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RandySF

(58,770 posts)
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:00 AM Sep 2014

Parents of girl with uzi did ignored instructor as he lay with mortal head wound

The 9-year-old girl who accidentally shot and killed her instructor at an Arizona gun range said the gun was too powerful for her after firing it, according to reports released by police on Tuesday and reviewed by the Associated Press.

The AP reported that the girl complained of shoulder pain after the incident and her family was so focused on her being injured from the gun's recoil that they didn't notice her instructor had been shot. A coworker rushed over to the shooting instructor, Charles Vacca, before the girl's family realized what had occurred.

The Aug. 25 incident occurred after the 9-year-old fired off single rounds and then Vacca switched the gun to automatic. The gun recoiled and fired upward, striking Vacca in the head and causing the girl to drop the weapon as Vacca himself fell to the ground.

http://talkingpointsmemo.com/livewire/arizona-girl-uzi-too-powerful

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Parents of girl with uzi did ignored instructor as he lay with mortal head wound (Original Post) RandySF Sep 2014 OP
I understand parents' concern for their little girl might... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #1
I totally agree. Nt newfie11 Sep 2014 #2
Yes they are. And then some. n/t nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #3
Yes a thousand times. n/t. bvf Sep 2014 #7
I was taught to shoot before I could read The Traveler Sep 2014 #8
I have little interest in guns, but here we agree absolutely... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #9
"...the 2nd Amendment doesn't protect stupidity or ignorance." Jamastiene Sep 2014 #29
As do all the Amendments. TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #36
Unfortunately, it is the 2nd A that usually does...and does with lethal effect... CTyankee Sep 2014 #42
The "elder males"? cwydro Sep 2014 #10
... avebury Sep 2014 #13
Same thing crossed my mind. Aerows Sep 2014 #47
Lol! cwydro Sep 2014 #87
Exactly. The 'elder males' are the ones saying, "Hey, Bubba, watch this." Nay Sep 2014 #58
THANK YOU!!! 3catwoman3 Sep 2014 #18
so firing small weapons Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #23
No, but enabling a totally overmatched . . . brush Sep 2014 #27
There could be nine year olds Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #50
A "gun nut" Aerows Sep 2014 #48
Are Uzis the only most destructive gun Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #51
Ahhh . . . there seems to be a failure to communicate here brush Sep 2014 #52
A 9 year old is incapable of handling Aerows Sep 2014 #67
Yeah d_r Sep 2014 #55
You said, "any violation of safety resulted in immediate grounding. There weren't many of those ..." Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #72
I think I agree with every letter in your post. nt stevenleser Sep 2014 #19
beyond that Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #25
I think that as some of the best jurists in the country's history have themselves LanternWaste Sep 2014 #86
Yeah, this is a "well, duh" headline Warpy Sep 2014 #28
Yes Aerows Sep 2014 #49
How could they not notice the man falling to the ground right next to her? magical thyme Sep 2014 #71
Who says they didn't see him go down? Jenoch Sep 2014 #73
they said it. nt magical thyme Sep 2014 #81
I hqve not read anythijg about the timing, have you? Jenoch Sep 2014 #82
the article at the link... magical thyme Sep 2014 #89
How long did that 'timeline' take Jenoch Sep 2014 #90
nobody has stated a specific amount of time. nt magical thyme Sep 2014 #91
