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Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 05:42 AM Nov 2013

I lost a dear friend suddenly yesterday.

I'd never had the opportunity to meet her face-to-face. I met her on the much derided Facebook through another friend. She lived on the other side of the world. A blythe spirit, a free spirit she danced lightly and brightly on the earth. A pagan and a mystic now obscured from us by the mists of her beloved Avalon. A kind and loving soul. Her passage through this life so different from the steady one foot in front of the other treading that I, a woman of the Midwestern prairies, have measured my journey.

Through the health problems she had experienced over the past few months, she exuded light and joy. The suddenness of her death has left her friends and family breathless and stunned. This beautiful woman now mingles her bright energy with the light of stars. May we learn from her journey.

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I lost a dear friend suddenly yesterday. (Original Post) Skidmore Nov 2013 OP
What a loving tribute annabanana Nov 2013 #1
" H2O Man Nov 2013 #4
Deepest sympathy sis malaise Nov 2013 #2
I'm so sorry, Skidmore! pnwmom Nov 2013 #3
Sincere condolences left-of-center2012 Nov 2013 #5
I am sorry for your loss. Behind the Aegis Nov 2013 #6
A beautiful tribute! JNelson6563 Nov 2013 #7
... Mnemosyne Nov 2013 #8
So sorry tavernier Nov 2013 #9
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Your arthritisR_US Nov 2013 #10
I'm sorry for your loss... Phentex Nov 2013 #11
My heart breaks for you Skidmore... ScreamingMeemie Nov 2013 #12
I'm so sorry for your loss warrior1 Nov 2013 #13
That's really a beautiful statement - I hope closeupready Nov 2013 #14
Thank you for this PasadenaTrudy Nov 2013 #15
You are such a gifted writer Skidmore. Auntie Bush Nov 2013 #16
truly beautiful words for your friend -- a wonderful tribute nashville_brook Nov 2013 #17
What a beautiful tribute for someone that must have been a beautiful spirit. nt cry baby Nov 2013 #18

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
5. Sincere condolences
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:45 AM
Nov 2013

I too suddenly lost a friend (of 40 years) last October from a sudden heart attack.
We need to enjoy and value the people in our lives, not knowing how long we have with them.

Behind the Aegis

(53,921 posts)
6. I am sorry for your loss.
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:49 AM
Nov 2013

Isn't it amazing that we don't even need to meet someone to have feelings for another? There are some that say you have to meet a person, know them, interact with them in person before we can "feel." I know there are people on DU for whom I have come to have feelings.

Your thread, even without knowing (in person) this woman, has made others recognize a loved one has been lost (moved on) and made others share in your loss. That is amazing too.

She brought light to your life and now you have shared it with us.

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
7. A beautiful tribute!
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 06:54 AM
Nov 2013

You do her great justice Skidmore. It sounds like the world is better off for the time she spent among us.

Julie

tavernier

(12,369 posts)
9. So sorry
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 08:14 AM
Nov 2013

I rarely open these posts but I just happened to be thinking of my dear friend who suddenly and unexpectedly passed this spring, when I clicked on DU and saw your post.

Ours was also a long distance friendship, mostly conducted online, although we met initially through a travel tour in Europe where we were more or less thrown together, neither of us looking for or expecting a new close friendship that late in our lives. But The Lord works in mysterious ways, and my life was blessed and enriched with her spirit.

You have given your friend a beautiful tribute.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
12. My heart breaks for you Skidmore...
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:51 AM
Nov 2013
It's been a horrible month...where too many bright lights have been extinguished far too early.
 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
14. That's really a beautiful statement - I hope
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 11:10 AM
Nov 2013

when I go, someone says something equally lovely about me.

Condolences to you.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
15. Thank you for this
Mon Nov 11, 2013, 11:38 AM
Nov 2013

I lost my sister one month after her cancer dx 3 yrs ago. I still can't get my head around it and feel that my spark inside me has been extinguished. I like the image of her mingling with the stars...

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