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trof

(54,256 posts)
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 07:05 PM Nov 2013

I am SO pissed! I'd like to sue this guy.

Miz t. was leaving Lowe's this afternoon.
She was coming out of the parking lane and stopped for crossing traffic.
Another car pulled up behind her.
Just then a guy in a pickup truck started backing out of his slot next to her.
She couldn't move so she LEANED on the horn.
Not 'beep beep'....HOOOOOOOOONNNNKKKK!!!
He backed into the right front fender of our Prius.
Put a hell of a dent in it.

They get out and he says "You hit me."
"I didn't hit you, I wasn't moving. YOU HIT ME! I blew the horn because I couldn't move."
"Oh. Gee. I left my hearing aid at home and I was listening to a country music CD."
At least the guy was decent about it.
Gave her all his info, insurance policy number, driver's license number, etc.

I asked her how old he was.
"Older than us."
I'm 72 and she's 69.
So he was a geezer like me, but older.


AND HE LEFT HIS GODDAM HEARING AID AT HOME?
And I bet he had the volume on that CD way cranked up so he could hear it.
Shit.


This guy is a danger to himself and others.

It won't cost us any money to get the Prius repaired, but it will cost us in bother, time, etc.

Did I mention that I was pissed.


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I am SO pissed! I'd like to sue this guy. (Original Post) trof Nov 2013 OP
Sounds like another episode of "When Old Geezers Attack" MrScorpio Nov 2013 #1
Be thankful no one was hurt. BKH70041 Nov 2013 #2
Sounds like me last March. Buddha_of_Wisdom Nov 2013 #3
Sounds like you are overreacting just a bit. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #4
Look, the first thing I asked was "Are YOU OK?" trof Nov 2013 #6
Again, you seem to be overreacting. You're in more danger from texters than old deaf guys. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #7
How about YOU let it go? trof Nov 2013 #8
Keep your poutrage to yourself. cleanhippie Nov 2013 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author A HERETIC I AM Nov 2013 #11
Sounds like he had hiss head up his ass too. K.O. Stradivarius Nov 2013 #5
Something very similar happened to me a few months back. Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #10
Really? flvegan Nov 2013 #12
This thread is useless without descriptions of his bumper stickers and so on. nt Dreamer Tatum Nov 2013 #13

BKH70041

(961 posts)
2. Be thankful no one was hurt.
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 07:18 PM
Nov 2013

Maybe he'll learn from this and remember next time to bring his hearing aid. Maybe a family member or close friend will take this as a cue and start talking to him about having others drive him. Not an easy conversation to have with the elderly because it's the last semblance of their independence in some instances, but one that is necessary. I hope when I get to that point, I won't be stubborn about it.

 

Buddha_of_Wisdom

(373 posts)
3. Sounds like me last March.
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 07:22 PM
Nov 2013

Except I was the idiot backing up into the car...

Insurance went up... now I'm waiting 5 years for it to be cleared down so we can get *decent* auto insurance payment....

trof

(54,256 posts)
6. Look, the first thing I asked was "Are YOU OK?"
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 07:49 PM
Nov 2013

Miz t. is my primary concern, first, last, and always.
She is the best thing that ever happened to me.


I still can't believe that this dork VOLUNTEERED the info about his hearing aid and the CD.

He also tried for some sympathy because he was 'at Lowe's doing some work for the Methodist Church'.
Give me a fucking break.

Over reacting?
I don't think so.
Forget the inconvenience to us.
The guy is a danger.

Think about how many driving cues you get from HEARING them.
Sirens, horns, screeching braking tires, etc.
Now think about not hearing them.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
7. Again, you seem to be overreacting. You're in more danger from texters than old deaf guys.
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 08:08 PM
Nov 2013

Seriously. It. Was. A. Parking. Lot. Accident.

Not the Challenger disaster.

Keep it in perspective and let it go. You'll live longer.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
9. Keep your poutrage to yourself.
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 11:09 PM
Nov 2013

You post it here in a public discussion board, it's gonna get discussed.

It's been many hours now, you over it yet?

Response to cleanhippie (Reply #9)

 

K.O. Stradivarius

(115 posts)
5. Sounds like he had hiss head up his ass too.
Tue Nov 19, 2013, 07:28 PM
Nov 2013

He never thought of using his mirrors, looking over his shoulder before and while backing out?

Especially while in a busy parking lot.

At least he didn't back over a pedestrian.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
10. Something very similar happened to me a few months back.
Wed Nov 20, 2013, 12:24 AM
Nov 2013

I pulled out from our driveway into the street and stopped when I saw the car in the parking space on the street start to back out. I tooted the horn, trying to get his attention, then landed on it full tilt. I couldn't back up because it wasn't clear that I could without hitting someone else. They just kept coming.

I didn't bother to try to grab witnesses, since it was so clear (I thought) what had happened. And then they got out of the car and they suggested the damage was so minor they didn't need to bring a claim against me...

I was laying on the horn so hard at least two people in my office (behind closed doors and windows) heard and noticed the horn blast. but this dingbat couldn't hear it.

flvegan

(64,407 posts)
12. Really?
Wed Nov 20, 2013, 01:41 AM
Nov 2013

You want to sue him. For what? "It won't cost us..."

Let me pull up all the catch-words:

Lowe's
Prius
Old
Country Music
Hearing aid (old)

So he's decent about it (your words), but you're all a-rage because your Prius (sigh) fender has a dent. He's decent but a danger.

How do you cope on a day by day basis of how the world turns? OHGODMEHPRIUSDENTED!!! #nobodyhurt #angry #hateful #dumbass #laughatmeforoverreactingLOLz

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