I wonder if she posts here?

[Drunken Irishman]

[snooper2]

1. The person who took that picture needs to update his/her house

That tile is horrendous with that nasty turning yellow grout...


GET TO WORK! Stop playing with other peoples toys!

[loli phabay]

3. lol, you are one sick puppy

[BainsBane]

21. That sums up this whole debate perfectly

If someone isn't financially privileged, they don't count.

[snooper2]

25. What are you going on about?

This shit costs like $10 LOL







Also, if you look closely you can see the person taking the picture is using another Apple device LOL. You do know people do pictures like this just to troll other people on the intertubes. or- (you can't believe everything you see online)

[EOTE]

26. LOL. THAT'S what you got from this?

I strongly suggest you write an OP either supporting or denouncing this OP, whichever seems more appropriate.

[Comrade Grumpy]

2. I hope she has a good therapist to deal with her issues.

[LanternWaste]

4. Him too...

Him too...

(Six of one, half a dozen of the other... insert rationalization here)

[lumberjack_jeff]

7. Or tolerant admins at her preferred online venue. n/t

[loli phabay]

15. omg, you didn't

[lumberjack_jeff]

27. It gives the alert jihaidis something to do.

It's a valuable public service.

"Chance of serving on juries = 100%"

[B2G]

5. I hope he doesn't have a pet rabbit...

[Dreamer Tatum]

6. So she thinks she's gorgeous and sexy

yet she's traumatized because she's not good enough.

Um, yeah. Someone needs to make up their mind.

[ieoeja]

33. Maybe "she" didn't write this?

A friend of hers could have written this. Maybe even destroyed the device as well.

[WinkyDink]

8. Nice font. (Variation on a Fake Receipt Theme.)

[HappyMe]

9. Yeah, sure.

That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Which is it "gorgeous and sexy" or "betrayed and inadequate"?

The guy is probably better off without this unhinged person.

[Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin]

11. Ya think?

[LordGlenconner]

13. And yet someone on the thread thinks HE needs the therapy

[HappyMe]

16. Had he scribbled an incoherent

nutty message on the wall it would have been all good. Or something.

[EOTE]

17. Sure he does.

I mean, why on earth would he watch porn when he's got a sexy, gorgeous and psychotic girlfriend just waiting for him to come home so she can destroy more of his stuff?

[ieoeja]

32. Did it ever occur to rolling-eyes that "his girlfriend" and "I" are not synonymous?

It reads to me like a friend of hers wrote this.

[HappyMe]

34. Maybe, maybe not.

Rolling eyes?

[ieoeja]

42. Probably. This does not seem like the act of someone with low self esteem.

And a person who decides a partner's viewing of porn means s/he is not good enough for the partner definitely qualifies as someone with low self esteem.


E***** forgot about a party this weekend. The host of the party wrote on Facebook that she was now on his "poo-poo list."

E***** has low self esteem. So where you and I would see the obvious joke in "poo-poo list", she believes the host really is now angry with her. So E***** has posted dozens of long rants on Facebook about how bad she feels. And how the host is such a horrible person for hurting her.

R**** is E*****'s best friend. R**** has no self esteem problems. R**** is very quick to take action against those who (usually unknowingly) hurt E*****. R**** would easily do something to hurt the host of the party.

But all they and the host had between them was one common friend who died a few years ago. Prior to the funeral they had never met the host of this event. They see/talk to each other once a year around the anniversary of his death. That's it. They aren't worth the time and effort. So they are safe from R****'s wrath.

[loli phabay]

37. yup, the wording says its someone else who wrote it, there is no ownership in the words

[Vashta Nerada]

48. He is better off without this unhinged person.

She needs help.

I wonder what she's going to do when she finds out most men watch porn?

[Capt. Obvious]

10. Sounds like she's available!

Anyone know her Myspace page?

[loli phabay]

38. does she have internet access in the facility she now resides in.

[EOTE]

12. Man, this guy really messed up.

He had a crazy, gorgeous, sexy girlfriend with self-esteem issues and he tossed it all away for some porn. Damned patriarchy will do it every time.

[leftyohiolib]

14. or was it benevolent sexism

[loli phabay]

18. i think on the scales the crazy out weighed the cute by a fair bit.

[EOTE]

19. As Jodi Arias has shown us...

If you want a lot of kink in your partner, you've got to take a whole lot of crazy with it.

[loli phabay]

20. yup but as long as the cute and kink outweigh the crazy then its all good.

[loli phabay]

22. probuably not, else it would be carved on his chest with a butter knife while he slept.

[Blue_Tires]

23. So did the girl write this out of betrayal/revenge?

or did the guy write this out of shame/regret?

