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alp227

(32,020 posts)
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:22 AM Sep 2014

Are these homes worth 65-mile commute?

If you work in San Diego, you can drive home each day to a new house in a planned development for $350,000.

The modern homes are about 2,000 square feet, have four bedrooms, expansive kitchens, oversized closets, walk-in pantries and two-car garages.

So what’s the catch? A 65-mile, each-way commute, which takes you into Riverside County. That’s where state-of-the-art homes are being constructed with creature comforts like central air conditioning, granite countertops, and landscaping included.

“It’s the best feeling in the world to come home to a house like this,” said Jennifer Kelly, 33, a Mission Valley-based health insurance case worker who moved to a new home in Murrieta in June. “I know an hourlong drive seems like a lot, but for me, especially (after fielding health insurance) complaints, by the time I get home I have already let go of work.”

full: http://www.utsandiego.com/news/2014/sep/19/murrieta-temecula-realestate-commute-jobs-homes/all/

Photo of Kelly's home:

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Are these homes worth 65-mile commute? (Original Post) alp227 Sep 2014 OP
Um,...no. ..nt TeeYiYi Sep 2014 #1
For 350K in California? That is cheap yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #5
I wouldn't commute 130 miles... TeeYiYi Sep 2014 #8
You can egg a tax credit I think. Around 50 cents per mile. aikoaiko Sep 2014 #20
Commuting costs are not tax deductible unless Tansy_Gold Sep 2014 #93
very affordable for Ca Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #84
Health insurance case worker? Ick. IOW: her job is to deny people coverage. Coventina Sep 2014 #2
your remark had nothing to do with the thread. DesertFlower Sep 2014 #4
Sure it did, it referenced the final paragraph of the quoted article in the OP. Coventina Sep 2014 #6
just what she did for a living, but DesertFlower Sep 2014 #12
Case workers with high approval rates get fired. Coventina Sep 2014 #23
What do you do for a living? trumad Sep 2014 #48
I'm a college professor. Coventina Sep 2014 #61
That is correct * Case workers with high approval rates get fired. lunasun Sep 2014 #58
It is a question of whether or not a thing is covered by a policy treestar Sep 2014 #69
It may be that under the ACA things are improving. Coventina Sep 2014 #70
+1 951-Riverside Sep 2014 #10
What the hell is wrong with you? Oktober Sep 2014 #54
Someone who has had people in her life that were killed by insurance case workers. Coventina Sep 2014 #62
It probably wasn't that woman.. Oktober Sep 2014 #75
My position of contempt is not posturing. I think certain occupations are worthy of contempt. Coventina Sep 2014 #79
Or people with relatives Aerows Sep 2014 #134
Oh man, that would be unpleasant in the extreme. Coventina Sep 2014 #139
very nice, but a drive that long. DesertFlower Sep 2014 #3
Neither the house nor the drive Ron Green Sep 2014 #7
I don't get it... 951-Riverside Sep 2014 #9
2,000 square feet is a McMansion? michreject Sep 2014 #19
it's not a prison either....it's home. ileus Sep 2014 #21
Agree! In fact, 2,000 square feet is pretty modest today. CA is damn expensive, and it RKP5637 Sep 2014 #30
Because a similar house in San Diego is >$500k. (nt) jeff47 Sep 2014 #92
DU can be so judgey sometimes B2G Sep 2014 #95
Sometimes? This is what we do. An outrage! kwassa Sep 2014 #106
If they had a train or bus...maybe. But not to spend two hours in a car each day. MADem Sep 2014 #11
They get a one hour one way commute rarely rufus dog Sep 2014 #87
Too doggone far, IMO...! nt MADem Sep 2014 #122
Many use Vanpools itsrobert Sep 2014 #132
If you're driving in a comfortable vehicle one day out of five or so, it would not be as MADem Sep 2014 #135
I commute 60 miles each way itsrobert Sep 2014 #136
That's not so horrible--once a week, probably most people could handle. MADem Sep 2014 #137
if there isn't much traffic , maybe JI7 Sep 2014 #13
I did a similar commute for a year and... steve2470 Sep 2014 #14
What is a normal commute? Is it measured in distance, time, money? HereSince1628 Sep 2014 #18
normal commute for me is under one hour to work steve2470 Sep 2014 #77
I did it for 20 years michreject Sep 2014 #41
that's really amazing you could do it for so long steve2470 Sep 2014 #78
I couldn't lease that's for sure. michreject Sep 2014 #120
On I-287 nope JustAnotherGen Sep 2014 #15
There are people who work in NYC who have longer commutes. baldguy Sep 2014 #16
Absolutely customerserviceguy Sep 2014 #47
On the other hand, no way would I give up city life to have a long commute to the country Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #65
Perhaps customerserviceguy Sep 2014 #123
I used to travel cross-county and often all I could sometimes get in clear was RKP5637 Sep 2014 #128
My commute to Manhattan, although on public transportation, phylny Sep 2014 #53
Sounds like they need high speed rail. B Calm Sep 2014 #17
They keep talking about an I-15 transit line, but for some reason never get it done. haele Sep 2014 #68
I used to be 8 miles from work, now I'm 24 miles...same drive time. ileus Sep 2014 #22
That is a long ass commute davidpdx Sep 2014 #24
That's a steal. geomon666 Sep 2014 #25
EXACTLY. For CA?! WinkyDink Sep 2014 #51
Used to work in Atlanta and live north of Gainesville NightWatcher Sep 2014 #26
Suburban sprawl is to blame for all of our ills as a society. alarimer Sep 2014 #27
Well you have some good points yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #32
You do know that to the residents of the next gated community up the road, *you* are "the riff raff" lumberjack_jeff Sep 2014 #35
The people in those communities should consider me yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #38
The "danger" of cities is highly exaggerated Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #67
