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WillyT

(72,631 posts)
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:28 PM Feb 2012

So... Does Santorum's Eldest Daughter Become Fair Game ???

I normally would say no... but tonight...

I really do not care... because she's up on stage supporting/applauding with her dad, and frowning/scolding when it comes to her dad's opponents... Romney AND Obama...

Santorum thanked her for being there where he could not be...

What say you... does it cross a line ???


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So... Does Santorum's Eldest Daughter Become Fair Game ??? (Original Post) WillyT Feb 2012 OP
she is part of the campaign demtenjeep Feb 2012 #1
Totally fair game. Named by daddy as his número UNO stand in n/t pkdu Feb 2012 #2
IMO, children are off limits. n/t tammywammy Feb 2012 #3
Minor children should be off limits. baldguy Feb 2012 #9
My Point... EXACTLY... WillyT Feb 2012 #13
Yes, until the parents and children conspire to violate this. Then all bets are off. saras Feb 2012 #25
How old is she? Any candidates child under 18 IS NOT fair game (humble opinion) 18 -20 is a gray Justice wanted Feb 2012 #4
She's ~ 20 yrs old Major Nikon Feb 2012 #22
yeah, you mean like hfojvt Feb 2012 #29
There's nothing to be gained by bashing her Gman Feb 2012 #5
How old is she? beyurslf Feb 2012 #6
Wikipedia says the Santorums married in 1990. Ilsa Feb 2012 #12
fair game for what? Beaverhausen Feb 2012 #7
How do you feel about Liz Cheney? CTyankee Feb 2012 #40
Liz Cheney had a job in government Beaverhausen Feb 2012 #53
what was Liz's government job...I don't remember it myself... CTyankee Feb 2012 #56
I don't see why; what would be the point? progress2k12nbynd Feb 2012 #8
not even clear after tonight he is anymore Johonny Feb 2012 #24
No nt steve2470 Feb 2012 #10
If she's an adult, she's fair game. GodlessBiker Feb 2012 #11
No. emilyg Feb 2012 #14
If a child associates themselves publically with a political parents public positions Sen. Walter Sobchak Feb 2012 #15
I'm conflicted. There was Chelsea Clinton and Amy Carter, and I do want payback. Zalatix Feb 2012 #17
Why would you stoop to that? karynnj Feb 2012 #50
Absolutely not RZM Feb 2012 #16
Not classy. moriah Feb 2012 #18
hell yeah riverwalker Feb 2012 #19
minor children themselves are off limits; but the (ab)use of them as political props IS fair game unblock Feb 2012 #20
Did you say that about the two adorable Edwards little kids in 2004? karynnj Feb 2012 #51
i don't recall every saying much about edwards. unblock Feb 2012 #52
If it's Santorum's oldest daughter Elizabeth, she was born in 1991 starroute Feb 2012 #21
She is 20 and actively supporting her father...game on Lochloosa Feb 2012 #23
Well if she is representing him at campaign events pennylane100 Feb 2012 #26
She Becomes Fair Game if she does what Romney's Douche Sons did with the birth certificate JI7 Feb 2012 #27
I don't think she could possibly be as douchey as most of Romney's sons Bombtrack Feb 2012 #28
Let's not lower ourselves to Limbaugh's level. Kurmudgeon Feb 2012 #30
All campaign WORKERS are fair game Tom Ripley Feb 2012 #31
Fair game for what? progress2k12nbynd Feb 2012 #33
I'd bet she is on the campaign payroll. PA Democrat Feb 2012 #32
I feel dirtier after reading this thread belcffub Feb 2012 #34
How old do they have to be before they count? treestar Feb 2012 #37
I vote "no" JNelson6563 Feb 2012 #35
Only if she starts a campaign like Bristol did ecstatic Feb 2012 #36
No. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2012 #38
Fair game for what? Chorophyll Feb 2012 #39
no Whisp Feb 2012 #41
I've always been a scorched earth policy type... Javaman Feb 2012 #42
If she's over 18 and/or an active part of the campaign - then I say 'YES' LynneSin Feb 2012 #43
The crowds reaction was AWESOME! tallahasseedem Feb 2012 #61
No bigwillq Feb 2012 #44
Fair game pipi_k Feb 2012 #45
it's common that children will stand on stage with their parents on the campaign trail tabbycat31 Feb 2012 #46
Children are off-limits Yo_Mama Feb 2012 #47
well, other than applauding and scowling what did she do that we have to WI_DEM Feb 2012 #48
Did you think Chelsea Clinton, the Kerry daughters, Heinz sons, Gore daughters and son fair game? karynnj Feb 2012 #49
She is NOT a child. She is a 20yr old adult, actively helping her father's campaign Hugabear Feb 2012 #54
This girl has been indoctrinated with Romney's beliefs all her life. RebelOne Feb 2012 #59
Good politics are effective politics. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2012 #55
For my part, I can only conclude that if we... LanternWaste Feb 2012 #57
if backround no, if she becomes really freatured----sure dembotoz Feb 2012 #58
Over 18 and involved in the campaign? Fair game. TBF Feb 2012 #60
 

