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Here's A Horrifying Picture Of What Sleep Loss Will Do To You (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Jan 2014 OP
Great I am fucked Egnever Jan 2014 #1
Not necessarily... Everyones metabolism is different... SomethingFishy Jan 2014 #7
I hallucinated in ICU after having my 3rd surgery in 2 weeks time... CTyankee Jan 2014 #8
Wow at least I got a Leprechaun! SomethingFishy Jan 2014 #10
The train one was kinda nice. I asked the nurse if I was on the train to CTyankee Jan 2014 #13
See, that would be just my luck. LisaLynne Jan 2014 #12
I think hallucinations are frightening anyway. The thought that the brain can CTyankee Jan 2014 #15
You mean a grocery store manager that cares? Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2014 #39
Yeah, I thought those nurses uniforms were the uniforms worn in the supermarket! CTyankee Jan 2014 #43
Now you know why a bunch of nuns walking around causes religious visions. Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2014 #46
OMG... CTyankee Jan 2014 #50
Imagine the visions during the Black Death.... Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2014 #85
I was an RN and worked for a while at Brooke Army Medical Center. Rozlee Jan 2014 #24
Love it! I believe it, too! CTyankee Jan 2014 #45
My wife was a nurses' assistant and had one story Thav Jan 2014 #78
LOL. The San Antonio Spurs Coyote mascot once was visiting the injured troops at BAMC and Rozlee Jan 2014 #83
I hallucinated after major surgery but I figured it was the drugs. philly_bob Jan 2014 #41
Hmmmm... TlalocW Jan 2014 #2
I’m mossy, Jerry. My brain is mossy progressoid Jan 2014 #16
My bladder already has me on that schedule. alfredo Jan 2014 #26
Bwahahahaha! valerief Jan 2014 #47
My dog gets me up every two hours dickthegrouch Jan 2014 #60
I stopped the pills and now I seem ok. Honey and milk, alfredo Jan 2014 #66
Quality sleep is a prime reason I use woo-minerals and woo-herbs. tridim Jan 2014 #3
What do you use? hibbing Jan 2014 #25
Take a tablespoon of honey before turning in. It gets the Serotonin pumping. alfredo Jan 2014 #27
I find Valerian root works well. Qutzupalotl Jan 2014 #33
I second this, re: melatonin vs valerian root reflection Jan 2014 #36
yeah same with me on the melatonin. arely staircase Jan 2014 #61
interesting. reflection Jan 2014 #65
Valerian root smells like fresh cat droppings. Owl Jan 2014 #55
I used to air the capsules out a bit curlyred Jan 2014 #68
Very bright light usually works to counter that with melatonin. (NT) Heywood J Jan 2014 #77
melatonin doesn't work for everyone laundry_queen Jan 2014 #37
All melatonin did for me (years ago) was give me my period. Needless to say, valerief Jan 2014 #49
LOL! I'd stop taking it too! nt laundry_queen Jan 2014 #52
Melatonin worked but I couldn't handle the dreams Populist_Prole Jan 2014 #56
Magnesium citrate/chloride and mega-dose vitamin C. tridim Jan 2014 #42
I use one of those heating pads you put in the microwave & herb tea -- sleepytime with valerian. El_Johns Jan 2014 #71
I use: grahamhgreen Jan 2014 #84
I take over-the-counter sleep aids and they work great for me. RebelOne Jan 2014 #28
