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boston bean

(36,186 posts)
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:31 PM Nov 2013

Why would anyone care whether a woman has an abortion or not?

Why do people want to see it become rare?

Really, plain and simple it's just none of your danged business.

1) Contraception doesn't always work
2) Maybe in the heat of passion, contraception was thrown to the wind
3) Maybe a condom broke
4) Maybe the sex ed you received just didn't freaking matter at the moment of having sex.
5) Maybe someone was raped
6) There are too many variables for one to proclaim they want it to be rare. They can't even imagine all the reasons a woman may choose to have an abortion.

It's really just none of anyone's business and intimating that one would like to see it become rare, means one sees something wrong with it. PERIOD. That is the bottom line, IMHO.

How about we all just mind our own business and stop with the judgments.

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Why would anyone care whether a woman has an abortion or not? (Original Post) boston bean Nov 2013 OP
Playing devil's advocate quinnox Nov 2013 #1
I'm just curious why you wanted to play devils advocate using that reasoning? boston bean Nov 2013 #4
I had to think of a scenario where it would be imperative for women to have babies quinnox Nov 2013 #8
Species come and go leftstreet Nov 2013 #23
touche! quinnox Nov 2013 #28
But species themselves fight for their own survival marshall Nov 2013 #264
Those same people want adultery to be rare marshall Nov 2013 #265
With 7 billion of us packing this planet, it is not only no longer imperative, and Warpy Nov 2013 #119
So, by that logic... dchill Nov 2013 #33
I would say yes, if using that logic quinnox Nov 2013 #43
"it is very complicated." dchill Nov 2013 #55
Agreed! quinnox Nov 2013 #61
. dchill Nov 2013 #73
I would suggest you take care of your own personal decisions Whisp Nov 2013 #44
I agree, it is a weak argument quinnox Nov 2013 #52
yeh, I know. n/t Whisp Nov 2013 #60
You don't have to go nearly as far as the end of the world thesquanderer Nov 2013 #123
The position should be it's her body and she is not willing to share it with a parasitic infestation idwiyo Nov 2013 #128
What is a "wanted foetus"? rug Nov 2013 #133
That which will become a baby (human in this case) ufter birth. idwiyo Nov 2013 #136
Is it a parasite? rug Nov 2013 #138
Yes, it is. It can not survive on it's own, it feeds off it's host, it alters it's host to avoid idwiyo Nov 2013 #143
So, viability is your test of when it ceases to be a parasite. rug Nov 2013 #146
It remains a parasite until after it's born. idwiyo Nov 2013 #151
So your test is not viability but placental feeding. rug Nov 2013 #152
Yes I do. idwiyo Nov 2013 #156
Clearly it does not meet the biological criteria for a parasite throughout a pregnacy. rug Nov 2013 #158
Which biological criteria it doesn't meet? idwiyo Nov 2013 #163
Interspecies. rug Nov 2013 #164
"an organism which lives in or on another organism (its host) idwiyo Nov 2013 #169
Can you cite an example of parasitism within the same species? rug Nov 2013 #171
parasitic twin idwiyo Nov 2013 #174
Its etiology is in the pregnancy. rug Nov 2013 #177
Deep vein thrombosis, varicouse veins, uterus prolapse, urinary tract infections, idwiyo Nov 2013 #180
Now you're being silly. If they share vital organs or systems, the benefit is life. rug Nov 2013 #181
Parasitic twin is not a simbiont. It's called 'parasitic' for a reason. One example is enough to idwiyo Nov 2013 #183
Some birds lay their eggs in others' nests. Is that it? rug Nov 2013 #188
You made a false statement, I provided evidence that disproved it. One example is enough to do so. idwiyo Nov 2013 #197
Actually, no, you haven't. rug Nov 2013 #202
Yes, I did, with evidence. idwiyo Nov 2013 #204
Saying it twice doe not make it evidence. rug Nov 2013 #206
Please provide some evidence to support your statement, if you disagree. idwiyo Nov 2013 #212
Can't prove a negative. I can't think of a single example of intraspecies parasitism. rug Nov 2013 #213
You made a statement that there exists only interspecific parasitism. Prove it, please. idwiyo Nov 2013 #221
Read the prior post. Produce an example of inraspecies parasitism. rug Nov 2013 #227
Parastic twins, brood parasitism. I am sorry that scientific community disagree with you. idwiyo Nov 2013 #231
You're going around in circles. rug Nov 2013 #232
Those two items are proof of intra-specific parasitism. Meaning you made a false statement. idwiyo Nov 2013 #236
The bird eggs are more analagous to fostering than parasitism. rug Nov 2013 #239
The brood parasitism is a form of parasitism. What it reminds you of is irrelevant. idwiyo Nov 2013 #250
What's so special about birth? MicaelS Nov 2013 #184
It's a foetus until after it was born. It will become an infant after it was born. idwiyo Nov 2013 #189
First, a C-section is a birth REP Nov 2013 #201
A lot of women (and men) started out as an 'unwanted parasitic foetus' as you've hooverville29 Nov 2013 #242
I am not sure what point you are trying to make. Can you clarify please? idwiyo Nov 2013 #243
That person is just spewing bagger talking points kydo Nov 2013 #261
Thank you for heads-up. idwiyo Nov 2013 #274
Agree, that shows what right wingers are really about treestar Nov 2013 #168
Er, a woman can't make babies treestar Nov 2013 #167
Sorry, but this is too silly to even entertain. Why even post it? cui bono Nov 2013 #200
DURec leftstreet Nov 2013 #2
Being for a woman's right to choose and whether or not it's a rare choice Lex Nov 2013 #3
Yes, I've seen a lot of that lately. EOTE Nov 2013 #12
K & R Thinkingabout Nov 2013 #57
Why should we care about birth control then? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #5
Those are choices people make. boston bean Nov 2013 #7
I'm saying that if people practice contraception bolstered by education, abortions will be rare.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #16
Why do you care whether there are 10 or 20 abortions? boston bean Nov 2013 #17
Why do you care if there are 10 instead of 20? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #26
I can see you don't have much more to say on the subject, boston bean Nov 2013 #30
LOL ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #36
You've changed to makes "pregnancy" rare? boston bean Nov 2013 #42
Yeah sure.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #47
abortion: safe, legal, accessible. unwanted pregnancies: rare PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #53
Why wouldn't you? NoOneMan Nov 2013 #258
Who said you must care? By any means, use abortion as birth control, why the hell not? idwiyo Nov 2013 #129
It's a matter of smart choices passiveporcupine Nov 2013 #154
Women don't want to have an abortion...that's why. Auntie Bush Nov 2013 #278
I didn't want to have hernia surgery. boston bean Nov 2013 #279
Because it's a sad outcome LittleBlue Nov 2013 #6
What makes it so sad to you? boston bean Nov 2013 #9
I've never had one LittleBlue Nov 2013 #18
Shit I was relieved as hell when I had mine. ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #24
Christ LittleBlue Nov 2013 #35
Anecdotes are nice; everyone as one. I have peer-reviewed studies to share. REP Nov 2013 #80
Well gee LittleBlue Nov 2013 #94
"Fewer" REP Nov 2013 #101
Don't you think that measure is a bit elitist? LittleBlue Nov 2013 #107
No, because that's not how it works REP Nov 2013 #150
nice post fishwax Nov 2013 #175
Thanks :-) REP Nov 2013 #223
I know and a woman that doesn't want a baby shouldn't make her own choices? boston bean Nov 2013 #27
And you don't think you do the same based on your personal perspective? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #32
Some women do. I'm not denying that, but it's not a reason to limit other womens choices. boston bean Nov 2013 #34
That's how you would answer her? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #45
I would of course sympathize for a friend, even if I disagreed. boston bean Nov 2013 #51
Well, this is why I asked you specifically ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #67
Saying they want it to be rare, because they think other women might feel badly... boston bean Nov 2013 #76
See my post #80: studies find abortion does not effect well-being REP Nov 2013 #105
Who said that? LittleBlue Nov 2013 #38
A lot people have medical procedures that are unplesant Lex Nov 2013 #31
And neither do I. nt LittleBlue Nov 2013 #41
i had surgery for a incarcerated femoral hernia. boston bean Nov 2013 #267
i've never had one either, but DesertFlower Nov 2013 #108
FFS, not that shit again. No, it's not sad, traumatising, or horrible. That's a load of bullshit. idwiyo Nov 2013 #135
is it possible passiveporcupine Nov 2013 #159
+100000 Tien1985 Nov 2013 #270
There is no "expulsion of the fetus" with an aspiration curretage REP Nov 2013 #282
i know plenty of people who have had abortions without experiencing sorrow La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #59
that has also been my experience. boston bean Nov 2013 #65
i think when people say, it is sad, they mean "the women should be sad" La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #68
True it is shaming. boston bean Nov 2013 #91
+1 ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #139
+2 idwiyo Nov 2013 #173
me, too. most felt great relief (myself included) PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #70
exactly. i can think of about 10 women i knew in college La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #71
I don't believe that. newcriminal Nov 2013 #86
oh, bullshit PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #89
you forgot sorrrow newcriminal Nov 2013 #95
you're post is full of shit PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #100
Your opinion, just like my opinion of the previous post. newcriminal Nov 2013 #104
nope, it's a fact. it's based on nothing but the view you have whilst your head is up your ass PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #109
It is obvious by your responses, who is the one with something up their ass. newcriminal Nov 2013 #114
How do you think a woman would feel if she is forced to be an incubator? cui bono Nov 2013 #132
Which is exactly my point. newcriminal Nov 2013 #148
I wasn't intending to agree with you or trying to make your point, cui bono Nov 2013 #193
I know you weren't agreeing with me. newcriminal Nov 2013 #217
I can tell you how this woman felt: REP Nov 2013 #195
If you are telling me you felt no sorrow after having an abortion newcriminal Nov 2013 #208
Zero. Zip. Zilch. Nada. None. No regret, sorrow, sadness - nothing but overwhelming relief REP Nov 2013 #215
If you felt "No regret, sorrow, sadness - nothing but overwhelming relief" newcriminal Nov 2013 #234
It's not a qualification; it's just a fact. REP Nov 2013 #237
Then believe science. REP Nov 2013 #192
I read this the first time you posted it. newcriminal Nov 2013 #207
did you miss the "do not experience regret... " part? PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #214
Seems to have missed the majority of the studies' content ... REP Nov 2013 #222
"It"? There's more than one study; none of them say what you'd like them to REP Nov 2013 #220
How about me? ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #276
i meant to write this to you but accidentally posted it as a thread La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #75
Several of my friends have had abortions and felt nothing but relief. smokey nj Nov 2013 #83
We over glamorise child birth... awoke_in_2003 Nov 2013 #110
I knew a young girl PumpkinAle Nov 2013 #126
the frequency is a medical matter, not a political one PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #10
+1 boston bean Nov 2013 #14
It is not just reducing unwanted pregnancies. Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #165
A linguistic trick of affirming the right to abortion while simultaneously devaluing it.... PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #166
Saying it is a linguistic trick doesn't make it one. n/t Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #170
Really??!?! Go read the link which explains why I think that. PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #172
Saying it in 6 paragraphs doesn't make it so. Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #176
got it. yet you feel the need to keep using the BS 'rare' mantra without having adult conversations PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #178
No. But when I try to have adult conversations Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #179
Thanks gawd pro-choicers outnumber forced-birthers on DU. I can just imagine "adult" conversations idwiyo Nov 2013 #185
Can you read? newcriminal Nov 2013 #196
Ms Toad is "pro-life". That is by definition anti-choice, or forced-birther. idwiyo Nov 2013 #224
How many forced-birthers do you see on DU? You should report it. rug Nov 2013 #198
Any person who is anti-abortion or wants to restrict abortions is a forced-birther by definition. idwiyo Nov 2013 #203
I take it you believe there should be no restriction abortion until the moment of birth. rug Nov 2013 #205
I think that there should be no restrictions. Absolutely. Woman and doctors can be trusted. PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #210
Do you have a link to that? rug Nov 2013 #216
Here you go PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #218
Thanks. rug Nov 2013 #219
You keep saying you don't join these discussions. JTFrog Nov 2013 #228
Reading comprehension is a really useful skill. Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #241
This message was self-deleted by its author JTFrog Nov 2013 #259
+1 newcriminal Nov 2013 #182
It's not really about "saving babies." LumosMaxima Nov 2013 #11
No one should care. hamsterjill Nov 2013 #13
Whenever the abortion conversation comes up, I mentally replace the word LanternWaste Nov 2013 #15
+1. SammyWinstonJack Nov 2013 #25
Know what I wanna see? tkmorris Nov 2013 #19
Really? I'm discussing. That is your categorization of how you read my comments. boston bean Nov 2013 #29
And the jury results are in... aikoaiko Nov 2013 #39
Disgusting. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #63
Who knows? ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #20
The problem with "rare" gollygee Nov 2013 #21
That is the real issue. boston bean Nov 2013 #22
Isn't it ok to work toward reducing unwanted pregnancies. aikoaiko Nov 2013 #37
It's an invasive medical procedure. It carries risk. MADem Nov 2013 #40
Abortion is medical care for many women. boston bean Nov 2013 #46
I'm not saying there will or will not always be a need, and I'm not going to MADem Nov 2013 #72
So you can see the issue with the framing. I assume so because you do not want to quantify "rare". boston bean Nov 2013 #74
You brought the word up--so I should think you should define it. MADem Nov 2013 #81
LOL. You are the one that wants to use it. You quantify it. boston bean Nov 2013 #82
No, I don't think so, and anyone reading this thread can see who first used the term. nt MADem Nov 2013 #85
LOL. Anyone reading will know that the person wanting to use the term boston bean Nov 2013 #87
I invite your attention to the first sentence in your OP message text. MADem Nov 2013 #90
I invite you to comprehend the post. I don't think it can be quantified. boston bean Nov 2013 #102
If "rare" can't be quantified, then why are you demanding that I do that? MADem Nov 2013 #280
in context. the OP is arguing AGAINST ITS USE. PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #88
I'm not "arguing for" anything but good medical care that will obviate the need for MADem Nov 2013 #93
Then say that. boston bean Nov 2013 #103
Well, I have, repeatedly, and many times down the years, too, and if you weren't MADem Nov 2013 #112
You were contending that the use of "rare" meant that. boston bean Nov 2013 #113
Meant what? Rare means rare? You introduced the word. MADem Nov 2013 #251
Every woman who could have an abortion otherwise has to go through pregnancy and birth gollygee Nov 2013 #48
No--not necessarily--and that's none of my business, anyway. MADem Nov 2013 #58
yes NO ONE says this about other medical procedures La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #62
I do--look at angioplasty. There's a lot of argument about that as a procedure. MADem Nov 2013 #78
there is something terribly dishonest about saying that a procedure La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #79
Your use of the word "dishonest" is both loaded and offensive. It's also uncivil. MADem Nov 2013 #84
WRONG! There's pubic relations campaigns against wiping out cancer & getting vaccinated>>> KittyWampus Nov 2013 #147
wipe out CANCER not cancer treatment. La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #240
By saying they would like it to be rare covers every one of the things you mention. I just appleannie1 Nov 2013 #49
Medieval chastity belt and the original witch hunt fixation. Current day Republican values. libdem4life Nov 2013 #50
For the sake of argument One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #54
Hahahaha!!!! Please find me one, ONE, case where a woman had an abortion Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #162
Theoretical Construct One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #288
Do you realize how offensive and misogynistic this post is? smokey nj Nov 2013 #209
An example of absurdity One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #285
ever hear of Canada? PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #286
Where do Dr. Ethics come from? One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #289
Bullshit. It is offensive, misogynistic, unnecessary and dangerous. smokey nj Nov 2013 #287
Sorry you feel that way One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #290
That view caused the death of Dr. George Tiller. smokey nj Nov 2013 #291
Equating my view to Dr. Tiller's killer? One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #293
Your "theoretical" argument is a bullet point for anti-choicers. smokey nj Nov 2013 #294
Breaking the Echo Chamber One_Life_To_Give Nov 2013 #295
Same reason I'd like to see broken arms more rare wercal Nov 2013 #56
Because they believe that life begins a conception, but you already knew that lostincalifornia Nov 2013 #64
Because the TeaPublicans use it as a wedge issue to rally the religious right wing to vote for them. RBInMaine Nov 2013 #66
Politics progressoid Nov 2013 #69
I don't wish the trauma of an unplanned pregnancy or having no other choice than abortion on anyone. moriah Nov 2013 #77
Take your own advice Union Scribe Nov 2013 #92
So, you don't think that trying to make women feel bad about abortion is not an attempt to limit it? boston bean Nov 2013 #97
simply stating on a message board what one feels Niceguy1 Nov 2013 #130
Nice. Such a pleasure to have conversations with people who employ personal attacks. boston bean Nov 2013 #144
it is not a.personal attack Niceguy1 Nov 2013 #149
Just the other day I got a request for a phone survey from some wingnut organization Major Nikon Nov 2013 #96
like it or not people are entitled to beachbum bob Nov 2013 #98
No one is forcing one to like abortion. boston bean Nov 2013 #106
The people who are sincerely against abortion FiveGoodMen Nov 2013 #99
To be fair, the debate over exactly when a fetus/infant gains the protection of the law Maedhros Nov 2013 #116
Agreed FiveGoodMen Nov 2013 #117
The logic fails when you realize that every single pregnancy carries risk ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #140
Yes, but these folks don't value the mother's life as much as the new soul's FiveGoodMen Nov 2013 #248
So true ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #275
some opponents are assholes alc Nov 2013 #111
We are talking about people who contend they are pro choice. boston bean Nov 2013 #115
I don't understand your problem with it being "rare" SomethingFishy Nov 2013 #190
Saying it should be rare legitimizes efforts to restrict access to abortion. PeaceNikki Nov 2013 #191
because I'm insecure d*mmit! Lithos Nov 2013 #118
*shrug* Deep13 Nov 2013 #120
It's so simple Mira Nov 2013 #121
I had a 3 year old when I had a ectopic at 5 weeks HockeyMom Nov 2013 #127
A term that I despise, which is used by both pro-and anti-choice Ineeda Nov 2013 #122
That one drives me up a wall too. smokey nj Nov 2013 #124
some people honestly consider it murder functioning_cog Nov 2013 #125
Regardless of why a woman has gotten pregnant, it's up to her to determine her own future. cui bono Nov 2013 #131
Male birth control pills are the key IMO. karadax Nov 2013 #134
Because they view it as killing a baby oberliner Nov 2013 #137
Letting a woman run around with an unholstered uterus? Orsino Nov 2013 #141
Because some people really, really, really like to tell other people what to do. Warren DeMontague Nov 2013 #142
It is none of my concern CFLDem Nov 2013 #145
I want to see it become rare because AtheistCrusader Nov 2013 #153
In all honesty a part of me is against abortion, but my Lobo27 Nov 2013 #155
Any child could be the next Einstein or Tesla gollygee Nov 2013 #157
Very true!!! Lobo27 Nov 2013 #161
Actually, everyone is a genius. Glassunion Nov 2013 #246
I've never understood why people care about abortion or same sex marriage. MoonRiver Nov 2013 #160
I've had three woman come to me while making this decision. JoePhilly Nov 2013 #186
For a lot of religious men, it is an issue of them being able to control women in all ways. Arugula Latte Nov 2013 #187
It's not about abortion. It's about naughty ladies not being punished with childbirth. Tierra_y_Libertad Nov 2013 #194
Well, in my fantasy world, MH1 Nov 2013 #199
I don't believe the "care" is genuine... fadedrose Nov 2013 #211
Amen.... Little Star Nov 2013 #244
people who like controlling other people care. decent human beings, not so much. dionysus Nov 2013 #225
The same people fighting to stop abortion are against caring for people liberal N proud Nov 2013 #226
Because to those who believe that life begins at conception, abortion is murder. Nye Bevan Nov 2013 #229
That is a delightful typo REP Nov 2013 #235
Ouch, thanks. Awful but kind of funny typo. Nye Bevan Nov 2013 #238
Same reason They care if I sleep with a man or not. William769 Nov 2013 #230
I always feel that people whom worry about such things Proud Liberal Dem Nov 2013 #233
Honestly, doesnt this also apply when pro-choicers brow-beat other pro-choicers for not using the... NoOneMan Nov 2013 #257
Reading through this thread it is obvious it is not just about a phrase. boston bean Nov 2013 #272
THIS divisive crap again??? Stop implying that some of us kestrel91316 Nov 2013 #245
And your post was?? boston bean Nov 2013 #247
Post removed Post removed Nov 2013 #256
wtf ??? nt bananas Nov 2013 #263
Jury voted 5-1 to HIDE IT. bananas Nov 2013 #266
How he framed the linked post was offensive. Good hide as far as I'm concerned. boston bean Nov 2013 #268
You "won", what the hell do you care. bananas Nov 2013 #269
huh, I didn't alert, I didn't serve on any jury. boston bean Nov 2013 #273
I'll tell you why. Glassunion Nov 2013 #249
this is a highly nuanced topic Niceguy1 Nov 2013 #252
I can't even read all the replies to this thread - many are disgusting MadrasT Nov 2013 #253
And more immediately after you post. JTFrog Nov 2013 #260
Because some people see the loss of life as a regrettable but feel the woman's autonomy is paramount LostOne4Ever Nov 2013 #254
Maybe its everyone's business NoOneMan Nov 2013 #255
Jury voted 1-5 to LEAVE IT. bananas Nov 2013 #262
Ask the Francis fans. DU is not strongly Pro Choice because DU is a promtional center for Bluenorthwest Nov 2013 #271
OK, sounds like a wise plan, I'm in. Zorra Nov 2013 #277
When you see a story about someone who had their 16th child, lots of DUers seem to care. n/t hughee99 Nov 2013 #281
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2013 #283
Oh please! hrmjustin Nov 2013 #284
Thank you! ellie Nov 2013 #292
 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
1. Playing devil's advocate
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:37 PM
Nov 2013

