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True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:25 PM Sep 2014

Getting sick and tired of the New Dark Ages everywhere I turn.

Everywhere I go, it's more prudent to be silent than potentially inflame some maniac's sensibilities.

It's thought more civil and sensible to not speak than to say something that might be taken wrong.

Considered the mark of thoughtfulness to have no ideas than to have controversial ones.

More responsible to do nothing at all than to invoke the attention of misanthropic nihilists.

It's not even enough to think before you represent yourself, because the possible ways to piss someone off are now so vast and complex you can't possibly imagine all of them in advance.

You have to fucking hide like a rat to not be targeted.

You have to shut your mouth to not be shouted down.

You have to not be seen at all for your very existence to not be resented and snarled at.

In every little nook and cranny is some rule being violated by the fact that you breathe.

Under every branch is an agenda no one bothers to tell you about, but will be shoved down your throat if you run afoul of it.

If you make a habit of having and expressing ideas, you will be constantly blind-sided by crazed factions attacking you out of nowhere, for reasons you can't comprehend, and they treat your puzzlement as proof of guilt.

Byzantine mobs driven to bigoted frenzy by the controversies existing only in their heads.

The difference of a vowel divides the Holy and the Heretical.

And the most hated treason of all is common sense and common humanity.

How does one deal with unconscious degenerates without just sinking into their noise?

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Getting sick and tired of the New Dark Ages everywhere I turn. (Original Post) True Blue Door Sep 2014 OP
I have to agree with some of that, sometimes being civil sucks. Rex Sep 2014 #1
I can attest to that. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #70
Some people that like to argue, all the time 24/7. Rex Sep 2014 #72
I Do Not! You Do! ProfessorGAC Sep 2014 #97
Or some people would rather argue than have a discussion. Rex Sep 2014 #98
What on earth are you talking about? AnalystInParadise Sep 2014 #2
Congratulations. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #3
Soooo..... AnalystInParadise Sep 2014 #7
What exactly do you not understand? True Blue Door Sep 2014 #12
No you really aren't being straight foward AnalystInParadise Sep 2014 #13
Again, congratulations on not knowing what I'm talking about. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #42
What happened to you was sad especially the episode with the person you didn't know was Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #56
You may be in a cult agent46 Sep 2014 #17
I may be an extraterrestrial and not know it yet. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #45
Looks like ARP syndrome. whistler162 Sep 2014 #6
I wish AnalystInParadise Sep 2014 #10
Alcohol Related Posting syndrome whistler162 Sep 2014 #89
In a word: PATIENCE. grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #4
Good advice, of course. Patience really is its own reward. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #47
We need to go back to our traditional CJCRANE Sep 2014 #5
Agreed. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #15
The price we all pay for merging the Eastern World with the Western World. randome Sep 2014 #35
Maybe. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #57
Right on! Inevitably when we bring civil rights to gays and other minorities, it can lead to Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #59
Sounds like you may be dissing me. Are you dissing me? randome Sep 2014 #65
The GOP has spoken directly against both. As a precursor of Communism. freshwest Sep 2014 #18
Great quote. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #61
Is this about your hidden posts? pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #8
Not exclusively. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #16
These are all good things edgineered Sep 2014 #9
Good is when people challenge and examine each other's ideas. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #19
In making a statement to describe edgineered Sep 2014 #32
One too many instances of arbitrary social authoritarianism. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #54
Well see? There's the problem. edgineered Sep 2014 #60
Yep. The vulnerabilities of communications are painfully evident now. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #76
Been keeping up you on this thread edgineered Sep 2014 #80
We live in a propaganda state now. An interactive propaganda state. woo me with science Sep 2014 #11
+100000000 navarth Sep 2014 #14
Government propaganda is a sexier topic, but I'm more concerned with the cultural aspects. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #22
I've noticed this. It's a terrible thing. Thanks for expressing it so well. freshwest Sep 2014 #20
It's my turn to be an old woman Warpy Sep 2014 #21
Thing is, you can't avoid pissing some people off. They look for excuses. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #28
People sure picked ridiculous reasons to call you a "warmonger" and a "racist." The expectation Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #63
It's what happens when people reason by analogy rather than core logic. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #67
"the rule is no sex" awoke_in_2003 Sep 2014 #40
Warpy, Le Taz Hot Sep 2014 #50
When information is your enemy Shankapotomus Sep 2014 #23
+ 1000. The drama is very tiring and I've decided to stop. Good post. Nt riderinthestorm Sep 2014 #25
But that's surrender to the Dark Ages. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #29
How do you know it was courage they were lacking? Shankapotomus Sep 2014 #36
Staying silent doesn't exempt you from the Victim Lottery. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #78
I like birch trees Shankapotomus Sep 2014 #93
+1,000,000 nt magical thyme Sep 2014 #33
Best Yahoo answer. NT pablo_marmol Sep 2014 #44
Reflected in large part by the interactions at DU as well riderinthestorm Sep 2014 #24
Got to agree, rider. Feral Child Sep 2014 #30
sad but true pleinair Sep 2014 #31
Indeed. Blue_In_AK Sep 2014 #46
Fuck 'Em. Warren DeMontague Sep 2014 #26
Bourbon. nt valerief Sep 2014 #27
I hear you and agree. 99Forever Sep 2014 #34
So many words hootinholler Sep 2014 #37
Yes. On second read it reminds me of Glenn Beck CJCRANE Sep 2014 #52
So instead of asking, you just go right ahead and compare me with a certifiable madman. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #64
Time-out! Foul! Offsides! Do over! Fingernails! randome Sep 2014 #71
Fox didn't let Beck hang things on the walls when he was there pinboy3niner Sep 2014 #74
Chalk? You'll shoot your eye out with that, kid. randome Sep 2014 #75
True. Glenn Beck couldn't organize his thoughts enough to pass a prostate exam. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #88
Is that intended to be a complaint about Progressive dog Sep 2014 #38
If you take the 3rd letter of every 4th word, transpose them... randome Sep 2014 #49
A: How does one deal with unconscious degenerates without just sinking into their noise? edgineered Sep 2014 #39
"And the most hated treason of all is common sense and common humanity." pablo_marmol Sep 2014 #41
Common sense is never shoved in people's faces. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #51
Your definition of "common sense" is quite odd. pablo_marmol Sep 2014 #94
vote. Vote. VOTE!!! And get others to vote! ffr Sep 2014 #43
Oh, yeah. randome Sep 2014 #48
Are you sure this isn't a Glenn Beck rant? CJCRANE Sep 2014 #53
"Hyperbole"...as opposed to comparing someone with a lunatic demagogue True Blue Door Sep 2014 #66
That was a superlative post. You should try ballyhoo Sep 2014 #55
I don't know who would want to publish it. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #68
I understand. Twain said much the same. ballyhoo Sep 2014 #77
If this is about the 'Why Texans Dress Like Cowboys' thread beam me up scottie Sep 2014 #58
No, that was actually fun. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #81
Okay. beam me up scottie Sep 2014 #82
Some people just need to have a talk with their Physican. PeoViejo Sep 2014 #62
I can feel you. AverageJoe90 Sep 2014 #69
When it's just individuals, sure. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #83
In some ways I kind of see where you are coming from. airplaneman Sep 2014 #73
Call it the Law of Conservation of Thought. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #84
Real Problems Just Become Part of the Noise daredtowork Sep 2014 #79
Interesting article. Social media enables "long tail" activism. True Blue Door Sep 2014 #85
Exactly. Having read edgineered Sep 2014 #90
I read somewhere recently that people are less likely to say what they think online daredtowork Sep 2014 #91
Reading now, it is so different now edgineered Sep 2014 #87
Have you been reading my mind? Brigid Sep 2014 #86
Sounds like the overwrought self-congratulatory martyrdom of Squidward Tentacles. Throd Sep 2014 #92
Very well said. WhiteAndNerdy Sep 2014 #95
rants like this. barbtries Sep 2014 #96
 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
1. I have to agree with some of that, sometimes being civil sucks.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:27 PM
Sep 2014

