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MiddleFingerMom has died. (Original Post) nolabear Jan 2014 OP
Oh no, he was one of DU's best Bjorn Against Jan 2014 #1
LOL! She's a He, and he'd love that you didn't know. nolabear Jan 2014 #3
I just noticed that and edited my post right before I saw your response Bjorn Against Jan 2014 #7
I agree. Loved his posts. DU will miss him very much. anneboleyn Jan 2014 #72
Kick cause GD threads sink too quickly angstlessk Jan 2014 #2
K&R HipChick Jan 2014 #6
That's awful. I'm sorry to hear that. A very funny guy. TwilightGardener Jan 2014 #4
Well that sucks. Triana Jan 2014 #5
A candle for MFM. pnwmom Jan 2014 #8
RIP MrsKirkley Jan 2014 #9
This makes me very sad. aikoaiko Jan 2014 #10
A LINK below Tx4obama Jan 2014 #11
RIP and say hi to Andy and the rest for the rest of us nadinbrzezinski Jan 2014 #12
I'm still in shock. He got under my skin. nolabear Jan 2014 #13
hugs, I know nadinbrzezinski Jan 2014 #16
The clerk at the store tonight saw my red eyes and said, concerned, "You've been crying." pinboy3niner Jan 2014 #95
I know, I just lost it last night, then came back and cried more today polly7 Jan 2014 #130
Awww Man! icymist Jan 2014 #14
OH SHIT. Oh, man.... NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #15
I'm sorry to hear that. :( TeeYiYi Jan 2014 #17
I've just been here a year and a half and octoberlib Jan 2014 #18
Noooo! Earth_First Jan 2014 #19
Kicking. nolabear Jan 2014 #20
Damn! Thanks for letting us know. scarletwoman Jan 2014 #21
RIP gopiscrap Jan 2014 #22
So glad my path crossed his in this life rurallib Jan 2014 #23
I think quite a few of us have been afraid for him. But it still seems so strange. nolabear Jan 2014 #24
Indeed as I replied to the lounge thread. I was expecting this... Locut0s Jan 2014 #55
RIP Jim bench scientist Jan 2014 #25
No fucking way Beaverhausen Jan 2014 #26
I know, right? TFIMFM. nolabear Jan 2014 #28
This is so very sad. Blue_In_AK Jan 2014 #27
Dark day for DU liberal N proud Jan 2014 #29
No warrior1 Jan 2014 #30
No.... CherokeeDem Jan 2014 #31
oh no! BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2014 #32
So sad. The lights have dimmed for sure..... JohnnyLib2 Jan 2014 #33
Awww Man hootinholler Jan 2014 #34
Oh no. Ilsa Jan 2014 #35
Kick TBF Jan 2014 #36
Safe passage to a Brother and a friend. bluesbassman Jan 2014 #37
Ah, fuck. nt msanthrope Jan 2014 #38
RIP, I loved his postings, they were always so consistently interesting and clever. n/t RKP5637 Jan 2014 #39
thanks, nolabear Kali Jan 2014 #40
To you too, Kali. Our Working Boy would be proud he's getting the attention. nolabear Jan 2014 #42
Sincerest condolences, Kali. Hissyspit Jan 2014 #47
Dear Kali... hunter Jan 2014 #63
My sympathy to the family. I wish them strength and peace at this difficult time. It's weird, I louslobbs Jan 2014 #41
Well, he will certainly be making everyone laugh Curmudgeoness Jan 2014 #43
Shit! OffWithTheirHeads Jan 2014 #44
Kicking with welled up eyes in memory of a special man. And if I've never said it before, I love louslobbs Jan 2014 #45
I'm so sad we've lost our MFM. frogmarch Jan 2014 #46
I might be wrong but I think that's us. nolabear Jan 2014 #48
Yes, us and frogmarch Jan 2014 #51
Very sorry shenmue Jan 2014 #49
Deepest Condolences, to everyone he was close to. Warren DeMontague Jan 2014 #50
RIP MFM pintobean Jan 2014 #52
Such sad tidings. The lounge will not be the same without him. n/t UtahLib Jan 2014 #53
OMG. freshwest Jan 2014 #54
I'm so sorry! herding cats Jan 2014 #56
RIP CreekDog Jan 2014 #57
MFM was cool in life.... sendero Jan 2014 #58
nolabear.. Oh,I'm sorry.. He was special.. DianaForRussFeingold Jan 2014 #59
I am in shock... yuiyoshida Jan 2014 #60
How horrible. I'm so sorry to hear this. nt valerief Jan 2014 #61
RIP MFM Initech Jan 2014 #62
Dang, that just fucking sucks. Throd Jan 2014 #64
I haven't been here long, 2theleft Jan 2014 #65