Women is the way to propagate the species. (I'm disregarding things like 'test tube babies' for the sake of argument)

Therefore, they hold a very unique and important place in human society. So, in a sense, them having babies is very important, and of widespread interest to more than just themselves. Now, this argument breaks down with billions of humans, but imagine some kind of event where the human population is dwindled down to a small number, and then we would need all the women to make babies so human kind doesn't go extinct.

Anyway, you can see I had to go into convoluted scenarios to make an argument for it. I am just making a theoretical argument, so don't expect me to post further about it. My heart is not in it, to be honest.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
4. I'm just curious why you wanted to play devils advocate using that reasoning?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:43 PM
Nov 2013

basically stating a woman purpose is to churn out babies for the sake of propagating the species.

Really, I'm LOL'ing...

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
8. I had to think of a scenario where it would be imperative for women to have babies
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:46 PM
Nov 2013

The first thing that came to my mind was a science fiction like scenario, of a devastated human kind, where they need to "start over", otherwise they would face going extinct. What can I say, this is what came to me.

marshall

(6,661 posts)
264. But species themselves fight for their own survival
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 08:25 AM
Nov 2013

We tend to place ourselves above the other species by supposing we have something other than basic instincts driving us.

Warpy

(110,908 posts)
119. With 7 billion of us packing this planet, it is not only no longer imperative, and
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:18 PM
Nov 2013

in many of the more crowded areas, it's become downright undesirable.

Pronatalism isn't driving this. What's driving this is the need of some men to control women, right down to the most personal decisions over their bodies. Since their campaign is based 100% on lies, they've managed to attract a few women to their cause by sentimentalizing a fetus into a 3 month old baby.

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
43. I would say yes, if using that logic
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:03 PM
Nov 2013

and looking at things from a purely clinical point of view, in isolation. For example, if an alien race came to Earth, and said, why is it so populated? There, it is the women, they are having too many babies!

But of course that would be ridiculous, because it takes two to tango, as they say. And several factors play into human relationships, it is very complicated.

dchill

(38,321 posts)
55. "it is very complicated."
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:10 PM
Nov 2013

To say the least. And made more complicated by those who would outlaw abortion and give constitutional rights to fetuses.

 

Whisp

(24,096 posts)
44. I would suggest you take care of your own personal decisions
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:04 PM
Nov 2013

in that area, and leave everyone else to do so as well.

If we suddenly get so under populated the risk of humanity surviving is at stake, let's talk about that then. Pretty damn weak argument.

thesquanderer

(11,954 posts)
123. You don't have to go nearly as far as the end of the world
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:32 PM
Nov 2013

The simple position of the other side is usually, it's a human life. And you know, it is. Any biologist will tell you it's alive. Any biologist will tell you it's human.

That's actually why, even though I disagree with them, I have more respect for those on the right who do NOT make an exception for rape and incest. Either the pre-born creature is a protectable human life, or it isn't. This idea that it is protectable unless it was created in certain circumstances holds no water, so to speak.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
128. The position should be it's her body and she is not willing to share it with a parasitic infestation
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:58 PM
Nov 2013

because strictly speaking, unwanted foetus is nothing more than a parasite.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
143. Yes, it is. It can not survive on it's own, it feeds off it's host, it alters it's host to avoid
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:28 PM
Nov 2013

rejection, it harms it's host (uterus prolapse, other pregnancy related issues), and it often enough can kill it's host.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
152. So your test is not viability but placental feeding.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:36 PM
Nov 2013

Do you consider a fetus a parasite until birth?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
158. Clearly it does not meet the biological criteria for a parasite throughout a pregnacy.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:44 PM
Nov 2013

What's your criteria?

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
169. "an organism which lives in or on another organism (its host)
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:59 PM
Nov 2013

and benefits by deriving nutrients at the other's expense." - is one of the definitions.

There are different firms of parasitism, and it's not restricted to interspecies only.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
171. Can you cite an example of parasitism within the same species?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:01 PM
Nov 2013

Excluding, for the moment, mammalian pregnancy.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
177. Its etiology is in the pregnancy.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:13 PM
Nov 2013

But, since you mentioned it, if each derives benefit from the other, they are not parasites.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
180. Deep vein thrombosis, varicouse veins, uterus prolapse, urinary tract infections,
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:29 PM
Nov 2013

indigestion & heartburn, high blood pressure, headaches, incontinence, gum and teeth problems, death, etc, etc, etc.

What are the benefits? Emotional? There are parasites that can do that.
Something beneficial other than emotions?? Like tapeworms as a cure for Cronn?

PS Forgot to add - I hope you were not implying that parasitic twin is beneficial to it's host.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
181. Now you're being silly. If they share vital organs or systems, the benefit is life.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:32 PM
Nov 2013

Symbiotic organisms are not parasites.

Now, do you have any other examples of parasitism within the same species?

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
183. Parasitic twin is not a simbiont. It's called 'parasitic' for a reason. One example is enough to
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:43 PM
Nov 2013

disprove your statement that parasitism is restricted to interspecies.
If you like more examples, please feel free to use Google to search for "intraspecific parasitism"

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
188. Some birds lay their eggs in others' nests. Is that it?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:53 PM
Nov 2013

Frankly, that doesn't address the issue at hand.

And while most conjoined twins are symbiotic, some in fact have a true parasitic relationship. What should be done with with the parasitic twin in that case?

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
197. You made a false statement, I provided evidence that disproved it. One example is enough to do so.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:11 PM
Nov 2013

I saw at least one other example of intra-specific parasitism on the first search page. You are more than welcome to search for more if you like.

As to your question about what should be done about a parasitic twin - it would be up to the doctors and parents to decide.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
202. Actually, no, you haven't.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:15 PM
Nov 2013

In fact, your example (which is not evidence that disproved it) suggests the opposite. Most conjoined twins after birth are symbiotic, not parasitic. And one example, even if apposite, does not disprove it. Neither do birds' eggs.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
212. Please provide some evidence to support your statement, if you disagree.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:31 PM
Nov 2013

It should be very easy, if you are right.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
213. Can't prove a negative. I can't think of a single example of intraspecies parasitism.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:34 PM
Nov 2013

Neither can you. Certainly none that you've chosen to share.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
227. Read the prior post. Produce an example of inraspecies parasitism.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:52 PM
Nov 2013

If it exists it should be simple task to produce one that does not involve a bird's egg.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
232. You're going around in circles.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:01 PM
Nov 2013

Those two items have been discussed. I take it you have nothing else.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
236. Those two items are proof of intra-specific parasitism. Meaning you made a false statement.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:13 PM
Nov 2013

I am sorry scientific community disagree with you on what is and isn't parasitism.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
239. The bird eggs are more analagous to fostering than parasitism.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:17 PM
Nov 2013

Conjoined twins are from what you think they are.

You don't have a single other example despite the hundreds, if not thousands, of examples of interspecies parasitism.

And you are not the scientific community.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
250. The brood parasitism is a form of parasitism. What it reminds you of is irrelevant.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 03:46 AM
Nov 2013

Search results below offer lots of links to scientific research papers. The scientific community definitely agree there is such thing as intra-specific parasitism.
I am sorry you have such a hard time accepting it.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=brood+parasitism+birds

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=brood+parasitism+fish

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=brood+parasitism+insects



The parasitic twins or unequal or asymmetric conjoined twins are one of the two main categories of conjoined twins.


http://lmgtfy.com/?q=unequal+conjoined+twin

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
184. What's so special about birth?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:48 PM
Nov 2013

You remove a 7-9 month fetus before birth via C-Section, the odds are it will be able to survive outside the uterus. Unless you're actually stating you think it be acceptable to abort a fetus one day before birth. In which case you're really stating you would be in favor of infanticide under certain conditions.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
189. It's a foetus until after it was born. It will become an infant after it was born.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:59 PM
Nov 2013

I support woman's right to abort whenever she decides to do so. Her body, Her choice. What "I" feel about her decision is irrelevant.

You are more than welcome to have a C-section any time during YOUR pregnancy. Your body, your choice. Just remember to mind your own business when it comes to other people bodies.

