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WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 06:24 AM Nov 2013

Mike Michaud: Yes, I am gay. ‘But why should it matter?’

http://bangordailynews.com/2013/11/04/opinion/mike-michaud-yes-i-am-gay-but-why-should-it-matter-2/

When I entered the race for governor, I did so because I love the state of Maine and am tired of seeing it dragged in the wrong direction. There was never any question that it would be a tough race, but I know I have the vision, the experience and the commitment to lead Maine forward.

Once I jumped to an early lead in the polls, I knew it was only a matter of time before individuals and organizations intent on re-creating the uncertainty that led to our current governor’s election three years ago would start their attacks. Already my opponents have tried to blatantly distort my support for a woman’s right to choose and my tireless commitment to our nation’s veterans.

So I wasn’t surprised to learn about the whisper campaigns, insinuations and push-polls some of the people opposed to my candidacy have been using to raise questions about my personal life. They want people to question whether I am gay.

Allow me to save them the trouble with a simple, honest answer: “Yes, I am. But why should it matter?”


If Rep. Michaud wins, he would be Maine's first openly gay governor, but more importantly he would unseat Teabag dumbass Paul LePage.

And Mike, it shouldn't matter.

Mike Michaud for Governor 2014
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Mike Michaud: Yes, I am gay. ‘But why should it matter?’ (Original Post) WonderGrunion Nov 2013 OP
no it should NOT matter.... chillfactor Nov 2013 #1
LePage fans eShirl Nov 2013 #2
Yeah. And so will the rest of the people, who aren't bigots. Warren DeMontague Nov 2013 #3
That's the ironic thing about this WonderGrunion Nov 2013 #4
It took me 20 or so years to figure that out, but nope it doesn't matter at all Victor_c3 Nov 2013 #5
My mom came around recently to LGBT rights WonderGrunion Nov 2013 #6
Being a parent has opened my eyes a lot Victor_c3 Nov 2013 #7
Wish I lived in Maine just so I could vote for him. nt kelliekat44 Nov 2013 #8
That they have a Teabagger for governor says something about the voting public. I hope they will patricia92243 Nov 2013 #9
Governor Tea Bag got less than 40% of the vote last time eShirl Nov 2013 #10
Cutler's strength as a candidate wasn't an issue last election WonderGrunion Nov 2013 #11
If Michaud can get Angus' endorsement, or at least get him to stay neutral this time eShirl Nov 2013 #12
That's great. Now if Cutler would drop out Android3.14 Nov 2013 #13
People seem to forget how week Libby Mitchell was WonderGrunion Nov 2013 #21
I did not know. Old and In the Way Nov 2013 #14
An awfully good editiorial from the Bangor Daily News about this cali Nov 2013 #15
Nope it should not matter azurnoir Nov 2013 #16
Hopefully he wins mythology Nov 2013 #17
for now at least, add him to the list of openly gay US Congress people eShirl Nov 2013 #18
I call Jim McGreevey KamaAina Nov 2013 #23
Michaud's gay? Arkana Nov 2013 #19
AS A PROUD MAINER, I DON'T EVEN BLINK AT THE MICHAUD SMEAR GONE WRONG drynberg Nov 2013 #20
It shouldn't matter Prophet 451 Nov 2013 #22

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
3. Yeah. And so will the rest of the people, who aren't bigots.
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 06:34 AM
Nov 2013

Thing is, every day there are fewer of them and more of us.

WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
4. That's the ironic thing about this
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 06:36 AM
Nov 2013

The neanderthals that would be offended by Mike being gay are already firmly in LePage's voting block.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
5. It took me 20 or so years to figure that out, but nope it doesn't matter at all
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 06:45 AM
Nov 2013

If people who grew up close-minded and homophobic like me are starting to realize it, then I believe that our society is truly changing.

WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
6. My mom came around recently to LGBT rights
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 06:50 AM
Nov 2013

It took a couple of decades to change her mind and she was a civil rights protester back in the 60's.

Prejudices can be hard to undo. Congratulations on undoing yours.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
7. Being a parent has opened my eyes a lot
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:04 AM
Nov 2013

There is no way I could look at my children and tell them that I despise them and can't love them because of their sexual or gender identity.

I watched a great documentary about transgender children years ago. It followed a couple of families around who have children who since they were old enough to express any sort of gender identity thought of themselves as the opposite sex. When a 3 year old tells you that they are the opposite gender, they probably aren't doing it because they want to be cool or different or whatever. That child probably legitimately and fundamentally feels that way. It really opened my eyes and did a lot to change my perspective.