Continuously being civil to someone that is uncivil is very hard at times.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
70. I can attest to that.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:11 PM
Sep 2014

There are a couple of other sites that I go to, where I have actually been openly harassed by a few other people for holding different views, even on trivial stuff like how one views a literary piece, for fucks' sakes.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
72. Some people that like to argue, all the time 24/7.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:16 PM
Sep 2014

They also share another similar trait, they are never factually wrong on any subject or topic. I won't get into a conversation with someone like that anymore...been there done that on DU1 and DU2. Huge waste of time.

Sometimes you just have to walk away. It can be hard.

ProfessorGAC

(64,955 posts)
97. I Do Not! You Do!
Sun Sep 14, 2014, 06:13 AM
Sep 2014

Just kidding! It seemed all teed up and i had to swing.

I think some people confuse discussion with argument.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
2. What on earth are you talking about?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:28 PM
Sep 2014

Not being nasty, seriously what are you talking about. I feel no need to hide myself from anyone about anything. And I am a Hispanic male living in a mostly white town in Arizona. I have never felt threatened or the need to keep quiet.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
12. What exactly do you not understand?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:50 PM
Sep 2014

What I'm saying seems pretty straightforward: I'm tired of having people make up infinite numbers of unstated rules and unreasoning beliefs and then demand that I defend myself when I trip over them.

