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gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:02 PM Feb 2014

Wow I am in shock

don't know what forum to put this in so kick it out if it's not in the right one.

WE JUST BECAME GRANDPARENTS
our daughter in law gave an emergency birth about 2 hours ago. Baby had a good birth weight
6lbs 7oz

Does anyone know where to find a cheap bassinett? I thought we had about 3 more weeks to do this!

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Wow I am in shock (Original Post) gopiscrap Feb 2014 OP
boy or girl? CTyankee Feb 2014 #1
Baby boy named Charles gopiscrap Feb 2014 #5
You are in shock if you forgot to tell us that! CrispyQ Feb 2014 #70
thanks we were in shock gopiscrap Feb 2014 #73
Congratulations! William769 Feb 2014 #2
Congratulations! alsame Feb 2014 #3
congratulations!!! renate Feb 2014 #4
No help on the bassinette Gormy Cuss Feb 2014 #6
Congratulations to all. lpbk2713 Feb 2014 #7
thanks I hadn't thought of that gopiscrap Feb 2014 #9
Congrats. Empty a dresser drawer sufrommich Feb 2014 #8
Congratulations! Fumesucker Feb 2014 #10
You could get a "Moses basket" - comfy for a while... polichick Feb 2014 #11
Use a Dresser Drawer or whatever Drawer you have Not Composite.... KoKo Feb 2014 #28
dresser drawer shanti Feb 2014 #66
Congrats! cui bono Feb 2014 #12
This will make Christmas even more special for you BeyondGeography Feb 2014 #13
Congratulations etherealtruth Feb 2014 #14
Congratulations! City Lights Feb 2014 #15
Congratulations! Stargazer09 Feb 2014 #16
Congrats and try amazon nadinbrzezinski Feb 2014 #17
thanks gopiscrap Feb 2014 #20
Congratulations... ohheckyeah Feb 2014 #18
Congratulations LittleBlue Feb 2014 #19
Congrats!! 2naSalit Feb 2014 #21
I had a friend who went through that, and it was her fourth child. She went to the doctor because okaawhatever Feb 2014 #39
It's amazing 2naSalit Feb 2014 #45
Thanks that's quite a story gopiscrap Feb 2014 #57
Congrats!!! one_voice Feb 2014 #22
Congratulations! n/t markpkessinger Feb 2014 #23
Congratulations!!! cal04 Feb 2014 #24
There is little else in life that tops becoming a grandparent! Isoldeblue Feb 2014 #25
Awwwwwwwww............. Squinch Feb 2014 #26
Congratulations! CFLDem Feb 2014 #27
Congradulations. jeff47 Feb 2014 #29
Congratulations grandpa and grandma! Cleita Feb 2014 #30
Well, the baby has a mind of his/her own! lillypaddle Feb 2014 #31
He is 6lbs 7oz born at 11:47AM Pacific time. gopiscrap Feb 2014 #44
Love those old-fashioned names! n/t lillypaddle Feb 2014 #60
Congrats! Blue_In_AK Feb 2014 #32
Congratulations! femmocrat Feb 2014 #33
Congratulations! LeftishBrit Feb 2014 #34
Congrats! Try Craig's list for the bassinett - although a simple one from a big box store will hedgehog Feb 2014 #35
My husband went shopping for baby supplies while I was giving birth in the hospital. JDPriestly Feb 2014 #36
Congratulations! hrmjustin Feb 2014 #37
MAZEL TOV! WONDERFUL! roguevalley Feb 2014 #38
congratulations! R. P. McMurphy Feb 2014 #40
Cheap - either craig's list or TBF Feb 2014 #41
Congratulations, gopiscrap! sheshe2 Feb 2014 #42
Also - for shopping TBF Feb 2014 #43
I have been told Craig's List is a great source for baby/children items Samantha Feb 2014 #46
YAY!!!! That's wonderful news! calimary Feb 2014 #47
Kind of like us gopiscrap Feb 2014 #77
mazeltov! barbtries Feb 2014 #48
Our Goodwill has some great baby stuff. If you were in Central efhmc Feb 2014 #49
Forgot to say Congratulations!!! efhmc Feb 2014 #50
Great news, congrats! babylonsister Feb 2014 #51
CONGRATS! Got a grandbaby in December. Try Babies r Us elleng Feb 2014 #52
congrats Liberal_in_LA Feb 2014 #53
Congrats!!! peacebird Feb 2014 #54
Congratulations. bearssoapbox Feb 2014 #55
Congrats! GreenPartyVoter Feb 2014 #56
Bravo!! Congratulations !! cntrygrl Feb 2014 #58
Congratulations! greatlaurel Feb 2014 #59
Congratulations! Hope your daughter-in-law B Calm Feb 2014 #61
Thank you everyone for your kind wishes and congratulations gopiscrap Feb 2014 #62
May Charles bring much joy to your family No Vested Interest Feb 2014 #63
Congratulations, Gramps! 11 Bravo Feb 2014 #64
Details! We need details! raven mad Feb 2014 #65
Baby and mom are doing good gopiscrap Feb 2014 #74
congrats on the little one! shanti Feb 2014 #67
What a surprise libodem Feb 2014 #68
Enjoy. The Wielding Truth Feb 2014 #69
Congrats! I would check Goodwill, craigslist /nt dballance Feb 2014 #71
If you can find a wicker laundry basket........... mrmpa Feb 2014 #72
Congratulations! Enjoy every minute of him! nt msanthrope Feb 2014 #75
Congrats to one and all. Grandparent hood is the best. Hekate Feb 2014 #76
Congrats underpants Feb 2014 #78
Try want ads in newspaper fadedrose Feb 2014 #79
Oooooooooooweeeeeeeeeeeeee! n/t Smarmie Doofus Feb 2014 #80

