Autumn Jul 2013 #113
He might as well have "Carlos Danger" tattooed on his ... forehead... VOX Jul 2013 #115
He started these chats a week before his "It's all behind me" People magazine spread Adenoid_Hynkel Jul 2013 #118
I am not terribly concerned with his sex life, smirkymonkey Jul 2013 #124
He is sick. Punkingal Jul 2013 #125
Bad reporting!!! Capt. Obvious Jul 2013 #133
Post removed Post removed Jul 2013 #135

msongs

(73,754 posts)
9. the "hard" choice was already made, the difficult one is to get out of politics so
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:25 PM
Jul 2013

people can elect a liberal/progressive that has a higher standard of conduct

Renew Deal

(85,151 posts)
15. I don't understand your comment
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:30 PM
Jul 2013

Unless the hard choice is the content of the photos. He didn't "come clean." Someone outed him again.

Skittles

(171,710 posts)
93. try to think, er, sexual innuendo, Renew Deal
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:01 PM
Jul 2013

as in, er, "hard" and "come"; yes INDEED

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
52. I was going to go with "Wiener accidentally tweets johnson to Anonymous."
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:25 PM
Jul 2013

Probly shoulda stuck with that.

Ilsa

(64,368 posts)
3. Looks to me like he needs help with either a
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:17 PM
Jul 2013

Sex addiction or something else that needs diagnosing.

I'm not declaring he did anything wrong, but he's married, and I can't imagine his wife being okay with this. He is seeking a career in public life, and this kind of private life usually doesn't jive with a promising public reputation. He needs psychological help.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
4. I agree. This has to be hard on his family esp if they thought all this was behind them. nt
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:19 PM
Jul 2013

Ilsa

(64,368 posts)
116. Maybe she is. But this isn't behavior
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:59 PM
Jul 2013

that most of the population will endorse with a vote. It makes me wonder what else is going on with him. And since this is the sort of behavior that people try to hide, I wonder if he'd be vulnerable to blackmail.

BTW, in my memory of the previous incident, the wife didn't appear to be too happy about his extra-curricular flirtings.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
88. I am no psychologist
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:36 PM
Jul 2013

nor do I have any experience in this sort of thing. I think Weiner's sexting problem similar to the problem that flashers have. They get some sort of thrill out of exposing themselves. Weiner does it with a cell phone and flashers do it in a park or from their car.

Happyhippychick

(8,422 posts)
5. I've said it before, I'll say it again.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:22 PM
Jul 2013

His wife is such a prize I don't know what she sees in that pig of a husband.

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
12. Wasn't she pregnant at the time? Hard for women to make big changes in those circumstances.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:27 PM
Jul 2013

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
128. Please. It's hard if you didn't have the support she had.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:37 PM
Jul 2013

She has plenty of support and doesn't need Weiner. Child or no child...not too tough when my husband keeps cuckolding me emotionally and mentally, if not physically.

Response to sufrommich (Reply #18)

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
31. If "being a boy scout" means "not tweeting your cock",
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:57 PM
Jul 2013

then it's probably a good idea to be a boy scout if you want to run for office.

Response to Nye Bevan (Reply #31)

Response to arely staircase (Reply #29)

maddezmom

(135,060 posts)
74. He was and would probably be a good mayor
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:15 PM
Jul 2013

But it will be hard for some who got over his last incident thinking he learned his lesson only to learn he was still out there sexting far after he resigned. You can do good works and still be a total fuckup...like what is going on in SD right now.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
25. who cares about questionable judgment, right?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:53 PM
Jul 2013

his poor judgment and decisions will have no bearing whatsoever on how he runs the city. is that your argument? being prone to blackmail is no biggie in politics really.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
44. Was sacrificing term limits to Bloomberg's demands
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:16 PM
Jul 2013

better judgment? I don't think so. To the contrary, in fact.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
76. so weiner gets elected, more scandals emerge, weiner resigns in disgrace..
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:18 PM
Jul 2013

and NYC gets to spend a ton of jack holding a special election because this egomaniac doesn't know when to hang it up, and can't control his urges. we're going to go through that whole fucking process here in san diego. good times.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
32. Did the National Organization of Women have any right to urge women not to vote for Weiner?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:59 PM
Jul 2013

Or should they just butt out?

