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Jgarrick

(521 posts)
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 09:30 AM Apr 2014

Want Guns With That? Chefs Find Politics Hotter Than Kitchen

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by hrmjustin (a host of the General Discussion forum).

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/04/01/us/chefs-find-political-waters-anything-but-tepid.html

CLEMSON, S.C. — Pete Matsko expected a little pushback when he posted a sarcastic sign banning concealed weapons from Backstreets Pub & Grill, his beer and burger bar in this college town, but he did not expect to become a national target.

Within weeks, he was slammed with so many online attacks and harassing phone calls that he changed his number and started asking the police to open his mail.

A new concealed-weapons law in South Carolina turned his pub into a battlefield in America’s culture wars. Like an increasing number of bar and restaurant owners around the country, Mr. Matsko discovered that his politics can matter more than what he serves.

As the position restaurants hold in American culture grows, so too does the list of issues on which chefs are asked to make a stand. Refusing to bake a cake for a gay wedding, requesting that a woman not breast-feed at the table or trying to prevent a diner from wearing a gun can have serious business implications.

(excerpt, remainder of article at link)

It should be noted that not once in the entire article is the word “douchebag” (the term the restaurant owner used to describe people who carry concealed) mentioned. Instead, they say the sign used a “derogatory term used for an obnoxious person”, leaving the reader with the impression in could have been something as innocuous as “jerk”.
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Want Guns With That? Chefs Find Politics Hotter Than Kitchen (Original Post) Jgarrick Apr 2014 OP
Assuming the gun toters are law abiding, he keeps a bunch of right wing bigots out Hoyt Apr 2014 #1
Pejorative or not, if I had a choice, I would rather eat and/or drink in an establishment djean111 Apr 2014 #2
Someone who can't go into a f'ing restaurant without a weapon is a douchebag. FSogol Apr 2014 #3
How about retail establishments? Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #12
No idea what you are getting at? FSogol Apr 2014 #16
A customer carried a gun into a retail establishment. Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #17
yes and? Do we really need guns in stores and restaurants? FSogol Apr 2014 #18
" Do we really need guns in stores and restaurants?" Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #22
LOL. Moor gunz! FSogol Apr 2014 #23
So, in other words, you prefer the people being taken hostage and herded to the back of the store Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #26
Yeah, that's exactly what I mean! FSogol Apr 2014 #28
Yes, it is. Since you obviously have no response except to criticize the fact Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #30
Congrats on finding a case were a guy with a gun was useful. FSogol Apr 2014 #54
How many times a year do people lawfully defend themselves with firearms? Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2014 #61
In the Dollar General case, wall_dish Apr 2014 #25
Well, I don't particularly like the word, but douchebag does describe them. HERVEPA Apr 2014 #4
Why would gun-crazed douchebags want to eat in a restaurant, anyway? Aristus Apr 2014 #5
Stupidity usually gets punished and being a dick pisses people off. hack89 Apr 2014 #6
I find gun toting, particularly in cities, qualifies as "being a dick." Zimmerman and Dunn are Hoyt Apr 2014 #10
Combat mode = wetting his pants? FSogol Apr 2014 #11
I am merely talking about the owners lack of business sense hack89 Apr 2014 #15
Imagine if he put out a "No fatties" sign along the same antagonizing lines... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #21
Truth hurts. I applaud him. t may help business, certainly will cut down on yahoo pollution. Hoyt Apr 2014 #29
Doesn't seem to be helping his business, wall_dish Apr 2014 #33
Don't see any evidence of that. Gun toters don't tip well anyway. Hoyt Apr 2014 #37
Gun toters don't tip well anyway? wall_dish Apr 2014 #39
Not as creepy as your support of gunz and toting in a college pub. Hoyt Apr 2014 #40
Not going to answer my question? wall_dish Apr 2014 #44
I'm sure we all welcome your concern for him. HERVEPA Apr 2014 #55
Moronic business owner is a moron... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #7
Most cc states have an approved sign... pipoman Apr 2014 #8
There are definitely guidelines to follow... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #14
You have a point. Gun toters are not nearly as law abiding as they want us to believe. Hoyt Apr 2014 #32
Isn't "Approved Sign" kind of like "Approved Speech"? yellowcanine Apr 2014 #46
He can post all the pipoman Apr 2014 #50
I agree that sign would have been better, HockeyMom Apr 2014 #9
Possible but I think unlikely to succeed... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #13
I meant without publicly saying douchebag HockeyMom Apr 2014 #24
He is no better than those he taunts seveneyes Apr 2014 #19
And that couldn't have happened before? upaloopa Apr 2014 #34
Give us a break. Another NRA meme that has been proven false. Hoyt Apr 2014 #35
Great. More of the "more guns make us safer" bullshit. HERVEPA Apr 2014 #57
I agree with the owner and appreciate him standing up to yahoos who would carry a gun into Hoyt Apr 2014 #27
You don't get it do you! He doesn't want gunners for a customer base. upaloopa Apr 2014 #36
So why not just put up a sign stating that firearms are prohibited on this establishment? wall_dish Apr 2014 #41
Well gunners are never dicks about anything upaloopa Apr 2014 #52
People carrying their guns into a restaurant are the dicks. HERVEPA Apr 2014 #58
Well he certainly got his wish then... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #42
Yep and he'll get more customers like me who upaloopa Apr 2014 #53
Maybe, maybe not. wall_dish Apr 2014 #56
I would suggest that recent politcs have shown... Hip_Flask Apr 2014 #59
o boo fucking dog shit hoo. whether you call someone a douchebag or a jerk cali Apr 2014 #20
So what kind of words do you think were used upaloopa Apr 2014 #31
Well, maybe if the owner hadn't been such a dick about it, wall_dish Apr 2014 #38
Maybe he felt more strongly about the law passed by the bigoted right wing SC legislature. Hoyt Apr 2014 #45
This is just too funny by all accounts. wall_dish Apr 2014 #47
He seems to be doing just fine except for some gun toting white wingers Hoyt Apr 2014 #49
Come on get real. upaloopa Apr 2014 #51
I am getting real. wall_dish Apr 2014 #60
Gracious, look at all the regular DU Gun Enthusiasts with hurt feelings! Paladin Apr 2014 #43
What hurt feelings? hack89 Apr 2014 #48
Locking- very sorry but this post does not fit the SOP of GD. hrmjustin Apr 2014 #62
 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
1. Assuming the gun toters are law abiding, he keeps a bunch of right wing bigots out
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 09:39 AM
Apr 2014

