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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsShould it be against the law to call a woman a slut when she's not?
Just wondering.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(130,537 posts)At common law it's slander per se; you can sue and recover without having to prove damages, since it's considered to be such a grave insult that damages are presumed.
Warpy
(114,615 posts)and that is also actionable. I hope she sues. The only place that man is capable of feeling pain is his wallet.
Booster
(10,021 posts)already on the internet, I'm not sure. lol
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)We have always had name calling.
I get upset when the media says that the reason women are so angry with Rush is because he called Fluke a slut.
The reason I am so angry is that Rush said Fluke should videotape herself having sex and then post the video online so he and his followers could watch. That image is most disturbing! I think Rush is sick.
Raine1967
(11,676 posts)I despise what he did he called her those names -- I am going to assume that most women did as well. Sadly -- this is somethign that we are used to, even in the face of not accepting such behaviour.
The media does focus on this -- I think this helps to further the age old false meme that women are too sensitive. (not true -- I don't think I have to explain this.... )
It is the demand -- and it was a demand --- to produce a sex tape. That is literally requesting sexual soliciation. That REALLY makes me angry and that is something that the media is not focusing on.
MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)Criminalizing speech is a terrible idea. Besides, "slut" is a subjective term. One person's slut is another person's hero.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Don't know what happened to them, but the way it went was if your reputation was ruined by gossip and lies or slander you could sue the slanderers to recompense for ruining your life so to speak. Every now and then you would read of such a lawsuit in the papers. I believe Carol Burnett was able to sue the National Enquirer under that law because they did a story on her being a drunk. I would really think that what Rush did to that young woman would fall under this law if it still existed.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(130,537 posts)if someone has made false statements about you that damage your reputation. Many times, though, people prefer not to sue because it draws more attention to them. In many states you can't sue until the publication has had a chance to publish a retraction.
nolabear
(43,850 posts)Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)Gore1FL
(22,951 posts)Zalatix
(8,994 posts)That Florida law is why I posted this thread.
Canuckistanian
(42,290 posts)Even though it's only a misdemeanor, I was shocked to find ANY law against insulting a woman in Florida.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)Quotes added for sarcasm's sake.
notadmblnd
(23,720 posts)DURHAM D
(33,054 posts)If the men in the various state legislatures, both Republicans and Democrats, had passed the ERA instead of voting against it that pesky Florida law would have just gone up in smoke.
But they told us they were just trying to "protect" us. Guess this is what they meant.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)elleng
(141,926 posts)Subject to claim of slander? Yes.
dogknob
(2,431 posts)glowing
(12,233 posts)be more than warranted. There is no reason to make a law against calling people names. We've never made a law against the N-word, but most people recognize its something you shouldn't toss around.
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)A boss shouldn't be allowed to call his employees sluts, even if they work in the porn industry.
blue neen
(12,465 posts)It's NO ONE'S business to judge a woman's sex life or to decide what name to call her based on such.
Actually, the same goes for men. The private lives of consenting adults should just plain be off limits.
If a person is being hypocritical about it all--like Newt Gingrich--that could be a different story.
enough
(13,760 posts)The way to think about it is:
"Is it against the law to call a person a nigg*r when he's not?"
The word itself presupposes the right of society to put a label on a person and assume it has actual meaning. The word itself assumes some people are worthy of respect and some are worthy only of contempt.
shcrane71
(1,721 posts)Well said!
Lone_Star_Dem
(28,158 posts)I don't know if you're familiar with this application of the language, but this one is a good example of reclaiming the verbiage.
Slut walks against rape.
http://whyy.org/cms/radiotimes/2011/08/04/slut-walk-feminists-fight-back-against-rape/
This usage needs to be legal since it does make one hell of a point.
bigwillq
(72,790 posts)But I don't agree with a radio talk show host that gets paid millions to use the word against an innocent party.
blue neen
(12,465 posts)It shouldn't be against the law, but it sure as heck should be a word that leaves our selective language.
bowens43
(16,064 posts)kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)However, it is enough of an insult that, should the woman in question deck the guy or kick him in the groin, THAT should not be considered a crime.
mucifer
(25,667 posts)slackmaster
(60,567 posts)WTF are you talking about?
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)slackmaster
(60,567 posts)Your idea is even more bizarre than I had thought.
onenote
(46,142 posts)Stupid, antiquated criminal defamation laws that are based on the notion that women need a greater degree of state-sponsored protection from offending speech than men are, thankfully, going the way of the buggy whip. But I haven't been able to find a case holding that a criminal defamation law of this sort is unconstitutional (although any criminal defamation law that doesn't require a showing of actual malice is unconstitutional under a 1964 SCOTUS decision).
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)slackmaster
(60,567 posts)I didn't grok your innuendo.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)onenote
(46,142 posts)Misdemeanor criminal libel and slander remains on the books in several states, including Florida and Virginia. The definition is a throwback to a different era. For example, here is the Florida language:
836.04 Defamation.Whoever speaks of and concerning any woman, married or unmarried, falsely and maliciously imputing to her a want of chastity, shall be guilty of a misdemeanor of the first degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083.
History.s. 1, ch. 3460, 1883; RS 2419; GS 3260; RGS 5091; CGL 7193; s. 990, ch. 71-136.
Here is Virginia's provision:
Any person who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning any female of chaste character, any words derogatory of such female's character for virtue and chastity, or imputing to such female acts not virtuous and chaste, or who shall falsely utter and speak, or falsely write and publish, of and concerning another person, any words which from their usual construction and common acceptation are construed as insults and tend to violence and breach of the peace or shall use grossly insulting language to any female of good character or reputation, shall be guilty of a Class 3 misdemeanor.
slackmaster
(60,567 posts)Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)How do you determine whether or not a woman is a slut? Is a slut even a real thing?
But anyway, I think when you badmouth someone on the public airwaves, they have a right to sue you for slander. (Libel if it's the press.)
lapislzi
(5,762 posts)What's a slut?
Oh, I get it. It's whatever you say it is.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)Dreamer Tatum
(10,996 posts)when I was 5 for calling someone a "poopyhead."
So yeah, calling someone a slut should be grounds for criminal prosecution.
SATIRical
(261 posts)slut (slt)
n.
1.
a. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous.
Recursion
(56,582 posts)Different people have different relationships to sexuality. Some people (men and women) engage in sexual behavior that is hurtful to others and/or self-destructive; others don't. This would be a good area of human behavior to have a national discussion about (Dan Savage has probably done the best job about this) and come up with some norms and terms. "Slut" doesn't help in that, not because no women use sex hurtfully (plenty do) but because it contains an implication that how a woman uses sex hurtfully is by having many sex partners.
On the other side of this, a lot of sex-positive feminists have tried to reclaim the word "slut", so that throws a wrench into that engine there...