The National Organization for Women is urging voters to stay far, far away from this election’s two comeback candidates: disgraced former Gov. Eliot Spitzer, who is running for comptroller, and former Congressman Anthony Weiner, a candidate for mayor.

Advocates with the pro-women’s group, which has endorsed City Council Speaker Christine Quinn for mayor, held a press conference on the steps of City Hall today where they slammed the two redemption-seeking polls as anti-women.


http://politicker.com/2013/07/now-urges-female-voters-to-steer-clear-of-spitzer-and-weiner/

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
129. Yes, because on my tax money time he's looking at porn sites and tweeting penis'.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:40 PM
Jul 2013

I definitely want that as Mayor. I will say this, I am a New York resident and I can say he doesn't get my vote. I'm done with this. Because shit like this derails good work and progress and turns the office into a media circus. I would rather focus always be on policy and actions like this would not make him effective since policy focus would be out the window and his salacious behaviour would be more the topic.

 

OnyxCollie

(9,958 posts)
20. The Murdoch-owned NY Post
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:46 PM
Jul 2013

publishes a story about emails and online chats to once again destroy a disgraced politician (who dared to go after Clarence Thomas.)

Murdoch bragged that politicians could not get elected without good press from his media outlets.

News Corp, with USA PATRIOT ACT author Viet Dinh on its Board of Directors.

News Corp, whose Sun newspaper hacked phones and bribed police.

News Corp employees and PAC made Barack Obama (and eight other Dems, along with Bob Corker) their top 10 recipients of campaign contributions in 2012.

Move along. Nothing to see here.

indepat

(20,899 posts)
21. Surely these piddling sexual quirks, obsessions, and dalliances would not interfere with
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:46 PM
Jul 2013

Weiner's performance of duties as mayor of our largest city. Not at all. Nosiree.

backscatter712

(26,357 posts)
23. Sometimes, I think that some guys would be happier without being married.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:51 PM
Jul 2013

Weiner may be one of those guys. I'd suggest that he divorce, be openly single, and unapologetically do the Glenn Quagmire thing.


kiva

(4,373 posts)
24. "Anonymous" must be in an extended childhood...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 03:52 PM
Jul 2013
The woman, using the handle “Anonymous” said of Weiner, “The part that’s most annoying is that I was 22 years old and in a bad place, but if anyone asked him he would say the same thing about himself, yet he’s an adult.”


She wasn't an adult? News flash, she'd been a adult for four years by that point - and if she didn't think she was, that may well have contributed to her "bad place".

Response to WorseBeforeBetter (Reply #33)

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
117. Don't push me. I just watched "Evan Feinberg"...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:11 PM
Jul 2013

on PBS bashing ObamaCare and "older, sicker Americans."

This Evan Feinberg:

http://evanfeinberg.com/

PUNK!

Response to WorseBeforeBetter (Reply #117)

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
120. Heh. Feinberg is quite the poster child...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:36 PM
Jul 2013

Heritage Foundation, Tom Coburn, Rand Paul, Pat Toomey...

My home state better crush this little twerp! [URL=http://www.sherv.net/emoticons.html][IMG][/IMG][/URL]

Response to WorseBeforeBetter (Reply #120)

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
122. Same here. Moving from...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:54 PM
Jul 2013

Communist Northern Virginia to a blue part of NC wasn't too much of an adjustment, but damn, it's been downhill since 2010.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
37. Hmm...let me check.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:06 PM
Jul 2013

Nope. Still don't give a shit about what he does in the privacy of his own bedroom. Nice try.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
41. It could actually be a positive. He has demonstrated strong computer skills,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:14 PM
Jul 2013

expertise in digital photography, and proficiency in using modern communications platforms like email and Twitter. All of this is important for a prospective mayor of a modern city like New York.