REP

(21,691 posts)
201. First, a C-section is a birth
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:14 PM
Nov 2013

Second, what's so special about birth? Well, the circulatory system completely reverses. The lungs now take in oxygen from air. Temperature regulation becomes independent. There are so many other significant changes that take place at birth that they could fill a book. Which, in fact, they do.

 

hooverville29

(163 posts)
242. A lot of women (and men) started out as an 'unwanted parasitic foetus' as you've
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:29 PM
Nov 2013

described it, meaning often nothing more than 'unplanned.' But they were given a chance to live a life. And now this woman can assert her rights because someone once decided in her favor when she was in the womb.

kydo

(2,679 posts)
261. That person is just spewing bagger talking points
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 07:48 AM
Nov 2013

And probably won't be around DU long with that mentality. In other words I don't think that person has a point to make.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
168. Agree, that shows what right wingers are really about
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:58 PM
Nov 2013

Rape means the woman "deserves" to have the abortion. Otherwise she "deserves" the punishment of having the child. Interesting they see that as a penalty.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
200. Sorry, but this is too silly to even entertain. Why even post it?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:13 PM
Nov 2013

Actually it's pretty offensive as well. Women are not incubators and baby vending machines and should not be reduced to that in any argument.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
3. Being for a woman's right to choose and whether or not it's a rare choice
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:42 PM
Nov 2013

are two difference things and I don't see why they are conflated.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
12. Yes, I've seen a lot of that lately.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:49 PM
Nov 2013

I support a woman's right to choose, PERIOD. I want any woman who wants an abortion to be able to obtain one without issue. However, I don't think that's in any way incongruous to wanting abortions to be rare. I think that the less unwanted pregnancies there are, the better.

That being said, I can understand why the 'rare' part was dropped from the Democratic Party platform. I do think that unwanted pregnancies can and should be reduced through social policies, though.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
57. K & R
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:11 PM
Nov 2013

My thoughts also, it is the woman's choice and there needs to be facilities available which are capable to handle the task. Would I have a problem with a woman who chose to have an abortion, no, but I would support her decision whatever it might be. It should not be a decision to control the woman's decision.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
5. Why should we care about birth control then?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:44 PM
Nov 2013

Why should a woman take the pill?

Why should a man wear a condom?

Who cares? It's just a few hours and a day out of work, right?

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
7. Those are choices people make.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:46 PM
Nov 2013

And it should be available to everyone so they can make those choices.

Are you saying we ought to force women and men to NOT practice contraception. I'm certainly not.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
16. I'm saying that if people practice contraception bolstered by education, abortions will be rare....
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:50 PM
Nov 2013

....even with the occasional failure of said contraceptive....

Apparently that should annoy you for some reason?

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
26. Why do you care if there are 10 instead of 20?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:55 PM
Nov 2013

You seem to be the one who's hung up on this.

"Hey, you might want to put on a jacket. It's freezing out"

"My cold! My choice!"

"Um, ok"

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
30. I can see you don't have much more to say on the subject,
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:58 PM
Nov 2013

so you resort to making it personal and about me. Par for the course.

Have a good day.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
36. LOL
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:01 PM
Nov 2013

Seriously? You asked me why I care first??? I don't, other than logic states BIRTH CONTROL MAKES PREGNANCY RARE!!!

FFS, you really are something else.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
47. Yeah sure....
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:06 PM
Nov 2013

Can't have the saddle without the horse.

No reason to take the asprin when you don't have a headache.

Don't need chemo if you don't have cancer.

 

NoOneMan

(4,795 posts)
258. Why wouldn't you?
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 07:26 AM
Nov 2013

Does the nation have infinite monopoly money now to pay for things they could have more easily prevented? Do you not care about any of the harm and trauma that those extra 10 might feel when ending their unwanted pregnancy, when the state could have potentially helped them avoid the unwanted pregnancy in the first place. Is this the Sociopathic States of America? Do we not give a damn when people hurt that could of been helped? Are we just charging everything to China now so costs don't matter? WTF?

Why wouldn't you care? This applies to any medical procedure that could of been prevented. People feel pain. The more you pay for that pain, the less of your monopoly money you have left to help other people with other pain (or to even prevent other pain from occuring)

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
129. Who said you must care? By any means, use abortion as birth control, why the hell not?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:04 PM
Nov 2013

Vaccum extraction is used in a lot of countries by a lot of women. If someone has a problem with it, they can stuff it. Your body, your choice.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
154. It's a matter of smart choices
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:40 PM
Nov 2013

It is more dangerous to have a baby than it is to abort one. And it can have life-long serious consequences for those who are not ready or don't have the right support system.

It is more dangerous to have an abortion than to take birth control

It is more dangerous to take birth control than to have sex

So the options are...live in a world where sex is only allowed if a child is the intended result (no thanks)

Or live in a world where people have the right to make the right choices (and the least dangerous) for their families and/or themselves, for any reason.

Of course birth control is a better way to avoid abortions. But that doesn't mean because we have access to birth control we no longer will need to have abortions.

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
278. Women don't want to have an abortion...that's why.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 01:04 PM
Nov 2013

It's a medical procedure, expensive and time consuming from work and family responsibilities.
Why wouldn't any women want to avoid that consequence if possible. I'd just try to prevent the situation in the first place.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
279. I didn't want to have hernia surgery.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 01:08 PM
Nov 2013

My condition made it necessary. I guess I could have decided not to have one, but it would have made things very difficult for me.

Women get an abortion because they choose to. Because they want to. For whatever reason.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
6. Because it's a sad outcome
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:46 PM
Nov 2013

I mean hell, it's none of my business if you lose all your money in the stock market. Your financial dealings are confidential for a reason.

Doesn't make it any less sad when someone goes broke.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
18. I've never had one
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:51 PM
Nov 2013

But some of the women who have seem to experience a lot of emotional trauma.

Probably the conflicting emotions that go along with abortion. Not to mention I've heard it's unpleasant, that there is bleeding associated with it, and of course the expulsion of the fetus is probably not very fun.

ismnotwasm

(41,919 posts)
24. Shit I was relieved as hell when I had mine.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:54 PM
Nov 2013

It didn't compare to the pre-eclampsia and the near death I and my oldest daughter experienced from my first pregnancy

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
35. Christ
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:01 PM
Nov 2013

After seeing the pre-eclampsia episode on Downton Abbey, it looks really scary. I can see why you were relieved.

I guess everyone is different. My best friend's sister, whom I've known since grade school, had one while she was at the university. He told me it was a miscarriage, only to later turn out that it was an abortion. She said she cried for a solid weekend and was depressed for a long time, it took her over a year before admitting it to anyone. She got one because she was in the midst of postdoctoral work, wasn't married and couldn't support a baby. And this was in the first trimester, so I can only imagine how it must be for some women later-stage.

REP

(21,691 posts)
80. Anecdotes are nice; everyone as one. I have peer-reviewed studies to share.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:31 PM
Nov 2013

Abortion, as it turns out, doesn't effect a woman's well-being - except when it is denied.

Abortion doesn't affect well-being, study says

New York Times (as printed in the San Jose Mercury 2/12/97)

Abortion does not trigger lasting emotional trauma in young women who
are psychologically healthy before they become pregnant, an eight-year
study of nearly 5,300 women has shown. Women who are in poor shape
emotionally after an abortion are likely to have been feeling bad about
their lives before terminating their pregnancies, the researchers said.

The findings, the researchers say, challenge the validity of laws
that have been proposed in many states, and passed in several, mandating
that women seeking abortions be informed of mental health risks.

The researchers, Dr. Nancy Felipe Russo, a psychologist at Arizona
State University in Tempe, and Dr. Amy Dabul Marin, a psychologist at
Phoenix College, examined the effects of race and religion on the
well-being of 773 women who reported on sealed questionnaires that
they had undergone abortions, and they compared the results with the
emotional status of women who did not report abortions.

The women, initially 14 to 24 years old, completed questionnaires and
were interviewed each year for eight years, starting in 1979. In 1980
and in 1987, the interview also included a standardized test that
measures overall well-being, the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale.

"Given the persistent assertion that abortion is associated with
negative outcomes, the lack of any results in the context of such a
large sample is noteworthy," the researchers wrote. The study took
into account many factors that can influence a woman's emotional
well-being, including education, employment, income, the presence of
a spouse and the number of children.

Higher self-esteem was associated with being employed, having a
higher income, having more years of education and bearing fewer children,
but having had an abortion "did not make a difference," the researchers
reported. And the women's religious affiliations and degree of involvement
with religion did not have an independent effect on their long-term
reaction to abortion. Rather, the women's psychological well-being before
having abortions accounted for their mental state in the years after the
abortion, the researchers said..

In considering the influence of race, the researchers again found
that the women's level of self-esteem before having abortions was the
strongest predictor of their well-being after an abortion.

"Although highly religious Catholic women were slightly more likely
to exhibit post-abortion psychological distress than other women, this
fact is explained by lower pre-existing self-esteem," the researchers
wrote in the current issue of Professional Psychology: Research and
Practice, a journal of the American Psychological Association.

Overall, Catholic women who attended church one or more times a week,
even those who had not had abortions, had generally lower self-esteem
than other women, although within the normal range, so it was hardly
surprising that they also had lower self-esteem after abortions, the
researchers said in interviews.

Gail Quinn, executive director of anti-abortion activities for the
United States Catholic Conference, said the findings belied the
experience of post-abortion counselors. She said, "While many women
express `relief' following an abortion, the relief is transitory."
In the long term, the experience prompts "hurting people to seek the
help of post-abortion healing services," she said.

The president of the National Right to Life Committee, Dr. Wanda
Franz, who earned her doctorate in developmental psychology, challenged
the researchers' conclusions. She said their assessment of self-esteem
"does not measure if a woman is mentally healthy," adding, "This requires
a specialist who performs certain tests, not a self-assessment of how
the woman feels about herself."

The Relationship of Abortion to Well-being: Do Race and Religion Make a Difference?
Nancy Felipe Russo and Amy J. Dabul
Professional Psychology, Research and Practice, 1997, Vol. 28, No , 23-31

Relationships of abortion and childbearing to well-being were examined for 1,189 Black and 3,147 White women. Education, income, and having a work role were positively and independently related to well-being for all women. Abortion did not have an independent relationship to well-being, regardless of race or religion, when well-being before becoming pregnant was controlled. These findings suggest professional psychologists should explore the origins of women's mental health problems in experiences predating their experience of abortion, and they can assist psychologists in working to ensure that mandated scripts from 'informed consent' legislation do not misrepresent scientific findings.


RUSSO, NANCY FELIPE
ZIERK, K.
Abortion, Childbearing, and Women's Well-Being
Professional Psychology, Research and Practice 23 (1992): 269-280. Also, http://www.prochoiceforum.org.uk/psy_resea...
Cohort(s): NLSY79
ID Number: 4029
Publisher: American Psychological Association (APA)

This study is based on a secondary analysis of NLSY interview data from 5,295 women who were interviewed annually from 1979 to 1987. Among this group 773 women were identified in 1987 as having at least one abortion, with 233 of them reporting repeat abortions. Well-being was assessed in 1980 and 1987 by the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale. The researchers used analysis of variance (ANOVA) and multiple regression to examine the combined and separate contributions of preabortion self-esteem, contextual variables (education, employment, income, and marital status), childbearing (being a parent, numbers of wanted and unwanted children) and abortion (having one abortion, having repeat abortions, number of abortions, time since last abortion) to women's post abortion self-esteem.




Most Women Do Not Feel Distress, Regret After Undergoing Abortion, Study Says



The majority of women who choose to have legal abortions do not experience regret or long-term negative emotional effects from their decision to undergo the procedure, according to a study published in the June issue of the journal Social Science & Medicine, NewsRx.com/Mental Health Weekly Digest reports. Dr. A. Kero and colleagues in the Department of Clinical Sciences, Obstetrics and Gynecology at University Hospital in Umea, Sweden, interviewed 58 women at periods of four months and 12 months after the women's abortions. The women also answered a questionnaire prior to their abortions that asked about their living conditions, decision-making processes and general attitudes toward the pregnancy and the abortion. According to the study, most women "did not experience any emotional distress post-abortion"; however, 12 of the women said they experienced severe distress immediately after the procedure. Almost all of the women said they felt little distress at the one-year follow-up interview. The women who said they experienced no post-abortion distress had indicated prior to the procedure that they opted not to give birth because they "prioritized work, studies, and/or existing children," according to the study. According to the researchers, "almost all" of the women said the abortion was a "relief or a form of taking responsibility," and more than half of the women said they experienced positive emotional experiences after the abortion such as "mental growth and maturity of the abortion process" (NewsRx.com/Mental Health Weekly Digest, 7/12).

http://www.kaisernetwork.org/daily_reports...

The psychological sequelae of therapeutic abortion--denied and completed

PK Dagg
Department of Psychiatry, Mount Sinai Hospital, Toronto, Ont., Canada.

OBJECTIVE: The purpose of this article is to review the available literature on the psychological sequelae of therapeutic abortion, addressing both the issue of the effects of the abortion on the woman involved and the effects on the woman and on the child born when abortion is denied. METHOD: Papers reviewed were initially selected by using a Medline search. This procedure resulted in 225 papers being reviewed, which were further selected by limiting the papers to those reporting original research. Finally, studies were assessed as to whether or not they used control groups or objective, validated symptom measures. RESULTS: Adverse sequelae occur in a minority of women, and when such symptoms occur, they usually seem to be the continuation of symptoms that appeared before the abortion and are on the wane immediately after the abortion. Many women denied abortion show ongoing resentment that may last for years, while children born when the abortion is denied have numerous, broadly based difficulties in social, interpersonal, and occupational functions that last at least into early adulthood. CONCLUSIONS: With increasing pressure on access to abortion services in North America, nonpsychiatrist physicians and mental health professionals need to keep in mind the effects of both performing and denying therapeutic abortion. Increased research into these areas, focusing in particular on why some women are adversely affected by the procedure and clarifying the relationship issues involved, continues to be important.
Am J Psychiatry 1991; 148:578-585
http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/conten...


Psychological sequelae of medical and surgical abortion at 10-13 weeks gestation.

Ashok PW, Hamoda H, Flett GM, Kidd A, Fitzmaurice A, Templeton A.

From the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Aberdeen, Aberdeen Royal Infirmary, Aberdeen, UK.

Background. Although not much research comparing the emotional distress following medical and surgical abortion is available, few studies have compared psychological sequelae following both methods of abortion early in the first trimester of pregnancy. The aim of this review was to assess the psychological sequelae and emotional distress following medical and surgical abortion at 10-13 weeks gestation. Methods. Partially randomized patient preference trial in a Scottish Teaching Hospital was conducted. The hospital anxiety and depression scales were used to assess emotional distress. Anxiety levels were also assessed using visual analog scales while semantic differential rating scales were used to measure self-esteem. A total of 368 women were randomized, while 77 entered the preference cohort. Results. There were no significant differences in hospital anxiety and depression scales scores for anxiety or depression between the groups. Visual analog scales showed higher anxiety levels in women randomized to surgery prior to abortion (P < 0.0001), while women randomized to surgical treatment were less anxious after abortion (P < 0.0001). Semantic differential rating scores showed a fall in self-esteem in the randomized medical group compared to those undergoing surgery (P = 0.02). Conclusions. Medical abortion at 10-13 weeks is effective and does not increase psychological morbidity compared to surgical vacuum aspiration and hence should be made available to all women undergoing abortion at these gestations.
Acta Obstet Gynecol Scand. 2005 Aug;84(8) 61-6.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...


