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WillyT

(72,631 posts)
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:20 AM Aug 2014

Sincerely Asked Question... Are You Going To/Have You.. Watched The James Foley Video... I Cannot...

I just can't... don't need to, don't want to get further enraged...

Just... cannot.


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Sincerely Asked Question... Are You Going To/Have You.. Watched The James Foley Video... I Cannot... (Original Post) WillyT Aug 2014 OP
Nope, I am not going to watch it. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2014 #1
I have mixed feelings about watching it FrodosPet Aug 2014 #22
I completely agree. F4lconF16 Aug 2014 #83
I wish I could unsee it Aerows Aug 2014 #2
They want to terrorize. That's why they film it onecaliberal Aug 2014 #17
I think videos have "PAUSE" buttons, to stop and leave. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #48
I had a lapful of pouncing cat Aerows Aug 2014 #82
I've read a description MohRokTah Aug 2014 #3
Same here. No desire to watch. 840high Aug 2014 #81
no oldandhappy Aug 2014 #4
I don't feel a need to watch it as this serves no useful purpose. Uncle Joe Aug 2014 #5
Agreed. nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #34
NO. Rex Aug 2014 #6
I am with you on this one. nevergiveup Aug 2014 #7
Nope. Brigid Aug 2014 #8
No. 3catwoman3 Aug 2014 #9
I made the mistake of viewing a couple of seconds of the Pearl beheading... ChisolmTrailDem Aug 2014 #10
Same. Agschmid Aug 2014 #72
I knew a guy who made the mistake of watching the Pearl video Marrah_G Aug 2014 #11
No wercal Aug 2014 #12
nope. I already have the movie based on a true story playing on repeat in my head. Ed Suspicious Aug 2014 #13
No. They want us to jberryhill Aug 2014 #14
+1 Baitball Blogger Aug 2014 #66
No, it's bad enough that I happen to read a description of it here on DU when I didn't want to know SammyWinstonJack Aug 2014 #15
No, I have no desire to see it. I'm just constantly appalled by the creatures that RKP5637 Aug 2014 #16
No. I couldn't bear to watch it. TDale313 Aug 2014 #18
I haven't and I am not going to watch it. herding cats Aug 2014 #19
I have, and it's horrible. But I do not regret it. Nye Bevan Aug 2014 #20
Unless... nikto Aug 2014 #39
I'm a huge CT kind o'gal, but this one is too bizarre. Cui bono is the entire Muslim world. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #50
Far from it. This will bring nothing but hatred and pain against the muslim world. CJCRANE Aug 2014 #69
We were the obvious perps of Abu Ghraib. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #78
I know. I was wondering the same thing. Baitball Blogger Aug 2014 #67
Good point nikto Aug 2014 #84
Why would you deliberately watch a gruesome murder? Poor imagination? WinkyDink Aug 2014 #49
What is with your snottiness in this thread? nt DRoseDARs Aug 2014 #80
No. Or I should say, heck no. BlueCaliDem Aug 2014 #21
No way WestCoastLib Aug 2014 #23
Now imagine yourself a child who sees this in the flesh more than once. nolabear Aug 2014 #24
Infinity!!!!! Nt newfie11 Aug 2014 #54
Nope. Nope. Nope. TwilightGardener Aug 2014 #25
I have no desire to defacto7 Aug 2014 #26
No, won't watch it. HeiressofBickworth Aug 2014 #27
Yes. Do not watch it. nt msanthrope Aug 2014 #28
N0 Duppers Aug 2014 #29
I'm like that too. I can't bring myself to squish bugs any more. JaydenD Aug 2014 #65
Years ago I saw a video of a Russian soldier in the tender care of Chechen rebels... DRoseDARs Aug 2014 #30
Yes get the red out Aug 2014 #42
I believe I know the video you're referring to. Inkfreak Aug 2014 #44
No, I won't. cui bono Aug 2014 #31
NO. nt No Vested Interest Aug 2014 #32
No it's too gruesome, but it reminds me MaggieD Aug 2014 #33
Attention is our most vital tool. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #35
I can't. I won't. Control-Z Aug 2014 #36
Just say No to Death Porn. Iggo Aug 2014 #37
NO, I saw the Daniel Perle one Raine Aug 2014 #38
FYI. proverbialwisdom Aug 2014 #40
No get the red out Aug 2014 #41
No and not going to. NaturalHigh Aug 2014 #43
I watched the Daniel Pearl one long time ago and cannot unsee that one, boston bean Aug 2014 #45
Gee, you deliberately watched a hideous murder, and are still "haunt(ed)"? Who'da thunk? WinkyDink Aug 2014 #53
Yep, I watched it and it does still haunt me. boston bean Aug 2014 #58
Agreed… eom MrMickeysMom Aug 2014 #57
I have_not and will_not watch the video. In_The_Wind Aug 2014 #46
I think anyone who does, short of the CIA, has a seriously loose screw. WinkyDink Aug 2014 #47
No - and further TBF Aug 2014 #51
Who comprises "we" here? WinkyDink Aug 2014 #52
I don't think I was unclear in my post - TBF Aug 2014 #60
Not, I… since making the mistake of watching the one during the "War on Terror" MrMickeysMom Aug 2014 #55
Not just no, but fuck no. nt MrScorpio Aug 2014 #56
will not watch pleinair Aug 2014 #59
No. I have enough unpleasant images in my head and I do not support American policies in the ME. CBGLuthier Aug 2014 #61
No. Nothing positive in watching the brutal murder of a person. NT Adrahil Aug 2014 #62
No. I don't want to be any part of a Roman Coliseum. JaydenD Aug 2014 #63
Absolutely not. nt alsame Aug 2014 #64
Nope Borchkins Aug 2014 #68
No. It's propaganda. Both ISIS and the MSM want to terrorize us. CJCRANE Aug 2014 #70
No Gothmog Aug 2014 #71
No. nt cwydro Aug 2014 #73
No. I have no desire to help them achieve their goals. NuclearDem Aug 2014 #74
No in protest to YouTube Boom Sound 416 Aug 2014 #75
No notadmblnd Aug 2014 #76
No. Jackpine Radical Aug 2014 #77
No. can't. nt. Ilsa Aug 2014 #79
No. LWolf Aug 2014 #85
no xiamiam Aug 2014 #86
Yes. PoutrageFatigue Aug 2014 #87
No. I'm Quaker, I believe one must stand witness for justice, I did so for Nick Berg. politicat Aug 2014 #88
No, and just knowing what was done to him is enough. CBHagman Aug 2014 #89
No, and I'm not watching kiva Aug 2014 #90
Nope. As others have said, I don't even like violent movies. closeupready Aug 2014 #91
I clicked on the link to this video. Jenoch Aug 2014 #92

