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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy Father~ He slipped quietly away from me this morning
[url=http://postimg.org/image/padbgestp/][img][/img][/url] 1922~2014
Not a perfect man, yet he was my father and I loved him. He passed away in his sleep early this morning. We knew it was almost time. All day yesterday family, that were well enough, arrived to sit with him. I had four hours alone with my dad. I held his hand and said goodbye as I looked out the window, watching the sun shine through the brilliant autumn leaves. None of us knew, he would die hours after the last one of us left.
In the last year he never knew my sister or me. He had reached the final stage of Alzheimer's disease. He never knew me, yet I know he loved me.
Omaha Steve posted this Op for me almost thirty days to the day of my Fathers passing. It was so very kind of him. There is a video at the link of Glen Campbell, his final ballad is called Im Not Gonna Miss You. Glen Cambell is reaching the finale stages of Alzheimer's Disease.
http://betterment.democraticunderground.com/1017220580#top
Here are the words~
http://www.metrolyrics.com/im-not-gonna-miss-you-lyrics-glen-campbell.html
I'm still here, but yet I'm gone
I don't play guitar or sing my songs
They never defined who I am
The man that loves you 'til the end
You're the last person I will love
You're the last face I will recall
And best of all, I'm not gonna to miss you.
Not gonna miss you.
I'm never gonna hold you like I did
Or say I love you to the kids
You're never gonna see it in my eyes
It's not gonna hurt me when you cry
I'm never gonna know what you go through
All the things I say or do
All the hurt and all the pain
One thing selfishly remains
I'm not gonna miss you
I'm not gonna miss you
It's is a cruel disease. You sit there and watch the light slowly fade away and the memories turn to dust. Tears~
Someone suggested that I write down one memory so that I don't forget, so I will do it here then print it. I was my dads baby girl and a tomboy to boot~ He had a trucking company and would take me along with him. He would lift me up high and put me in the cab of the truck with this huge window spread before me and I could see the whole wide world. It was just my dad and me, on top of the world and laughing out loud, we could be anything. I was about 5 at the time. Yes that is my fondest memory by far~
SidDithers
(44,228 posts)Sid
JustAnotherGen
(31,780 posts)A very sad hug -
ETA - and from my husband. He reads and has an account but doesn't post. You are such a ray of light.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Thanks to you both.
I posted that memory here JAG. Thank you~
steve2470
(37,457 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)My thoughts are with you.
Spazito
(50,141 posts)so I can only offer you a heartfelt
spooky3
(34,402 posts)He will always be in your heart.
elleng
(130,714 posts)but glad it happened as it did.
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)Thanks for a beautiful memorial to a wonderful father.
p.s. I lost my mom last summer and attended a memorial service yesterday. It's good to remember.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)To you mom~ May she rest in peace.
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)I was going to say the pain never goes away but you know what? It does. But the memories stay for ever, and they are all good.
p.s. but when it happens it really hurts and there's no getting past it.
shraby
(21,946 posts)it, but the whole family.
My deepest condolences.
myrna minx
(22,772 posts)My heart is with you and yours.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)Vinca
(50,236 posts)Liberal Jesus Freak
(1,451 posts)My heart breaks for you and all victims of this awful disease
bravenak
(34,648 posts)I will be thinking about you and hoping for strength for you.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)I love you~
bravenak
(34,648 posts)uppityperson
(115,677 posts)sheshe2
(83,637 posts)My heart goes out to you and yours.
kelliekat44
(7,759 posts)CherokeeDem
(3,709 posts)Condolences to you and all who loved him. May you find peace in his memory.
glinda
(14,807 posts)Triana
(22,666 posts)I wish you and your family peace at this difficult time.
babylonsister
(171,031 posts)cordelia
(2,174 posts)Peacetrain
(22,872 posts)My father had Alzheimers also... I am so so so sorry..
jillan
(39,451 posts)These words gave me strength when my mother passed...
One day you wake up and remember that your loved one didn't just die, that they also lived.
May the memories of their life soon fill the sadness you are feeling now.
LawDeeDah
(1,596 posts)but sure not a pushover!
I am so sorry for your heartache. Your dad brought up a wonderful person.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Thank you LawDeeDah.
longship
(40,416 posts)It is burning bright.