Post abortion syndrome: myth or reality?

Koop CE.

What are the health effects upon a woman who has had an abortion? In his letter to President Reagan, dated January 9, 1989, Surgeon General C. Everett Koop wrote that in order to find an answer to this question the Public Health Service would need from 10 to 100 million dollars for a comprehensive study.

PIP: At a 1987 briefing for Right to Life leaders, the author--US Surgeon General C Everett Koop--was requested to prepare a comprehensive report on the health effects (mental and physical) of induced abortion. To prepare for this task, the author met with 27 groups with philosophical, social, medical, or other professional interests in the abortion issue; interviewed women who had undergone this procedure; and conducted a review of the more than 250 studies in the literature pertaining to the psychological impact of abortion. Every effort was made to eliminate the bias that surrounds this controversial issue. It was not possible, however, to reach any conclusions about the health effects of abortion. In general, the studies on the psychological sequelae of abortion indicate a low incidence of adverse mental health effects. On the other hand, the evidence tends to consist of case studies and the few nonanecdotal reports that exist contain serious methodological flaws. In terms of the physical effects, abortion has been associated with subsequent infertility, a damaged cervix, miscarriage, premature birth, and low birthweight. Again, there are methodological problems. 1st, these events are difficult to quantify since most abortions are performed in free-standing clinics where longterm outcome is not recorded. 2nd, it is impossible to casually link these adverse outcomes to the abortion per se. Resolution of this question requires a prospective study of a cohort of women of childbearing age in reference to the variable outcomes of mating--failure to conceive, miscarriage, abortion, and delivery. Ideally, such a study would be conducted over a 5-year period and would cost approximately US$100 million
Health Matrix. 1989 Summer;7(2):42-4.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...

Psychological sequelae of induced abortion.

Romans-Clarkson SE.

Department of Psychological Medicine, University of Otago Medical School, Dunedin, New Zealand.

This article reviews the scientific literature on the psychological sequelae of induced abortion. The methodology and results of studies carried out over the last twenty-two years are examined critically. The unanimous consensus is that abortion does not cause deleterious psychological effects. Women most likely to show subsequent problems are those who were pressured into the operation against their own wishes, either by relatives or because their pregnancy had medical or foetal contraindications. Legislation which restricts abortion causes problems for women with unwanted pregnancies and their doctors. It is also unjust, as it adversely most affects lower socio-economic class women.

PIP: A review of empirical studies on the psychological sequelae of induced abortion published since 1965 revealed no evidence of adverse effects. On the other hand, this review identified widespread methodological problems--improper sampling, lack of data on women's previous psychiatric history, a scarcity of prospective study designs, a lack of specified follow-up times or evaluation procedures, and a failure to distinguish between legal, illegal, and spontaneous abortions--that need to be addressed by psychiatric epidemiologists. Despite these methodological weaknesses, all 34 studies found significant improvement rather than deterioration in mental status after induced abortion. There was also a high degree of congruity in terms of predictors of adverse reactions after abortion--ambivalence about the procedure, a history of psychosocial instability, poor or absent family ties, psychiatric illness at the time of the pregnancy termination, and negative attitudes toward abortion in the broader society. As expected, criminal abortion is more likely than legal abortion to be associated with guilt, and women who have been denied therapeutic abortions report significantly greater psychosocial difficulties than those who have been granted abortion on the grounds of their precarious mental health. Overall, the research clearly attests that abortion carried out at a woman's request has no deleterious psychiatric consequences. Problems arise only when the woman undergoes pregnancy termination as a result of pressure from others. Legislation that undermines the ability of the pregnant woman to assess herself the impact of an unwanted pregnancy on her future impedes mental health and should be opposed by the psychiatric profession.
Aust N Z J Psychiatry. 1989 Dec;23(4):555-65
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...

Psychological and social aspects of induced abortion.

Handy JA.

The literature concerning psychosocial aspects of induced abortion is reviewed. Key areas discussed are: the legal context of abortion in Britain, psychological characteristics of abortion-seekers, pre- and post-abortion contraceptive use, pre- and post-abortion counselling, the actual abortion and the effects of termination versus refused abortion. Women seeking termination are found to demonstrate more psychological disturbance than other women, however this is probably temporary and related to the short-term stresses of abortion. Inadequate contraception is frequent prior to abortion but improves afterwards. Few women find the decision to terminate easy and most welcome opportunities for non-judgemental counselling. Although some women experience adverse psychological sequelae after abortion the great majority do not. In contrast, refused abortion often results in psychological distress for the mother and an impoverished environment for the ensuing offspring.
Br J Clin Psychol. 1982 Feb;21 (Pt 1):29-41.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...
 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
94. Well gee
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:50 PM
Nov 2013
Abortion does not trigger lasting emotional trauma in young women who
are psychologically healthy before they become pregnant... The women, initially 14 to 24 years old, completed questionnaires and
were interviewed each year for eight years, starting in 1979. In 1980 and in 1987, the interview also included a standardized test that measures overall well-being, the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale.


Higher self-esteem was associated with being employed, having a
higher income, having more years of education and bearing fewer children


So "psychologically healthy" is higher income, employed, educated, and has few children. That's a pretty harsh judgment of having self-esteem and having good mental health. Sucks for the 70% to whom this doesn't apply.

Equating income and number of children with mental health? I feel bad for those women who don't make big incomes or have lots of children, guess they have poor mental health. Jeez.

REP

(21,691 posts)
101. "Fewer"
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:53 PM
Nov 2013

Numerous studies on fertility have found that the more education a woman has, the fewer children she chooses to bear. This one study on the psychological effect of abortion merely echoes these findings.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
107. Don't you think that measure is a bit elitist?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:59 PM
Nov 2013

I mean, shouldn't a psychologist examine each subject's mental health (and mental health history?) rather than a questionnaire that deems wealthy, educated women with fewer children more mentally healthy than other women?

That study seems to use an extremely lazy guideline for mental health.

The irony in this is that the solid majority of white women in Virginia who voted for anti-choice candidates, to their own detriment, will be deemed more mentally fit than the 90% of black women who voted sanely for pro-choice candidates, all merely because black women are underprivileged. Again, to me that is extremely elitist. They should have just published the study as "rich women who have fewer children cope with abortion much better than less wealthy women with more children", that would have been more accurate. Instead they make this illogical leap from the characteristics of wealth to mental health. I don't find this measure reasonable at all, and some could argue it's racist or at least elitist.

REP

(21,691 posts)
150. No, because that's not how it works
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:32 PM
Nov 2013

The women weren't separated by income, education and income prior to the study. The answers the women gave led to those conclusions. Did you miss the part about women who were psychologically unsound prior to their abortions were the ones who reported problems subsequent to their abortions?

I listed numerous studies, including one by the anti-abortion Koop who came to the same determination: abortion does not harm women's emotional well-being.

REP

(21,691 posts)
223. Thanks :-)
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:46 PM
Nov 2013

It's in the archives of my Journal, which also has studies showing the long-term psychological sequelae of relinquishing an infant to adoption.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
27. I know and a woman that doesn't want a baby shouldn't make her own choices?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:56 PM
Nov 2013

It's NONE of your business. NONE.

It's none of the business of the woman who had one and regrets it. Those were her decisions.

To use other womens experiences from one side of the equation, is limiting yourself. Many, many woman have abortions and do not feel that way.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
32. And you don't think you do the same based on your personal perspective?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:00 PM
Nov 2013

If a woman, a close friend, confided to you, she regretted her abortion, what would you say to her? And please don't be a smart ass and say, "NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS". I'm really curious has to how you would approach it.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
34. Some women do. I'm not denying that, but it's not a reason to limit other womens choices.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:01 PM
Nov 2013

How about this. You make your own decisions about you and other women will make their own decisions for themselves.

Seems pretty simple, no?

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
51. I would of course sympathize for a friend, even if I disagreed.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:08 PM
Nov 2013

The answer is the same. She and a friend who agrees with her don't get to make choices for other women.

I don't see anything wrong with saying that or feeling that.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
67. Well, this is why I asked you specifically
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:15 PM
Nov 2013

I could see a woman saying/feeling "I regret that decision" without saying "I think all abortion should be banned for everyone else because of that".

But part of me feels knowing what I've read from you, you would jump instantly to that thought.

Hence why I asked if you can separate the politics from the personal/emotional and how you'd reply.

REP

(21,691 posts)
105. See my post #80: studies find abortion does not effect well-being
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:57 PM
Nov 2013

Included in the studies I cited is Koop et al (remember him?), who was forced to admit that abortion does not cause mental harm to women.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
38. Who said that?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:02 PM
Nov 2013

Of course she should be free to make her own choice.

That has nothing to do with thinking abortion is an unfortunate outcome.

Lex

(34,108 posts)
31. A lot people have medical procedures that are unplesant
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:59 PM
Nov 2013

but I don't go around deciding maybe they shouldn't have them.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
267. i had surgery for a incarcerated femoral hernia.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 08:39 AM
Nov 2013

Let me tell you, the after math of that surgery was traumatic. It hurt so bad. I can still feel some pain today after many years because of it. I would hope no one would try to prevent others from having the surgery, because of my trauma.

Also giving birth was pretty traumatic, and changed my life in a whole lot of ways. Some for the better and in many ways made my life harder.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
108. i've never had one either, but
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:59 PM
Nov 2013

if my birth control failed, i wouldn't have hesitated to have one. my sister had 2 -- 2 when she was in college and 1 right after that. i knew about the 3rd one and she joked about it. said after they vacuumed it out they vacuumed the carpet. eventually she got married and after giving birth to 2 girls had herself "fixed". apparently having an abortion was not traumatic for her.

BTW. i'm not talking about my sister NanceGreggs.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
135. FFS, not that shit again. No, it's not sad, traumatising, or horrible. That's a load of bullshit.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:12 PM
Nov 2013

There are enough studies published to show it's a load of crap.

Overwhelming majority of abortions happen when woman doesn't want to be pregnant. Why the heck should anyone feel sad is beyond me, unless one is conditioned to feel that way by bunch of arseholes who WANT women to feel like shit.

passiveporcupine

(8,175 posts)
159. is it possible
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:44 PM
Nov 2013

that some women have an emotional reaction to the choice of abortion because of the social stigma attached by so many in society?

REP

(21,691 posts)
282. There is no "expulsion of the fetus" with an aspiration curretage
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 06:41 PM
Nov 2013

It involves a local anesthetic to the cervix and the insertion of a small suction cannula into the uterus. It hurts about as much as extremely bad cramps, but doesn't last very long. There is some minor bleeding afterwards, similar to that associated with a period. Recovery time is 2-3 days. Tylenol or Ibuprofen is given for the post-op pain.

Compare that to my last surgery, where I was given general anesthesia; had five incisions made in my shoulder; had the ends of my clavicle, acromion, and sub-acromion sawed off; had two large titanium anchors drilled into my greater tuberosity to hold the sutures that are holding my torn supraspinatus and subscapularis tendons so they can re grow to the bone; a large bone spur removed; the glenohumeral joint debrided, etc. I had a severe reaction to the surgical wash and a few other post-OP complications; and I was given Dilaudid for the post-OP pain. The post-op pain is excruciating and horrible. This is considered a minor, out-patient procedure. It will take me a year to fully recover from. It was far more unpleasant and traumatic than my abortion.

Yet I very much wanted both procedures done (and I had the second one done twice in one year; once on each shoulder).

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
59. i know plenty of people who have had abortions without experiencing sorrow
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:12 PM
Nov 2013

i think more accurately people want them to be sad, some sort of guilt about having consequence free sex

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
68. i think when people say, it is sad, they mean "the women should be sad"
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:16 PM
Nov 2013

because they did something terrible

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
71. exactly. i can think of about 10 women i knew in college
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:18 PM
Nov 2013

who had abortions and did not experience guilt/sorrow/tragic consequences

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
86. I don't believe that.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:42 PM
Nov 2013

They may tell you that, but I don't believe that they didn't experience guilt/sorrow/tragic consequences.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
89. oh, bullshit
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:46 PM
Nov 2013

That is such a crock of horseshit. Most women do not suffer guilt, trauma or "tragic consequences".


And you claiming they lie about out it is offensive.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
132. How do you think a woman would feel if she is forced to be an incubator?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:07 PM
Nov 2013

How do you think a woman would feel when she's given birth and then puts the baby up for adoption?

What the woman feels is her own damn business. Life is hard. People struggle with their feelings all the time.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
148. Which is exactly my point.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:32 PM
Nov 2013

I am very pro choice, but don't bullshit me and tell me there is no other emotion other than relief that the woman feels. To tell me there is no sorrow, is bullshit.

"How do you think a woman would feel if she is forced to be an incubator?"

Angry, sorrow, tragic many many more feelings.


"How do you think a woman would feel when she's given birth and then puts the baby up for adoption?"

Sorrow, tragic, many many more feelings.

"Life is hard. People struggle with their feelings all the time."

I absolutely agree.


When a woman has an abortion, how do you think a woman feels?

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
193. I wasn't intending to agree with you or trying to make your point,
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:04 PM
Nov 2013

I was just presenting the other side. If you are going to attribute emotions to one side then you must also attribute them to the other side. Therefore it's not an argument that can be used to deter abortion.

I know that a lot of women feel relief at being able to have an abortion. I imagine some do at being able to give up a baby to a good home. I know that if I were forced to be an incubator I would feel rage.

Also, by attributing only negative feelings to a woman after having had an abortion I think you are putting a moral judgment on her action. That is exactly what progressives are not supposed to be doing. It's a woman's right to choose what she wants, it's not a moral decision. That's what religious anti-choice groups want people to believe, but it's not a viable life and the woman's life is the one in question.

What people feel about their choices is their business. What they choose to with their own body is their right.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
217. I know you weren't agreeing with me.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:41 PM
Nov 2013

"Also, by attributing only negative feelings to a woman after having had an abortion I think you are putting a moral judgment on her action."

By putting only positive feelings to the woman after having an abortion I think is untruthful, and making light of the awful decisions she has to make either way.

REP

(21,691 posts)
195. I can tell you how this woman felt:
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:08 PM
Nov 2013

Relieved. It's been nearly 30 years - still no 'sorrow' or 'regret.'

I can tell you how my grandmother, who had two abortions, felt: "I'm 93 years old - when is this "regret" supposed to happen?" She lived to be 98 and without regret or sorrow about her abortions. She was a life-long supporter of legal abortion.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
208. If you are telling me you felt no sorrow after having an abortion
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:27 PM
Nov 2013

I really have nothing I can say about it.

