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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsA Plea to DUers to use the GRAPHIC WARNING sign
when starting a thread having a disturbing picture. There are DUers here, me included, who cannot look at pictures depicting things like dead people or animals, people or animals suffering, abused children, etc. without having serious consequences. I can't speak for anyone else but those images stay with me FOREVER. It's like a haunting that I can't get out of my mind and it can actually take over for several days. I'm not trying to censor anyone here but PLEASE, if you want to include graphic pictures like dead rhino's, PLEASE put a GRAPHIC WARNING on your Thread Title.
Thank you for your understanding.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)Which, to me, meant that is was probably something graphic.
I can't get behind you for that thread.
But I do agree folks should post a warning.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)"Disgusting" is a picture of Michelle Bachmann. Disturbing is something else. I don't want to argue with anyone here, I'm just trying to make people aware that this condition does exist and I'm asking for cooperation from other DUer, that's all.
VWolf
(3,944 posts)But I do see your point.
dusty trails
(174 posts)Or ..... an orange Boehner ?
geckosfeet
(9,644 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)some things I do not want look at for the same reason.
MineralMan
(146,192 posts)but there will always be photos posted of things that might disturb someone without a warning. There's no way that won't happen. So, I'm not sure what to suggest for those who are disturbed by some kinds of photos. About the only way to prevent coming across a disturbing photo is to shut off the display of images in your browser.
Even if there are no images in the OP, any DUer posting a reply might also include a photo that might disturb some DUer somewhere. Accommodating everyone's sensitivities is always going to be impossible on an open discussion forum that allows image posting, I'm afraid.
Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)It's a matter of reduction, not elimination, of trauma triggers.
A bit of thoughtfulness can go a long way here in making the site more comfortable for those who have been sensitized to such materials.
MineralMan
(146,192 posts)If I did post something, I'd include a warning. My point is that not everyone will do that, so people with sensitivities need to take their own measures, here and elsewhere, since not everyone will refrain from such surprises in posting.
It's a difficult world for many people, sadly.
OhioChick
(23,218 posts)MineralMan
(146,192 posts)Last edited Fri Jul 26, 2013, 02:31 PM - Edit history (1)
Everyone slips sometimes.
The thread shows how quickly I made the change. Further, that link is from 2011 and from DU2. I learn as I go.
DLevine
(1,788 posts)Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)heaven05
(18,124 posts)you're right of course. But after decades of dealing with human cruelty toward animals and each other, I really do just try to avoid such fare. What's the use of going there? To keep affirming my understanding of underlying evil in the hearts of a lot of people? Nah, just don't need it. I drive past accidents and dead animals in the road and make every effort NOT to look. That's my solution. And some of the garbage on this damn web is really desensitizing human for the coming..........?????
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)agree!
I saw the word "disgusting" in the title of that thread but didn't suspect it would be a dead animal.
My mind works the same way yours does regarding photos or descriptions of dead or suffering beings that couldn't fight back (elderly...animals...children)
The images take a long time to go away, and sometimes they even pop up in my sleep...or that time in between sleeping and waking up.
I've even gone so far as to include certain words or phrases in my "Trash thread by keyword" list...like animal abuse...child abuse...etc.
PS...along similar lines, if there's anything I truly HATE about Facebook, it's that I'll be scrolling down my newsfeed and come upon some pretty graphic photos of kids or animals. For me, it's like a kick to the stomach.
NJCher
(35,434 posts)There's a book out about it. People should understand that about 15 per cent of the population is highly sensitive.
I didn't see the rhino thread and I'm glad I didn't. I thank you, Le Taz Hot, for bringing this subject up. I, too, am sensitive and I find I have to hide threads that deal with animal cruelty.
I also cannot read threads by people who have had to put their pet to sleep or who have lost a pet to an accident or some other means. I will sit there and cry my heart out along with them. I have to bypass these threads or I'd be a weeping mess every day.
Those of you who have expressed doubts about whether OP's suggestion can be done should think of this: we have minorities that number 15 per cent of the population and (some) people have learned not to discriminate against them based on their skin color. While the sensitive issue is far more intangible, it is worth thinking about whether another would be upset. By merely adding a word, a person can be saved a day of ugly images flashing through one's head.
Adding the word "graphic warning" is a small thing to ask.
Cher
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)Any chance you can remember the name of the book?
gblady
(3,541 posts)The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron.
I agree with the need for a graphic warning...images, and even verbal descriptions can haunt me for days.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)NJCher
(35,434 posts)Hi, Bertha
Aron was the originator, however, since that time, many books have come out. If you check Amazon under "highly sensitive people," you will get a long list, and one that gets high marks is here:
http://www.amazon.com/Loud-Bright-Fast-Tight-Overstimulating/dp/0060932929/ref=sr_1_16?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1374851160&sr=1-16&keywords=highly+sensitive+people
The comments alone will tell you much about the experience of others who are highly sensitive.
In addition, there's a dvd on the subject, which I have ordered:
Highly sensitive people : [videorecording (DVD)] an introduction to the trait of high sensitivity / Jim Hallowes.
Cher
Stonepounder
(4,033 posts)I thought I was the only one who bawled over animal cruelty, or losing pets. And some pictures that have popped up on FB, or other places, have given me nightmares and haunted me for days, or months.
Thanks for bringing this up.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Thanks for the warning on the rhino post. I'm glad I missed it and will watch out for it!
mountain grammy
(26,571 posts)If I ever learn how to post pictures, I'll remember this, although I doubt I would ever post anything so graphic.
That said, I remember the very graphic picture of the young Vietnamese girl running down the road with other children, screaming after her clothes were burned off by napalm Sometimes a graphic picture can turn the tide of history and wake up people of conscience.
Archaic
(273 posts)I figured it was another picture showing homelessness next to opulence. Or bankers dancing with politicians.
I didn't expect to see that picture, and it depressed the hell out of me.
I don't know what the appropriate warning is.
But then again, I don't understand the perpetual rage machine that makes people post everything they see and drive traffic and adviews to those sites.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Not sure anyone here is simply clueless when they post them here, or if they are something else. Thanks for the suggestion for all DUers of good intent.
The TOS may have a statement on shock images, or at least it used to...