 

AnalystInParadise

(1,832 posts)
13. No you really aren't being straight foward
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:56 PM
Sep 2014

you posted a lot of stuff without context and the reader is supposed to infer what the heck you are talking about.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
42. Again, congratulations on not knowing what I'm talking about.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:11 PM
Sep 2014

But it's happened almost a dozen times in three years that I've said something on a website that, by nth-degree pseudo-logic or fringe association, resulted in a mob of shrieking lunatics demanding my head.

I've expressed a dissenting opinion on a policy I don't even remember, but because the person who I was arguing with turned out to be dying of cancer, I was equated with Hitler and accused of being a eugenicist - and the claim swayed enough people that I was nearly thrown out of the site I was posting on. It came completely out of nowhere, and some of the people insinuated that my not knowing this detail about the other person's life was evidence of my evil.

That was one of the more rational incidents out of dozens over the past few years, and I know I'm not alone because I've brought shit on myself by defending others facing similar witch-hunts that pop up out of the fucking blue.

If you haven't seen that kind of thing as often as I have, then I'll go with the charitable assumption that you're lucky.

Louisiana1976

(3,962 posts)
56. What happened to you was sad especially the episode with the person you didn't know was
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:16 PM
Sep 2014

dying of cancer. I've been on a couple of boards I no longer visit because of problems there.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
45. I may be an extraterrestrial and not know it yet.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:13 PM
Sep 2014

But absent any specific reason to think so, it's probably best to assume otherwise.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
15. Agreed.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:59 PM
Sep 2014

So much of "our" politics gets hollowed out, turned into lazy cargo cults based on false analogies.

Not that it's a new problem, obviously. We've lost our way many times over the centuries, turned reason and enlightenment into self-immolating jokes.

But I was speaking more generally, about how everything is so prickly and sticky, and nobody wants to let you have a say unless you can buy or force their attention.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
35. The price we all pay for merging the Eastern World with the Western World.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:45 PM
Sep 2014

The price we pay for bringing civil rights to gays and other minorities. Overall, it's becoming a better world. And a more complicated one. That's unavoidable.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Precision and concision. That's the game.[/center][/font][hr]

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
57. Maybe.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:16 PM
Sep 2014

I suppose shallow, mindless people who could feel safe in other times by everyone looking the same in their community now have to try to make everyone think and talk the same to get the same sense of security.

Louisiana1976

(3,962 posts)
59. Right on! Inevitably when we bring civil rights to gays and other minorities, it can lead to
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:21 PM
Sep 2014

confrontation with those opposed to their having such rights.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
65. Sounds like you may be dissing me. Are you dissing me?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:40 PM
Sep 2014

I'm just yanking your chain. But you're right. The Troglodytes among the citizenry will make much more noise and try to make things more difficult for all of us. We have to ignore the noise as best as possible and lead even them into the light or let them fall by the wayside.

The only alternative is this:

And that hurts!
[hr][font color="blue"][center]All things in moderation, including moderation.[/center][/font][hr]

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
18. The GOP has spoken directly against both. As a precursor of Communism.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:06 PM
Sep 2014

The Enlightenment came out of centuries of bloodshed and it was framing a way out of the feudal system. And was born on a planet with more resources than we have now.

It's been attacked by a culture that creates cults from mainstream and alternative media which does lead to Reason or Equality, but Tribalism, which has no need of it. At its base is fear, and is not wholly unfounded, considering what's going on in the natural world.

Those holding the ideals of the Enlightenment are called weak, spineless, not fit to lead in a harsh new reality, that did not have to be - we hope. At first thought, this is very depressing, but another organizing force will take its place.

I don't expect Reason or the Enlightenment to be respected, not anymore, unless everyone benefits. Inequality unaddressed is the cause of the failure. As James Baldwin warned William Buckley:

“...It is a terrible thing for an entire people to surrender to the notion that one-ninth of its population is beneath them. Until the moment comes when we, the Americans, are able to accept the fact that my ancestors are both black and white, that on that continent we are trying to forge a new identity, that we need each other, that I am not a ward of America, I am not an object of missionary charity, I am one of the people who built the country—until this moment comes there is scarcely any hope for the American dream. If the people are denied participation in it, by their very presence they will wreck it. And if that happens it is a very grave moment for the West.”

http://bacanisays.tumblr.com/

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
61. Great quote.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:29 PM
Sep 2014

It's an understanding that actually can be applied to any paradigm. Equality is the source of all prosperity, and its absence the source of all destruction. The welfare and common cause of the Athenian soldiers who fought the Persian War is generally acknowledged as the political basis of the emergence of democracy. The intransigence of the Roman Patricians amid drastic inequality led to the success of Julius Caesar in overthrowing the Republic. Christianity spread in the ancient world mainly through its charitable activity, while the inherited pagan religions mostly ignored social problems and faded. Communist systems in the 20th century prospered only to the extent they improved the lot of the average person; once the Commissars and their children started ruling as a hereditary aristocracy, they started falling apart.