REP

(21,691 posts)
215. Zero. Zip. Zilch. Nada. None. No regret, sorrow, sadness - nothing but overwhelming relief
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:40 PM
Nov 2013

It also saved my life. Turns out bringing a pregnancy to term would be terribly detrimental to my health or just flat-out kill me, but no one knew that then. All I knew is that I did not want to be pregnant a second longer.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
234. If you felt "No regret, sorrow, sadness - nothing but overwhelming relief"
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:05 PM
Nov 2013

Why did you feel the need to qualify it by stating "It also saved my life. Turns out bringing a pregnancy to term would be terribly detrimental to my health or just flat-out kill me"

REP

(21,691 posts)
237. It's not a qualification; it's just a fact.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:13 PM
Nov 2013

As I said, no one, not even I, knew that at the time. I just knew I did not want to be pregnant a second longer and could not wait to have the abortion. I was so happy and relieved when it was done, and I felt physically about a million times better immediately.

REP

(21,691 posts)
192. Then believe science.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:03 PM
Nov 2013
Abortion doesn't affect well-being, study says

New York Times (as printed in the San Jose Mercury 2/12/97)

Abortion does not trigger lasting emotional trauma in young women who
are psychologically healthy before they become pregnant, an eight-year
study of nearly 5,300 women has shown. Women who are in poor shape
emotionally after an abortion are likely to have been feeling bad about
their lives before terminating their pregnancies, the researchers said.

The findings, the researchers say, challenge the validity of laws
that have been proposed in many states, and passed in several, mandating
that women seeking abortions be informed of mental health risks.

The researchers, Dr. Nancy Felipe Russo, a psychologist at Arizona
State University in Tempe, and Dr. Amy Dabul Marin, a psychologist at
Phoenix College, examined the effects of race and religion on the
well-being of 773 women who reported on sealed questionnaires that
they had undergone abortions, and they compared the results with the
emotional status of women who did not report abortions.

The women, initially 14 to 24 years old, completed questionnaires and
were interviewed each year for eight years, starting in 1979. In 1980
and in 1987, the interview also included a standardized test that
measures overall well-being, the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale.

"Given the persistent assertion that abortion is associated with
negative outcomes, the lack of any results in the context of such a
large sample is noteworthy," the researchers wrote. The study took
into account many factors that can influence a woman's emotional
well-being, including education, employment, income, the presence of
a spouse and the number of children.

Higher self-esteem was associated with being employed, having a
higher income, having more years of education and bearing fewer children,
but having had an abortion "did not make a difference," the researchers
reported. And the women's religious affiliations and degree of involvement
with religion did not have an independent effect on their long-term
reaction to abortion. Rather, the women's psychological well-being before
having abortions accounted for their mental state in the years after the
abortion, the researchers said..

In considering the influence of race, the researchers again found
that the women's level of self-esteem before having abortions was the
strongest predictor of their well-being after an abortion.

"Although highly religious Catholic women were slightly more likely
to exhibit post-abortion psychological distress than other women, this
fact is explained by lower pre-existing self-esteem," the researchers
wrote in the current issue of Professional Psychology: Research and
Practice, a journal of the American Psychological Association.

Overall, Catholic women who attended church one or more times a week,
even those who had not had abortions, had generally lower self-esteem
than other women, although within the normal range, so it was hardly
surprising that they also had lower self-esteem after abortions, the
researchers said in interviews.

Gail Quinn, executive director of anti-abortion activities for the
United States Catholic Conference, said the findings belied the
experience of post-abortion counselors. She said, "While many women
express `relief' following an abortion, the relief is transitory."
In the long term, the experience prompts "hurting people to seek the
help of post-abortion healing services," she said.

The president of the National Right to Life Committee, Dr. Wanda
Franz, who earned her doctorate in developmental psychology, challenged
the researchers' conclusions. She said their assessment of self-esteem
"does not measure if a woman is mentally healthy," adding, "This requires
a specialist who performs certain tests, not a self-assessment of how
the woman feels about herself."

The Relationship of Abortion to Well-being: Do Race and Religion Make a Difference?
Nancy Felipe Russo and Amy J. Dabul
Professional Psychology, Research and Practice, 1997, Vol. 28, No , 23-31

Relationships of abortion and childbearing to well-being were examined for 1,189 Black and 3,147 White women. Education, income, and having a work role were positively and independently related to well-being for all women. Abortion did not have an independent relationship to well-being, regardless of race or religion, when well-being before becoming pregnant was controlled. These findings suggest professional psychologists should explore the origins of women's mental health problems in experiences predating their experience of abortion, and they can assist psychologists in working to ensure that mandated scripts from 'informed consent' legislation do not misrepresent scientific findings.


RUSSO, NANCY FELIPE
ZIERK, K.
Abortion, Childbearing, and Women's Well-Being
Professional Psychology, Research and Practice 23 (1992): 269-280. Also, http://www.prochoiceforum.org.uk/psy_resea...
Cohort(s): NLSY79
ID Number: 4029
Publisher: American Psychological Association (APA)

This study is based on a secondary analysis of NLSY interview data from 5,295 women who were interviewed annually from 1979 to 1987. Among this group 773 women were identified in 1987 as having at least one abortion, with 233 of them reporting repeat abortions. Well-being was assessed in 1980 and 1987 by the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale. The researchers used analysis of variance (ANOVA) and multiple regression to examine the combined and separate contributions of preabortion self-esteem, contextual variables (education, employment, income, and marital status), childbearing (being a parent, numbers of wanted and unwanted children) and abortion (having one abortion, having repeat abortions, number of abortions, time since last abortion) to women's post abortion self-esteem.




Most Women Do Not Feel Distress, Regret After Undergoing Abortion, Study Says



The majority of women who choose to have legal abortions do not experience regret or long-term negative emotional effects from their decision to undergo the procedure, according to a study published in the June issue of the journal Social Science & Medicine, NewsRx.com/Mental Health Weekly Digest reports. Dr. A. Kero and colleagues in the Department of Clinical Sciences, Obstetrics and Gynecology at University Hospital in Umea, Sweden, interviewed 58 women at periods of four months and 12 months after the women's abortions. The women also answered a questionnaire prior to their abortions that asked about their living conditions, decision-making processes and general attitudes toward the pregnancy and the abortion. According to the study, most women "did not experience any emotional distress post-abortion"; however, 12 of the women said they experienced severe distress immediately after the procedure. Almost all of the women said they felt little distress at the one-year follow-up interview. The women who said they experienced no post-abortion distress had indicated prior to the procedure that they opted not to give birth because they "prioritized work, studies, and/or existing children," according to the study. According to the researchers, "almost all" of the women said the abortion was a "relief or a form of taking responsibility," and more than half of the women said they experienced positive emotional experiences after the abortion such as "mental growth and maturity of the abortion process" (NewsRx.com/Mental Health Weekly Digest, 7/12).

http://www.kaisernetwork.org/daily_reports...

The psychological sequelae of therapeutic abortion--denied and completed

PK Dagg
Department of Psychiatry, Mount Sinai Hospital, Toronto, Ont., Canada.

OBJECTIVE: The purpose of this article is to review the available literature on the psychological sequelae of therapeutic abortion, addressing both the issue of the effects of the abortion on the woman involved and the effects on the woman and on the child born when abortion is denied. METHOD: Papers reviewed were initially selected by using a Medline search. This procedure resulted in 225 papers being reviewed, which were further selected by limiting the papers to those reporting original research. Finally, studies were assessed as to whether or not they used control groups or objective, validated symptom measures. RESULTS: Adverse sequelae occur in a minority of women, and when such symptoms occur, they usually seem to be the continuation of symptoms that appeared before the abortion and are on the wane immediately after the abortion. Many women denied abortion show ongoing resentment that may last for years, while children born when the abortion is denied have numerous, broadly based difficulties in social, interpersonal, and occupational functions that last at least into early adulthood. CONCLUSIONS: With increasing pressure on access to abortion services in North America, nonpsychiatrist physicians and mental health professionals need to keep in mind the effects of both performing and denying therapeutic abortion. Increased research into these areas, focusing in particular on why some women are adversely affected by the procedure and clarifying the relationship issues involved, continues to be important.
Am J Psychiatry 1991; 148:578-585
http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/conten...


Psychological sequelae of medical and surgical abortion at 10-13 weeks gestation.

Ashok PW, Hamoda H, Flett GM, Kidd A, Fitzmaurice A, Templeton A.

From the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, University of Aberdeen, Aberdeen Royal Infirmary, Aberdeen, UK.

Background. Although not much research comparing the emotional distress following medical and surgical abortion is available, few studies have compared psychological sequelae following both methods of abortion early in the first trimester of pregnancy. The aim of this review was to assess the psychological sequelae and emotional distress following medical and surgical abortion at 10-13 weeks gestation. Methods. Partially randomized patient preference trial in a Scottish Teaching Hospital was conducted. The hospital anxiety and depression scales were used to assess emotional distress. Anxiety levels were also assessed using visual analog scales while semantic differential rating scales were used to measure self-esteem. A total of 368 women were randomized, while 77 entered the preference cohort. Results. There were no significant differences in hospital anxiety and depression scales scores for anxiety or depression between the groups. Visual analog scales showed higher anxiety levels in women randomized to surgery prior to abortion (P < 0.0001), while women randomized to surgical treatment were less anxious after abortion (P < 0.0001). Semantic differential rating scores showed a fall in self-esteem in the randomized medical group compared to those undergoing surgery (P = 0.02). Conclusions. Medical abortion at 10-13 weeks is effective and does not increase psychological morbidity compared to surgical vacuum aspiration and hence should be made available to all women undergoing abortion at these gestations.
Acta Obstet Gynecol Scand. 2005 Aug;84(8) 61-6.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...


Post abortion syndrome: myth or reality?

Koop CE.

What are the health effects upon a woman who has had an abortion? In his letter to President Reagan, dated January 9, 1989, Surgeon General C. Everett Koop wrote that in order to find an answer to this question the Public Health Service would need from 10 to 100 million dollars for a comprehensive study.

PIP: At a 1987 briefing for Right to Life leaders, the author--US Surgeon General C Everett Koop--was requested to prepare a comprehensive report on the health effects (mental and physical) of induced abortion. To prepare for this task, the author met with 27 groups with philosophical, social, medical, or other professional interests in the abortion issue; interviewed women who had undergone this procedure; and conducted a review of the more than 250 studies in the literature pertaining to the psychological impact of abortion. Every effort was made to eliminate the bias that surrounds this controversial issue. It was not possible, however, to reach any conclusions about the health effects of abortion. In general, the studies on the psychological sequelae of abortion indicate a low incidence of adverse mental health effects. On the other hand, the evidence tends to consist of case studies and the few nonanecdotal reports that exist contain serious methodological flaws. In terms of the physical effects, abortion has been associated with subsequent infertility, a damaged cervix, miscarriage, premature birth, and low birthweight. Again, there are methodological problems. 1st, these events are difficult to quantify since most abortions are performed in free-standing clinics where longterm outcome is not recorded. 2nd, it is impossible to casually link these adverse outcomes to the abortion per se. Resolution of this question requires a prospective study of a cohort of women of childbearing age in reference to the variable outcomes of mating--failure to conceive, miscarriage, abortion, and delivery. Ideally, such a study would be conducted over a 5-year period and would cost approximately US$100 million
Health Matrix. 1989 Summer;7(2):42-4.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...

Psychological sequelae of induced abortion.

Romans-Clarkson SE.

Department of Psychological Medicine, University of Otago Medical School, Dunedin, New Zealand.

This article reviews the scientific literature on the psychological sequelae of induced abortion. The methodology and results of studies carried out over the last twenty-two years are examined critically. The unanimous consensus is that abortion does not cause deleterious psychological effects. Women most likely to show subsequent problems are those who were pressured into the operation against their own wishes, either by relatives or because their pregnancy had medical or foetal contraindications. Legislation which restricts abortion causes problems for women with unwanted pregnancies and their doctors. It is also unjust, as it adversely most affects lower socio-economic class women.

PIP: A review of empirical studies on the psychological sequelae of induced abortion published since 1965 revealed no evidence of adverse effects. On the other hand, this review identified widespread methodological problems--improper sampling, lack of data on women's previous psychiatric history, a scarcity of prospective study designs, a lack of specified follow-up times or evaluation procedures, and a failure to distinguish between legal, illegal, and spontaneous abortions--that need to be addressed by psychiatric epidemiologists. Despite these methodological weaknesses, all 34 studies found significant improvement rather than deterioration in mental status after induced abortion. There was also a high degree of congruity in terms of predictors of adverse reactions after abortion--ambivalence about the procedure, a history of psychosocial instability, poor or absent family ties, psychiatric illness at the time of the pregnancy termination, and negative attitudes toward abortion in the broader society. As expected, criminal abortion is more likely than legal abortion to be associated with guilt, and women who have been denied therapeutic abortions report significantly greater psychosocial difficulties than those who have been granted abortion on the grounds of their precarious mental health. Overall, the research clearly attests that abortion carried out at a woman's request has no deleterious psychiatric consequences. Problems arise only when the woman undergoes pregnancy termination as a result of pressure from others. Legislation that undermines the ability of the pregnant woman to assess herself the impact of an unwanted pregnancy on her future impedes mental health and should be opposed by the psychiatric profession.
Aust N Z J Psychiatry. 1989 Dec;23(4):555-65
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...

Psychological and social aspects of induced abortion.

Handy JA.

The literature concerning psychosocial aspects of induced abortion is reviewed. Key areas discussed are: the legal context of abortion in Britain, psychological characteristics of abortion-seekers, pre- and post-abortion contraceptive use, pre- and post-abortion counselling, the actual abortion and the effects of termination versus refused abortion. Women seeking termination are found to demonstrate more psychological disturbance than other women, however this is probably temporary and related to the short-term stresses of abortion. Inadequate contraception is frequent prior to abortion but improves afterwards. Few women find the decision to terminate easy and most welcome opportunities for non-judgemental counselling. Although some women experience adverse psychological sequelae after abortion the great majority do not. In contrast, refused abortion often results in psychological distress for the mother and an impoverished environment for the ensuing offspring.
Br J Clin Psychol. 1982 Feb;21 (Pt 1):29-41.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.f...


TL;DR: Abortion doesn't effect well-being.
 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
207. I read this the first time you posted it.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:25 PM
Nov 2013

This doesn't prove your point. It says:

The majority of women who choose to have legal abortions do not experience regret or long-term negative emotional effects from their decision to undergo the procedure


long-term negative emotional effects - not that they don't feel any negative emotions.

I certainly don't want woman to feel long-term negative emotions, but don't bullshit me and tell me there is no negative emotions with it.

REP

(21,691 posts)
222. Seems to have missed the majority of the studies' content ...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:44 PM
Nov 2013

(not you, of course - I know you're awesome )

REP

(21,691 posts)
220. "It"? There's more than one study; none of them say what you'd like them to
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:42 PM
Nov 2013

Yes, women who had psychological problems before their abortion were likely to have them after the abortion, but abortion does not cause emotional harm. One study even found most women felt relief, not "sorrow."

ismnotwasm

(41,919 posts)
276. How about me?
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 10:19 AM
Nov 2013

I've had more than one. Not a regret, not a second thought. Two of my daughters; not a regret, not a second thought. I can name several more.

