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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsWhy Is It So Hard For People to Get That Rodger, Elliot Hated Sexually Active Men?
He hated a lot of people. He killed twice as many men as he killed women. He planned to kill a house full of women and planned to lure random men and women to his house to murder. He planned to murder many, many more random people but was luckily stopped by Police and then took his own life before he had the opportunity to do so.
Yes, Rodger, Elliot hated women. He hated men too. He was a bitter, vile little person and the world is better off without him.
Stop trying to hijack this tragedy to further your pet political ideological purposes. He was a nutcase with a knife and with a gun and that's it.

bravenak
(34,648 posts)That says alot about him.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)That also says a lot about him. It says he is (was) freakin' nuts.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Everything revolved around his narcisistic self and his feelings about women. He wasn't mad at men for being male. He hated them for having women.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Because he was a nutjob.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)I could probably be considered a nutjob. I have 3 different psychiatric conditions. They ebb and flow with my moods and life changes. But i lack the hate component. I have the i feel oppressed by society problem and the way i deal with it is to point out injustice and not shut up.
He had the ' i hate women and want to set up a society to oppress and starve them into submission and only keep some for breeding purposes.' Thats hate honey. Pure hate for women.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)
bravenak
(34,648 posts)I'm just throwing shit at him to see if i can break through his wall. Some people live in a black and white universe. No nuance.
Personally i like crazy lefties over crazy righties. Less dangerous to my safety. This killer was a fascist.
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)Cause - meet Effect.
I strive for moderation in almost all things.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)He wrote specifically about this. He was angry at these men PRECISELY because they were having sex with women that he wanted to have sex with.
Please get your story straight!
Hekate
(97,628 posts)...instance of hand-holding he witnessed as "proof" that those girls were shtupping like bunny-rabbits.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)It's all about control; control over women's bodies. He wanted that control over women and their sexuality. And he perceived other men having that control--and women allowing men to have that control over them. And that made him jealous and hateful.
It's very fascinating. OP seems to feign ignorance. Or, does he/she? I think he/she is really in denial, really.
randys1
(16,286 posts)just a random guy doing random shit and there is absolutely nothing we can do in response
We cant educate men to stop being misogynist assholes, we cant get rid of all guns (my idea) or more likely institute gun laws to reduce these incidents, cant do that!!!
NO
NO
big_dog
(4,144 posts)his brother for over-shadowing him...sicko nutball!
Shandris
(3,447 posts)...and it -is- true that he also hated sexually active men, but I think your point here is way over the top (and might be intentionally so, but I'm not positive). However, he didn't write about sexually active men so much, they weren't the focus of his ramblings, and they were only an extension of his primary target of disaffectation. Don't confuse one for the other, just as people shouldn't confuse his inane rantings as somehow evidence that all/most/many/vast majorities of men hate women. Two wrongs don't make a right.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Shandris
(3,447 posts)It gets me into trouble more often than not, but at least I've tried.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Especially after such a horrific, senseless tragedy.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)That's your answer. Now stop asking silly questions and read more.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)So are white supremacists but that's another thread and another kind of crazy.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)He posted to anti-woman message boards, followed anti-woman videos on YouTube, he wrote a manifesto full of MRA jargon. He was unstable but he did not invent his ideology out of whole cloth.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)they're not mad that PUA techniques are based in hostility to women. The anger toward women and feeling of being owed access to their bodies in his posts was entirely typical.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)tricks taught by PUA do not work. And yes, they hate on women pretty intensely there.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)when he found out he had been snookered by his fellow misogynists.
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)It's been kind of overlooked in the media so far, but I've been reading his manifesto off and on all day.
His guy was a narcissistic asshole in just about every possible way. He wasn't just a racist and a misogynist, he was even a literal fascist.
Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)He also talked about forming a fascist government and banning sex, creating a perfect race, and starving almost all women to death and watching for his own personal satisfaction, and keeping other women to breed to try to make women who were not attracted to jocks. He was obsessed with gaining money and power to do those things. He hated Mexicans and AAs and quite a few Asians too, even though he was part Asian himself. He saw nonwhite races as inferior to him.
