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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 08:39 PM Jun 2014

Bus driver stops bus to check on crying child



Grandin was working, remember -- driving his bus along his route with passengers heading to wherever it is they needed to go. But he put all that aside for a moment when he saw this kid crying. Something could be very wrong -- and he was going to take the time to find out if he could help. As it turned out, 10-year-old Emilia Behrendtz was upset because of a conflict she had with some other children. Grandin comforted her, and realizing it wasn't serious, he got back into his bus and drove without saying a word to the passengers.

One of those on the bus, Emma Gustafsson, captured the moment on her cellphone camera and shared it to Twitter. People are calling him a hero. I love this story. I love the fact that this person decided to do something for someone who seemed to need some help. He stopped what he was doing -- his job -- and did it. Because human life is more important than getting everyone to their job on time. This, I believe. Though people complain all the time, especially in major cities, when a subway or bus is delayed due to a sick passenger. That passenger doesn't want to be sick -- they want to be on their way to work just like everyone else. But something happened -- life, maybe something serious to derail that life -- and we all need to slow it down and respect that. We all need to concern ourselves more with what matters -- kindness, care, concern, humanity -- than whatever happens on our daily grind.

http://www.cafemom.com/articles/in_the_news/172743/bus_driver_restores_faith_in?utm_medium=sem2&utm_campaign=prisma&utm_source=outbrain&utm_content=0&non_us=US#
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Bus driver stops bus to check on crying child (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 OP
we are only on this earth for a short while Tsiyu Jun 2014 #1
what "cold hearted people" are you referring to? Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #4
afraid I have to remain mum on that for now Tsiyu Jun 2014 #6
I'd love to know what kinds of imaginary flying machines you both dreamed up. KittyWampus Jun 2014 #33
I AM SO SORRY!!!! Tsiyu Jun 2014 #35
What a wonderful story. I'm glad you posted it tonight... CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2014 #2
We need to see more of these stories. Laffy Kat Jun 2014 #3
R&K longship Jun 2014 #5
Good man, well done. n/t Jefferson23 Jun 2014 #7
Yes Suzshopper Jun 2014 #28
nice to know that there are still compassionate humans in our society. nt Javaman Jun 2014 #8
Such a wonderful story! Brigid Jun 2014 #9
kindness and caring Skittles Jun 2014 #10
k and r for this beautiful reminder that there really are wonderful, kind, caring, compassionate niyad Jun 2014 #11
A grateful k&r for this thread theHandpuppet Jun 2014 #12
How wonderful. He sounds like a nice man. nolabear Jun 2014 #13
A friend of mine would say, "that's what we're supposed to do." KatyaR Jun 2014 #14
k&r Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #22
We need a lot more true human beings like this man. DesertDiamond Jun 2014 #15
Good guy! Eleanors38 Jun 2014 #16
And now he got fired for taking an unauthorized break. cui bono Jun 2014 #17
Did he? Or are you just speculating? MineralMan Jun 2014 #19
nahhh, it's in Sweden - not the US Locrian Jun 2014 #26
Just being sarcastic. n/t cui bono Jun 2014 #32
There are many, many decent people out there central scrutinizer Jun 2014 #18
that is so sweet renate Jun 2014 #24
I think that's part of the power of Reiki. Knowing someone is there and cares. I have a story_ KittyWampus Jun 2014 #34
We all have a responsibility to stop and check to make sure MineralMan Jun 2014 #20
great story Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #21
You are an awesome human being, Mr. Grandin! ColesCountyDem Jun 2014 #23
Good for him, people like him heaven05 Jun 2014 #25
One time I was walking to work SheilaT Jun 2014 #27
five yr old dropped off outside school w no one around? glad u were around. Liberal_in_LA Jun 2014 #30
This was a VERY long time ago. SheilaT Jun 2014 #31
K&R! smirkymonkey Jun 2014 #29

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
1. we are only on this earth for a short while
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 08:48 PM
Jun 2014

today it was driven home, how some people spend their lives being cruel, and some spend their lives reaching out to others

so many small acts of kindness can have long lasting effects. So can acts of cruelty.

today I watched some very cold-hearted people in action, and I just felt pity for them. They have no class, as my aunt would say.

This man has honor and class. This is what being human should be.




Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
6. afraid I have to remain mum on that for now
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 09:15 PM
Jun 2014

but let's just say there are people so entrenched in their corruption, they don't even have the good sense or the shame to hide it

the world can be a heartbreaking place because of them

you just have to hope that their evil catches up with them some day

and over the years, I have seen that it does, indeed, catch up

but I also spent the latter part of the day with an adopted 7 yr old "grandbaby" and her dad, a disabled veteran who has been helping my son - along with his RN wife. Very dear people.

The baby ( I still call her that and she doesn't care ) taught me how to play Mankala and we played Sorry and imagined all sorts of flying machines we could make, in the shapes of flowers and bathtubs and such. She gave me a beautiful purple lei to cheer me up

taking the time to connect with children and let them know they matter is one of the most important things we can do, as the man in the OP shows us






 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
33. I'd love to know what kinds of imaginary flying machines you both dreamed up.
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 06:03 PM
Jun 2014

Sounds like a fun time.

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
35. I AM SO SORRY!!!!
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 07:16 PM
Jun 2014

oh my god I am an idiot

Please forgive my intitial post. I did not read the entire thread and thought you were snarking


OOOOPPPS.

Yes, I had a wonderful time with my g'baby. She has a great imagination.