Whether the future is free or tyrannical depends on who moves quickest and most enthusiastically to deal with inequality. But either way, someone will address it, and that someone will gain power. It's really our choice whether we get a demagogue or a uniter. There is no choice to continue ignoring the problem. It's a physical certainty that the needs of the people will be addressed, one way or another.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
16. Not exclusively.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:00 PM
Sep 2014

But every annoyance adds to the general feeling of shit-itude about the course of society.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
9. These are all good things
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:39 PM
Sep 2014

The worst case scenario is where everyone acts and thinks alike. Try this: Look at someone you know, someone who is convinced he is going to heaven. Now image how that might be more like hell for you?

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
19. Good is when people challenge and examine each other's ideas.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:07 PM
Sep 2014

Not when they make every subject into a minefield of hidden meanings, explosive sensitivities, and potential grounds for social and other retaliation.

If you were to look at a public square in the Dark Age Roman Empire, you might think it was a place of active and learned debate. That is, until you listened to what they were saying, and realized they were arguing over how many letters to spell a Christian trinity theological term, and that any discussion more substantive had been annihilated by the sword and fire.

I'm tired of people making up excuses to not listen when they disagree with the most superficial millimeter of an idea they hear.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
32. In making a statement to describe
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:38 PM
Sep 2014

thoughts resulting from a simple idea gets tricky. Any thing that brings about a lot of thought can cover a big range of feelings. Usually the dog hears the worst of it, and he's pretty forgetful or forgiving. What exactly has you pissed off?

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
54. One too many instances of arbitrary social authoritarianism.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:51 PM
Sep 2014

Not really worth mentioning in itself, but part of a pattern I'm losing patience with.

Facebook censors comments posted through its plugins, which are ubiquitous.

If you're accustomed to expressing yourself, you end up having to run from one petty local tyranny to the other like a dissident monk in the Middle Ages.

There's no actual "public square" where people can just be who the fuck they are without watching every syllable for signs of Heresy that will be used against them years, maybe decades later.

Meanwhile everything is flooded by tyrannical propaganda machines run by oppressive political states and corporations, filling the information spectrum with lies and false histories, and people who challenge it don't have the discipline to stick to reality rather than indulging in the stupidest fucking conspiracy theories imaginable.

That's why I'm seeing the Dark Ages in this state of affairs - people not able to understand or manage any state other than chaos or tyranny, religious gibberish or absolute nihilism. Websites are either spambot cesspools or brutally censored with such a suffocating web of rules and official ideologies that you can barely say "Hi, my name is" before you're having to defend yourself.

People either think Saddam Hussein was behind 9/11 or Dick Cheney was - no room for reality in this diarrhea-balloon of an internet.

But if you're curious, the exact thing that brought me here, was that something I wrote about rockets in a website about rockets got hidden by a mod for no apparent reason. Again, totally random, totally not relevant to anything, just one too many examples of that happening.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
60. Well see? There's the problem.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:27 PM
Sep 2014

You look at and understand that it can be different. Certainly everyone is smart enough to see it for what it is, but does nothing to improve things. Its okay for now, for me, it doesn't affect me, or whatever attitude is fine. I see things relative to the dark ages as they exist today. Maybe not what you're saying, but like this.

We all live in a world that looks at the world as compared to ourselves. We've got it pretty easy as far as being able to spread ideas, to voice an opinion, or incite action. Physically easy that is. Like you suggested it is very risky both in the long and short terms. Back in the dark ages where it took a month to get an answer from one city to another people had to rely on the largest organizations to keep up with the rest of the world. It mostly the churches that had the ability to send out a uniform message, whether it was the latest technology, medicine, political standings, or religious propaganda. Today it is TV that does most of the work. What people see and hear they believe.

If the ptb decide that the time has come to take away our toys, our computers, cellphones, tvs, etc then we are back in the dark ages physically. With all the censoring, data collection, review of activities, etc we are still in the dark ages today, except nobody sees it. Well, maybe you do.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
76. Yep. The vulnerabilities of communications are painfully evident now.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:40 PM
Sep 2014

A lot of economic and structural changes will be needed before the illusory freedom of the current internet is made into a durable reality.

All of its current functions will have to be localized, including energy, which would be the reverse of the current "cloud" trend.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
80. Been keeping up you on this thread
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:56 PM
Sep 2014

and appreciate your going through all the effort, its reassuring to know there is still a little time before we become the food source for replicants. Two good movies.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
11. We live in a propaganda state now. An interactive propaganda state.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 03:43 PM
Sep 2014

Tremendous resources are being poured into propaganda and message control on the internet, to harass those who criticize corporate policy and politicians and to create the illusion that Americans support what is being done to us. Propaganda is always used to try to normalize the corporate/authoritarian takeover of nations. It's interactive, and it's relentless.