Thank you for making my point. Jenoch Sep 2014 #93
Strange things happen when people are in shock or distress... TreasonousBastard Sep 2014 #74
Yep! n/t RKP5637 Sep 2014 #78
"they didn't notice" is not the same as IGNORED Skittles Sep 2014 #4
Wile their first concern should be their child, they had to be avebury Sep 2014 #14
Sometimes a parent's concern for their child overwhelms them mythology Sep 2014 #16
Really? Jenoch Sep 2014 #20
You would have thought that one parent would have pulled avebury Sep 2014 #30
Why are you assuming they missed the Jenoch Sep 2014 #38
Probably what was reported in the AP report: avebury Sep 2014 #43
That probably lasted about 7 or fewer seconds. Jenoch Sep 2014 #45
I don't think they are talking about a great deal of time here Skittles Sep 2014 #37
i wonder if their concern was for the girl herself or over not getting the pic they wanted JI7 Sep 2014 #5
Why did you replace "didn't notice" with 'ignored?' Live and Learn Sep 2014 #6
How the hell do you "not notice" a man with a head shot? RandySF Sep 2014 #17
When you think your child has been hurt shooting a gun kcr Sep 2014 #22
They didn't 'ignore' him-- they didn't 'notice him' ColesCountyDem Sep 2014 #11
Indeed. nt Crabby Appleton Sep 2014 #34
If the instructor was laying on the ground, then they ignored him. djean111 Sep 2014 #12
To be entirely fair, the death was about 90% the dead guys fault. Xithras Sep 2014 #33
Point taken. djean111 Sep 2014 #35
Exactly.... sendero Sep 2014 #53
"Earned his death" marions ghost Sep 2014 #56
He didn't simply make a "stupid" decision. Xithras Sep 2014 #57
I understand all that marions ghost Sep 2014 #59
few people deserve to die jollyreaper2112 Sep 2014 #77
When it comes to tragic early death marions ghost Sep 2014 #80
responsibility jollyreaper2112 Sep 2014 #85
Sure marions ghost Sep 2014 #88
Dear god, the gun wasn't hurt was it? Katashi_itto Sep 2014 #15
Parents cared about the child Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #21
"forced to fire it" Aerows Sep 2014 #68
May not be Wisdom Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #75
I think we had a sarcasm disconnect somewhere n/t Aerows Sep 2014 #83
The insanity of worshiping lethal weapons by adults will now cause Rex Sep 2014 #24
all weapons are lethal Jeneral2885 Sep 2014 #76
Yes but none are worshiped like the gun is. Rex Sep 2014 #79
That's a flame-bait bullshit headline and you know it. arcane1 Sep 2014 #26
What a strange interpretation of that article to make that subject title. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #31
As a mom, I can totally understand this. Not that my children would ever be in THIS situation but jillan Sep 2014 #32
What were they going to do put his head back together? dilby Sep 2014 #39
It's more likely they chose not to bring attention to it. joshcryer Sep 2014 #40
We had a tragic case here in MA in 2008. CentralMass Sep 2014 #41
I remember that TorchTheWitch Sep 2014 #61
Thank you for the welcome :-) CentralMass Sep 2014 #65
Placing all the blame the dead guy. Very nice. Johonny Sep 2014 #44
they are correct. Niceguy1 Sep 2014 #46
What about the managers at the gun range? Blue_Tires Sep 2014 #66
Yeah marions ghost Sep 2014 #60
In the end, gun nuts circle the wagons and protect the "culture" ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2014 #62
The irony... marions ghost Sep 2014 #63
Yeah, his employer should probably be taking some of the heat, Crunchy Frog Sep 2014 #84
I can not fathom the gun culture these days LiberalArkie Sep 2014 #54
Great post Strelnikov_ Sep 2014 #70
Randy, the story does not say that the parents ignored the wounded man CreekDog Sep 2014 #64
So? Strelnikov_ Sep 2014 #69
"Oh no, no; he'll be all right. Now, wasn't that fun, sweetie?" Aristus Sep 2014 #92