TDale313
(7,822 posts)Skittles
(164,196 posts)OMG the fucking stupidity - it BURNS
TDale313
(7,822 posts)
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)You win the thread.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)arcane1
(38,613 posts)Or something.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)the time.
DURHAM D
(32,904 posts)"Stop trying to hijack this tragedy to further your pet political ideological purposes."
Please look in the mirror.
m-lekktor
(3,675 posts)some serious PROJECTING going on there.
Starry Messenger
(32,376 posts)
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Did you read his rambling?
Starry Messenger
(32,376 posts)I direct your attention to the first sentence.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I'm not disputing that he hated women. He clearly did. But he also hated men who were sexually active. He was a crazy nutjob, not the posterboy for anti-misogyny.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)if you dispute this, you really should work on reading comprehension.
he does a very good job of clearly articulating his textbook misogyny
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)We got it. Message received. Now kindly accept the fact nobody thinks your opinion carries the weight of a rat turd, and get on with whatever it is you normally do with yourself.
Starry Messenger
(32,376 posts)
boston bean
(36,774 posts)
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)Fucking PERFECT!
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)that HE wanted!!!!!!
He wanted to be sexually active like they were.
HE. WAS. JEALOUS. OF. THEM!!
What about that don't you get?
Or, are you feigning ignorance?
Dorian Gray
(13,799 posts)proved what you think it proved.
While I will give to you that he, in passing, seems to have little respect for brutish men, most of his vile hatred and disgusting rant is geared toward women.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)thank you!
smokey nj
(43,853 posts)
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)Brussel sprouts, but THAT is not being discussed. I hate it when people politicize tragedies.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Raksha
(7,167 posts)deutsey
(20,166 posts)The sharpest edge of his hate was directed at women, but there's no doubt he hated the "popular" men he thought was depriving him of the attention of women.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)"SHUT UP MEN, HE HATED YOU SLIGHTLY LESS THAN WOMEN."
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)He hated women as a group, he despised individual men, including those who were "getting" the women he felt he was entitled to.
The KKK killed white people too.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I would agree that women were the main focus of his rage, though that was followed closely by sexually active men. I do not agree that he is anything more than a crazy nutjob. I do not think he should be used as proof that he was anything except a crazy nutjob.
Hekate
(97,628 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Here's what he says in his Manifesto:
Care to try again?
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Hekate
(97,628 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)for the benefit of men.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4530430
Your agenda is pretty much to shout down and try to silence women who say stuff that makes you as a man uncomfortable.
Try listening sometimes.
Btw, the more you double down on this point, the more you raise the question as to why you're so invested in denying misogyny and shouting down feminists
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Then yes, I do speak out against it. Feminism is empowering women, not trying to force all women into a mold. Celebrate the fact that some women are proud of their bodies and choose to show them off. That's their choice.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)In fact, I'll be honest and admit that I actually first came to feminism thru the sex-positive community on YouTube, like folks such as Divinity33372, et al. It's been a while since I've really been active in that particular regard, but I'll have to look all these folks back up some time.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Makes perfect sense. Yup
Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)and he had to improvise. His plan was to kill every woman inside that sorority house, but his plans were thwarted when they did not let him in.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)smash them on the head with a hammer and then cut their throats. He hated men. He also hated women. He hated lots of things. He was insane.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Apparently it's deadly for men too. Guess we better work on that soon.
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bravenak
(34,648 posts)And will keep doing so.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)He will use them improperly.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)"But what about meeeee!"
Hekate
(97,628 posts)...his due.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)Because you're certainly not convincing anybody. If anything you're doing a great job of showing what dolts anti-feminists are, so thanks for that, however unintended it appears to be.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)All the people glomming onto a single facet of a horrific and ultimately sad person and trying to make it all about that one single issue cheapens the complex nature of this incident.
I can't think of anything more heinous than fighting over which issue gets the "bragging rights" (if such a thing exists) as if there was a prize to be had over it.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Is misogyny more to blame than mental illness? Is mental illness more to blame than access to guns? Is affluenza more to blame than white privilege? Is envy more to blame than a failure of our mental health system?
There aren't any winners in this. But it seems like everyone wants to make it about themselves.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)like this as an example of misogyny becoming lethal, they are not doing it because they are narcissists.
