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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAnyone else spending Thanksgiving alone at home ?
Well not exactly alone , my dog is here.
I even have a 15 pound turkey stuffed with chestnut stuffing to cook tomorrow.
We both will be eating turkey for a few days.
I was invited to my sisters but driving 5 hours one way for dinner didn't seem like a plan I wanted to follow.
we can do it
(13,024 posts)We are going to my sisters (thankfully just her, her husband and 2 daughters. Religious nuts are out of town.)
So we will have turkey etc. and some wine and pie, then come home to our 2 sweet kitty boys.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Alway nice when the religious nuts go away.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Would that scare them enough???
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Great name for a cuddly cat.
Happy Thanksgiving
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Beautiful kitty.
Happy Thanksgiving!!!
we can do it
(13,024 posts)Big Maine coon babies.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)You're just related to the ones you're eating with..
Have a good dinner and relax with these "coonhournds?".
"
we can do it
(13,024 posts)Just in time to break up a wrestling match between 40+ pounds of fluff (Manny was not amused, so I helped him out)
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)If I stay home, I'll be with 3-5 cats and 11 chickens, and
just fine with that.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Your 11 chickens' names?
The chickens would have a better time if the cats went to the neighbors. Then everything would be fine. Do your cats like chickens? (cooked how?)
pamela
(3,480 posts)Larry's doing a turkey breast. We didn't think there was room for a whole bird in our motorhome's little easy-bake oven. I know it's a bit of a drive for you but we'd love to have you.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,316 posts)Been here since Aug. Leaving next month for Tn.
pamela
(3,480 posts)We're heading further south soon-to Percha Dam or Caballo Lake then on to Rockhound and then Arizona. We're fulltimers. We were in Tennessee earlier this year. We love the New Mexico State parks but you can only stay two weeks at a time so we have to move on. It's so beautiful here. The snow was great! We had jackrabbits and coyotes in our campsite.
You should check out my blog. http://postcardsfrompamandlarry.blogspot.com/
SammyWinstonJack
(44,316 posts)here in New Mexico but ready to move on.
Several of the people who were here in the park have moved on to Arizona.
Seems too be the place to go in the winter.
I will check out your blog.
handmade34
(24,017 posts)Cha
(319,060 posts)be eating Turkey, either. So you're not alone in that, handmade. Just wanted to let you know.
Have a wonderful time.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Too lazy to type that many.
eh??
NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)I only have a 6 lb chicken. Enough for us to eat and then some. Cat can have some chicken, but he can't eat the stuffing, gravy, potatoes and cranberry sauce. OR the pumpkin pie.
Chestnut stuffing sounds yummy. I'm putting walnuts and apples in mine.
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)The stuffing I don't feed him but I will give him a small slice of pumpkin pie .
catbyte
(39,150 posts)Big Little Otis (6 months) loves it with vanilla ice cream. Sweet Sammy (1 year) hates pie but loves the ice cream, while Taz (17) loves the whipped cream, but hold the pie. Man, I love my cats, lol. There's never a dull moment with this crew!
Happy Thanksgiving to one & all, no matter your circumstances.
Diane
Anishinaabe in MI
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)You may love your cats, but from what's on the menu, they love you too.
Happy Trkey Day
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Pumpkin won't hurt him, but only the plain kind without spices.
NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)I usually name my cats after Shakespearean characters.
I think the pumpkin pie is too spicy for his health. Besides, he's on a diet!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)If he could read, he'd be very flattered by your giving him that elegant name.
Have a wonderful dinner and enjoy the pie. Be sure to wrap the leftovers before you put them in the trash. Cats on diets have special powers and can get into anything man has made to keep them out.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)I work night shift and well sometime I like breakfast when I first wake up in the evening. She is making country ham Eggs and biscuits.
It would be nice to spend with family but schedules do not permit besides we don't have to listen to any right wing crap either.
4 t 4
(2,407 posts)I love to be alone and I love dogs so much. Think about all the families getting together tomorrow and how bad it will turn out. Sorry to say that. Enjoy your meal and your dog and be happy. You know how many people would give anything right now to be you and be able to stay home. Have a good day and enjoy!!
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)mynaturalrights
(97 posts)Your post just cracked me up.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)makes the food go down easier
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Dogs are sometimes better companions than one's husband or wife, I know that from personal experience
P
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Take good care of her . . .
And have a wonderful day.
longship
(40,416 posts)My fridge is broken, so eating out of cans. I may try to snag a deal on a fridge this weekend.
Linguine and clam sauce for dinner tomorrow. I have plenty of wine.
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)Sorry to hear about the fridge but that dinner sounds pretty good topped
off with some wine .
longship
(40,416 posts)Delish and a bit potent.
Happy Thanksgiving to you!
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)longship
(40,416 posts)No desire to get another one just yet.
