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solara

(3,894 posts)
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:44 PM Mar 2012

A man's erectile issues should be everyone's business, don't you think?

It is vital for all of us to know who can or can't get it up anymore and why. So, before any prescription for Viagra or any other ED drug is given, a mandatory counseling session and rectal exam should be imperative-for prostate awareness.

And, although he might find the idea of a rectal exam repugnant and humiliating he would still have to sign a note of permission in order to be eligible for the services he sought. Then, of course, would come the mandatory counseling session, where a doctor, most probably a female, would explain the process to him in vivid detail, and even show him graphic pictures of a rectal exam. I guess he could object and try to refuse but he -did- sign that permission form. Of course, he is free to 'choose' to see a painful, intrusive, humiliating, unwanted and unnecessary rectal probe as rape, but really, we women know what's best for the men and for their bodies and, after all, it is for their own good.

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A man's erectile issues should be everyone's business, don't you think? (Original Post) solara Mar 2012 OP
I guess we should start with the basics... snooper2 Mar 2012 #1
Absolutely... I think they need to be on a public internet registry.... complete with.... hlthe2b Mar 2012 #2
Absolutely agree... solara Mar 2012 #5
Up Yours, dude? RobertEarl Mar 2012 #3
And they should have to pay for it! cottage10 Mar 2012 #4
Is Viagra medically necessary for any Medical condition other than wanting to have sex? dkf Mar 2012 #6
Assuming FDA approved: Viagra for Pulmonary hypertension and Cialis for BPH or enlarged prostate. retread Mar 2012 #10
Pulmonary Hypertension horseshoecrab Mar 2012 #14
Attendants give it to geriatric men in nursing homes. It keeps them from rolling out of bed. 11 Bravo Mar 2012 #25
Ah... the Kickstand Theory. Fawke Em Mar 2012 #30
ack, a mouthful of chardonney almost just hit my monitor screen! CTyankee Mar 2012 #31
Discovered by Mistake soozannah Mar 2013 #35
Yes we should be very "concerned" about men's ED Politicalboi Mar 2012 #7
Tell us about your erectile issues, solara. slackmaster Mar 2012 #8
Well, I'll tell ya, it's been such a long time... I hardly know where to begin solara Mar 2012 #18
Same here. slackmaster Mar 2012 #21
The voice over on the commercials always SAY SoCalDem Mar 2012 #9
he could nykym Mar 2012 #11
OMG, the link between my eyes and my brain is deteriorating for sure.... WheelWalker Mar 2012 #12
For the record, mine are awesome. nt Codeine Mar 2012 #13
Somebody get a ruler. badtoworse Mar 2012 #15
For me.... you'll need a yardstick, baby! nt Bigmack Mar 2012 #17
Is taking notes......n/t solara Mar 2012 #19
I also want a list of the doctors who prescribe such medication and sinkingfeeling Mar 2012 #16
Keep your hands off my penis! zappaman Mar 2012 #20
Hee hee n/t solara Mar 2012 #27
And you will need to disclose KatyMan Mar 2012 #22
With every other commercial being an ED one, the boys shouldn't have a problem with this... Liberal_Stalwart71 Mar 2012 #23
Yeah, and instead of a flag pin, Limbaugh should have to wear a limp noodle on his lapel! 11 Bravo Mar 2012 #24
that wouldn't work wendylaroux Mar 2012 #29
Employers should be able to refuse prescription coverage unless the man is married tanyev Mar 2012 #26
I think "Boner Alerts" should be issued to "Neighborhood Boner Watchers" just1voice Mar 2012 #28
Regular Testosterone Checkups mary195149 Mar 2012 #32
He should have a notarized statement from his wife - no sex outside marriage, right?nt Mnemosyne Mar 2012 #33
You forgot the note from his boss too. TheOther95Percent Mar 2012 #34

hlthe2b

(113,850 posts)
2. Absolutely... I think they need to be on a public internet registry.... complete with....
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:50 PM
Mar 2012

their detailed sexual history, history of cardiac and rectal exams-- to insure that we detect early problems-- and of course, any history of inappropriate sexual behavior--including their use of pornography, 1-800 sex chat lines, and any college fraternity pranks. They need to document having seen a very graphic film detailing the complications associated with a seriously prolonged erection, for sure--for their own good, after all. The registry, "flaccidity watch" should be fully funded without delay.