They are doing it because they take misogyny very, very seriously and see this as an example of a hate crime against women.
Similarly anti-gun activists, etc etc
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)
Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)Although, TBH, I'm a bit more optimistic than you are: I still think that at least some are trying to start actual, legitimate, conversations about misogyny and such, even if not always succeeding.....just my two cents, of course.
GeorgeGist
(25,507 posts)Then come back an delete your nonsense.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)Rodger not only hated women, but also, men who he saw as getting in the way of sexual desires?
bravenak
(34,648 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)I mean, he advocated concentration camps and breeding farms, for God's sake! Nowhere did he say anything comparable about his own gender.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)it just annoys me how some people always try to change the subject anytime the "m-word" comes up.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Because talking about violence against women is just petty male-bashing, right?
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)He killed twice as many men as women and based on his manifesto, he hated sexually active men in addition to women. He was crazy. It is sickening for a subset on DU to try to hijack this tragedy for their political gain. Yes, Rodger, Elliot hated women. And he hated sexually active men. And many other things. He was insane.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)How outrageous!
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)He was insane. I've seen his actions blamed, on DU, on misogyny, the NRA, white privilege, affluenza, video games, homosexuality and many other scapegoats. He was simply a nut with a knife and a gun.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)in a vacuum, by any means - like it or not, they reflect something not-so-nice about our culture.
How do I know this? Because his ideas were simply a more extreme version of stuff I've seen all over the place - the whole ideology of "Red-Pillers" etc. is based on good-old-fashioned subjugation of women. Sure it's a minority of men (and a few women too) who think this way, but their ideas don't come from thin air.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)morningfog
(18,115 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)And someone got into my mustard about it, so I changed it to Rodger, Elliot. And now I write it that way to be consistent.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Response to JJChambers (Reply #69)
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JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I am NOT a troll. Sheesh!!
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5003611
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I appreciate the kind words.
HangOnKids
(4,291 posts)
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)Cuz antagonizing people is fun. He started this thread because he wasn't getting enough attention in the other one.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I'll take that apology now! Troll... why the nerve!
morningfog
(18,115 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Agschmid
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JJChambers
(1,115 posts)It feels good to make an impression.
Thanks!
Agschmid
(28,749 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I like it better that way. Im curious to see what reason Morningfrog thought it was for.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)That shit is fucking vile.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)And sometimes honey mustard with chicken tenders is good too.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Just a tip. You wrote morningfrog. Frog.
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I thought it was morningfrog.
Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)Considering how much you are trying to defend his misogyny, it looks like you'd learn his real name and use it in the right order.
GeorgeGist
(25,507 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)I know, because I used to be a Nice Guy.
AverageJoe90
(10,745 posts)There are some guys out there who are *genuinely* nice and respectful to women, as people, and not just faking it to get sex, or whatever. If you don't mind, I think a distinction made between the "Nice Guy" of MRA parlance and real nice guys.....in this case of comparisons, what do we call the actual nice guys? Genuine Gentlemen, perhaps?
Dorian Gray
(13,799 posts)don't generally go on and on and on about how nice they are. They just do good things and treat all people respectably.
(I know quite a few of them.)
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)JJChambers
(1,115 posts)I'm glad at least one of the HoF folks thinks it is shameful to hijack this tragedy for political purposes.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)make him/her feel guilty of racist thoughts, so he/she uses the "he was just crazy" argument as a smokescreen to shut people down. The NRA hides behind the "mental illness" argument and it does such a disservice to those who truly struggle with mental health issues.
OP: stop hiding behind the mental illness banner because it weakens your argument.
This killer wrote anti-women manifestos. He clearly hated women. He felt entitled to women's bodies. He wrote entire treatise (I forget the plural form of the word) on women and sexual entitlement and possession of women's bodies. His issue was with women. He hated men who were sexually successful with women. That's it.
You must, at some point, home to grips with the fact that misogyny exists and was the underlying cause of this young man's issues; it was what drove him over the edge.
It looks like YOU are the one who is attempting to exploit political ideology for YOUR own end--to thwart discussion of a very real and critical topic: hatred directed at women. Rather than trying to stifle discussion by red herring you should listen to women and learn from their/our experiences and not sweep them under the rug as you're attempting to do.