Happy Thanksgiving!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)You know there's one out in the cold just waiting for you to open your door...
What was kitty's name?
longship
(40,416 posts)She was 15+ years old and had a good life.
I {heart} Mozart opera.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, fadedrose.
Beacool
(30,517 posts)I love opera.
Good luck with the fridge. At least you should be able to get some good deals tis weekend.
longship
(40,416 posts)He was leaving a performance of a Ring opera (Wagner) in New York City. A journalist approached him, pen and notebook in hand, and asked him, "Mr. Clemons, how did you like the opera?"
Clemons' response was pure Mark Twain. "Wagner's music isn't as bad as it sounds."
(Probably apocryphal, but a good one.)
Beacool
(30,517 posts)Here's one from "A Night at the Opera".
Driftwood (Groucho Marx): Is the opera over yet?
Doorman: Not yet, signor. In a few minutes.
Driftwood (to carriage driver): Hey you! I told you to slow that nag down. On account of you I almost heard the opera! Now then, once around the park and drive slowly.
The Marx brothers ruined "Il Trovatore" for me.
longship
(40,416 posts)Beacool
(30,517 posts)They were funny, creative and incisive.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)My kitties are Figaro, Arabella and Faust.
The second best opera is Marriage of Figaro. Opera lover here too. Wagner only in small doses. Only opera I ever saw that I really hated was Elektra by Richard Strauss. Bunch of crazy screaming women.
longship
(40,416 posts)But Flagstad as Bruunhilde was amazing.
And Richard Strauss's Salome is an unforgettable live performance experience. (not for the faint of heart -- the climax is performed nude.)
I love Don Giovanni, too, but I have a soft spot for Le Nozze Di Figaro. It is a delightful thing. The set pieces and the ensemble scenes are beautiful, stunning even. Plus, it's a comedy and it has one thing no other opera has. Cherubino! Who steals every scene he/she is in. (Pants role: a mezzo-soprano performing as an adolescent boy -- an oversexed one at that.) Cherubino has two unforgettable arias, Figaro's betrothed, Suzanna has no arias. And the support cast just adds to the fun. Bartolo, Marchellina, Basilio, Antonio (the drunken gardner). The end of the second act is an astounding ensemble, maybe the best ever. I've seen it live four times and listen to the 1960 Giulini recording regularly (with Schwarzkopf, Moffo, Cossotto, Taddei, Wächter, etc.) He also recorded what many claim is the classic Don Giovanni recording.
Ever heard Puccini's La Boheme? The 1956 Beecham recording is fucking amazing with Jussi Bjorling and Victoria de Los Angeles.
Happy holiday to you and yours.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Went to the symphony and opera a lot in high school, but I didn't follow the action until one time in 1990 I took a friend of mine to see Samson and Delilah, in Houston. Then I got it because they had Surtitles.
After that I took singing lessons for a couple of years from an old tenor who was a real character. I had sung in a lot of church choirs but nobody had ever told me to take lessons and learn breath control. I had been busy when I was young taking piano and violin lessons and sawing away in orchestra. Turned out I was a powerful mezzo as well as a lyric soprano. I don't think anyone noticed this in the secular world.
My audition number was "Non so piu cosa son, cosa faccio" Cherubino's fast aria. Every woman makes me tremble!! I also knew Zerlina's numbers. Now that I'm older, I can still sing well but I've lost all my head tones and don't know why, and my passagio is at E5. I'm now in baritone range.
I sang soprano in the chorus of an amateur production of The Elixir of Love, in Italian of course, in 1999, and that was the most fun I've ever had. Unfortunately, like most amateur groups there were lots of ego clashes. The conductor was a wonderful man who didn't need a score. He'd worked with Lenny in New York at the Met on Samuel Barber's bomb back in the 1960s.
I saw this guy in Pagliacci back around 1972. And this is the best version of the Pavarotti National Anthem. And quite a handsome Irish fellow too:
I saw Norman Treigel in Boris Gudonov, Beverly Sills in Daughter of the Regiment, Traviata, and Lucia. Saw Joan Sutherland as Lucrezia Borgia. Saw Sir Thomas Allen as Don Giovanni during the bicentennial in 1991. Saw Sam Ramey in Susanna, Attila and Mefistofeles, but I think he's kinda stiff. These were all in Houston which has a truly outstanding symphony and opera.
Eschenbach used to conduct one German opera every season. I sat through five hours and fifteen minutes of Parsifal, and ENJOYED it!!!!
I met lots of famous artists at the symphony too, and met Aaron Copland in the Green Room when I was 12. I told him "I saw you on TV last week!" and he said "Was I good?" It was a PBS concert with the 1924 Piano Concerto.
In my fiddling career, I played under two famous conductors, Nicolas Slonimsky (college orchestra) and Carmen Dragon (high school summer camp-K.U. Jayhawks)and yes we played that beautiful arrangement of "America" of his that we all know from TV sign-offs at night.
