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WE JUST BECAME GRANDPARENTS
our daughter in law gave an emergency birth about 2 hours ago. Baby had a good birth weight
6lbs 7oz
Does anyone know where to find a cheap bassinett? I thought we had about 3 more weeks to do this!
CTyankee
(63,883 posts)gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)CrispyQ
(36,413 posts)Congrats! What a happy day for your family!
Welcome baby Charles!
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)nobody expected it...he just decided it was time to meet the world!
William769
(55,142 posts)Sorry, but I am no help on the bassinett.
alsame
(7,784 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)How thrilling!!!
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)but congrats on your new grandchild.
lpbk2713
(42,736 posts)Be careful if you buy a used bassinet. The previous owner may have
unknowingly used harmful chemicals to clean it or the bedding.
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)sufrommich
(22,871 posts)add lots of soft cover for the bottom and use it until you can get better accommodations. It was a pretty common make do fix for our grandparents.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)polichick
(37,152 posts)Congrats - how exciting!
KoKo
(84,711 posts)No...Moses Baskets made in China (fumes/chemicals used to kill the insects to transport here to USA) use a Dresser drawer or whatever drawer you can clear out that is "wood and not composite" and line it with clean washed blanket or towels. An infant will be very happy in a small space comfortably lined with washed towel or blanket. Make sure you use "no fragrance" washing detergent and this little one will be happy as anything.
My Grandmother had six children. She told the story of the two of them "coming early" and they'd loaned out the bassinet...so her husband said "let's clean out one of our dresser drawers..the little one...and they Did it and worked out great!
Hope this helps! Congratulations!
shanti
(21,675 posts)my father told me about having to sleep in a dresser drawer when he was born. this was in 1929 and my grandparents were young and very poor.
cui bono
(19,926 posts)BeyondGeography
(39,341 posts)Kidding...congrats.
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)This is a wonderful thing. By your joy I am assuming both mom and baby are well!
City Lights
(25,171 posts)Best wishes to your son, daughter-in-law and baby.
Stargazer09
(2,132 posts)Enjoy your new grandson.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)they will ship to the happy parent's adress
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)the cheapest new bassinets I'm finding are on Overstock.com.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)That's so cool!
2naSalit
(86,318 posts)Ha! At first I thought it was one of those "didn't even know I was pregnant" things. Once knew a woman who went through that... I didn't believe such things could happen until it happened to my acquaintance, but they actually do happen to well educated, on the pill women.
Congrats, Life will not be dull for you guys for a while now.
okaawhatever
(9,457 posts)she thought she had cancer.
2naSalit
(86,318 posts)I thought, before it happened to someone I know, that you had to be pretty stupid to not know. But this gal, a fellow student in college, she was kind of heavy but all was normal until her birthday when she was in horrible pain... had her husband take her to the hospital not knowing why she was so ill. After a short time in the ER a social worker came in to talk to her because she was in labor and about to have her fist child. She was dumbfounded to say the least. The whole neighborhood (she was a barista with a following) got together and helped her husband round up furniture and clothes for their surprise daughter. We started a fundraising project for them, they were totally unprepared for the expenses of a child - they were using BC after all, and school expenses were their primary focus at the time.
I'm glad that the folks in the OP were pretty much prepared for this, even though it happened a little early.
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)we as parents for our son whose child this is were prepared for his arrival, just not the speed of it. Our son was born (our first child) with just 26 minutes of labor on the day after Christmas. Because our regular doctor was off, all they had was a staff doctor and he was more scared than we were.
one_voice
(20,043 posts)Do you have a babies r us or toys r us by you? Waaaaaayyyyy back when I had my kids they were good.
Amazon is another place, you'll probably get lots of choices and price ranges.
markpkessinger
(8,392 posts)cal04
(41,505 posts)I would definitely check Amazon
Congratulations to everyone on your new baby grandson!
Isoldeblue
(1,135 posts)I have four now, 6-11 and they are a joy beyond almost anything.
Congratulations!
Squinch
(50,901 posts)Congratulations and may you all have a life full of joy together!
I got nothing on the bassinette.
CFLDem
(2,083 posts)jeff47
(26,549 posts)On the bassinett, I highly recommend just using a car seat like these: http://www.toysrus.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=2256195
They're basically baby carriers that latch into a base that stays in the car. Have the baby sleep in the carrier (in the house- leave the base in the car). Use a blanket to prop up the leg-end so the baby's mostly level. The baby sleeps much better because the baby's legs are supported and seat envelops them - the baby did just come from a rather confined environment. Also means the baby can nap wherever is convenient instead of taking them to wherever their bassinet is.
Additionally, it avoids the flat-head and developmental problems from "back to sleep" without introducing potential dangers from not-back-to-sleep.