shocking. i am so sorry to hear this. roguevalley Jan 2014 #66
Not cool lame54 Jan 2014 #67
I'm in mourning. tblue Jan 2014 #68
Sad news. JNelson6563 Jan 2014 #69
. Agschmid Jan 2014 #70
damn. nt awoke_in_2003 Jan 2014 #71
:( Solly Mack Jan 2014 #73
So sorry Tracyjo Jan 2014 #74
sad spanone Jan 2014 #75
Wow, so sad..... Bennyboy Jan 2014 #76
What a shock. :( cynatnite Jan 2014 #77
........ daleanime Jan 2014 #78
My sympathy to his family and friends. blackspade Jan 2014 #79
Being a new member minivan2 Jan 2014 #80
Oh, that's sad. :( I knew he was ill but not how ill. My sympathies to his family. nt laundry_queen Jan 2014 #81
: ((( glinda Jan 2014 #82
RIP MFM kristopher Jan 2014 #83
Ouch Duer 157099 Jan 2014 #84
Rest in peace. Catherine Vincent Jan 2014 #85
RIP Cali_Democrat Jan 2014 #86
RIP DeSwiss Jan 2014 #87
Travel well, MFM. nt geek tragedy Jan 2014 #88
That is so sad, RIP good man... arthritisR_US Jan 2014 #89
RIP, MiddleFingerMom. You'll be missed. Hekate Jan 2014 #90
That's bitter and sad. Travel well friend, I'm poorer for not knowing you better. TheKentuckian Jan 2014 #91
Damn... Shibainu Jan 2014 #92
Unbelievable. jsr Jan 2014 #93
Stunned earlier when I read this. DU has lost yet another great one (nt) The Straight Story Jan 2014 #94
I'm so sorry to all who loved him! :( <3 <3 <3 _/\_ cecilfirefox Jan 2014 #96
He was well-loved here pinboy3niner Jan 2014 #97
K & R...with sadness... Wounded Bear Jan 2014 #98
I am terribly sorry to hear it. LeftishBrit Jan 2014 #99
Safe passage, MFM alphafemale Jan 2014 #100
Peace to you, MiddleFingerMom countryjake Jan 2014 #101
I dont remember him Dpm12 Jan 2014 #102
Always gave me a smile Sienna86 Jan 2014 #103
DU loses another great soul. A sad day riderinthestorm Jan 2014 #104
Travel well, MFM N_E_1 for Tennis Jan 2014 #105
RIP sir. Kingofalldems Jan 2014 #106
OMG no! LynneSin Jan 2014 #107
No words. OneGrassRoot Jan 2014 #108
RIP gademocrat7 Jan 2014 #109
Oh no! MynameisBlarney Jan 2014 #110
Sad. MineralMan Jan 2014 #111
He came up with some inane stuff. RIP sinkingfeeling Jan 2014 #112
Sorry to hear. RIP MFM. nm rhett o rick Jan 2014 #113
My deepest condolences to his friends and family on and off DU. stevenleser Jan 2014 #114
. stonecutter357 Jan 2014 #115
9 years to the day since Khephra died .... Myrina Jan 2014 #116
RIP, Jim av8rdave Jan 2014 #117
Here's to MFM and those like him... Glorfindel Jan 2014 #118
This is what he said to Death: librechik Jan 2014 #119
Heh. I could totally see that... (nt) Recursion Jan 2014 #120
OMG I am soooo sorry to hear this. He will be missed!!!!!!!!!!! n/t onecent Jan 2014 #121
So sad - RIP sweet man. 840high Jan 2014 #122
That's very sad. The_Commonist Jan 2014 #123
Very sad news. Condolences to his family and friends. highplainsdem Jan 2014 #124
That really sucks...peace to his family and friends... joeybee12 Jan 2014 #125
I saw this last night and was shocked and saddened. sabrina 1 Jan 2014 #126
It's hard to imagine DU without MFM. Arugula Latte Jan 2014 #127
So very sad. He will be missed. MannyGoldstein Jan 2014 #128
Peace and safe journey... KansDem Jan 2014 #129
NUTS I am so sorry to hear this. littlewolf Jan 2014 #131
Oh no! mysuzuki2 Jan 2014 #132
Little Kick for the Pantsless, FUcking Immortal MFM nolabear Jan 2014 #133
Kick. Iggo Jan 2014 #134
The Lounge just won't be the same without him! Initech Jan 2014 #135
RIP MFM SkatmanRoth Jan 2014 #136
Rip will miss your post hankthecrank Jan 2014 #137
So sad. alfredo Jan 2014 #138
I've posted this before, but it needs to be said... Callmecrazy Jan 2014 #139
With sadness I am kicking this for others who missed it first time round. nt MADem Jan 2014 #140
Thanks MADem. nolabear Jan 2014 #141
Kali wrote a beautiful post in the lounge that people might want to read. MADem Jan 2014 #142
I know. I've been keeping up. Lots of reflecting going on. nolabear Jan 2014 #143
I can't believe how young he was--way too soon. nt MADem Jan 2014 #144

