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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhat have I ever done to make your party hate me so much, Mr. Boehner?
I've worked for 161 quarters, according to the Social Security Administration, every single quarter since I turned 14 until I was laid off by AT&T last August. I went to college and law school (another story), studied hard and graduated, and spent over a decade paying back my student loans. Until 2012, I never collected an unemployment check, received SNAP benefits, etc. . I always paid my bills, contributed to my 401(k), never filed for bankruptcy. I raised and loved my nephew like he was my own child, after his parents died, and sent him to college and grad school. I went and still do go to church, have done charity work all of my adult life, voted in every election in which I was eligible to do so since I turned 18. I served 2 terms on a school board, 3 on the library board. I belonged to the group who started our local soup kitchen, food pantry and 'brown bag' food program for poor children in my town, so they'd have something to eat on weekends and over the summer.
That 401(k) I mentioned? YOUR party allowed Wall Street and the other banksters to destroy 94% of everything I'd scrimped and saved for 25 years to put into it, and recent health issues have forced me to spend the remainder, because I couldn't afford the COBRA payments to continue my health insurance from AT&T on the niggardly amount unemployment pays me. YOUR party also made it not only legal for AT&T to outsource my job, but profitable for them to do so. So now, this...
This week, YOUR party passed legislation that will cut SNAP benefits to people like me AND also passed legislation intended to de-fund AHCA! My monthly SNAP benefits are $200, not a huge amount, but with careful shopping, coupons and paying attention to bargains, I eat 3 nutritious meals a day. I received a letter today from the State of Illinois telling me that I will very likely qualify for Medicaid, starting 1/1/2014. Thankfully, my PCP, my rheumatologist, my orthopedist, my general surgeon and my local hospital all accept Medicaid, as does my pharmacy.
In the past 13 months, I've applied for over 200 jobs, including fast food, grocery stores, etc., and I've also sent out 500-plus resumes. The sad reality is that there are 3 people looking for every 1 job that's available nationwide, 4 looking for every 1 available here in Illinois. I suppose I COULD move somewhere else where the job market is a bit more robust, but that would mean abandoning my blind, widowed and childless 88 year-old aunt, someone I dearly love and physically care for on a regular basis. So, I have to ask...
What have I ever done to make your party hate me so much, Mr. Boehner?
SummerSnow
(12,608 posts)Boehner hates people like us cause we weren't born rich and we have a heart.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)In some cases wealth is zero sum. If you get some, that's more that I cant get. It isnt personal.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)understand you, it's that they dont care about you. They dont want to kill you, they just dont care if you die. Some pretend to care but rationalize that it wasnt their fault.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Well said!
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)to give credit to.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)If you do find out who wrote it, please let me know.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)In their sick world.
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)It's like companies are looking for excuses to dump them before they start going in for surgeries.
You know,...55+ is about the time the poisons pumped into the environment start to show up as tumors you can see through clothing from across the street.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Their is an illegal, unspoken, but VERY real bias against people 50+ in hiring. I believe it.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)That and there is a general attitude that if you are unemployed in your 50s you must have done something to deserve it.
Either way, the attitude is they are taking a chance with you as if you are an ex convict or something.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Potential employers seem to never consider the wealth of practical experience I bring, nor the fact that I am dependable, arrive on time, willingly work overtime, etc., all for the same wages the are offering younger workers with less knowledge, etc. .
Sigh.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Stuart G
(38,436 posts)My best wishes are with you today. You really told it they way the Republicans are, at least most of them. You said it better then I ever could.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Dustlawyer
(10,495 posts)I hope all that do get a taste of it in their lifetimes. I turned 50 on the 12th and am grateful to have a job! Good luck to you my friend!
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I don't wish my current situation on anyone. Maybe that's why I'm a Democrat, and why they aren't.
Thank you for the good wishes! It helps, knowing that people care!
Dustlawyer
(10,495 posts)outside of what would hopefully make them more sensitive in the future. Not all can learn though.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)When I see various politicians like Corey Booker, e.g., try to live on a 'SNAP/food stamp budget', I also notice that they're already liberals and progressives. It would be nice to see Joe Arpaio, Mitch McConnell or Paul Ryan try it, for a change.
TRoN33
(769 posts)ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)obxhead
(8,434 posts)Not the situation, the letter.
I hope you sent that to him.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)kelliekat44
(7,759 posts)But I am a dreamer.
Thanks for your post.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)What was my dream 20 years ago has changed into a nightmare today.
Enthusiast
(50,983 posts)orpupilofnature57
(15,472 posts)ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)orpupilofnature57
(15,472 posts)ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)They provide me with transportation to job interviews, the grocery store, the doctor's office, etc. .
One of my best friends (since kindergarten) occasionally stops by and brings a 40# bag of dog food, cat food or kitty litter, because she knows I have to pay cash for those things. At first, I tried to tell her she didn't need to do it, but she just laughed and said things like, "Consider it your birthday present" or "It's your Christmas present" or "It was a BOGO at Kroger's, so it didn't cost me anything". Even so, I still get a pie or cake on my birthday, and she bought me an expensive coffee maker 'for Christmas', when my old Mr. Coffee gave up the ghost in March.
One person, my now 80 year-old 8th-grade math teacher, dropped by the house to visit one day. I've always liked him, and we became friends when I moved back here last fall. We had a nice visit, laughing about old times and exchanging information about former students and classmates, my family, his family, etc . When he had to leave, I walked him to his car, and upon returning back inside I saw an envelope on the counter marked 'Bob' in his Palmer method handwriting. Opening it, I found a $20 bill with a short note that said, "Loretta (his wife) and I know what it's like to make ends meet on a tight budget, and we figured you could probably use this". I dissolved into tears, because I was dead broke, and my $19 water bill was due he next day.