I had Sleep Apnea for 9 years before being diagnosed Lochloosa Jan 2014 #4
+1 freshwest Jan 2014 #5
I have severe sleep apnea too Larkspur Jan 2014 #6
I have a similar story. zeemike Jan 2014 #17
32 Times an hour for me. I still don't know why I only got an 8 out of 10. Lochloosa Jan 2014 #21
I can't imagine what a 10 would be. zeemike Jan 2014 #23
Yeah, it's nice to dream again. Lochloosa Jan 2014 #74
Are those your AHI numbers? W_HAMILTON Jan 2014 #58
I'm not sure what my AHI number was. Lochloosa Jan 2014 #73
I'm a PSG/EEG tech.... rppper Jan 2014 #82
rppper I must have been atypical. Mine started, at least as close as I can narrow it down, at 29. Lochloosa Jan 2014 #88
Yes and no.... rppper Jan 2014 #89
I keep answering post hoping anyone gets the message. Get TESTED! It will save you life. Lochloosa Jan 2014 #90
Same here - was told young women don't have apnea REP Jan 2014 #18
If anything will kill me, this will nt MrScorpio Jan 2014 #9
+1000 Blue_Tires Jan 2014 #22
K&R redqueen Jan 2014 #11
My biggest problem with sleep right now ... LisaLynne Jan 2014 #14
I have a dog like that. You made me laugh. And as soon as he's eaten he goes right back to sleep. El_Johns Jan 2014 #72
Yeah, they can sleep all day, so it's nothing to them! LisaLynne Jan 2014 #76
My OCD fucks up my sleep bad. hunter Jan 2014 #19
The truth is... Helen Borg Jan 2014 #20
Linked theory to why estrogen replacement therapy prevents alzheimer's mainer Jan 2014 #29
I am so screwed :( Demo_Chris Jan 2014 #30
You know what gets me? How society glamorizes being a sleep-deprived go-getter Populist_Prole Jan 2014 #31
I agree, that's a pet peeve of mine as well laundry_queen Jan 2014 #51
Interesting post. Wow. Populist_Prole Jan 2014 #57
Sleep deprivation is an enhanced interrogation technique. OnyxCollie Jan 2014 #32
It's really sadistic, like all forms of torture. NealK Jan 2014 #35
no major organ damage... no problem! Agony Jan 2014 #63
Yawn. Nye Bevan Jan 2014 #34
I should be dead already.... Plucketeer Jan 2014 #38
You know you are overworked when going to sleep is passing out and waking up is coming to. Spitfire of ATJ Jan 2014 #40
over Forty years of not sleeping demigoddess Jan 2014 #44
The real problem is that morning people are righteous tyrants Matariki Jan 2014 #48
+1 Million Populist_Prole Jan 2014 #54
Yeah, there's definitely a bias that's difficult not to resent Matariki Jan 2014 #59
I can relate laundry_queen Jan 2014 #64
, blkmusclmachine Jan 2014 #53
Tryptophan works for me. nt arely staircase Jan 2014 #62
Trazodone works for me....n/t PasadenaTrudy Jan 2014 #67
there's also an economic factor: no job = stress MisterP Jan 2014 #69
but having a job is also stressful. El_Johns Jan 2014 #70
and here I thought - LiberalElite Jan 2014 #75
Anyone have 'restless legs"? Fix The Stupid Jan 2014 #79
Yup. I also have hypnagogic jerks. Dash87 Jan 2014 #87
Sleep is often overlooked Harmony Blue Jan 2014 #80
This thread is making me sleepy. Vattel Jan 2014 #81
When I was young, I used to experiment with not sleeping. Dash87 Jan 2014 #86
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
1. Great I am fucked
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 04:23 PM
Jan 2014

