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arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 06:15 PM Aug 2013

breastfeeding at hate-fil-a

Aiming to educate diners about a woman’s right to breastfeed in public, a group of about 20 women staged a "nurse-in" Wednesday at a Chick-fil-A in Knoxville, Tennessee. That’s where, earlier in the week, an employee had asked a mother nursing her 5-month-old daughter to stop.

"Just as I was finishing up, an employee came up and told me other parents were afraid of letting their children play while I was feeding her, especially without a cover," mom Jennifer Day told ABC News 6 in Knoxville. So she rallied other lactating pals, who decided the protest would be an effective way of letting folks know that the state law — which allows women to breastfeed anywhere, public or private, where they are "otherwise authorized to be present" — is on the mom’s side.

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/chick-fil-a-nurse-in-stands-up-for-public-breastfeeding-171256622.html

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breastfeeding at hate-fil-a (Original Post) arely staircase Aug 2013 OP
I nursed my daughter in 1984 HockeyMom Aug 2013 #1
I used to live in mexico arely staircase Aug 2013 #2
I've always had the impression Lunacee_2013 Aug 2013 #5
Europe too arely staircase Aug 2013 #20
In the US, people are so, so weird about breasts. Nye Bevan Aug 2013 #13
I can remember watching soap commercials in Spain in the 80s arely staircase Aug 2013 #17
It amazes me that it's ok to do this with a baby, but somehow tragic to be seen by a 5-year-old arcane1 Aug 2013 #3
some sort of leftover victorian prudery I guess arely staircase Aug 2013 #4
Wouldn't it be a teachable moment? Le Taz Hot Aug 2013 #9
Heck, even with no memory of doing it myself, I knew what it was at age 4 or 5 arcane1 Aug 2013 #23
Other mothers were afraid to let their kids play while the woman was nursing? Sheldon Cooper Aug 2013 #6
Oh it is easy to explain Sheldon HangOnKids Aug 2013 #7
Did they think she'd accidentally squirt breast milk on their kids or something? Sheldon Cooper Aug 2013 #8
I Suspect These Moms Just Have A Big Hang Up On Boobs HangOnKids Aug 2013 #10
Never been to a Chic-A-Whatzis thucythucy Aug 2013 #12
they are actually one of the few fast food places with edible food arely staircase Aug 2013 #19
Wendy's has a good menu if people get off their high horses and choose to look through bluestate10 Aug 2013 #21
very good salads at Wendy's nt arely staircase Aug 2013 #22
I know, right? Afraid of what? arely staircase Aug 2013 #18
What does she think she is? A mammal? MineralMan Aug 2013 #11
I don't agree with you very often but that was perfect! HangOnKids Aug 2013 #14
Fixed. Thanks. MineralMan Aug 2013 #15
You are very welcome! HangOnKids Aug 2013 #16
 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
1. I nursed my daughter in 1984
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 06:29 PM
Aug 2013

and went everywhere with her. I never had a problem back then and I was able to take and go with her so many places I couldn't with her older bottle fed sister.

Disgraceful that we are going backwards in time.

Lunacee_2013

(529 posts)
5. I've always had the impression
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 07:18 PM
Aug 2013

that breast feeding was way more acceptable in Mexico, Central and South America then here in the U.S.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
13. In the US, people are so, so weird about breasts.
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:10 PM
Aug 2013

In Europe too mothers nurse everywhere and nobody cares.

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
17. I can remember watching soap commercials in Spain in the 80s
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:16 PM
Aug 2013

they were just like American soap commercials (attractive woman in the shower invigorated by whatever brand of soap) but with titties. Don't even get me started on my first trip to a Spanish beach.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. It amazes me that it's ok to do this with a baby, but somehow tragic to be seen by a 5-year-old
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 06:44 PM
Aug 2013

Cognitive dissonance at its best!

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
4. some sort of leftover victorian prudery I guess
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 06:54 PM
Aug 2013

I assume 99.999 percent of human existence involved everyone in the family and village seeing it.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
9. Wouldn't it be a teachable moment?
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:07 PM
Aug 2013

"Mommy, what is that lady doing?" "She's feeding her baby, dear. That's what those things on a woman's chest are for." Now was that hard?

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
23. Heck, even with no memory of doing it myself, I knew what it was at age 4 or 5
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:52 PM
Aug 2013

And the first time I witnessed breast-feeding as a non-infant was in 2013!

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
6. Other mothers were afraid to let their kids play while the woman was nursing?
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 07:48 PM
Aug 2013

That makes zero sense no matter how you try to explain it.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
8. Did they think she'd accidentally squirt breast milk on their kids or something?
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 07:56 PM
Aug 2013

They were worried about their kids playing without her being covered - I honestly don't know how to interpret that. Just calling them bad mothers doesn't seem to cover it, although I don't disagree with the characterization.

 

HangOnKids

(4,291 posts)
10. I Suspect These Moms Just Have A Big Hang Up On Boobs
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:07 PM
Aug 2013

Only in the bedroom, in the dark, under the covers. I don't have a problem with women who bottle feed, but breasts are on a woman's body for a reason...wait for it......to feed children. I am not a breast feeding is for everyone woman, lots of women can't do it or do not want to for may reasons, but women who get shitty about a breast feeding mom are just bad mothers.

thucythucy

(8,038 posts)
12. Never been to a Chic-A-Whatzis
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:09 PM
Aug 2013

so I have to ask: are children generally allowed "to play" in a restaurant where people are eating?

If so, I'd be more worried about a kid upending a plate of food or banging into a table, than being traumatized by the sight of a nursing mother and child.

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
19. they are actually one of the few fast food places with edible food
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:23 PM
Aug 2013

since they declared LGBTs to be subhuman I don't darken their doorsteps.

MineralMan

(146,254 posts)
11. What does she think she is? A mammal?
Fri Aug 9, 2013, 08:07 PM
Aug 2013

The very idea! Are we animals that feed or young with our own milk? Shocking. If God had meant for women to feed babies that way, He would gave given them nipples, for pete's sake...

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