He was a very friendly and warm person, and we kids were intimidated because it was the first week of camp, and we thought we were not good enough, and we had a week to work up the finale of Shostakovich's Fifth, which is a real loud Russian barnburner!!! But we met his high standards!! And yes it sounded like the Russian Army was marching down the Interstate!!
I'm so old that old Dmitri was still alive when we played it. Hell, we did the Firebird Suite another week, and old Igor Stravinsky was still kicking too!!
I was last chair (13th) in the first violins, and I was sixteen years old.
America the Beautiful--Carmen Dragon Arrangement:
There is a college an hour away that has a great opera workshop program. So that's where I get my culture fix.
longship
(40,416 posts)I don't sing or play an instrument, but there's never been a time that I didn't love long hair music. The Met season on radio starts soon. Can hardly wait.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)I have 3..
Count Olaf Von Bubbletush
My name is Cornelius, I invented long division
And,
My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die.
They love people and we are all looking forward to the 13 guests that will arrive in about an hour!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)I hope your guests have the humility they need to approach these kitties...sound kind of royal.
I know there's a story to those names; you didn't really kill Inigo Montoya's father, did you. I didn't hold back the cat....here kitty, nice kitty, nice kitty....
Happy Turkey Day
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)They nourish my being.
Cha
(319,060 posts)not a good thing for me. I love my fridge and all the food and drink it keeps cold
good luck on finding a good one. I got an energy star last year and it's a treasure. Before that I had to rough it with the mini-fridge this studio came with. Torture!
Happy Thanksgiving, longship
longship
(40,416 posts)Always nice to see you around. I always have an eye open for your insightful and heartfelt posts.
And a very happy Thanksgiving to you and yours as well.
Cha
(319,060 posts)
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)You're a good progressive, CHA.... Happy Eat too much day.
darkangel218
(13,985 posts)They have really good prices on fridges.
( bought one from there for only $199 a couple months ago )
longship
(40,416 posts)There's a Lowe's nearby (15 miles) but I do not like to support national merchants when there's a local alternative. Out here in the country that's not always easy.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
darkangel218
(13,985 posts)CherokeeDem
(3,736 posts)a couple of times after I moved to Miami... the first Thanksgiving I was there I'd moved two months before and my parents weren't coming down until Christmas. So the kitty and I had a turkey breast, dressing and all the trimmings, an entire bottle of champagne to myself, and a Star Wars Marathon. Really good day!
Sometimes, it's not so bad to be alone... In the ten years I was in Miami, I had guests for Thanksgiving Dinner 8 times... all my unmarried girlfriends. We had a blast.
Enjoy your day, with other company or just your own. It can be a good day either way!
Happy Thanksgiving!!!!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)What is kitty's name....
CherokeeDem
(3,736 posts)Her name was Uhura... yes, that Uhura... love Star Trek, and she was a beautiful tiny, black cat. She made it clear very early in our relationship (I was owned by her mother... Chewie, for Chewbacca) that she didn't like bubbles, no colas, no champagne, or those blowing bubbles.
The champagne drinker in the furry branch of the family was a Flat-coated Retriever named Brittany... she loved any alcoholic beverage. Had to be careful where we put drinks when she was around. She really loved frozen Banana Banshees...
Both those fur babies are gone now... I have kitties, Fox and Rusty at the moment...both teetotalers.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Mixed feelings when I think of my dead pets. I'm glad I had them, but makes me think that life is too short, and and an amimal's life is way too short..
Enjoy your dinners...
How can a Cherokee enjoy Thanksgiving. Ain't that something like Pearl Harbor in the mind of a Native American? Well, things do get better, but they should never hve been so bad....
CherokeeDem
(3,736 posts)more than Elizabeth Warren but not by much! Also, very proud of my Cherokee heritage. The rest of me is Scottish, Swedish, and English... strange combo...
As for Thanksgiving, regardless... turkey is turkey! I love Turkey Day!
Have a great Thanksgiving...
arcane1
(38,613 posts)This is the 2nd Thanksgiving where I won't be making a nice dinner for my cat, but I stopped at the farmer's market on the way home, and will perform the rare act of cooking dinner vs heating it
My family is thousands of miles away, and I see my friends often enough as it is. Plus, I have to be at work at 7:30 Friday. Put it all together and I'm thankful to sleep in and enjoy a me-night.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Last edited Wed Nov 27, 2013, 10:40 PM - Edit history (1)
QUATRO was so pleased that you are cooked special for her...
I bet it was one your best Thanksgivings...
arcane1
(38,613 posts)Kitty laid down her burden in August of last year, so I won't be as creative with my meal-preparation, but I'll still be thankful. After all, I can sleep in tomorrow for as long as I want.