Take care, my friend.
napkinz
(17,199 posts){{{{sheshe}}}}
TexasProgresive
(12,154 posts)I am sorry for your loss, but so glad that you felt his love for you even when he didn't remember.
The other day I bought a used cd that Chet Atkins produced. This song was on it and even though Chet's Dad and mine weren't the same it made me cry in the car - after 10 years.
It may do the same for you but it is really good to feel.
Jefferson23
(30,099 posts)Sissyk
(12,665 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)cry baby
(6,682 posts)Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)There's not much else to say. The way he went does not negate all that he was, though.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)Peace to you.
bvf
(6,604 posts)No one can know your grief. I can only say my thoughts are with you on your father's passing.
R.I.P.
japple
(9,805 posts)baby girl. May you find peace in your memories of him.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)on your loss.
treestar
(82,383 posts)kentuck
(111,051 posts)It's good that you have fond memories.
malaise
(268,676 posts)What a lovely memory.
I'm expecting the same for dad's only remaining sister any day now. She doesn't know recognize anyone. She's 96.
WilliamPitt
(58,179 posts)My heart is with yours tonight. I'm so, so sorry.
Omaha Steve
(99,490 posts)But it was cancer that killed her.
I think dad had a form and was never diagnosed.
I understand we might not see you much for a few days. Take all the time you need. We will always be here for you.
Your friends at the DU.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Was an incredibly kind thing to do, bless your heart. I had to add it here, Steve. It fit so well.
Bless you and yours, Steve. So sorry about your parents as well.
calimary
(81,091 posts)although it was diabetes and cancer that killed her. She just wasn't there anymore. It was so sad. Sweet woman. Didn't deserve that.
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)and there is a void that doesn't ever seem to get satisfactorily filled. But it does seem like the sweetness of those living have made a contribution to that open space. I am so sorry, and while I don't know you personally if there was any advice I could give it's letting others in...it helps.
Hugs.
nc4bo
(17,651 posts)mercuryblues
(14,521 posts)of your loss. I hope you find comfort in your fond memories of him and strength from your family.
Hugs to you.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)KMOD
(7,906 posts)I like to believe, that in the end stage of Alzheimer's, they still feel that the people with them, love them. And because they know you love them, deep down, they know they know you, but they just can't process how.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Glimmer of Hope
(5,823 posts)calimary
(81,091 posts)So sorry to hear this. It's NEVER easy, even when you expect it and are braced for it. Both my parents had long, lingering illnesses. My sweet dear mother-in-law too. Even when I thought I was fully prepared emotionally, when it actually happens it's STILL a jolt.
I am glad you're willing to share a most difficult moment in your life with us here at DU. I will never forget the love, comfort, sympathy, empathy, and support that heaped upon me at that time. I'll NEVER forget that. There were even some beautiful souls who PM'd me offering their phone numbers and emails. I never did take anyone up on that but it does NOT mean I didn't appreciate it tremendously deeply.
Maybe I post this stuff in others' bereavement threads in some sort of unconscious hope that those who reached out to me, either openly or privately or both - will know how much their incredibly kind efforts meant to me.
Dear God but I love DU! You guys have gotten me through death, destruction, and despairing times! I'm posting this via my cell phone so I don't know how to navigate as well. If I did, this post of mine would be full of hearts.
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)sheshe2
(83,637 posts)I thank you ColesCounty. It was beautiful~
Peace
ColesCountyDem
(6,943 posts)MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)My dad died of cancer 4 years ago, but he had had Alzheimer's for a long time.
brer cat
(24,522 posts)I hope that your fond memories will bring you comfort. At least you know that your father is at peace now and free from the torment of that horrible disease.
MerryBlooms
(11,756 posts)I agree, it's a terribly cruel disease. We lost my husband's father to it three years ago, and it was absolutely heartbreaking, even from a distance.
MissDeeds
(7,499 posts)My mom died October 1 of this year from a series of strokes and Alzheimer's. It's an awful disease, and I am so sorry that you, your dad, and your family had to endure it.