Gormy Cuss
(30,884 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,376 posts)
TDale313
(7,822 posts)NealK
(5,137 posts)You nailed it.
Major Nikon
(36,922 posts)And why did he kill and try to kill other men that he didn't even know? Why did he brandish a gun and NOT kill one woman even though he had the opportunity to do so?
As far as I've seen he had no reason to believe any of his male victims "were sexually successful with women".
I've seen a few attempts to answer those questions, but none rise past the level of pure speculation.
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)doesn't mean that his PRIMARY and UNDERLYING motivation for killing wasn't due to his hatred of women.
Read his writings! It's right there in your face but you deliberately choose to ignore because you cannot accept the fact that misogyny is a reality. Deal with it!
Wake up!
Major Nikon
(36,922 posts)Did you know he wrote a blog post fantasizing about killing all men?
Misogyny is a reality
I accept that fact.
Now are you happy and can we have a substantive discussion on what all the pieces of the puzzle are other than just one aspect of it? Because if we can't I'd just as soon you let me know now and save both our time.
Just sayin'
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)But the intensity of his hatred towards women--not the frequency or number of writings--is what is important here. That's what we are trying to get you to see. Why you can't or simply refuse to see is baffling.
And it's not about "making me happy," it's about owning up to the truth. No amount of condescension coming from you will alter the facts.
Major Nikon
(36,922 posts)When you claim I'm not admitting something I've never denied, you are employing strawman rhetoric. So if you desire civility, try offering some first.
Perhaps the reason you are so baffled is because you are so preoccupied with substituting your own opinions for facts. If you are willing to accept that your opinions are just that, you might be open to the possibility that you're just not going to always be right. I've never claimed you were wrong, nor would I on something I can't demonstrate with absolute proof. I'd appreciate the same courtesy.
Cheers!
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)change the facts of this case. I feel a bit sorry for you, really.
Cheers!
Major Nikon
(36,922 posts)I specifically asserted the very thing you accused me of denying the first time and you still accuse me of denying it.
Then you post a passive aggressive insult while accusing me of insulting you.
Cheers!
Liberal_Stalwart71
(20,450 posts)Look, move on. We're not getting anywhere here. We'll just have to agree to disagree and leave it at that.
Have a good day.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Response to hrmjustin (Reply #103)
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hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)IronLionZion
(48,819 posts)while the rest of us are eating apples and oranges. We just can't keep up. Do you feel under-appreciated for your clear superiority?
JJChambers
(1,115 posts)Rex
(65,616 posts)JUST SO he could torture women in private. Think about how depraved THAT is.
Jamastiene
(38,198 posts)and those men did. He did not hate all men, only men who had lost their virginity, BECAUSE he wanted to have sex himself and the supposedly mean women would not bow down before him and offer up sex to him. It's not hijacking anything to point out that he was a misogynist.
Note: He never mentioned building a concentration camp and watching men starve to death for pure pleasure. He only wanted to do that to women. Can you explain why he did not want to round up all men and put them in concentration camps and watch them starve to death for pleasure? If he hated men and women equally, he would have wanted to do the same to both. He did not hate men and women equally. He hated all women far more and only hated men who had sex with women.
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MattBaggins
(7,945 posts)Horribly so
YoungDemCA
(5,714 posts)He was a classic entitled misogynist, a pathetic little shit.
If you can't recognize the significance of that, then fuck off.
NealK
(5,137 posts)Ironic coming from you.
mackerel
(4,412 posts)If you read his bio/manifesto he had poor coping skills and like most narcissist he blamed everyone and everything for all the things that made him unhappy. He was also a racist. He couldn't stand the thought of latin and black men having sex with white women.
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PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)GeorgeGist
(25,507 posts)IMO.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)But his underlying hatred was of women. Sexually active men in relationships with women pissed him off because of the women. The only thing he saw wrong with them was their relationship to a woman. This is still a hatred of women. If I hate all people of some ethnic background, and also white people who are married to or dating someone of that ethnic background, it doesn't prove that I hate white people.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)and nuttier than a pecan pie in a fruitcake factory to boot. Personally, I think he would have gone out in a conflagration no matter what his excuse or issue happened to be.
That's my opinion.