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,620 posts)
1. Nope, I am not going to watch it.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:23 AM
Aug 2014

Watching someone die in such a barbaric way would be too painful.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
22. I have mixed feelings about watching it
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 01:05 AM
Aug 2014

As I mentioned in another post, I watched the brutal I.S. propaganda video "Clanging Of The Swords IV".

It was sad and awful. Perhaps the fact that I have seen some pretty horrible things in person, like growing up in a high crime city (once even walking up on a pregnant woman who had just been shot), has probably desensitized me a bit so that it was not quite as hard on me as it may be on others. But it was still profound. I feel like now, emotionally and spiritually, I really understand the horror of war.

No amount of talking about war, or looking at some pictures of building debris, will ever replace the visual impact of seeing war's human victims in detail. It is morbid, most definitely, but it brings it all home.

I cannot put down anyone for not wanting to see it. At the same time, for anyone strong enough to handle it, doing so WILL bring you an emotional attachment to war's victims that is next to impossible in any other way.

F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
83. I completely agree.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 08:58 PM
Aug 2014

Pictures of the victims and what they have experienced does so much more than reading about it, or looking at a tangential photo, like a bombed building. One of the pictures that really hit home about the Iraq war was the picture of the burned Iraqi man attempting to climb out of his truck... There are images you don't forget.

Though I respect those who can't, for those who can bear it, I think the best understanding you can get without being there comes from these direct images, these videos of what has happened. Understanding to a degree, and like you said, an emotional attachment...

Edit: I somewhat misread the thread. I won't watch what happened to Foley. I don't need that in my head. I have read enough... This is not war, affecting people indiscriminately, something I might be forced to be a part of or have to fight against, something that I believe I should understand innately. This is a twisted group attempting to terrorize us. Just as I would not watch a serial killer mangle their victim, so I will not watch this.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
2. I wish I could unsee it
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:23 AM
Aug 2014

I accidentally followed a link, and there it was.

