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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:23 AM Apr 2012

At long last, my familiy's and my 10 month unemployment nightmare is over!

Last edited Tue Apr 10, 2012, 12:23 PM - Edit history (1)

About 2 hours ago, I was offered, and of course accepted, a job. The pay is <$10 an hour but they're speaking of advanceing me very soon after the 3 month probationary period is over. For 10 months I was earning $0 an hour. I also think that this will be a very good place to work.

All of a sudden, I feel like a huge boulder has been lifted from my shoulders. For the better part of a year I've felt as though I've been walking through an Olympic sized pool filled with Jello.

All of a sudden, the blatent and brazen age discrimination I've been subjected to doesn't bother me nearly as much. The incredible cynicism that I've perceived in so many interviewers doesn't bother me as much.

I am so relieved that I will no longer have to respond to so many of my son's reasonable requests by saying "I don't have a *&*%#^%@* job"!

I will always remember who made the ecomony so horrible that this was possible and I will always be very actively involved to insure that the far right of the republican party never holds that much power in this country again. I want NOBODY to ever have to go through what my family has gone through. Not only was I out of work for the last 10 months, but between my wife and I, there has only been 19 months since March of 2008 when we both had jobs. We were homeless for 8 months in 2009, living in transitional housing with 2 drug dealers and a woman who actually was what rush limbooger thinks any intelligent professional woman is. We were able, thank God, to shield our son from that ugliness, but we will NEVER go through that again.

To all of you who continue to suffer through joblessness, please accept my best wishes and hopes that you get the good news that I just got today.

Finally, thank all of YOU here in the DU community for all of your kind words and support through this horror. We have our arguments, disagreements and downright fights, but bottom line, this is a very caring and positive cyber "family".

What I say to you all is simply

BTW, as of 12:21 PM EST, Many of you have responded with great generosity and many kind words. I'll respond to everyone later this evening after my wife and son are home and I have the huge lump in my throat that you've given me under a bit more control.

PEACE!

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At long last, my familiy's and my 10 month unemployment nightmare is over! (Original Post) MarianJack Apr 2012 OP
Huzzah! MineralMan Apr 2012 #1
Great news.. Fumesucker Apr 2012 #2
Congrats and Good Luck! n/t 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2012 #3
Congrats! mailman82 Apr 2012 #4
Congrats! area51 Apr 2012 #5
Been there, done that. Jackpine Radical Apr 2012 #6
After shareing all of the BS,... MarianJack Apr 2012 #75
Congratulations! I'm SO happy for you! renate Apr 2012 #7
Peace of mind! MarianJack Apr 2012 #76
YESSS!! HughBeaumont Apr 2012 #8
Thank God! May things begin to get better all around for you and your family. nt Sarah Ibarruri Apr 2012 #9
Huge K&R. Congratulations! bullwinkle428 Apr 2012 #10
right on! bigtree Apr 2012 #11
MJ, God bless you and and your precious family. And all other families in need. n/t Mimosa Apr 2012 #12
Congratulations! Egalitarian Thug Apr 2012 #13
The reason there aren't any left is... MarianJack Apr 2012 #77
Great news!!!! joeybee12 Apr 2012 #14
Yay! Congrats! HappyMe Apr 2012 #15
congrats Fresh_Start Apr 2012 #16
AWESOME! I couldn't be happier for you & family. catbyte Apr 2012 #17
Excellent news for a beautiful spring day! Rowdyboy Apr 2012 #18
Congratulations....I hope I find something soon. I am on 4 1/2 yrs unemployed sunwyn Apr 2012 #19
May you and I be next! lastlib Apr 2012 #34
I hope your're going to get great news soon! MarianJack Apr 2012 #79
My best wishes for good news... MarianJack Apr 2012 #78
Good vibes from my house to yours. Your entire family has proved you are survivors and Booster Apr 2012 #20
He has my first several paychecks already... MarianJack Apr 2012 #80
Good for you! MissMarple Apr 2012 #21
I'm so relieved for you Yo_Mama Apr 2012 #22
Thank you, Yo_Mama! MarianJack Apr 2012 #81
Congratulations, my dear MarianJack! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2012 #23
Thank YOU,... MarianJack Apr 2012 #82
Congratulations. What a relief am sure. I hope many many people get work soon. southernyankeebelle Apr 2012 #24
That's awesome! eShirl Apr 2012 #25
Congratulations! cate94 Apr 2012 #26
I am so happy for you and your family. Best wishes for much success LibDemAlways Apr 2012 #27
Fantastic news drm604 Apr 2012 #28
Fanfriggintantastic - is that even a word :-) Johnny Noshoes Apr 2012 #29
Awesome! AnnieK401 Apr 2012 #30
yay!! Liberal_in_LA Apr 2012 #31
such great news! Bluerthanblue Apr 2012 #32
Very happy for you! TBF Apr 2012 #33
Congrats! BB_Troll Apr 2012 #35
Great news.....and congratulations. a kennedy Apr 2012 #36
Thanks for sharing the good news! LittleGirl Apr 2012 #37
So happy for you!! RockaFowler Apr 2012 #38
I'm so happy for you. Hope you get promoted soon! n/t gkhouston Apr 2012 #39
Congrats - and continued good luck. n/t radhika Apr 2012 #40
Congrats! BReisen Apr 2012 #41
That's great news... virgdem Apr 2012 #42
Congrats!!! dbackjon Apr 2012 #43
Happy day! Congratulations lady lib Apr 2012 #44
I'm very happy for you. I know what it's like to have a family and be out of work DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2012 #45
You Decribe EXACTLY... MarianJack Apr 2012 #83
I also happen to have a strong suspicion DisgustipatedinCA Apr 2012 #86
About 5 months after my wife got her present job,... MarianJack Apr 2012 #87
Been there done that..... AnneD Apr 2012 #46
Congrats!!! n/t greytdemocrat Apr 2012 #47
Congratulations, MJ!!! pinboy3niner Apr 2012 #48
Great news and good luck in the future. grantcart Apr 2012 #49
congratulations!!! noiretextatique Apr 2012 #50
Yea! DesertRat Apr 2012 #51
Good, good good!!!! Happy for you! closeupready Apr 2012 #52
Best of luck as you move forward! JoePhilly Apr 2012 #53
Feels great, doesn't it? longship Apr 2012 #54
Huzzah! Americana Apr 2012 #55
Congrats! WoodyD Apr 2012 #56
My now-employed shoes! MarianJack Apr 2012 #84
Congratulations! NikolaC Apr 2012 #57
A BIG CONGRATS!!! Best Wishes!! n/t hue Apr 2012 #58
yay!!! and congrats!!!! DonRedwood Apr 2012 #59
Great news riverbendviewgal Apr 2012 #60
YAAAAAAY! Lydia Leftcoast Apr 2012 #61
HAPPY FOR YOU MARIANJACK Skittles Apr 2012 #62
Congratulations! DavidDvorkin Apr 2012 #63
Congratz! mzmolly Apr 2012 #64
Wonderful News. applegrove Apr 2012 #65
Very, very happy for you!! n/t Beartracks Apr 2012 #66
So glad for you, MarianJack! Waiting For Everyman Apr 2012 #67
I am so very happy for you and your family. CottonBear Apr 2012 #68
Glad to hear it! Congratulations! TwilightGardener Apr 2012 #69
Fantastic Digit Apr 2012 #70
Congrats !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! nt steve2470 Apr 2012 #71
Congrats! TexasTowelie Apr 2012 #72
What great news! Iwillnevergiveup Apr 2012 #73
congratulations MarianJack barbtries Apr 2012 #74
yeeeeehhhhaaaaaaaaawwwwwww spanone Apr 2012 #85