Sending healing thoughts of peace and strength...
hue
(4,949 posts)The love surely endures! May You feel His love when You need it the most & even when it surprises You for apparently no reason.
irisblue
(32,918 posts)FailureToCommunicate
(14,006 posts)must hold on to them all the tighter.
SoapBox
(18,791 posts)I am very sorry to hear of about your dad.
Mom currently lives with us...she was born in 1921. In her case, the brain is really good but the body and vision have passed their Best If Used By date.
I love your memory...it sounds like a good one to look back on.
dorkzilla
(5,141 posts)My dearest sheshe,
I've always felt you were a kindred spirit but your relationship with your dad and the girly-tomboy you were are spot-on me and my Dad. He owned a meat company and i would go on his truck with him...so many of my happy memories were just of me and my dad, taking long rides while he asked me questions to provoke the silliest and most insanely creative answers. He was endlessly amused by the on-the-spot creation of my knock-knock jokes. None of them made sense of course, but he made me feel like i was smart and funny. And he still does.
My heart is breaking for you.
My dad, my REAL dad, is to this day my best bud, the person I can talk politics with and not get into an argument, the person I can share my humor with and get a laugh, share my newest musical acquisitions with and he'll tap his foot...I am totally my father's daughter and a daddy's girl even as I quickly approach my 50th year; even the thought of him gone makes me weep with the sorrow of that little 5 year old.
I am holding a place for you in my heart and my thoughts tonight, dear sheshe.
xoxo
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)mazzarro
(3,450 posts)FLyellowdog
(4,276 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)it with my Dad.
bearssoapbox
(1,408 posts)But I am happy that you have those good memories.
May your Dad RIP.
Take Care.
UglyGreed
(7,661 posts)loss I wish I could ease your pain.
albino65
(484 posts)madokie
(51,076 posts)I still miss my dad after nearly 30 years.
My best memories were when he'd come to the shop while I'd be working on whatever and hang with me, never telling me what to do but be using a guiding hand nevertheless.
We spent many hours with me working on my Cushman scooter and when he'd see I was stumped he'd say something like maybe if you'd look at it from this side it will be clearer or some such. The lesson as I look back was to look at all things from different perspectives to get a better understanding of what it is you're faced with.
classof56
(5,376 posts)They are evidence of what a good father he was, and how fortunate you were to have him in your life. Been over 20 years since my Dad left us, and I know now I'll never stop missing him, or my Mom who left 11 years ago. They live on in my heart.
Blessings from a fellow "Okie".
City Lights
(25,171 posts)May you find peace...
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)He must have been a good man. You are so kind to people here, and it's appreciated.
Johnny Noshoes
(1,977 posts)adirondacker
(2,921 posts)Grieve, but keep those fond memories alive!
Whiskeytide
(4,459 posts)... the death of one of your parents sucks. It just sucks. But I suppose it's supposed to. It means you cared. Glad you got to be with him near the end.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)freshwest
(53,661 posts)Remembering you like that gif... OXOXO from me and mine...
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)I had no one here today as you know. I worked for hours today trying to print that picture, my new computer was not recognizing my printer. I was frustrated and angry and on a mission to get it done. I finally did it, my dad is here.
Love you freshwest, thank you for the hearts from you and yours.
Andy823
(11,495 posts)I know how hard it is to watch them fade away not knowing who you are. My mother often mistook me for her younger brother, and then she just got to the point that she didn't acknowledge anyone was around when we voted her.
I sm so sorry for you loss.
livetohike
(22,119 posts)Father. May all the good memories you have of his life live in your heart and bring you comfort and peace .
villager
(26,001 posts)Lost my dad a year ago this past fall.
He had been withering for a couple years, but at least -- except for an occasional interesting "visitation" or two -- he knew who we were, and who he was.
I can only imagine how much harder this must have been.
Your memory reminds of me a little girl I saw in the cab of her dad's truck -- I'm guessing -- a few months ago. It was a school holiday, and the truck was parked near a local Target, making a run of some sort from Central California. I often wondered what that "day away with dad" was like for her.
