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(Reuters) - A California woman who spooked her small community by anonymously leaving porcelain dolls on the doorsteps of fellow churchgoers that eerily resembled their daughters told police she is embarrassed by the incidents, authorities said on Friday.
The dolls, some wearing fuzzy slippers or frilly gowns, turned up at more than a half-dozen homes in San Clemente last week, according to Orange County Sheriff's Lieutenant Jeff Hallock.
Interviews with families that received the dolls led authorities to the local woman, who then admitted her involvement, he said. She has not been publicly identified.
The woman, who attended church with most of the girls' families, said she did not mean to scare anyone, he said.
"She felt like some of the girls would enjoy the dolls," Hallock said.
http://news.yahoo.com/police-puzzled-dolls-left-porches-california-city-004148706.html
Comrade Grumpy
(13,184 posts)That's our America.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)ChisolmTrailDem
(9,463 posts)those people for freaking out, lol.
Weird ass shit, man!
snooper2
(30,151 posts)kcr
(15,522 posts)I imagine she saw it as a fun surprise and assumed that's how everyone would see it. It was clueless but her intentions were good. Poor woman.
savalez
(3,517 posts)Last edited Fri Jul 25, 2014, 05:17 PM - Edit history (1)
Maybe some answered and received their free dolls personally?
kcr
(15,522 posts)She could have left them on the porch if no one was home, not thinking about how it would weird out the recipients.
dogindia
(1,345 posts)An act of kindness. Culture is really traumatized by all the news of violence and war and planes being shot out of the sky and poor little kids beings sent back to death. Deep unkindness in areas of our culture. So sad.
Strange time.
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MagickMuffin
(18,318 posts)Wanting it to be an anonymous was the only drawback to this situation. She could have at least given it to the parents and let the parents give them to the girls, and let the woman remain anonymous.
REP
(21,691 posts)Some people don't enjoy the company of children but don't mind doing something nice for them.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)Poor lady. Sending up some good vibes to her. But, yeah...it would freak me out, too. Dolls, in general, freak me out.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)My grandparents gave me a doll and I sold it to my best friend for a nickel. I wanted that thing gone.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)I hated dolls, loved cars. He thought there was something wrong with me. He finally gave up after getting me the pink Barbie Corvette for my bday one year. By the next morning, I had painted it black and put silver racing stripes on it, cut off Barbie's hair and made a helmet out of a bottle cap.
My sister had this really creepy doll that was about 4' tall. It would just stand in the corner and stared at me.
catbyte
(39,152 posts)She left a doll in a crib in the corner of my room, but I had to have her remove it immediately. She was a little taken aback, but I didn't care if it was her grandmother's doll. That thing creeped me out & there's no way in hell I'd sleep with that freaky thing staring at me all night.
hunter
(40,690 posts)It's a bad reflection on our society that we were looking for a terrorist vampire zebra and not an ordinary horse.
"Eccentric but mostly harmless doll maker," likely.
"TERROR! TERROR! TERROR! VOODOO DOLL STALKER!," not likely.
kcr
(15,522 posts)If she had presented them to the parents to give to the children, or left her name on it, it would have probably helped. Then the parents would see the act in its proper context and thanked Auntie Martha for the nice gift. Random anonymous gifts in general with no clue as to the intent are just weird. It's not the proper way to give a gift to someone. The gifter should at least provide some context of the giving relationship if they want to remain anonymous, or have someone known to the recipient give it for them.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)'Don't even let your right hand know what your left hand does' in charitable acts is a teaching from Church. This woman gave to her Church group in the exact form Jesus commanded. This of course was upsetting to the Republican Conservatives of San Clemente.....
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)
Laffy Kat
(16,952 posts)I couldn't go down to my basement and do laundry for two days.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)because it did nothing for me. The one scene, though, in a scary movie that is guaranteed to send shivers down my spine is in The Shining when the twin girls to the kid to come play with them. I am getting shivers now just typing this
DBoon
(24,983 posts)dolls are not alive.
Fermenting laundry is very much alive.
Laffy Kat
(16,952 posts)Two teenage sons.
morningfog
(18,115 posts)whistler162
(11,155 posts)someone who knows you child well enough or has taken photos of your child and creates a doll in her likeness?
Better the police investigate the giver and not a abduction.
treestar
(82,383 posts)I'd wonder if it was some type of mark of cain from some insane pedophile or the like. Glad it turned out ok.
jen63
(813 posts)but a lot of churches believe that the "gift is in the giving" and that if you don't do it anonymously, then it's about you. I agree, if it's a bag of groceries, or paying a bill or something like that, but parents are on the lookout!! Maybe an anonymous note signed, "a fellow church member" or something would have been better, with the dolls.
NightWatcher
(39,376 posts)Some of those dolls were very creepy
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Might or might not have been the case.
Reminds me of an episode of Hoarders. They took two huge piles of dolls and stuffed animals out of a woman's house.
She went outside and looked at the piles and said, "Oh look at her! She's smiling at me!" and things like that.
The resident shrink on the show said the woman was schizoid, meaning she was disconnected from people and reality, and thus ascribing emotions and personalities to her dolls and stuffed animals.
Creepy.
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)with no explanation.
Sorry, I know the woman was trying to be nice, but how the hell would that not scare someone?
whistler162
(11,155 posts)of Perception.
sakabatou
(46,146 posts)
Roy Serohz
(236 posts)ripcord
(5,553 posts)