I don't understand doing it, I don't understand filming it, and I *really* don't understand people linking to it.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
82. I had a lapful of pouncing cat
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 06:35 PM
Aug 2014

and my eyes flicked up right when the bad part happened.

Uncle Joe

(65,136 posts)
5. I don't feel a need to watch it as this serves no useful purpose.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:27 AM
Aug 2014

I know what they did.

Thanks for the thread, WillyT.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
6. NO.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:27 AM
Aug 2014

I watched a few videos when we invaded Iraq in 2003 and it turned my stomach. Some of the executions were not clean, meaning the terrorists sawed through the victims neck...I WISH I would have never looked at such stuff...I still remember one in particular.

I will never look at that kind of stuff again.

nevergiveup

(4,815 posts)
7. I am with you on this one.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:28 AM
Aug 2014

I almost alway convince myself to watch videos like this but for some reason, this one time, I can not bring myself to do it.

 

ChisolmTrailDem

(9,463 posts)
10. I made the mistake of viewing a couple of seconds of the Pearl beheading...
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:36 AM
Aug 2014

...and wish I had not because you cannot unsee something like that if you're a half-decent person.

I WILL NOT view the Foley video and my most supportive and loving thoughts go out to his family and friends.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
11. I knew a guy who made the mistake of watching the Pearl video
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:38 AM
Aug 2014

He said back then " don't watch it, you can never unsee/unhear it, it's not like the movies, it's not one quick swing of a sword"

You don't want that visual/audio in your head.

wercal

(1,370 posts)
12. No
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:40 AM
Aug 2014

I listened to audio of Mr. Pearl's murder and it was terrible. Can't imagine watching it.

SammyWinstonJack

(44,316 posts)
15. No, it's bad enough that I happen to read a description of it here on DU when I didn't want to know
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:49 AM
Aug 2014

the details.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
16. No, I have no desire to see it. I'm just constantly appalled by the creatures that
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:51 AM
Aug 2014

inhabit and walk the earth.

TDale313

(7,822 posts)
18. No. I couldn't bear to watch it.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:52 AM
Aug 2014

Have never watched the Daniel Pearl video, either. I'm sickened just knowing about it, and I am not a squeamish person. It's not an image I need to see.

My heart goes out to his loved ones, and may the monsters who did this pay.

herding cats

(20,049 posts)
19. I haven't and I am not going to watch it.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:54 AM
Aug 2014

Like you I cannot. I understand what took place without having to bear witness to his execution. They'll not leave that image in my mind for me to deal with for all my days.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
20. I have, and it's horrible. But I do not regret it.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 12:57 AM
Aug 2014

It truly drives home what fundamentalist Jihadism is all about.

 

nikto

(3,284 posts)
39. Unless...
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 03:42 AM
Aug 2014

Last edited Thu Aug 21, 2014, 10:08 PM - Edit history (1)

It was neocon operatives doing it, to inflame western emotions and expand the war.

Neocons are as Machiavellian as anybody, and they want this war, BAD.


If you completely dismiss this as a possibility,
then you don't know neocons.



The Daniel Pearl murder, and especially the Nick Berg slaying, also aroused this suspicion in
a few analysts, at the time.

The slaying arouses angry and hurt emotions in the west more than it inspires new devotees.

Rather than just knee-jerk reacting in the predictable, unthinking way,
smart people always ask:
Cui bono?

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
50. I'm a huge CT kind o'gal, but this one is too bizarre. Cui bono is the entire Muslim world.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:08 AM
Aug 2014

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
69. Far from it. This will bring nothing but hatred and pain against the muslim world.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 08:01 AM
Aug 2014

Just like Abu Ghraib. Did that benefit Americans? Of course not, it evoked hatred and vengeance.

Baitball Blogger

(52,346 posts)
67. I know. I was wondering the same thing.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:58 AM
Aug 2014

If ISIS wanted to start a war, they have laid the foundation.

On the other hand, if this was a neo-con ruse, ISIS has the ability to come out and call it a sham. Since they have not, we can only assume that it was, in fact, their doing.

 

nikto

(3,284 posts)
84. Good point
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 09:45 PM
Aug 2014

ISIS doesn't exactly seem to be denying the act, that's for sure at this point.

ISIS most probably did it, but still, America's neocons surely CHEERED the killing (from the
privacy of their exclusive club's lounge).

