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Toon: I wish I could talk to you (Original Post) n2doc Sep 2014 OP
cutting onions here packman Sep 2014 #1
Doing the same.... Hulk Sep 2014 #23
Hugging my little rescued guy with his crooked front legs and missing hip mountain grammy Sep 2014 #2
The one thing that sucks about having companion animals. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Sep 2014 #3
Yes, but ... sarge43 Sep 2014 #5
Thats why I won't have one. Hoppy Sep 2014 #10
Yes, whathehell Sep 2014 #11
Me Too....... titanicdave Sep 2014 #25
Yeah..Maybe my age is catching up to me, but whathehell Sep 2014 #28
I feel like I owe it to them. I can't really have a dog. It's not fair to leave them home alone as brewens Sep 2014 #41
Actually, yes, you have the right idea whathehell Sep 2014 #53
I waited 20 years to have a dog again, for the reasons you stated. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2014 #63
having to put down my wonderful "Marvy dog" was incredibly hard to do...I cried and cried... CTyankee Sep 2014 #12
As a lover of animals theaocp Sep 2014 #59
That is to teach us a lesson we have yet to learn about how precious life is. It's part of jtuck004 Sep 2014 #49
Oh mercy. I'm crying right out loud. How beautiful. n/t lamp_shade Sep 2014 #4
stop it! demigoddess Sep 2014 #6
Last thing in the afternoon, and I'm crying, too, demigoddess. calimary Sep 2014 #33
I've had three cats that came back demigoddess Sep 2014 #45
We let an animal into your heart already knowing they will break it. alphafemale Sep 2014 #7
Oh so spot on... Tears... riderinthestorm Sep 2014 #8
It's the hardest part of our commitment. 99Forever Sep 2014 #9
So true. SheilaT Sep 2014 #13
Very powerful cartoon Gothmog Sep 2014 #14
I think what I have just done can be described as SOBBING etherealtruth Sep 2014 #15
That made me cry Stargazer09 Sep 2014 #16
OMG, my eyes are leaking VA_Jill Sep 2014 #17
I kept a copy of this customerserviceguy Sep 2014 #18
I think it would be welcomed. Scarsdale Sep 2014 #20
I would have appreciated it immensely Lefta Dissenter Sep 2014 #58
And yet, if you call it a Pit Bull, normally rational people are overtaken w/ blood lust to kill it. baldguy Sep 2014 #19
Those folks need to try theaocp Sep 2014 #61
Oh, Dog, it's been 14 years, and I'm still crying Demeter Sep 2014 #21
7 years here... Duppers Sep 2014 #30
It'll be one year secondvariety Sep 2014 #22
Can't psot through the tears ashling Sep 2014 #24
When I had to put my Springer Spaniel down, I was hysterical. The Vet said to me.... jillan Sep 2014 #26
Every Now and Then- ruffburr Sep 2014 #27
We've said good-bye to two of our beloved canine companions in the last 13 months Martin Eden Sep 2014 #29
Damn Tsiyu Sep 2014 #31
Do dogs really think that? :) Helen Borg Sep 2014 #32
gee, that seems a cold hearted thing to say. BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2014 #36
Oh, did you see the smiley? Helen Borg Sep 2014 #54
There is a frame like this catchnrelease Sep 2014 #34
I'm cuddling Shrimpy, she's making her Shrimpy noises, BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2014 #35
If heartbreak is the cost Fairgo Sep 2014 #37
I find it strange that everyone seems to assume ... CaptainTruth Sep 2014 #38
Welcome to DU, CaptainTruth and Fairgo! calimary Sep 2014 #40
The dog is the voice. The dog says he's not afraid. The dog is being carried into the clinic. IT'S WinkyDink Sep 2014 #43
Dogs don't talk . . . another_liberal Sep 2014 #57
"Now I'm old, I'm tired and I hurt . . ." another_liberal Sep 2014 #39
Crying here. 840high Sep 2014 #42
Goodbye... George. ErikJ Sep 2014 #44
Geez, there must be some dust in my room. PatrickforO Sep 2014 #46
what can one say ... padruig Sep 2014 #47
My dog seemed to time her death DonCoquixote Sep 2014 #48
my eyes are very cloudy.... 8 track mind Sep 2014 #50
... littlemissmartypants Sep 2014 #51
Salute to My Old Comrades Sognefjord Sep 2014 #52
it is dusty in here .... littlewolf Sep 2014 #55
As Carlin said, "Life is a series of dogs." Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2014 #56
this made me cry. barbtries Sep 2014 #60
My god, delete_bush Sep 2014 #62
Recommended. (nt) NYC_SKP Sep 2014 #64
 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
23. Doing the same....
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 02:11 PM
Sep 2014

...and the little pup my wife brought home has me so disgusted at times. Unyielding love and devotion. Amazing miracles.

mountain grammy

(26,594 posts)
2. Hugging my little rescued guy with his crooked front legs and missing hip
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:26 AM
Sep 2014

knowing his time with us won't be real long.. but we'll love every minute.