Your recollection has given me a clue...
classof56
(5,376 posts)When my Dad died over 20 years ago, I was struggling to hold myself together, uplift my Mom and others, and do what needed to be done. I refused to cry, but my folks' pastor finally said, "Let yourself cry--it's really okay. Your father is worthy of your tears." And I could at last let go. Through the years, I've recalled those words and advised those I know who are dealing with profound loss that their loved one is worthy of their tears. I also have a poem to share, one that was posted by a fellow DUer and which really resonated with me:
Ascension
And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
--behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
--both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there.
- Colleen Hitchcock
Blessings, sheshe--and many hugs.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)classof56
(5,376 posts)I love that you wrote a story based on the poem. I'd love to read it, if that would be possible. As a writer, I always enjoy others' stories, and I'm sure yours would be very meaningful to me. Let me know and again, thanks.
freshwest
(53,661 posts)Pretty busy right about now with so much offline. Hope all is well with you.
classof56
(5,376 posts)I was just watching the Weather Channel and saw the report of power outages up in Western WA, which could be why you're offline? We're okay so far over here in Central OR, with blue skies and sunshine, and chilly temps. Winter Storm warnings are out, though, so we're getting prepared.
Stay warm and safe!
freshwest
(53,661 posts)sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Ascension
And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
--behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
--both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there.
- Colleen Hitchcock
gademocrat7
(10,643 posts)madamvlb
(495 posts)pacalo
(24,721 posts)Alzheimer's is a very cruel disease & its effects only get worse as it progresses.
KT2000
(20,567 posts)what a sweet memory - and there will be more.
Please accept my condolences.
Cal Carpenter
(4,959 posts)I'm losing my mother to this now. It is so rough.
Bossy Monkey
(15,863 posts)MineralMan
(146,254 posts)With both of my parents at 90 years of age, every time the phone rings, I cringe. One day it will be the call I dread.
Skidmore
(37,364 posts)Treasure the memories he lost in life and hold them as his legacy to you. Much love to you, my friend.
DeadLetterOffice
(1,352 posts)My father died earlier this year -- like yours, not a perfect man but I loved him anyway.
It's gonna be rough. Don't buy into anyone who says you have to 'be strong.' All you have to do is keep breathing. The rest will come in time.
rhett o rick
(55,981 posts)H2O Man
(73,506 posts)about your loss, Buddy. The death of a parent is very difficult.
I'm always here to talk, okay?
Your friend,
Pat
ClusterFreak
(3,112 posts)You have posted a lovely tribute which would have made your dad very proud.
I lost my mom last year and posted about it here. Folks here always find the time to stop by to offer kindness and support. Hope you find some comfort in that.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)ReRe
(10,597 posts)Deepest condolences to you and your family.
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)MFM008
(19,803 posts)rest in heavenly peace to your dad and mine.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)MadrasT
(7,237 posts)Bobbie Jo
(14,341 posts)Cha
(296,780 posts)That sounds like a wonderful memory of your father~
Rest in Peace sheshe's Dad
scarletwoman
(31,893 posts)Wishing you peace.
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)But the fact that you were able to sit with him and be with him before he passed is wonderful. I wish you all the comfort and solace in the world.
PoliticAverse
(26,366 posts)Nite Owl
(11,303 posts)rurallib
(62,373 posts)mountain grammy
(26,598 posts)Number23
(24,544 posts)And your memory that you shared with us is so precious.
mcar
(42,278 posts)Alzheimer's is such a devastating disease for loved ones. I am so glad you were able to spend that time with your Dad, she.
My condolences to you and yours.
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)TygrBright
(20,753 posts)shopgirl
(23 posts)Long, long time lurker, here. For some reason, your post spoke to me. My dad was not perfect either. But I lost him 8 years ago and still miss him so. He was a great guy, and a democrat to boot! I wish you, peace, sheshe. It's not easy to lose a dad ...
virgdem
(2,124 posts)on the loss of your Dad. I just lost my Dad in March and the loss is still painful for me. May you find peace in the coming days and weeks as you deal with this loss.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)julio_maracas
(34 posts)Good daughter.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)msanthrope
(37,549 posts)applegrove
(118,462 posts)stage left
(2,960 posts)MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)forever
secondwind
(16,903 posts)flamingdem
(39,308 posts)and feel your words.