The "danger" of the projects that I grew up in were not exaggerated. Glassunion Sep 2014 #80
Cities are not made up entirely of "projects" Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #82
Well good for you. Glassunion Sep 2014 #125
Urban sprawl was the spawn of the oil companies in order to sell more gas. LawDeeDah Sep 2014 #97
I am sure you are right. NOT! yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #99
Why would that be unbelievable? LawDeeDah Sep 2014 #100
At the beginning it was to have a small piece of land with a house on it yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #102
I beg to differ. Oil companies and mall estates for big bucks. LawDeeDah Sep 2014 #103
Hey you are allowed to believe anything you want yeoman6987 Sep 2014 #105
Yes, I think (most) oil companies Are horrible and only think of profits. LawDeeDah Sep 2014 #108
So we should all live in cities? Glassunion Sep 2014 #76
I would hate to live in the city Travis_0004 Sep 2014 #86
Suburbia is unsustainable. RedCappedBandit Sep 2014 #129
Perhaps. ohnoyoudidnt Sep 2014 #28
When I lived in DC teenagebambam Sep 2014 #29
If there were rail, could be well worth it. n/t Orsino Sep 2014 #31
Yep. But without rail, nope. Not worth it - even with a Prius. eom BlueCaliDem Sep 2014 #44
When my wife and I met we were Los Angeles commuters. hunter Sep 2014 #33
Work from home. kentauros Sep 2014 #34
My sister is employed by an insurance company and she works from home. Louisiana1976 Sep 2014 #109
That's great! kentauros Sep 2014 #111
What do you care if she is willing to make the drive? California is very unaffordable, maybe your Pisces Sep 2014 #36
Look at the price PasadenaTrudy Sep 2014 #37
Apparently they are...someone just posted the top 10 Real Estate markets in the U.S. and.... Tikki Sep 2014 #39
I've had hour-long commutes. It works for some people, not others. Brickbat Sep 2014 #40
good lord! "Bargain" homes for $350,000? librechik Sep 2014 #42
Location, location, etc. WinkyDink Sep 2014 #52
Cheap for SoCal PasadenaTrudy Sep 2014 #81
True. Much of San Diego County is... YvonneCa Sep 2014 #116
that is a bargain in southern California Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #88
In California an hour drive is nothing. treestar Sep 2014 #43
Personally, I have never been willing to commute SheilaT Sep 2014 #45
The young couple shown can afford the home mortgage...and if no money difficulty... Tikki Sep 2014 #46
When I lived there, no. SheilaT Sep 2014 #121
Commuting is one of the first things I look at Warpy Sep 2014 #114
110 mile daily "commute" combined with gas guzzling SUV's. Dawson Leery Sep 2014 #49
There's no way that kitchen is in a 2000 sq. ft. house. I have a larger house and smaller kitchen. WinkyDink Sep 2014 #50
Not sure if this is their plan, but here is a Murietta plan in the same price range/sqft Tikki Sep 2014 #55
The OP says "four bedrooms"... TeeYiYi Sep 2014 #74
Here's a photo of Murietta area, looks OK by me, but I prefer to live close to the Pacific Ocean.. Tikki Sep 2014 #83
it is oddly large for 2000k, Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #90
They probably don't have separate dining room gollygee Sep 2014 #98
2 hrs/day = 10 hrs/week = 40 hrs/month = 1 week/extra 'work' per month = grahamhgreen Sep 2014 #56
You can't buy a nice condo in Escondido or Temecula for that money? indie9197 Sep 2014 #57
Temecula is in Riverside County.. YvonneCa Sep 2014 #117
I can walk to work Generic Brad Sep 2014 #59
A 65 mile commute is not unusual in Southern California Cleita Sep 2014 #60
No, one thing I learned living in Japan is that your happiness Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #63
depends on personal priorities. Tuesday Afternoon Sep 2014 #64
Not unless there's a commuter train and/or I can e-commute most days. PDJane Sep 2014 #66
already what we do. drray23 Sep 2014 #71
sounds lovely Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #91
I currently commute an hour each way. Glassunion Sep 2014 #72
I grew up with a father who commuted that far. Here in Houston, most people live at LEAST ScreamingMeemie Sep 2014 #73
And, Houston has multiple "downtowns." kentauros Sep 2014 #112
it's not the distance, it's the drive time. I drivevan hour to work -15 miles Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #85
This. nt B2G Sep 2014 #96
FWIW, the drive time is an hour when there is... YvonneCa Sep 2014 #118
For 6 + years, I commuted about 65 miles. It was miserable, especially in the winter in the dark. Shrike47 Sep 2014 #89
Sure why not. It is fine for some people. MadrasT Sep 2014 #94
Before I retired, I had a 30 mile commute tularetom Sep 2014 #101
Hour long commutes are certainly not out of the norm in Chicagoland. tritsofme Sep 2014 #104
A lot of places you can't afford to live where you work. hobbit709 Sep 2014 #107
My commute is about an hour each way gwheezie Sep 2014 #110
once a week, not bad Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #131
If you like spending your life in a car. roody Sep 2014 #113
I know some who comute more than that, from the central valley to the Bay Area. No big deal here demosincebirth Sep 2014 #115
BTW, a frame of reference for 65 miles: AZ Progressive Sep 2014 #119
"...and the average car getting about 23 miles per gallon..." Silent3 Sep 2014 #124
I'd want to blow my brains out if I had to drive that far. RedCappedBandit Sep 2014 #126
I guess you could enjoy it on the weekends liberal N proud Sep 2014 #127
Southern California needs a reliable commuter train system. eom MohRokTah Sep 2014 #130
America in general needs a new transportation and urban development policy mb999 Sep 2014 #138
If you new job is 65 miles away you commute 65 miles dembotoz Sep 2014 #133
 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
5. For 350K in California? That is cheap
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:46 AM
Sep 2014

You could lower the commute time, but will pay a lot more for the same house.