The beheading fuels all the war-frenzy the neocons cream-their-jeans over.

nolabear

(43,850 posts)
24. Now imagine yourself a child who sees this in the flesh more than once.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 01:09 AM
Aug 2014

It changes you. Seeing your, or any, people killed changes you.

defacto7

(14,162 posts)
26. I have no desire to
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 02:12 AM
Aug 2014

step into their trap. I know what a beheading is and what it means, there is no more truth in seeing it and no value to me nor does it support the families of the bereaved.

I have watched a couple of tributes to James Foley's life and work. That's where the power is.

IS are ugly minded, deluded, misinformed, religionists who deserve no attention from me.

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
27. No, won't watch it.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 02:40 AM
Aug 2014

I think Mr. Foley deserves some respect -- watching some terrorist behead him does nothing to preserve his dignity. He was a brave person to put himself in an arena so he could report to the world. Thanks to him, we now know the extent of the barbarism practiced by ISIS -- and I WON'T call them "Islamic State". It demeans the majority of Islamic people who would never behave this way and it gives legitimacy to their conquest of foreign territories. They are terrorists, plain and simple.

Someone on DU suggested that the aim is to return to the values of the 7th century, which ISIS seems to so admire. They need to re-read their Koran. There is nowhere in the Koran that advocates using jeeps with mounted machine guns and rocket launchers. If they were truly adhering to their holy book, they would use spears and rocks which were the war weapons at the time of Mohammed. Since they are not following their holy book, we can only assume they are violent psychopaths whose only goal is to maim and kill. I feel sorry for people who wind up in their path.

And, no, I don't have a solution. If we stay out of it, they will continue genocide against anyone they think are lesser humans. If we go into it, there is no end to the amount of troops, treasure and time required to make any kind of difference. Saddam may have been a brutal dictator, but he was their dictator and he prevented this kind of violence against innocent people. Who wodda thot that we'd be missing HIM. Thanks, George Bush, for stirring up this hornet's nest.

Duppers

(28,469 posts)
29. N0
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 02:48 AM
Aug 2014

I already have nightmares, besides I cannot kill even a house spider without great remorse.

 

JaydenD

(294 posts)
65. I'm like that too. I can't bring myself to squish bugs any more.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:53 AM
Aug 2014

Flies and mosquitoes in the house, sure - I'll get the swatter out but if I find some lost crawly thing I'll get a tissue and capture it and throw it outside.

 

DRoseDARs

(6,810 posts)
30. Years ago I saw a video of a Russian soldier in the tender care of Chechen rebels...
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 02:50 AM
Aug 2014

The video was grainy and desaturated (I think on purpose of the site operators that had it) but the audio...

It's been years, but even thinking about what I saw or worse what I heard instantly makes me start crying.

Beheading is one of the most evil acts one can do to another. Horrifying beyond words. One committing such an act is beyond redemption.

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
44. I believe I know the video you're referring to.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 06:59 AM
Aug 2014

And it's been one of the most disturbing videos I have ever seen. It's been over a decade and I still remember it. It affected me profoundly.

cui bono

(19,926 posts)
31. No, I won't.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 02:52 AM
Aug 2014

I worry about it being available online. I wish it weren't. I worry that teenage boys will watch it thinking it will be cool to see it. I worry that they will still think that after they see it.

 

MaggieD

(7,393 posts)
33. No it's too gruesome, but it reminds me
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 03:11 AM
Aug 2014

Of the gruesome carnage we fund via Israel. Both sicken me equally.

Control-Z

(15,686 posts)
36. I can't. I won't.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 03:28 AM
Aug 2014

Something like that becomes permanently etched in one's mind.

I am already horrified, even traumatized, by what I've heard and read. I only hope his family never sees it. Those poor dear people. Their suffering is beyond comprehension.

Raine

(31,179 posts)
38. NO, I saw the Daniel Perle one
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 03:32 AM
Aug 2014

HORRIBLE ... I don't ever want to see such a thing again!

boston bean

(36,931 posts)
45. I watched the Daniel Pearl one long time ago and cannot unsee that one,
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:02 AM
Aug 2014

it still haunts me when I think about it.

So, I think I get the full visual and understanding, and I don't want to see another.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
53. Gee, you deliberately watched a hideous murder, and are still "haunt(ed)"? Who'da thunk?
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:11 AM
Aug 2014

boston bean

(36,931 posts)
58. Yep, I watched it and it does still haunt me.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:15 AM
Aug 2014

I'm not sorry I watched it though. Just don't want to watch another.