Been sleeping less than six hours a day for 8 years now. Ever since my kid got type 1 diabetes. Guess i am screwed.

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
7. Not necessarily... Everyones metabolism is different...
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:05 PM
Jan 2014

I can get by on 6 hours a night no problem and so far I am pretty healthy for a 50 year old..

That being said, in my younger days I once stayed up for 5 days straight. On day five I was walking home from a friends house when a little Leprechaun jumped out of a tree, looked at me and said "Man, you need to get some fucking sleep", so I went home and went to bed. True story, although I'm pretty sure the Leprechaun was a hallucination

CTyankee

(68,197 posts)
8. I hallucinated in ICU after having my 3rd surgery in 2 weeks time...
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:13 PM
Jan 2014

I remember them, too. I was told by a anesthesiologist that it was caused by sleep deprivation. They weren't bad, I didn't see snakes. In one I thought I was on a train and my brain was actually telling me to feel the vibration of the train, which was weird. In another I thought I was being trained as a cashier at my local supermarket...

SomethingFishy

(4,876 posts)
10. Wow at least I got a Leprechaun!
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:18 PM
Jan 2014

Cashier at the local grocer doesn't sound like much fun

When I told my doctor the story years later he said the same thing your anesthesiologist did. Sleep depravation causes hallucinations..

CTyankee

(68,197 posts)
13. The train one was kinda nice. I asked the nurse if I was on the train to
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:21 PM
Jan 2014

New Haven and she said "you are in Yale New Haven Hospital." Well, okay, then, if you say so...

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
12. See, that would be just my luck.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:21 PM
Jan 2014

I'd hallucinate something like that, while others are getting advice from mythical creatures.

CTyankee

(68,197 posts)
15. I think hallucinations are frightening anyway. The thought that the brain can
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:24 PM
Jan 2014

alter reality in such a way creeps me out...

CTyankee

(68,197 posts)
43. Yeah, I thought those nurses uniforms were the uniforms worn in the supermarket!
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:52 PM
Jan 2014

Crazy, huh?

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
85. Imagine the visions during the Black Death....
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 03:38 PM
Jan 2014

Doctors thought sickness was caused by bad odors so they wore masks stuffed with flowers. These masks were fashioned to look like birds.



Rozlee

(2,529 posts)
24. I was an RN and worked for a while at Brooke Army Medical Center.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:56 PM
Jan 2014

I was in post-op recovery once and this one patient was cracking us up yelling about a rooster riding around his bed on a bicycle. One of the techs asked him if it was a Buckeye or a Rhode Island Red. I kept having a mental image of Foghorn Leghorn zooming around on a bike saying, "Hey, son, stop that, ah say, stop that hollerin'."

Thav

(950 posts)
78. My wife was a nurses' assistant and had one story
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 11:41 AM
Jan 2014

She went into a room answering a call light. The guy said, "There... there isn't really a tiger in the corner is there?" "No, there's not." "Ok, I see one but I know i'm in the hospital and why would the hospital have a tiger?"

Rozlee

(2,529 posts)
83. LOL. The San Antonio Spurs Coyote mascot once was visiting the injured troops at BAMC and
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 01:18 PM
Jan 2014

I remember how this one frantic patient rang us up to tell us that we needed to check the dosage on his Morphine pump because he had just seen a seven foot tall "freaky thing" dancing in his doorway.

philly_bob

(2,433 posts)
41. I hallucinated after major surgery but I figured it was the drugs.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:47 PM
Jan 2014

Curious how anesthesiologists deny that their drugs had anything to do with it. I didn't sleep well after the operation, but I did sleep and dream.

I had open heart surgery, and they use POWERFUL drugs to knock you out for that.

Actually, those hallucinations changed the way I do art: see artist's statement and work at http://www.philly-bob.net

TlalocW

(15,675 posts)
2. Hmmmm...
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 04:37 PM
Jan 2014

I've been thinking of going to a polyphasic sleep schedule, where you don't sleep more than 2 hours at a time. I've often heard it's not just sleep that you need but REM-cycle (dreaming) sleep, and I fall into that very quickly.

TlalocW

dickthegrouch

(4,516 posts)
60. My dog gets me up every two hours
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 08:19 PM
Jan 2014

Little beast isn't tall enough to get back on the bed after he jumps off. So he paws and whines until he's lifted back up.

I've had trouble sleeping most of my adult life, but since the dog started doing this, it's 5x worse.

I used ambien for a long time, but decided I should taper it off when I couldn't afford it any longer. Coming off it was the worst. I had terrible nightmares every night for months.

alfredo

(60,297 posts)
66. I stopped the pills and now I seem ok. Honey and milk,
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 10:11 PM
Jan 2014

or chamomile tea and honey seem to work now.

tridim

(45,358 posts)
3. Quality sleep is a prime reason I use woo-minerals and woo-herbs.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 04:38 PM
Jan 2014

They don't knock me out like Rx sleep aids, they just make it easy to sleep.

hibbing

(10,597 posts)
25. What do you use?
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:02 PM
Jan 2014

Hey,
I have been having a hell of a time even getting to sleep, let alone staying asleep. I flip and flop and just cannot get comfortable. I have thought about trying melanonin.

