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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAt long last, my familiy's and my 10 month unemployment nightmare is over!
Last edited Tue Apr 10, 2012, 12:23 PM - Edit history (1)
About 2 hours ago, I was offered, and of course accepted, a job. The pay is <$10 an hour but they're speaking of advanceing me very soon after the 3 month probationary period is over. For 10 months I was earning $0 an hour. I also think that this will be a very good place to work.
All of a sudden, I feel like a huge boulder has been lifted from my shoulders. For the better part of a year I've felt as though I've been walking through an Olympic sized pool filled with Jello.
All of a sudden, the blatent and brazen age discrimination I've been subjected to doesn't bother me nearly as much. The incredible cynicism that I've perceived in so many interviewers doesn't bother me as much.
I am so relieved that I will no longer have to respond to so many of my son's reasonable requests by saying "I don't have a *&*%#^%@* job"!
I will always remember who made the ecomony so horrible that this was possible and I will always be very actively involved to insure that the far right of the republican party never holds that much power in this country again. I want NOBODY to ever have to go through what my family has gone through. Not only was I out of work for the last 10 months, but between my wife and I, there has only been 19 months since March of 2008 when we both had jobs. We were homeless for 8 months in 2009, living in transitional housing with 2 drug dealers and a woman who actually was what rush limbooger thinks any intelligent professional woman is. We were able, thank God, to shield our son from that ugliness, but we will NEVER go through that again.
To all of you who continue to suffer through joblessness, please accept my best wishes and hopes that you get the good news that I just got today.
Finally, thank all of YOU here in the DU community for all of your kind words and support through this horror. We have our arguments, disagreements and downright fights, but bottom line, this is a very caring and positive cyber "family".
What I say to you all is simply
BTW, as of 12:21 PM EST, Many of you have responded with great generosity and many kind words. I'll respond to everyone later this evening after my wife and son are home and I have the huge lump in my throat that you've given me under a bit more control.
PEACE!
MineralMan
(146,248 posts)Good luck at your new job.
Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)mailman82
(399 posts)Happy for you!!!!!
area51
(11,894 posts)Jackpine Radical
(45,274 posts)Except that I was single at the time, which meant that I only had to worry about myself.
Congratulations and thanks for sharing the good news with us.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...I HAD to share the good news!
PEACE!
renate
(13,776 posts)What you've been through sounds absolutely terrible--I'm so thrilled that you can have peace of mind now! Congratulations!
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)It's a wonderful thing!
PEACE!
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)Wishing you well on your new adventure.
And yes, let us NEVER allow anyone to forget who got us into this mess or rewrite history. 2000-2008 DID happen.
Sarah Ibarruri
(21,043 posts)bullwinkle428
(20,628 posts)bigtree
(85,974 posts)so very happy for you!
Mimosa
(9,131 posts)Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)I'd give you smilies but there aren't any left!
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...that I've used them all up!
PEACE!
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)HappyMe
(20,277 posts)Good luck with your new job.
Fresh_Start
(11,330 posts)my husband was out of work for 20 months, the first time since we was 16 that he didn't have a job.
We made it through but I still have nightmares.
Saving as fast as we can since it all seems so fragile right now.
catbyte
(34,327 posts)Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)sunwyn
(494 posts)lastlib
(23,140 posts)You first, I'm OK for now!
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)PEACE!
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...FAST!
PEACE!
Booster
(10,021 posts)it has only made you stronger. If you can go through what you've already gone through you're stronger than a whole lot of other people. Congrats and I hope from now on you can buy your son whatever he wants.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...SPENT!
PEACE!
MissMarple
(9,656 posts)Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)If you don't get advanced than you can always look for another job, and it is a lot easier to get one when you have one.
It's a sad commentary on our economy that getting a job for under $10 an hour is cause for massive celebration, but you know, it is. And if you think it is a good place to work, that's even better.
Congratulations!!!!!
I'm SO glad that something finally broke your way.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)A break feels good.
PEACE!
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,516 posts)I am really thrilled to hear your great news!
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...My Dear CaliforniaPeggy!
PEACE!
southernyankeebelle
(11,304 posts)eShirl
(18,477 posts)I've been worrying, wishing I was in a position to help with your job search.
cate94
(2,807 posts)I hope it ends up being even better than you imagine.
Good luck to you.
LibDemAlways
(15,139 posts)on the new job.
drm604
(16,230 posts)I know how good it feels to finally get back to work. Good for you. I'm hoping that we see many more threads like this in the near future.
Johnny Noshoes
(1,977 posts)Alright -- CONGRATS!!!
AnnieK401
(541 posts)That's great!
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Bluerthanblue
(13,669 posts)so very happy for you and your family-
TBF
(32,000 posts)I hope you love the job and advance to whatever you'd like to do quickly.
BB_Troll
(65 posts)Way to persevere. Very happy for you.
a kennedy
(29,610 posts)LittleGirl
(8,277 posts)Good Luck.