TBF

(36,669 posts)
51. No - and further
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:08 AM
Aug 2014

it is time for this country to think about it's dependence on oil and developing new forms of energy. Not only to get out of the middle east (which we desperately need to do) but also to save this planet.

I won't watch it, I do not want to willingly support any fundamentalist regime (including Saudi, Israel or the religious kooks in this country), and I do not support giving them $$$ for oil.

We boycott other industries - like the Koch Bros - we should be boycotting these murderous thugs.

TBF

(36,669 posts)
60. I don't think I was unclear in my post -
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:23 AM
Aug 2014

US out of the Middle East now.

I feel like I am back in college 30 years ago explaining why we need to get the hell out of El Salvador. The only reason our troops are sent abroad is to protect what this country's leaders consider our "resources" - in most cases oil, piping the oil, transporting the oil etc. We are also involved in backing up corporations that are extracting other resources - such as mining for certain minerals in Central America.

When actual people could use some assistance - such as the non-white folks of Rwanda - we turn a blind eye because it's not like Exxon has wells there. It is very transparent.

The US Gov't, acting on behalf of the 1% is raping this planet's resources in the goal of greater profits. It needs to stop.

I could give examples but all you have to do is read the Socialist Progressives or Latin America group for starters - we post copius examples of this behavior only to be ignored by people simply parroting the party line.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
55. Not, I… since making the mistake of watching the one during the "War on Terror"
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:13 AM
Aug 2014

Will not…

I trust this is the desired effect for all who wonder about our meddling in the world.

WillyT…. I'm still enraged over the last set of lies that got us into this mess in the first place.

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
61. No. I have enough unpleasant images in my head and I do not support American policies in the ME.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:35 AM
Aug 2014

I do think that all the war hawks should be forced to watch it but they would probably enjoy it.

It would not enrage me. Why should one more unpleasant but sadly common act of human cruelty enrage? Unpleasant things are done by human beings all over the planet and for all kinds of reasons.

 

JaydenD

(294 posts)
63. No. I don't want to be any part of a Roman Coliseum.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 07:48 AM
Aug 2014

I feel I would be disrespectful if I watched it for the Horror Entertainment it would give - that I am sure many view it for. I have an imagination good enough to know what a beheading looks like in my minds eye and I don't need it on vid.

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
70. No. It's propaganda. Both ISIS and the MSM want to terrorize us.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 08:03 AM
Aug 2014

Incidentally, it also seems to reference iconic images from Abu Ghraib and Gitmo.

Gothmog

(179,869 posts)
71. No
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 08:37 AM
Aug 2014

I like Rachel Maddow's analysis that if no one watches these snuff films, the terrorists would have less reason to put them out

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
75. No in protest to YouTube
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 09:11 AM
Aug 2014

google should be fined or used for allowing it to be posted in the first place

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
85. No.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:04 PM
Aug 2014

Would it add to the information I've already got, or simply trigger more horror and rage, which live with me already?

politicat

(9,810 posts)
88. No. I'm Quaker, I believe one must stand witness for justice, I did so for Nick Berg.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:40 PM
Aug 2014

I can't do it again. I think I can witness and advocate from the descriptions.

May the universe grant peace and comfort to his family and friends,

CBHagman

(17,493 posts)
89. No, and just knowing what was done to him is enough.
Thu Aug 21, 2014, 11:46 PM
Aug 2014

I know there are people who have to view these videos for verification and intel reasons, and there are journalists as well who have watched them as research, but I know there are also people out there watching them out of interest -- for whatever reason.

AOL's homepage suggests that a lot of people are searching for these. I don't know the individual motivations, but just knowing some people watch them out of curiosity disturbs me. There was time when so-called advanced societies held very grisly executions in public to make a point, and then there's the history of lynching, which is very, very hard to read and extremely recent in the timeline of U.S. history.

May there come a day when NO such images are viewed around the world.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
91. Nope. As others have said, I don't even like violent movies.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 12:10 AM
Aug 2014

I don't see the point or entertainment value in it.

With the footage of Foley's murder, again, it seems pointless from the perspective of those not directly involved in that crime. So absolutely will never watch this.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
92. I clicked on the link to this video.
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 12:18 AM
Aug 2014

Before the video loaded, I chose to close the window. This is not something I need to see to believe the hatred and malevolence of those who did the kidnapping.

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