The larger feeling women experience is relief.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
75. i meant to write this to you but accidentally posted it as a thread
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:21 PM
Nov 2013

I can agree that unwanted pregnancies should ideally be rare but not the medical procedure of abortion

just like i think HIV infection should be less but not access to HIV Medication

no other medical procedure is advocated as something that should be rare besides abortion

smokey nj

(43,853 posts)
83. Several of my friends have had abortions and felt nothing but relief.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:40 PM
Nov 2013

A couple have even gone on to be awesome mothers when the time was right.

I've never had an abortion. If I did get pregnant I would have an abortion because my husband and I don't want children. I'm 44-years-old and the three or four eggs I have left are hard-boiled at this point, so I don't think it's likely to happen.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
110. We over glamorise child birth...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:01 PM
Nov 2013

"oh, isn't it a little miracle"- uh, no. Around 50% of the human population is capable of giving birth. All mammals have live births.

PumpkinAle

(1,210 posts)
126. I knew a young girl
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:50 PM
Nov 2013

she was 17 yrs - who almost killed herself because she found out she was pregnant. She was able to get an abortion and it definitely affected her emotions, no it did not make her sad or feel guilty, she felt relieved and had no guilt. In other words for her it was the right thing to do............ as it is for many women.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
10. the frequency is a medical matter, not a political one
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:49 PM
Nov 2013

I keep hearing the argument that what they mean is they want to reduce unwanted pregnancies. Agreed, me, too. Then say that.

Ms. Toad

(33,915 posts)
165. It is not just reducing unwanted pregnancies.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:54 PM
Nov 2013

Some women with unwanted/unexpected pregnancies would raise the child, if they had the resources to feel confident they could provide housing, food, education, etc. - but find their own situations so precarious that it is cheaper to have an abortion (in resources, energy, etc.), even if it is not what they would want in a more equitable society.

And some women would carry to term and give the child up for adoption, but don't because of societal disapproval, lack of money for medical care, inability to take time off from work near the birth, etc.

So wanting abortions to be rare isn't just about wanting to reduce unwanted pregnancies, but it is also part of ensuring that choice doesn't just mean access to abortions - but also means access to the resources to carry a pregnancy to term (and perhaps even raise a child) if that is the choice a woman wants to make.

ETA: Choosing to have an abortion isn't a real choice if you don't have access to the resources to feel you can do anything else.

Ms. Toad

(33,915 posts)
176. Saying it in 6 paragraphs doesn't make it so.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:10 PM
Nov 2013

There are several logical fallacies in that argument - but in the black and white world in which abortion is discussed (including here on DU), I have no desire to pick it apart and make myself a target.

When DU can have a civilized discussion about it, without insisting that it is a parasite until it takes its first breath - for example - I'd be glad to have a discussion beyond the post you responded to. It is a discussion the left really needs to have to get past the see-saw where the side with the most voices wins, temporarily, until the other side drags a few more voices to its side of the fulcrum.

But this thread is a perfect example of why I have no interest in having it here and how.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
178. got it. yet you feel the need to keep using the BS 'rare' mantra without having adult conversations
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:16 PM
Nov 2013

about why it's harmful to reproductive health.

so... yeah. carry on.

Ms. Toad

(33,915 posts)
179. No. But when I try to have adult conversations
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:24 PM
Nov 2013

all that happens is lots of juvenile screaming by people who see only black and white. So I'll wait at least until the adults outnumber the juveniles to make another try. It obviously isn't a discussion that will result in anything other than a bunch of shouting at the moment.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
185. Thanks gawd pro-choicers outnumber forced-birthers on DU. I can just imagine "adult" conversations
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:52 PM
Nov 2013

forced-birthers would carry on here otherwise. Cool topics like "How to force more women to carry unwanted pregnancies to term by restricting access to abortions".

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
198. How many forced-birthers do you see on DU? You should report it.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:11 PM
Nov 2013

Posturing does not advance discussion.

idwiyo

(5,113 posts)
203. Any person who is anti-abortion or wants to restrict abortions is a forced-birther by definition.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:18 PM
Nov 2013

According to Skinner as long as they are "polite" it's all good. Do you have a problem with admin's decision? You are welcome to post about it in ATA.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
205. I take it you believe there should be no restriction abortion until the moment of birth.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:24 PM
Nov 2013

And that anyone who disagrees with that is a "forced birther". Is that correct?

BTW, you are conflating two separate issues. To be anti-abortion does not equal outlawing abortion. Any more than being pro-abortion equals no restrictions of any kind.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
210. I think that there should be no restrictions. Absolutely. Woman and doctors can be trusted.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:30 PM
Nov 2013

We're not monsters.

On January 28, 2014, Canada will celebrate 26 years of reproductive freedom. Since their Supreme Court struck down Canada's abortion law in 1988, the country's experience is proof that laws against abortion are unnecessary. A full generation of Canadians has lived without a law and we are better off because of it.

Canada is the first country in the world to prove that abortion care can be ethically and effectively managed as part of standard healthcare practice, without being controlled by any civil or criminal law. Their success is a role model to the world.

After 26 years with no legal restrictions on abortion whatsoever:
- Doctors and women handle abortion care responsibly.
- Abortion rates are fairly low and have steadily declined since 1997.
- Almost all abortions occur early in pregnancy.
- Maternal deaths and complications from abortion are very low.
- Abortion care is fully funded and integrated into the healthcare system (improving accessibility and safety).
- Further legal precedents have advanced women's equality by affirming an
unrestricted right to abortion.
- Public support for abortion rights has increased.

Responsible abortion care: Since 1988, the Canadian Medical Association (CMA) has successfully managed abortion just as it does for every other medical procedure -- by applying policy and encouraging medical discretion for doctors, subject to a standard code of ethics.

Doctors abide by CMA policy and guidelines, and follow best medical practices based on validated research and clinical protocols. Criminal laws are inappropriate and harmful in medicine because they constrain care and negatively impact the health of patients.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
228. You keep saying you don't join these discussions.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:55 PM
Nov 2013

And you have no interest in having the discussion here. But obviously you just can't resist pushing your anti-choice horseshit over and over and over again.

Poor little thing doesn't want to make herself a target. THEN DON'T. Don't come in here with your insulting, condescending and dangerous bullshit. JUST STOP IT ALREADY.

Ms. Toad

(33,915 posts)
241. Reading comprehension is a really useful skill.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:25 PM
Nov 2013

Go back to the original recent post, because you obviously did not read carefully enough to understand what my position on choice is.

As to my participation in these discussions,

In the first thread, I responded to the question as to why discussion threads on abortion drop like a stone, and why it appears active support for choice among Dems was waning: The rhetoric alienates people who support choice, but who understand that virtually everyone views the contents of a woman's uterus, at some point before birth, as significantly more than a parasite, and who understand that we will never reach anything other than a standpoint until we can have adult discussions about what that means.

In this thread, I responded to a similarly narrow issue - why making unwanted pregnancies rare was not synonymous with making abortions rare. And that part the goal of making abortion rare is actually the full range of reproductive choice in the face of an unexpected pregnancy, not JUST the choice to have an abortion.

I declined to get dragged into the broad substantive discussions in either thread for the reasons I've indicated, and responses like yours are why I decline to get dragged into the broader discussions.

Response to Ms. Toad (Reply #241)

LumosMaxima

(585 posts)
11. It's not really about "saving babies."
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:49 PM
Nov 2013

It's a direct attack on women's self-determination. The ability to control one's own body is the most fundamental human right imaginable and essential to exercising any other kind of independence. THAT is what the anti-abortion crowd really objects to. Their position is, ultimately, a way of denying full personhood to women. If anyone other than the individual woman controls her reproduction, she is not a person, but the property of society, a resource to be managed.

The entire debate comes down to that: are women people or not? Anti-choicers say no, they are not people, and therefore not entitled to full autonomy. These same folks claim to be all about individual rights, so I have pointed out the contradiction to them, and it drives them NUTS. They believe in individual rights, but not full individual rights for women, which means that they do not perceive women as full individuals. I've never yet had one come up with a meaningful rebuttal.

hamsterjill

(15,214 posts)
13. No one should care.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:49 PM
Nov 2013

Your post is absolutely 100% spot on. Abortion is a private matter between a woman, her health care provider and anyone else who she chooses to involve. Her body. Her right. Her decision.

Once that premise is diluted (as we see all the time), then you get into all of the usual arguments about term and what should and should not qualify for a legal abortion.

But if the decision stays private and personal with a woman, you empower the woman, you acknowledge her right to control her own body, you acknowledge her ability to make the wisest choice for her own situation, and you take the political aspect out of it. The world at large would be completely unaware that it was occurring for one, individual woman.

If someone disagrees with abortion, then they should not have one. THAT is where THEIR right ends.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
15. Whenever the abortion conversation comes up, I mentally replace the word
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:50 PM
Nov 2013

Whenever the abortion conversation comes up, I mentally replace the word 'abortion' with 'vasectomy' (in that both are wholly valid medical procedures).

It's an easy way for anyone to hear how dumb our society is for putting in place cultural mores forcing this conversation in the first place.

The friends of mine who have had vasectomies would be absurdly embarrassed if we all began moralizing to them over a few beers about how ethical or unethical having a vasectomy is, or asking them why they decided to choose to have it done over other options, etc., and likely retort with "STFU... it's none of your damn business, no laws were broken, and 'How about we all just mind our own business and stop with the judgments....'"

No argument from me, BB!!!

tkmorris

(11,138 posts)
19. Know what I wanna see?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:51 PM
Nov 2013

I want to see one person comment in this thread that doesn't share your opinion, followed by you NOT torching them with a flamethrower.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
29. Really? I'm discussing. That is your categorization of how you read my comments.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:57 PM
Nov 2013

Which of course, I do not agree.

Please don't try to make this about "me".

aikoaiko

(34,127 posts)
39. And the jury results are in...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:03 PM
Nov 2013


At Fri Nov 8, 2013, 04:54 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Know what I wanna see?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4003590

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Disruptive and uncalled for.

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ismnotwasm

(41,919 posts)
20. Who knows?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:51 PM
Nov 2013

The very thought of any human being forced to be an incubator should be a major incentive for people to mind their own business.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
21. The problem with "rare"
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:52 PM
Nov 2013

and I've heard anti-choicers say this, is that it isn't going to be rare and it won't probably ever be their definition of "rare," so their response ends up being something like, "The safe and legal thing doesn't work to make it rare so we'll have to have restrictions."

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
22. That is the real issue.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:53 PM
Nov 2013

It will never be "rare" and what does rare mean any how. 1 per 300,000,000 women?

aikoaiko

(34,127 posts)
37. Isn't it ok to work toward reducing unwanted pregnancies.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:02 PM
Nov 2013

In your OP you attribute unwanted pregnancies where a woman might want an abortion to:

1. Flawed technology
2. Impulsivity
3. Flawed technology
4. Impulsivity
5. Violence
6. Other

When I say I hope abortion is rare, I'm saying I want public health measures that reduce pregnancies due to the very causes you outlined.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
40. It's an invasive medical procedure. It carries risk.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:03 PM
Nov 2013

Even getting a cavity filled carries risk. I'd like to see cavities become rare, too.

That doesn't mean I want people to suffer with rotted teeth--I want them to not have any NEED for the drilling and filling. Good dental practices and advanced prophylaxis can reduce dental decay....by the same token, better birth control can reduce the need for abortion.

It's not "anti-woman" to want to spare a person from an intrusive medical procedure.

I mean, really: "Safe, legal, and common as eggs for breakfast!" That's just absurd. Hell, everyone get one--let's make it mandatory!

Don't read into that comment more than is there. When people get good medical care as a matter of routine, the need for many invasive procedures is reduced.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
46. Abortion is medical care for many women.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:05 PM
Nov 2013

There will always be a need. Define rare? How do you quantify this?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
72. I'm not saying there will or will not always be a need, and I'm not going to
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:18 PM
Nov 2013

"define rare." On a continuum, it signifies less rather than more.

You define it--you brought it up. How do YOU quantify it? What's rare to you?

And what do you have against women getting better medical care to reduce their need for this legal and private procedure?

If the number of people who have to go through that invasive medical procedure--and it IS that, it's not like getting a skin tag removed--can be reduced, through prophylactic medical care, that's a good thing. Why shouldn't women get medical care that is at least as decent as the dental care people with Cadillac Dental Insurance have?

No one is saying women who need abortions shouldn't get them. But there's nothing wrong with taking steps ahead of potential conceptions to avoid the need for them--that's just sensible.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
74. So you can see the issue with the framing. I assume so because you do not want to quantify "rare".
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:20 PM
Nov 2013

I don't need to quantify, as I reject the framing.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
81. You brought the word up--so I should think you should define it.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:33 PM
Nov 2013

If you don't want to quantify the word you brought into the conversation, I guess we're done. I told you where I saw the word on a continuum, but I guess that wasn't enough.

I'm not going to get wrapped up in drama, here. It's not my business if a person gets an abortion; that said, from a generic, risk-averse perspective, if anyone can find a way to reduce a need to be tossed on a table, given drugs, and being subjected to a procedure upon their person--no matter what that procedure is, be it heart, prostate, womb, or tooth--and still retain their good health in a manner that is acceptable to them--then there's nothing wrong with that. Most normal people would call that an advancement in medicine. The goal is for the doctor to have no need to interfere. If the patient is given the means to prevent the interference of a doctor, well, good for them.

Trying to make a desire for people to be able to reduce risk by reducing necessity in a medical setting into an opposition to a procedure that's none of my damn business is just not flying with me.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
87. LOL. Anyone reading will know that the person wanting to use the term
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:43 PM
Nov 2013

should be the one to quantify what "rare" means in their opinion.

Not the person who rejects the use.

LOL, again.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
90. I invite your attention to the first sentence in your OP message text.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:46 PM
Nov 2013

Who used it first? Why, you did. You used it, now, either define it or just stop the foolishness.

Not sure what you're "LOL" ing about, but this has become very pointless in a hurry.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
102. I invite you to comprehend the post. I don't think it can be quantified.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:55 PM
Nov 2013

So, if you feel it should be rare, you quantify it. Because your insistence on using the term leads on to believe that in some way it is quantifiable. The burden is on you.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
280. If "rare" can't be quantified, then why are you demanding that I do that?
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 04:14 PM
Nov 2013

Why use a word that can't be quantified, per YOU? And then turn around and demand others do your work for you?

If I say "Abortion should be fligglebutt" and you ask me "what's fligglebutt?" and I turn around and demand that YOU define it, well, that's precisely what you are doing to me.

The difference between "fligglebutt" and "rare," though, is that you can look up the latter term in a dictionary.

If you really NEED a definition, start with Mirriam Webster. And stop haranguing people who are unquestioningly pro-choice. Find real enemies, why don't you?

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
88. in context. the OP is arguing AGAINST ITS USE.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:43 PM
Nov 2013

In part, because it's open to interpretation. and you appear to be arguing for the antiquated phrase.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
93. I'm not "arguing for" anything but good medical care that will obviate the need for
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:49 PM
Nov 2013

invasive procedures that often occur as a consequence of a lack of said care.

