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Parents in Texas are upset after police reportedly swarmed a Texas high school because a girl may have had a miscarriage in one of the bathrooms.
KDFW reported that a school custodian notified the principal at Woodrow Wilson High School after finding a possible fetus in one of the bathroom stalls on Friday.
The principal contacted police, who swarmed the school, according to KTVT.
I seen a helicopter and I was really worried, one student recalled.
Parent Christine Kerry was outraged that she had not been notified as to why so many police had been deployed to the school.
I got out of my car and specifically asked, Whats going on, and is it safe for these kids to be out here? she said. And I was told to go away.
The district promised that the parents would get an email explaining what had happened.
What was found was what appears to be a fetus, or what has been confirmed to be a fetus, Dallas Independent School District spokesperson Jon Dahlander told reporters. We have been in the process of trying to notify parents to let them know about this.
Dallas Police Departments Child Abuse Unit detectives were investigating to find out who may have abandoned the fetus. The person involved was being considered a suspect.
Were reviewing video, talking to the teachers, trying to determine if anybody has any knowledge of any student that may have had something going on in their life, and pray, Dallas Police Major John Lawton said.
Alan Elliott of Baby Moses Dallas explained to KDFW that the mother could have avoided any criminal charges if she had taken advantage of Baby Moses laws by carrying the child to term, and then dropping it off at a safe baby site like a fire station.
And thats a happy ending when that happens, because the baby is safe, the mother is protected from any sort of prosecution, so its a win-win for both of them, Elliot noted.
However, it was not immediately clear how far along the pregnancy was, and the cause of the possible miscarriage was not known.
Watch the video below from KTVT, broadcast Aug. 29, 2014.
http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/09/02/texas-cops-swarm-school-police-call-for-prayer-over-miscarriage-in-bathroom/
enough
(13,256 posts)The hysteria borders on medieval. Next, they'll be getting the stake ready for the burning.
christx30
(6,241 posts)level of crime in the area doesn't justify the amount of law enforcement currently employed. They need to reduce the police department budget by 30%. Lay off 20% of the force.
rocktivity
(44,576 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 2, 2014, 04:24 PM - Edit history (1)
But what crime did she commit? Maybe the miscarriage was spontaneous! And if she were in her first trimester, it's even possible that she didn't know she was pregnant!
rocktivity
TNNurse
(6,926 posts)Who is mentioned in the article as the source of that really ignorant quote, is apparently really ignorant of the concept of miscarriage.
jwirr
(39,215 posts)miscarriage is a medical problem and they should have called medical personnel. The OP mentioned medieval - worse than that. Ignorant. And they are running a school.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)if she were shot they would just keep her on life support to support the fetus.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Warpy
(111,245 posts)Do none of these fucking jackasses know what the word "MISCARRIAGE" means?
This whole thing is bullshit and I wish I could say it could only happen in Texas.
Unfortunately, it can happen anywhere forefeiture has enriched police departments enough to arm them like paramilitaries. It can happen anywhere idiot preachers and politicians go around practicing medicine without licenses.
liberalhistorian
(20,816 posts)what miscarriage means, frankly. I've known too many RW fundies and militant pro-lifers who actually seem to have no concept of miscarriage and what it really is. They think any pregnancy that ends before term, including within the first trimester when most miscarriages occur, is akin to an abortion or, if they do have some understanding of it, they think that the mother "did something" to cause the miscarriage. They simply cannot grasp the concept of a miscarriage and it's truly frightening, as are the implications of that if they get into full power.
This includes police morons like these idiots who descended on the school like locusts as if there were a "miscarriage cartel" inside the school or something. NO concern at all for the medical well-being of the child who'd suffered the miscarriage, NO concern for the fact that she may have needed help. If I were a parent at that school, I'd be raising holy hell over it.