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
1. I understand parents' concern for their little girl might...
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:05 AM
Sep 2014

make them lose sight of other things.

But, aren't the parents of such a little girl automatically assholes for letting her fire the thing in the first place?

 

The Traveler

(5,632 posts)
8. I was taught to shoot before I could read
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:22 AM
Sep 2014

and there is no way the elder males of my family would have allowed me anywhere near a weapon like that at her age. At age 9, I had fired thousands of rounds from .22 rifles and .38 pistols ... but always under close supervision and any violation of safety resulted in immediate grounding. There weren't many of those ...

But these are gun nuts. Who the hell introduces their kid to a freakin' Uzi?

I'm a gun owner ... but no provision of the Bill of Rights is intended to enable the behaviors of an idiot and a jerk. These people are both. The Second Amendment, or its interpretation needs to be fixed. This is madness, and it needs to be confronted. In this case, I think child services needs to take a close look at this family ... someone is gonna get hurt. Oh. Someone already HAS been hurt. Yeah.

Trav

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
9. I have little interest in guns, but here we agree absolutely...
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:31 AM
Sep 2014

the 2nd Amendment doesn't protect stupidity or ignorance. And it shouldn't protect the range for letting the kid use the gun.

Unfortunately, the guy directly responsible has already paid a terrible price. It would be nice if he didn't pay that price for nothing.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
10. The "elder males"?
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:47 AM
Sep 2014

Lmao. The adult females in my family would never allow this nonsense. "Elder males?" Usually they start this kind of thing.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
47. Same thing crossed my mind.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:51 PM
Sep 2014

My mother .. the first person that put an Uzi in the hands of a 9 year old in her presence wouldn't have been spared just because they held a gun.

She knows how to use an iron skillet.

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
18. THANK YOU!!!
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 02:49 PM
Sep 2014

...for this very rational statement -

I'm a gun owner ... but no provision of the Bill of Rights is intended to enable the behaviors of an idiot and a jerk. These people are both. The Second Amendment, or its interpretation needs to be fixed. This is madness, and it needs to be confronted. In this case, I think child services needs to take a close look at this family ... someone is gonna get hurt. Oh. Someone already HAS been hurt. Yeah.

brush

(53,764 posts)
27. No, but enabling a totally overmatched . . .
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:43 PM
Sep 2014

and nowhere near physically strong enough 9-year-old to fire an UZI set on automatic fire is absolutely nutty.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
48. A "gun nut"
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:55 PM
Sep 2014

is anyone that puts an Uzi in the hands of a 9 year old. Let's start the line right there and we can pull it back as necessary. Frankly, let's start with "Don't put a full auto Uzi in the hands of a 9 year old." and go from there.

Jeneral2885

(1,354 posts)
51. Are Uzis the only most destructive gun
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 08:46 AM
Sep 2014

what if a nine year old carries a loaded Sig Sauer? That's not nutty?

brush

(53,764 posts)
52. Ahhh . . . there seems to be a failure to communicate here
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 09:01 AM
Sep 2014

After reading your responses it seems you're also think that putting automatic weapons and heavy, loaded handguns into the hands of 9-year-olds.

Am I right, were on the same side of this issue — that putting an UZI on automatic fire mode in the hands of a -year-old is nutty?

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
67. A 9 year old is incapable of handling
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:11 PM
Sep 2014

an Uzi on full auto. An 8 year old last year killed himself accidentally because on got away from him.

A 9 year old doesn't need to be firing a .50 cal Barrett, either, or a 12 gauge shotgun. Why? Physics. They will injure themselves with it because they can't handle the recoil.

I have absolutely no idea what your point is, but if you are trying to say that an Uzi on full auto is the equivalent of a 9 year old holding a small caliber weapon, I'm pretty sure there is a difference, hence the full auto Uzi getting away from her and killing her instructor.

That would not have happened had anyone, including the parents, had a grain of sense and recognized that you don't put FULL AUTO weapons in the hands of 9 year olds. It's the difference between letting a 9 year old drive a go-cart under controlled conditions and letting a 9 year old loose in high performance race car.

d_r

(6,907 posts)
55. Yeah
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:36 AM
Sep 2014

I can remember wanting to shoot my Dad's 12 gauge shotgun and being told that it would kick so hard it would knock me down. It was only after a few years with a 20 gauge and skeets that I was big enough for a 12-guage. Same thing with rifles. My dad had an old canadian ww2 rifle that I always wanted to shoot so badly, but I was shooting the bolt action .22.

Luminous Animal

(27,310 posts)
72. You said, "any violation of safety resulted in immediate grounding. There weren't many of those ..."
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 11:17 PM
Sep 2014

I emphasize, "There weren't many of those..." Which of course meant there was some and thus you were incapable of handling a weapon safely.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
86. I think that as some of the best jurists in the country's history have themselves
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 03:32 PM
Sep 2014

I think that as some of the best jurists in the country's history have themselves, debated the interpretations of not merely the second amendment, but indeed all of them, one may hazard that an interpretation, in and of itself, does not rise to the level of 'stupid.'

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
28. Yeah, this is a "well, duh" headline
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:15 PM
Sep 2014

A parent's first concern will be the safety of the child. Then s/he'll look elsewhere.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
49. Yes
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:57 PM
Sep 2014

Idiots that shouldn't be in charge of an icebox, let alone a child. Certainly not a child with an Uzi.