Peace

Qutzupalotl

(15,821 posts)
33. I find Valerian root works well.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:23 PM
Jan 2014

It literally smells like manure, but other than that it's fine and just the thing for my problem, which is calming a restless mind. As it kicks in, I am more able to put off worrying until tomorrow. Not much of a "hangover" either; a little coffee and I'm back in business.

Melatonin also works but causes vivid, long and perplexing dreams. Also, I'm usually tired the next morning for a while.

reflection

(6,287 posts)
36. I second this, re: melatonin vs valerian root
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:35 PM
Jan 2014

Valerian Root is so much more pleasant than melatonin. Melatonin will kick my ass to sleep quickly (onset 15 minutes or so), give me some real vivid dreams, and then I'm tired the next day.

Valerian root takes longer (about an hour) and slides me in more gently, no unusual dreams, but I feel a shit-ton better the next day.

Tried Rozerem once. Never again. Nasty. Like melatonin on steroids, even though I assume the receptors being manipulated are different.

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
61. yeah same with me on the melatonin.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 08:26 PM
Jan 2014

Great sleep awesome dreams but dragging ass the next day. Recently discovered L tryptophan. So far so good. Valerian has a nice pleasant sedative effect for me but won't put me to sleep. It is like a extremly tiny dose of xanax. Good for mild anxiety but not sleep. The best anti anxiety thing I have found is L theanine. Relaxing and seems to improves my concentration.

Owl

(3,768 posts)
55. Valerian root smells like fresh cat droppings.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 07:24 PM
Jan 2014

It is helpful though (if you can get past the gag reflex).

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
37. melatonin doesn't work for everyone
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:37 PM
Jan 2014

my brother insists it does nothing for him.

I'm totally opposite. I once bought a bottle of extra strength melatonin capsules and followed the directions - I took one before bed. I couldn't stay awake for the entire weekend. Seriously.

I did a little reading and found some people are sensitive so I found some low dose chewables and I break them in half (The dosage is 2 chewables before bed, I take half of 1 chewable so 1/4 the dosage). It's more than enough to help me get restful sleep. My biggest issue was staying asleep...now I have no problems, even if I have caffeine late at night. I don't take it every night though, just nights that I feel like there may be a problem.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
49. All melatonin did for me (years ago) was give me my period. Needless to say,
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:55 PM
Jan 2014

I stopped taking it.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
56. Melatonin worked but I couldn't handle the dreams
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 07:26 PM
Jan 2014

It took a while for me to put 2 and 2 together but I found it gave me sleep, but not very restful sleep. Oh I wouldn't have frightening nightmares or anything, but the dreams were indeed vivid versions of daily life. Nothing spectacular happens in them, but when I get up I felt like I've really been through a lot.

tridim

(45,358 posts)
42. Magnesium citrate/chloride and mega-dose vitamin C.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:48 PM
Jan 2014

They calmed my bedtime anxiety down to zero in less than a week.

Search for "Vitamin C cortisol" if you're having racing, anxious thoughts that keep you awake.

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
71. I use one of those heating pads you put in the microwave & herb tea -- sleepytime with valerian.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 02:56 AM
Jan 2014

or tension tamer.

it usually works. the heating pad i put on anything that feels achy, but i think the warmth helps you sleep too.



 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
84. I use:
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 01:27 PM
Jan 2014

Melatonin 9+mg
Holy basil extract (lowers cortisol)
5-htp (increases seratonin)
Dash of powdered glutamine

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
28. I take over-the-counter sleep aids and they work great for me.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:08 PM
Jan 2014

I have an awful time trying to get to sleep. So with a glass of wine and a couple of sleep pills, I am completely knocked out. I usually awake around 4:30 to 7:00 a.m. and feel totally refreshed.

