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Laxman

(2,419 posts)
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 10:42 AM Sep 2014

The Suburban Sociopath....

or maybe "The Psycho of Mendham" would be good monikers for this dangerous man. From the very first time he looked into a camera with his adoring wife and baby next to him and lied about his opponents in the Morris County Freeholder race to his horrific abuses as U.S. Attorney to lying to the press about the failed Race to the Top application to his "pick which story works best" press conferences about Bridgegate and everything in between and since. He's not just a bad person, there is something wrong with this guy and he's continuing to press on towards the White House. He'll do anything, say anything, hurt anyone to get ahead, step on anybody in his way and bully his path forward. He needs to be contained while his only damage is to our fair state. I'm no psychiatrist, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night (that's a lie) and I think it's pretty clear that this man is a sociopath.

I'm mindful of the element that jumping to a conclusion like this is like the officers in the Cain Mutiny diagnosing Captain Queeg but the pattern of behavior is frightening. Reading Louis Manzo's book Ruthless Ambition: The Rise and Fall of Chris Christie not only confirmed many of the things we may have believed or suspected about Christie, but showed his depravity to be far more extensive than was already apparent. I may be a tad obsessive about this but there are 117 items and counting in the Christie Crime Digest that say this man and his crew of equally amoral sycophants that enable his ambitions should be feared and held to account for their actions.

The Sociopathy of Chris Christie

The ability to disconnect from the truth and create one's own reality is an effective tactic for career advancement in the U.S. attorney's office. The "crimes" alleged by federal prosecutors need not necessarily bear a particularly strong semblance to the actual fact pattern, for more important than what actually transpired is the prosecutor's version of what occurred. Embellishment, prevarication and outright deception have long proven to be powerful prosecutorial tools. Christie's tenure as U.S. attorney was served well by these methods, allowing him to rack up a superficially impressive record as a crime fighting federal prosecutor. Serving as the chief federal prosecutor for the district, with near limitless discretionary power, likely fed into his despotic/authoritarian tendencies which are often exhibited by sociopaths.

While all sociopaths lie, falsifying and misrepresenting does not necessarily make one sociopathic. Lying is often recognized as being sociopathic when those asserting the lies allow their fabrications to become their own reality. A sociopath often cunningly lies in order to gain or achieve something. In Christie's case, the over-arching goal was career advancement. The rules in federal court, grossly stacked in favor of the government, allow federal prosecutors to routinely replace actual facts with their more self-serving version of events. In short, insistence upon creating their own reality and ignoring inconvenient facts is rewarded with their subjective reality displacing the real one, at least as far as the relevant legal proceedings are concerned. So it should come as no surprise that Christie continues to deny any wrongdoing, even in the face of mounting evidence to the contrary. It is a strategy that has served him well in the past. Nevertheless, continuing to lie despite a growing body of contradictory facts reveals a significant element of Christie's sociopathy. In many ways, this chronic mendacity is precisely what one would expect.

Christie's blossoming feud with former appointee David Wildstein allows further insight into Christie's pathology. Given that retaliating for perceived slights and subsequently upping the ante is another hallmark of sociopathy, Christie's actions in regard to Wildstein's perceived perfidy are practically textbook. Christie, at his January 9, 2014 press conference, took to insulting Wildstein and claiming he was something akin to a passing acquaintance. This despite the fact that they attended high school together and have been associated professionally for many years. Ready for the pointing out of this inconvenient fact, Christie explained that while they were indeed at same high school, they were on disparate trajectories.


Read the rest here: http://www.opednews.com/articles/The-Sociopathy-of-Chris-Ch-by-Barry-Sussman-Chris-Christie_Chris-Christie_Prosecution_Scandal-140208-879.html

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The Suburban Sociopath.... (Original Post) Laxman Sep 2014 OP
How's this list of character traits? Beach Rat Sep 2014 #1
Sounds like the administrators and managers where I work now! KansDem Sep 2014 #8
omg Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #10
You're No More To Them.... Laxman Sep 2014 #11
very accurate descriptors of the nj gov. locdlib Sep 2014 #2
In many ways, he truly frightens me in ways the other GOP hopefuls don't. ColesCountyDem Sep 2014 #3
I Try Not To Let Fear.... Laxman Sep 2014 #4
Exactly! ColesCountyDem Sep 2014 #5
Thanks, Laxman! Recommended. nt pnwmom Sep 2014 #6
did someone give you 1dogleft Sep 2014 #7
Are You Here To Defend Christie.... Laxman Sep 2014 #9
Great post malaise Sep 2014 #12

Beach Rat

(273 posts)
1. How's this list of character traits?
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 11:52 AM
Sep 2014

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Sociopaths

1. Seem charming, be an asshole - Be nice at first, but once you get what you want out of someone, you can stop pretending that you care. Don't be ashamed of being an asshole; own the title. Wear it with pride, and derive sheer delight from it.

