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Can we stop saying we're "proud members"? Of stuff? (Original Post) sibelian Oct 2013 OP
I have absolutely no idea what you're referring to or why you'd post this cali Oct 2013 #1
OK... sibelian Oct 2013 #3
I should just grow up and get my mind out of the sewer. sibelian Oct 2013 #5
I finally got it. Duh. Jackpine Radical Oct 2013 #28
Proud member of the "I don't take requests" club. nt Bonobo Oct 2013 #2
Pride goeth before a fall Fumesucker Oct 2013 #4
I can proudly say I don't say I am a proud member of stuff. Lasher Oct 2013 #6
It's not just me! Yay! sibelian Oct 2013 #9
I think people may stop saying "I am a proud member of...." when others stop djean111 Oct 2013 #7
Yeeeah, that's not really my problem with the phrase. sibelian Oct 2013 #10
What other connotations? djean111 Oct 2013 #11
... sibelian Oct 2013 #12
Ah. I see. Well, even though that connotation has actually been noted and laughed at, djean111 Oct 2013 #13
Well, I've certainly always found intense political discussing stimulating. sibelian Oct 2013 #22
I think it only counts in juvenile gatherings that might snicker about such things. Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #16
Well, that's me pegged. sibelian Oct 2013 #19
Members of Parliament. Does that get laughs everytime, after all these years? Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #24
Well, that would be a bit hypocritical, I've participated in Pride. sibelian Oct 2013 #35
NOOOOOO, DON'T LEEEAAAAVVVVVEEEEE dorkzilla Oct 2013 #27
Oh, alright! sibelian Oct 2013 #36
Thank you (sniff, sniff) dorkzilla Oct 2013 #37
Not of "stuff" chervilant Oct 2013 #8
sure joshcryer Oct 2013 #14
I understand treestar Oct 2013 #15
From your comments, I see what you are referring to, but I don't think that runs through other's Squinch Oct 2013 #17
My mind is clearly in some gutter all by itself. sibelian Oct 2013 #20
I've come to the conclusion that all of our minds are in some gutter. Squinch Oct 2013 #21
We are all of us in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars. Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #25
I'm a proud member of the stuff society Dash87 Oct 2013 #18
Whining about the DU! Great! n-t Logical Oct 2013 #23
It is long established that pride is THE sin that got Lucifer... Frank Cannon Oct 2013 #26
I must be getting old - LiberalElite Oct 2013 #29
No I just can't escape my inner 12 year old.... sibelian Oct 2013 #34
Proud members are proud members... MannyGoldstein Oct 2013 #30
Clearly a cultural difference between US and UK in reference to member. dballance Oct 2013 #31
I'm a proud member, but I don't try to be a dick about it NuclearDem Oct 2013 #32
I'm a proud non-member of many things jberryhill Oct 2013 #33

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
28. I finally got it. Duh.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:58 AM
Oct 2013

Edited to add:

Def. 2b

mem·ber
n.
1. A distinct part of a whole, especially:
a. Linguistics A syntactic unit of a sentence; a clause.
b. Logic A proposition of a syllogism.
c. Mathematics An element in a set.
2. A part or an organ of a human or animal body, as:
a. A limb, such as an arm or a leg.
b. The penis.
3. A part of a plant.
4. One that belongs to a group or an organization: a club member; a bank that is a member of the FDIC.
5. Mathematics The expression on either side of an equality sign.
6. A structural unit, such as a beam or wall.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
7. I think people may stop saying "I am a proud member of...." when others stop
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 06:53 AM
Oct 2013

thinking that they are successfully marginalizing and demoralizing groups who do not agree with them as "emo-progs" and "the crazy Left".
For instance, when someone jeers at people who share my beliefs as to what our bloated political system should do for citizens, instead of for corporations and Wall Street and the MIC, as "The Crazy Left" - I will happily assert that I am a proud member of that group.
I know it is fashionable to slyly wonder if crazy lefters are really TPers in disguise, hoping to dishearten Democrats - but now I am thinking that perhaps it is the ones who jeer who are suspect. Just sayin'.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
13. Ah. I see. Well, even though that connotation has actually been noted and laughed at,
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 07:08 AM
Oct 2013

I think that as long as there is marginalization and divisiveness based on blind party loyalty, there will be proud members!

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
16. I think it only counts in juvenile gatherings that might snicker about such things.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 08:28 AM
Oct 2013

Peter O'Toole, a double phallic reference. Do the Brits chortle over that as well?

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
19. Well, that's me pegged.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 08:56 AM
Oct 2013

Yes, we chortle lots.

I'm sorry! It's fine if it turns up every so often, but...

I'll get my coat.
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
24. Members of Parliament. Does that get laughs everytime, after all these years?
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:32 AM
Oct 2013

The word 'proud' can be contentious here, because more than one minority group has correctly seen that taking pride in an identity maligned by the ruling bigots is an important step toward progress and equality.
At first reading I expected this to be a chiding of 'Gay Pride' events, which many straights like to criticize for not being as they would have them be.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
35. Well, that would be a bit hypocritical, I've participated in Pride.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 04:31 PM
Oct 2013

Dancing on floats and everything!

Not so much these days. It's boring being gay in the UK...

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
27. NOOOOOO, DON'T LEEEAAAAVVVVVEEEEE
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:50 AM
Oct 2013

You can't leave me alone with the grow ups! The juveniles around here are dwindling and we need others to sit in the corner with and snicker!

Stay? For me?

dorkzilla

(5,141 posts)
37. Thank you (sniff, sniff)
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 04:50 PM
Oct 2013

I feel better now...

It's tough being a 48 year old woman with the sense of humor of a 12 year old boy...

Squinch

(51,074 posts)
17. From your comments, I see what you are referring to, but I don't think that runs through other's
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 08:32 AM
Oct 2013

minds when they hear the phrase. I know it doesn't run through mine.

HOWEVER, whenever I see a "speed hump" sign, I laugh like a 12 year old.

So, to each his own, but I don't think this is a thing.

Squinch

(51,074 posts)
21. I've come to the conclusion that all of our minds are in some gutter.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:00 AM
Oct 2013


(...speed hump...bahahahahaha )
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
25. We are all of us in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:34 AM
Oct 2013

Oscar Wilde. He was right.

Frank Cannon

(7,570 posts)
26. It is long established that pride is THE sin that got Lucifer...
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:36 AM
Oct 2013

kicked out of Heaven. (e.g., Isaiah 14:12–15)

Which is why I'm continually surprised that American right wingers constantly describe themselves as "proud to be an American", "proud to be a Christian", etc.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
29. I must be getting old -
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 09:58 AM
Oct 2013

I didn't get the joke till I'd read about a dozen replies. Never saw it that way.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
31. Clearly a cultural difference between US and UK in reference to member.
Sun Oct 20, 2013, 11:21 AM
Oct 2013

I've lived all over the US and I don't recall the word member ever really having that common connotation any where I've lived. Certainly, the word is used to refer to one's male part in some contexts but I don't see it used in the context you're apparently used to in the UK sibelian. I think we, in the US, would use "dick" or "prick" instead.

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