baldguy

(36,649 posts)
9. Minor children should be off limits.
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:41 PM
Feb 2012

His eldest daughter is an adult, and is certainly open for criticism for the poor choices she makes - like publicly supporting insane & anti-American presidential campaign of her father.

 

WillyT

(72,631 posts)
13. My Point... EXACTLY...
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:44 PM
Feb 2012

I wouldn't spend too much time (read almost any) time on it, but I reserve the right to gently smack that surrogacy/surrogate down a notch or two.




 

saras

(6,670 posts)
25. Yes, until the parents and children conspire to violate this. Then all bets are off.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:04 AM
Feb 2012

Justice wanted

(2,657 posts)
4. How old is she? Any candidates child under 18 IS NOT fair game (humble opinion) 18 -20 is a gray
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:33 PM
Feb 2012

area 21 and above HELL YEAH!

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
29. yeah, you mean like
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:59 AM
Feb 2012

when Hillary was pimping her daughter ...

I mean, what kind of excuse is there for the disgusting behaviour of actually supporting the campaign of your parent? What kind of sick fuck would actually do a thing like that? There is just no excuse for that kind of depravity.

beyurslf

(6,755 posts)
6. How old is she?
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:35 PM
Feb 2012

Kids are off limits if they are still kids. I would count that all the way through college. Megan McCain is fair game. Chelsea Clinton would now be fair game. The Bush twins would now be fair game. I should also add they are fair game only if the campaign.

Ilsa

(64,377 posts)
12. Wikipedia says the Santorums married in 1990.
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:43 PM
Feb 2012

My guess is that Sarah is 20-21 years old. I figure she was born early in their marriage since they say they don't use birth control.

CTyankee

(68,203 posts)
40. How do you feel about Liz Cheney?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:57 AM
Feb 2012

If Santorum's daughter makes as much of his policies as Liz did of her fathers, I think it really IS fair game.

Beaverhausen

(24,699 posts)
53. Liz Cheney had a job in government
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 02:51 PM
Feb 2012

Calling a candidate's 20 year old daughter 'fair game' is fucked up.

CTyankee

(68,203 posts)
56. what was Liz's government job...I don't remember it myself...
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:16 PM
Feb 2012

I'm no sure if Fair Game is exactly what to call it. I don't want to see anyone unfairly treated. But we certainly can look at her public statements in support of her father's policies and voice our own opinions about them, can't we?

Johonny

(26,183 posts)
24. not even clear after tonight he is anymore
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 12:12 AM
Feb 2012

why give a crap about the brain drippings of a daughter of a person that appears to be a month from hoping Faux needs another weekend news show.

 

Sen. Walter Sobchak

(8,692 posts)
15. If a child associates themselves publically with a political parents public positions
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:48 PM
Feb 2012

Have at 'em.