CrispyQ

(36,413 posts)
70. You are in shock if you forgot to tell us that!
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 04:08 PM
Feb 2014


Congrats! What a happy day for your family!

Welcome baby Charles!

lpbk2713

(42,736 posts)
7. Congratulations to all.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:06 PM
Feb 2014



Be careful if you buy a used bassinet. The previous owner may have
unknowingly used harmful chemicals to clean it or the bedding.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
8. Congrats. Empty a dresser drawer
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:06 PM
Feb 2014

add lots of soft cover for the bottom and use it until you can get better accommodations. It was a pretty common make do fix for our grandparents.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
28. Use a Dresser Drawer or whatever Drawer you have Not Composite....
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:51 PM
Feb 2014

No...Moses Baskets made in China (fumes/chemicals used to kill the insects to transport here to USA) use a Dresser drawer or whatever drawer you can clear out that is "wood and not composite" and line it with clean washed blanket or towels. An infant will be very happy in a small space comfortably lined with washed towel or blanket. Make sure you use "no fragrance" washing detergent and this little one will be happy as anything.

My Grandmother had six children. She told the story of the two of them "coming early" and they'd loaned out the bassinet...so her husband said "let's clean out one of our dresser drawers..the little one...and they Did it and worked out great!

Hope this helps! Congratulations!

shanti

(21,675 posts)
66. dresser drawer
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 01:36 PM
Feb 2014

my father told me about having to sleep in a dresser drawer when he was born. this was in 1929 and my grandparents were young and very poor.

2naSalit

(86,318 posts)
21. Congrats!!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:35 PM
Feb 2014

Ha! At first I thought it was one of those "didn't even know I was pregnant" things. Once knew a woman who went through that... I didn't believe such things could happen until it happened to my acquaintance, but they actually do happen to well educated, on the pill women.

Congrats, Life will not be dull for you guys for a while now.

okaawhatever

(9,457 posts)
39. I had a friend who went through that, and it was her fourth child. She went to the doctor because
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:57 PM
Feb 2014

she thought she had cancer.

2naSalit

(86,318 posts)
45. It's amazing
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:37 PM
Feb 2014

I thought, before it happened to someone I know, that you had to be pretty stupid to not know. But this gal, a fellow student in college, she was kind of heavy but all was normal until her birthday when she was in horrible pain... had her husband take her to the hospital not knowing why she was so ill. After a short time in the ER a social worker came in to talk to her because she was in labor and about to have her fist child. She was dumbfounded to say the least. The whole neighborhood (she was a barista with a following) got together and helped her husband round up furniture and clothes for their surprise daughter. We started a fundraising project for them, they were totally unprepared for the expenses of a child - they were using BC after all, and school expenses were their primary focus at the time.

I'm glad that the folks in the OP were pretty much prepared for this, even though it happened a little early.

gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
57. Thanks that's quite a story
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 10:15 PM
Feb 2014

we as parents for our son whose child this is were prepared for his arrival, just not the speed of it. Our son was born (our first child) with just 26 minutes of labor on the day after Christmas. Because our regular doctor was off, all they had was a staff doctor and he was more scared than we were.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
22. Congrats!!!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:38 PM
Feb 2014


Do you have a babies r us or toys r us by you? Waaaaaayyyyy back when I had my kids they were good.

Amazon is another place, you'll probably get lots of choices and price ranges.

cal04

(41,505 posts)
24. Congratulations!!!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:44 PM
Feb 2014

I would definitely check Amazon
Congratulations to everyone on your new baby grandson!

Isoldeblue

(1,135 posts)
25. There is little else in life that tops becoming a grandparent!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:48 PM
Feb 2014

I have four now, 6-11 and they are a joy beyond almost anything.

Congratulations!

Squinch

(50,901 posts)
26. Awwwwwwwww.............
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:50 PM
Feb 2014

Congratulations and may you all have a life full of joy together!