I may miss the creature, but I do love not being awakened at 6am
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)arcane1
(38,613 posts)The most recent name was Quatro
ProdigalJunkMail
(12,017 posts)plus the three people from work that I found had no where to go for the holiday and decided to grace our table and our home with their presence. we are cooking now...
sP
whistler162
(11,155 posts)ummm didn't your dog tell you. He has a dinner date with the French Poodle down the street!
Going out to a local resturuant with my mother.... BLISS!!!
Unlike one of my brothers who is going to his mother in laws for the holiday wars. Not sure what my other brother is doing.
loli phabay
(5,580 posts)Thanksgiving is just a day for me when i get paid more.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)food for a Week...is not a bad thing, imho.
There are times alone and times with company. There are good books to read or movies we missed to watch or just times for music and winding down that are all good, too.
Happy TG to You and your Dog and for making Good out of a "time out."
on your own Time!
Just us two here this year because of weather and spread out family which mucks up travel plans. We always manage to find some kind of fun...and I've been alone myself with many holidays...and it's not all so bad..because there's always something to dig into.
We just need to realize that Life these Days is not the "Hallmark Card" or Mainstream Media version of WHO WE ARE.. imho.
bluestate10
(10,942 posts)mynaturalrights
(97 posts)okaawhatever
(9,565 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)A person is blessed to have one, and you are doubly blessed.
I sort of like dogs...
okaawhatever
(9,565 posts)character. One morning she got out and decided to go running with a neighbor who was out jogging with his daughter. A marathon race passed by and she joined in. She was found in the next town over inside the Walgreen's by Senator Frist's family. She spent the day there living the high life. Lord only knows what she'll do tomorrow.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)At the end of the last Boston Marathon, a dog nobody knew who it belonged to, joined the race and finished. I think it was a golden lab.
I so wish I were young, had less aches and pains, so I could get a big dog of my own.
Enjoy. Time goes fast.
okaawhatever
(9,565 posts)myself. LOL. Happy Thanksgiving.
Skittles
(171,697 posts)don't really care about it though; don't really care about any holidays
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)I will cook an entire turkey. I'm looking forward to going on a long walk with the dog
before eating. It will be pretty peaceful where I walk since most people are home.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Have a happy quiet day. A lot of us think you're lucky...
Skittles
(171,697 posts)most people I know see it as more chore than joy
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Then I got roped into cooking dinner for some people. I love to cook, and cooking thanksgiving dinner beats a freezer pizza any day.
TorchTheWitch
(11,065 posts)Not doing any special dinner (I really suck at cooking). I have some chicken breasts in the freezer I might pop in the oven. My next door neighbors usually fix us a heaping plate of whatever they're having, and she's an excellent cook, so I'll probably wait and see if we get something from them.
For years I've worked holidays, so it's a bit odd even having them to do something with anyway. I rather like spending them with just me and the dog not doing anything special just relaxing in my jammies and watching movies or whatever.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)cuddling. Nothing nicer than cuddling with a dog. A cat will work doo.
Catherine Vincent
(34,610 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Throw some bread or birdseed out in the morning and you will have company all day...
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)Catherine Vincent
(34,610 posts)rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)right idea. But it's all good. It's all good. it's all good.. did I say taht already???
KatyaR
(3,639 posts)I pulled a muscle in my backside almost four weeks ago and am still trying to recover. I haven't had a real night's sleep in all that time, and it's made me a bit discombobulated. I'm glad to be at home, with the door locked, knowing that I once I got home last night, I was home for 5 days. Glory hallelujah!
Enjoy your weekend, everyone, no matter how you spend it!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)What kind of dog? They like to hog the best part of the bed.
There's nothing like a dog when you're down and out. Enjoy your solitude.
KatyaR
(3,639 posts)He's 4 years old, a Boston Terrier, and an absolutely terrific hot water bottle at bedtime. LOL
He always follows me around, but when I hurt myself, he never left my side. If I had to get up and walk around because I was hurting, he would walk right beside me with a worried look on his face.
We had a wonderful weekend. I was feeling so much better after a couple of real nights' sleep that we were able to play quite a bit.
Hope you had a great holiday!
hfojvt
(37,573 posts)I guess though I will be going to my brother's for the 2nd year.
I am not a huge fan of turkey, or any other Thanksgiving food anyway.
A number of times I have gone to the local "l(expletive deleted) dinner" mostly to help clean up afterwards, but also hoping to snag some pumpkin pie. And I am not even a huge fan of pumpkin pie. But it's better than nothing.
I did drive five hours to my sister's once, on the spur of the moment, because thanksgiving 1998 was just a super-nice day. It was about 65 degrees in southern South Dakota that day.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)What's his name? I'd like to edit this post and put the dog's name in the title..
Thank you. Our best friends deserve to have their names shown.
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)mynaturalrights
(97 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)Actively hiding.
rug
(82,333 posts)The Lounge will be open all day tomorrow. Dogs welcome. Post a picture.