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
8. I wouldn't commute 130 miles...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:14 AM
Sep 2014

...to live in one of those houses. The cost in gasoline and wear and tear to the vehicle, not to mention stress and time lost commuting, just wouldn't be worth it.

TYY

aikoaiko

(34,169 posts)
20. You can egg a tax credit I think. Around 50 cents per mile.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 09:36 AM
Sep 2014

Use audio books and npr and you can have a good life.

Coventina

(27,115 posts)
2. Health insurance case worker? Ick. IOW: her job is to deny people coverage.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:29 AM
Sep 2014



I wish we had a spitting smiley, cuz I'd spit on her.

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
12. just what she did for a living, but
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 05:20 AM
Sep 2014

you took it further. how do you know she rejects claims? i had UHC for years and never had a claim rejected, but you had to make her a look like a bad person just because of her job.

she said she handled complaints -- maybe she was nice to people whose claims were rejected and let them go through.

Coventina

(27,115 posts)
23. Case workers with high approval rates get fired.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 09:46 AM
Sep 2014

It's NOBODY'S job at a health insurance company to be nice to people and let their claims go through.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
58. That is correct * Case workers with high approval rates get fired.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:01 PM
Sep 2014

Maybe the long gas guzzling trip helps her drive away the guilt

treestar

(82,383 posts)
69. It is a question of whether or not a thing is covered by a policy
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:25 PM
Sep 2014

There can be disagreements about that. But they can't deny a clearly valid, covered claim.

There are insurance bad faith laws in many states.

Coventina

(27,115 posts)
70. It may be that under the ACA things are improving.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:28 PM
Sep 2014

But I've seen insurance companies act in bad faith and get away with it far too many times to ever trust them.

I look forward to the day when single payer puts them all out of business.

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
10. +1
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:58 AM
Sep 2014

Health insurance case workers literally decides who lives and who dies for the benefit of the corporation.

Meanwhile the people who get denied coverage by these case workers can barely pay their rent let alone insurance.

 

Oktober

(1,488 posts)
75. It probably wasn't that woman..
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:50 PM
Sep 2014

... So relax.

Maybe you are just a Mctougherson from behind your keyboard.

Coventina

(27,115 posts)
79. My position of contempt is not posturing. I think certain occupations are worthy of contempt.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:54 PM
Sep 2014

Hers is one of them.

And, I assure you, I'm perfectly relaxed.

I'm just speaking my mind on a discussion board, as is the purpose of such things.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
134. Or people with relatives
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:15 PM
Sep 2014

that are familiar with insurance case workers that brag about how many cases they deny and live in McMansions while cheating their own insurance companies.

Don't even ask. I don't mess with that branch of the family.

 

951-Riverside

(7,234 posts)
9. I don't get it...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:53 AM
Sep 2014

They've already dumped their savings into one of these suburban McMansion prisons where every house looks the same, then they have to spend more money on landscaping, HOA fees, taxes, etc so why are they concerned about the price of the commute?

Why not save the money and stay and San Diego?

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
30. Agree! In fact, 2,000 square feet is pretty modest today. CA is damn expensive, and it
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:31 AM
Sep 2014

sounds like they are trying to make the best of it without sacrificing everything to be close to work. It is not even remotely a McMansion. In fact, just about any new house today has similar appointments. The house I had at one time is closer to major cities, further north, and it now lists for about $800,000 for 1,400 square feet, basically a track house from the 70's. Outrageous!


 

B2G

(9,766 posts)
95. DU can be so judgey sometimes
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:50 PM
Sep 2014

I've had 90 minute commutes within 20 miles at times due to congestion.

Why do you even care? Aren't we all about choice?

MADem

(135,425 posts)
11. If they had a train or bus...maybe. But not to spend two hours in a car each day.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:03 AM
Sep 2014

You could do work and eat a little breakfast on the way to work, nap on the way home.

itsrobert

(14,157 posts)
132. Many use Vanpools
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:10 PM
Sep 2014

Each take a turn at driving. Sometimes the expense is subsidized by the county, feds, and employer to encourage ride sharing. People take naps, check their emails, respond to texts, watch movies/tv, etc along the way.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
135. If you're driving in a comfortable vehicle one day out of five or so, it would not be as
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:33 PM
Sep 2014

horrible...at least you'd get a break from constantly being "the one" behind the wheel. It's still a long time to get there, and get home. A high speed train would be better; get ya there faster!

