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CLEMSON, S.C. Pete Matsko expected a little pushback when he posted a sarcastic sign banning concealed weapons from Backstreets Pub & Grill, his beer and burger bar in this college town, but he did not expect to become a national target.
Within weeks, he was slammed with so many online attacks and harassing phone calls that he changed his number and started asking the police to open his mail.
A new concealed-weapons law in South Carolina turned his pub into a battlefield in Americas culture wars. Like an increasing number of bar and restaurant owners around the country, Mr. Matsko discovered that his politics can matter more than what he serves.
As the position restaurants hold in American culture grows, so too does the list of issues on which chefs are asked to make a stand. Refusing to bake a cake for a gay wedding, requesting that a woman not breast-feed at the table or trying to prevent a diner from wearing a gun can have serious business implications.
(excerpt, remainder of article at link)
It should be noted that not once in the entire article is the word douchebag (the term the restaurant owner used to describe people who carry concealed) mentioned. Instead, they say the sign used a derogatory term used for an obnoxious person, leaving the reader with the impression in could have been something as innocuous as jerk.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)of his restaurant (see full article for evidence).
I hope the patrons tip the wait staff well in support. Add a few bucks for the owner's bravery in an area full of gun toting yahoos.
djean111
(14,255 posts)with no guns at all.
FSogol
(47,613 posts)Glad to see the owner standing up to asshats.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)ORRVILLE One person is dead after a customer at the Dollar General in Orrville began shouting and waving his gun in the air.
Dallas County Sheriff Harris Huffman said the incident appeared to be a case of self-defense and no one has been arrested in connection with the shooting Thursday afternoon.
The incident occurred when Dallas County resident Kevin Mclaughlin entered Dollar General reportedly waving a pistol in the air, Huffman said. Mclaughlin then ushered a group of people inside the store into a break room.
It appears that once the cashier got inside the break room, a customer that was walking into the break room shot the individual, the white male, with the pistol, Huffman said. There was only one shot fired and that shot struck the individual with the pistol causing the disturbance.
Read more: http://www.selmatimesjournal.com/2014/01/16/one-killed-in-attempted-robbery-in-orrville/#ixzz2xTWx6LYg
FSogol
(47,613 posts)Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Wouldn't that be akin to taking a gun into a restaurant?
FSogol
(47,613 posts)Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)Apparently the people in the article needed one and it's a good thing there was one.
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)should have been left to the assailant's intentions until law enforcement could have arrived, however long that may have been. Remind us again how much you care for innocent people.
FSogol
(47,613 posts)Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)that a citizen was armed, in the store, and ended the encounter before the assailant could continue his crime. What other outcome could your criticism have achieved other than the one I just described? Please feel free to share something other than a dismissive non-statement and a smilie.
NEXT UP: "There's no point in talking to you gun nuts."
FSogol
(47,613 posts)Kudos!
Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)wall_dish
(85 posts)yes, a gun was needed to prevent what could have been a very bad outcome for the cashier and customer.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)Aristus
(72,130 posts)Wouldn't road-kill be more to their taste?
Or, you know, something they shot themselves like real Americans?...
hack89
(39,181 posts)in a day of ubiquitous social media, this result should be been obvious to all. Especially on such a hot button topic.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)recent examples of "dicks" using their gunz for intimidation.
Do you really want some dick who can't leave home without a gun or two strapped to his body standing in line with you and your kid at Chuck E Cheese? Heck, a kid might pop a bag and send the dick into combat mode.
FSogol
(47,613 posts)hack89
(39,181 posts)he could have simply put up a sign banning guns in his establishment - low key and non-confrontational. He chose to be a dick about it and now he is crying the blues.
He certainly has the right to ban guns in his business - I absolutely have no problem with him doing that.
Hip_Flask
(233 posts)It's his right to do so but don't be all shocked and shaken when there's some fallout...
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)wall_dish
(85 posts)just the opposite, it's hurting his business.
He has every right as a business owner to ban firearms on his establishment, but don't be a dick about it, just put up a regular sign stating that firearms aren't welcome.
Really simple thing to do.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)wall_dish
(85 posts)And you know this how? Do you catalog gun toter's tips? Do you follow those that you think are carrying firearms and watch them eat and tip?
If so, that's really creepy.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)wall_dish
(85 posts)Ok, I expected nothing less of you.
And, just where did I say I support it?
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)Hip_Flask
(233 posts)If I put out something to deliberately antogonize a significant portion of my customer base, especially on this issue, I might expect some push back.