He has also shown a willingness to reach out to and interact with the younger generation. And moreover, he has provided incontovertible evidence that he has a pretty good-sized penis.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
48. No, it will be hilarious. I can't wait for the NY Post headlines and cartoons.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:20 PM
Jul 2013

And I live near but not in NYC, so I will have a ringside seat without being in any way negatively affected by his mayoralty.

He certainly could still win the erection. Er, election.

Gin

(7,212 posts)
46. He shows poor judgement.....his behavior is pathetic....if he wins...NY will be a laughing stock
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:18 PM
Jul 2013

Like Cucinelli is in my state. IMHO

Response to hughee99 (Reply #47)

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
50. In my day, we had to send crotch shots by pony express.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:24 PM
Jul 2013

Then the telegraph changed everything. Talk about a long dash.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
54. See, the Weiner mayoralty will be non-stop hilarity!
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:26 PM
Jul 2013

Come on New Yorkers! Carlos Danger for Mayor!

Response to Nye Bevan (Reply #54)

Response to Nye Bevan (Reply #54)

nil desperandum

(654 posts)
66. Honesty
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 04:46 PM
Jul 2013

When I grew up I learned a simple concept from my construction worker dad, if your word ain't worth shit then neither are you.

I like to think we are electing honest hard working people as our representatives to the government. It concerns me to discover that someone whose political viewpoint I agree with turns out to be a liar to his spouse. I don't expect people to be angels and I sure as hell don't care what you do in the privacy of your home, but I would like my representatives to be honest with me. If they are willing to break a vow or a commitment to someone they purport to cherish above all others I tend to doubt they will care very much about telling me a bunch of lies.

Maybe his wife doesn't care, but at the very least this behavior is poor judgment and at worst a continuing pattern of lies neither of which offers a strong recommendation for his candidacy.

I voted for Elizabeth Warren here in Massachusetts because I believed her to be an honest hard working individual, the same as I did for John Olver for years and for Richie Neal....I have no skin in the game for the NYC mayoral race, but I do believe the content of your character matters.



“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
80. And you know the intricacies of their marriage because......?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:24 PM
Jul 2013

She may not care. AFAIK, she has not made any statements saying she cares.

There are women out there who would throw their husband out if he went to a strip club. There are other women who don't care where he goes, as long as he's not sleeping around. There's no reason for us to assume his wife is the former.

nil desperandum

(654 posts)
130. Comments
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:32 AM
Jul 2013

I believe this article stated his wife forgives him.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-23428335

To forgive means that there was a wrong committed in the eyes of the person forgiving. If she did not care and it was acceptable there was no need to forgive.

I'd rather not be in a p1ssing match over semantics though, I understand your point to mean as long as he lies to his wife who doesn't mind his lies, you're okay with that and he makes a great leader for you.

If that's an incorrect assumption on my part, I have no idea why you would feel the need to respond as you did.

I like my leaders to not be liars where I can find them that way. It's far and few between, but it doesn't mean I can't at least look for a leader who has the politics I like, while also having a bit of character that doesn't involve lies.

It would appear lies are okay with you as long as you get the politics you want, I understand that something is better than nothing....but I think when we set the bar too low we get what we asked for. A government filled with corruption like the one we have in the Massachusetts state house where the position of speaker tends to end in indictment. I'd like to end that practice and have some speakers who end as honorable memories of decent men and women.

But I understand that's not important to you. Thanks for the heads up.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
131. Again, you are assuming parts of their relationship
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:09 PM
Jul 2013

For example, that he lied to her. She may have known about it. She may have never asked about it.