Lochloosa

(16,733 posts)
4. I had Sleep Apnea for 9 years before being diagnosed
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 04:42 PM
Jan 2014

It was hell during those years. Being told everything from depression (which was ludicrous if you knew me) to Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, which I did take seriously.

I had no idea what was causing my symptoms till I got married and my wife casually mentioned that I stopped breathing in my sleep. I made a doctors appointment the next day and he immediately sent me for a sleep study. I was an 8 on a scale of 10. The second night of the study, after waking from 6 hours with a CPAP mask on, I was really groggy. The sleep tech said that was from
"REM Overload". He said I just had 6 hours straight of REM sleep, something I had not had for 9 years. It was the first day in a long time that I did not need a 2-4 hour nap in the afternoon.


Never underestimated the value of a good night sleep.

 

Larkspur

(12,804 posts)
6. I have severe sleep apnea too
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:01 PM
Jan 2014

I woke one night a couple years ago because I felt like an invisible hand was choking me when I was sleeping prone on my bed. It took a couple months before I had enough and went to my doctor who sent me to a sleep doctor, who tested me and got me on a CPAP machine. I can no longer sleep prone in bed without a CPAP machine.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
17. I have a similar story.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:38 PM
Jan 2014

Only it was not discovered until I was hospitalized for congestive heart failure.
And in the sleep study they did on me the nurse told me I had stooped breathing 26 times in one hour.
Once I started using the CPAP mask everything changed...it is hard to explain how much better I felt...and many of my physical problems went away.
So this OP is no surprise to me.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
23. I can't imagine what a 10 would be.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:55 PM
Jan 2014

But I think we are both examples of how fucked up it is when you don't get that REM sleep time.

W_HAMILTON

(10,333 posts)
58. Are those your AHI numbers?
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 07:56 PM
Jan 2014

My AHI was 115 when I was first diagnosed. I went in for a sleep study because my brain had become mush: I couldn't focus, I couldn't remember things like I used to, etc. I slept all the time and still felt tired.

Did you have any of the memory / focus / concentration problems? Did they get cured once you started CPAP?

I've been using my CPAP machine regularly since around 2012, and, sadly, a lot of the initial symptoms I went in for have not gotten better. I still can't focus very well, I still can't remember things like I used to, etc., even though my AHI number now is usually 1 - 3. I'm still pretty much tired all the time as well. I wonder if I seriously damaged some portions of the brain while I went untreated I hope that someday I will regain the brain I once had, but it doesn't seem like it......

I haven't had a sleep study in a couple of years now; maybe I should have one done again to see if my machine needs to be recalibrated or something.

Lochloosa

(16,733 posts)
73. I'm not sure what my AHI number was.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 08:04 AM
Jan 2014

And, yes it took a while for my memory problems to recover. I don't think/know if it will ever be the same but that could be due to aging.

If you feel the CPAP is not working right by all means get it checked. I think you can get a new one every three years, but I'm sure it's different with every insurance company. Imagine that.

Be persistent with them. It's important.

rppper

(2,952 posts)
82. I'm a PSG/EEG tech....
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 12:55 PM
Jan 2014

I've seen people stop breathing for nearly 3 minutes....seen people sleep for hours with their O2 levels dropping into the 60% range....scarey stuff....you put the same patients on cpap or bipap and they sleep in a fetal position for 6 hours when you figure out their numbers....what we shoot for with cpap is no apneas in supine position and REM sleep in supine at the end of the test. A normal rem patern is three distinct periods, an hour into sleep, midway through and at the end. Many times people have been having apneas unbeknownst to them for 20+ years. If you're heavy, diabetic, Over 30, have had heart problems or just have a big neck you probably have some degree of apnea. There are different types of apneas too, the most common being obstructive apneas and hypopneas. You also have central apneas, which tend to run in brain damaged patients, patients with Parkinson's, strokes, TIAs or dementia

Lochloosa

(16,733 posts)
88. rppper I must have been atypical. Mine started, at least as close as I can narrow it down, at 29.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 04:47 PM
Jan 2014

I was not overweight, no family history of heart problems, diabetic or had a big neck.

