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brooklynite

(96,882 posts)
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:23 PM Jul 2013

Correct me if I've missed something about Anthony Wiener...

1) he did something inappropriate

2) he lied about it

3) he was found to be lying about it

4) he Sid he was sorry and that it wouldn't happen again

5) it happened again

Does that pretty much cover it?

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Correct me if I've missed something about Anthony Wiener... (Original Post) brooklynite Jul 2013 OP
that's about it except for Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #1
except he posted some pix publicly by mistake and sent some of them unsolicited- KittyWampus Jul 2013 #3
Typical DU Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #16
Lets not forget about all those women who didn't ask for or want to receive those.. Little Star Jul 2013 #33
7.) He promises jobs to his phone sex partners Adenoid_Hynkel Jul 2013 #7
Good point. Aren't there laws against offering government jobs to phone sex partners? Little Star Jul 2013 #35
and claimed his account was hacked which is Boom Sound 416 Jul 2013 #13
Knowing whether a candidate has good judgment and is truthful (or not) is every voter's business frazzled Jul 2013 #15
Okay Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #19
Lying to the press and public is not a personal issue frazzled Jul 2013 #20
Two words--John Edwards panader0 Jul 2013 #44
I suppose you are all right Shankapotomus Jul 2013 #48
I s'pose a lot of people believe that a person's character and integrity may be compartmentalized. LanternWaste Jul 2013 #45
I believe he got in trouble for sending pictures of his rectitude Orrex Jul 2013 #40
It's the lying jollyreaper2112 Jul 2013 #30
Actually, it shows amazingly bad judgement (the type you don't need in a mayor) Mike Daniels Jul 2013 #39
Pretty much! Guess he's not too smart (as in "common sense" smart). SharonAnn Jul 2013 #2
There is more BootinUp Jul 2013 #4
Thick as a brick WovenGems Jul 2013 #5
pretty much. NYTimes is dumping him. Whisp Jul 2013 #6
That's about it. I can't tolerate this man. Insincere ass. vaberella Jul 2013 #8
I believe he got in trouble for sending pictures of his insincere ass. Orrex Jul 2013 #41
It happened again??? Ugh. Glimmer of Hope Jul 2013 #9
What did he actually tells us that we didn't know? He said there was more to come.. HipChick Jul 2013 #10
He got caught. I am sure many others have been caught by the NSA, info for future use The Straight Story Jul 2013 #11
So you are claiming Weiner was exposed by the NSA? emulatorloo Jul 2013 #12
Uh no.... The Straight Story Jul 2013 #17
Doubt NSA is interested in Cock Pics emulatorloo Jul 2013 #47
certainly hope not, and if humus forgives him then who cares loli phabay Jul 2013 #49
The problem is that Weiner exposed himself. Orrex Jul 2013 #42
I've missed why up until recently he's actually lead the polls Boom Sound 416 Jul 2013 #14
Have you looked at the field of candidates? markpkessinger Jul 2013 #24
His biggest problem in that regard is this: he is not a Christian Republican who ... Hekate Jul 2013 #18
6) he came up with the pseudonym "Carlos Danger" (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #21
He shoulda gone with "Charlie Peligro"--that sounds like a real person! nt MADem Jul 2013 #28
Brock Middlebrook is taken, I guess...nt msanthrope Jul 2013 #37
I don't care about a politicans so called morals. All I care about is their voting record. liberal_at_heart Jul 2013 #22
He is not running to be a legislator cthulu2016 Jul 2013 #23
I'm not in NY, so I wouldn't know. I just don't understand why people get so mad when liberal_at_heart Jul 2013 #26
It's about impulse control and judgment cali Jul 2013 #32
"He's an arrogant dumbass" belongs in there ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2013 #25
i care about lying MFM008 Jul 2013 #27
I have nothing invested in Anthony Weiner... kentuck Jul 2013 #29
He did Sid? Ok that is depraved. Katashi_itto Jul 2013 #31
There are pictures of it ... making it much more fun. JoePhilly Jul 2013 #34
inexplicably smoking hot super smart wife arely staircase Jul 2013 #36
How to spell his last name. Iggo Jul 2013 #38
6) Being ashamed about it in public while smirking is part of the fun for him. FSogol Jul 2013 #43
He became the only politician with two porn names nt geek tragedy Jul 2013 #46
 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
3. except he posted some pix publicly by mistake and sent some of them unsolicited-
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:28 PM
Jul 2013

or maybe you forgot that part.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
16. Typical DU
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:05 AM
Jul 2013

Fail to see the long range precedent.