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
7. I just noticed that and edited my post right before I saw your response
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:09 PM
Jan 2014

I always assumed he was a she based on his user name, he fooled me and it is fitting because he was a very funny person and was always making me laugh.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
12. RIP and say hi to Andy and the rest for the rest of us
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:12 PM
Jan 2014

Yes, MFM has been a member that long.

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
13. I'm still in shock. He got under my skin.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:14 PM
Jan 2014

You know, that good/crazy way people get under your skin.

I'm really sad.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
95. The clerk at the store tonight saw my red eyes and said, concerned, "You've been crying."
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 03:01 AM
Jan 2014

"Yeah," I told her. "I lost a friend today."

R.I.P., MFM

polly7

(20,582 posts)
130. I know, I just lost it last night, then came back and cried more today
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 02:06 PM
Jan 2014

just reading how loved he was (and is - wherever your are now, MFM) by so many people. It's very, very sad.

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
18. I've just been here a year and a half and
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:17 PM
Jan 2014
don't spend that much time in the lounge but his posts made me laugh. RIP

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
21. Damn! Thanks for letting us know.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:22 PM
Jan 2014

I never hang out in the Lounge, so I never really got to know MFM all that well. I knew who he was, and I came across a few of his more notorious posts over the years - it was apparent that he had a unique sense of humor.

I'm so sorry to hear that he's died. His passing leaves a big hole in DU, for sure. I wish him a good journey.

rurallib

(64,684 posts)
23. So glad my path crossed his in this life
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:24 PM
Jan 2014

been worrying about his health for over a year. Hope he is in peace.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
55. Indeed as I replied to the lounge thread. I was expecting this...
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 11:05 PM
Jan 2014

I was actually expecting to hear this at some point.

I remember when I first started posting here again about a year ago I didn't know who MFM was. For some reason he PMed me or I PMed him for something. At that time he had already posted a few things about his heart problems. I asked him what his diagnosis was, if he was on a transplant list. We replied by saying he didn't want to talk about that, that it hit too close to home. I apologized for upsetting him. I know from later posts that he forgave my asking him and was usually very friendly, kind, supportive towards me. But I knew from the moment he replied in that manner that likely his prospects were not good. So I was expecting this for quite some time actually. And yet like you said it's still shocking.

CherokeeDem

(3,736 posts)
31. No....
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:31 PM
Jan 2014

I was worried after the last news...