Apnea sapped the life out of me for a long time. I do have obstructive apnea and the CPAP has saved my life.

Everyone needs to be aware of the dangers of Apnea and if there is a hint of a problem GET A SLEEP STUDY.

rppper

(2,952 posts)
89. Yes and no....
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 08:55 PM
Jan 2014

I've seen people of all shapes and sizes with moderate to severe apnea, but if you're reasonably healthy you're probably ok. Besides being rough on your body and brain, apnea prevents you from getting the amount of deep N3 sleep and REM your body needs....think of it as diving into a pool, staying under for 30-45 seconds...when you hit the surface, you gasp for air. In sleep medicine this gasp is called an arousal...you wake up for a split second, fall back asleep and the cycle starts again, all night. It also causes leg kicks....plms or restless leg syndrome...jimmy legs on Seinfeld lol...these wake you up as well. In the short term your tired and easily winded, long term apnea can add stress to your heart, lungs and brain....seizures in your sleep....hypoxia....very nasty...

I tell everyone I know to get tested if you're in one of the risk groups, or even if you start feeling tired constantly....I see a lot of AFIB on older patients that cpap helps...get tested...it's worth it to find out if nothing else.

Lochloosa

(16,733 posts)
90. I keep answering post hoping anyone gets the message. Get TESTED! It will save you life.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 11:52 PM
Jan 2014

REP

(21,691 posts)
18. Same here - was told young women don't have apnea
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:38 PM
Jan 2014

Actually, that I was "too young, too thin and too female" and that I had fibromyalgia, even though none of my symptoms matched what was being called fibro back then. It got to the point where I was having hypnopompic hallucinations (onset of REM while awake) because I never got past Stage 2 sleep. Ever. I also blacked out randomly. Living like that was indescribably terrible.

When I finally saw a doctor who took me seriously, my O2 sat was 60% while sleeping; dangerously low. My AHI was 61 and I was congratulated on having the most severe apnea they'd seen. It was determined I have mixed apnea: obstructive from small airways and a concha bullosa and central, where my brain "forgets" to breathe at times. So even with xPAP, I'll never feel completely well-rested, but I'll never feel like walking death again, either.

LisaLynne

(14,554 posts)
14. My biggest problem with sleep right now ...
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:23 PM
Jan 2014

is my orange cat who thinks that he will starve to death precisely at 4:01 AM. Therefore, he has to get me up at 4. :/

 

El_Johns

(1,805 posts)
72. I have a dog like that. You made me laugh. And as soon as he's eaten he goes right back to sleep.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 03:00 AM
Jan 2014

But I can't.

hunter

(40,688 posts)
19. My OCD fucks up my sleep bad.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:40 PM
Jan 2014

Next stop is nightmares, major depression, paranoia, and if I wait too long, psychosis.

But sleep drugs don't help me much, they just shift the crazy into my waking hours.

Anti-OCD, anti-depressant, and slightly off-label anti-psychotics work for me.

There are good mental health therapists and physicians out there. My advice to anyone suffering: keep trying until you find what works.

My own dark place is hell. Not a suicidal hell because my OCD takes over and it knows I couldn't do anything I *NEED* to do if I was dead, but it's still Hell. So I take my meds, yucky side effects and all, and then I am somewhat functional in "normal" society.

Nothing wrong with that, and much better than the alternatives.

Helen Borg

(3,963 posts)
20. The truth is...
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 05:41 PM
Jan 2014

That there are large individual differences in sleep patterns. There are people who function well on just 4 hours of sleep. I know two of them. They are highly successful, very approachable and they look just fine. Good for them.

mainer

(12,553 posts)
29. Linked theory to why estrogen replacement therapy prevents alzheimer's
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:14 PM
Jan 2014

if given close to menopausal onset. Some researchers think it has to do with better sleep quality on ERT in menopausal women.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
31. You know what gets me? How society glamorizes being a sleep-deprived go-getter
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:18 PM
Jan 2014

As if being a late riser is tantamount to laziness and sloth.

