Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 05:54 PM Jul 2014

Florida mom murdered son and daughter as teens slept: autopsy

Jennifer Berman shot Alexander, 16, and Jacqueline, 15, in the backs of their heads before committing suicide with a rifle, the report says. The distraught mother's ex-husband Richard Berman found the bodies.

Jennifer Berman, 48, had told her ex-husband in an email she had done the best thing for the family, and she also sent a text to a cousin, warning she planned to hurt 15-year-old Jacqueline and 16-year-old Alexander.Richard Berman, 51, raced to the fractured family’s home in the exclusive West Palm Beach neighborhood, but he was too late.

Jennifer and Richard Berman had divorced in December 2013 and the mother-of-two was hurting for money after years living the lush life, the Palm Beach Post reported.She was staying in a house once owned by her recently deceased mother, but the home had been in foreclosure since 2010, and she and the kids were reportedly going to have to move out in February.Jennifer Berman claimed in court documents she’d been forced to hock her father’s watch to pay the bills. She told neighbors she was working 12-hour overnight shifts as a nurse in a failing struggle to pay the bills.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/florida-mom-murdered-son-daughter-teens-slept-autopsy-article-1.1864996


damn.

39 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Florida mom murdered son and daughter as teens slept: autopsy (Original Post) SummerSnow Jul 2014 OP
when i read this story and see they have killed other members i have a hard time feeling bad JI7 Jul 2014 #1
:( shenmue Jul 2014 #2
Another blood soaked day in the bad ol US of A blkmusclmachine Jul 2014 #3
Just a note... Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #4
Call 911 and the cops may have shot them anyway. HooptieWagon Jul 2014 #5
yep, shoot first ask questions later. Sad SummerSnow Jul 2014 #6
But the sirens might have awaken one of the kids. Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #7
Don't count on that. HooptieWagon Jul 2014 #10
And they also could have found the right house, and talked this person down ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2014 #17
And the votes are in: newcriminal Jul 2014 #33
Holy crap! That was alerted? HooptieWagon Jul 2014 #34
I was surprised also. newcriminal Jul 2014 #37
Bullshit ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2014 #16
thank you Skittles Jul 2014 #18
There are times when it's warrented.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2014 #19
exactly Skittles Jul 2014 #21
30 years ago my wife's cousin's husband was holding HIMSELF hostage CBGLuthier Jul 2014 #27
Was he? Michigander_Life Jul 2014 #32
The article states that he was on the phone with 911 Arkansas Granny Jul 2014 #9
According to the article he was on the phone with the dispatcher. Jenoch Jul 2014 #11
If so, I don't think the police gets points for response time if he beat them to the scene of the Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #13
You unwittingly posted a reason why it is not always a good idea Jenoch Jul 2014 #14
You really have to go through some serious contortions to reach your conclusions. Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #15
Reading comprehension fail on your part. Jenoch Jul 2014 #20
There was no failure in reading comprehension. People just say that as a Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #22
I said this case was unforetunate. Jenoch Jul 2014 #23
And you apparently tried to twist a fact of the case to your advantage... Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #24
You pointed out the fact Jenoch Jul 2014 #25
"But not to this case." Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #35
If you had simply read post #14, this exchange would have been shorter. Jenoch Jul 2014 #38
Major, major backpedaling there, son. Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #39
Children/teenagers should have guns HockeyMom Jul 2014 #26
That's your solution, not mine. Jenoch Jul 2014 #29
I know, right? Baitball Blogger Jul 2014 #36
Ignoring the fact that the mother's easy access to a gun caused this. CBGLuthier Jul 2014 #28
That's your solution, not mine. Jenoch Jul 2014 #30
If only there were more guns. Gungeoneer logic. nt valerief Jul 2014 #8
Twenty or so years ago the same situation ChazII Jul 2014 #12
Funny how the headline says murdered and not "SHOT TO DEATH" conservaphobe Jul 2014 #31

JI7

(89,247 posts)
1. when i read this story and see they have killed other members i have a hard time feeling bad
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 05:56 PM
Jul 2014

for the person who did the shooting.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
4. Just a note...
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 06:05 PM
Jul 2014

If I knew that someone was going to harm someone the first thing I would have done was call 911. It doesn't sound like he did that according to this article.

I can't help feeling there was a desire to keep this a private family matter, which turned out to be a bad choice.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
5. Call 911 and the cops may have shot them anyway.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 06:23 PM
Jul 2014

Families calling 911 to deal with another family member are caught between a rock and a hard place these days, as the police default seems to be a military response.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
7. But the sirens might have awaken one of the kids.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 06:34 PM
Jul 2014

The results couldn't have turned out worse than they did.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
10. Don't count on that.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 06:56 PM
Jul 2014

Cops could have fired tear gas into the house, setting it on fire and burning everyone alive. Or they could have entered the wrong house and shot people not involved. Too much militarism and stupidity by cops these days to rely on big fuck-ups not being possible. Sadly.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
17. And they also could have found the right house, and talked this person down
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 11:00 PM
Jul 2014

Or maybe the gun would have been turned on them by a clearly homicidal nut and they would have had to fire to save themselves, which I'm sure you couldn't give a shit less about. Hell, 30 grand a year in tax dollars should be worth taking a few bullets just to make sure the bad guy's serious, right?