Obama taps "cognitive infiltrator" Cass Sunstein for Committee to create "trust" in NSA:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023512796

Salon: Obama confidant’s spine-chilling proposal: Cass Sunstein wants the government to "cognitively infiltrate" anti-government groups
http://www.salon.com/2010/01/15/sunstein_2/

The US government's online campaigns of disinformation, manipulation, and smear.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024560097

Snowden: ‘Training Guide’ for GCHQ, NSA Agents Infiltrating and Disrupting Alternative Media Online
http://21stcenturywire.com/2014/02/25/snowden-training-guide-for-gchq-nsa-agents-infiltrating-and-disrupting-alternative-media-online/

The influx of corporate propaganda-spouting posters is blatant and unnatural.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=3189367

U.S. Repeals Propaganda Ban, Spreads Government-Made News To Americans
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023262111

The goal of the propaganda assaults across the internet is not to convince anyone of anything.*
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023359801

The government figured out sockpuppet management but not "persona management."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023358242

The Gentleman's Guide To Forum Spies (spooks, feds, etc.)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4159454

Seventeen techniques for truth suppression.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4249741

Just do some Googling on astroturfing - big organizations have some sophisticated tools.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=1208351


True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
22. Government propaganda is a sexier topic, but I'm more concerned with the cultural aspects.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:17 PM
Sep 2014

And as far as I'm concerned, we've been inundated with state propaganda since the advent of Fox News. The "state" in question simply being the rich, corporate power structure that (accurately) perceives itself as superseding the official laws.

But all of that would crumble pretty easily if people just bothered to think for themselves and reason from first principles rather than making endless series of corruptible moral analogies.

Back during the start of the Iraq War, I had to constantly ask Republicans, "Why would you encourage behavior on the part of the United States that you would never tolerate another country doing to us?" They just couldn't conceive of there being one world in which the US was a part with other countries.

Anyway, most of what I'm complaining about is just the microcosmic kind of authoritarianism - the petty idiots who mirror that state of affairs in the way they conduct themselves. Who make rules to be used as excuses for acting out personal agendas rather than enabling society, etc. etc.

It's a cacophanous, dystopian kind of culture where people deliberately make up an infinite number of reasons to fight others.

Warpy

(111,222 posts)
21. It's my turn to be an old woman
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:12 PM
Sep 2014

and the wonderful thing about being an old woman is that you no longer give a shit what anyone else in the world thinks about you. So you let fly.

Even nihilistic, misanthropic maniacs seem to put up with it because in some way, it goes along with our invisibility.

Four younger folks, the rule is no sex, religion or politics in ordinary society. You can discuss those things with close friends and family, but never among acquaintances.

But yes, the country is moving backward because too many people are ignernt and proud uvvit.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
28. Thing is, you can't avoid pissing some people off. They look for excuses.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:31 PM
Sep 2014

Avoid talking about politics, and they'll just inject politics into whatever it is that you do talk about.

If you're not actively spouting their propaganda, you're against them. Because the possible ways to piss them off are infinite.

And the logic that a lot of these people engage is is just staggeringly insane. I've been called a "warmonger" for disputing the right of Vladimir Putin to invade whoever he feels like conquering; a "racist" for making fun of Cliven Bundy's racist rants; etc. etc., and internet "authorities" on websites are so keen to avoid disruptions that on balance they prefer to shut normal people up to appease the maniacs who might otherwise go after them and hack their servers.

Hollywood can't even show the Chinese government in a negative light at all, let alone as bad as it actually is, because of the potential financial consequences of doing so.

We're forced to tolerate intolerance, and to punish intolerance of intolerance as intolerance. It's fucking insane.

Louisiana1976

(3,962 posts)
63. People sure picked ridiculous reasons to call you a "warmonger" and a "racist." The expectation
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:37 PM
Sep 2014

that one must tolerate the intolerant is silly.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
67. It's what happens when people reason by analogy rather than core logic.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 07:25 PM
Sep 2014

They're against something, and as a result claim to be in favor of the thing they associate as its opposite or antagonist - even when it's objectively provable that their position is opposed to what they claim to favor.

It's the sort of asshole who claims corporate dictatorship is a "free" market simply because it doesn't call itself a government, that capitalism is freedom, etc., and similarly-minded people on the other side of things from the left. They live in a world made up entirely of words and bigoted caricatures.