After a couple months, put them in a "regular" crib and skip the bassinet.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)The cheapest quick bassinett is a bureau drawer. Poor people have been using one of those for as long as we have had furniture. I've also seen nice, reasonably priced baby furnishings at K-Mart.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)Congrats, that's wonderful. I know you are all on cloud nine. Love to all!
And is it a s/he? Weight? Name? C'mon, settle down and give us the scoop. and a pic!
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)They named him Charles. He has a 28 month old brother named Henry.
lillypaddle
(9,580 posts)Blue_In_AK
(46,436 posts)Grandchildren are awesome.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Best wishes to your family!
LeftishBrit
(41,202 posts)hedgehog
(36,286 posts)probably be pretty cheap. I was going to suggest a dresser drawer, but I'm not sure how you could pad that and stay within the back-to-sleep recommendations.
http://www.nichd.nih.gov/sts/about/environment/pages/look.aspx
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)Congratulations. Hope you found everything you needed.
I'm in the process of finishing a baby blanket for a grandchild about to be born any minute. I had better hurry.
You aren't the only grandparent to be ill prepared in spite of almost 9 months of waiting.
Is this your first grandchild?
There is nothing better than being a grandparent.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)R. P. McMurphy
(833 posts)I wish you and your family health, wealth, love and joy.
TBF
(32,000 posts)Walmart. Even on Amazon the nicer ones top out at $100 (we had a small baby and used one of the nice ones for 6 mos before investing in a crib!), but you can easily get a basket for under $50.
Congratulations!
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)TBF
(32,000 posts)if you are in a big enough town look for 2nd hand shops (consignment). By the time I had the 2nd baby I was smarter and bought a ton of stuff there instead. Weddings and babies are a racket!
Samantha
(9,314 posts)People need to keep moving the stuff out to make room for the new stuff.
Sam
calimary
(81,091 posts)YAY!!!! It's amazing how those births kinda jump at you. When I went on maternity leave, I thought I had at least two weeks more - just to get off my feet and catch up on some rest from a VERY demanding job. No dice. My daughter had other plans. So did my body. I went to what I thought was just another prenatal appointment and the doctor checked me out and frowned at the results and said - "uh - meet you at the hospital at 2pm. You're having this baby TODAY." I was thoroughly toxemic and the pregnancy could not go the full distance. Due date? What due date?
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)our son was due Jan 3 and we have always worked in the church. Christmas being absolutely insane. So the day after xmas, my wife finally is resting and low and behold, sharp pains. We et to the doctor and she is dialated to an 8..doctor looks at us and says get to the hospital....she was in labor for 26 minutes.
barbtries
(28,756 posts)grandchildren are the best!
efhmc
(14,721 posts)Texas, I could help you out.
efhmc
(14,721 posts)babylonsister
(171,031 posts)And welcome to the world, Charles.
That is my dad's name.
elleng
(130,714 posts)for bassinett etc.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)peacebird
(14,195 posts)bearssoapbox
(1,408 posts)All the best to the baby and family.
Good luck with the bassinet.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)cntrygrl
(356 posts)greatlaurel
(2,004 posts)Best wishes to the parents and baby.
B Calm
(28,762 posts)let's you see your grandson as much as her parents.
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)mom and dad and baby are doing great even though they have that "deer in the headlights" look. We found a temporary bassinette and have bought them a new one online! Thanks for all the tips! Once again thanks for the well wishes!
No Vested Interest
(5,163 posts)as my Charles has brought to my/our family!
11 Bravo
(23,925 posts)raven mad
(4,940 posts)LOL - Congratulations, and I promise, being Grandma or Grandpa is the greatest feeling in the world! As for cheap bassinett? I used a dresser drawer for 3 days (my daughter was a surprise, too)!
gopiscrap
(23,725 posts)still in shock..found a bassinette....we got to hold the little guy last night! Will see him again today!!
shanti
(21,675 posts)i'm expecting another grandchild (my third) in april myself.
libodem
(19,288 posts)Glad the birth weight is not too, too, low. Emergencies are scary. Congratulations.
The Wielding Truth
(11,411 posts)dballance
(5,756 posts)mrmpa
(4,033 posts)that would work fine. Use a blanket(s) for the mattress and pad the sides. This is what my 83 year old mother used for the 4 of us.
msanthrope
(37,549 posts)Hekate
(90,538 posts)underpants
(182,589 posts)fadedrose
(10,044 posts)We have a column "items under $100," also try calling Salvation Army or Goodwill.
The baby uses this stuff for such a short time it's a pity to have to buy one new.
Congratulations!!
(Better to put money into a safe crib with a good mattress - baby'll use for 3 years).