I guess, if you want to insist that I am arguing "for" anything, I'm arguing "for" quality preventive medicine.

For everyone.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
112. Well, I have, repeatedly, and many times down the years, too, and if you weren't
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:02 PM
Nov 2013

so busy looking for "enemies" you might realize that.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
113. You were contending that the use of "rare" meant that.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:04 PM
Nov 2013

It does not. Look through this thread.

PS my agreement was to your last sentence in that post.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
251. Meant what? Rare means rare? You introduced the word.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 03:53 AM
Nov 2013

Not sure what you're trying to do, here.

I think I have been quite clear as to my views. I wish you would do likewise.

I get the sense that you want to badger anyone who doesn't have the same POV towards the word "rare" as you do, irrespective of their views on choice.

Don't you think that's a bit absurd, to demand that sort of thing? Particularly since you seem unable to articulate your definition of "rare" so that people will understand your anger?

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
48. Every woman who could have an abortion otherwise has to go through pregnancy and birth
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:06 PM
Nov 2013

Pregnancy and birth have a greater risk than abortion.

The option isn't between abortion and no risk. It's between abortion and something with even higher risk.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
58. No--not necessarily--and that's none of my business, anyway.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:11 PM
Nov 2013

Why a person wants an abortion is no concern of mine. IF they want one is no concern of mine.

But if someone can avoid risk-- and not even get into that "could have an abortion" territory by not getting pregnant in the first place, because they had good medical care to include preventive medicine--then the choice is between needing the procedure, and not needing the procedure because they had good medical care ahead of time.

It's like needing that dental filling, and not needing it--because instead of cleaning your teeth with a toothpick and a rag, you got the cleaning, the fluoride treatment, and the lecture from the hygenist about brushing/flossing.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
62. yes NO ONE says this about other medical procedures
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:12 PM
Nov 2013

so your dentist analogy is a really dishonest comparison

MADem

(135,425 posts)
78. I do--look at angioplasty. There's a lot of argument about that as a procedure.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:26 PM
Nov 2013

There's a lot of argument about doing it on people who don't need it, and there are different ways of doing it, and the discussions are quite vigorous about when/where and who needs it. And a lot of people can avoid it entirely with PREVENTIVE care--regular checkups, healthy diet, medications when called for, etc.

And prostate operations--those used to be the "go to" default...remove the prostate the minute the PSA gets squirrelly. Now, that has changed to a "watchful waiting" strategy by many MDs. Even when they think action is mandated, they will sometimes use the radioactive seeds (like Kerry got) rather than take out the knife. Less invasive. Less intrusive. Less RISK.

And it wasn't that long ago in the big scheme of things that filling a tooth was unheard of--it was just yanked out, not saved, no fillings, no root canals...the whole science of dentistry has evolved enormously, and prophylactic care is a HUGE part of it all.

There's nothing "dishonest" about saying that if a person can avoid having an intrusive medical procedure, that they might want to do that. And people ARE saying that--about angioplasty, about prostate removals, and even about dental care.

And if they can avoid an intrusive procedure with preventive care, well, good for them.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
79. there is something terribly dishonest about saying that a procedure
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:31 PM
Nov 2013

that a person wants/needs is something they might not want to do.

your other examples are not ones where disease has already occurred. if this argument wanting a reduction in unwanted pregnancies by offering low cost or no cost birth control to girls and women, no one would disagree.

to me saying abortions should be rare, is not at all saying that as a society we should do more to reduce unplanned pregnancies but rather a judgment on those who have abortions

MADem

(135,425 posts)
84. Your use of the word "dishonest" is both loaded and offensive. It's also uncivil.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:40 PM
Nov 2013

I don't know about you, but I don't like the dentist. That said, I know it's "good for me" so I go--not as often as I should, but I go. My goal in going is PREVENTION of disease, though I'm not always lucky in that regard.

Disease HAS already occurred when a doctor is recommending an angioplasty, or a prostate removal/radiation procedure. People get their tooth drilled because they've got a bit of rot up in there. But preventive care can prevent the need for those procedures.

I don't see the phrase as a judgment at all. In fact, it's none of my business what people do, medically, so how can I "judge" anyone? I do think if people can avoid going under the knife, that's great for them. And that's the essence of my view on this subject. No morality, no shame (why not shame the candy eater for his cavity? The prostate patient for his heredity? It's silly. It's just medicine).

I do think some folks like to fight about this topic, though, and they like to accuse folks of having views they don't hold, just to get their blood boiling.

Eh.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
147. WRONG! There's pubic relations campaigns against wiping out cancer & getting vaccinated>>>
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:32 PM
Nov 2013

So while it's not appropriate to eliminate abortion… it's important to make sure it's used less often since it is an invasive procedure that can often be prevented.

appleannie1

(5,044 posts)
49. By saying they would like it to be rare covers every one of the things you mention. I just
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:08 PM
Nov 2013

don't think it should be commonly used as the only form of birth control used by people that deal in sex as a gamble or crap shoot. I think that birth control should be available to anyone that wants it. It should be covered the same way that other drugs and health supplies are covered. I think that good sex education should be part of the school curriculum. I also feel that part of that should be good education on sexually transmitted disease. Another thing I believe in is work place child care or government sponsored child care so working women do not feel they have to choose abortion simply because they can't afford to care for a child. If all of the things were provided, abortion would be much more rare than it is today and statistics in countries that provide those things prove that. That does not mean I have my nose in anyone's business, it simply means I believe in a common sense approach that results in abortion being rare.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
50. Medieval chastity belt and the original witch hunt fixation. Current day Republican values.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:08 PM
Nov 2013

Many of the hunted "witches", back in the good old days, were those who knew the herbs for contraception and abortion which they claimed led to fornication and adultery.

It was also because the only true way to know the true father or heir (before DNA), was to monitor the woman's sex life.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chastity_belt

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
54. For the sake of argument
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:08 PM
Nov 2013

What is a child 15 minutes before birth? Can it be cut out like an ingrown toenail?

Is there a difference between a tumor, infected appendix, 24hr embryo and a 36wk fetus? If you could only remove 3 of the 4 which would you leave and why?

Legally the moment a Dr. decrees a child has been born they go from Parasite to Human. From a non-legal opinion is that realistic? Does the Dog rate more rights in the seconds before?

I don't want to see some Fetus having legal rights. But as that potential child becomes more and more human as the weeks go by. I think society has an expectation that something more than waking on the wrong side of the bed is behind a decision.

Sheldon Cooper

(3,724 posts)
162. Hahahaha!!!! Please find me one, ONE, case where a woman had an abortion
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:50 PM
Nov 2013

in the 279th day of pregnancy because she 'got up on the wrong side of the bed'. This should be good!

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
288. Theoretical Construct
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 11:59 AM
Nov 2013

If you take a society and strip away all morality/societal pressure and culture. More to my point is the same societal forces that prevent such a thing from taking place is what is also being used to shame women for having sex, etc. It's not a question of if the "bar" is there but only where society sets it. Societies input is what dictates our collective behaviors outside of what is legal. Such as holding a door, treating employees fairly or not, etc.

smokey nj

(43,853 posts)
209. Do you realize how offensive and misogynistic this post is?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:28 PM
Nov 2013

"Waking up on the wrong side of the bed?" Seriously, dude? Do you think "flighty women" get to their third trimester and suddenly change their minds? Is that honestly what you think?

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
285. An example of absurdity
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 11:47 AM
Nov 2013

Unless society is willing to keep it's collective mouth shut even in the most absurd case then by definition there is some gray area where societies interest goes from none to voicing an opinion, which essentially is shaming and coercion. While in the USA today there is more than enough societal coercion to make any such extreme unthinkable. In a theoretical discussion it has it's place. IMO Society needs more than just legal limits. Holding a door for an elderly or Disabled person isn't a legal requirement. It's enforced by societal pressures outside of the legal system.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
286. ever hear of Canada?
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 11:51 AM
Nov 2013

They have had zero legal restrictions on abortion for 26 years. Zero. None. Doctors have ethical boards and standards. Women and physicians can be trusted.

I know.... Crazy, right?

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
289. Where do Dr. Ethics come from?
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 12:02 PM
Nov 2013

Those Dr's Standards and Ethics are derived from Society. If you remove societies inputs there are no Ethics, only the Binary Legal or Not.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
290. Sorry you feel that way
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 12:06 PM
Nov 2013

It's probably more poor ability to explain my view that all law and morality comes from the people. Murder being only a crime because people collectively "feel" it should be. But that's my detached view of systems.

smokey nj

(43,853 posts)
291. That view caused the death of Dr. George Tiller.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 12:38 PM
Nov 2013

It's at the top of the anti-choicer's hit parade. If you think your argument is original and profound, you're sorely mistaken.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
293. Equating my view to Dr. Tiller's killer?
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 12:43 PM
Nov 2013

Not sure how you get from
No Societal Comment necessary till we get to the Absurd
with the whack jobs that condone murder. But if that's what floats your boat.


smokey nj

(43,853 posts)
294. Your "theoretical" argument is a bullet point for anti-choicers.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 12:59 PM
Nov 2013

It's one that they make all the time to justify intervention. There are people who believe that you're "theoretical" situation is common place. I don't understand what you think your accomplishing by bringing it up.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
295. Breaking the Echo Chamber
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 02:33 PM
Nov 2013

While I hope that DU mostly has a single unconditional support attitude. Outside of DU there are many moderates that are potential allies but may not be in lock step with wording or some relatively trivial detail. Hopefully I can help people to see the subtlety in difference between the H8'er and one who is a potential ally. So I take a position that doesn't fit cleanly into one box or another.

wercal

(1,370 posts)
56. Same reason I'd like to see broken arms more rare
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:10 PM
Nov 2013

An abortion doesn't happen in a vacuum. It means the mother (and possibly father) have to shell out a lot of money. It means the mother may experience emotional stress (similar to worrying about any other medical procedure). It means the mother may experience physical pain (similar to other medical procedures). And of course, like any other medical procedure, there is always the risk of complications.

I am confident that the 'rare' language that was once in the platform was meant to bolster birth control and sex-ed efforts. This makes perfect sense, because getting an abortion has more potential negative complications than wearing a condom. IOW, it was an acknowledgement that the sensible first line of defense in birth control certainly shouldn't be abortion.

So, while I really don't know why you are fixating on this, and knowing that you verbally attack anybody with an opposing view, I'll go ahead and say it.

I want abortions to be more rare.

There, I said it.


progressoid

(49,825 posts)
69. Politics
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:16 PM
Nov 2013

It's politicians' attempt to appease both sides. Basically, "I say I'm pro-choice, but golly I wish the womens didn't have to make that choice."

For me, I don't care. It's none of my business.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
77. I don't wish the trauma of an unplanned pregnancy or having no other choice than abortion on anyone.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:25 PM
Nov 2013

And that's where "rare" for me comes in.

A woman shouldn't have to choose between continuing a pregnancy and keeping her job, or keeping a roof over her head, or starving.

Union Scribe

(7,099 posts)
92. Take your own advice
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:48 PM
Nov 2013

As long as someone isn't trying to limit choice, it's really none of your business what their personal opinion is.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
97. So, you don't think that trying to make women feel bad about abortion is not an attempt to limit it?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:51 PM
Nov 2013

Or saying that it should be rare... seems pretty limiting to me.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
130. simply stating on a message board what one feels
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:04 PM
Nov 2013

About abortion doesn't limit a woman's right to choose in any way, shape or form. Not at all.

If a few words on a screen effects a person so much then they have issues and should probably seek counseling. I

Major Nikon

(36,814 posts)
96. Just the other day I got a request for a phone survey from some wingnut organization
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:50 PM
Nov 2013

I was bored so I decided to play along.

The first question was, "Do you consider yourself pro-life or pro-choice?"

I told them I was pro-abortion. They hung up.

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
98. like it or not people are entitled to
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:52 PM
Nov 2013

their beliefs. I could ask the OP why do people care about the death penalty? Or saving seals? Or cracking. The real issue is forcing one's belief on another. I can't force someone to like abortion... If they don't.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
106. No one is forcing one to like abortion.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:57 PM
Nov 2013

Others are however, actually trying to force others to not be able to obtain an abortion.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
99. The people who are sincerely against abortion
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 06:52 PM
Nov 2013

believe that they are saving human beings from murder.

I don't agree with them at all.

But that's the argument.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
116. To be fair, the debate over exactly when a fetus/infant gains the protection of the law
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:11 PM
Nov 2013

is a reasonable one. If there was no reasonable debate, abortion would not be the wedge issue it is today - it would have been decided one way or the other by now.

What is decidedly unreasonable is objecting to a woman's right to choose while at the same time shutting down attempts to prevent unwanted pregnancies (e.g. sex education and contraception).

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
117. Agreed
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:15 PM
Nov 2013

...although the more extreme Catholics might argue that contraception is almost as bad as abortion (because God wanted the kid to be conceived).

At that point, I think you have to say, "prove it or stay away from my laws!"

ismnotwasm

(41,919 posts)
140. The logic fails when you realize that every single pregnancy carries risk
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:24 PM
Nov 2013

To women up to and including death.

Every one.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
248. Yes, but these folks don't value the mother's life as much as the new soul's
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 12:53 AM
Nov 2013

So that argument doesn't sway them.

alc

(1,151 posts)
111. some opponents are assholes
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:02 PM
Nov 2013

But for many, the answer is the same as if you asked 150 years ago

Why would anyone care whether someone kills his slave or not?

The question about the slave is offensive. The obvious answer is "because the slave is a human". The answer many abortion opponents will give is "because the fetus is a human". You may think that's stupid, but it doesn't change their beliefs.

If they think the fetus is a human, then it is their business, just like it was slavery opponent's business to end slavery. I'm pro-choice. I also realized long ago there's no reason to discuss "details" with believers. It's worth discussing the basis of abortion stance but if they believe the fetus is human we just disagree on everything else. When the fetus becomes a human is a possible discussion. The only other possible discussion is why the would allow a human created from rape to be aborted (and that doesn't usually get you anywhere other than them admitting that there shouldn't be any exceptions).

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
115. We are talking about people who contend they are pro choice.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:05 PM
Nov 2013

Yet, look through this thread and all the reasons for wanting it to be "rare".

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
190. I don't understand your problem with it being "rare"
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:02 PM
Nov 2013

Isn't birth control better than an abortion? Shouldn't we do everything we can to make this invasive procedure as unnecessary as possible? Abortion is way riskier than a condom or an IUD or the pill. Why wouldn't people want it to be rare, it's an invasive medical procedure with inherent risks.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
191. Saying it should be rare legitimizes efforts to restrict access to abortion.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:03 PM
Nov 2013

It's a linguistic trick of affirming the right to abortion while simultaneously devaluing it.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024004413

Lithos

(26,397 posts)
118. because I'm insecure d*mmit!
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:15 PM
Nov 2013

It's all about me, my insecurities and my fear you are cheating on me. Sex outside of my control is immoral and you are to blame for any issues. Mommy would never have done this.