You can't reason with them - everything is an air-tight web of arbitrary definitions with their perfect selves right at the center.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
40. "the rule is no sex"
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:05 PM
Sep 2014

you know, it never hit me before- the whole "abstinence only" programs that they push in school today seem to be reminiscent of Junior Anti-Sex leagues in 1984. From the newspeakdictionary website:

Junior Anti-sex league - Organization promoting celibacy, and the eradication of the orgasm, because these things cause feelings of ownlife

ownlife - Individualism and eccentricity. A desire to do something for your own benefit. (i.e. hobbies, ownership of property, love, or any other Thoughtcrime)

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
50. Warpy,
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:27 PM
Sep 2014

you won the internetz today with that first sentence. I have to laugh when people say they dread getting old. Yeah, the physical stuff sucks but the rest of it is damned liberating. You're right. You just don't give a shit.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
23. When information is your enemy
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:18 PM
Sep 2014

Don't give anyone information. Don't offer to share what you think. Don't ask for anyone's acceptance. Listen and observe.

When people's sensibilities are on edge and hot to the touch (whether out of truth or falsehood), don't involve yourself in their drama, if you find the interaction hurts the quality of your life.

In that case, there's no loss in being left alone, in not being heard. It's a gain because you're not part of the drama. If you haven't interacted, you can't do anything wrong and if you can't do anything wrong, you can't be accused.

Sometimes people are not open to listening to us. The great thing about that is the pressure is off you to offer a solution. You're free to turn away and enjoy your life and make the most of what you have.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
29. But that's surrender to the Dark Ages.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:33 PM
Sep 2014

Plenty of people lived happy, peaceful lives in the Dark Ages. They just didn't have the courage to share it and defend their ability to share it.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
36. How do you know it was courage they were lacking?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:49 PM
Sep 2014

Maybe it was opportunity they were lacking.

Maybe they were facing discrimination.

It's no ones obligation to take risks to provide answers that aren't going to be welcomed.

That is for a special few under the right circumstances.

No one is obligated to be a Gandhi.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
78. Staying silent doesn't exempt you from the Victim Lottery.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:52 PM
Sep 2014

And trying to avoid controversy doesn't appear to stop psychos from finding excuses to fuck with you.

It comes out of the blue. You could be talking about what kind of trees you like and suddenly a dozen people are calling you names, implying you're part of some conspiracy, and talking like you're not even there.

You start to question the general state of reading comprehension, or the remarkable net privileges that criminal psychiatric wards are giving their patients.

Shankapotomus

(4,840 posts)
93. I like birch trees
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 10:40 PM
Sep 2014

Anyone here have any objections?

Sure, there's lots of crazy people out there spoiling for a fight and who like to take things said out of context. It's happened to me so I certainly understand your complaint. But it doesn't come out of the blue. We know it's here when we join and we know it happens occasionally when we enter into a group of people.

People represent variables in our personal happiness equation. The more people there are, the more complex the equation and the more likely the chance for errors. That's because everyone is different, with different experiences and needs.

So just as a suggestion, if you want to lower your frustration level, simplify your happiness equation. Take out the variable that requires a large number of people to respond to you positively for you to be content.

Because that's a lot of responsibility and power over your contentment you're granting to a large number of people.

Or just remove the variable that says you have to supply a large group of strangers your opinion in order to feel fulfilled. Limit people's access to you.

If sharing your opinion doesn't work for you (and for some, it won't), there's no need to subject yourself to punishment.

We all want to feel liked and our ideas welcomed but there's other ways to go about enjoying life than banking on the approval of strangers.


 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
24. Reflected in large part by the interactions at DU as well
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:22 PM
Sep 2014


Its the reason I've dropped out of most conversations lately and rarely participate.

There's not a lot of discussion or a dialogue, instead much of its verbal warfare.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
46. Indeed.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:13 PM
Sep 2014

I've kept my mouth shut about a lot of stuff here since sometime in 2008. It's not worth it to me to get into some big dispute with someone and possibly get kicked off the board. I enjoy the Photo Group too much to allow that to happen.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
26. Fuck 'Em.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:28 PM
Sep 2014

Seriously. Dont give any shitty, lower-valence thinkers rent-free space in your own head.

Easy peasy.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
34. I hear you and agree.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:45 PM
Sep 2014

Just today on this forum I had someone stick their nose into a conversation I was having with another person and commenced to give me a ration over something I have yet to figure out. Oh well, my ignore list still has plenty of room.

hootinholler

(26,449 posts)
37. So many words
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 04:53 PM
Sep 2014

Saying so little.

Should you wish to establish a more specific context I'm happy to reconsider.

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
52. Yes. On second read it reminds me of Glenn Beck
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:32 PM
Sep 2014

in that it sounds portentous but you can't really pin down where it's coming from.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
64. So instead of asking, you just go right ahead and compare me with a certifiable madman.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:38 PM
Sep 2014

Your comment is not at all exactly, perfectly what I'm talking about.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
71. Time-out! Foul! Offsides! Do over! Fingernails!
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:13 PM
Sep 2014

Glenn Beck has never been certified.