I will say, after doing "The Long Commute" in many assignments, I really liked the ones where I was a minute or fifteen away, particularly when I had jobs where I'd be required to be at work at a moment's notice, sometimes late at night.

itsrobert

(14,157 posts)
136. I commute 60 miles each way
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:37 PM
Sep 2014

However, I do it 1 to 2 days a week, the rest of the week I Work At Home/Telecommute.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
137. That's not so horrible--once a week, probably most people could handle.
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:44 PM
Sep 2014

The daily grind is what would stink.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
14. I did a similar commute for a year and...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 05:27 AM
Sep 2014

when that year was over, I was DAMN glad to have a normal commute every day. if they can do it for five years, I'd be very surprised.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
18. What is a normal commute? Is it measured in distance, time, money?
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 07:09 AM
Sep 2014

Commute is sort of ambiguous, implying having to travel some unstated distance between home and work. But travel takes time and costs money.

At one point in my live I drove ~30 miles to work, a trip with 3 rural stop signs and 2 street lights. I never thought of it in terms of distance as much as I thought about it in terms of time which was about 40 minutes...round trip would probably would be near $7 to do today.

At another point in my life I took a metro bus about 4 1/2 miles. Including the 8 block walk to the bus stop the travel time (not bus waiting time) was about 40 minutes... I could have walked 3 blocks to catch a different bus route but would have had to do an additional transfer including one that involved standing and waiting at a shelterless/benchless bus stop...round trip probably would be about $6 to do today.

The other issue is why live away from work? I suppose it comes down to the attributes a person wants from "home". Some people, including my S.O. like city-things restaurants, live theater/music, specialty schools for kids etc. And really healthcare centers on urban settings so I get that some people need to be closer...

But I like being in pastoral settings... I like seeing birds other than English sparrows and pigeons. My favorite part of city existence is witnessing it as an orange glow low in the sky that says the city is below the horizon 'somewhere over there'.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
77. normal commute for me is under one hour to work
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:51 PM
Sep 2014

For others, it may be more than that, or less. I simply think 65 miles to work is excessive, but we're all different.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
78. that's really amazing you could do it for so long
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:53 PM
Sep 2014

Your vehicle must have had a huge amount of mileage on it and huge gas bills. After a year of a 3 hour round trip commute 5 days a week, I was ready to hang it up.

michreject

(4,378 posts)
120. I couldn't lease that's for sure.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 09:23 PM
Sep 2014

As my wife worked 2 miles from where we live, I rotated vehicles. 10 mpg in the winter sure sucked though.

JustAnotherGen

(31,820 posts)
15. On I-287 nope
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 06:47 AM
Sep 2014

My commute is about 35 miles in NJ and it takes 45 minutes - I'm on the same roads as the bridge and tunnel folks. That would be at least an hour and a half here.

That said - we bought where we did instead of Princeton, Mendham, Basking Ridge (NJ) because we wanted a grand home but not a McMansion. That looks like 80% of the houses we looked at last year - except without plaster walls and ceilings. For what I bought - even being only a third of the way through renovations (100 year old house) - I'd rather put another 100K into this old grand house than live in shiny and new with that commute.

And again - with the dark freaking cabinets. At least it doesn't have those fugly black counter tops.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
47. Absolutely
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:22 PM
Sep 2014

If you want to live in a decent neighborhood for an affordable rent/mortgage payment, you have to live quite a ways away from the best paying jobs in the major cities.

I had an hour-long commute from Shelton, WA to Tacoma, WA for years. No way I was giving up the country life to live in a crowded city. Some time with the radio really gives you a chance to unwind on the way home (I'd often catch an East Coast Mariners game in the summer) and you get a chance to catch up on the news in the morning.

Not everybody's cut out to be a city dweller.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
65. On the other hand, no way would I give up city life to have a long commute to the country
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:19 PM
Sep 2014

Different strokes for different folks.
As far as listening to the radio is concerned, I'm convinced that suburban guys listening to AM radio during their commutes (which may already be stressful) is one of the causes of the spread of extreme right-wing ideology.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
123. Perhaps
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:54 PM
Sep 2014

I used to listen to NPR. But, it takes all kinds of people to make the world, and I don't criticise peoples' lifestyle choices just because they are not what I would choose for myself.

RKP5637

(67,108 posts)
128. I used to travel cross-county and often all I could sometimes get in clear was
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 03:11 PM
Sep 2014

Rush Limbaugh, Michael Savage and the like or RW religious stations. I know exactly what you mean. It was mind-numbing.

phylny

(8,380 posts)
53. My commute to Manhattan, although on public transportation,
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:41 PM
Sep 2014

was 1.5 hours each way. My commute now is about 50 minutes each way. Of course, I get to live on a gorgeous lake where I want to live, so it's worth it to me.

haele

(12,652 posts)
68. They keep talking about an I-15 transit line, but for some reason never get it done.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:24 PM
Sep 2014

They need to run a new mixed HSR/Light Rail/Trolley line, with a HSR between Riverside/Corona/Lake Elsinore/Temecula/Escondido (there's a partial abandoned right-of-way between Corona and Lake Elsinore that can be expanded down to Escondido) and run either trolley or light rail lines between the multitude of Riverside, Corona, Lake Elsinore and Temecula subdivisions, and from Escondido and San Diego, catching all those sub-divisions in between. It can hook into the Green Line down at Qualcomm Stadium. Figure Escondido to the Q will probably take another half-hour/forty minutes with a few connecting stops along the way at Carmel Valley, Poway, and Mira Mesa.