People that stupid shouldn't be let outside without medication and supervision.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
71. How could they not notice the man falling to the ground right next to her?
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 11:04 PM
Sep 2014

I mean, talk about being blinded by...something.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
73. Who says they didn't see him go down?
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 11:34 PM
Sep 2014

They went to their daughter first. An employee ran to the instructor. Are you assuming once they saw their daughter was ok that they then ignord the man with the bleeding head wound?

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
89. the article at the link...
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 10:04 AM
Sep 2014

"The AP reported that the girl complained of shoulder pain after the incident and her family was so focused on her being injured from the gun's recoil that they didn't notice her instructor had been shot. A coworker rushed over to the shooting instructor, Charles Vacca, before the girl's family realized what had occurred."

Their daughter complained (to them ) of the shoulder pain and her family was so focussed on her recoil injury that they didn't realize what had occured until after a coworker rushed to the shooting instructor.

I've read several articles and they all provide a timeline that shows the parents focussed on the daughter's injury/complaint and not noticing the man on the ground beside her until after a coworker rushed over.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
90. How long did that 'timeline' take
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 12:59 PM
Sep 2014

frm the gun being fired to when the emloyee ran over to the instructor?

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
74. Strange things happen when people are in shock or distress...
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 12:38 AM
Sep 2014

if they saw their daughter in trouble they might well have been blinded to everything else. They might even have seen their daughter as the one having been shot.



Skittles

(153,150 posts)
4. "they didn't notice" is not the same as IGNORED
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:35 AM
Sep 2014

their first concern should be for their child, although I'm not sure why if they're that concerned they would consent to her being in a shit place like that

avebury

(10,952 posts)
14. Wile their first concern should be their child, they had to be
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:42 AM
Sep 2014

deaf, dumb and blind not to notice the bleeding man on the ground.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
16. Sometimes a parent's concern for their child overwhelms them
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 07:27 AM
Sep 2014

I remember I once had a motorcycle wreck and when my parents, who were about 5 minutes behind me, came up, my mom was convinced I was dead or already taken by an ambulance due to major injury until my stepdad pointed out that I was standing over my bike.

That said, the parents deserve all sorts of scorn for letting their 9 year old kid shoot an uzi in the first place.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
30. You would have thought that one parent would have pulled
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:39 PM
Sep 2014

the girl aside and the other check on the instructor. Even if I had a family member in the same position of the little girl, I sure as heck would not have missed the bleeding guy on the ground.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
38. Why are you assuming they missed the
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:31 PM
Sep 2014

bleeding guy on the ground? They ran to their daughter on the ground. An employee ran to the bleeding guy on the ground. I am quite sure they got their daughter out of there and then their attention was then the instructor.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
43. Probably what was reported in the AP report:
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:41 PM
Sep 2014

"The AP reported that the girl complained of shoulder pain after the incident and her family was so focused on her being injured from the gun's recoil that they didn't notice her instructor had been shot."

Skittles

(153,150 posts)
37. I don't think they are talking about a great deal of time here
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:24 PM
Sep 2014

I think they're referring to the moments immediately following the shot

JI7

(89,247 posts)
5. i wonder if their concern was for the girl herself or over not getting the pic they wanted
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:40 AM
Sep 2014

to show off to others.

kcr

(15,315 posts)
22. When you think your child has been hurt shooting a gun
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:14 PM
Sep 2014

Yeah, they were idiots. But they're still parents.

ColesCountyDem

(6,943 posts)
11. They didn't 'ignore' him-- they didn't 'notice him'
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:58 AM
Sep 2014

"...The AP reported that the girl complained of shoulder pain after the incident and her family was so focused on her being injured from the gun's recoil that they didn't notice her instructor had been shot.....".

Why was it necessary to mis-characterize the parents' behavior?

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
12. If the instructor was laying on the ground, then they ignored him.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:14 AM
Sep 2014

But hey! He was just sort of vaguely regrettable, more like inconvenient, collateral damage, anyway.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
33. To be entirely fair, the death was about 90% the dead guys fault.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:45 PM
Sep 2014

This is one of those rare instances where "blaming the victim" is actually just fine.