And don't think that this kind of ignorance can't be codified into law, either. I remember an idiot Virginia legislator a few years ago who actually wanted to require women to report any miscarriages to the local POLICE within twenty-four hours of its occurrence, even if they didn't visit a doctor (many times with very early miscarriages, it's not really necessary), and to label it a crime worthy of arrest and charges if they didn't do so, and there were even hints of charges against doctors as well. This idiot not only had no grasp of the concept of miscarriage, he also didn't seem to understand that miscarriages are so common that women often don't even now they've had one or are having one, until well after the 24-hour period he wanted to mandate. Fortunately, the public ridicule was so great that he finally withdrew the bill, but don't think for one second that there's not a lot more where that came from.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)This doesn't make a whole lot of sense. If this was a miscarriage, this child should be taken care of not vilified.
PeaceNikki
(27,985 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Lint Head
(15,064 posts)the medieval thinking. If they want to get radical about it and pray. They should think about this. If it was a miscarriage God wanted it to happen and praying won't bring the aborted fetus back to life. Maybe Benny Hinn could be called to raise the dead for them.
TheBlackAdder
(28,183 posts)locdlib
(176 posts)until now. I can only ascertain that he is referencing this god who raised an already dead man is the same god that allows so much strife and mayhem to happen. So, then god is no different than a lot of "parents" in that there are favorites amongst "his children."
Initech
(100,063 posts)libdem4life
(13,877 posts)is out there somewhere...wonder if they are swarming the school looking for the father. Maybe they'll send the police house to house looking for unusual quantities of unused pads or tampons. And it NOBODY'S F##### BUSINESS.
3catwoman3
(23,973 posts)...teachers kept track of our periods, with the offered explanation that they were making sure no one was over-claiming the privilege of using the private shower stalls that was permitted during that time. We'd line up in front of the office door in the locker room while the teacher would make a little "M" next to our names in her grade/attendance book. Being naive and accustomed to strong authority figures, it never occurred to me to refuse to comply, even tho I found it uncomfortable to have everyone in the gym class know what was going on with my body. Pretty creepy.
Years later, I wondered if a covert reason might have been to take note of someone who was not reporting a period at expected intervals because of pregnancy.
Until recently, I would have thought that those days were long gone. Now, I am not so sure.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)valerief
(53,235 posts)What if you had a light flow like I always did and didn't need to shower solo? Wonder what would have happened then.
3catwoman3
(23,973 posts)...of "not allowed to," as much as a semi-privacy thing. Back in the day, as they say, most of us use were still using those instruments of torture known as belts and pads, which one obviously would not want to wear into a group shower, nor would you want to stand there, using nothing, with blood running down your legs for all to see. Not too many had "graduated" to tampons in the mid- to late- 60s.
I say semi-privacy, because if you were standing in line for the 3 private showers stalls with curtains, everybody knew why you were in line. You just didn't have to take care of business with everyone watching.
Apologies to those who will no doubt consider this TMI. Consider it a history lesson.
valerief
(53,235 posts)ran down my legs. It was always light. So I was wondering what it was for girls like that.
Back in my school, we weren't lucky enough to take showers. We basically just changed into our white blouse and blue bloomers and stretched for a half hour. That was our PE with the nuns.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)jwirr
(39,215 posts)because he was done with his "job".
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)Oops...child support, uh, it was only a quick screw dudes.
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)This is beyond horrifying. Cops swarmed a school over this? With helicopters? And SWAT? Then what? Count the number of personal hygiene products left in the bathroom dispenser? Make the school nurse conduct involuntary exams? Make all the girls bring a doctor's note clearing them of any involvement? Forcing the girls to be prayed over by fundie nutjobs?
Texas education. Not for those with a weak stomach.
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Generic Other
(28,979 posts)when I spit in their eye!
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)won't want to go to school if they think someone is going to give them a physical at school. If I had a daughter there, I'd keep her out until the dust settled. Girls at this age can be very sensitive about their bodies.
catrose
(5,065 posts)I didn't when I was 26. There was just all this blood and it wouldn't stop...
Fla Dem
(23,653 posts)The doctor had told me I wasn't pregnant; so it never crossed my mind that he might be wrong.
Fla Dem
(23,653 posts)catrose
(5,065 posts)My point was that if I didn't immediately know what was going on as a theoretically grown woman, the child might not have known either and the expectations of her might have been unreasonable, if not completely insane.
ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)I very much hope she has a strong support system consisting of family and friends.
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)tblue37
(65,336 posts)a live birth, then no crime occurred. If, on the other hand, it was a self-administered medical abortion, then there is still no crime. If this was a fetus, not a live birth, then the mother could not have dropped the baby off to be fostered and adopted. If it was a miscarriage, she had no way to "choose" to carry the fetus to term.
And if it was in fact a live birth and a deliberate killing of a viable infant, then the cops, the administrators, and the reporter are all blithering idiots for calling it a fetus all the time.
Idiots, idiots, idiots. They traumatized a whole school full of students, as well as their parents. If the girl had a miscarriage, then she is being victimized and doubly traumatized at a time when she is probably an *emotionally fragile CHILD* herself.
And unless that fetus was well armed and spraying bullets around the school, they did not need to have all those cops called in.
How bloody STUPID can they get before rational people start slamming clue-by-fours upside their useless heads?
Lars39
(26,109 posts)I'm going to borrow that one, if I may.
tblue37
(65,336 posts)What the hell has a miscarriage in a bathroom stall have to do with the GD police? It's a crime to have a miscarriage? I'm writing this one off as Police State overkill!
get the red out
(13,461 posts)Scare the other girls in the school into submission. Let them know what awaits them if anything like this happens to them. Put worse than the "fear of God" into those girls.
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)another one in fifteen minutes if they don't stop her!!!!! More police! Bring out the mine-resistant tank! Tazers!! Kevlar!
Spacemom
(2,561 posts)I want to get off.
Have people lost their friggin minds!? Let's send out the helicopters and pray over a bloody toilet bowl.
I work from home and don't go out much. At times I start thinking I should make an effort to be more part of the world. Then I read something like this and I just want to put another lock on the door.
tosh
(4,423 posts)It is like you are speaking for me.
LittleGirl
(8,283 posts)I just really wonder about humans anymore.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,680 posts)Was just thinking this morning that I ought to just stay away from the Internet, because there's so much shit going on that I just want to find a cabin deep in the woods and never see another human again.
Yet here I am, watching the debacle again. The whole world is turning into one of those awful car wrecks that you don't want to see but still can't help looking at.
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)and shake them up for their stupidity.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)I'm really troubled by a lot of this.
First, what is she suspected of? Miscarrying? How can they call her a suspect?
Second, she can avoid criminal charges for miscarrying by carrying the baby to term and dropping it off at a fire station?
This is where the anti-choice agenda leads, folks. Women and girls who miscarry get to face the miscarriage police who try to decide whether she legitimately miscarried, and notice the wording - she's a suspect so the assumption is that she did something wrong. No presumption of innocence for women and girls when they're treated only like vessels and not like full human beings. This is how it is in El Salvador and this is how the anti-choice groups would like it to be here. They're treating a scared kid who miscarried at school like a suspect. They're even calling her a suspect and calling enough police to swarm a school.
If it were even close to viable, people who react to a miscarriage in this way would absolutely be calling it a baby instead of a fetus. And this is the reaction.
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Yeah...may I be excused? I've just about had enough.
Imagine how all the girls in Texas (and Michigan and Georgia and Missouri and toomanyothersI'velostcountnow) feel.
littlemissmartypants
(22,632 posts)Dear gawd and the GOP:
Get out of my vagina.
riqster
(13,986 posts)littlemissmartypants
(22,632 posts)riqster
(13,986 posts)BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)WCLinolVir
(951 posts)I had a miscarriage at 1 1/2 months on a train from Brussels to Paris. It was not something I could do anything about. And they immediately assume the fetus was aborted unnaturally. WTF. Alan Elliott of Baby Moses!!??? What a moron. This sounds so stupid it could have been written by the Onion. Maybe they should have called a nurse instead. If I ever abort again I'll be sure to drop it off at the fire station. Oh and since they didn't find a bloody coat hanger, I'll assume there was not a crime committed. If the kid took a morning after pill, more power to her.
jmowreader
(50,555 posts)But yeah, the guy from Baby Moses is being more than creepy...insinuating there might be charges filed for a miscarriage. That's Romania-under-Ceaucescu shit, not America.