But hey, that would require taking a moment to realize other people are not exactly like you, which would get in the way of that high-horse.

nil desperandum

(654 posts)
132. High horse
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 01:23 PM
Jul 2013

I don't assume she's exactly like me because I won't stay with a spouse who makes plans to put a lover in a condo while arranging sex and sending pictures of their privates to the potential paramour....

I made my comments because of what Huma said :
"It took a lot of work and a whole lot of therapy to get to a place where I could forgive Anthony," Abedin said. "It was not an easy choice in any way, but I made the decision that it was worth staying in this marriage."

Those don't sound like the words of a woman who was "okay" with any of it or knew about any of it.....perhaps the person who doesn't understand this is you because you don't mind his politics you don't mind his bad behavior.

I like his politics too, but I would like someone I intend to vote for to speak honestly about his intentions. If his past is filled with lies to his family I am concerned his future might be filled with lies as well.

If that means you think I am on a high horse, then we will have to agree that we don't see eye to eye here. I'm not convincing you that I am not a moralizing prude, and you're not convincing me that a man whose actions put his wife into therapy in order to forgive him is worthy of a vote.

Thanks, for the education it's been fun.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
81. Maybe she doesn't care?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:25 PM
Jul 2013

There are women who don't mind if their husband goes to strip clubs, flirts with every woman he comes across, and so on.

She could be one of them.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
86. Because.......?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:27 PM
Jul 2013

What, exactly, is the humiliation?

Or is it that you know her personally?

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
87. Because the entire country has seen her husband tweeting his willy
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:30 PM
Jul 2013

Because they know her husband does shit online. It's humiliating. I hope she dumps him now. She deserves much better. The guy has serious problems.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
90. And why is that humiliating?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:48 PM
Jul 2013

See, what I'm trying to get to is the point where you explicitly say what is humiliating about it. Not just "because it is".

Further, you are stating your opinion - you would feel humiliated. We don't know how she feels. She may be one of the women who don't care what he does, as long as he doesn't actually sleep with the women. And no one is claiming he has done that.

BainsBane

(57,757 posts)
91. No one wants their husband's indiscretions in the news
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:50 PM
Jul 2013

If I posted all the stupid stuff you'd done on DU right now, it wouldn't bother you at all?

mzmolly

(52,793 posts)
77. How very sad for his wife,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:19 PM
Jul 2013

and our country. Weiner was an excellent rep for the collective cause.

Deep13

(39,157 posts)
79. Thanks for screwing us out of a progressive Congressman, Weiner.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 05:21 PM
Jul 2013

I predict a long, lucrative, boring, and anonymous career for you.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
94. Why are you so fucking concerned...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:06 PM
Jul 2013

... other people's sex lives?

What gawddamn business is it of yours?

My dear departed mother told me something I've never forgotten: "People with no sex life spend their time and energy trying to ruin it for those of us that do."

You one of those?

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
100. Oh, you musunderstand. My OP was in no way intended to condemn the cock-tweeting and the sexting,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:14 PM
Jul 2013

it was intended to express admiration for the inventive pseudonym "Carlos Danger".

And kudos to your late mother for her refreshingly modern attitude towards the electronic exchange of images of sexual organs.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
102. Her "modern attitude" was in place...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:22 PM
Jul 2013

... a long time before the internet existed. It was aimed at self-appointed "moralist" crusaders of all stripes.

So, again I ask, how is ANYONE else's sex life any of YOUR business unless you are their spouse or partner?

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
105. Hey, I didn't tell him to hold a press conference about his sex life.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:24 PM
Jul 2013

So sue me for watching it.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
107. Doesn't something become "my business" when someone holds a PRESS CONFERENCE about it? (nt)
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:28 PM
Jul 2013

Cha

(319,075 posts)
99. yeah, you wouldn't want to make this shit up..
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:12 PM
Jul 2013

it's too sick. At least I wouldn't.

wth Weiner

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
101. Witch Hunt
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:16 PM
Jul 2013

The night is black, without a moon.
The air is thick and still.
The vigilantes gather on
The lonely torchlit hill.