I know because if he had, he would frame the certificate and hang it on the wall.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]"If you're bored then you're boring." -Harvey Danger[/center][/font][hr]

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
74. Fox didn't let Beck hang things on the walls when he was there
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:21 PM
Sep 2014

He was lucky they let him have chalk.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
75. Chalk? You'll shoot your eye out with that, kid.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:23 PM
Sep 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]"If you're bored then you're boring." -Harvey Danger[/center][/font][hr]

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
49. If you take the 3rd letter of every 4th word, transpose them...
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:20 PM
Sep 2014

...then drop any consonants that start the name of a month in Nordic, then your question will be answered.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]Precision and concision. That's the game.[/center][/font][hr]

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
39. A: How does one deal with unconscious degenerates without just sinking into their noise?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:01 PM
Sep 2014

turn up the music!

pablo_marmol

(2,375 posts)
41. "And the most hated treason of all is common sense and common humanity."
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:08 PM
Sep 2014

The problem I have with this sentence is that so much 'common sense' is nonsense.

There are certain positions that people take based on faith rather than empirical evidence and sound reasoning based on that evidence. Subjects which deserve study don't receive it - because the facts are "self-evident".

And w/regard to 'common humanity'.........? Too vague to even respond to IMO. Some peoples' "humanity" is really quite inhumane due to the blowback caused by well-intentioned but misguided legislation they support.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
51. Common sense is never shoved in people's faces.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:31 PM
Sep 2014

That's how you know it's both common and sense. You don't have to badger people with the blueness of the sky, the wetness of water, and the "fourness" of 2 + 2 - but fanatics and ideologues who want these things to be other than they are, have to bully and harangue and drive people mad. It drives them mad that reality doesn't respond to the force of their fury, so instead they just unleash that fury on something that can be beaten into submission - other people.

And common humanity is not some bizarre, abstract concept in need of esoteric justification. I don't know why you would think it is. Rejecting narcissism and hypocrisy is not rocket science. You can split verbal hairs ad infinitum if you have an interest in obfuscation, but putting equal moral weight on others as you do on yourself is a pretty straightforward idea.

pablo_marmol

(2,375 posts)
94. Your definition of "common sense" is quite odd.
Sun Sep 14, 2014, 03:12 AM
Sep 2014
You don't have to badger people with the blueness of the sky, the wetness of water, and the "fourness" of 2 + 2.

What you describe here are facts -- NOT common sense.

And common humanity is not some bizarre, abstract concept in need of esoteric justification. I don't know why you would think it is.

As I don't know why you would think you know what I think. I'm hardly the only one who feels your communication is less than clear on this thread.


ffr

(22,665 posts)
43. vote. Vote. VOTE!!! And get others to vote!
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:12 PM
Sep 2014

I don't give two sh*ts what RWNJs have to say about anything. They're lost causes. But if we can't get voters to the booth in November, we'll be hearing more and more noise like you've mentioned.

We're all sick of it too! The only proper thing to do is to drown them out by representation. Get involved. Get people registered. Get them to the polls. Get them excited about going to the polls. It starts with us.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
48. Oh, yeah.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:19 PM
Sep 2014

[hr][font color="blue"][center]Precision and concision. That's the game.[/center][/font][hr]

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
53. Are you sure this isn't a Glenn Beck rant?
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 05:36 PM
Sep 2014

I was initially impressed but there is something about the portentous rhetoric and hyperbole that seems familiar: a righteous high-sounding populist rant but without a specific message.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
66. "Hyperbole"...as opposed to comparing someone with a lunatic demagogue
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:43 PM
Sep 2014

based on nothing but a shallow interpretation of rhetorical form? Perhaps you also see some resemblance between my post and Mein Kampf?

What you're saying isn't a rebuttal to my points. It's an example of them.

 

ballyhoo

(2,060 posts)
55. That was a superlative post. You should try
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 06:09 PM
Sep 2014

and get this published although by your own words there may not be any avenues for it. I shall look for your posts, TBD. Excellent.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
68. I don't know who would want to publish it.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 07:30 PM
Sep 2014

I barely wanted to write it myself. The experiences behind it are so damn sickening.

 

AverageJoe90

(10,745 posts)
69. I can feel you.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:09 PM
Sep 2014

Though I'd add that not every case is just someone being an asshole; it's more nuanced than that. A lot of times, in my own experience, people sometimes just get angry and snap. I've been guilty of this myself on occasion, and have found myself either having to backtrack, or apologize, or both.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
83. When it's just individuals, sure.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 09:01 PM
Sep 2014

But not when it seems like an entire contingent of a community comes unglued for no apparent reason. And when authorities side with lunatics in the name of order, you understand a lot about history in those moments.

airplaneman

(1,239 posts)
73. In some ways I kind of see where you are coming from.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:17 PM
Sep 2014