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)Please feel free.

rug
(82,333 posts)Toasty!
HereSince1628
(36,063 posts)I hope you and your dog make a good weekend of it!
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I lived with an asshole man for years, and when I finally threw him out, I wouldn't bother with nice meals like I always had. Then I realized one day that I was worth it if he has been worth it. Now, I treat myself just as well.
Even if I do have to clean up all the mess just for me.
HereSince1628
(36,063 posts)I lived with an asshole woman for years.
I think the asshole part of it is irrelevant.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)The asshole part is the most relevant to the way I decided to look at things. I may never had came to the conclusion that I should put as much effort into taking care of me as I did taking care of the asshole if he wasn't such an asshole.
snot
(11,804 posts)I've done that when not visiting family, and it was a lot of fun.
cantbeserious
(13,039 posts)eom
Cha
(319,060 posts)to work due to an unexpected plumbing crisis of a job he has to finish my Monday. So, I was bummed but a friend decided to day to drive all the way over here to this side of the Island after her Thanksgiving dinner and we'll have tea. So, I'm looking forward to the kindness of her gesture.. and forward to spending Christmas with my son.
My family is far away on the Mainland.. in fact one sister is spending Thanksgiving on Cape Cod and all my good friends are in upper state New York. So calls will have to do.
I'm vegan so my feast will be different.. but, I did get some fresh organic cranberries to make sauce I plan to put on some corn muffins.
Happiest of Thanksgivings mynaturalrights~Mahalo for your thread~

mynaturalrights
(97 posts)The fresh cranberries sound awfully good.
Won't be long
Christmas is just around the corner to share with your son.
marlakay
(13,282 posts)And animal sitting a dog and cat for one friend for 5 days and cat for another friend.
All my kids live out of state, saw them last month on trip.
Making stuffed turkey breasts and a pumpkin flan...with good bottle of wine.
I always make gourmet meal for us when we are alone.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Alone? With a dog and two cats ready to pounce on the turkey and the flan as soon as you step out of the kitchen to go to the bathroom?
Lotsa luck...
Enjoy. You should have a ball.
meti57b
(3,584 posts)Be sure to have a nice brewsky with that turkey.....may your day be great!!
Warpy
(114,614 posts)My cat is still hanging in there and I have plenty of fiber to keep me busy.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Chinese is good, and so is the cat..
Warpy
(114,614 posts)AKA Her Highness.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)I bet she's cuddly and is a fun cat.
And she runs the house no doubt.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)I have a 9 pound turkey that will be more than enough for me and the cat. Actually, this is the first year in several that I have spent the day at home alone, and I am looking forward to it. Usually, some friend or distant relative insists that I join them. But I miss the leftovers when I do that.
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)I know what you mean about the leftovers. You don't even have to heat them, just pick, and share with kitty>
You have a great day Curmudgeoness!
Curmudgeoness
(18,219 posts)Adopted him a few years ago from a rescue group.
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You have a wonderful day as well, fadedrose.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)What a beautiful cat. The color of honey, very apt.
Good thing you went to the rescue center that day.
See ya round, girl..
Jamastiene
(38,206 posts)I take care of my aunt and she lives with me but hardly ever says anything unless she wants me to do something. So, I spend the rest of the time on holidays alone nowadays really.
Hope you have a good one and enjoy that turkey!
Beacool
(30,517 posts)I would have been gone already if it hadn't been for the crummy weather in the Northeast. I'm leaving early in the morning. The company I work for closed at 1PM and we are off until Monday. Yippeee!!!
I like getting up on Thanksgiving morning putting on the TV, watching the Macy's parade, brewing coffee and helping out with the prepping of the meal. A lot of fun and laughter goes on while the meal is being made. This year I'll miss all that and get in time for the meal.
Oh, well.......
I wish everyone, alone, with family, with friends, surrounded by pets or any other combo; a happy and safe Thanksgiving.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Something or someone who is in charge doesn't like holidays.
Remember Halloween? The whole eastern half of the US had rain (even Port Huron) and nobody went out trick or treating except to a structured affair. With what people now spend on costumes, the weathermaker has a weird sense of humor.
Wonder what he'll dish out for us for Christmas....
Hope you have safe trip there and back...
Beacool
(30,517 posts)Last year we had Sandy a couple of days before Halloween.
Oh well, it is what it is.
I hope that you had a lovely day.
mecherosegarden
(745 posts)with our dog. No luck in that post-doctoral job, so no money to go anywhere. Grateful that my youngest son is with me and that we still can live in the RV. It will get better and I am grateful for that too
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Maybe your luck will change.
Seems it has to hit rock bottom before it bounces up again.
Hope you had a good dinner and don't have a big mess to clean up like many do.
So many of the posters have spent a lonely quiet day, with just one of two people, and, a pet.
