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Mon Mar 3, 2014, 07:16 PM

LGBT: What Does It Really Mean?



LGBT. These letters stand for "lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender." They also stand for "love, grace, beauty, and truth." The challenges of, and the solutions to, creating a different world are intertwined in these two representations of these four letters. Peace, hope, faith, and dignity are the winners and losers, depending on whether or not ignorance, prejudice, closed-mindedness, and fear take part in the battle.

Love is the game changer. It fills the human heart with the joy that could and should belong to all people. I have heard it said that a sorrow shared is a sorrow halved, and that a joy shared is a joy doubled. And I have seen people professing proudly and publicly in the name of God that two lesbian women are not entitled to the same kind of joy that is freely available to a man and a woman. It is the very essence of hate that two committed human beings should not be allowed to proclaim their love to their families and friends, to their neighbors and coworkers, to their communities, and to God for the petty reason that they are of the same sex.

Grace is the unspoken, moment-by-moment lifetime that takes place throughout our land when two gay men are not allowed to proclaim their love while walking in a society that feasts on the same joy they are denied. It is like sitting in a restaurant, starving to death, and watching the other patrons devour a seven-course meal. The Merriam-Webster online dictionary includes this definition of "grace": "a controlled, polite, and pleasant way of behaving." This is the perfect analogy for the way the LGBT persons of the world are asked to face discrimination. Society essentially says to us, "You starve while I feast, and please be controlled, polite, and pleasant about it." We are asked to demonstrate a saint-like amount of grace on a daily basis.

"Beauty" is the spot-on synonym for "bisexual." Often the most misunderstood part of the "LGBT" acronym, bisexuality is typically defined as sexual attraction toward both males and females. This description often inappropriately conflates bisexuality with infidelity, promiscuity, and noncommitment. The beauty is lost in the description and never allowed to shine. Love can sometimes transcend gender. It is love in its purest form. It is a love for a human being that is not contingent on that person's gender. Imagine looking at a rainbow and saying, "I love the rainbow because it contains the color blue," or, "I love the rainbow because it contains the color red." Now imagine looking at the rainbow and saying, "I love it not because of the colors it contains but because of the message it sends to the world."

"Truth" becomes the definition of "transgender" when a person stops pretending to be someone they are not. I did not transition. I transitioned the way I present myself to you, and I transitioned your understanding of who I am, but I am the same woman I have always been. What I did was begin telling you the truth about me. And in the process, I bloomed like a flower finally allowed to live in the light.

Read More:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/stephanie-mott/lgbt-what-does-it-really-mean_b_3971192.html

This is so beautifully written, so moving. In the end all of us are the same. Under the sun and the stars and the moon, we are all the same. We are all equal. No one will ever make me believe otherwise. In the end it's all about what is in our hearts.

And in the end, the love you take
Is equal to the love you make

~ The Beatles

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Reply LGBT: What Does It Really Mean? (Original post)
sheshe2 Mar 2014 OP
libdem4life Mar 2014 #1
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #2
Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #3
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #4
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #5
Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #6
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #9
Cha Mar 2014 #7
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #10
William769 Nov 2014 #14
Cha Nov 2014 #16
closeupready Mar 2014 #8
Rhythm Mar 2014 #11
sheshe2 Mar 2014 #12
William769 Nov 2014 #13
sheshe2 Nov 2014 #15

Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2014, 07:28 PM

1. That's intense and amazing. Thank you for sharing it.

 

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Response to libdem4life (Reply #1)

Mon Mar 3, 2014, 08:14 PM

2. You are so very welcome, libdem.

It is indeed amazing and beautiful.

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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Mon Mar 3, 2014, 11:06 PM

3. kick

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Response to Behind the Aegis (Reply #3)

Mon Mar 3, 2014, 11:27 PM

4. ...

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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 12:57 AM

5. Sadly the rainbows arch

falls to the ground at DU.

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Response to sheshe2 (Reply #5)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 01:29 AM

6. Why do you hate Russians?

You Putin lover!!!

That's how you get responses!

What is sad is the "read" count. While there are certainly things going on all over the place, including the passing of three long-time DU members, one would think, something like this, especially given the hate in recent weeks from the US and across the world, would get views, comments, or at least kicks and recommendations as something positive!

You keep up the good work sheshe2, there are plenty of us who enjoy what you bring to the table.

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Response to Behind the Aegis (Reply #6)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 01:57 PM

9. LOL, oh don't listen to me, BtA.

I was just having me a sad yesterday.

Life can be overwhelming some days. There are times when we just need to stop and smell the flowers.

Thank you~

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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 02:13 AM

7. Beautiful Rainbow of Colors Brightening

Lesbian/Love, Gay/Grace, Bisexual/Beauty, and Transgender/Truth~ Mahalo, she.

That's precisely what the initial letters correlate to..







http://www.algbtical.org/2A%20LGBT.htm

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Response to Cha (Reply #7)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 02:00 PM

10. Thanks sweetie~

Those smiles says it all. You can't help but smile back.

Beautiful heartwarming pictures!

Cha

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Response to Cha (Reply #7)

Mon Nov 3, 2014, 10:40 AM

14. Cha those are beautiful.

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Response to William769 (Reply #14)

Mon Nov 3, 2014, 07:51 PM

16. Aren't they though, William..

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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 11:54 AM

8. Important issue. K&R

 

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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 11:25 PM

11. Kickin' it... Rec'ing it...

Thanking you for it...


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Response to Rhythm (Reply #11)

Tue Mar 4, 2014, 11:41 PM

12. Love you Rhythm~

It was a beautiful article.

Knowledge and information are the keys to acceptance and understanding. Fear and ignorance are the locks. When one person shares, it is like putting a key in a lock. When one person listens, the key turns and the lock opens. Another human being has a bright, new, shiny key. Together, one person at a time, we change the world.

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender. Love, grace, beauty, and truth. It is all one and the same.




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Response to sheshe2 (Original post)

Mon Nov 3, 2014, 10:39 AM

13. How did I miss this Post!

Last edited Mon Nov 3, 2014, 01:24 PM - Edit history (1)

Thank you Sheshe, you are a true ally.

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Response to William769 (Reply #13)

Mon Nov 3, 2014, 12:56 PM

15. ...

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