</sarcasm> <--- Please note!!!

****

Back to reality - I agree with you completely. It's a woman's choice. I am pro-choice and pro-life (like Wendy).

L-

Mira

(22,378 posts)
121. It's so simple
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:21 PM
Nov 2013

If you are against abortion, don't have one.
We've all heard it, but it's the bottom line.

Personal:
I'm the oldest of seven. Grew up in real poverty. Was taken out of school from one day to the next and put to work in a job already procured by my Dad to help bring up the kids.

When I was about 35 my Mom visited me and we sat up really really late with a bottle of Scotch the night before her flight home. She confessed to having had 2 abortions between child 6 and 7.
First,
I cried a few tears for potential siblings I never knew. Then I went on my knees at her knees and thanked her.
I'm still exceedingly grateful.

It's the people who are on the planet already, and alive and kicking and trying to survive, who are the important ones.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
127. I had a 3 year old when I had a ectopic at 5 weeks
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:55 PM
Nov 2013

WHO do you think I cared more about? My daughter was crying when I left for the hospsital, "Mommy, I don't want you DIE". Now you can contrast this with these stupid, anti-choice people putting words into a fetus saying, "Mommy, don't kill me." Well, my 3 year old was fully capable of thinking and talking herself. Nobody had to make up words for her to say. She is 34 years old today and still remembers that day. She also said to me, only a few years ago, she would rather have her MOMMY than any brother or sister.

The anti-choice people are very dangerous and clueless. The ALREADY BORN have far, far more rights than any embryo or fetus. Let them talk to my now 34 year old daughter if they don't believe that.

Ineeda

(3,626 posts)
122. A term that I despise, which is used by both pro-and anti-choice
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:29 PM
Nov 2013

is abortion on demand, as if it's a bad thing.
I totally agree BB, and this term, used by many, enrages me. Because it's nobody's business, it should absolutely be "on demand." I despise all the waffling on some of the 'pro-choice' side: that abortion is okay if pregnancy is the result of rape or incest, but questionable or not really talked about if for any of the reasons BB itemizes in the OP. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHY a woman wants to terminate her pregnancy. If she wants one, it's up to her, and her alone.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
131. Regardless of why a woman has gotten pregnant, it's up to her to determine her own future.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:05 PM
Nov 2013

What if having a baby confines her to a life of poverty for both her and the child?

But it doesn't matter what the reason for having gotten pregnant or the reason for getting an abortion. It's her right to decide. And no one's right to force her to be an incubator for 9 months.

karadax

(284 posts)
134. Male birth control pills are the key IMO.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:10 PM
Nov 2013

I'd love to fully equalize the decision making when it comes to conception. It exists to a degree for men but it's not quite like popping a magic pill. It kind of makes the OP a moot point to an extent if a guy has greater control over efficacy of his sperm. Most people wrongly associate abortion with irresponsibility / bad decision making on one persons part. If men can get a simpler, less risky method of birth control shy of abstinence lots of people wouldn't care about a woman's body as much.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
137. Because they view it as killing a baby
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:15 PM
Nov 2013

If one holds that belief, one will be very much opposed to anyone having an abortion. As opposed as they would be to someone murdering a newborn child.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
142. Because some people really, really, really like to tell other people what to do.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:26 PM
Nov 2013


Me, I have enough on my plate worrying about my own body.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
153. I want to see it become rare because
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:37 PM
Nov 2013

in many cases, it's proof that we are FAILING in other areas.

Rape rates.
Contraceptive access.
Family planning/sex education.
Others.

It's a final line of defense that should not be tested nearly as often as it is, because there are cheaper, safer, front-end measures that prevent the whole thing from becoming an issue.

I know some women, including a roommate that had abortions. Roomie openly wished she had known more about the contraceptive she was intermittently using at the time. That's a public safety/health issue that can be addressed. That's a big red F on the report card of public health education in our local school system (engendered by right wing fuckery to promote abstinence only education on 'equal footing' with comprehensive sex ed.).


Abortion is actually safer than giving birth, but you know what's safer than abortion? Never getting pregnant unintentionally in the first place.

That takes good public policy on public health/education, and we're just not there yet.
I earnestly desire to take this issue away from the right wing, by making it no longer an issue at all.


Edit: Essentially, I would like to help build a world in which the evangelical right is holding nothing more than an empty sack full of crocodile tears about abortions that aren't happening anymore anyway, because unintended pregnancy is a thing of the past.

If they want to whine about medically necessary abortions after that, I will man the FUCK out of that barricade without apology.

Lobo27

(753 posts)
155. In all honesty a part of me is against abortion, but my
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 08:42 PM
Nov 2013

strong support of free will trumps that part of me. It is not my life, I can not make their decisions for them, nor should I be able to stop them from their decisions.

The part of me that is against abortion is the part that wants to see life flourish, something like if the child had been born perhaps they would have been the next Einstein or Tesla etc.

But then I think, If the would be child came to term and the mother or family lived in horrible conditions what kind of life would the child live. Why bring them to the world only to suffer. The child services system is a mess, the GoP crusade to negate mother and child any services that may benefit them.

Some of my thoughts, but at the end of the day nothing more then thoughts. FREE WILL!!!!

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
246. Actually, everyone is a genius.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 12:26 AM
Nov 2013

But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life thinking it's stupid.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
186. I've had three woman come to me while making this decision.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:52 PM
Nov 2013

And another tell me about her abortion afterwards, each unsolicited.

Not one of them wanted an abortion.

Not one of them wanted to be in a position in which they would need to make this choice.

All four agonized over the decision.

I'd like these situations to be rare.

So rare, that actual abortions also become rare as a result.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
187. For a lot of religious men, it is an issue of them being able to control women in all ways.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 09:53 PM
Nov 2013

They don't give a crap about the fetuses; that is just their cover story.

 

Tierra_y_Libertad

(50,414 posts)
194. It's not about abortion. It's about naughty ladies not being punished with childbirth.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:04 PM
Nov 2013

Some people are aghast, (not to mention envious), that some people dare to enjoy life.

MH1

(17,537 posts)
199. Well, in my fantasy world,
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:12 PM
Nov 2013

birth control would be highly accessible and second nature to almost anyone old enough to have sex.

In my fantasy world, rapes wouldn't happen, or would be a helluva lot rarer than they are today.

In my fantasy world, people would eat more nutritious food and ingest fewer nasty chemicals and therefore would be at much lower risk for problem pregnancies and deformed fetuses.

So, in my fantasy world, abortion WOULD be rarer, because there just wouldn't be as much need for it. And that would be a good thing, because an abortion is an operation - unless we are talking about a medication abortion, and I would also prefer to see more access to medication abortions which would further reduce surgical abortions. Any surgery carries risks, and even with a medication abortion you have the possibility of a bad reaction to the drugs. And either way you have the hassle, and we all have busy enough lives as it is.

I understand the argument that saying "safe legal and rare" implies there is something WRONG with having an abortion. But, I'd also like to see coronary bypass operations more rare than they are. That doesn't mean I think it's a bad choice for the person who needs it!

That said, I'm ok with just saying "safe and legal", because the logic of what I said above is probably too complicated for a lot of people, even though it really isn't complicated at all.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
211. I don't believe the "care" is genuine...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:30 PM
Nov 2013

Why are there so many people with extra bedrooms, income, and no children who cry against abortions but aren't willing to adopt any kids? I know people like that.

To avoid killing the fetus, offer to pay expenses and take the child - even if it has serious disabilities - the same as you expect the real mother to do....

Prisons are filled with unwanted children who grew up in homes where no one was home when they came from school, nobody helped with homework, bought clothes or toys, took drugs, saw too many sexual friends, and knew they were unwanted.

It takes more than shooting a doctor who performs abortions or preventing the mother in some way from having one, to raise a child. Some homes are like hell because the kid just wasn't wanted, thru no fault of the child. Save the kid by taking it away from the mother who doesn't want it or shut up.

liberal N proud

(60,300 posts)
226. The same people fighting to stop abortion are against caring for people
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:49 PM
Nov 2013

They are against welfare.
They are against food stamps.
They are against any social program.

But they are pro gun and people killing in certain situations.
They are pro death penalty.


To me it comes across as one of those issues the right uses to pull the fundies in to the huddle when they need them.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
229. Because to those who believe that life begins at conception, abortion is murder.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:58 PM
Nov 2013

And to some of those who believe that life begins somewhat later than contraception, late-term abortion is murder.

These people view abortion as babies being killed, so of course they care.

REP

(21,691 posts)
235. That is a delightful typo
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:10 PM
Nov 2013

I think you meant "conception." But what is conception? When the ovum is fertilized and becomes a zygote? When the zygote becomes a blastocyst and implants? There are 5 days between those two stages - if the zygote does develop into a morula, etc at all, and if the blastocyst does implant properly ... And even then, a great deal of these will fail to develop further.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
238. Ouch, thanks. Awful but kind of funny typo.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:15 PM
Nov 2013

And I agree with you, I was just saying how I think extremists look at it.

William769

(55,124 posts)
230. Same reason They care if I sleep with a man or not.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:59 PM
Nov 2013

And the answer is the same, none of their fucking business!

P.S. Sorry for the potty mouth.

Proud Liberal Dem

(24,355 posts)
233. I always feel that people whom worry about such things
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 11:03 PM
Nov 2013

have too much time on their hands and probably have their own personal issues that they are neglecting to attend to. I find that it's hard enough to concentrate on everything going on in my own life that I can't even imagine the time and energy it would take to worry about somebody else's life. I think that it's, frankly, unhealthy to spend what precious little time we all have thinking about what other people are doing. *ugh*

 

NoOneMan

(4,795 posts)
257. Honestly, doesnt this also apply when pro-choicers brow-beat other pro-choicers for not using the...
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 07:21 AM
Nov 2013

the new approved code language?

I mean really? How much time on their hands do some of these people have to divisively bicker over narrowly framed arguments regarding a single word ("rare&quot and chastise other liberals as terrible right-wing nuts because they haven't jumped on the language-train yet?

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
272. Reading through this thread it is obvious it is not just about a phrase.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 09:06 AM
Nov 2013

There's some meaning behind it and why people are insistent upon using it.

Fair game for discussion. Sorry you would like to see that discussion limited.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
247. And your post was??
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 12:30 AM
Nov 2013

If you have something to add to the topic, I welcome your response. Angry, false comments are just that, angry and false.

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bananas

(27,509 posts)
266. Jury voted 5-1 to HIDE IT.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 08:35 AM
Nov 2013

I alerted on it, but now I think it might have been sarcasm.
NoOneMan was apparently quoting boston bean, but left out the quote marks.
I apologize if I misunderstood.

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bananas

(27,509 posts)
269. You "won", what the hell do you care.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 08:59 AM
Nov 2013

Congratulations.
No attempt at a coming together of minds, as far as I can see.
But what do you care, you are so jaded, you just want revenge,
and if you can't get revenge on the people who hurt you,
you'll screw over some innocent and pretend it was revenge.

boston bean

(36,186 posts)
273. huh, I didn't alert, I didn't serve on any jury.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 09:14 AM
Nov 2013

I simply commented after the fact on a hidden post that was quite a mis representation of what I stated. Couldn't comment to a hidden post, could I?

I'm not really sure where you are coming from, but it really feels over the top.

I'm not into revenge. That's why I don't alert. If you had not alerted it would have more than likely remained. Cause even you think his attack on me (make no defense of it, it was directed personally to me with link stalking and contempt). Yet for you, it appears that is ok, and now we should all feel bad for this poster, cause you feel like your alert was wrong... Thanks for the support and understanding....

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
252. this is a highly nuanced topic
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 04:15 AM
Nov 2013

And the constant bickering doesn't accomplish much.

Everyone has a right to their own opinion and the choice of each person should be respected. Who's place is it to tell another what to think? Especially over trivial nuances. I don't think that everyone will be all on the same page concering this topic ever. The right to choose is a big tent with many different ways of accomplishing it.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
253. I can't even read all the replies to this thread - many are disgusting
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 04:29 AM
Nov 2013

It takes a lot of fucking audacity to insist a woman must feel sorrow or regret about having an abortion.

It is paternalistic, woman-shaming nonsense.

I hate this "rare" meme that's going around now.

It is none of anybody's goddamn business besides the woman making the decision.

Period.

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
260. And more immediately after you post.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 07:40 AM
Nov 2013

It's fucking disgusting.

I cannot even believe this shit is allowed to continue day after fucking day here.

LostOne4Ever

(9,267 posts)
254. Because some people see the loss of life as a regrettable but feel the woman's autonomy is paramount
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 04:33 AM
Nov 2013

We are liberals. We get involved in things none of our buisness all the time. How dare we have an opinion on animal rights. We are not those animals it is none of our buisness who wants to wear a fur coat or not? We are middle class, why should we care for the poor? None of our buisness. How dare we oppose the death penalty! Its none of our buisness!

1) You are right
2) Yeah that happens
3) Agree
4) Yep.
5) Exactly.
6) That is not an argument against wanting it to be rare. It like the other 5 points are pro-choice arguments and WE ARE PRO-CHOICE. WE SUPPORT HAVING AN ABORTION RIGHTS FOR ALL THE REASONS YOU LIST!

Many of us simply see the loss of life as regrettable and would like to minimize it in some way that does not infringe on the woman's autonomy.

We are not the ones making judgments here. The ones trying to shame those of us who want it rare are the ones making the judgments. You are intentionally trying to associate our position with ones we don't support and you are talking to us as if we were anti-abortion rights activist.

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NoOneMan

(4,795 posts)
255. Maybe its everyone's business
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 07:14 AM
Nov 2013

Are we all in this together? Do we want to reduce harm and trauma in a society at large? Do we want to reduce costly procedures if possible so we can spend such resources more effectively to promote the best aggregate health outcomes?

Or do we just not give a fuck what the nation pays for health care and how the money is tossed around and if any of it could be prevented by the state educating people, providing free services & preventative measure, and promoting wellness.

Seriously....what does a liberal believe? That there is a place for the state to attempt to promote the general welfare of the people? Or that everyone can do whatever the fuck they want whenever without anyone caring at all, no matter what it costs, if it could be reduced and what harm it causes? Liberals or libertarians?

Bottom line: If a state can cost-effectively run programs and provide services that prevent costly, risky or traumatic procedures and make them rare, thereby reducing harm and freeing up resources for other critical health expenditures, then it should absolutely seeks to do so on everyone's behalf.

If the state can, while making a procedure safe, legal and accessible, also promote its rarity with prevention programs, then we should all support this as liberals.

bananas

(27,509 posts)
262. Jury voted 1-5 to LEAVE IT.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 08:06 AM
Nov 2013

I agree with you, I was juror 2 4 or 6, I don't think an explanation was necessary.

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Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
271. Ask the Francis fans. DU is not strongly Pro Choice because DU is a promtional center for
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 09:05 AM
Nov 2013

Anti Choice world leaders. They push them hard, I expect the 'We Love Rick Warren' threads to show up any moment. Francis is a preacher who says abortion is murder of babies, and on DU he is considered a living saint whose opinions must be repeatedly endorsed.

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