What if someday some random senator had an open marriage with his wife? Open in the sense that, just between them, there was an understanding that this kind of behavior was permissible? It was something personal they wanted to keep just between themselves and whatever third party that was recruited to engage in the behavior?

Now do you see the silliness in making someone's personal life a political issue? Huma has said she forgives him. That should be enough. Unless we the public want to play the role of his wife in his private life?

Little Star

(17,055 posts)
33. Lets not forget about all those women who didn't ask for or want to receive those..
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:25 AM
Jul 2013

nasty ass sexting pictures of his junk. What about their rights?

 

Adenoid_Hynkel

(14,093 posts)
7. 7.) He promises jobs to his phone sex partners
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:43 PM
Jul 2013

8.) He let the left stake their credibility on defending him
9.) He helped Breitbart score a victory and a comeback after the Sherrod fiasco

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
13. and claimed his account was hacked which is
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 11:24 PM
Jul 2013

you know, a crime, and if he filed a report with police or capitol police is you know, a crime

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
15. Knowing whether a candidate has good judgment and is truthful (or not) is every voter's business
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:00 AM
Jul 2013

Anthony Weiner has shown incredibly poor judgment not only by sexting with numerous individuals (something sure to come out--not a private affair), many of whom were not consenting, but by doing so even after he was caught and forced to resign.

And he has been untruthful on numerous occasions with respect to said activities.

It's not about the sex: it's about how voters need to judge the wisdom and rectitude of the people they are asked to vote for. He flunks the judgment and honesty tests, which should make anyone who would vote for him to lead one of the world's premiere cities ... well ... nuts.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
19. Okay
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:21 AM
Jul 2013

and what kind of precedent does condemning Anthony Weiner set?

What if a random senator had an open marriage with his wife? Open in the sense that, just between them, there was an understanding that this kind of behavior was permissible? It was something personal they wanted to keep just between themselves and whatever third party that was recruited to engage in the behavior? And then some third party leaked it without their permission?

Now do you see the silliness in making someone's personal life a political issue? When is someone's personal life their own that they don't have to answer questions about it? I don't challenge the accusations of lying. I challenge the presumption of even asking and calling forth someone to answer and attest for their personal, non-criminal activity. This is setting a very bad precedent. You have no clue why someone would want to keep something private by lying about. I'm so tired of people using sex to corner people in lies and then saying "It's not about sex, it's about lying!" Nonsense! I challenge the entire premise of making it an issue at all! These are Ken Starr tactics.

It's nobody's business. If you don't want to vote for someone based purely on their non-criminal personal life, I would say that's ridiculous because where does it end? But it's your vote.

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
20. Lying to the press and public is not a personal issue
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:34 AM
Jul 2013

Furthermore, when you are a public figure entrusted with the public's interest, the personal rules that pertain to individuals are no longer relevant. If this were merely a consensual "affair" it would be one thing, and not particularly of interest to anyone. But it was not; it was worse ... because it involved an abuse of power. Some of the women who received pictures and texts did not consent to it. Many were young and looked up to this person of power. This is not a victimless act.

I frankly don't care WHAT his wife permitted him to do or accepted. That is of no interest to me as a voter. As a voter I want to know that the person I elect as mayor has common sense (sending pictures of your penis to strangers in no way constitutes common sense), self-control (sending penis pictures even after you have been caught and publicly humiliated shows crazy lack of self-control), and integrity (out and out lying to the public, repeatedly, displays a lack of integrity).