(if I really need to do so)

 

RobertEarl

(13,685 posts)
3. Up Yours, dude?
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:50 PM
Mar 2012

That is a valid consequential observation.

What's fair for one is fair for all?

cottage10

(49 posts)
4. And they should have to pay for it!
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:51 PM
Mar 2012

I don't want my tax dollars going toward some man so he can have so much sex that he can barely walk. So much promiscuous sex--why, I bet he'll want women (or men) to pay for it! <sarcasm>



It is a subject that Rush isn't going to talk about, I wonder why?

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
6. Is Viagra medically necessary for any Medical condition other than wanting to have sex?
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:57 PM
Mar 2012

I haven't heard of any.

retread

(3,919 posts)
10. Assuming FDA approved: Viagra for Pulmonary hypertension and Cialis for BPH or enlarged prostate.
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 01:12 PM
Mar 2012

horseshoecrab

(944 posts)
14. Pulmonary Hypertension
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 02:23 PM
Mar 2012

Sildenafil, the generic of Viagra, is used to treat pulmonary hypertension. PH can be a pretty deadly condition.

The company that makes Viagra manufactures a version of sildenafil called Revatio for use in PH treatment. It's the same thing as Viagra. Not sure of any dosage difference in the two.


horseshoecrab

11 Bravo

(24,308 posts)
25. Attendants give it to geriatric men in nursing homes. It keeps them from rolling out of bed.
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 04:11 PM
Mar 2012

CTyankee

(68,160 posts)
31. ack, a mouthful of chardonney almost just hit my monitor screen!
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 05:17 PM
Mar 2012

settled in with my afternoon glass of wine and here you are with your post!

Thanks for my big, belly laugh of the day...

soozannah

(1 post)
35. Discovered by Mistake
Sat Mar 16, 2013, 12:38 AM
Mar 2013

I believe initially it was supposed to be some kind of a heart treatment medicine. Having a keeping a hard-on was a side-effect.

 

Politicalboi

(15,189 posts)
7. Yes we should be very "concerned" about men's ED
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:58 PM
Mar 2012

And they shouldn't allow men who are married to women who are too old to have children get Viagra. Why do they need it if no children are going to be created. And if you have low sperm count, you will be denied Viagra. An erected penis should ONLY be used to create children.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
8. Tell us about your erectile issues, solara.
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 12:59 PM
Mar 2012


(ETA being female doesn't mean you aren't affected by SOMEONE'S issues.)

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
9. The voice over on the commercials always SAY
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 01:11 PM
Mar 2012

"Ask your doctor if it's safe for you to have sex"

That certainly implies that a FULL work up should be forthcoming.. EKG..prostate exam..full urological exam (complete with the metal dilator thingie), and perhaps an ultrasound, just to make sure things look okay "down there"..

Gander..meat meet, sauce

WheelWalker

(9,399 posts)
12. OMG, the link between my eyes and my brain is deteriorating for sure....
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 01:56 PM
Mar 2012

I read that as "erectile tissues"

sinkingfeeling

(57,790 posts)
16. I also want a list of the doctors who prescribe such medication and
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 02:44 PM
Mar 2012

have the names and addresses of all men taking the stuff on a public website.

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
23. With every other commercial being an ED one, the boys shouldn't have a problem with this...
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 03:13 PM
Mar 2012

11 Bravo

(24,308 posts)
24. Yeah, and instead of a flag pin, Limbaugh should have to wear a limp noodle on his lapel!
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 04:04 PM
Mar 2012

tanyev

(49,236 posts)
26. Employers should be able to refuse prescription coverage unless the man is married
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 04:23 PM
Mar 2012

and provides notes from his doctor and his wife.

 

just1voice

(1,362 posts)
28. I think "Boner Alerts" should be issued to "Neighborhood Boner Watchers"
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 04:27 PM
Mar 2012

to keep all those evil unwanted sexual acts from ever occurring. LOL.

mary195149

(379 posts)
32. Regular Testosterone Checkups
Thu Mar 22, 2012, 05:18 PM
Mar 2012

I think what men really should be required to do, is have regular testosterone checks done at their doctor's office to make sure their testosterone is within normal range and not to high where they may find themselves committing a rape.
Health insurance need not pay for this. That's just the cost and inconvenience of being a male to insure to women that men's levels are within safe limits.

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