 

Zalatix

(8,994 posts)
17. I'm conflicted. There was Chelsea Clinton and Amy Carter, and I do want payback.
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:50 PM
Feb 2012

But if the target is under 18... ah, I dunno about making fun of kids.

karynnj

(60,968 posts)
50. Why would you stoop to that?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 11:42 AM
Feb 2012

We know nothing about the Santorum kids and there is absolutely no reason to attack them. This is a case where two wrongs do not make a right.

 

RZM

(8,556 posts)
16. Absolutely not
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:49 PM
Feb 2012

Of course she speaks for her father. That's what families do. I don't care much about her, I care where Ricky stands. And she is neither here nor there in that discussion.

moriah

(8,312 posts)
18. Not classy.
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:54 PM
Feb 2012

Might be considered "fair game" if people think so -- she is 20 -- but *I* am not going to stoop to it.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
19. hell yeah
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:57 PM
Feb 2012

She is working on the campaign, as such, she is a representative of the candidate.

unblock

(56,198 posts)
20. minor children themselves are off limits; but the (ab)use of them as political props IS fair game
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 11:59 PM
Feb 2012

you go after the politician for being a bad parent and throwing their kid into that cesspool, taking advantage of their kids, taking them out of school to help with the politician's career, etc.

karynnj

(60,968 posts)
51. Did you say that about the two adorable Edwards little kids in 2004?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 11:48 AM
Feb 2012

I think Santorum's kids have all been homeschooled, so they were not taken out of school.

I think this is a decision that belongs to the parents. I liked that Obama kept his kids away except for the biggest events - like the convention and election night. That seemed an excellent balance. To miss those days they will remember all their lives would have been a loss and their lives were as normal as could be for anyone with a parent running for President. The Clintons balanced this well for 8 years.

unblock

(56,198 posts)
52. i don't recall every saying much about edwards.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 01:12 PM
Feb 2012

but in general i don't give much of a crap about a candidate's family, good or bad.
it only comes into play if a family member is going to be, say, the president's attorney general.

and i certainly don't think there's much to be said about their kids, at least not while they're minors.

in terms of good parenting, though, i think that's fair game. i agree that it's reasonable for candidates to take their kids out of school for things like the convention/nomination, election night, inauguration major events like that from which they would in any event learn something they couldn't get from school.

they just need to make sure their education is not getting short-changed. homeschooling is neither here nor there. if they're not spending the appropriate hours in lessons and studying, then they're being short-changed. if their normal education is distrupted, they need to have a tutor travel with them. if the parents can continue to home-school enough hours while on the road, that's fine, but if not, they need a tutor to help, and they need to make sure the children's political hours don't prevent enough proper education.

oh, and no fair for politicians to trot out the kids for political plus points and then whine about the pot shots some people take. personally, i think the pot shots are not cool, but neither is the hypocrisy. if you don't want your kids subjected to the ugliness of politics, don't put them in the limelight.

starroute

(12,977 posts)
21. If it's Santorum's oldest daughter Elizabeth, she was born in 1991
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 12:01 AM
Feb 2012

So that makes her close to 21.

pennylane100

(3,425 posts)
26. Well if she is representing him at campaign events
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:21 AM
Feb 2012

I would definitely say we have a right to critique her performance. If she does nothing objectionable and does not lie or smear Obama, I would respect her for that.

JI7

(93,617 posts)
27. She Becomes Fair Game if she does what Romney's Douche Sons did with the birth certificate
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:32 AM
Feb 2012

crap .

but just standing up there and supporting him by just standing there and smiling or any other faces. no , i wouldn't go after her for that.

and there is too much to go after her dad on anyways.

 

progress2k12nbynd

(221 posts)
33. Fair game for what?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:13 AM
Feb 2012

She's not in the debates, she's not on the ballot; what exactly are we saying she's fair game for?