Features distorted in the flickering light,
Faces are twisted and grotesque.
Silent and stern in the sweltering night,
The mob moves like demons possesed.
Quiet in conscience, calm in their right,
Confident their ways are best.

The righteous rise
With burning eyes
Of hatred and ill-will.
Madmen fed on fear and lies
To beat and burn and kill.

They say there are strangers who threaten us,
Our immigrants and infidels.
They say there is strangeness to danger us
In our theatres and bookstore shelves,
That those who know what's best for us
Must rise and save us from ourselves.

Quick to judge,
Quick to anger,
Slow to understand
Ignorance and prejudice
And fear walk hand in hand.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
103. Here's another verse:
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:23 PM
Jul 2013

While his pregnant wife was sleeping
To the spare room he was creeping.
He made sure to turn the lock
Then he photographed his cock.
With his organ proudly erect
He proceeded to twitter and sext.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
108. Hypothetical:
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:31 PM
Jul 2013

What if a random senator had an open marriage with his wife? Open in the sense that, just between them, there was an understanding that this kind of behavior was permissible? It was something personal they wanted to keep just between themselves and whatever third party that was recruited to engage in the behavior?

Now do you see the silliness in making someone's personal life a political issue?

It's nobody's business. If you don't want to vote for someone base purely on their non-criminal personal life, I would say that's ridiculous because where does it end? But it's your vote.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
123. what a load of crap. Weiner showed no impulse control and no judgment
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:56 PM
Jul 2013

are those qualities one wants in a chief executive?

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
104. This is a deliberate distraction from the State Dept sexual misconduct scandal.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:23 PM
Jul 2013

Huma and Mr. Penis are covering for the Clintons.

There was most likely a new update today on the State Dept scandal - an investigation was taking place on some very serious charges while Hillary was SoS, and today might have been the day for new information.

Clinton's very good friends, may have saved this from the news. But I doubt it. It will squeeze out somehow.

Crazy idea? Not as crazy as Weiner coming out and doing this again and dear sweet adorable wifie standin' by her Mannnn. Something is so off about this stupid story.

 

matthews

(497 posts)
111. I've intentionally stayed quiet until now because I wanted to see where
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:35 PM
Jul 2013

he had supposedly admitted to continuing to play internet stud after the resignation. What a jackass. He needs to get into another line of work. Especially for the really tacky porn name, Carlos Danger.

The only person that this guy is a danger to is himself. And his wife of course. One of these days she might snap and relieve Weiner of his weiner. I'm thinking maybe we should start a collection to show our appreciation, and so that we can post her bail and get her a good attorney by way of thanks. That might be the only way of getting this guy and his schlong off social media sites.

Carlos Danger. Good grief.

Autumn

(48,962 posts)
113. How did this come out? Did the woman come forward?
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:37 PM
Jul 2013

His wife says they had therapy. I would assume this was during this 6 months *after* resigning. If it hasn't happened since I think it's no ones business.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
115. He might as well have "Carlos Danger" tattooed on his ... forehead...
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 06:52 PM
Jul 2013

Because that handle is too much for the media -- not to mention humorists -- to resist. I don't care about his goofing around (although his repeated behavior post-busting sounds like an addiction), but this is not the kind of tomfoolery that the average voter will abide in a candidate for public office.

Carlos Danger is done.

 

Adenoid_Hynkel

(14,093 posts)
118. He started these chats a week before his "It's all behind me" People magazine spread
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 07:13 PM
Jul 2013


Once a liar, always a liar.
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
124. I am not terribly concerned with his sex life,
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:45 PM
Jul 2013

but he is one stupid ass politician. He must know what kind of number the media will do on him. He's just shown extremely poor judgment.

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