of his restaurant (see full article for evidence).

I hope the patrons tip the wait staff well in support. Add a few bucks for the owner's bravery in an area full of gun toting yahoos.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
2. Pejorative or not, if I had a choice, I would rather eat and/or drink in an establishment
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 09:49 AM
Apr 2014

with no guns at all.

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
3. Someone who can't go into a f'ing restaurant without a weapon is a douchebag.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 09:51 AM
Apr 2014

Glad to see the owner standing up to asshats.

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
12. How about retail establishments?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:39 AM
Apr 2014
Editor’s note: This article has been amended from its original version to clarify the fact that the shooter used his own gun in the incident.

ORRVILLE — One person is dead after a customer at the Dollar General in Orrville began shouting and waving his gun in the air.

Dallas County Sheriff Harris Huffman said the incident appeared to be a case of self-defense and no one has been arrested in connection with the shooting Thursday afternoon.

The incident occurred when Dallas County resident Kevin Mclaughlin entered Dollar General reportedly waving a pistol in the air, Huffman said. Mclaughlin then ushered a group of people inside the store into a break room.

“It appears that once the cashier got inside the break room, a customer that was walking into the break room shot the individual, the white male, with the pistol,” Huffman said. “There was only one shot fired and that shot struck the individual with the pistol causing the disturbance.”


Read more: http://www.selmatimesjournal.com/2014/01/16/one-killed-in-attempted-robbery-in-orrville/#ixzz2xTWx6LYg

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
16. No idea what you are getting at?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:42 AM
Apr 2014

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
17. A customer carried a gun into a retail establishment.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:44 AM
Apr 2014

Wouldn't that be akin to taking a gun into a restaurant?

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
18. yes and? Do we really need guns in stores and restaurants?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:46 AM
Apr 2014

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
22. " Do we really need guns in stores and restaurants?"
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:48 AM
Apr 2014

Apparently the people in the article needed one and it's a good thing there was one.

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
23. LOL. Moor gunz!
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:49 AM
Apr 2014

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
26. So, in other words, you prefer the people being taken hostage and herded to the back of the store
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:52 AM
Apr 2014

should have been left to the assailant's intentions until law enforcement could have arrived, however long that may have been. Remind us again how much you care for innocent people.

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
28. Yeah, that's exactly what I mean!
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:53 AM
Apr 2014


Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
30. Yes, it is. Since you obviously have no response except to criticize the fact
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:56 AM
Apr 2014

that a citizen was armed, in the store, and ended the encounter before the assailant could continue his crime. What other outcome could your criticism have achieved other than the one I just described? Please feel free to share something other than a dismissive non-statement and a smilie.

NEXT UP: "There's no point in talking to you gun nuts."

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
54. Congrats on finding a case were a guy with a gun was useful.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:33 AM
Apr 2014

Kudos!