Thank god for my friends!
99Forever
(14,524 posts)... and haven't had the common decency to cease existing.
Our nation is dying a slow motion death from inside. It is a self inflicted death caused by a singular cause, greed.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I must be a dinosaur, because I am appalled by this realization.
99Forever
(14,524 posts)... it has been the ONLY virtue that matters since Saint Ronnie Rayguns set this nation on the road to destruction.
calimary
(81,350 posts)history. No exaggeration. He put a "human face" on greed and selfishness. And religious fanaticism. He made being a cheapskate respectable. He made being a Neanderthal respectable. He made it okay to be willfully ignorant, turn your nose up at those less fortunate, he made it okay to assume EVERYONE and ANYONE needing food stamps or some sort of public assistance were nothing but lazy moochers and welfare queens. He made robber barons respectable - admired, even lionized. He made cheap sloganeering respectable because then you didn't need to think or reason or try to read or learn more, or dig beneath the headlines or talking points. He made it cool to be proudly stupid, ill-informed, paranoid, and gun-crazed. You know that comment then-candidate Obama made - about the folks who cling to their guns and bibles? Well, before reagan, those people kinda hid in the closets. They were the crazy uncle you kept hidden away in the attic when company came over because you knew enough to be ashamed of him. And reagan brought them out into polite company, proud and unapologetic, to take their place out in the open, stand in the sunshine, and feel totally justified to get in yer face.
SO much damage, destruction, distortion, desolation, and death he single-handedly wrought upon this country. I trace most of the ills with which we now are afflicted - DIRECTLY back to him. He made piratizing respectable. He made pollution respectable. He elevated the science deniers nearly to some sort of sick priesthood, where they were legitimized and held up as objects of admiration rather than of the scorn they truly deserve.
HIDEOUS legacy. It'll take us generations to recover from it and somehow struggle back onto the correct track. We've been set SO FAR BACK, legislatively, morally, intellectually, and yes - spiritually, that it'll be YEARS before we approach some sense of normalcy again.
woo me with science
(32,139 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)People like you are who makes this a good to great country. People like boner is who makes this country not so good.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I've simply lived my life as I was taught that one ought to live their life: work hard, obey the rules and treat others the way I would be treated.
I say this not with self-pity, but having lived as I ought, I feel betrayed, and more than a little frightened.
madokie
(51,076 posts)I understand your betrayal and likewise I'm a little bit frightened also
Brigid
(17,621 posts)And just because you deserve it:
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)mnhtnbb
(31,397 posts)find a synonym for the word "niggardly".
I do think you should send this to Boehner. I also think you should submit
it as an Op-ed piece to your regional newspaper.
Wishing you the best, and hopefully, a turnaround in the employment situation.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I chose to go with my 'gut' in choosing 'niggardly', because it best expressed my feeling at that moment.
Uncle Joe
(58,372 posts)in the movie "Independence Day."
Or specifically in Americanese to the House Republican cuts in the food stamp program.
"Eat shit and die."
Thanks for the thread, ColesCountyDem.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)Sadly, I do think that's what Mr. Boehner, et al, would reply.
AnotherMcIntosh
(11,064 posts)Or JFK? Or Johnson? Or Nixon (who was in mulitiple ways more liberal than Obama)? Or Ford? Or even Carter?
When you vote for a Democratic candidate who, immediately upon taking office, starts appointing Republicans to high-level positions, who says that he wants to compromise with Republicans and be a "Centrist" (whatever that means), what should Boehner's reaction be?
How can Boehner not see Obama as a weak champion for ordinary Democrats? How can his party not see that?
It's not that Boehner and the rest of his party hate you in particular, it's that they have contrary goals and have been tempted to exploit the displayed weakness. And they are doing so.
proReality
(1,628 posts)cadaverdog
(228 posts)on one or more right wing sites? Let us know if you do, I would love to see some of their reactions.
Posting here is kind of like preaching to the choir, but we all care deeply for you and wish you the very best.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I don't want to register or even look at the hate-filled spew that probably makes up 99% of what's posted at places like that.
The responses from you and everyone here have done a great deal to lift my spirits and remind me that there are kind people left in this world.
TNNurse
(6,928 posts)of the kind of person that they choose to believe does not really exist. They do not believe that there are people who have been hurt by their policies, they do not believe there are adults who need help. They do not believe they that you cannot find a job. They did, so apparently anyone can. (Actually the fact that these ignorant jerks got elected ruins part of my argument).
They believe they follow some religious tenets. They take care of themselves and the others who pay them, not the regular citizens.
They are WRONG. That does not help you I know. Virtue should be it's own reward, but it does not put food in your belly.
I think if we met, I would like you.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)You're absolutely right in thinking that they don't want to believe that people like me exist, because I don't fit into their world view, and they find facts to be VERY inconvenient.
japple
(9,833 posts)as a letter to the editor or to the opinions page? There are so many of us in this same position, and I am hesitant to say "there, but for the grace of God..." (you know the rest) because why would god give me grace and not you? You have done all the right things: worked hard, paid taxes, contributed to their stock coffers (401-K), did your civic duty, did volunteer work, took care of your elderly relatives. Now that you have been drained dry of all your reserves, you have become redundant (probably about the time you couldn't afford COBRA) except for the fact that you still have your fighting spirit. Please share your story with others. You are a good writer and I encourage you to send your story far and wide. You have an audience waiting for you.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)They seldom publish LTE's, and when they do, they read like Tea Party propaganda pieces.
Oldtimeralso
(1,937 posts)Great Post Cole County Dem.
You should send this as a letter to the editor to all the papers in your area and also the Chicago and St. Louis metro areas.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)I might consider sending it as a LTE to the Chicago and St. Louis papers, if only because their readership probably knows someone like me.