RockaFowler
(7,429 posts)gkhouston
(21,642 posts)radhika
(1,008 posts)BReisen
(114 posts)My husband went through 6 1/2 months of unemployment that ended in late 2011 - I know the feelings - both the bad over the last 10 months and the GREAT that you are feeling today. I'm very happy for you!
virgdem
(2,124 posts)I wish you the best of luck in your new job and hope that you get the raise that you deserve. I've been unemployed for very short periods of time and it truly sucks.
dbackjon
(6,578 posts)lady lib
(2,933 posts)to you and your family.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)I was out of work for 7 months. And the whole time, I felt like I had completely failed at my primary purpose in life--to provide for my family. They were very good about it, of course, and I learned to nod assent to the encouraging words, but I didn't feel like much of a good person. I cried when I got a job offer. And the interview process is such artifice. You have to act as though you're on top of the world, all the while thinking, I need this job, I MUST have this job, you HAVE to offer it to me or my family is going down for the count. So when I said that I was really happy for you, that's the stuff I was thinking about. I know what it's like for that weight to be lifted, and I wish you all the best.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...How I felt on recent interviews!
PEACE!
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)...that you'll be the best employee at your new company. You have a motivation that many others will not understand. Go tear it up, and yes, PEACE to you too.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)...her boss' boss told her that she is the most valuable person that he'd ever hired. She is now likely to get a nice promotion this week or soon after.
My goal is to have my new boss say the same, so your suspicion is DEAD ON PERFECT! The cool thing is that my new job is to help unemployed people find jobs. I think that one of the reasons I got the job os because I know exactly what some of the people I'll be working with are going through.
You are right, my wife and son are all the motivation I need.
PEACE!
AnneD
(15,774 posts)got the unemployment check back in 1988. Profoundly affected my life. I never have subscribed to cable or newspapers since-unnecessary expense. Always keep a years worth of food in the pantry and a minimum of 1K in the savings at all times (more now). I make generous use of the library for any media. I am an active Dem and donate to the food pantry and volunteer when I can. Most importantly, I always look out for folks I know that are too proud to ask for help (yes, I know what to look for).
greytdemocrat
(3,299 posts)pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)I'm very happy for you and your family. It's less than you deserve, but it's a great improvement. Your good news makes my day, too!
grantcart
(53,061 posts)noiretextatique
(27,275 posts)DesertRat
(27,995 posts)closeupready
(29,503 posts)JoePhilly
(27,787 posts)longship
(40,416 posts)I've been there myself. With the support of my family, it all came out okay. But that new job was a good thing. Being unemployed sucks.
Americana
(9 posts)Congratulations! I know it's been hard, but things will get better, I just know it! I haven't been able to find a job since 2009, so my art it is, and it's starting to snowball. So happy to hear good news! LOVE!
WoodyD
(215 posts)Been there and yes, there's nothing like it. That phone call with those wonderful words - "you got the job." That feeling of a boulder rolling off your shoulders and then suddenly you wonder how you managed to carry that thing around for so long. But you just had no choice. When all these a**holes talk about unemployed people being "lazy" -- well, walk a few hundred miles in my shoes or yours. Your now-employed shoes! Congratulations.
MarianJack
(10,237 posts)I love the sound of that!
PEACE!
NikolaC
(1,276 posts)That's terrific!
hue
(4,949 posts)DonRedwood
(4,359 posts)riverbendviewgal
(4,252 posts)and what you may do to help Obama and the rest of those who have been in your shoes, is to write about all that you have experienced.
Lydia Leftcoast
(48,217 posts)Skittles
(153,111 posts)you will advance in no time, you will see!
DavidDvorkin
(19,465 posts)mzmolly
(50,978 posts)applegrove
(118,462 posts)Beartracks
(12,797 posts)Waiting For Everyman
(9,385 posts)Way to go!
All the best in your new job, and to your family too!
(It's sort of like hanging onto a flagpole in a hurricane, isn't it? Feels so good when it stops.)
CottonBear
(21,596 posts)Last edited Wed Apr 11, 2012, 08:20 AM - Edit history (1)
As we discussed in another post this week, it sucks to be an unemployed, middle-aged professional with a good education and an excellent resume.
You are going to feel so much better, both mentally and physically, after you start working again. I am so happy for you!
I am still working PT for $7.50 and getting some more hours during some weeks. I never imagined that I would be in this situation after working for over 34 years.
edit: sp. I keep forgetting we have spell check once again!
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)Digit
(6,163 posts)Hopefully things will only go upward for you and your family from this day forward.
Congratulations!
steve2470
(37,457 posts)TexasTowelie
(111,912 posts)Hopefully the job will be the beginning of many successes.
Iwillnevergiveup
(9,298 posts)It always amazes me to read posts from people who have been out of work for horrendously long periods of time, but who still manage to keep abreast of the times with grace and humor. I'm very happy for you and your family and hope your success is a harbinger for everyone else on this board yearning to work again.
Congratulations and best wishes!
barbtries
(28,756 posts)i hope it's ALL up from here, and see no reason that it won't be.
spanone
(135,781 posts)congratulations....