PA Democrat

(13,428 posts)
32. I'd bet she is on the campaign payroll.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 08:27 AM
Feb 2012

Knowing Tricky Ricky, he is funnelling as much campaign contribution money as possible into his and his family members' pockets. If she is being paid by his campaign, she's fair game.

belcffub

(595 posts)
34. I feel dirtier after reading this thread
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:20 AM
Feb 2012

kids support their parents... Go after Rick... leave his kid alone...

treestar

(82,383 posts)
37. How old do they have to be before they count?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:49 AM
Feb 2012

It wouldn't be really fair to let candidates use their adult children and un-criticizable shills for them, would it?

So far, she hasn't done much, but if she starts talking and gets media attention for it - then we should be able to answer her nonsense as well as anyone else's.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
35. I vote "no"
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:48 AM
Feb 2012

If she went out and was speaking, showing up on the news shows or otherwise being active independently that would be different. For simply standing by her dad while he runs for Prez does not make her fair game. I say leave her alone.

Just imagine it's your own child. I don't care if the child is 8 or 20, when they are yours they are your "child".

One of the many reasons I would NEVER, EVER go into politics is this very reason, I wouldn't want assholes making my kids' lives miserable~~because that is what low life Rethugs do, not us.

Julie

ecstatic

(35,075 posts)
36. Only if she starts a campaign like Bristol did
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:48 AM
Feb 2012

Bristol injected herself into the national discussion with her abstinence campaign. Simply standing on stage is understandable, IMO.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
39. Fair game for what?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 09:54 AM
Feb 2012

I'm serious. For what? What is she doing other than standing on stage supporting her dad? All the candidates' kids do that.

Is there something about her in particular that bothers you? She looks like her dad, and that's disturbing to me because of how I feel about HIM, but otherwise, who cares?

I have to say I get suspicious when anyone asks about a young woman being "fair game." I didn't like it when the Rethugs made fun of Chelsea Clinton's looks, I don't like it when they go after the Obama girls (the element of racism added to the sexism is nauseating) and I think Santorum gives us plenty of ammunition on his own.

So...no. Just no.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
41. no
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:16 AM
Feb 2012

not with the kinds of stuff that can come out of the bowels of DU.

is my first reaction.
but if she goes on talk shows and writes eds like Dick Cheney's daughter (forget her name) then I guess it is fair game.

Javaman

(65,714 posts)
42. I've always been a scorched earth policy type...
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:31 AM
Feb 2012

well not really, but she was there and yes, she is now fair game.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
43. If she's over 18 and/or an active part of the campaign - then I say 'YES'
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:34 AM
Feb 2012

I also think they are fair game when the parents uses them as shields like back in 2008 when Palin used Willow as a shield at the Flyers hockey game. Philadelphia is major liberal city even though Flyers Ed Snider is both an asshole and a republican. Knowing that Philadelphia fans are notorious booers, Sarah made her middle child Willow walk out to center ice with her. Even with the music being played loudly you could still hear the very very loud boos.

tallahasseedem

(6,716 posts)
61. The crowds reaction was AWESOME!
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:14 PM
Feb 2012

I was so proud of them for booing and waving their Obama signs when that opportunist stepped onto the ice!

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
44. No
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:38 AM
Feb 2012

Leave the kids out of it. Of course they're going to support their parent. Go after the candidate and not the kids.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
45. Fair game
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:38 AM
Feb 2012

for what, exactly?

IMO, the only person who is really "fair game" for anything is the candidate.

I don't care who is doing cartwheels and cheerleading for the candidate. They're not running. Bashing anyone other than the candidate seems pretty childish to me.

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
46. it's common that children will stand on stage with their parents on the campaign trail
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:47 AM
Feb 2012

Even Obama's kids have done that at one point or another. That does not make them fair game.

Now, if they act as surrogates for their parents and go off on their own to stump for Daddy/Mommy then they are fair game.

And minor children should ALWAYS be off limits.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
47. Children are off-limits
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:49 AM
Feb 2012

Obama's girls are going to be with him at public functions too.

Leave all the kids alone. They are not independent actors.