Consider it's at least a three hour commute during rush hour from San Diego to Murrieta (I know someone living near there who comes in twice a week and teleworks the rest of the time; he leaves home at 0430 just to be able to make it into work by 0630, any later and he doesn't get in until 0830). I'm pretty sure that a four stop HSR that can make that run in 40 minutes or so with another half hour to 45 minutes on the connecting transit lines would get a lot of usage from people who work in but can't afford to live in the cities along that corridor.

Haele

ileus

(15,396 posts)
22. I used to be 8 miles from work, now I'm 24 miles...same drive time.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 09:39 AM
Sep 2014

I get off work I hit the interstate and I'm gone.


Just buy a good economy car.


The only problem is during "emergencies" or "events" then the distance can seem like an eternity.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
24. That is a long ass commute
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:00 AM
Sep 2014

It is about the same distance I commute here in Korea from my home to where I work. Monday morning is the worst. I actually applied at the campus closer to my home, but there were no openings and got offered a job at the other one. It takes me between 1 hour 10 minutes in the morning up to 1 hour and 30 minute. My commute home is not as bad as it is in the early afternoon averaging between 40-50 minutes. So I spend roughly 2 hours a day or 10 hours a week. Gas costs me $80 a week and road tolls cost me about $16.

I decided this weekend I'm going to start taking the inter-city bus on Mondays instead of driving due to the stress.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
27. Suburban sprawl is to blame for all of our ills as a society.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:22 AM
Sep 2014

Every place looks exactly like every other place. People have to live in thousands of square feet, with huge lots. Etc., etc.

Mass consumerism hell. And not sustainable at all. We are our own worst enemies. Ruining the planet so we can all own homes. We need sustainable development, not this bullshit.

Besides HOA's are evil. I'm not sure why anti-government wingnuts are so willing to pay someone to tell them what kind of grass they can plant.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
32. Well you have some good points
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:43 AM
Sep 2014

The only reason for suburban sprawl is that cities became to dangerous. I do live in a community with HOA. It is only 84 dollars a month, but I pay 2-years advance which is nice so I don't have to worry about it. I also have to go through a gate with security to get home which is nice too because it keeps the rift raft out of our community. Quality of life is a good thing for mind and body. It will keep you alive longer.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
35. You do know that to the residents of the next gated community up the road, *you* are "the riff raff"
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:58 AM
Sep 2014

Sprawl has created isolation, segregation, social stratification and paranoia.

I don't understand the appeal. I've never gone anyplace and thought "I'd like to be considered exactly like these people".

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
38. The people in those communities should consider me
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:06 AM
Sep 2014

Riff raff if I don't belong there. I do understand the isolation and other things, but to combat that we get together at least once a month for some sort of activity like a BBQ or softball game, ect.
The area you are 100 percent correct is that most communities look 100 percent the same. We have 5 sprawling gated communities along a 10 mile road and you better know which one you live in or you could go in the wrong one. Lol.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
67. The "danger" of cities is highly exaggerated
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:24 PM
Sep 2014

and having all the middle class people move out doesn't make them any safer.

Riding public transit a lot (especially during the ten years when I didn't have a car) has taught me that most people of any race or economic status are NOT dangerous.

Fortunately, many younger people are wising up and realizing that the vision of safety and country living offered by suburban developers is a huge con.

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
80. The "danger" of the projects that I grew up in were not exaggerated.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:54 PM
Sep 2014

I worked hard my whole life to get out and I can say that I'll never go back to city life.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
82. Cities are not made up entirely of "projects"
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:01 PM
Sep 2014

I've lived in various neighborhoods in three cities, never in the projects, although I was once fairly close to one of the "projects" in New Haven, Connecticut.

However, we had a multiracial neighborhood watch and sidewalk patrol, so any attempted attacks on residents prompted people to come pouring out onto the street. It's amazing how many thugs are utter cowards when faced with every adult on the block running outside.

A bigger problem was new student residents calling the cops on the middle-class African-American kids who were (OMG!) walking down the street! (on their way to and from school).

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
125. Well good for you.
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 02:55 PM
Sep 2014

My co-worker's son lives in a "nicer" area of a nearby city while he goes to college.

He was stabbed 6 times in the chest and back. He handed over his cash, all $16. He was then beat and stabbed for the pleasure. This is not an isolated incident. This type of thing does not happen where I live now. Yeah we have our crime, but nothing like what is found in a city.

I'm sorry, but I can never live in a city again. I enjoy the countryside and the quality of life it affords. I am done living inches from my neighbor, done having to listen to traffic and sirens at all hours of the evening. It's just not for me. I'd be miserable living in a city.

I do enjoy cities, but for me they are a place to visit, not live.

 

LawDeeDah

(1,596 posts)
97. Urban sprawl was the spawn of the oil companies in order to sell more gas.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:52 PM
Sep 2014

And once people left the city, thereafter came the bigger problems of inner city due to less taxes and general attention.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
102. At the beginning it was to have a small piece of land with a house on it
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:01 PM
Sep 2014

The American dream. No energy company was involved. It was all about land.

 

LawDeeDah

(1,596 posts)
103. I beg to differ. Oil companies and mall estates for big bucks.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:04 PM
Sep 2014

It is also a reason why good public transport is so sorely lacking.

$$$$ over all.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
105. Hey you are allowed to believe anything you want
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:07 PM
Sep 2014

And if that makes you happy, I am not going to take it away from you. Just continue happy thoughts of horrible oil company and be happy.

 

LawDeeDah

(1,596 posts)
108. Yes, I think (most) oil companies Are horrible and only think of profits.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:16 PM
Sep 2014

And have done and will do anything to increase those profits.