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
6. Been there, done that.
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:29 AM
Apr 2012

Except that I was single at the time, which meant that I only had to worry about myself.

Congratulations and thanks for sharing the good news with us.

renate

(13,776 posts)
7. Congratulations! I'm SO happy for you!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:29 AM
Apr 2012

What you've been through sounds absolutely terrible--I'm so thrilled that you can have peace of mind now! Congratulations!

HughBeaumont

(24,461 posts)
8. YESSS!!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:31 AM
Apr 2012

Wishing you well on your new adventure.

And yes, let us NEVER allow anyone to forget who got us into this mess or rewrite history. 2000-2008 DID happen.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
16. congrats
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:46 AM
Apr 2012

my husband was out of work for 20 months, the first time since we was 16 that he didn't have a job.
We made it through but I still have nightmares.
Saving as fast as we can since it all seems so fragile right now.

Booster

(10,021 posts)
20. Good vibes from my house to yours. Your entire family has proved you are survivors and
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 12:06 PM
Apr 2012

it has only made you stronger. If you can go through what you've already gone through you're stronger than a whole lot of other people. Congrats and I hope from now on you can buy your son whatever he wants.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
22. I'm so relieved for you
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 12:10 PM
Apr 2012

If you don't get advanced than you can always look for another job, and it is a lot easier to get one when you have one.

It's a sad commentary on our economy that getting a job for under $10 an hour is cause for massive celebration, but you know, it is. And if you think it is a good place to work, that's even better.

Congratulations!!!!!

I'm SO glad that something finally broke your way.

drm604

(16,230 posts)
28. Fantastic news
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 12:48 PM
Apr 2012

I know how good it feels to finally get back to work. Good for you. I'm hoping that we see many more threads like this in the near future.