A sad day for us all...

May he bring joy to those who have gone before him....

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
42. To you too, Kali. Our Working Boy would be proud he's getting the attention.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:38 PM
Jan 2014

Maybe not like THIS.

louslobbs

(3,416 posts)
41. My sympathy to the family. I wish them strength and peace at this difficult time. It's weird, I
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:37 PM
Jan 2014

felt like I knew him "for real."
Respectfully,
Lou

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
43. Well, he will certainly be making everyone laugh
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:43 PM
Jan 2014

wherever he is.

Thanks for letting us know. This is a sad day.

louslobbs

(3,416 posts)
45. Kicking with welled up eyes in memory of a special man. And if I've never said it before, I love
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:52 PM
Jan 2014

my DU family, warts and all.
With love,
Lou

frogmarch

(12,251 posts)
46. I'm so sad we've lost our MFM.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:52 PM
Jan 2014

It doesn't seem real.

My condolences to his family and friends.

frogmarch

(12,251 posts)
51. Yes, us and
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:57 PM
Jan 2014

everyone else who knew him.

I can't stop crying.

He was very brave. If he was ever afraid, he never let on.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
50. Deepest Condolences, to everyone he was close to.
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 10:56 PM
Jan 2014
to the lounge.

He seemed like a real cool character. One of a kind, as Dr. Gonzo would say.

Rest In Peace.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
58. MFM was cool in life....
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 11:21 PM
Jan 2014

....and he will be cool in death. Godspeed to him and his family.

2theleft

(1,137 posts)
65. I haven't been here long,
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 11:54 PM
Jan 2014

but I always checked his posts and just adored his sense of humor and his daily good news posts. I did let him know how special I thought he was one time. I wish I had said it more.

I'm so very sorry to those of you who were especially close to him. I would have loved to have known him.

 

Bennyboy

(10,440 posts)
76. Wow, so sad.....
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 12:37 AM
Jan 2014

One of my favorites. Really after the big purge, the only reason I visited the lounge. use to crack me up just reading the titles. Bummed.

kristopher

(29,798 posts)
83. RIP MFM
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 01:22 AM
Jan 2014

May joy and peace surround you with contentment to latch your door,
And may happiness be with you now, to bless you evermore.

Dpm12

(512 posts)
102. I dont remember him
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 07:35 AM
Jan 2014

nor did I know him, but I cannot help but feel sorry for him, and I wish nothing but the best for his family. RIP

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
107. OMG no!
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 09:33 AM
Jan 2014

This is sad news. MFM was like sunshine in the lounge. He will truly be missed. My heart and prayers go out to his family!

The_Commonist

(2,518 posts)
123. That's very sad.
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 12:39 PM
Jan 2014

He was quite a character!
Which in my humble opinion, is just about the best thing one can say about another human being.

Rest in peace, MFM!!!

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
126. I saw this last night and was shocked and saddened.
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 01:01 PM
Jan 2014

'Goodnight sweet prince, maybe bands of angels take you to your rest'.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
127. It's hard to imagine DU without MFM.
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 01:02 PM
Jan 2014

If I believed in an afterlife I'd picture him floating around in the clouds -- pantsless, of course.

Here's to you, MFM. Thanks for all the laughs.

Initech

(108,669 posts)
135. The Lounge just won't be the same without him!
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 05:21 PM
Jan 2014

Last edited Fri Jan 10, 2014, 07:21 PM - Edit history (1)

I shall raise a glass in his honor!

Callmecrazy

(3,069 posts)
139. I've posted this before, but it needs to be said...
Fri Jan 10, 2014, 07:58 PM
Jan 2014

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamonds glint of snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the autumn's gentle rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there,
I did not die.

I live with the risen Lord.

Author Unknown

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
141. Thanks MADem.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 12:51 AM
Jan 2014

It's probably a good idea to bounce it up a few times. People have really been here for one another.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
142. Kali wrote a beautiful post in the lounge that people might want to read.
Sun Jan 12, 2014, 01:02 AM
Jan 2014

What a good friend!

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