With Only $93 Billion in Profits, the Big Five Oil Companies Demand to Keep Tax Breaks
http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/green/news/2014/02/10/83879/with-only-93-billion-in-profits-the-big-five-oil-companies-demand-to-keep-tax-breaks/

$7 billion-a-year subsidies. That's fuggin evil. And they'd kill your grandmother(s) for a few dollars more. Google up Nigeria for a good bracing.

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
76. So we should all live in cities?
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:50 PM
Sep 2014

Personally I cannot do that. Urban life does has its charm and a certain appeal. However personally, I enjoy living in the burbs. I enjoy a back yard, the quiet, being able to see stars at night.

 

Travis_0004

(5,417 posts)
86. I would hate to live in the city
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:09 PM
Sep 2014

I live on 2 acres and would love to upgrade to about 10. My house is only about 1400 sq and last month I used about 150kwh of electricity so living away from the city can be green.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
129. Suburbia is unsustainable.
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 03:17 PM
Sep 2014

You're right.

But I don't expect your post to be well received. We all become upset when we're made cognizant of the fact that our very lifestyles are part of a grander problem.

If these suburbs were built with efficient mass-transit in mind, it may be a different story. But the very fact that people commute hours in each direction, burning fuel to transport one person at a time, highlights what is wrong with our culture.

ohnoyoudidnt

(1,858 posts)
28. Perhaps.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:23 AM
Sep 2014

If the job pays well enough that you can afford a $350K house. I thought a health insurance case worker would be able to do a good portion of their work from a home office, but whatever.

teenagebambam

(1,592 posts)
29. When I lived in DC
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:31 AM
Sep 2014

my 6-mile commute around the beltway took upwards of 1 hour most mornings.

Now I drive 30 miles, taking about 45 minutes, with hardly any traffic. I'll take the latter any day.

hunter

(38,311 posts)
33. When my wife and I met we were Los Angeles commuters.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:51 AM
Sep 2014

We left Los Angeles, and by some planning and good fortune we've avoided commuting since the mid 'eighties. We live in a smaller city. The big business here is agriculture.

I resent every second of my life I wasted in stop-and-go traffic on Los Angeles freeways. It was never a calm commute for me, surrounded by cranky, sleepy, aggressive, or distracted drivers. I couldn't just listen to my music and enjoy the ride.

Of course our kids and many of their friends were overjoyed to leave for colleges in the big city. Our youngest child is in Los Angeles.

Environmentally, automobile commuting is not sustainable. In the best case scenario suburbs will increase slightly in density and form their own small urban centers where people work, shop, and play. Automobiles will be less important and too expensive for most people anyways. In the worst case scenario these commuter suburbs will be abandoned, the water and power shut off, and the homes salvaged for copper and other materials in a very disorganized and dangerous manner.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
34. Work from home.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 10:54 AM
Sep 2014

Eliminate any commute, even mass-transit.

Most office jobs can be worked from home, or, if you must work in an office environment, go to a satellite office five minutes from your house. You could ride a small commuter bus or bike there.

Please, notice that I said office work. Yes, I do understand you can't tele-commute hands-on work. The majority of office work is done on a computer, and you can always conference call or video-call for meetings. I've worked with people that have done that and no one questioned it.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
111. That's great!
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:41 PM
Sep 2014


My work (drafting) is all done on a computer, yet I have never been offered a work from home opportunity. It seems only IT people get that "perk."

Most of the sentiment I've read against tele-work is from managers. Still stuck in the mindset of "If I can't see you in your cube working, then I can't trust you to be working anywhere else." Getting the actual work done and in a timely manner doesn't seem to be good enough...

Pisces

(5,599 posts)
36. What do you care if she is willing to make the drive? California is very unaffordable, maybe your
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:01 AM
Sep 2014

thread should address why she can't find affordable housing near her job. I think most people would love to work within
biking distance of their jobs. We are fortunate to live close to the job now, but when we were younger we drove to
wherever the job was, and sometimes that was an hour away each way.

Worry about yourself and not what others have to do to make ends meet.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
39. Apparently they are...someone just posted the top 10 Real Estate markets in the U.S. and....
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:09 AM
Sep 2014

Riverside CA market is in there.

Me personally...it's too far from the Ocean. But for a young couple starting out
it is a fully upgraded, large starter home and if they hold their value these owners
should profit enough when they sell to move nearer the Ocean.


Tikki

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
40. I've had hour-long commutes. It works for some people, not others.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:13 AM
Sep 2014

As a young parent, I liked them because it was the only time I had to myself.

librechik

(30,674 posts)
42. good lord! "Bargain" homes for $350,000?
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:17 AM
Sep 2014

I wish someone would start being serious about low income housing. This is s joke somebody is taking all the way to the bank.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
43. In California an hour drive is nothing.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:19 AM
Sep 2014

They can spend an hour driving a much shorter distance nearer the city.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
45. Personally, I have never been willing to commute
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 11:55 AM
Sep 2014

any distance. Maybe I'd do it if I could be riding the train and have that time essentially to myself, but to drive in big-city traffic? No thank you.

And while a 2,000 square foot home may be considered relatively modest, it's still quite large. And I guess I can tell I'm definitely on the poor end of the spectrum, because I've never spent as much as 200k on a home. Okay, so I've never lived in the very expensive places (well, we were in Boulder before that market took off) and so my sense of what I should pay is skewed. But my sense of what I can afford on my specific income isn't skewed, and there's no way I could afford whatever their mortgage cost is.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
46. The young couple shown can afford the home mortgage...and if no money difficulty...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 12:11 PM
Sep 2014

befalls them they could make a handsome profit if they ever sell.

