I think OP did the right thing, but here you are

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not being quite sympathetic - the good it would do is that it is shown more that society doesn't accept it. If someone uses the F word in court, they will hear about it, no? It shows what the standards are. If appropriate, why not let them know they are beyond the bounds? They want to think it's OK and that's why they are doing it. To show their white dominance and prove it to themselves.