[loli phabay]

24. i would say the way its worded that it was a third party, there is no ownership in the words

Rather it written as if from outside.

[yellowcanine]

28. A seventeen year old guy watches porn? I am shocked!

No doubt he does other stuff at the same time also.

[Proud Public Servant]

29. Thank god she only found out about teh porn

Imagine the picture if she had learned that 17-year-old boys, even ones with girlfriends, also masturbate...

[loli phabay]

31. or worse, he finds her friend more attractive, then it would be carved on his chest

[xulamaude]

35. Because, you know, like, that totally happens

all the time IRL!

Some rather intelligent woman once said something about there being no shortage of kitchen knives, yet...

[loli phabay]

36. you know you dont do satire, or irony, or sarcasm, or humor in general very well

Plus there are plenty of cases of women going all out bobbit and clothes slasher out there. Theres even anthing called the internet where one can look stuff like this up. Its rather new fangled but i hear its not to difficult to figure out.

[xulamaude]

39. And you do?

ETA - but statistically are as many women taking knives to men's chests (and clothes and bunnies...) in roughly equal numbers as men?

[loli phabay]

40. seemingly better than yourself, as i can recognise humor when i see it, kinda a requisite for gettin

It. But you carry on, knock yourself out.

[xulamaude]

41. See my edit if you care to. nt

[loli phabay]

44. not really that bothered, you dont do humor so theres no point.

[xulamaude]

45. LOL?

Just another humorless feminist I guess...

[loli phabay]

46. well feminist or not, definetly missed the point. have a good one.

[xulamaude]

47. LOL (for real this time) nt

[SusieQ01]

30. yikes

Insecurity is technology's kryptonite.

[BKH70041]

43. "... found out the hard way..."

I bet she did.

[gollygee]

49. I don't get it

This is written as if it was done a long time after she experiences this trauma. She says "to this day" as if she discovered the 17-year-old's porn ages ago.

But then ages later she smashed his iPad and scratched words on it about that?

I'm trying to figure out the time frame.

[Scootaloo]

53. "To this day" = it happened a week ago

We're talking about teenagers here. Takes a while for the whole "perception of time" thing to kick in.

Wait until they discover that there are such things as "fast days" and "slow days"

[Vashta Nerada]

50. She's unhinged.

He's better off without her.

I wonder what she's going to think when she finds out that most 17 year old boys watch porn?

[xulamaude]

55. That it's better to be a

a non-'heterosexual' ?

[mstinamotorcity2]

51. haven't met a 17 year old boy

who hormones were not in overdrive in all my years being a parent and working with children.

[Glassunion]

52. HE WAS 17!!!!!!!! But he clicked "Yes, I am 18" on all those websites!!!!!!1!!11!!

The horror!

[BainsBane]

54. Kick

So others can see the thread that inspired the one entitled "I wonder if he posts here."

[Old and In the Way]

59. Finally found this post BB.

You should have provided the link to the mating thread (now closed as isnotwasm shut it down) - http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4132844

As far as this post goes...and I do see that isnotwasm's was a failed, lame attempt at a response to this one , I think you can read into it about anything you want to. I have no idea what gender the pic author is or what the motive is for the message or taking a pic of it and posting it on the internet. Seems kinda stupid, imo.

If I had written the subject line for the OP, I probably would have changed it to "I wonder if he/she posts here?" But, then again, I wouldn't have bothered creating the OP, in the first place.

[BainsBane]

60. I have learned one thing

Conversation with you goes no where. That you think misogyny rises and falls based on the sex of the author of that post is beyond bizarre. I saw proof of nothing, but really it is irrelevant who wrote the post. You yourself said it represented an ideal partner, therefore the list had resonance and showed that some men want women who stay in their place.

And naturally there is no sleuthing about the origins of this post because the whole point is to defend men. Why people think that's necessary, I have no idea, but it does show the complete and utter hypocrisy of the reaction to the other thread. I myself am not so insecure as to see something like this OP as determinative of me, and I have trouble understanding poutrage to something as trivial as ism's thread.

[Demo_Chris]

56. If this is enough to cause 'trauma' her problems go a bit deeper than porn. nt

[nolabear]

57. So what happened to him? Why is he in past tense? And wtf

Happened to that iPhone?

I think he's dead, murdered by the guy who has secretly been in love with the girl all along and saw her descend into despair. They fought, she ran away weeping, neither knowing that stalker guy was listening from the bushes, grinding his teeth, waiting to strike and to take out his demented rage, first on "him" and then on that dirty, dirty phone. Call it "smart phone" if you like, but it wasn't smart enough...was it?

[Coyotl]

58. A 17-year-old boy with a sexy, gorgeous girlfriend is cruising porn

hard to believe