Nuclear Unicorn

(19,497 posts)
61. How many times a year do people lawfully defend themselves with firearms?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:54 AM
Apr 2014
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
25. In the Dollar General case,
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:50 AM
Apr 2014

yes, a gun was needed to prevent what could have been a very bad outcome for the cashier and customer.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
4. Well, I don't particularly like the word, but douchebag does describe them.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 09:55 AM
Apr 2014

Aristus

(72,130 posts)
5. Why would gun-crazed douchebags want to eat in a restaurant, anyway?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:03 AM
Apr 2014

Wouldn't road-kill be more to their taste?

Or, you know, something they shot themselves like real Americans?...

hack89

(39,181 posts)
6. Stupidity usually gets punished and being a dick pisses people off.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:18 AM
Apr 2014

in a day of ubiquitous social media, this result should be been obvious to all. Especially on such a hot button topic.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
10. I find gun toting, particularly in cities, qualifies as "being a dick." Zimmerman and Dunn are
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:38 AM
Apr 2014

recent examples of "dicks" using their gunz for intimidation.

Do you really want some dick who can't leave home without a gun or two strapped to his body standing in line with you and your kid at Chuck E Cheese? Heck, a kid might pop a bag and send the dick into combat mode.

FSogol

(47,613 posts)
11. Combat mode = wetting his pants?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:39 AM
Apr 2014

hack89

(39,181 posts)
15. I am merely talking about the owners lack of business sense
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:42 AM
Apr 2014

he could have simply put up a sign banning guns in his establishment - low key and non-confrontational. He chose to be a dick about it and now he is crying the blues.

He certainly has the right to ban guns in his business - I absolutely have no problem with him doing that.

 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
21. Imagine if he put out a "No fatties" sign along the same antagonizing lines...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:47 AM
Apr 2014

It's his right to do so but don't be all shocked and shaken when there's some fallout...

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
29. Truth hurts. I applaud him. t may help business, certainly will cut down on yahoo pollution.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:55 AM
Apr 2014
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
33. Doesn't seem to be helping his business,
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:00 AM
Apr 2014

just the opposite, it's hurting his business.
He has every right as a business owner to ban firearms on his establishment, but don't be a dick about it, just put up a regular sign stating that firearms aren't welcome.

Really simple thing to do.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
37. Don't see any evidence of that. Gun toters don't tip well anyway.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:03 AM
Apr 2014
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
39. Gun toters don't tip well anyway?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:07 AM
Apr 2014

And you know this how? Do you catalog gun toter's tips? Do you follow those that you think are carrying firearms and watch them eat and tip?

If so, that's really creepy.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
40. Not as creepy as your support of gunz and toting in a college pub.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:08 AM
Apr 2014
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
44. Not going to answer my question?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:11 AM
Apr 2014

Ok, I expected nothing less of you.
And, just where did I say I support it?

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
55. I'm sure we all welcome your concern for him.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:34 AM
Apr 2014
 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
7. Moronic business owner is a moron...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:24 AM
Apr 2014

If I put out something to deliberately antogonize a significant portion of my customer base, especially on this issue, I might expect some push back.

If he felt strongly about the issue, then he could have put up one of these signs or the legal equivalent in his state...



Instead, he decided to be an ass about it. Reap what you sow...

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
8. Most cc states have an approved sign...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:34 AM
Apr 2014

In my state his sign could legally be disregarded...it would be meaningless.

 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
14. There are definitely guidelines to follow...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:42 AM
Apr 2014

However, if it were me, I wouldn't go in just because I wouldn't be welcome and I don't want to support a business whose values I disagree with.

If it's done in a civil way, that's where it ends. No harm, no foul...

This bumped it up a notch and the reaction was easily forseeable... 12 out of 10 on the duh scale...

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
32. You have a point. Gun toters are not nearly as law abiding as they want us to believe.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:57 AM
Apr 2014

I think his sign is clear. Toting gun fanciers aren't welcome.

yellowcanine

(36,777 posts)
46. Isn't "Approved Sign" kind of like "Approved Speech"?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:12 AM
Apr 2014

The Constitution says something about that also - customer gun rights do not trump the free speech rights of a business owner.

I agree that the wise thing for a business owner to do is to use an approved sign. But if he chooses to use his own phrasing, I doubt that someone ignoring it is going to be ok legally if it goes to court, regardless of what the state legislature said. The state legislature cannot dictate approved speech for something which is clearly within the rights of a business owner, i.e., regulating weapons on the premises.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
50. He can post all the
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:22 AM
Apr 2014

Dumbness he has in his head if he wants. If he wants to prohibit concealed carry in his store and wants it to be legally enforceable he will have to post the statutory sign....at least in my state.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
9. I agree that sign would have been better,
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:35 AM
Apr 2014

but I also think just barring weapons would still have angered many people. Personally, I would go to his restaruant just based on that sign because I agree with his position. Lose some customers, gain others?