RKP5637
(67,084 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)JohnnyLib2
(11,211 posts)So many of us are in the Alzheimer's "family."
greatauntoftriplets
(175,728 posts)roguevalley
(40,656 posts)It matters. I remember holding my dad's hand and thinking I have done this for him hundreds of times. You will find that time is your only friend now. Take care and know you are loved.
DUgosh
(3,054 posts).
jimlup
(7,968 posts)it sounds like he had a good death. We can all wish for that...
My mom died suddenly 15 years ago. I think the mourning is probably easier if you have some time to prepare. I was shattered but then felt nothing for several months. Then all of a sudden it hit me like a brick wall. I guess I needed some time before I could even face it and actually mourn.
Again my condolences for your loss.
riqster
(13,986 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)LeftInTX
(25,106 posts)Thanks for sharing the memory of you and your dad in his truck cab. Dads are cool that way...
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)i am so sorry for your loss, she
Rhiannon12866
(204,695 posts)I lost my Dad to cancer in 1990 - have been thinking about him even more than usual lately since it was in November - and not a day goes by that I don't miss him. And what a beautiful memory. I've also been thinking about my Dad recently since he'd take me in the voting booth with him and let me pull the levers. I may have voted for Nixon, LOL, but I cherish the memory. Thank you for your moving post. Your Dad would certainly be proud...
Iliyah
(25,111 posts)My hubby's grandfather died from Alz
prayers always
blue neen
(12,319 posts)Treasure that memory of your dad, sheshe, and any others that come along. The memories will help sustain you in the saddest of the days.
AtomicKitten
(46,585 posts)cal04
(41,505 posts)My thoughts are with you and your family.
Beautiful tribute to your dad
mnhtnbb
(31,373 posts)How lucky you were to have been his little girl and to see the whole wide world with him.
for you and for your dad
FourScore
(9,704 posts)sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)Lovely tribute to your father! May he RIP.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)Behind the Aegis
(53,919 posts)My great-grandmother had this disease, back in 88 when she passed, but it didn't really have a name. By the end, she didn't recognize anyone except my mother and me...kind of...she thought I was a younger version of my mother. I look an awful lot like my mom despite being male. When she didn't recognize my father, he cried. Until that point in my life, I had never seen that man cry, not even when he lost his own parents.
I am so sorry you and your family had to endure the pain of that disease.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Long story,he lived in upper state NY.
We took him back from his wife who had divorced him, yet still they lived together, she had the money and did not want to care for him financially. One day he fell. She took him to the ER and walked away saying that he was their problem. She dumped my father. I would say a nasty word here, yet that is one I don't say. We went to NY, my sister and I, to pick him up and bring him home.
Ya, they don't recognize you. My dad kept thinking I was his sister.
For all of us BTA, it is a hard disease, it hurts us all
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)sheshe2
(83,637 posts)joshcryer
(62,265 posts)C Moon
(12,208 posts)I've never cried so much.
Hekate
(90,538 posts)Even when Death comes as a friend at the end of a long life, those of us who are left behind miss our dear ones so much, and realize that a link in the chain to our past has been broken. Now we ourselves are the link.....
Be well, and remember the good times.
Violet_Crumble
(35,955 posts)My mum's recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and even in the early stages I hate what it's doing to her. My thoughts go out to you and yr family.
I know you don't like my sort of music much, but this one just seems right...
Are_grits_groceries
(17,111 posts)I wish there was more I could do.
Sigh......
davidpdx
(22,000 posts)Losing a parent is so hard and nothing can prepare you for it. Alzheimer's disease is terrible and I can't imagine having to go through years of watching a parent go through that. It must really be hard to do.
All I can say is remember the good times you had with him and try not to focus too much on the bad. I think he certainly would want that for you.
I lost my dad 11 1/2 years ago and I guess in a way he was lucky because he went quick. There are always the very smallest things that I see or do in life that remind me of him.
azurnoir
(45,850 posts)hold on to your best memories of the man he was
Live and Learn
(12,769 posts)no matter their or our age. It is something most of us have to deal with at some time in our lives but we can never be prepared for it. Hugs to you and yours on the loss of someone so near (whether dear all the time or not).
Maraya1969
(22,459 posts)seaglass
(8,171 posts)Major Hogwash
(17,656 posts)Words fail me now in my effort to give you comfort at this time.