2. Be feared, not liked - People think nothing of letting down someone they like, but no sane person will let down someone they fear. At all times, be looking for ways in which you can let those around you know that you could ruin them if you chose.

3. Slander - In this fast-paced world, no one has time to fact-check. Do not hesitate to destroy someone's reputation through exaggeration and lies. The most effective attack is to accuse someone of unethical behavior you are guilty of yourself, as this provides pre-emptive cover from accusations against you (people trust the one who accuses first).

4. Think Win-Lose - It is not enough for you to simply win; others must also lose. Part of the fun of stepping on people to get to the top is that not only are you climbing higher, you are holding others down. Look for ways to pit worthy adversaries against each other, never share credit for a success, and blame others for any failure you encounter.

5. Humiliate - Once someone is down, make sure you break their spirit. If they decide to give up entirely, that's one less opponent you'll ever have to face, and if they kill themselves, your morning commute will be that much shorter with one less on the road.

6. Snub - If you don't like someone, and they refuse to stay defeated, ignore their very existence. Don't talk to them, don't make eye contact with them, and whatever you do, never tell them what you're doing or why.

7. Grind your axe - Never forget those who stood in your way. A list is often helpful here. Once you're on top, waste no time in crushing those who tried to stop you. Do not show them the mercy of hesitation.

I got this from here-http://thecontributor.com/chris-christie-sociopath This seems to be a fairly accurate description of the guy. It's probably a few disgusting items short.

KansDem

(28,498 posts)
8. Sounds like the administrators and managers where I work now!
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 01:30 PM
Sep 2014

I'll never forget this experience: in 2003 I suffered a heart attack. I went to my doctor to see about an upper chest pain--I thought I had "upper respiratory infection (Rule 1--don't self-diagnose!)--and he had me undergo an EKG. A couple minutes later he informed me I was having a heart attack. Who knew? Just two days before I attended an anti-Bush rally with my "upper respiratory infection."

Anyway, he summoned the paramedics who picked me up at his office (on stretcher) and whisked me off to the hospital. I was in the hospital for a week and home rest--medical leave--for four more weeks. Other than speaking with the human resources officer to arrange my medical leave, not a single person from where I worked called to ask how I was doing--not a singe one.

During my hospital stay and my time at home and even when I returned to work, not one person in the upper echelons of administration asked me how I was doing. There was one chance encounter with a low-level supervisor who asked me how I was doing. We bumped into each other in the hallway. But other than that one encounter, not one person in administration; not one person in management; NOT EVEN MY SUPERVISOR!!!. And I was a full-time "professional."

I mean, how much effort would it have taken to call me? 3-5 minutes? Just a "Hello, KansDem, how's it going? How are you feeling? If there's anything we can do, let us know!" That would have made all the difference in the world!

That experience left me with the sourest of tastes in my mouth. I'd be out of there in a heartbeat (no pun intended) if I could find another job. I've been looking off and on for several years and have applied to many openings, but no luck.

But I hope to be gone in 2-3 years with a modest pension and early Social Security and perhaps Medicare. But when I leave--just as soon as I clear my desk and computer and sign the necessary paperwork for my retirement--I'm out of there, and on my way out the door, I'm telling a few "administrators and managers" to FUCK OFF!!!

Laxman

(2,419 posts)
11. You're No More To Them....
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 05:40 PM
Sep 2014

than a machine part that's wearing out. They'll just go out and get a new you. You nailed it though, that's how you make it into upper management these days-be ruthless, self-absorbed and unfeeling. What a fulfilling life that must be. They'll be astonished when some amoral young gun comes along and has them replaced someday as the soulless cycle continues.

Sorry they treated you that way. I hope you're better. Just keep living like a decent human being because in the end, whatever they may have acquired through their behavior will never make up for what you have that they can't understand. (that's pretty philosophical for DU, but I think it's true)

locdlib

(176 posts)
2. very accurate descriptors of the nj gov.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:14 PM
Sep 2014

in fact, they accurately describe the gop/tea party as a whole.

ColesCountyDem

(6,943 posts)
3. In many ways, he truly frightens me in ways the other GOP hopefuls don't.
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:24 PM
Sep 2014

The article articulates many of my fears about him extremely well.

Laxman

(2,419 posts)
4. I Try Not To Let Fear....
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:35 PM
Sep 2014

drive my reactions but this is a guy who should elicit a great deal of trepidation and yes-fear. He's ruthless, he's a seasoned and practiced liar and he has the backing of very powerful people who know how to use him. Add in that the press is intimidated and cowed by him and he has free rein to pursue his goals and leave destruction in his wake. People like Manzo who essentially have nothing left to lose are the only ones willing to really take him head on.

ColesCountyDem

(6,943 posts)
5. Exactly!
Sat Sep 27, 2014, 12:38 PM
Sep 2014

I'm not a fearful person, and I try to use both facts and logic to govern my actions and my thinking, but Christie just gives me 'the willies'.

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