Me? I'm toast if I get less than 8 hours. Oh I can occasionally get only 6 hours and be alright if it's because I'm traveling or getting up early for an event I'm excited about, but not an average workday. When I worked midnight shift ( 11PM - 7AM ) I made it a point to set aside 8 - 8.5 hours for undisturbed rest. I was often chided by my friends for not being around for this or that despite being home for the day, and it did negatively affect my social life; but at work I was sharp as a tack and on top of my game while so many others were like whiny cranky kids in need of a nap; making them difficult to work with.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
51. I agree, that's a pet peeve of mine as well
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:55 PM
Jan 2014

I've always needed tons of sleep. My mom said I slept 12 hours through the night from the time I was 3 months old until I was a preteen. Even then I still needed 10 hours a night until my late teens. I remember being called lazy often by my dad, who thought everyone should be up by 5 am. As a teen, if I was still sleeping at 9 or 10 am on the weekends, he would wake me up, or be deliberately loud so I couldn't sleep. My parents still call me lazy because I catch up on sleep on the weekends. (during the week I'm lucky to get 6 hours, due to getting up early with my kids, being a single parent and in school etc). However, when my mom falls asleep in front of the tv at 7pm on Friday, that's not lazy, that's "I've worked hard all week".

My ex-h is one who doesn't need much sleep. And that's something he passed down to 3 of our 4 kids. My oldest was the worst. I remember, as a newborn, she would only sleep in 30-45 minute increments. I thought I was going to go insane from lack of sleep. Everyone lectured me about how newborns always sleep 12-14 hours, even if it's just in small bits. So I added it all up. 8 hours, and just barely. My newborn needed less sleep than I did And even today she only sleeps about 5-6 hours a night, at 16 years old. She says if she gets more than that, she feels crabby and has a headache. My other kids are better, and one of them is just like I am. When she started school, she would come home and CRASH if she went to bed past 8 the night before. She often napped on the weekends too, in addition to sleeping 12 hours. She's now almost 11 and on the weekends - I let her sleep. She often sleeps till noon. She's just like how I was. And I don't call her lazy, because she's not. She just needs more sleep.

I remember a study that showed a huge difference between high schools that started at 8 am vs 9 am. The schools that started at 9am always had less absenteeism and higher grades on average. I believe it...I've only had one 8 am class since I've started university and it was one of my lowest marks. I had to get up before 5 to get all my kids ready and off to their different caregivers and by the time I made it to school - a long commute - I was already exhausted. ugh. Thankfully our final was in the afternoon, and I aced it to pull my mark up. I avoid 8 am classes at all costs.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
57. Interesting post. Wow.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 07:31 PM
Jan 2014

The double standard of early risers annoy me too. I'm lazy for sleeping from 1AM to 10AM, but my parents ( when they visit or I visit them ) aren't lazy when they crash in front of the TV from 6PM to 6AM.

 

OnyxCollie

(9,958 posts)
32. Sleep deprivation is an enhanced interrogation technique.
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:21 PM
Jan 2014

But it's not like a week without sleep is gonna hurt you, right?

 

Plucketeer

(12,882 posts)
38. I should be dead already....
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:37 PM
Jan 2014

I'll be 69 next month. I was diagnosed with apnea 18 years ago. I'm envious of those who crow about how a CPAP unit helps them. How the HELL do you keep one on your face??? Even the few nights I managed to nod off with one on, I'd wake up later with the mask tossed to the floor beside my bed! I now sleep on my belly at night. It's not great, but it's better'n it was.

demigoddess

(6,675 posts)
44. over Forty years of not sleeping
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:52 PM
Jan 2014

due to handicapped child who could not sleep for various reasons. God, I should be dead by now!!

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
48. The real problem is that morning people are righteous tyrants
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 06:54 PM
Jan 2014

who are fucking up everything for the rest of us.