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)Been fighting sinus headaches and cold, so going out in this cold wind is not an option I want to mess with.
My sympathy for all the turkeys sacrificed, but wish everyone who is celebrating a wonderful and safe day. All that food doesn't even sound good, although I will miss seeing the family.
kevinbgoode1
(166 posts)it has been getting better but the progress is slow. . .ugh. Best wishes for a good recovery.
I too am staying home - thought that has become a tradition for me these last several years. Four hours on the road is too long to spend just to meet part of the family for a meal, and I have a lot of work to get done at home as well. I've learned to make myself a nice dinner, plan part of the day to watch a movie, and, get that sherpa throw around me for as many naps as I need. . .
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)I've never had sinus infection until this year and thought I was having a stroke the first time. I must have been carrying it around for quite a while, as when the antibiotic kicked in, I felt like a new person. Not this time. I have 3 hours to the next pill and am dreading it.
My daughter headed out for Michigan at 8:00 this morning. What normally would take 8 hours, ended up over 12 due to sleet and heavy traffic. I think you are the smart one to stay home.
May we both feel on top of the world, tomorrow. We can dream, right?
roody
(10,849 posts)Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)And, to save fadedrose a post, the kitties' names are Davy and Melissa, brother and sister.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Just like all the other cool furry family members. I wonder if they're democrats..we can hope....
Elwood P Dowd
(11,453 posts)I was a draftee in the Army that had a lucky permanent duty station on a US base after Basic/AIT. Moved out of the barracks that Fall and into a tiny efficiency apartment. Roommate drove home to visit his folks both times, so it was just me and my stereo. Oh, I also had a 12" black and white TV that picked up 3 stations on the rabbit ears.
Both of those days fall near the end of the month, which meant I was usually broke. Boring and lonely was an understatement, but the alternative, Vietnam or some other foreign land, was even worse. I drank cheap bear, smoked cheap PX cigs, ate cheap TV dinners, and played tunes or watched crap TV to pass the time. I didn't complain considering the situation could have been a thousand times worse.
SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)our schedule for the day is "whenever"
I found a 7 lb turkey..
we will have yams & green beans & mashed potatoes/gravy
and an apple pie ...if I am in the mood to bake one later.
We will probably eat around 6 pm...or whenever
B Calm
(28,762 posts)way it is when you have a married son. His wife's family calls all the shots.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)KatyMan
(4,340 posts)My daughter's mother-in-law freaks out if their only child doesn't spend most holidays with them. Not a big deal to us though. We hosted our good friends from the UK and had a great time. My daughter is just happy that she has such low key parents who do not require much upkeep! Lol
Jazzgirl
(3,744 posts)Well and the Chloe kitty. I'm not alone but I'm relaxed without any family tension. My Mom can make everyone miserable at holidays. I'm sitting here reading and waiting to fix my small prime rib roast, chipotle mashed potatoes and roasted brussel sprouts. Yum!!!!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)We share something. My mother was a pain at times too...
But why do they have to cook so many good things that make you feel sort of guilty for thinking it.
CHLOE enjoy smelling all the stuff Mom is making, so give'er a pass...
U4ikLefty
(4,012 posts)right now. Plenty of company.
pink-o
(4,056 posts)I'd rather work all day for extra pay, then put my feet up with a nice glass of Pinot and watch movies...
than spend ****ONE WASTED MOMENT**** with the racist, Fux News watching Goopers in my family stabbing knives into a poor dead bird as well as my back
There are far worse things than being alone, Children.
shanti
(21,799 posts)It'll just be me, my third son and my 5 yr old grandson (and two cats). I traveled south last year, but me and sis are at odds at the moment, so that was out this year. I hate traveling on holidays, so it works out well for me. I made a 12 pound bird, stuffing, mash/gravy, haricot vertes, homemade rolls, and punkin pie. That should be enough and then some for a few days.
Hope you enjoy your holiday meal!
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)I would love to know their names to add them to the list of people and pets I've met on mynaturallists OP - hope he didn't mind the my intruding so much..
Anyway, wouldn't you like to see the cats' names in CAPS, shanti?
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)Lobo ate so much turkey today I think he's getting ready to sprout wings.
Right now he's sleeping by the stove very content as am I.
I had a great peaceful day.
I hope you and every member here did as well , no matter how they spent it.
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)SO is fixing beautiful roasted stuffed chicken. Polishing off some ST. Pauli, before cracking open the wine. Brother watching football.
Kitty on computer desk, looking for cat porn. I'm missing my beloved Thor.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Sounds like a great way to relax...
I'd like to put kitty in CAPS...
malokvale77
(4,879 posts)better known as "crazy bitch". She's a black and white long hair, and very much the diva.
Thor was my wolf dog. He died just over three years ago on my birthday. He was my best friend and companion for nearly 18 years. I miss him every day.