WCLinolVir
(951 posts)"if a woman ingests emergency contraception after fertilization has taken place, the third mode of action can occur. The lining of the uterus can be altered causing the woman's body to reject the living human embryo, making implantation impossible and the child will die."
I am willing to bet the janitor does not moonlight as an OB-GYN. A mess with the lining of the uterus being shed and an embryo could be confusing. But we don't know.
I should know what it looks like, since I had to take it after I was raped and it was a mess.
jmowreader
(50,555 posts)Any miscarriage (either natural or induced) is going to create a massive mess; if they claim there was a fetus in there, it had to be a few weeks old at least.
WCLinolVir
(951 posts)I see that they have confirmed it was a fetus. I also read that they are saying the morning after pill does not necessarily prevent implantation. I did use the term broadly, off the cuff, as there is also another medication available that induces miscarriage.
As for the massive mess, yes I know.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)They stop ovulation and are used immediately after sex, so they wouldn't be taken long enough after that there's a visible fetus, and they wouldn't do anything if she took them that late anyway. If they could cause an abortion, they would work a few weeks after sex better than the day after, and they wouldn't be called morning after pills.
WCLinolVir
(951 posts)"if a woman ingests emergency contraception after fertilization has taken place, the third mode of action can occur. The lining of the uterus can be altered causing the woman's body to reject the living human embryo, making implantation impossible and the child will die. " I don't know what the "fetus" looked like, but it can be quite messy.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)hadn't implanted in the lining of the uterus a long time earlier.
What you're talking about would be the lining being affected and stopping an embryo from implanting, which would happen a week or so afterward. You're talking about a pretty small number of cells, and something that could be called a zygote rather than an embryo, but absolutely isn't even a fetus yet. Read this: http://www.baby2see.com/development/week4.html That's what you're talking about.
The words "child will die" in your post make it obvious this came from an anti-choice site. No, it wouldn't be any messier than a normal period if implantation were impossible. In fact, that happens often when women are not using contraception at all - it's perfectly normal - and it just means you have your period as normal. There's nothing "quite messy" about it. There's no fetus yet, that word describes something way further along than an embryo/zygote small enough it hasn't implanted yet, and no one would see anything out of the usual or see anything visible by the human eye.
WCLinolVir
(951 posts)Have you taken it before? It is not necessarily the same as a regular period. I know mine was not, I thought I had miscarried at the time. I agree that anyone with some idea of what to look for would know it is not necessarily a miscarriage. I did use the term rather broadly, as I know there are drugs that induce miscarriage. And now they say that studies show the morning after pill does not necessarily prevent implantation. I did not intentionally quote an anti-choice site. It was pulled from a medical site. Yes badly written.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)Any period can be messy but it could not have possibly looked like anything other than menstrual blood if it were something where the morning after pill was relevant.
But you were talking about the abortion pill? That makes more sense, but I don't think she would have gone to school after taking that, and she probably would have needed parental consent to get it in Texas. If she had talked to her parents the whole situation would probably have been different.
whistler162
(11,155 posts)Lars39
(26,109 posts)this. Criminal charges? Fuck that shit.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)doing all this? WTF?
nolabear
(41,959 posts)And by "child" I mean the young girl who miscarried in the restroom of a high school and now is watching as she's called a "suspect," had the police swarm over as though she'd done something heinous to fellow students, had some yahoo speculate that if she'd just-what? Clamped her legs together or performed some magic act to keep the miscarriage from happening, or, more likely, aroused suspicion that it was an abortion, because a high school restroom is such a safe place for that to be done...
She's in danger. And not one soul is saying "Honey, come and let us take care of you. This must have been terrible for you to go through. How can we help?" I swear, I weep for us sometimes.
LittleGirl
(8,283 posts)perfect. so sad.
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)That poor girl is now so afraid to seek medical help, there could be complications. They don't care about a LIVING person, just some blood in a toilet. This is what happens when they outlaw abortion and miscarriage. They want people to go to jail.