I got nothing on the bassinette.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
29. Congradulations.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:57 PM
Feb 2014

On the bassinett, I highly recommend just using a car seat like these: http://www.toysrus.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=2256195

They're basically baby carriers that latch into a base that stays in the car. Have the baby sleep in the carrier (in the house- leave the base in the car). Use a blanket to prop up the leg-end so the baby's mostly level. The baby sleeps much better because the baby's legs are supported and seat envelops them - the baby did just come from a rather confined environment. Also means the baby can nap wherever is convenient instead of taking them to wherever their bassinet is.

Additionally, it avoids the flat-head and developmental problems from "back to sleep" without introducing potential dangers from not-back-to-sleep.

After a couple months, put them in a "regular" crib and skip the bassinet.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
30. Congratulations grandpa and grandma!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:58 PM
Feb 2014

The cheapest quick bassinett is a bureau drawer. Poor people have been using one of those for as long as we have had furniture. I've also seen nice, reasonably priced baby furnishings at K-Mart.

lillypaddle

(9,580 posts)
31. Well, the baby has a mind of his/her own!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 06:58 PM
Feb 2014

Congrats, that's wonderful. I know you are all on cloud nine. Love to all!

And is it a s/he? Weight? Name? C'mon, settle down and give us the scoop. and a pic!

gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
44. He is 6lbs 7oz born at 11:47AM Pacific time.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:25 PM
Feb 2014

They named him Charles. He has a 28 month old brother named Henry.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
35. Congrats! Try Craig's list for the bassinett - although a simple one from a big box store will
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:14 PM
Feb 2014

probably be pretty cheap. I was going to suggest a dresser drawer, but I'm not sure how you could pad that and stay within the back-to-sleep recommendations.

http://www.nichd.nih.gov/sts/about/environment/pages/look.aspx

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
36. My husband went shopping for baby supplies while I was giving birth in the hospital.
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 07:51 PM
Feb 2014

Congratulations. Hope you found everything you needed.

I'm in the process of finishing a baby blanket for a grandchild about to be born any minute. I had better hurry.

You aren't the only grandparent to be ill prepared in spite of almost 9 months of waiting.

Is this your first grandchild?

There is nothing better than being a grandparent.

TBF

(32,000 posts)
41. Cheap - either craig's list or
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:23 PM
Feb 2014

Walmart. Even on Amazon the nicer ones top out at $100 (we had a small baby and used one of the nice ones for 6 mos before investing in a crib!), but you can easily get a basket for under $50.

Congratulations!

TBF

(32,000 posts)
43. Also - for shopping
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:24 PM
Feb 2014

if you are in a big enough town look for 2nd hand shops (consignment). By the time I had the 2nd baby I was smarter and bought a ton of stuff there instead. Weddings and babies are a racket!

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
46. I have been told Craig's List is a great source for baby/children items
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:37 PM
Feb 2014

People need to keep moving the stuff out to make room for the new stuff.

Sam

calimary

(81,091 posts)
47. YAY!!!! That's wonderful news!
Wed Feb 19, 2014, 08:41 PM
Feb 2014

YAY!!!! It's amazing how those births kinda jump at you. When I went on maternity leave, I thought I had at least two weeks more - just to get off my feet and catch up on some rest from a VERY demanding job. No dice. My daughter had other plans. So did my body. I went to what I thought was just another prenatal appointment and the doctor checked me out and frowned at the results and said - "uh - meet you at the hospital at 2pm. You're having this baby TODAY." I was thoroughly toxemic and the pregnancy could not go the full distance. Due date? What due date?

gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
77. Kind of like us
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 05:12 PM
Feb 2014

our son was due Jan 3 and we have always worked in the church. Christmas being absolutely insane. So the day after xmas, my wife finally is resting and low and behold, sharp pains. We et to the doctor and she is dialated to an 8..doctor looks at us and says get to the hospital....she was in labor for 26 minutes.

gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
62. Thank you everyone for your kind wishes and congratulations
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 12:03 PM
Feb 2014

mom and dad and baby are doing great even though they have that "deer in the headlights" look. We found a temporary bassinette and have bought them a new one online! Thanks for all the tips! Once again thanks for the well wishes!

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
65. Details! We need details!
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 01:16 PM
Feb 2014

LOL - Congratulations, and I promise, being Grandma or Grandpa is the greatest feeling in the world! As for cheap bassinett? I used a dresser drawer for 3 days (my daughter was a surprise, too)!

gopiscrap

(23,725 posts)
74. Baby and mom are doing good
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 05:04 PM
Feb 2014

still in shock..found a bassinette....we got to hold the little guy last night! Will see him again today!!

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
72. If you can find a wicker laundry basket...........
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 04:46 PM
Feb 2014

that would work fine. Use a blanket(s) for the mattress and pad the sides. This is what my 83 year old mother used for the 4 of us.

fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
79. Try want ads in newspaper
Thu Feb 20, 2014, 05:23 PM
Feb 2014

We have a column "items under $100," also try calling Salvation Army or Goodwill.

The baby uses this stuff for such a short time it's a pity to have to buy one new.

Congratulations!!

(Better to put money into a safe crib with a good mattress - baby'll use for 3 years).

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