To me it is about location and it sounds like the 'builders' are betting on the Murietta area to
hold it's value. It's possible. Areas away from the Coast in Orange County have held their own
and built strong equity.

But Riverside has had some failures in the past and that is why I believe the 'builders' know
something about that area's expansion and feel it will be positive.

I bet there are areas of Boulder you would never buy into, even if there were signs of
possible profit in the long run.


Tikki

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
121. When I lived there, no.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 09:54 PM
Sep 2014

I have no idea what it's like today, but we were there 1988-1990, and if there was a genuinely undesirable neighborhood I wasn't aware of it. Okay, so I might not have wanted to live too close to the CU campus, but that's an issue of college student behavior, not overall desirability.

Recently I went to Zillow and saw that the home we used to own most recently sold for a little more than six times the price we paid and sold it for. We were there such a short time we were lucky to break even. One reason home prices went up so much there was that a lot of people moved their from California and simply bid prices up.

Warpy

(111,255 posts)
114. Commuting is one of the first things I look at
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 05:00 PM
Sep 2014

I didn't mind commuting all over the city when I lived in Boston and worked agency jobs, but that's because I could read or knit on the subway.

Here in NM I live in a lousy area with a very short commute to my last job. My lousy area is convenient to everything and has bus service a block away for when I get too old to drive. Most things are within walking distance, anyway.

The last place I ever wanted to live is in a trophy house in a bedroom community, meaning the area is deserted during the day and at night people stuff dinner into their mouths, watch TV for an hour, and fall comatose into bed. When there is a little free time on the weekends between phone calls from work, people who live there are slaves to house and yard work. Phooey.

 

WinkyDink

(51,311 posts)
50. There's no way that kitchen is in a 2000 sq. ft. house. I have a larger house and smaller kitchen.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:36 PM
Sep 2014

Unless there is no formal dining room or that's a tiny "family room" far left back.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
55. Not sure if this is their plan, but here is a Murietta plan in the same price range/sqft
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:51 PM
Sep 2014

same development and by the same builder.
?ptw=430&pth=500

I can't tell if every thing is all in the correct places based on your assessment but they sure seem happy in the photo.

Tikki

TeeYiYi

(8,028 posts)
74. The OP says "four bedrooms"...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:47 PM
Sep 2014

I'm only seeing three bedrooms in your layout; not that it matters. That picture in the OP looks like a self-made prison.

TYY

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
83. Here's a photo of Murietta area, looks OK by me, but I prefer to live close to the Pacific Ocean..
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:03 PM
Sep 2014



Tikki
The plan I posted was for the home in the low $300,000 the add said.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
98. They probably don't have separate dining room
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:53 PM
Sep 2014

or a family room at all. Lots of houses save space by having one large living/family room rather than two separate rooms.

 

grahamhgreen

(15,741 posts)
56. 2 hrs/day = 10 hrs/week = 40 hrs/month = 1 week/extra 'work' per month =
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:57 PM
Sep 2014

12 weeks of unpaid work per year.... Effectively 3 months of work that your not getting paid for, so, in a sense, your cutting your pay by 25%, + $4,800/year in gas.

indie9197

(509 posts)
57. You can't buy a nice condo in Escondido or Temecula for that money?
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 01:59 PM
Sep 2014

Idk anymore. Moved away from Oceanside many years ago but I sure as hell wouldnt live in Riverside county and work in Mission Valley.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
59. I can walk to work
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:06 PM
Sep 2014

It affords me an extra two hours a day to enjoy my life. If I had to spend it driving, I would not be fully satisfied. To each his own, but that would definitely not be for me.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
60. A 65 mile commute is not unusual in Southern California
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:12 PM
Sep 2014

but to leave a coastal residence to move inland to a county that is insufferably hot in the summer and cold in the winter is not worth it. remember you do have to spend your time off and weekends there.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
63. No, one thing I learned living in Japan is that your happiness
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:14 PM
Sep 2014

is independent of the size or luxuriousness of your dwelling as long as you have the basics covered.

Commuting 130 miles a day by car would make me far more miserable than having a McMansion would make me happy.

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
66. Not unless there's a commuter train and/or I can e-commute most days.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:21 PM
Sep 2014

If I have to drive it? Not a chance. Too much in the way of resources for too little gain.

I would, frankly, rather have an 800 square foot apartment, well laid out, where driving isn't an issue....I can walk or bike everywhere or take transit ..than spend time and money on granite countertops, gas stoves, heating and cooling, landscaping (no vegetable gardens, no clotheslines), and gas for a commute. I don't think we have the resources to waste on this kind of living.





drray23

(7,627 posts)
71. already what we do.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:32 PM
Sep 2014

We have land and a nice victorian farmhouse we renovated. 50 miles commute to work for me, 20 for my wife.
Given that we pay half of what a similar house would cost, have no hoa fees, no annoying neighbours to deal with and low real estate taxes its a no brainer.

My commute is all country roads with no traffic. Some of my friends living in the hampton roads area take that long to go over the tunnels and such in traffic.

My car does 35 mpg . Even with car costs i am way ahead.