When facebook first came along I started talking to some relatives. Then I was blacklisted by two relatives. I wan never on facebook more than maybe 3 times a month and did not spend a lot of time there. I did take it personally you know if someone really doest want to have anything to do with me I kind of want to return the favor. I have two friends that are libertarians. They could care less and become hostile if I talk about my beliefs which I don't for the most part as it is not worth it. I have come to the conclusion the larger the crowd the more likely someone is not going to be happy. I believe find yourself a couple of good friends and call yourself lucky. I see more hostility everywhere these days. At work, on the road, in any group of people I may happen to be around. It is bad enough that I make a point to be as inconspicuous as possible so as not to draw attention to myself. I'm kind of turned off to social media because like even here the response you get to a post is often puzzling. Someone doesn't have a clue, or is hostile, or makes some derogatory remark or even no one seems interested or cares. I guess 90 percent of my time even here will be lurking. I doubt if I will ever become a 25,000 poster type.
-Airplane

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
84. Call it the Law of Conservation of Thought.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 09:06 PM
Sep 2014

The less mental energy you put into each thing you say, the more time you have to say it to as many people as possible.

I think maybe some groups defined by shallow thinking interpret it as aggression if you interact with them deeply, like you're doing something fiendish and underhanded by both out-thinking and out-talking them. Like it's unfair or something.

daredtowork

(3,732 posts)
79. Real Problems Just Become Part of the Noise
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 08:55 PM
Sep 2014

Nothing has changed since Malcolm Gladwell's Small Change:

http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2010/10/04/small-change-3

The problem is that in real offline communities, real power hierarchies and reputation/dignity/shame systems come into effect - the anonymity and leveling effects of the the Internet offered weaker people a way to deal with that. Stronger people (Gladwell included) might scoff at that as "low risk", but it has always been the privilege of the strong to scoff when the weak try to dodge from the place of danger.

The bottom line is that we as citizens need ways to get problems in our everyday lives solved: ways that don't involve going to lawyers, newspapers, government agencies, or even raising a fuss on social media. The noise is directly proportional to the inability of people to get basic stuff done in their lives: complete their education, get work, maintain their homes, maintain the infrastructure of their communities, address health problems, resolve minor conflicts with people, deal when some bureaucratic hassle is inflicted upon them. Just basics of life.

The "New Dark Ages" is tribalism: everyone trying to identify as the super-majority so their party will be empowered to put in some system to solve *their* problems. States' Rights hyper-competitiveness is also a symptom of this: each State trying to empower itself at the expensive others, while offloading the poor and the burdensome.

Reducing the noise begins at home, by making sure the people in your community have a way to solve the basic problems of life and don't have to go appealing to some super-majority tribe as their only hope.

True Blue Door

(2,969 posts)
85. Interesting article. Social media enables "long tail" activism.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 09:25 PM
Sep 2014

Low activation energy, low risk tolerance. Works by reducing response friction, so people are both more likely to participate and more likely to stop participating.

That might be why I've never liked social media. It's two-dimensional, and the full reality is that it's rigidly controlled and exploited by its corporate ownership.

It's also based on the false belief that the internet is public domain, when it's constantly censored and its history rewritten - if not for any sinister reason, then simply because nobody bothers to continue hosting ancient information that's never accessed anyway.

Volumes of human thought and experience that in the past would be recorded in letters, journals, and documents just evaporate into thin air.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
90. Exactly. Having read
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 10:01 PM
Sep 2014

what daredtowork linked to doesn't tell the whole story. His interpretations and thoughts go with the presentation, but come short of the invisible two-dimensional, rigidly controlled community and its vanishing histories that we see today. and yes invisible and seen.

daredtowork

(3,732 posts)
91. I read somewhere recently that people are less likely to say what they think online
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 10:13 PM
Sep 2014

Instead they are more likely to express what they think everyone else is saying, thus in the process of trying to "fit in", they add to the sense there is a uniformity of opinion. Meanwhile marginal voices become invisible and dissenting voices get swamped.

The Internet is a realm of self-censorship, easily dominated by waves of social puritanism as people surveille each other for who belongs, who is "savvy", and who is "out".

I'm sure I'll regret all I've posted here in recent weeks and may have to go back and delete a lot of my posts. But I'm largely home-bound again, too stressed and sick to do anything productive, and this has somehow become the thing I do to keep myself distracted until things either magically work out or they don't.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
87. Reading now, it is so different now
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 09:44 PM
Sep 2014

than it was in the 60's and it is not because of the will or the feelings of the people. Hopefully the article touches on both the seen and unseen activities by those in control. As with what tbd is saying, we are no longer as strong as we were 50 years ago. We have been well trained and well conditioned to respond to his masters voice.

Throd

(7,208 posts)
92. Sounds like the overwrought self-congratulatory martyrdom of Squidward Tentacles.
Sat Sep 13, 2014, 10:29 PM
Sep 2014

Or just about everyone I knew in art school (myself included) who had a shitty day job.

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