This has nothing to do with Anthony Weiner's marriage. His wife is welcome to forgive him as much as she wants, and let him continue to sext with strangers. But the voters have a different set of issues to consider. As a voter, I wouldn't trust him to make good decisions or be honest with the citizens.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
48. I suppose you are all right
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 10:14 AM
Jul 2013

My hesitation I think stemmed from a concern of witch hunts. If you ask someone something private enough, you probably can get anyone to lie.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
45. I s'pose a lot of people believe that a person's character and integrity may be compartmentalized.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jul 2013

I s'pose a lot of people believe that a person's character and integrity may be compartmentalized.

jollyreaper2112

(1,941 posts)
30. It's the lying
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 07:09 AM
Jul 2013

I have no problem if he and the wife swing and if she finds it hot for him to chat up other women. If they are game, if he's not abusing his position, if it's consensual, so what?

But he got caught and lied repeatedly and is still lying. Sex isn't his problem, I think it's a symptom.

Mike Daniels

(5,842 posts)
39. Actually, it shows amazingly bad judgement (the type you don't need in a mayor)
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:51 AM
Jul 2013

Aren't teenagers constantly being warned about the hazards of sexting and such, especially to strangers?

The guy's begging to be hit with a blackmail threat the way he's going at this point esp. if he does get elected into office.

BootinUp

(51,272 posts)
4. There is more
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:29 PM
Jul 2013

He has the audacity to run for office
His wife supports him
He made sure there were more pictures out there after he said there probably were. lol.

WovenGems

(776 posts)
5. Thick as a brick
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:40 PM
Jul 2013

How on Earth could you have missed something about Wiener when he has Twittered every part of himself.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
6. pretty much. NYTimes is dumping him.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:41 PM
Jul 2013

Funny story all around. One of those point at and giggle at the stupidity.

vaberella

(24,634 posts)
8. That's about it. I can't tolerate this man. Insincere ass.
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:43 PM
Jul 2013

So many turn public office into a joke---because they're personal life is a hot mess. I want more from my politicians. He's not worth while.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
11. He got caught. I am sure many others have been caught by the NSA, info for future use
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 10:47 PM
Jul 2013

Easy way to keep folks in line and keep the cash coming.

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
17. Uh no....
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:05 AM
Jul 2013

saying that with the power they have I could, at some point, see them doing something like that.

Orrex

(67,080 posts)
42. The problem is that Weiner exposed himself.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:56 AM
Jul 2013

The NSA has nothing to do with it, for once.

Hekate

(100,133 posts)
18. His biggest problem in that regard is this: he is not a Christian Republican who ...
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:06 AM
Jul 2013

... had a good conversation with Jesus about it, cried publicly, and told us that his wife and Jesus forgave him.

See how that works? IOKIYAR

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
26. I'm not in NY, so I wouldn't know. I just don't understand why people get so mad when
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:09 AM
Jul 2013

people do something of a sexual nature and lie about it. I don't care what they do with their private parts or that they lie about what they do with their private parts. People keep saying you can't trust someone who does that and then lies about it. You can't trust someone who doesn't do those kinds of things either. Since when did lying about your sex life become the disqualifier of trustworthiness. I don't trust Obama anymore and from what I can tell he has a pretty clean record as far as his sex life and whether or not he has told the truth about his sex life.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
32. It's about impulse control and judgment
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 07:19 AM
Jul 2013

he has neither. A chief executive needs both.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
25. "He's an arrogant dumbass" belongs in there
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 02:58 AM
Jul 2013

Can't believe I ever fell for the "My Twitter was hacked" bullshit.

At least Andrew Breitbart is dead. That's a positive.

MFM008

(20,042 posts)
27. i care about lying
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:15 AM
Jul 2013

and bad judgement, compulsiveness, not sex. I however am not a NYC voter. Hes a sad little man.

kentuck

(115,393 posts)
29. I have nothing invested in Anthony Weiner...
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 06:40 AM
Jul 2013

I did not vote for him. He was a loud voice for the left when he was in Congress. He screwed up. We owe him nothing. The least we could expect from him is honesty. We didn't get it.

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
36. inexplicably smoking hot super smart wife
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:35 AM
Jul 2013

who puts up with his anti-Palestenian tirades (she is an Arab American) and him sending dick pics to college women.

FSogol

(47,609 posts)
43. 6) Being ashamed about it in public while smirking is part of the fun for him.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 09:02 AM
Jul 2013

"I've been bad and I am sooooooo sorry."

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