Sorry for the initial reaction...I really should have clicked the thread to find the context.






CaliforniaPeggy

(156,619 posts)
2. What a wonderful story. I'm glad you posted it tonight...
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 08:51 PM
Jun 2014

There is so much that is evil in the world. It really boosts me to read something like this, that shows what we can really do to help others.

K&R

Suzshopper

(2 posts)
28. Yes
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:34 PM
Jun 2014

Good man. Good to see this noticed. So often it doesn't. Everyone is so busy looking for the bad people we don't take as much notice of the good people as we should.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
9. Such a wonderful story!
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 09:26 PM
Jun 2014

Some things really are more important than that freakin' tyrant known as The Clock.

niyad

(132,429 posts)
11. k and r for this beautiful reminder that there really are wonderful, kind, caring, compassionate
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 09:29 PM
Jun 2014

people in this world.

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
13. How wonderful. He sounds like a nice man.
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 09:44 PM
Jun 2014

I'm understating it only because I don't think we realize how many nice people there are out there. We concentrate on the bad so much that regular old niceness can seem like a miracle. Good on him!

KatyaR

(3,639 posts)
14. A friend of mine would say, "that's what we're supposed to do."
Mon Jun 2, 2014, 10:39 PM
Jun 2014

After last year's horrible May tornadoes here in OKC, we were all just about wrung out trying to locate people, dealing with the aftermath, etc. It was hard, especially because children had died at school, somewhere that's supposed to be a safe place to be.

A few days before I had purchased an album online from a KC band, and in the PayPal payment I sent a little greeting, thinking that no one would ever see it. One of the guys from the band sent me back a reply--it was only 4 words, and it wasn't anything special, but it touched me so deeply that I cried for ages. He can't possibly know what it meant to me, but I will never forget it. It helped me deal with that sorrow and the raging anger I had about what had happened. When I finally got brave enough to tell someone about it a bit later, my friend said, "that's what we're supposed to do." It made me realize something else, too--words really do matter. What you think may be just an offhand comment can affect someone very deeply, whether it's a positive or negative reaction. We're really only here to support each other.

So when I hear about stories like this, I hear my friend saying, "that's what we're supposed to do." It's a nice reminder that we need to take care of each other.

Thanks for the story.

central scrutinizer

(12,654 posts)
18. There are many, many decent people out there
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 01:26 PM
Jun 2014

My daughter (23 yo) was coming out of a movie a couple of days ago at midnight and there was a young woman sitting on the curb sobbing. My daughter along with three other people who were riding by on bicycles stopped and sat close to her. They didn't ask her if she was OK, they sat close until she was OK. My daughter posted this to facebook but to protect her privacy, I am not going to quote her or provide a link. I have never been prouder of her.

renate

(13,776 posts)
24. that is so sweet
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:21 PM
Jun 2014

I think the power of just being present is often underestimated; we think the words matter, and sometimes they do, but often it's just the caring, pure and simple. It must have made such a difference to that young woman to know that people cared. Your pride in your daughter is well placed.

 

KittyWampus

(55,894 posts)
34. I think that's part of the power of Reiki. Knowing someone is there and cares. I have a story_
Fri Jun 6, 2014, 06:06 PM
Jun 2014

I have a story about my friend J. who is a yoga instructor.

She was in line at the grocery store and saw someone she knew and gave that person a hug.

The J. said out loud "does any one else want a hug" and a bunch of other people took a hug.

This is a smallish town off-season. Maybe that might not happen so much in a big city.

But still, I think a lot of people are walking around who really could use a non-judgemental hug.

MineralMan

(151,259 posts)
20. We all have a responsibility to stop and check to make sure
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 01:33 PM
Jun 2014

a child is OK. Or an adult. We must do this, in my opinion.

One time, my wife and I were on our way to a Halloween party, both of us dressed in clown outfits, complete with rubber noses and makeup. On our way, I say a boy of about 8 sitting on the sidewalk, next to his bicycle. He was crying. So, I stopped the car, got out, and asked if he was OK. Turned out his pant leg got caught in his bicycle chain, causing him to fall. Aside from a slight scrape on his elbow, he was OK. So, I freed his pant leg from the chain, got my toolbox, adjusted his too loose chain and sent him on his way. He said, "Mister? Are you really a clown?" I laughed, and told him that some people called me that sometimes. He rode off on his way, and we went to the party.

We cannot pass by people in distress. We must stop and see if we can help.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
25. Good for him, people like him
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 07:32 PM
Jun 2014

keeps an ember of hope sparked in me about the inherent goodness in us if we just let it out.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
27. One time I was walking to work
Tue Jun 3, 2014, 08:09 PM
Jun 2014

and saw a little boy, maybe six years old, in the empty open courtyard in front of the Catholic school I walked by. I knew they were closed (maybe a Catholic holiday, can't recall) and figured he'd been dropped off by someone who didn't realize there was no school that day. I went inside the courtyard, tried to find out from him his name or phone number or some such, but he was so upset and frightened and young, I couldn't get much from him.

About five minutes later his mother arrived, having realized there was no school and took him home.

It's my personal view that we are here to help each other out.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
31. This was a VERY long time ago.
Wed Jun 4, 2014, 09:17 PM
Jun 2014

1966, to be precise, so even young children were more often left on their own in ways that get you arrested today. But still, I couldn't imagine how the mother dropping the kid off couldn't have noticed no one else was around.

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