Thank you for asking.
tblue37
(68,436 posts)take my best friend and his extended family up on their invitation this year. I just wanted to rest, read, and do a bit of the housework that piles up because I am always working too much or else just too exhausted to keep up with it.
My sister also invited me, but that would also be a 30-minute drive each way, and I am (emotionally) closer to my friend and his extended family than to my sister and her extended family. Until last year I always did Thanksgiving at her house, but her three youngest grandkids are continual shriekers when they race around playing, and no one is allowed to even suggest the concept of indoor voices to them. I wear hearing aids, and like many others with severe hearing loss, I also (rather ironically) suffer from hyperaccuosis, so loud screaming is like a knife to my ears if I am wearing my hearing aids.
My hyperaccuosis is pronounced, and my hearing loss is severe, so there was only a 10-decible range of amplification that the audiologist had to work with to help me with hearing aids. People who don't wear aids cannot comprehend the difficulties we who do must deal with, so they get pissed at us when we have trouble following conversations in groups, and they simply don't believe us when we say loud noises at certain pitches are actually intolerable/painful.
I had gone to her house only sporadically for the holiday for years, but then started going there for Thanksgiving every year after our healthy 55-year-old brother nearly died from complications following a hip replacement in 2003. I decided that since we live so close it was ridiculous that we saw each other maybe only once or twice per year, especially as we are getting older.
But neither she nor anyone else in her nuclear or extended family has ever bothered to include me in conversations unless I essentially wedged myself in. Deaf/HoH* people tend to become wallflowers in groups because most people don't know how to help us understand the flow of conversation (and, frankly, I have found that most people would really prefer not to bother). I am not shy, and I work very hard in conversation to carry more than my share of the effort of understanding, just so my hearing impairment won't be a burden to others, but that means that an extended visit in a group is usually exhausting and stressful, unless the people with normal hearing are thoughtful and considerate.
But most people are NOT considerate toward the hearing impaired. If I were blind or in a wheelchair, people would make some effort to accommodate my handicap, but when you are deaf, people with normal hearing usually just get annoyed with you and think you could be less troublesome if you would just try harder. In fact, my deaf/HoH website is about dealing with severe hearing impairment among "hearies" who think we hear exactly what we "want" to hear. (The title of that website is I'm Listening as Hard as I Can!)
My friend and his family, unlike my sister and her family, are always thoughtful and considerate about my hearing impairment, which is why I usually do accept their invitation to Christmas dinner. I am not at all sentimental about holidays, unless my two grown kids are close enough for us to be together for them. But other people--the ones who really care--tend to freak out about my wanting to spend Christmas at home alone. My friend's mother gets too upset at the thought, so I go there for Christmas dinner.
But I won't do Thanksgiving at my sister's any more. Last year at my sister's was so extremely unpleasant that I decided it was just not worth it.
*HoH = Hard of Hearing
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Thanks for sharing your post with us.
I admit, I do not know how to act when I talk to someone who is HOH...do I feign understanding, keep saying "what," get a pencil and paper?
Do all HoH like the same kind of treatment from the non-HoH? Are there some NO-NO's we should all avoid.
I looked up your website and will go back and read it when I get a little more time and am not so tired. I do not like hurting peoples' feelings and I bet most of the people we've shared Thanksgiving with today don't want to either.
http://deafnotdumb.homestead.com/index.html
If anyone wants to look it over.
Kitty's names should be put in CAPS, especially yours. CAPS are shouting!!
tblue37
(68,436 posts)was just two weeks short of 9 months. The woman who had fostered her since she was 8 weeks old asked me to please keep her name, though I wasn't crazy about having a pet named after a buffoon (Paris Hilton was at the peak of her fame at the time, which was in 2005). The foster lady was very nice, and she obviously found it hard to relinquish this precious kitty, so I agrred to keep the name--and I would not have felt right going back on the promise. Paris is a long-haired dilute calico (I call them pastel calicos). She'll be 9 December 1.
My daughter's fiance was a Frenchman, so I just told people she had been named after the city, not the heiress.
My 19-year-old kitty GABBY* had died just a month earlier, and I got Paris so LILA would not be alone when I left the house. On September 21, one month to the day after adopting Paris, I got a call from a friend who worked in the warehouse district in Topeka. A trucker had (thank goodness!) heard mewling from his engine block just before he turned the key in the ignition. He found the TINIEST little tortoiseshell kitten huddled there for warmth. Obviously she was from one of the feral cats that nest in the area. I figure her mom went hunting and never returned, so the baby had gone looking for her. The kitten was just 2.4 lbs when I took her to the vet the next day to be examined, cleared of parasites, etc. She had worms, fleas, and earmites, poor baby. I guessed her to be about 6 weeks, though small for her age because of malnourishment caused by parasites.