Either way, keep tilting at those windmills.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
33. And the votes are in:
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 04:34 PM
Jul 2014

AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service
Mail Message
On Mon Jul 14, 2014, 04:17 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Don't count on that.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5236433

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Urging people not to call 911 to report murderers because of extremely likely hypotheticals is unethical and it is over the top.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Mon Jul 14, 2014, 04:20 PM, and the Jury voted 1-6 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Cops suck
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Look at post 27 if you want proof this isn't hyperbole.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Err, what's 'over the top' is abusing the alert system to push your point of view.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
34. Holy crap! That was alerted?
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 05:59 PM
Jul 2014

I didn't urge people not to call 911... merely pointed out that instances of cops shooting first might be a reason people are hesitant. Sure was a thin-skinned alerter... or a closet authoritarian.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
16. Bullshit
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 10:53 PM
Jul 2014

Hundreds of domestic conflicts are resolved by police everyday peacefully, but if one posted an article for each one (of course, there aren't really any of those articles because dog bites man doesn't sell) we'd get the "Why are you posting about them doing their job like they're supposed to?".

But please proceed with trashing the cops....even though they had nothing to do with these two poor kids being dead.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
19. There are times when it's warrented....
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 11:05 PM
Jul 2014

....and then there are cases like this where it might as well be like a woo thread where someone posts about a serious health problem and someone else wanders in and advocates not going to the doctor because occasionally they misdiagnoses and kill someone.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
27. 30 years ago my wife's cousin's husband was holding HIMSELF hostage
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 02:44 PM
Jul 2014

He fell asleep and the cops burst in and blew him the hell away claiming he was reaching for a gun.

So nothing new about execution by cop.

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
9. The article states that he was on the phone with 911
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 06:50 PM
Jul 2014

when he discovered his don't body. It's doesn't say when he placed the call.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
11. According to the article he was on the phone with the dispatcher.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 07:31 PM
Jul 2014

Instead of assuming he didn't call 911, I am assuming he called 911 and was on the phone with the dispatcher as he was driving to, arriving at, and inside the house when he discovered the bodies.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
13. If so, I don't think the police gets points for response time if he beat them to the scene of the
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 07:34 PM
Jul 2014

crime.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
14. You unwittingly posted a reason why it is not always a good idea
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 08:38 PM
Jul 2014

to rely on law enforcement for protection. This situation turned out to be bad for those children and the father and any other loved ones. There are instances where having a gun in the home protects the family in that home from bad situations when the police cannot get there in time. I'm not a CCW holder, but I can understand why some have permits to carry.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
15. You really have to go through some serious contortions to reach your conclusions.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 09:50 PM
Jul 2014

But, if you want me to play that game, it would have been better if the mother didn't own a gun. Much harder to go through with a murder plan if it takes more effort than pulling a trigger.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
20. Reading comprehension fail on your part.
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 11:36 PM
Jul 2014

You seem to have missed my second sentence. You also do not seem to understand what it is like for people who live 30 minutes or an hour or more from law enforcement response even at the quickest response time.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
22. There was no failure in reading comprehension. People just say that as a
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 09:48 AM
Jul 2014

deflection move. Not helpful in this case. If you wanted to come out in support of gun ownership because the police department is not always conveniently close by, then this case may not have been the one to try to wiggle in your POV. This occurred in a West Palm Beach neighborhood. Those areas are very populated and the infra-structure would be established. So police departments and fire stations would be conveniently close by.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
25. You pointed out the fact
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 01:07 PM
Jul 2014

and I applied it. But not to this case. This case already happened. I was suggesting, as you pointed out, that LEO cannot be depended upon for protection from danger.

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
35. "But not to this case."
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 07:22 PM
Jul 2014

Maybe you should have clarified that point in the beginning. In rural areas where there are no police departments in close proximity, maybe it makes sense to own a gun.

In this case, the point is irrelevant. The victims had already been killed by a gun. Swift and without remedy.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
38. If you had simply read post #14, this exchange would have been shorter.
Tue Jul 15, 2014, 11:23 AM
Jul 2014

"This situation turned out to be bad for those children and the father and any other loved ones. There are instances where having a gun in the home protects the family in that home from bad situations when the police cannot get there in time."

Baitball Blogger

(46,700 posts)
39. Major, major backpedaling there, son.
Tue Jul 15, 2014, 12:55 PM
Jul 2014

Read your post 14 in its entirety. You really were trying to wiggle in a pro-gun POV in a case where the facts did not support your conclusion.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
26. Children/teenagers should have guns
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 01:52 PM
Jul 2014

to protect themselves from their parents? People need to arm themselves against their own family members who they live with? Don't wait for law enforcement to come to your rescue. Shoot Mommy Dearest before she shoots you?

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
28. Ignoring the fact that the mother's easy access to a gun caused this.
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 02:45 PM
Jul 2014

I guess you think the teenagers should have kept guns under their pillows and shot their mother first. That is one fucked up solution.

ChazII

(6,204 posts)
12. Twenty or so years ago the same situation
Sun Jul 13, 2014, 07:32 PM
Jul 2014

occurred with one of my students. Parents were divorcing and mom did not want to share custody. She shot K. in the back the head and then committed suicide. If there was a blessing it is the K died instantly.

My students were angry that the family had matching coffins for the mother and daughter.

 

conservaphobe

(1,284 posts)
31. Funny how the headline says murdered and not "SHOT TO DEATH"
Mon Jul 14, 2014, 04:14 PM
Jul 2014

The extremists have been criticizing some media outlets for saying shot, shooter, shot and killed, etc, because they felt it reflected poorly on their precious.

I guess they're winning on another front.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Florida mom murdered son ...