BReisen

(114 posts)
41. Congrats!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:13 PM
Apr 2012

My husband went through 6 1/2 months of unemployment that ended in late 2011 - I know the feelings - both the bad over the last 10 months and the GREAT that you are feeling today. I'm very happy for you!

virgdem

(2,124 posts)
42. That's great news...
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:21 PM
Apr 2012

I wish you the best of luck in your new job and hope that you get the raise that you deserve. I've been unemployed for very short periods of time and it truly sucks.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
45. I'm very happy for you. I know what it's like to have a family and be out of work
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:33 PM
Apr 2012

I was out of work for 7 months. And the whole time, I felt like I had completely failed at my primary purpose in life--to provide for my family. They were very good about it, of course, and I learned to nod assent to the encouraging words, but I didn't feel like much of a good person. I cried when I got a job offer. And the interview process is such artifice. You have to act as though you're on top of the world, all the while thinking, I need this job, I MUST have this job, you HAVE to offer it to me or my family is going down for the count. So when I said that I was really happy for you, that's the stuff I was thinking about. I know what it's like for that weight to be lifted, and I wish you all the best.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
86. I also happen to have a strong suspicion
Thu Apr 12, 2012, 10:47 PM
Apr 2012

...that you'll be the best employee at your new company. You have a motivation that many others will not understand. Go tear it up, and yes, PEACE to you too.

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
87. About 5 months after my wife got her present job,...
Sat Apr 14, 2012, 09:26 AM
Apr 2012

...her boss' boss told her that she is the most valuable person that he'd ever hired. She is now likely to get a nice promotion this week or soon after.

My goal is to have my new boss say the same, so your suspicion is DEAD ON PERFECT! The cool thing is that my new job is to help unemployed people find jobs. I think that one of the reasons I got the job os because I know exactly what some of the people I'll be working with are going through.

You are right, my wife and son are all the motivation I need.

PEACE!

AnneD

(15,774 posts)
46. Been there done that.....
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:35 PM
Apr 2012

got the unemployment check back in 1988. Profoundly affected my life. I never have subscribed to cable or newspapers since-unnecessary expense. Always keep a years worth of food in the pantry and a minimum of 1K in the savings at all times (more now). I make generous use of the library for any media. I am an active Dem and donate to the food pantry and volunteer when I can. Most importantly, I always look out for folks I know that are too proud to ask for help (yes, I know what to look for).

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
48. Congratulations, MJ!!!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:43 PM
Apr 2012

I'm very happy for you and your family. It's less than you deserve, but it's a great improvement. Your good news makes my day, too!

noiretextatique

(27,275 posts)
50. congratulations!!!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 02:54 PM
Apr 2012
i am glad you found a job. i was laid off January 2010. and my unemployment just ran out. at least i am getting calls and interviews now, because i didn't hear a peep until a few months ago. i will take your great news as a sign that my nightmare is coming to an end too

longship

(40,416 posts)
54. Feels great, doesn't it?
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 05:30 PM
Apr 2012

I've been there myself. With the support of my family, it all came out okay. But that new job was a good thing. Being unemployed sucks.


Americana

(9 posts)
55. Huzzah!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 05:51 PM
Apr 2012

Congratulations! I know it's been hard, but things will get better, I just know it! I haven't been able to find a job since 2009, so my art it is, and it's starting to snowball. So happy to hear good news! LOVE!

WoodyD

(215 posts)
56. Congrats!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 06:22 PM
Apr 2012

Been there and yes, there's nothing like it. That phone call with those wonderful words - "you got the job." That feeling of a boulder rolling off your shoulders and then suddenly you wonder how you managed to carry that thing around for so long. But you just had no choice. When all these a**holes talk about unemployed people being "lazy" -- well, walk a few hundred miles in my shoes or yours. Your now-employed shoes! Congratulations.

riverbendviewgal

(4,252 posts)
60. Great news
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 07:38 PM
Apr 2012

and what you may do to help Obama and the rest of those who have been in your shoes, is to write about all that you have experienced.

Waiting For Everyman

(9,385 posts)
67. So glad for you, MarianJack!
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:29 PM
Apr 2012

Way to go!

All the best in your new job, and to your family too!

(It's sort of like hanging onto a flagpole in a hurricane, isn't it? Feels so good when it stops.)

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
68. I am so very happy for you and your family.
Tue Apr 10, 2012, 11:56 PM
Apr 2012

Last edited Wed Apr 11, 2012, 08:20 AM - Edit history (1)

As we discussed in another post this week, it sucks to be an unemployed, middle-aged professional with a good education and an excellent resume.

You are going to feel so much better, both mentally and physically, after you start working again. I am so happy for you!

I am still working PT for $7.50 and getting some more hours during some weeks. I never imagined that I would be in this situation after working for over 34 years.

edit: sp. I keep forgetting we have spell check once again!

Digit

(6,163 posts)
70. Fantastic
Wed Apr 11, 2012, 01:44 AM
Apr 2012

Hopefully things will only go upward for you and your family from this day forward.

Congratulations!

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
73. What great news!
Wed Apr 11, 2012, 03:05 AM
Apr 2012

It always amazes me to read posts from people who have been out of work for horrendously long periods of time, but who still manage to keep abreast of the times with grace and humor. I'm very happy for you and your family and hope your success is a harbinger for everyone else on this board yearning to work again.

Congratulations and best wishes!

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