He's the one with the federal license to own and operate the gun. He's the one who chose to make money off that gun by letting random strangers fire it. He was the ONLY one present with knowledge and experience around that particular firearm, who could have known how difficult the gun was to handle. He's the one who agreed to put it into the hands of a little nine year old girl. He's the one who told the girl and her parents that it could be done safely. He's the one who threw the switch to activate fully automatic firing. He's the one who chose to stand in the worst possible place alongside a person firing an UZI (and was the only one who should have known what a dangerous place that spot was). He's the one who told her to fire.

The parents are idiots for thinking that it would be a "fun idea" and signing off on it, but the dead guy largely earned his death through his own idiotic decisions. The only actual victim here is the little girl, who has to live with the decisions of these adults (and I use the term "adults" loosely) for the rest of her life.

He's not collateral damage. He's an idiot whose stupidity lead to his own death.

sendero

(28,552 posts)
53. Exactly....
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 09:07 AM
Sep 2014

.... though I would not say anything so crass to his grieving family and friends, he is the clear recipient of a Darwin Award.

He could have easily seen when the girl fired a single shot trial run that she was not going to be able to control the weapon. It's sad, her parents are idiots too but at the end of the day this was his gig and he wasn't thinking.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
56. "Earned his death"
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:40 AM
Sep 2014

and "blaming the victim is just fine..."

we all do stupid things. It's not wise to say he "earned death" unless you think you might "earn death" from making a wrong turn in your car. Did the girl have the right to kill him for his stupidity?

We need laws to protect the stupid from killing themselves and others. Prosecution in these cases would act as a deterrent.

Xithras

(16,191 posts)
57. He didn't simply make a "stupid" decision.
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 11:43 AM
Sep 2014

This isn't a guy who made a random dumb decision and got himself killed. He helped to run a profitable business that was BUILT ON the idea of putting people (including himself) at risk of injury or death on a daily basis. He knew the risks. He accepted the risks. He was willing to take them on because he, himself, created them. Keep in mind that the Uzi is also famous for kicking backward and spinning around, so this little girl could have just as easily shot herself in the head...and he was FINE with that, because he was making money off her parents. He was willing to LIE to the girls parents, telling them that the activity was safe when it clearly wasn't, just to take a bit of their cash.

This is a guy who knew and understood the dangers of these weapons, and not only chose to use them for profit, but to profit by putting them into the hands of children who he unquestionably knew were too small to handle it safely. He didn't make a random unthinking choice to hand it to her. He knew she was too small to fire that weapon, and he gave it to her anyway.

He bought his own ticket. He's the one who should be prosecuted, but his hasty exit from this world prevented that from happening. The victim here is the little girl, and not the dead guy. He chose his fate. I'll save my sympathy for her, and for the family and friends that he left behind.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
59. I understand all that
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 01:40 PM
Sep 2014

and you summed it up well.

It's not that I have sympathy for the guy, except that I do have compassion for idiots (which I see him as, rather than intentionally malicious). Some people are victims of their own delusion--about safety, about their own abilities, about their level of risk. But we all have delusions of some sort. You don't feel the same about a sky diver or a race car driver or a rock climber--that they deserve death.

Of course the girl is a victim also. A victim of her parents stupidity and negligence equally as much as the instructor's. But her parents did not receive the death sentence in this case, though you are right they could have. They should face prosecution in this case, if we had any decent laws.

I'm the last person to say what was going on at this place is OK. I don't think it is and I'd like to see any place run like this shut down. I am against the proliferation of these weapons in general. But I DO see this guy as a victim who should not have died this way. Unless you want to say that all gun handlers of any kind deserve to die by their own gun (and I doubt that).

jollyreaper2112

(1,941 posts)
77. few people deserve to die
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 07:35 AM
Sep 2014

But you can certainly call some deaths tragic and sine inevitable. The kid hotdogging on his motorcycle, he's chasing death. If he catches it, that's sad but I will reserve more sympathy for the kid who's dealing with cancer.

Who was it, Morton Downy Jr? Famous for being a professional asshole, did ads for the smoker's lobby? Super obnoxious over smoking? Died of lung cancer. That's fitting.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
80. When it comes to tragic early death
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 09:05 AM
Sep 2014

I don't parse it that way. I don't see any death as less tragic where there was more risk, or stupidity, or somebody made a mistake. Unless you think that all gun handlers deserve death because using guns is inherently risky. All sky divers deserve their deaths. Did my grandfather deserve to die at 35 because of the mistake he made in a (sport) hunting accident? Was it less tragic than if he died with cancer?