Glassunion

(10,201 posts)
72. I currently commute an hour each way.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:35 PM
Sep 2014

I'd agree with the comment in the article. By the time I get home, that "me" time is perfect to wash the day away.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
73. I grew up with a father who commuted that far. Here in Houston, most people live at LEAST
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 02:36 PM
Sep 2014

30 miles from jobs in downtown Houston. The fact that this is a question shows that we have become kind of a nation of impatients.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
112. And, Houston has multiple "downtowns."
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:51 PM
Sep 2014

There's the main one with the skyline, there's the Galleria, Texas Medical Center, the Katy area, NASA in the south-east, and all of the petro-chem plants on the east side. All are major office and labor centers, and so, why the freeways keep getting bigger and more tollways built.

And then you have those that insist on living in the "exurbs" so that they have have a sense of living in the country while they travel 120 miles one-way (yes, I've met engineers and managers that do that!) That distance was probably more, though. Because all they said was that they drove two-hours each way, usually at no less than 80 mph when the traffic permitted, such as well outside of the city limits.

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
85. it's not the distance, it's the drive time. I drivevan hour to work -15 miles
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:08 PM
Sep 2014

If the San Diego to riverside drive is an hour. That's acceptable to most in Los Angeles

YvonneCa

(10,117 posts)
118. FWIW, the drive time is an hour when there is...
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 08:17 PM
Sep 2014

...no traffic (think weekends). On rainy mornings or afternoon rush hours it can take 2 to 3 hours.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
89. For 6 + years, I commuted about 65 miles. It was miserable, especially in the winter in the dark.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:14 PM
Sep 2014

The job paid well and I liked it but the commute really ground me down.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
94. Sure why not. It is fine for some people.
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:46 PM
Sep 2014

I have been commuting an average of that far for 20 years. I work in the city. I like living in the country.

It works for me, and I have a home that pleases me at a price I could easily afford. I need cows and horses and frogs and stuff like that around my home. Also, I have yet to find a job nearly as suitable for me as the one I have now. No desire to change employers.

Other people who hate commuting might not be up for it, but to each his own.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
101. Before I retired, I had a 30 mile commute
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 03:59 PM
Sep 2014

The 5 miles nearest my work was in town the rest through farmland and gently rolling hillside pastures. The drive was mostly over lightly traveled county roads, very relaxing. I could plan my day on the way to work and decompress on the drive home. Took me 35-40 minutes door to door and some days I hardly passed any cars once I got out of town. Of course I went through cars pretty fast, but at least gas was way cheap in those days.

But 65 mile commute on SoCal freeways? Forget it.

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
110. My commute is about an hour each way
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 04:35 PM
Sep 2014

I have a 15 acre hobby farm and work in the city. I work 32 hours a week but do 2 16 hour shifts and crash at a co workers house to sleep. So I make the round trip once a week.

demosincebirth

(12,536 posts)
115. I know some who comute more than that, from the central valley to the Bay Area. No big deal here
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 07:34 PM
Sep 2014

around the booming bay.

AZ Progressive

(3,411 posts)
119. BTW, a frame of reference for 65 miles:
Sat Sep 20, 2014, 08:30 PM
Sep 2014

A bit of a shorter distance from Sacramento to San Francisco

Twice the distance from Chicago to Gary, IN

New York City to Bridgeport, CT or New York City to Trenton, NJ

Double the distance between Fort Worth, TX and Dallas, TX.

And in the Los Angeles area, more than double the distance between Los Angeles downtown and Long Beach.

Silent3

(15,210 posts)
124. "...and the average car getting about 23 miles per gallon..."
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 12:05 AM
Sep 2014

That's just an aside comment in the OP article, but to me it's at least as shocking as San Diego housing prices.

I was disgusted when I went shopping for a hybrid a few months ago. I could clearly see, walking through the dealership parking lots, that what was really being pushed hardest were the rows and rows of 16-18 MPG trucks and SUVs.

It's bad enough that people have to waste so many hours every week commuting for affordable housing, when you add all that expense for gas, the terrible fuel efficiency of many of the vehicles being used, and all that CO₂, it's appalling.

I'm thrilled to not only have a hybrid now, but a plug-in hybrid. I've gone over nine weeks, and around 2100 miles, since my last fill up, and still have a bit more than a quarter tank left. That shouldn't be remarkable. We need that to be commonplace. Even with high New England electric rates, distance covered by electrical charging costs me only about 60% of buying gas, and given the mix of power sources around here, has a much lower carbon footprint.

RedCappedBandit

(5,514 posts)
126. I'd want to blow my brains out if I had to drive that far.
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 03:04 PM
Sep 2014

An hour-ish commute on a train or bus is one thing. You can get work done, nap, listen to music, have a snack.. but driving? Hell no. Never.

liberal N proud

(60,334 posts)
127. I guess you could enjoy it on the weekends
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 03:07 PM
Sep 2014

I know a lot of people who live in rural America who have driven 50 miles every day for years. My wife did when we were first married (30 years ago). She did it because the company she worked for was opening a location in 2 years where when were living.

2 hours a day sitting in the car.


mb999

(89 posts)
138. America in general needs a new transportation and urban development policy
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 05:09 PM
Sep 2014

This type exurban sprawl featured in the original post is stupid. What are they going to do when gas goes up to $5 and the commute becomes too expensive? It's going to lead to another exurban housing market crash.

dembotoz

(16,802 posts)
133. If you new job is 65 miles away you commute 65 miles
Sun Sep 21, 2014, 04:14 PM
Sep 2014

jobs in your home community just do not exist for some of us

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