WI_DEM

(33,497 posts)
48. well, other than applauding and scowling what did she do that we have to
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 10:53 AM
Feb 2012

take her down?

karynnj

(60,968 posts)
49. Did you think Chelsea Clinton, the Kerry daughters, Heinz sons, Gore daughters and son fair game?
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 11:41 AM
Feb 2012

All were surrogates for their parents - as were the Bush daughters and McCain's daughter (his other kids seemed less involved).

They all were people who could speak to a side of their parent that others really could not. Their accomplishments did reflect on their parents. Any of their "youthful misbehavior" for those who had it was highlighted more than it would have been for people not in the public eye. However, I really do not think that there are many who would have changed their vote over the Bush girls drinking, Gore's son speeding etc.

I know of only one person on a fence who decided because of the kids. That was in 2004 when the Republicans smeared Kerry as an unprincipled flip-flopper, when he actually is a man of considerable integrity. This older woman observed that the values that Vanessa spoke of with regards to herself echoed those her dad spoke of. She was on the fence and wanted to believe Kerry was who he said he was, not how the Republicans painted him - that echo made her believe it was the former. (I know many who trusted Edwards because his wife, not his kids, validated him.)

In Santorum's case, no one is distorting him - he is an extremist, who I think the majority would reject for what he really is and is proud to be. With Romney, consider it was his sons who humanized him with the Seamus story. Even allowing for difference between party values, this did not help.

Hugabear

(10,340 posts)
54. She is NOT a child. She is a 20yr old adult, actively helping her father's campaign
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:05 PM
Feb 2012

So yes, if she's going to take an active part, then she becomes fair game.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
59. This girl has been indoctrinated with Romney's beliefs all her life.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:55 PM
Feb 2012

And I do not think she should be demonized by what has been drummed into her head since she was born.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
55. Good politics are effective politics.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:11 PM
Feb 2012

If it takes away votes from the other guy, it's fair game.

If it alienates your own support, it's not.

In this case, I'd say the latter.

It's one of the challenges for democrats. We have a much lower "fair game" tolerance than republicans. If you're a republican, you can tell the following joke;
"Everyone knows the Clintons have a cat. Socks is the White House cat. But did you know there is a White House dog?" And he puts up a picture of (13 year old) Chelsea Clinton."
... and be praised by the next president as "a great american".

You can't do that as a Democrat because your supporters won't reward you for it.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
57. For my part, I can only conclude that if we...
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:38 PM
Feb 2012

For my part, and after having read this thread, I can only conclude that if we denigrate and insult a candidate's family member, it's because our arguments against the candidate's actual positions are either lacking or simply weak. Insulting his daughter does absolutely nothing to address the legitimate political concerns we may have with Santorum the politician.

However, I do realize that there will be a strong contingent who will rationalize the wholly irrelevant attacks on a daughter, by predicating their vulgarity on that of others, by justifying the maliciousness by stating "she's fair game" (as though they actually believe that is a valid point in and of itself), or even defending the boorish behavior due to a dogmatic and rigid political conviction that ethical behavior is as diaphanous and malleable as pottery clay.

But yes... let's continue to deny Pogo's truism as to where the enemy in fact, is, and make fun of a young lady for the horrid and revolting act of supporting her own family. Let's advertise to all the world that insults, rather than politics are what we care about.

 

dembotoz

(16,922 posts)
58. if backround no, if she becomes really freatured----sure
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 03:43 PM
Feb 2012

if santorum loads his kid into the breech????????

TBF

(36,671 posts)
60. Over 18 and involved in the campaign? Fair game.
Wed Feb 29, 2012, 04:08 PM
Feb 2012

Megan McCain and her blog ... she was fair game as well.

When kids choose to stay out of the limelight then I think we must respect that and steer clear. For instance Chelsea is now around 30 and has just recently started to communicate about her charitable works and interests via Facebook (she may be blogging elsewhere as well). That's terrific - but it's obviously something she stayed away from until she decided as an adult that she was going to have some sort of public persona. I admired how the Clintons were able to shelter her and give her as normal a childhood as possible given the situation. I wish they would all do that rather than parade them in front of the cameras.

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