So--if you agree that my grandfather's death was no less tragic, then you must agree there's something different about this type of gun death at the Burgers & Bullets. So you decide the instructor is to blame and died a "fitting" death. That's the way you rationalize it. And I say it is too easy to ignore the real societal problems behind this event, if you place all the blame on the instructor. The war industry in this country enables this hyped-up gun culture, allied with the NRA.

This guy deserved to die at the hands of a 9 year old with an Uzi? That is just too judgmental. People deserve to die because they are assholes or hypocrites of some kind? That would be an awful LOT of people. And some assholes do improve and repent. This lawless gun mania is to blame just as much as the people involved. This culture that infected the parents who pushed the girl to shoot the gun and thought it was so cute.

All of us who sit back and watch this absurd carnage are to blame.

jollyreaper2112

(1,941 posts)
85. responsibility
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 03:26 PM
Sep 2014

Responsibility plays into it. Your grandfather, if he was a safe and responsible huntsman and he just had a spot of bad luck, shit happens. I nearly took a header on the tile floor after letting the dogs out this morning, feet were a bit slick because the porch was wet from the rain. Shit happens. If I ran a red light an hour later because I was fiddling on my phone instead of driving and get t-boned by a semi, what the hell was I doing? Everyone in my life will be upset at my passing but also pretty angry at me for being so stupid.

I don't think the instructor deserved to die. As I said, I reserve that for dictators, mass murderers, and people who work in advertising. The ideal situation would have been a wake-up call, something that scared the shit out of him, that he recognized as stemming directly from his own irresponsibility, and he comes out the other man a more cautious man. I had a come-to-jesus moment about late-night driving years back, a three hour drive after 10pm that nearly saw me fall asleep and run off the road. I'm now militant about not getting on the road late unless it's a very short drive. An old Clint Eastwood line, a man has got to know his limitations. Same goes for knowing the limitations of others. The girl couldn't handle that firearm and no amount of skill on his part could compensate for her, not unless that skill was "not handing children automatic weapons."

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
88. Sure
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 04:55 PM
Sep 2014

responsibility plays into the cause of death.

But I still maintain it is too judgmental to say that someone "earned their death" by being stupid. And certainly this guy had help in doing something stupid--not only the other adults but the permissive and protectionist gun culture.

Jeneral2885

(1,354 posts)
21. Parents cared about the child
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:13 PM
Sep 2014

only when she complained about the pain. Did she complain before she was told to fire the gun? Or was she forced to fire it?

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
68. "forced to fire it"
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:14 PM
Sep 2014

Because 9 year old's are notorious for having the wisdom of adults and choosing not to do dangerous things if their parents allow it.

Jeneral2885

(1,354 posts)
75. May not be Wisdom
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 06:09 AM
Sep 2014

it may be "you must follow the second amendment without fail, you must follow the second amendment without fail, you must follow the second amendment without fail"

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
24. The insanity of worshiping lethal weapons by adults will now cause
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 03:14 PM
Sep 2014

that little girl to have nightmares about killing someone. But we love our guns!

aikoaiko

(34,169 posts)
31. What a strange interpretation of that article to make that subject title.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:42 PM
Sep 2014

:

They didn't ignore the injured instructor, they were concerned with the daughter who, thankfully, wasn't actually hurt.

jillan

(39,451 posts)
32. As a mom, I can totally understand this. Not that my children would ever be in THIS situation but
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 04:43 PM
Sep 2014

if my child was hurt, my mommy blinders would pop out and all I would see is my child.

THEN once I knew they were okay, I would be aware of others.

dilby

(2,273 posts)
39. What were they going to do put his head back together?
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:33 PM
Sep 2014

He was shot in the head with an Uzi, it's not like because they were more worried about their child he died, he died the second the bullet went through his brain.

joshcryer

(62,269 posts)
40. It's more likely they chose not to bring attention to it.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:37 PM
Sep 2014

Saying they didn't notice is silly, but the proper legal course. It seems the daughter didn't realize, the parents rushed in, took her quickly out of the picture.

CentralMass

(15,265 posts)
41. We had a tragic case here in MA in 2008.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 05:45 PM
Sep 2014
http://www.masslive.com/news/index.ssf/2008/10/westfield_police_release_name.html
An 8yr old boy was at a firing range with his father being instructed on how to fire a 9mm "Micro-Uzi". It recoiled and the boy shot himself in the head.