Heidi
(58,237 posts)Fanatic nutjobs.
get the red out
(13,461 posts)They could talk to my Mom, I remember how sad she was when she miscarried between me and my sister. Like she could have done a damn thing about it. These fools don't even understand how many pregnancies naturally do not come to term.
VA_Jill
(9,965 posts)What in HELL is wrong with these people??? Calling the POLICE, fuhgawdsake, and then the police "swarming" the school, sending a HELICOPTER to hover over the place like a destroying angel, and then labeling the poor child who may have had a miscarriage in the bathroom as a "suspect"????? Are these folks out of what passes for their minds?
I guess not, it's just Texas. Or Texass, if you prefer.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Moonwalk
(2,322 posts)Maybe they should send the cops back to high school for some biology lessons? The stupidity is...I can't even find the words but I hope they get roasted for all this idiocy.
Old and In the Way
(37,540 posts)Can't protect the constitutional rights of a blastocyst if we don't know it exists! I used to post this to point out the absurdity of this thought. But reading how this state reacts to a friggen' miscarriage, this isn't so crazy. Why do they hate the #1 provider of all spontaneous abortions so much (their god)?
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)catchnrelease
(1,945 posts)After reading a few sentences I had to look to see if it was an article from The Onion. It seemed too far out there to be real. The Handmaids Tale is here.
Louisiana1976
(3,962 posts)EEO
(1,620 posts)I wonder how hard it is to move to Finland.
proReality
(1,628 posts)A little sex education would have taught these men the difference between miscarriages and back ally abortions. Apparently they believe every fetus can be saved, and that any woman having a miscarriage should have been forced to stuff it back in and carry it to term? Sure sounds that way.
get the red out
(13,461 posts)Requires the kind of police action as a terrorist plot?
It used to be that when women had miscarriages they were considered to have had a medical issue, not have engaged in criminal activity.
I hope they never find this poor girl. I hope she is not turned in and escapes their grasp. Helping her is the last thing on their agenda.
riqster
(13,986 posts)Brickbat
(19,339 posts)We have spoken to all involved. There is no criminal case to file in regards to the fetus, police spokeswoman Monica Cordova said.
Here's hoping the young woman gets the medical and social support she needs.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)... for "richness of ignorance" exposure. This is nothing but Police State overkill. And I bet you a fundamentalist principal, whose normal judgement was overridden by religious zealotry. The student that had the miscarriage must have been having some serious cramps and bleeding. Why didn't they look to see if any of the girls had checked out early? Or staff? This could have been a teacher and NOT a student! Personally, if I had a teenager in that high school, I would begin looking for somewhere to move to out of the district, if not the horrid state.
None of those kids are safe if they have this kind of stupid running the school.
hifiguy
(33,688 posts)can only be measured in cubic parsecs or some other incomprehensible astronomical calculation.
liberalmuse
(18,672 posts)Looks like they're itching to find an excuse to use their new toys as often as they can.
MineralMan
(146,287 posts)And now that it turns out that it was definitely a miscarriage, even more pathetic. A sizable percentage of pregnancies end in miscarriages. For that to happen to a high school girl is cause for concern for the girl, and is a medical, not a criminal problem. The school and the police should be very embarrassed with their response. Shameful.
Poor girl! She must be traumatized, both by the miscarriage and by it being responded to like a school shooting. Our society has its priorities all upside down, I think.
anneboleyn
(5,611 posts)locdlib
(176 posts)If I recall correctly, and I think I do, wasn't there some sort of legislation that was being floated around to basically make miscarriage a crime? http://amplifyyourvoice.org/u/AFY_Will/2010/2/24/In-Utah-Miscarriage--Criminal-Homicide#.VAYxmWO8Txw.
Apparently 38 states have fetal homicide laws: http://www.ncsl.org/research/health/fetal-homicide-state-laws.aspx
What is an appropriate word for all this? Sick, crazy, asinine, bullshit . . . those just don't seem to do it justice.
Trillo
(9,154 posts)Those are some very hostile workhouses, no privacy even in the toilet stall.
Ilsa
(61,694 posts)Teachers have access to student bathrooms, and the Staff bathroom might have been busy.