 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
13. Possible but I think unlikely to succeed...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:40 AM
Apr 2014

I think the ratios would be skewed against him

Those who feel strongly about guns and don't appreciate being called a douchebag (and their supporters) vs. those who feel strongly enough against guns to go out of their way to patronize and also don't mind that he was an antagonizing ass.

There certainly are some of the second category but I think they don't tally quite as well as the first.

YMMV

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
24. I meant without publicly saying douchebag
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:49 AM
Apr 2014

Just put up the sign. It would still anger a lot of gun owners.

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
19. He is no better than those he taunts
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:46 AM
Apr 2014

And now a real dirtbag can come in, hold the place up with an illegal gun and be fairly confident no patrons will apprehend or stop him.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
34. And that couldn't have happened before?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:00 AM
Apr 2014

I never fail to laugh at the gunners who think having a gun around means the bad guys will get their due.
I don't want your fucking guns around me!

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
35. Give us a break. Another NRA meme that has been proven false.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:02 AM
Apr 2014
 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
57. Great. More of the "more guns make us safer" bullshit.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:36 AM
Apr 2014
 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
27. I agree with the owner and appreciate him standing up to yahoos who would carry a gun into
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:52 AM
Apr 2014

a college town pub. I can't imagine anyone other than a yahoo doing that (that area of SC has plenty of them), and I applaud the owner for standing up to such yahoos and sending a needed message that gunz aren't welcome everywhere.

Will have to stop in next time through the area.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
36. You don't get it do you! He doesn't want gunners for a customer base.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:03 AM
Apr 2014

Thus the sign.

 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
41. So why not just put up a sign stating that firearms are prohibited on this establishment?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:09 AM
Apr 2014

Why be a dick about it?

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
52. Well gunners are never dicks about anything
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:28 AM
Apr 2014

so he must have thought to himself, since gunners are such nice friendly people and they never use bad words I'll use one so they can see what one looks like.

 

HERVEPA

(6,107 posts)
58. People carrying their guns into a restaurant are the dicks.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:36 AM
Apr 2014
 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
42. Well he certainly got his wish then...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:10 AM
Apr 2014

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
53. Yep and he'll get more customers like me who
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:30 AM
Apr 2014

Don't want gun toting people around them.

 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
56. Maybe, maybe not.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:35 AM
Apr 2014

It is South Carolina after all.

 

Hip_Flask

(233 posts)
59. I would suggest that recent politcs have shown...
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:40 AM
Apr 2014

... that the pro gun movement cares more and is more effective in getting their message out than the opposing faction. I will wager a shiny nickel that this guy loses more money than he gains.

For reference, refer to the overall loosening of gun restrictions nationwide since Sandy Hook, with notable exceptions in NY and CT.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
20. o boo fucking dog shit hoo. whether you call someone a douchebag or a jerk
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:46 AM
Apr 2014

the intent is the same.

and it's the douchebags who have been threatening this guy that I find objectionable.

So sick of the gun nuts and the gun nut culture. It's demented and sick sick sick.

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
31. So what kind of words do you think were used
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 10:56 AM
Apr 2014

in the emails and phone calls he got?
I'm sure the gunner emails started like this "dear sir"
Not!

 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
38. Well, maybe if the owner hadn't been such a dick about it,
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:04 AM
Apr 2014

then he wouldn't be receiving such e-mails and phone calls?

Simply putting up a regular sign stating that fireams are prohibited would've been sufficient and he wouldn't be getting the pushback.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
45. Maybe he felt more strongly about the law passed by the bigoted right wing SC legislature.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:11 AM
Apr 2014

Good for him.
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
47. This is just too funny by all accounts.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:14 AM
Apr 2014

Well, if national attention is what he wanted, he got it, but not the way he wanted it I'm sure.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
49. He seems to be doing just fine except for some gun toting white wingers
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:19 AM
Apr 2014

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
51. Come on get real.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:24 AM
Apr 2014
 

wall_dish

(85 posts)
60. I am getting real.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:40 AM
Apr 2014

Why invite the pushback by being such a dick? Why not just put up a regular sign prohibiting firearms?

 

Paladin

(32,354 posts)
43. Gracious, look at all the regular DU Gun Enthusiasts with hurt feelings!
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:11 AM
Apr 2014

Take a look at the threats that this owner received from the pro-gun movement. "Douchebag" is way too kind an epithet for that sort of maliciously sick and oh-so-typical behavior. The next time you Second Amendment absolutists pontificate about worshipping the entire Bill of Rights, it's going to ring awfully hollow.....

hack89

(39,181 posts)
48. What hurt feelings?
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 11:17 AM
Apr 2014

the owner certainly had the right to do what he did. We are just marveling at his lack of business acumen in doing it in such a way to hurt his business.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
62. Locking- very sorry but this post does not fit the SOP of GD.
Wed Apr 2, 2014, 12:00 PM
Apr 2014

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