I can't fathom how any parent or licensed instructor would let a child anywhere near a loaded Uzi.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
61. I remember that
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 04:28 PM
Sep 2014

I read an article recently about the court case which settled for some undisclosed amount with video of the father crying as he gave his testimony. What bothered me so much about the father is that it was HIM that wanted his son to shoot the gun so he could take pictures while it was pretty clear in the video of the incident he didn't want to do and was nervous.

I noticed the same thing about this little girl. She looked like she was scared and didn't want to shoot the gun at all. I also believe she was pressured into doing it by her parents. You have to wonder about what goes on in their heads to even take their kid to a place like that.

Burgers and Bullets seemed to be the new Barbecue and Pony Rides. That all by itself is really disturbing. Seeing a little girl in pigtails shooting an Uzi at a human silhouette target was disturbing as hell to see as if it's a little girl in pigtails walking around in a circle on a pony. What the fuck are we teaching our kids with this madness???? And now gun shows are being called gun "fairs" as if there's going to be cotton candy and a ferris wheel. The whole concept of these places deliberately setting up "entertainment" for the little ones by having them shoot at human silhouette targets is unfathomable indeed.

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Johonny

(20,833 posts)
44. Placing all the blame the dead guy. Very nice.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:45 PM
Sep 2014
County prosecutors said the instructor was likely the most criminally negligent person because he allowed the girl to hold the gun without enough training, according to the AP. Prosecutors also said the parents and the girl weren't criminally responsible.

Niceguy1

(2,467 posts)
46. they are correct.
Wed Sep 3, 2014, 06:50 PM
Sep 2014

He was the instructor, the subject matter expert....his fault entirely, sad at it is

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
66. What about the managers at the gun range?
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 09:50 PM
Sep 2014

Unless there is a clear and stated policy that the instructor violated, i.e., "Don't let 9-year-olds fire full-auto weapons", they are just as liable...

And the parents definitely share some of the blame, but to be fair we don't hold parents accountable for anything anymore these days...

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
60. Yeah
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 01:44 PM
Sep 2014

convenient isn't it? There is negligence among the living in this case. The girl is not responsible but the adults who put the gun in her hands certainly are.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
62. In the end, gun nuts circle the wagons and protect the "culture"
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 04:42 PM
Sep 2014

The instructor mocked people on Facebook about the dangers of guns. I'm sure he would have wanted it this way. Just another statistic.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
63. The irony...
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 06:47 PM
Sep 2014

the dangers of guns were never real to him. And that denial, that bravado, came back to bite him in the karma.

But there are many more like him. Many who will deny the message of even this highly publicized death and continue to, as you say, circle the wagons. They'll say that he's just some dumb fuck who deserved to die. Hmmmmm............

Crunchy Frog

(26,579 posts)
84. Yeah, his employer should probably be taking some of the heat,
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 02:43 PM
Sep 2014

but basically, he pretty much was responsible for his own death.

Would you prefer it if they threw the little girl in the slammer?

LiberalArkie

(15,713 posts)
54. I can not fathom the gun culture these days
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:32 AM
Sep 2014

When I grew up we started with BB guns (rifles) and advanced to pellet firing rifles. After we got good with the handling and firing we progressed to 22 rifles. I think around 16 most of the guys had 30-06 rifles in their trucks at school during hunting season. I can not remember guys having hand guns back when I was a kid in the 60's.

Strelnikov_

(7,772 posts)
70. Great post
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:34 PM
Sep 2014

Like you, at that age you could handle a 22, single shot, under closest supervision . . . like an adult holding the gun.

Shows how far 'gun culture' has degenerated.

Strelnikov_

(7,772 posts)
69. So?
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 10:30 PM
Sep 2014

Who handed her the gun?

If it was the instructor, it's no different than the two linemen I saw fried by 43KV on a construction site I was on due to their mistake.

Tragic, but you are paid in these positions to be a professional.

Aristus

(66,316 posts)
92. "Oh no, no; he'll be all right. Now, wasn't that fun, sweetie?"
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 01:15 PM
Sep 2014

Too bad she didn't ventilate her dumb-fuck father while she had the chance...

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