If he felt strongly about the issue, then he could have put up one of these signs or the legal equivalent in his state...

Instead, he decided to be an ass about it. Reap what you sow...
pipoman
(16,038 posts)In my state his sign could legally be disregarded...it would be meaningless.
Hip_Flask
(233 posts)However, if it were me, I wouldn't go in just because I wouldn't be welcome and I don't want to support a business whose values I disagree with.
If it's done in a civil way, that's where it ends. No harm, no foul...
This bumped it up a notch and the reaction was easily forseeable... 12 out of 10 on the duh scale...
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)I think his sign is clear. Toting gun fanciers aren't welcome.
yellowcanine
(36,777 posts)The Constitution says something about that also - customer gun rights do not trump the free speech rights of a business owner.
I agree that the wise thing for a business owner to do is to use an approved sign. But if he chooses to use his own phrasing, I doubt that someone ignoring it is going to be ok legally if it goes to court, regardless of what the state legislature said. The state legislature cannot dictate approved speech for something which is clearly within the rights of a business owner, i.e., regulating weapons on the premises.
pipoman
(16,038 posts)Dumbness he has in his head if he wants. If he wants to prohibit concealed carry in his store and wants it to be legally enforceable he will have to post the statutory sign....at least in my state.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)but I also think just barring weapons would still have angered many people. Personally, I would go to his restaruant just based on that sign because I agree with his position. Lose some customers, gain others?
Hip_Flask
(233 posts)I think the ratios would be skewed against him
Those who feel strongly about guns and don't appreciate being called a douchebag (and their supporters) vs. those who feel strongly enough against guns to go out of their way to patronize and also don't mind that he was an antagonizing ass.
There certainly are some of the second category but I think they don't tally quite as well as the first.
YMMV
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)Just put up the sign. It would still anger a lot of gun owners.
seveneyes
(4,631 posts)And now a real dirtbag can come in, hold the place up with an illegal gun and be fairly confident no patrons will apprehend or stop him.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)I never fail to laugh at the gunners who think having a gun around means the bad guys will get their due.
I don't want your fucking guns around me!
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)Hoyt
(54,770 posts)a college town pub. I can't imagine anyone other than a yahoo doing that (that area of SC has plenty of them), and I applaud the owner for standing up to such yahoos and sending a needed message that gunz aren't welcome everywhere.
Will have to stop in next time through the area.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)Thus the sign.
wall_dish
(85 posts)Why be a dick about it?
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)so he must have thought to himself, since gunners are such nice friendly people and they never use bad words I'll use one so they can see what one looks like.
HERVEPA
(6,107 posts)Hip_Flask
(233 posts)upaloopa
(11,417 posts)Don't want gun toting people around them.
wall_dish
(85 posts)It is South Carolina after all.
Hip_Flask
(233 posts)... that the pro gun movement cares more and is more effective in getting their message out than the opposing faction. I will wager a shiny nickel that this guy loses more money than he gains.
For reference, refer to the overall loosening of gun restrictions nationwide since Sandy Hook, with notable exceptions in NY and CT.
cali
(114,904 posts)the intent is the same.
and it's the douchebags who have been threatening this guy that I find objectionable.
So sick of the gun nuts and the gun nut culture. It's demented and sick sick sick.
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)in the emails and phone calls he got?
I'm sure the gunner emails started like this "dear sir"
Not!
wall_dish
(85 posts)then he wouldn't be receiving such e-mails and phone calls?
Simply putting up a regular sign stating that fireams are prohibited would've been sufficient and he wouldn't be getting the pushback.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Good for him.
wall_dish
(85 posts)Well, if national attention is what he wanted, he got it, but not the way he wanted it I'm sure.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)with hurt feelings.
http://www.yelp.com/biz/backstreets-pub-and-grill-clemson
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)wall_dish
(85 posts)Why invite the pushback by being such a dick? Why not just put up a regular sign prohibiting firearms?
Paladin
(32,354 posts)Take a look at the threats that this owner received from the pro-gun movement. "Douchebag" is way too kind an epithet for that sort of maliciously sick and oh-so-typical behavior. The next time you Second Amendment absolutists pontificate about worshipping the entire Bill of Rights, it's going to ring awfully hollow.....
hack89
(39,181 posts)the owner certainly had the right to do what he did. We are just marveling at his lack of business acumen in doing it in such a way to hurt his business.
hrmjustin
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