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)What the actual fuck is wrong with these people? Jesus christ on a pogo stick.
Laffy Kat
(16,377 posts)Remember very kind male paramedics taking me to the hospital. The police showed up long enough for the medics to tell them to leave. Lots of blood. No helicopter. It was no big deal. Go figure.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)intentionally with non medical aid and it was not full term is that against the law in TX?
I am wondering why they are calling her a suspect. And if it was a spontaneous abortion,just nature what is she a suspect of? Was she required to tell the school admin in TX?
Sort of a nazi reaction from the school admin calling in police ,parents being kept away etc.
RandySF
(58,776 posts)No one knew what was going on. For all they knew, the pregnant girl could have been attacked.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)RandySF
(58,776 posts)It was probably a poor choice of words on their part.
Niceguy1
(2,467 posts)And died in the trash can (as has happened in the past) she would be a suspect.
Without knowing the age of the fetus we dont know if there was an overreaction or not. If it www as a first trimester miscarriage then yes, the police did act like fools. But we dont know that.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)even in the trash-can-type case you cite would still be a foolish, foolishI'm going to go with idiotic evenoverreaction.
liberalhistorian
(20,816 posts)exactly nothing to do with any police response. This was so far over the top reaction that it's almost like a SNL satire skit. Swarms of police? A fucking HELICOPTER hovering overhead as well as other militarization tactics? The fact that you would in any way consider any of this normal is truly frightening. And where was the concern for a young girl who may have been in dire need of medical help?
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)it's really the breeder cow law.
meathead
(63 posts)The Dallas Police Department said Tuesday that the fetus found in a bathroom at Woodrow Wilson High School in Dallas ISD on Friday was the result of a miscarriage.
We have spoken to all involved. There is no criminal case to file in regards to the fetus, police spokeswoman Monica Cordova said.
A Woodrow Wilson staff member found the fetus on Friday afternoon in a second-floor bathroom at the East Dallas school.
http://educationblog.dallasnews.com/2014/09/fetus-found-at-woodrow-wilson-high-school-was-the-result-of-a-miscarriage.html/
dembotoz
(16,799 posts)whistler162
(11,155 posts)the "writer" of this story going out of his way to hit all the buzzwords and questionable sources.
I wonder how big the school is and how long it took to clear and determine that there wasn't a distressed student or teacher who needed medical help? As for the word suspect would female of interest have been any better? The situation had to be investigated.
Did the school send out an alert, like it should have, and the parent didn't get it? If they did and the parent only got it on her home phone it isn't the officers job to provide every Tom, Dick, and Harriet with a explanation about what is going on. If the school didn't send out a alert then that is on the Superintendent, Principal, and maybe the School Board.
herding cats
(19,564 posts)http://dfw.cbslocal.com/2014/08/29/dpd-searching-for-mother-after-fetus-found-in-h-s-bathroom/
The manhunt for the girl responsible for the dead fetus in the ladies bathroom has come to an end. As has the hunt for the person responsible for the termination of the fetus.
The girl/woman is off the hook. God killed the fetus not her.
Now that they know it was a God who chose to terminate the pregnancy the girl is off the hook for any potential criminal charges. Whatever the hell those may have been. Much to the dismay of the Dallas police they don't have jurisdiction over God, as such no charges will now be filed in the case.
Dallas police have spoken with all parties involved and determined that a girl or a woman miscarried and that no criminal offense took place, police told NBC 5 in an email.
http://www.nbcdfw.com/news/local/No-Charges-After-Fetus-Found-in-High-School-Bathroom-273629901.html
How's that for some crazy shit? You just had a miscarriage in the school bathroom. You're terrified. Next thing you know police are everyplace looking for YOU because your miscarriage had the audacity to take place during school hours. You're on the news that night and in the newspapers the next day. Everyone is talking about your miscarriage and speculating about what crimes you may have committed by daring to miscarry in the school bathroom. Luckily for you the investigation exonerated you of criminal charges. now you just have to deal with the emotional backlash made thousands of times worse thanks to the insane overreaction by your local police and the media.