This is beautiful. Thanks from one who has been through this more than once.

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
3. The one thing that sucks about having companion animals.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:27 AM
Sep 2014

Their lifespans are just too darn short. You wish they would live as long as you do.

whathehell

(29,024 posts)
11. Yes,
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 12:01 PM
Sep 2014

that's spot on.

Your post speaks to me because I lost the sweetest, most loving and affectionate

cat I'd ever known just a few months ago to cancer.

He was a big, fat orange guy with one crossed eye and we had him less

than a year before he was diagnosed with Lymphoma.

We were ready to spend virtually everything we had to save him,

but the vet said "no hope".

I tear up just thinking about him.

titanicdave

(429 posts)
25. Me Too.......
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 02:15 PM
Sep 2014

I lost my beautiful loving white cat with blue eyes named Sammy about 4 years ago and I still hurt that he is no longer here..........

whathehell

(29,024 posts)
28. Yeah..Maybe my age is catching up to me, but
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 04:31 PM
Sep 2014

I'm starting to wonder about that old saying

"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all".


What if you've "loved and lost" too many times?

brewens

(13,526 posts)
41. I feel like I owe it to them. I can't really have a dog. It's not fair to leave them home alone as
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 09:09 PM
Sep 2014

much as I have to. I've had several cats. Never picked one out, they always find me somehow. My girlfriend rescued the one I have now. She's a little over a year of and can be a real handful! She is starting to mellow out and get more snuggly.

whathehell

(29,024 posts)
53. Actually, yes, you have the right idea
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 06:07 AM
Sep 2014

When I think of all the homeless, not to mention abused and mistreated

animals out there, I think we do owe them whatever shelter and kindness

we can give them.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
63. I waited 20 years to have a dog again, for the reasons you stated.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 08:35 AM
Sep 2014

I wanted another Golden Retriever, but esp. to that breed, being home for them is important, they are SO people oriented.
So had to wait till I retired early.
Now our guy is 60, in dog years, and the toon really hits home.

CTyankee

(63,881 posts)
12. having to put down my wonderful "Marvy dog" was incredibly hard to do...I cried and cried...
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 12:04 PM
Sep 2014

that was in 1974. I never owned a dog again...

theaocp

(4,231 posts)
59. As a lover of animals
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 10:13 AM
Sep 2014

and one of the co-leaders of Motor City Ferrets, I hope you are able to adopt again. This whole thread makes me incredibly sad for my dog Arya (rescued off the streets, duh! ) and she's nowhere near ready to cross the bridge. She's looking at me right now wondering why we aren't going for a run when Dad is in front of the computer. Dogs give us the wherewithall to keep improving ourselves to become the image they see. We'll never make it, but the pursuit is all. Thanks.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
49. That is to teach us a lesson we have yet to learn about how precious life is. It's part of
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:35 PM
Sep 2014

their work.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
7. We let an animal into your heart already knowing they will break it.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:41 AM
Sep 2014

And we do it time after time.

Life feels empty without an animal.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
9. It's the hardest part of our commitment.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:43 AM
Sep 2014

But not a barrier to making it for me. The things my dogs have taught me have made me a better person.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
13. So true.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 12:14 PM
Sep 2014

I've been through this with a total of four cats as an adult. Currently I am pet-free because I'm doing a lot of travelling and can't be around as I should, but someday I will be a crazy cat lady and have many more.

What is even more heartbreaking than having to say goodbye to our wonderful companions is when a person goes into a nursing home, or dies and there is no one around to take in the dogs or cats, and they wind up in an animal shelter. I will do my best to make sure there are long-term arrangements made for my darlings if they outlive me.

VA_Jill

(9,933 posts)
17. OMG, my eyes are leaking
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 12:53 PM
Sep 2014

I've said goodbye to 4 dogs and several kitties, held each one as they made their journey to Rainbow Bridge. Many of them are buried where they lived. I'm fur-free at the moment, but I suspect when my S/O retires there may be one in our future. I miss having a fur friend around.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
18. I kept a copy of this
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 01:21 PM
Sep 2014

Would it be appropriate or inappropriate to forward to someone who just lost a four-legged friend?

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
20. I think it would be welcomed.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 01:50 PM
Sep 2014

Your friend would know you were thinking of them at this sad time. I had to put my Rottweiler to sleep (bone cancer) at the age of 6 1/2. Broke my heart. I have had to say goodbye to several dogs and cats, and it never gets any easier, they are all so special in their own unique way. I inherited two cats and they are both getting on in years. Love them so much. I dpibt I will ever get another pet. Hurts so very very much to say goodbye. They love and trust with their whole being.

Lefta Dissenter

(6,622 posts)
58. I would have appreciated it immensely
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 10:12 AM
Sep 2014

when I recently had to put down my Lucy due to kidney failure.

It's a very sweet and loving statement.