But, know this, as time passes, you will feel a little better about things.
Remember the good times you had with your father, and forget the rest.
Yes, I am certain that he loved you, as you loved him.
I have no doubt about that, at all.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)heaven05
(18,124 posts)may his rest be in peace.....
badtoworse
(5,957 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,436 posts)onecaliberal
(32,776 posts)For your loss sheshe. I hope those sweet memories carry you through tough times.
LuvNewcastle
(16,834 posts)My condolences to you and your family and friends of the family.
Phentex
(16,330 posts)lovely tribute. Hugs to you.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I wish I could express my sympathies as well as the many heartfelt responses here...they're like a circle of friends gathering around you, reaching out offering our hands to hold onto.....
When my Dad left, it was a long, crazy, tragic story leading up to it.....that's not the point right here, but what I DO want you to know is that there were inexplicable occurrences around the time he passed that shone with a powerful light of meaning. ...spirit, CONNECTION from the heart, made tangible........... clear messages from him, from the REAL him, the Dad he was at the core beneath those many murky layers. And so, I knew it was best to let go of the tragedies. I knew that he knew the what was in our hearts, I knew that there was much more at work than the events at the surface.
You may very well have your own experiences, those 4 hours are one, for example.
CountAllVotes
(20,866 posts)I know how you feel. My Dad was born in 1922 as well and passed away almost 20 years ago now. I miss him so very much and I wish he was still here.
I don't know what else to say except I am sad for you.
Warpy
(111,124 posts)I was lucky in that he was sharp as a tack until the day before he died. It was unlucky because there was no sense of release the way there had been when my mother died. Her final illness took over three years to kill her. His was quick.
It gets better. You get used to the empty spot where your dad used to be. The good memories eventually crowd out the bad one. The waves of sadness get less immobilizing.
Granny M
(1,395 posts)It's so hard to lose our Daddies. I am so glad you have that wonderful memory of traveling with your Dad in the truck. I hope that many more come to mind over the months and years ahead. Peace to you and your family.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)Hugs and encouragement.
Julie
jonno99
(2,620 posts)I was talking last night with my wife about one of my earliest memories: coming home on my bike to see my dad rushing out of the house looking very upset - I'd never seen him like that before. I didn't say anything - I was a confused and worried. As he rushed by me to get to the car he sobbed to me, "my daddy is dying!". And then he left.
Years later I'm now in the place he was - such deep pain.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss. God bless...
kairos12
(12,841 posts)Stellar
(5,644 posts)Denis 11
(280 posts)I will pray for you and your family.
packman
(16,296 posts)from both the victim and those who love. As long as you remember, the dead never really leave us.
deathrind
(1,786 posts)Ilsa
(61,690 posts)My condolences on your loss.
WillyT
(72,631 posts)Peace...
eridani
(51,907 posts)MannyGoldstein
(34,589 posts)Peace to you, to your loved ones, and to all who loved your father.
democrank
(11,085 posts)~PEACE~
markpkessinger
(8,392 posts)My favorite aunt is in the late stages of this disease, and yes, is so cruel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)My thoughts are with your aunt and you and yours~
great white snark
(2,646 posts)He must have been a great man considering how you turned out.
My thoughts are with you and your family sheshe2. My deepest condolences.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)Thank you so much, great white snark.
~It's so good to see you again.
westerebus
(2,976 posts)LoisB
(7,174 posts)renate
(13,776 posts)I am so sorry for your loss.
What a wonderful memory... thank you for sharing it!
Laffy Kat
(16,366 posts)William769
(55,142 posts)He is in a better place now and not in any pain (I know that doesn't do much for us here but you get my meaning)
May your father rest in peace.
If there is anything and I do mean anything I can do for you, all you have to do is say so.
May you draw your strength of your friends because there is plenty of it here for you my dear sweet sheshe.
sheshe2
(83,637 posts)I will be forever grateful for my sisters instincts, knowing it was the end. I am so happy that I had that time with him to say goodbye.
Thank you for your kind words and for being my friend.
Rex
(65,616 posts)All that wisdom from 92 years, your dad lived through some of the most important history in modern times. I can't even think about losing my parents without getting upset. Beautiful poem.