Studies show that night people tend to be more intelligent and creative - and morning people are better organizers and planners. Hence the morning people tend to end up in management and run the rest of us ragged with their stupid early start times.

I can't wait until the science of healthy sleep cycles becomes common knowledge and schools and businesses adjust to something more flexible or at least more balanced between morning and night people.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
54. +1 Million
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 07:21 PM
Jan 2014

The smug among the early risers may get the worm, but they do crash earlier, just as I begin to hit my stride. Yet they make snide overtones that suggest us night people are lazy for getting up later than them....despite the fact we wen't to bed much later and got no more actual sack time than they did.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
59. Yeah, there's definitely a bias that's difficult not to resent
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 08:15 PM
Jan 2014

I can't tell you how many late nights I'd pull at my jobs - where my coworkers were no where to be seen.

I'm actually kind of terrified. I'm starting a job that has supposed flex time but the latest start time is 9am. I haven't had to be at a job before 10 in my entire adult life. It was too good a job to pass on but I'm not sure if I'm going to handle that schedule well

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
64. I can relate
Mon Jan 13, 2014, 09:16 PM
Jan 2014

I was a stay at home mom for 15 years before my ex left. So, my sleep cycles weren't an issue for many years. But, then I went to school full time. I've been lucky, with the exception of 1 semester, that I've been able to get classes almost always later than 9:30 am, and usually my school day started at 12:30 pm. Currently, I'm doing a mix of evening and online courses. It's worked very well for me, I'm doing better than ever in school. I only have, after this term, 2 classes left to graduate and then I have to look for a job. I'm worried because not only do I have to make sure I get a job that starts late enough that I can get my kids to school, but now I won't be able to take a short nap after dropping them off (most school days I have to be up at 6am to get the kids to their bus stops). I'm not sure I'm going to be able to deal with a regular work day at all. And in my field, there's no shift work or evening work. It's 8-5. No choices. I could always work out of my home...but I'm not good at drumming up business. ugh. Not looking forward to it, at all.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
69. there's also an economic factor: no job = stress
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 02:43 AM
Jan 2014

2 jobs, 30somethings are still stuck at home for nigh on a decade with their old parents--hardly conducive

Fix The Stupid

(1,000 posts)
79. Anyone have 'restless legs"?
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 12:31 PM
Jan 2014

Let me tell you...I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

Trying to sleep, dead tired, but your ^&$*@^ legs are twitching, moving, feel like a compressed spring ready to pop...

It's an awful feeling.

I cut out caffeinated coffee - helped a bit, but there are times when I wish I would just die, get it over with.

I seem to be restless until 5:00am - then I could sleep forever, but this work thingy gets me up at 6:30am every day...

Sucks.


Dash87

(3,220 posts)
87. Yup. I also have hypnagogic jerks.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 04:03 PM
Jan 2014

(Begins to sleep) Ahhhhh... AHHH I'M FALLING!

I also get weird hypnagogia.

Harmony Blue

(3,978 posts)
80. Sleep is often overlooked
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 12:34 PM
Jan 2014

when it comes to students in college. The think that studying late a night helps but a good night's sleep is always going to provide you with one better letter grade then the "extra" study time.

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
86. When I was young, I used to experiment with not sleeping.
Tue Jan 14, 2014, 03:57 PM
Jan 2014

For some reason, I'm not able to stay up like most people - I can barely make 24 hrs. I just pass out at around 22 hrs and become unresponsive for a short amount of time.

At around 16 hrs awake, I begin to feel slightly paranoid, but not too bad.

18-22 hrs - paranoia, especially in low light levels. Definite change in thinking. It becomes progressively worse with time.

22 hrs - 23 hrs - Unresponsive but not totally out of it. I would have 'waking nightmares' where I wouldn't notice falling asleep and began to dream as if I was still in my room trying to stay up.

23 hrs+ - Either forced microsleeps or forced sleeping

Staying awake seemed to encourage nightmares. It was weird.

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