 

baldguy

(36,649 posts)
19. And yet, if you call it a Pit Bull, normally rational people are overtaken w/ blood lust to kill it.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 01:43 PM
Sep 2014

secondvariety

(1,245 posts)
22. It'll be one year
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 02:06 PM
Sep 2014

Friday that I said good-bye to my sweet Lealue. I miss her with all my heart. Thank you so much for this post...it helps.

jillan

(39,451 posts)
26. When I had to put my Springer Spaniel down, I was hysterical. The Vet said to me....
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 03:45 PM
Sep 2014

You gave her a great life.


Altho it didn't stop me from crying my eyes out, those were the words I needed to hear at that moment.

ruffburr

(1,190 posts)
27. Every Now and Then-
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 03:58 PM
Sep 2014

Something truly profound is said in toons, This is one of them, As for me the more i know about people the more i love my dogs, I held my 19 yr friend in my arms as she got the shot, I swear i felt her relief and soul touch me on her way out.

Martin Eden

(12,838 posts)
29. We've said good-bye to two of our beloved canine companions in the last 13 months
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 06:23 PM
Sep 2014

My wife and I had many great adventures with our yellow lab Hunny, traveling to 16 states on hiking vacations. She passed away a year ago August 25, a few months shy of her 17th birthday. It was her time.

But I can't hold back the tears now because we lost our black lab/terrier mix Winnie less than 10 days ago. She was very smart, very good, full of play, and the picture of health until she started getting lethargic a week ago Sunday. On Monday she was worse but still eating, so the vet said bring her in the next day if she wasn't better. By Tuesday she stopped eating so we took her in, and the diagnosis floored us -- liver failure. Winnie died on Wednesday August 27, not yet two and a half years old. The vet still hasn't been able to tell us what caused it.

Every time I come home from work and she's not there to greet me, it hits me. Whenever we're at home Winnie was always with us, part of our daily routine. But it's more than her absence that hurts -- she had so many great adventures to look forward to, and plenty of life still to live.

We love her dearly, and miss her terribly.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
36. gee, that seems a cold hearted thing to say.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 08:05 PM
Sep 2014

I don't know why you felt the need to say it, especially late in the thread after lots of people shared their heartfelt stories.

Oh well....I don't get it, but I guess your reason makes sense to you.

Helen Borg

(3,963 posts)
54. Oh, did you see the smiley?
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 07:10 AM
Sep 2014

My dog, at least, thinks about food, mostly. I think he sees me as a food delivery device

catchnrelease

(1,944 posts)
34. There is a frame like this
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 07:46 PM
Sep 2014

I've seen in a dog related catalog a frame with the sentiment of the cartoon engraved into the metal around where the photo would be. 'Thanks for everything, I had a wonderful time'. I think it's such a neat thing, but I've never been able to bring myself to get one. First I don't know which of the kids we've lost I would put in the frame and second I'd be crying every time I looked at it.



If you want to read something really gut wrenching re losing a pet, try The Last Will and Testament of Silverdene Emblem O'Neill. Have lots of kleenex ready!

http://www.eoneill.com/texts/blemie/contents.htm

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
35. I'm cuddling Shrimpy, she's making her Shrimpy noises,
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 07:59 PM
Sep 2014

And I'm crying. I love my baby...my furry baby.....




CaptainTruth

(6,569 posts)
38. I find it strange that everyone seems to assume ...
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 08:18 PM
Sep 2014

... that it's the dog's life that's ending. I thought the dog's owner was passing on ... & saying goodbye.

And I find it truly sad that our society gives more peaceful & humane end-of-life options to animals than we do to human beings.

calimary

(81,054 posts)
40. Welcome to DU, CaptainTruth and Fairgo!
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 09:07 PM
Sep 2014

Glad you're both here. I'd say more but it's hard to see what I'm typing at the moment...

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
43. The dog is the voice. The dog says he's not afraid. The dog is being carried into the clinic. IT'S
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 09:43 PM
Sep 2014

THE DOG.

 

another_liberal

(8,821 posts)
39. "Now I'm old, I'm tired and I hurt . . ."
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 08:42 PM
Sep 2014

But if you try to euthanize me, I'll bite your god-damned hand off!

PatrickforO

(14,556 posts)
46. Geez, there must be some dust in my room.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:12 PM
Sep 2014

My eyes are watering.



I love my dogs and cats. It's so hard when the time comes.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
48. My dog seemed to time her death
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 11:21 PM
Sep 2014

She waited until when I was at church, then I came home and fou8nd out what happened.

In a way, it was fitting, because there is no way I would ever have the guts to put her down.

Sognefjord

(229 posts)
52. Salute to My Old Comrades
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 02:49 AM
Sep 2014

I have framed pictures of my old cat companions, Wally and Fritzi at one end of our kitchen. I now and then salute them as I go by, my gallant old comrades and friends through all adversity. They are thus honored and enshrined, my dear Waldorf-Astoria and Frederick the Great whom I mourned as for a brother lost.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
55. it is dusty in here ....
Sun Sep 7, 2014, 08:23 AM
Sep 2014

it is just over a year that I took my Shelly
to the rainbow bridge.

still haven't gotten a new furbaby ... maybe soon ....

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