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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 02:18 PM Nov 2013

the guests at my thanksgiving table

my celebrations have always - for many years - been non-normative.

this year was notable for how 'mainstream' everyone was -- but extremely diverse.

we were:

* atheists

* christians

* jewish

*muslim

with an overlay of socially awkward gay scientists -- {i swear to god, i'm going to make every one of these guys wear a wig and a ball gown one of these days}

there were adopted asian children

lots of badly behaved dogs -- cause what's better to a dog than a crowd -- you can get away with anything.

***no one keeps kosher in any of the categories -- so wine AND sausage were consumed in quantities.

there was even 1 older student getting her masters of divinity who gave a very ecumenical, all inclusive grace.

the food for the feast ROCKED -- i worked 2 days at enormous stretches to fix it all.

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the guests at my thanksgiving table (Original Post) xchrom Nov 2013 OP
Sounds like a great time was had by all. MineralMan Nov 2013 #1
Happy holidays pscot Nov 2013 #2
when can we expect that ball gown pic? Skittles Nov 2013 #3
i got a few of them, that are not safe for work. lol loli phabay Nov 2013 #5
COUGH THEM UP, LOLI PHABAY Skittles Nov 2013 #6
lol perv loli phabay Nov 2013 #7
are they as good as gay scientists in ball gowns? Skittles Nov 2013 #8
you got a pm. lol loli phabay Nov 2013 #9
for the record, loli phabay came through!! Skittles Nov 2013 #10
lol i rate the pic a ten. loli phabay Nov 2013 #11
let's see if xchrom can top that! Skittles Nov 2013 #12
i'm going need your 'help' to get them in those ball gowns. xchrom Nov 2013 #14
you want I should kick their ass and give them some fashion sense, xchrom? Skittles Nov 2013 #15
YES! i have the heels, wigs and gowns already. nt xchrom Nov 2013 #16
lol, remember if they dont consent then you are baaaaad loli phabay Nov 2013 #17
ob they'll consent when skittles is done with them. xchrom Nov 2013 #18
nice post of what sounded like a fun day! NRaleighLiberal Nov 2013 #4
I'll bet the conversation around the table was great! LongTomH Nov 2013 #13
Sounds like a fun time, xchrom. Enthusiast Nov 2013 #19
it really was fabulous. a lot of thes people i've entertained before -- but xchrom Nov 2013 #20
I have a pork eating Enthusiast Nov 2013 #26
So glad to hear... ReRe Nov 2013 #21
Invite us please? bluedeathray Nov 2013 #22
done!{don't forget the wigs} nt xchrom Nov 2013 #23
Sounds like fabulous fun! Fumesucker Nov 2013 #24
you would've enjoyed it. nt xchrom Nov 2013 #25

xchrom

(108,903 posts)
14. i'm going need your 'help' to get them in those ball gowns.
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 04:49 PM
Nov 2013

oy -- so uptight, you wouldn't believe.

xchrom

(108,903 posts)
18. ob they'll consent when skittles is done with them.
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 05:24 PM
Nov 2013

god knows -- i nag them like a crazy Gay Street Preacher.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,013 posts)
4. nice post of what sounded like a fun day!
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 03:42 PM
Nov 2013


For me, I was surrounded by four legged critters and women! Three dogs (one visiting), three cats (all ours), my wife, daughter, and my wife's best friend (recently divorced)...no politics (we are all very liberal), just great food, lots of laughs, some nostalgia, and the inevitable mixing of the pets with people....a fine day indeed (made all the more wonderful because our daughter continues her successful battle with an eating disorder - she loved the day, something that would have been unthinkable even as recently as 5 years ago).

LongTomH

(8,636 posts)
13. I'll bet the conversation around the table was great!
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 04:46 PM
Nov 2013

Your guests sound like a really interesting, and probably erudite crowd. A far cry from the low-information conservative types that most of us have to endure at holiday times.

By the way, Good on ya' Mate for inviting a really great, diverse crowd.

Last thought: This could have the makings of a really fun movie!

xchrom

(108,903 posts)
20. it really was fabulous. a lot of thes people i've entertained before -- but
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 05:32 PM
Nov 2013

they're not my friends.

but yesterday there was that connection between people you really hope for.

i blame the wine drinking muslims and pork eating jews. who all sat at the same table.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
26. I have a pork eating
Sat Nov 30, 2013, 09:12 AM
Nov 2013

Jewish in-law relative. And wine drinking Muslims tend to be a tad more open minded.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
21. So glad to hear...
Fri Nov 29, 2013, 05:49 PM
Nov 2013

... that you had a lovely day, xchron. Same here, except that I only worked 6 hours on my fixins. And for the first time ever in my life, someone else did ALL the dishes and put everything away where it belonged. Peace surrounded our table as we are of the same mind politically (we vote as a bloc ) We enjoyed the dog show and all of the football games. Go Cowboys! Go Ravens! The only thing I was sad about the whole day was that the Packers lost.

bluedeathray

(511 posts)
22. Invite us please?
Sat Nov 30, 2013, 07:12 AM
Nov 2013

I promise you a surreal experience. And a paradigm shifting meal of thanks. Oh, and BTW, we have wigs!

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