A week later, she was 5 lbs, a month later 7 lbs. Once she was able to derive nourishment from her food, she grew apace. As it turned out, she was at least 10 or 11 weeks when I got her, but tiny from malnourishment. She is now a gorgeous 13-lb tortoiseshell Maine Coon, my largest baby. (Maine Coons can get huge!) I think she'd be even larger were it not for her early malnourishment, which probably stunted her growth.
She has, among other markings, an orange right foot and ONE orange toe on her left hind foot. A perfect orange stripe bisects her nose, and the black and orange markings on her mouth alternate perfectly, so that her mouth looks like one of those pinwheel cookies.
I wanted to name her Tangerine because of the lovely shade of her orange, but it didn't sound quite right for her, so I modified it to the more feline appropriate TANGO, not even realizing at the moment that people would assume I'd named my cats after the film "Last Tango in Paris" (I didn't, of course, but it does reinforce the notion that Paris is named after the city). Tango was 8 in July.
About 3 and a half years ago, a friend's one-year-old unspayed tabby cat got out and got pregnant. I adopted one of the 4 kittens, whom I named LUCIA (pronounced "Loo-chee'-uh"
. But I usually just call her LUCY. Lucy looks like a lynx-point Siamese (her pop was a neighborhood Siamese), but her siblings included a calico and two solid black kitties--and her mother was a tabby. I think her siblings had one or more different fathers. Lucy is the ONLY Siamese from the litter. Lila was 17 when I adopted Lucy, so I knew she wouldn't last many more years. In fact, she died at 18 a year after I adopted Lucy.
One of my 10 public websites, Pet Tales , is devoted to stories, mostly humorous, about the many animals I have kept company with--cats, dogs, ferrets, parrots, parakeets, snakes, lizards, and one baby alligator. I am a real animal lover. (BTW, most of my deaf articles are humorous, too, though intended to make a point about being deaf among hearing people, as well.)
http://www.pettales.homestead.com/index.html
If you like funny animal stories, you might enjoy reading some of the articles on that site.
The home page of each of my sites includes a list of links to my other 9 sites, and I write on a wide range of topics.
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*Gabby is featured in some articles on my "Pet Tales" site, and so is Lila.
mynaturalrights
(97 posts)tblue37
(68,436 posts)mynaturalrights
(97 posts)and to open ones eyes to how someone feels that is HOH
My self I do better with animals than with people anyways.
Even at work when some has a party or get together at his or her home that I can't get out of.
If you want to find me , I'm the guy hanging out with the family dog or cat.
tblue37
(68,436 posts)One of my readers who had an online used bookstore and a Café Press site began to sell items with WWTD on them ("What Would Tina Do?"
. The letters were also spelled out in Sign.
She told me that on every deaf/HoH message board she frequented, someone would comment about how they had been in a situation where a hearie had been obnoxious about their hearing impairment, but just as they started to withdraw* into themselves in response to the nastiness, they'd think to themselves, "How would Tina handle this situation? What would Tina do?"
That reminded her of those WWJD ("What Would Jesus Do?"
bracelets, so she asked if she could sell mugs, T-shirts, andbumper stickers with the "WWTD" slogan on them.
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*Most people with hearing impairments become socially isolated, depressed and withdrawn because of the way hearing people ignore and exclude them in groups and act annoyed and exasperated about their difficulty with mush-mouth conversationalists.
I am no shrinking violet. I work VERY hard in conversation to avoid being a burden, but I also will not let people abuse me for being deaf. I have an article called "Deaf Power" on my site about how I handled a smart-alecky teenaged cashier who gave me crap at the grocery store.
Many of my deaf/HoH readers tell me that until they read the articles on my site, their bosses, co-workers, spouses, family members, etc., could never be made to understand how difficult they were making life for the hearing-impaired person. Somehow, reading me essays finally got through to them.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)Some years it works for us...others it doesn't.
We are happy alone though. We've spent many TG's alone for whatever reason and other times with family or friends when we lived too far away from family.. We made fun "on our own" in whatever way we could.
But, I know the hype says there's something wrong if you are alone. And, indeed it's terrible for homeless and those in prisons, nursing homes or otherwise forgotten that they feel so isolated and lost. I don't know how we deal with that except hoping there are enough volunteers that can help...that maybe some of us could get off butts and get out there and bring cheer (including myselves) when we are alone for a holiday. But, being "alone" is not all bad...depending on circumstance.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)No, being alone isn't bad. Especially if you are with the wrong person/people. We do outgrow some people, move, etc., and I see nothing wrong with being alone.
If you're content, and it sounds like you are, you spent your day the RIGHT way for for the 3 of you.......I want to put Kitty's name in CAPS, can I?
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graywarrior
(59,440 posts)GoCubsGo
(34,909 posts)And, I'm fine with it. My family is on the other side of the country. I got to watch them play Chinese checkers via Skype earlier. Zzzzzzzzz. Just like if I'd been there...