Taking that argument and applying it to sexual orientation is the same thing. When did I decide to be straight? I don't know. Probably the same time a gay person decided to be gay. In other words, we are just born with these things in us. But I'm preaching to the converted here...

Anyways, thanks. I'm just as devoted to making sure it isn't a consideration on a person's character as is the majority of people here.

patricia92243

(12,595 posts)
9. That they have a Teabagger for governor says something about the voting public. I hope they will
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:18 AM
Nov 2013

make the change to a Democratic governor - but I doubt it. What do your local polls say?

eShirl

(18,491 posts)
10. Governor Tea Bag got less than 40% of the vote last time
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:25 AM
Nov 2013

Latest polls have Michaud over LePage, with independent Culter a hefty third

REALLY hoping we avoid a repeat of the 3-way split that gave us Governor Tea Bag the last time

WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
11. Cutler's strength as a candidate wasn't an issue last election
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:37 AM
Nov 2013

It was Libby Mitchell's weakness. The surge for Cutler in the polls in the last week was because Democrats were terrified that Mitchell couldn't beat LePage. If the shift happened a week earlier, we would have Gov. Cutler today instead of Gov. LePage.

Mike Michaud would need to make a huge blunder to lose to LePage. He has a powerful election machine behind him already and he doesn't come off as a wallflower in the debates.

eShirl

(18,491 posts)
12. If Michaud can get Angus' endorsement, or at least get him to stay neutral this time
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:42 AM
Nov 2013

then I will feel a lot easier.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
13. That's great. Now if Cutler would drop out
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 08:03 AM
Nov 2013

He probably won't lose many votes in the balance, but there will be a hit.
Michaud and Cutler are probably going to split the progressive vote yet again, and we'll have LePage for another stint. Crap.

WonderGrunion

(2,995 posts)
21. People seem to forget how week Libby Mitchell was
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 07:22 PM
Nov 2013

Her insistence on a Public Funds campaign meant that LePage was outspending her almost 25 to 1 and she made no effort to get her face out there through more cost effective means.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
15. An awfully good editiorial from the Bangor Daily News about this
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 08:19 AM
Nov 2013

Mike Michaud is gay. Welcome this truth and move on

There’s nothing easy about telling the world you’re gay. Even now, with 50 percent of people nationwide saying they favor allowing gays and lesbians to marry. Even after the legalization of same-sex marriage in Maine. Discrimination, even hate, still exists.

So U.S. Rep. Mike Michaud’s announcement Monday that he is gay is brave. It takes courage to share something so personal.

At the same time, Michaud, who is running for governor, was correct to ask in an OpEd published Monday by the Bangor Daily News, Portland Press Herald and The Associated Press, “Why should it matter?” For him, he wrote, “It’s just a part of who I am, as much as being a third-generation millworker or a lifelong Mainer.”

We urge people to welcome this truth and move on.

Michaud’s announcement should not — and likely won’t — change anything about how the six-term congressman, former state Senate president and 11-term former state lawmaker makes his case to voters about why he should be Maine’s next governor. And it shouldn’t change anything about the case his opponents make about why they should occupy the Blaine House for the next four years.

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http://bangordailynews.com/2013/11/04/opinion/editorials/mike-michaud-is-gay-welcome-this-truth-and-move-on/?ref=relatedSidebar

azurnoir

(45,850 posts)
16. Nope it should not matter
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 09:01 AM
Nov 2013

the gender of someones partner means nothing, what they promote and why does however and in the case of Mike Michaud that is quite positive IMO, may he win

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
17. Hopefully he wins
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 09:21 AM
Nov 2013

Yes I'd love for him to beat out LePage, but I think it would also be good to have an openly gay governor of a state.

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
19. Michaud's gay?
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 09:42 AM
Nov 2013

Huh. Didn't know that.

Is he going to be the next governor? Paul LePage needs to go like yesterday.

drynberg

(1,648 posts)
20. AS A PROUD MAINER, I DON'T EVEN BLINK AT THE MICHAUD SMEAR GONE WRONG
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 10:20 AM
Nov 2013

Nope, Mike's my guy, y'know, the best person for the job. I can't wait to see Glue Boy LePage get smaller in the rear view mirror, only a year till election time.

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
22. It shouldn't matter
Mon Nov 4, 2013, 08:39 PM
Nov 2013

It should be a complete non-issue, of only casual interest to people who care about trivialities.

Sadly, we live in a world where it will matter to some people.

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