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madmom

(9,681 posts)
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:22 PM Nov 2014

Is it permissible to give a thank you gift to a

home health nurse? My daughter had medical problems requiring home nurse visits and they are about to come to an end. Is it permissible to give her a home made thank you gift? I was thinking a crocheted hat/scarf set. Thanks in advance.

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Is it permissible to give a thank you gift to a (Original Post) madmom Nov 2014 OP
Sure. HERVEPA Nov 2014 #1
Oh, most definitely! ScreamingMeemie Nov 2014 #2
I don't see why not. demmiblue Nov 2014 #3
I always gave gifts to my daughters care givers. They will tell you if they are not supposed to take jwirr Nov 2014 #4
I think yes, but foods can be a problem...don't do a fruitcake HereSince1628 Nov 2014 #5
Oh my yes. You made me think of my mother... lamp_shade Nov 2014 #6
Yes, most definitely hand made! ;) madmom Nov 2014 #10
I think so shenmue Nov 2014 #7
That sounds perfect ... etherealtruth Nov 2014 #8
I don't see why not... Kalidurga Nov 2014 #9
Of course. You can even do cash Xmas envelopes although the agency will have a fit Warpy Nov 2014 #11
A small home made gift would be nice and is acceptable. uppityperson Nov 2014 #12
I think that's a very sweet idea. KMOD Nov 2014 #13

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
2. Oh, most definitely!
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:24 PM
Nov 2014

What a wonderful idea. We gave the home nurse for my grandmother a gift card to Kohl's.

demmiblue

(36,810 posts)
3. I don't see why not.
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:26 PM
Nov 2014

I think it would be a very nice gesture to show your appreciation this way... nurses are often under-appreciated, imo.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
4. I always gave gifts to my daughters care givers. They will tell you if they are not supposed to take
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:29 PM
Nov 2014

them. Your suggestion is wonderful.

lamp_shade

(14,813 posts)
6. Oh my yes. You made me think of my mother...
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:38 PM
Nov 2014

She had 2 or 3 health care workers during the last couple of years before she died (7 yrs ago).
She gave them things from her house that they admired... a wind chime, a sun-catcher, even a hummingbird feeder. So sweet.
I think what you have in mind would also be very sweet (Can I assume hand-made?).

etherealtruth

(22,165 posts)
8. That sounds perfect ...
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:39 PM
Nov 2014

I was a visiting nurse (for a hospice) in my first career. While it would be inappropriate to accept gifts with "high monetary value" ... a handmade gift (often viewed as priceless) would be perfect and probably very appreciated!

I was always deeply touched when someone would take the time to do something like that for me!

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
9. I don't see why not...
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:40 PM
Nov 2014

The world would be a better place if we were all raised to think in terms of what we can give, but it's okay to take if we need to.

Warpy

(111,109 posts)
11. Of course. You can even do cash Xmas envelopes although the agency will have a fit
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:44 PM
Nov 2014

if they ever find out.

I wish I'd been able to contact all the people who cared for my mother. They all deserved medals along with gifts.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
12. A small home made gift would be nice and is acceptable.
Tue Nov 4, 2014, 07:54 PM
Nov 2014

money is not but something like that would be really nice.

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